Feeling ugly?

[melanie312001]

I like your aura. I enjoy watching you talking with all that facial expressions.. smile

[TheDivadoll18]

I've always felt like i was ugly.But people awlways say im cute, but i always thought that there where liying to me.At my old school the word pplz call me every day was ugly i would cry pplz make fun of me every day i was always sad. but,ever since i when to my new school i feel pretty about my self but not fully,thing video help me belivie im am pretty :D

[ujaycoolio]

our faces cant change; our perception and outlook on life can :) thank you for the video.

[kaygurl759]

I am almost close to tears right now,

What I got from this video is more than I was looking for.(';

I'm a 16 year old girl, iv'e always hated my nose, my eye shape, etc., i never feel good about myself... but slowly I am realizing how beautiful I really am, and how good I can feel about myself. I realized people arn't always going to like you (or the way you look) But the people that love you will accept you for who you are, and you should never change who you are. im free.<3

[makeupjunkie512]

I'm struggling with my image and want to like what I see. It's been a battle, but I'm trying very hard.

[USGirl22]

So right on time that I found this video at the perfect time that I need it. I've been struggling with self-loathing my whole life. But recently, during a seasonal fast, the self-hatred became so intense that I went on an hours long eating binge to take the edge off my misery. What triggered it was me feeling ugly and unattractive. I'm so filled with hope right now that maybe I can finally learn to love myself & let others love me back. :)

[StubHorn]

Wow

[rockinpoison89]

good  video

[britnii13]

U should :)

[britnii13]

u look like kesha.

[LivDelicious]

@britnii13 - Really? Nobody ever said that. Well, thanks, I'll take it as a compliment:-)

[MeascEntertainment]

@LivDelicious Trust me, it is a compliment. You're yummy! =o)

[LivDelicious]

@MeascEntertainment - you are so funny! Thank you then:-)

[ChuckDanes]

Isn't it awesome Helena Summer Medina how we can choose to do our make-up in such a way that we get reminded about who and what we "truly" are.?And I do mean that figuratively and literally...When we're reminded we get re-minded. I love your videos beautiful lady. They show your beauty inside and out. You're an awesome gift that the world needs to see and hear more of. Be well Miss Delicious Helena. Big Hug from my heart to yours from your friend in the Heartland. :)

[LOfitness]

I love this video!:-)

[LivDelicious]

@LOfitness - yes, me too! There is always another level for all of us. Level up. Delicious one!!!

[iluvyouwyatt]

I remember watching this video months ago and wanting so badly to change the way I see myself. I guess I just needed a reminder :). When you said that your journey was 3 to 6 months it made me feel better because at least I know that it is going to take a while for me to feel better about myself.

[LivDelicious]

@iluvyouwyatt - yes my dear, it is possible and guess what? 3 months flays by so fast... even 3 years. Just keep tapping, do something and every time you say something bad about yourself, quickly ad something supportive and beautiful. Something Delicious!

[holehguacamoleh]

come on! you are PRETTY in the vido and even more BEAUTIFUL for sharing this video:)

[LivDelicious]

@holehguacamoleh - Thank you dear. I "know" now. All I can say is - mind is a wild, wild thing, it makes us believe all kinds of ugly things

[EmperorChink]

I feel so ugly. I can't even go outside.. But thank you. I really need MAKE UP. MAKE UP my mind. ;) Thank you

[LivDelicious]

@EmperorChink - yes. It takes persistence, but hey, it works!

[notevenhere]

Great video!. I get it.

[LivDelicious]

@notevenhere :-)

[herbal1971]

This is such a great video. Thank you.

[LivDelicious]

@herbal1971 - I appreciate your comment Herbal1971

[555Lobster]

This is great! It puts things into perspective.

[clonesith]

I am Asian and I am a guy, my skin is brown/light brown. Living in a western country, I see everyone as cleaner/lighter skinned than me, and I feel left out, and feel ugly, being darker skinned and thinking that I am ugly. I have no confidence at all. But, your video has made me reconsider myself. I have to practice to put on some 'make up,' though...I hope I can make it and get emotional freedom. By the way, you are beautiful in both old video and this one.

[LivDelicious]

@clonesith - Yes, please, make up your mind, keep your mind cleaner/lighter and then you will see that your skin is chocolate and your heart is sweet.

When you make that transformation, you will help so many other people who feel just like you.

[notevenhere]

@clonesith Lots of women love dark skin. Have you not heard the term "tall, dark and handsome"? Especially very white skinned people that cannot tan, they crave that dark color, it's exotic and beautiful. I can't help but think it's all in your mind - that people don't like your color. Or maybe you are hanging out with very narrow minded folks. Get out there and meet cool people.

[AthenaMarina2]

@clonesith

My husband and his family can be a bit like you but it sounds so strange to me as

I have always wanted to be tanned! (darker) and I don't tan well! I bet you are REALLY handsome. I am happily married to a brown skin guy and some of us women prefer guys like that!

[calmguy1]

you looks ok in old video..seems like bad quality camera....

and all european accent sounds wonderfull to me....it sounds fresh when we hear same old english and american accent again and again on every channel..

i wish eft solves my problem..but dont think so..i really look ugly...no thought problem.

[LivDelicious]

@calmguy1 Thank you for the compliment. And I would like to ad something - yes we might really look "ugly" by the standards of the world. Sometimes we can do something about it (keep clean, find fitting hair/makeup/color style), however, the way we FEEL is what we project. Attractiveness is from inside and thanks God we can do few things for that as well.

How do you know you are ugly? What is the proof?

[Asxhmoula]

Ugly is a state of mind. Great vid. XX

[LivDelicious]

@Asxhmoula - yes, it is. Thank you

[SparklyMe2009]

I had this problem too Helena. I had body dysmorphic disorder for many sad years. I wish i had know about EFT when it was first started. As i had several EFT sessions with an practitioner 8 months ago for this disorder and... i am now finally at peace with how i look.

We are all beautiful it is just that our eyes don't always see it...and our minds have been written all over with other's beliefs. Best wishes on your road to freedom. Julie.

[LivDelicious]

@SparklyMe2009 - Thank you Julie. Isnt it interesting how many troubles we go through unnecessary. Self made trouble.

Imagine if all the flies and rats and bats and "the worlds ugliest dogs" would have same self image and hide from the world? They respect themselves more or are we humans just too obsessed?

[katuray33]

ohhhhhhh i feel the same way ...but youre not ugly ...unhealthy look i think or tired look makes us ugly...and the stresses...

[LivDelicious]

Yes... unhealthy look and unhealthy thinking... Let it go my dear katuray33, its about the time.... isn't it?

[LifeByMuse]

Wow Helena, this really hit home my beautiful sister friend :) For the past two or three days I've been bombarded with negative self-talk about myself physically ... and I'm like running around with this shield to protect myself from it. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ... I'm so happy to have found you. I've missed you! Your phone message last year really made me smile.

xoxo,

Col

[LivDelicious]

@LifeByMuse

Thank you Col, isn't it funny how we forget to love ourselves for years... then we regret...

It touched my heart to know that you still remember the message I left on your phone LAST year. How sweet of you to share that... Thank you

[alkistisTV]

FANTASTIC ELENA ! Isn't it amazing how we sabotage ourself ? I love the "Make UP!!" idea...

Congratulations !

[LivDelicious]

Thank you my dear Alkistis, you are right, we tell ourselves all kinds of lies instead of putting on some Make up:-)

[denalidragonfly]

I totally understand that from inside. I was taller than the "cute" girls. I felt awkward, different, "less than" and I never felt like I fit in anywhere. In my 40s I saw a HS yearbook group picture. My height stood out, but also a classic beauty I had never seen. In my 50s I saw a mirror reflection across a room of a woman whose radiant beauty struck me, when suddenly I realized it was ME! If we could only see ourselves as others do. Thanks for your honesty. G:-)

[mitotebreakthrough]

Helena, thank you. This video came at the perfect time for me. I knew it when you began talking and I cried. Bless you.

[LivDelicious]

Thank you Mitotebreaktrough.... I understand your tears... I have never cried more in my life then during the process of healing this pain... (and believe me, I grew up in war, lost best friend to it, had so many misfortunes...) ... yet, this one was deepest, because it was SELF-IDENTITY... My own belief was so ugly... Please do the work and heal your pain... that is the only way to heal the world. ... and the only way to Liv Delicious

[yaboobarb]

Oh Helena, Everything about you is beautiful! When I first heard you with Rick, I knew it. :)

Thank goodness you sorted this out.

Great video! I love your work.

Barbara

[millionanderson]

You do unbelievable work, Helena!

[HarveyEspatchelowe]

I have a BFA, so I am qualified in aesthetics, and I'm a mystic with heart vision (not flawless heart vision), so you can take my word, as an expert, when I say you are beautiful. I'm an expert.

[LivDelicious]

:-)

Thank you Harvey, I know I am beautiful. However, I felt ugly back then. Read the post of my blog to see how I used tapping EFT to transform that.