I wouldn't even think of it. As you said, you are together, but that doesn't mean that you need to share everything. If it's important, your partner will share it with you.
And if they do not, then they will have a good reason and you just have to trust them.
If you really trust someone, why would you feel the need to look at their e-mails? To me, it's like peeking into someone's journal or diary. Unless you have proof of possible cheating, feeling the need is being way too insecure.
No I would never let any of my girlfriends check my emails, even if they asked. At the same time I'd never check their emails, as soon as you start having suspicions of your partner cheating then the relationship is already over. I don't have anything to hide it's just a matter of principle. Then again I've never been married before, maybe it's different then.
i completely agree, in order to trust each other, you have to both accept that you have your own lives and space as well as the life you have together... my views!! great vlog x
No, I do not check private stuff. I assume, if she were going to do something detrimental to us, she would be telegraphing signals, way before she actually did anythiing.
Nope, I would never check his emails despite him giving me all his passwords. It feels like a total intrusion of privacy to go and do that - just because we're together doesn't automatically give me the right to know every tiny detail of what he does. I trust him, he trusts me and that's all that's needed.
A friend was suspicious about his wife seeing someone, so I told him how to tap and record his phone line. He heard some guy ask his wife why she even continued to talk to that guy. It turned out, "that guy" was one of two other boyfriends she was seeing. Trust isn't something you give, it has to be earned.
Everyone seems to think this is an issue of trust, but if you truly trust them and have nothing to hide then why not read their emails? Or rather, let your partner read yours, too.
@thezone1000 because if you trusted them that thought wouldnt even cross your mind...however many times a person says "ive got nothing to hide so i'll check my partners emails" its never like that...its always the paranoid people who dont trust their partner that check.
i LOVE this vid. my fiance emptied out my handbag last week n didnt understand y i didnt agree with him doin it, at the same time i have nothing to hide n like u i hav nothin i would keep from him same him with me but we do need a bit of our own space. gr8 video kris. n happy birthday 2 jake on sunday x
Nope~ not unless they where like "HEY SEE IF I GOT THAT EMAIL YET!" XD i trust my gal!
RipJawWolfFang 3 months ago
@mrbuchanantoyou I don't know but you're not making your 1 minute daily videos for September any more :(
ChkOnYT 5 months ago
@ChkOnYT I missed two days and kinda gave up lol, i had a fair bit on over the two days and forgot all about SSS till the monday oops bahaha
ima make something soon tho :)
mrbuchanantoyou 5 months ago
@mrbuchanantoyou How soon is soon?
ChkOnYT 5 months ago
Chris - come back - we miss you
ChkOnYT 5 months ago
@ChkOnYT Wer'd i go? :p
mrbuchanantoyou 5 months ago
I wouldn't, it's their private things.
ibetammy 6 months ago
I wouldn't even think of it. As you said, you are together, but that doesn't mean that you need to share everything. If it's important, your partner will share it with you.
And if they do not, then they will have a good reason and you just have to trust them.
yrpgullwings 6 months ago
If you aint got trust you shouldnt be together..
djdanny1959 6 months ago
If you really trust someone, why would you feel the need to look at their e-mails? To me, it's like peeking into someone's journal or diary. Unless you have proof of possible cheating, feeling the need is being way too insecure.
bigloner 6 months ago
No I would never let any of my girlfriends check my emails, even if they asked. At the same time I'd never check their emails, as soon as you start having suspicions of your partner cheating then the relationship is already over. I don't have anything to hide it's just a matter of principle. Then again I've never been married before, maybe it's different then.
ryanm100100 6 months ago
i completely agree, in order to trust each other, you have to both accept that you have your own lives and space as well as the life you have together... my views!! great vlog x
GORDONCAMPBELL 6 months ago
Hello,Kris.
No, I do not check private stuff. I assume, if she were going to do something detrimental to us, she would be telegraphing signals, way before she actually did anythiing.
Blargaldalien 6 months ago
single 4 life lolololoolol
JangoHarkness 6 months ago
Nope, I would never check his emails despite him giving me all his passwords. It feels like a total intrusion of privacy to go and do that - just because we're together doesn't automatically give me the right to know every tiny detail of what he does. I trust him, he trusts me and that's all that's needed.
IconifiedEpic 6 months ago
A friend was suspicious about his wife seeing someone, so I told him how to tap and record his phone line. He heard some guy ask his wife why she even continued to talk to that guy. It turned out, "that guy" was one of two other boyfriends she was seeing. Trust isn't something you give, it has to be earned.
pslgreg 6 months ago
Everyone seems to think this is an issue of trust, but if you truly trust them and have nothing to hide then why not read their emails? Or rather, let your partner read yours, too.
thezone1000 6 months ago
@thezone1000 because if you trusted them that thought wouldnt even cross your mind...however many times a person says "ive got nothing to hide so i'll check my partners emails" its never like that...its always the paranoid people who dont trust their partner that check.
LouiseFaiL 6 months ago
i LOVE this vid. my fiance emptied out my handbag last week n didnt understand y i didnt agree with him doin it, at the same time i have nothing to hide n like u i hav nothin i would keep from him same him with me but we do need a bit of our own space. gr8 video kris. n happy birthday 2 jake on sunday x
lizzi1308 6 months ago