Video #19 - 3 months post-op gastric bypass update!

[kelshaleanne]

Hey, we were told by our surgeon that heavy women have high levels of estrogen, and that when you have WLS, those levels start to dramatically drop. So, your body is basically going through the feelings of menopause. He perscribed us estrogen patches for mood swings. I know this is an old video. But wanted to throw this thought out there.

[tallsmartbeauty]

60 plus pounds lost in 3 months is amazing hon...keep your head up..it will come off..

[youwantgeek]

Thanks so much!

[abbchupp]

P.S. Did you notice that even your voice has changed... and your speech.. WOW!!! You look and sound terrriiiffffiiiccccc!!!!! I am so proud of you babe

[abbchupp]

About the depression... Most people experience it w/in the first 3 months... Just think you have had MAJOR changes moving, surgery, new lifestyle, and loss of body/food... Do not chalk it up to clinical depression until you cannot firmly point a finger to any stressors. Right now you have a TON of stressors including Birth control/hormone changes, Just wait it out.. YOU GOT THIS BABE!!! Go through the feelings completly, do not push it down, somehow I feel most of us got here doing just that!!

[babycakesjk]

Have you thought about meeting with a local surgeon? Maybe they would be more knowledgeable.

[youwantgeek]

You're completely right and I don't know why I didn't consider that before. I guess I thought a physician would be sufficient.

[zkittykitty08]

Wow I am already seeing the transformation from you ealrier videos....I am pre-op myself I go in on July 2nd..I was lucky enough to get my insurance to cover it....Congrats girl!!

[youwantgeek]

Congradulations! I'm so happy for you and it's great that you're getting it covered. Please keep us updated :)

[socalangela75]

I do slip a little in and out of depression. I was depressed before surgery...I don't think I have a reason to be either, but depression has no prejudice. It doesn't care who it infects. I recommend getting out, doing something directly for yourself, maybe take on a project. It get easier, seems like after surgery, it takes you brain time to catch up with what is happening, you know, the burial of all foods once enjoyed, and the feeling. Good Luck!

[youwantgeek]

That's really good advice Angela, thank you. The burial of all foods once enjoyed is still happening and I think it's subconsciously affecting me. Thanks so much for your support!

[livin2loungen]

Congrats so far,and great job...you look great and happy...keep up the good work,I wish you the best take care.....Daniel

[youwantgeek]

Thanks a bunch!

[OoSadCareBearoO]

you look so purrty in purple!!! only 3 months and down over 60 lbs wow! good job geekette!

[youwantgeek]

Thanks!!!  I hope you're doing well!

[jojo0905]

You are looking so good. I think some people said they have anxiety after the surgery, but I am not sure about depression. Good luck and keep up the good work :)

[youwantgeek]

Thanks for the support! Yeah, I've heard anxiety is pretty common, too. I guess we'll find out about depression. Hope you have a good weekend :)

[mark45acp]

you are doing awesome jamie!! don't worry about the stall...you'll hit your goal when your body is ready. I love your videos! you're just so cute =)

[youwantgeek]

Thank you! That's really good to hear about the stall--I hope my body gets ready soon! Aw, thanks, that's sweet :)

[blkericia]

wow you look so good

[youwantgeek]

Thank you!

[allisonpacino]

Congrats on your weight loss! I'm in a stall right now too...We'll get through it :)

[youwantgeek]

Thanks! Yes we will! :)

[BeTheBestMe]

Congratulations! You look great - don't sweat the stall, it will pass. You are smart to have the folder with you! I look forward to watching the new videos.

[youwantgeek]

Thanks!  Yeah, the folder is a little ridiculous but I'm pretty un-organized so that's how I keep stuff straight :) Thanks for your support!

[FeaLisa]

You look great! = )

[youwantgeek]

Thanks! I hope things are going well with you!

[karikatk]

Hey You look freaken awesome..such a pretty girl you are! And can I just say im jelous ... I weigh 300lbs and my face shape isnt nearly as perfect as your! I have this crazy double chin going..anywho enough about me ..like I was sayin u look freaken fabulous! no need to feel blue.

[youwantgeek]

Aw thank you! My face has gotten much thinner since surgery. I'm sure your face is beautiful, double chin or not! Hope you're doing well :)

[Opendoors08]

Hey girl! You are doing awesome!! WOO HOO..You look great! :)Amyxo

[youwantgeek]

Thanks Amy! You are too! Can't wait for more updates :)

[mermiesmom]

Great Job! 61 pounds is awesome! Congrats, Judy

[youwantgeek]

Thanks for the support Judy!

[EllieGant2008]

You look so pretty!

[youwantgeek]

Thanks :)

[LiveTrue21]

You look amazing! I am so happy and proud for you!..I dealt with a lot of anxiety before the surgery and at times I thought I was depressed..It is hard but I kinda just aloud myself to feel..whatever it was happy or sad..just take some time for yourself and center your thoughts think positive and breath! Do things that make you happy. I am here for you if you ever need to talk..I am sending goodvibes your way! xxoo Cora

[youwantgeek]

Wow, that's really good advice. Thanks Cora. It's hard to just let go and feel whatever you're feeling. I've been trying the "think positive" thing for the last few days and I think it's working! Thanks a bunch...can't wait to see more videos from you :)

[laelle06]

wow,you are looking great. Very proud of you.

I dont know about the depression, havent had my surgery yet, but I do know you have been through alot of emotional and physical changes and I would imagine some depression is normal. As the other poster said,, check the doctor, I am sure he or she can help you.

again, good going

[youwantgeek]

Thank you!  Yeah, I guess with all the physical changes you go through with surgery there's bound to be some emotional recourse. I hope your son is well! (and did you hear about your psych eval?)

[need2dosomething]

You look great! WTG on joining the gym! Can't wait to see more of your videos.

[youwantgeek]

Thanks! Hope you're still doing well :)

[shrinkinglaura]

You look really great :) Don't worry about the stall (plateaus last for a couple of months usually)!!! They happen often :P Usually right around when you're supposed to get your period.. so your body retains water and after the stall ends, you drop quite a few pounds REALLY quickly

[youwantgeek]

Thanks Laura :) Stalls are lame! But I guess it's all worth it as long as I lose in the end...hope you're doing well!

[ShrinkinPhotographer]

You look great. You are doing fabulous. Congrats on the gym. I have to get back to mine as well. The depression thing. NORMAL totally normal. Talk to your doctor about it today. But don't feel alone I would bet 90% of WLS go thru depression at one point or another. So Talk to your doctor. Hang in there. And keep up the FANTASTIC work!! ~Nicol

[youwantgeek]

Thank you! Ugh, good--I was a little worried I was going nuts! Thanks for your support!

[MissJanieHere]

You look great and you are doing great!

[youwantgeek]

Thanks Janie! You are too!

[kidneedonor]

Can't wait for your next video!

[youwantgeek]

Thanks for watching! :)

[sixxmoongirl]

girl you look awesome!!!! really mean it! congrats and keep it on!!! i have my las pre-op ap. with my surgeon in 2 weeks and he will set the date of the surgery, i´m really excited i wanna look awesome like you!!! xoxox :D

[youwantgeek]

Congrats!!!! I'm so excited for you! Please let me know how things go and let me know when you get your surgery scheduled! (that's awesome) Thanks so much for your support :)