Hi, I'm a young female involved with another female.. we have been together for 6 months. I love her so much she's an amzing person and intelligent. Works hard and has a great personality.Well that All changes when she drinks. I'm so unhappy it's killing me to see her like that... she cuts herself and makes me wakes me watch while she does it, she blames everything on me. Her drinkingand her self harm... And when i try and stop her she hits me and gets aggressive. She treats her family the sam
Thank you Marty for sensitively sharing...its difficult, and you made the first step.. I'm a fag like you and I have a drunk BF. He's a social fellow, I am shy. There is an organization called Al Anon to help the family and friends of alcoholics cope. Interestingly, their saying is, "I am powerless over alcohol". Because we are all powerless over the alcoholic's actions in our lives.
im freaking 12 and im mother effing fed up!!! i have to live with my mom whos an achoholic and shes drunk by 10:00 am EVERY DAY!!! ugh anyone please help...
@Seanyboy1all I know the feeling. I have no great advice except try to live your life and not let your moms mood and drinking swings make YOU go up and down like a roller coaster. Basically in my experience it does not work to nag your mom or bring up her being a pisshead all the time. Maybe bring it up dramatically once a year and then its up to her. Just don't let her drag you down with her.
Hello ,Brooklyn n.y. your video is really good I am in the same situation as you. You need to leave him and the dog to save yourself.
You still have another chance your still young Pray and turn ask God for help! but leave a.s. a .p He will really scar you emotionally. You are depressed. email me if you like. You are helping others who feel laone. Please fix the volume its to low.
Leave him. His alcoholism is a deal-breaker and he needs to learn this.
Slowly open fresh bank accounts and seperate yourself financially.
Live is too short and you only get one. There is no dude with a big-beard at the end waiting to pat you on the head for your suffering. There is nothing else. Go on an adventure of a lifetime. You need it.
I grew up with an alcoholic parent, it really affected me, going home after school was a nightmare because I never knew what I was gonna walk in to, I'm 33 now and if there's one thing I learned about my experience is this; don't drink in front of your kids, if you're gonna get drunk with your friends, do it, but don't let your children see you drunk, kids need strong parents and when they see you drunk, they see your weakness.
I'm sorry. Your video made me sad. I'm not an alcoholic, but my partner is. I did a google search to find any video on "living with an alcoholic" and came across your video. I don't mean this in any sort of critical way, since I do sympathize, but I don't don't think you're nearly the victim that you seem to be. You can leave and you do have choices. Just give yourself permission to make them.
ok, I figured it all out, I'm an alcoholic, but if I take one drink every 40 minutes, and one drink is out of your system in 80 minutes, that means every 80 minutes I only feel the effects of one drink, YAHH I can drink all day now, I sleep 8 hours so if I'm awake 16 hours then by the time I'm about to go to bed I will only have 12 drinks, I can gradually get drunker and drink all day YAAH
you need support 4 yourself.your friends and family love YOU,give yourself a break from him to gather your self youre probably depressed he is too violent to be around ,get your GP to helpYOU.dont take responsibility for his behaviours,work on building your self esteem.keep yourself safe,he has attacked you already.he chooses to drink.he has to live with the consequenses,you are not his protector/fixer.love yourself.your life is your own.take care .
WAKE THE FUCK UP MAN. YOU NEED TO GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THIS GUY. MOVE TO ANOTHER PART OF THE COUNTRY AND START A NEW LIFE. IT'S FOR THE BEST TRUST ME. YOU DON'T WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR 30's LIVING WITH THIS DUMBASS. HE SOUNDS LIKE A FUCKING RETARD WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU SEE IN HIM. STOP HANGING ON. LET GO AND LIVE. THIS GUY IS A BOAT ANCHOR. SET YOURSELF FREE.
Hi, I'm a young female involved with another female.. we have been together for 6 months. I love her so much she's an amzing person and intelligent. Works hard and has a great personality.Well that All changes when she drinks. I'm so unhappy it's killing me to see her like that... she cuts herself and makes me wakes me watch while she does it, she blames everything on me. Her drinkingand her self harm... And when i try and stop her she hits me and gets aggressive. She treats her family the sam
likhakhalomzi 2 weeks ago
nope your not speaking in to the receiver.
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Can't hear a thing.
Cccuba 1 month ago
I totally understand. I happen to be "the James" Thanks for the vid. I'm trying to change evil ways. I wish you both the best. Xo
joeagainsttheworld 7 months ago
I understand your pain. living with a verbally abusive drunk is one of the hardest things anyone can do.
wildchld97 10 months ago
Thank you Marty for sensitively sharing...its difficult, and you made the first step.. I'm a fag like you and I have a drunk BF. He's a social fellow, I am shy. There is an organization called Al Anon to help the family and friends of alcoholics cope. Interestingly, their saying is, "I am powerless over alcohol". Because we are all powerless over the alcoholic's actions in our lives.
mikemotorbikeca 1 year ago
im freaking 12 and im mother effing fed up!!! i have to live with my mom whos an achoholic and shes drunk by 10:00 am EVERY DAY!!! ugh anyone please help...
Seanyboy1all 1 year ago
@Seanyboy1all I know the feeling. I have no great advice except try to live your life and not let your moms mood and drinking swings make YOU go up and down like a roller coaster. Basically in my experience it does not work to nag your mom or bring up her being a pisshead all the time. Maybe bring it up dramatically once a year and then its up to her. Just don't let her drag you down with her.
forestskog 1 year ago
Hello ,Brooklyn n.y. your video is really good I am in the same situation as you. You need to leave him and the dog to save yourself.
You still have another chance your still young Pray and turn ask God for help! but leave a.s. a .p He will really scar you emotionally. You are depressed. email me if you like. You are helping others who feel laone. Please fix the volume its to low.
happyiswhathappydoes 1 year ago
Leave him. His alcoholism is a deal-breaker and he needs to learn this.
Slowly open fresh bank accounts and seperate yourself financially.
Live is too short and you only get one. There is no dude with a big-beard at the end waiting to pat you on the head for your suffering. There is nothing else. Go on an adventure of a lifetime. You need it.
aphasia99 1 year ago
My husband is an alcoholic, they are just unbearable to live with most of the time. I feel your pain
Angelhaven95 1 year ago
I grew up with an alcoholic parent, it really affected me, going home after school was a nightmare because I never knew what I was gonna walk in to, I'm 33 now and if there's one thing I learned about my experience is this; don't drink in front of your kids, if you're gonna get drunk with your friends, do it, but don't let your children see you drunk, kids need strong parents and when they see you drunk, they see your weakness.
alexandreleverrier 1 year ago
Living with an alcoholic is a nightmare. Its extremely stressful and most people who havn't been in the situation don't understand.
dropkickdrop 1 year ago
e good if we could hear you
djearthstu 2 years ago
Hi, I'm in the same situation as yourself with my sister :-(
storm00chaser 2 years ago
I'm sorry. Your video made me sad. I'm not an alcoholic, but my partner is. I did a google search to find any video on "living with an alcoholic" and came across your video. I don't mean this in any sort of critical way, since I do sympathize, but I don't don't think you're nearly the victim that you seem to be. You can leave and you do have choices. Just give yourself permission to make them.
rb070454 2 years ago
Piedcow, I congratulate you for your bravery (and desperation) in posting your story!
Rest assured you are NOT alone, there are tens of thousands of people like you (and me) out there.
There is only one thing worse than being an alcoholic and thats LIVING WITH AN ALCOHOLIC!
If you suspect your 'partner-to-be' is an alcoholic, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
44Goldfish44 3 years ago 2
ok, I figured it all out, I'm an alcoholic, but if I take one drink every 40 minutes, and one drink is out of your system in 80 minutes, that means every 80 minutes I only feel the effects of one drink, YAHH I can drink all day now, I sleep 8 hours so if I'm awake 16 hours then by the time I'm about to go to bed I will only have 12 drinks, I can gradually get drunker and drink all day YAAH
Derek799 3 years ago
you need support 4 yourself.your friends and family love YOU,give yourself a break from him to gather your self youre probably depressed he is too violent to be around ,get your GP to helpYOU.dont take responsibility for his behaviours,work on building your self esteem.keep yourself safe,he has attacked you already.he chooses to drink.he has to live with the consequenses,you are not his protector/fixer.love yourself.your life is your own.take care .
valletta104 3 years ago
WAKE THE FUCK UP MAN. YOU NEED TO GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THIS GUY. MOVE TO ANOTHER PART OF THE COUNTRY AND START A NEW LIFE. IT'S FOR THE BEST TRUST ME. YOU DON'T WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR 30's LIVING WITH THIS DUMBASS. HE SOUNDS LIKE A FUCKING RETARD WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU SEE IN HIM. STOP HANGING ON. LET GO AND LIVE. THIS GUY IS A BOAT ANCHOR. SET YOURSELF FREE.
babyoven 4 years ago 2