blah(G): 3.2.09 - Gaysian

[anyaichimei]

You're amazing.

Simply put.

[GoodyGian]

@anyaichimei Likewise - muah!

[anyaichimei]

@GoodyGian A kiss for me? how sweet :)

[nextowicked]

it's so nice to know that there are other people out there who can see the difference between who and what you are. I've never actually met you, but you've definitely gained the respect of some guy you'll probably never speak to on the internet (Me) (:

[razor191919]

YES!!! YES GOD YES!! DX!!!!

I Hate how some people who are gay ONLY wanna talk about that.. I hate it.. >: < It's just a part of who are you, NOT all of you. DX DAMN PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS! Gay is not everything, just part of it.

[thescrybe]

I agree sexuality is only a single trait out of what should be many. I think it's sad that some people feel that their sexuality is their most defining characteristic.I personally don't want to be defined period. To be defined is to be limited. Nor do I want to define my self solely by who I sleep with or my job or where I live, race, creed, culture...

[GoodyGian]

@thescrybe Yes! Sexuality is only one aspect of our INfinite nature. :-)

[jdcinsf]

humans are complex

[jdcinsf]

i love this message

[bvlgary09]

You should tell your friend that there are no rules to being gay. Not all gay guys wear heels or wear pink. That's so 1982 stereotype. People, it's 2010 get over it. Gays are as diverse as America.

[PrinceDawsonSachi]

ur right

[hanzenrico]

MABUHAY KA GIAN... Proud to be PINOY... *wink

[KidWithCats]

gaysian-best word ever.

[minhman13]

Umm it is your channel. You do what you want. He's crazy.

[7santarosa7]

Hey Doll

let them haters

talk all they want!!!!

you dont have to

talk about qays in

every vid!!!!:)

keep up dee qood work!!;)

[nhathman]

public blasting is no bueno... but just because you're gay you don't have to talk about it all day everyday and make it a part of your every waking moment LOL... you make a lot of sense gian... too much pride, I feel, brings the wrong type of attention to yourself. Our diversity is what makes us each unique. Not one trait. well said babes =]

[Ghost77Riders]

Stuck to your guns..hahaha

[gogoyoru]

Great message. Completely agree!

[holyandannointed]

look at you looking scrumptious, but I agree with what you are saying, and that makes me upset when people do that.

why focus on that one thing when there is so much more about you. There are several things that make you you and that one thing only contributes to it.

much love

James P.

[gilfoth]

LOL NO WAY URE GAYO.O lol sorry u dont look gay and u look korean....but nice videos lol addicting to watch u should do comedy!^.^

[actcrzed]

AMEN Brother!!!!!!

[HONEYxBEB]

i like the new attire...lol & screw em.. be who you are loud or not

[RemohJS]

How can anyone accuse you of downplaying homosexuality when you wear scarves with no shirt! lol

Of course, I'm just playing. Nice vid.

[nicolemoore21]

Hi Gian! Thank you for show'n some love and putting my video in your favorites, thats awesome. :) I really enjoyed this video. It is so refreshing to see a young man enjoy his whole-self as opposed to letting one part define him. Most older men don't have that advantage. I agree with you 100% and my heart goes out to your friend. I really hope he'll come to a place of healing and move past "being gay only"-lol living in NYC, I know exactly what you mean. All the best hun:)

[icey0607]

You're so cute! As if I haven't told you that a dozen times before. Take care!

[Couver87]

fuck him! Do what you want. :) its good to see some fellow subscribers makin videos. Mwah

[Jmusec]

lol @ "it sucks because I'm sort of ambiguously Asian"

I completely agree with everything you said

[HikerEd]

Yeah I agree, you are an intelligent, articulate cool guy that just happens to be gay. There is so much more to you than just being gay.

[GoodyGian]

lol - oh Jason...

[GoodyGian]

Aww, thanks Nat. Exactly.

[COOLIKEDATAZIAN]

hmmmmm why you looking yummy right now? LOL! I don't think it is a requirement to speak about being gay if you are gay. It is only your choice whether or not you are open about it or not.

[gijoe21]

i agree with you your so right!!!! people ask me all the time what asian am i too i know how that is (im half Koran)!!!! yeah everyone should be them self

and by the way why you didnt have shirt off your......your.... lol

hot lol see you around

[GoodyGian]

Haha, thanks Joe.

I hope everything's getting better for you. I know you had a rocky start this year.

[Ryuchan22]

i totally agree with u!. dude I HATE when ppl try 2 define themselves by their sexuality. There's way more 2 a person besides their sexual orientation. Dude, do i even talk about being gay in my vids?

wat kind of asian are u? like ur a platter or sumthin? thats so rude! (p.s. i'm filipino 2!) luv the scarf and nakedness tho lol jk

[GoodyGian]

Haha, I don't really wear scarves (especially like that). I thought I'd channel lovebscott a bit for the sake of the video.

Where do you live, by the way?

[Ryuchan22]

I live in Detroit. But I plan 2 move to California

[xypowerpop]

tell that mofo Collin to mind his business, because your channel is your channel.

maybe HE thinks his sexuality is the only mildly interesting aspect of himself, but it sure isn't the same for you.

[GoodyGian]

lol - thanks.

We're not really talking right now, but I hope he can understand my position.

[katching]

you are you who are and you are cute :)

[GoodyGian]

Aww thanks.

I was wondering, how long have you been a nurse?

[katching]

Im a student (lvn) graduating this april and starting rn school fall 2010 :)

[JCWATL]

EXACTLY WHO ARE YOU NOT WHAT ARE YOU

[JCWATL]

LOL Don't put your finger(s) on me! Don't molest me w/ your labels!

I AM ME YES WE CAN

[GoodyGian]

LMAO! Exactly.

[JCWATL]

Gian, I so feel you 100%. Don't define yourself and Limit yourself! :O

[filteany]

You are who you are Gian and dont let anyone put you down- don't let yourself be molded by the jello mentality

=)

[GoodyGian]

Thanks, Ate Hazel. Have you kept in touch with Nico and Justin?

[RantingWithB]

I don't talk about all gay stuff either. I talk about it when it's necessary.

It's not all me.

People need to stop pigeonholing people in category. It's so stupid. It's makes them ignorant.

[GoodyGian]

Word.

[choro1981]

Gian you make great videos and don't let anybody change that,be yourself we love you and your smile is a KILLER so don't worry about anybody else. Peace

[Petrades]

You tell, boy! I'm so glad to hear you say that you're not going to let labels define you!

[eugeneonegin09]

you are not a failed ytuber. sexy yes,but not failed

[haveufoundurid]

Hahaha! You flipped the scarf.

And I don't think I've ever seen so many tags before. Obsesse much? Lol!

[GoodyGian]

Yeah, I got tired of making tags, so I now have a present copy&paste list of tags as a sticky on my desktop.

lol - I promise, I don't wear scarves like that.

[haveufoundurid]

Yay for desktop stickies :-))

Hey - I don't judge. Haha!

I know that my response time sucks, but I've not been on youtube.

Have a blessed day.

[nir1971]

hello; mommy is here :)... dont listen anyone... talk what you want to talk about... this is your channel...xx

[GoodyGian]

Yay, Mommy's back! How have you been?

[tymurren5]

I love this video..it's my first time watching one of ur videos but it ont b the last..i soo feel you on not haveing the need to be the"gay voice" on youtube.ur throw it at ppl every video you make..I understand.

[GoodyGian]

Aww, thanks Ty.

[Dancing4Forever]

4th comment lol you should have told them "Wopanese" hell that's what I do lol.

[GoodyGian]

LMAO, Erica! You are too much.

[Dancing4Forever]

lol I kill myself sometimes! lol haha!

[Dancing4Forever]

Some people forget that sexual orientation or race DOES NOT define a person. Many fail to forget that.

[Dancing4Forever]

Gian, you talk about what YOU want to talk about, you don't have to necessarily talk about a specific community everytime you do a video, it gets boring after a while.

[Dancing4Forever]

Omg you are too much lol Gian don't even listen to them lol

[espermatazoide]

3.2.08?

2009 No?

[GoodyGian]

lol - clearly I'm stuck in 08.

[eviljuan]

"the hero of gays"

LOL!

that seems like a lot of pressure anyway. cute scarf tho!

[GoodyGian]

lol - thanks.

[sfcalvinaz]

Damn! If anyone really knows you they know you are Gay-Gay-Gay-Gay!! LMAO Man, it's your channel! Do what you feel! That's like left handed people making every vid about being left hand! I feel ya on this. That's why I love ya!

LMAO "I am not the Hero of Gays!"

You go Gian! LMAO

Hugz! C a l v i n

[GoodyGian]

Haha, thanks Cal.

<3

[mybigbearron]

Hi Gian! I'm Ron! I agree with you, except for the "I'm sorry" part. Although, I understand you, my thought is that you need not "be sorry," for you owe no apologies for doing your own thing your own way. You're cool.

[GoodyGian]

Aw, thanks Ron.