White male wishing for external positive reinforcement/ gradification of black girlfriend of 23mnths...NEVER RECEIVED a SINGLE COMPLIMENT(sheThinksIhaveThisHUGE EGO&WANTS 2CHOPmDown2size)&has had me on an emotional rollercoaster & I've lost my sense of self,self confidence,& self worth; no matter how hard I try, I can't stop it from affecting me DETRIMENTALY IN EVERY FACIT OF MY LIFE..MONDAYzTheEND&I PRAY 2 WANT IT 4 ME AGAIN..THX 4 UR POST.
Same thing with us disabled girls....people are shallow. I'm 29 yrs old and the only boys I've had were just cold. Some guys don't care if I'm disabled when I'm skinny but if I gain like 19lbs. it's see ya.
You are definitely telling my life story. Misery sure does love company...and the men in your past (hell, and in mine) all need someone to keep them some damn company.
I love your vids and really admire how you give so much of yourself and personal experiences to uplift and inspire others. You are a compliment to black women and I'm proud of you.
Loved the realness! I can relate to everything that you said here but it definitely made a larger impact to hear it from someone else and to hear it out loud. As crazy as this sounds...part of the reason that I'm so hesitant to really do things to better myself and any real, major way...such as losing this weight that I really want to lose, is b/c I'm afraid of what the haters will have to say. I'm surrounded by people who 'love' you most when you look, think, and act just like they do...
Real Talk!! I'm a big girl, I started taking better care of myself a few years ago it's showing even though there is such a thing as body type and I know I'll always be a little plump, I can relate to everything you say! The self love, people changing... etc Good stuff!
this is the shit i think about and im still at my heaviest now : / i wonder if the emotinal change will be too much for me but i HAVE TO LOSE this weight...its gotten really bad .also you were still pretty back than but i like your vid and i like ur presence and being able to be honest without having to be a jerk about it. you seem cool
Everything that you said here was on POINT! lol Its everything that I think about when I get slimmer esp. dealing with motives behind dudes wanting to talk to me. Great Job!
thanks for the encouraging wisdom..... I know with God all things are possible n I can n others can shed the weight if we jus stay positive n focus.....n keeping mind that losing weight is for ourselves n not 4 no1 else... thanks Girly have a bless1...
Like other viewers have already said you are truly inspirational!!! You speak the truth and that is why it is good to hear. I'm on my own weightloss journey and even though i have lost quite a bit of weight and look better, i still know i can be better. This gain in self esteem is like getting to actually know myself. Just wanted to say thank you for letting me know i am not alone
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!I watch your videos everyday and I want you to know that they make me feel better and are a knock on my head when Im having a "crazy and negative thoughts" day!!!!
Damn girl, I'm a slim girl I never had weight problem nothing against big girls. But I workout everyday and everytime I watch your vids you give me the chills and my hair raise. Your choice of words are so deep and encouring. Keep the vids coming luv it!
Damn dat was deep, I myself am jus startin my weight lost and I do look for validation from this 1 individual, n when I don't get the feedback I want it weakens me, but these past months i've been feelin the whole ima do me mode, im glad I tuned in :)
The bible is clear man looks on the outside and God looks on the inside. This is why some people did not notice you when you were larger. Praise God you were not only change outside, but inside as well. Some people will not consider me because I am not tall and there is nothing I can do about it but be the best me I can be.
The bible is clear man looks on the outside and God looks on the inside. This is why some people did not notice you when you were larger. Praise God you were not able to change outside only, but inside as well.
So now I'm a new subscriber! I heard a lot of what you said many times from people trying to encourage me (like parents, other fam & friends) but it's something about when you hear it again from someone different or someone who has been where you are. It feels good to hear someone talk about what I'm in the process of going through. Just so much truth. This was a wake-up call for me, esp. from 3:30 to 6:14!!!!! God bless you!!!
haha i went trough the same ,and you know...when i was thin,it didnt satisfy me COMPLETELY either,i gained weight and now i am losing again. So funny we are chasing confidence and acceptance with weight loss...but is it really the right path?
Ive lost 85 pounds. I know what shoes you are walking in now. you have said that everything that I have felt recently. Good for you. you are beautiful no matter what size you are!
wow great video. i can relate to thiss video a lot..although i don't need to loose weight, there were alot of things that u stated in the video that i really needed to here..like the issues of friends and validation. thanks so much for spreading the knowledge. God will def bless you !
i just happened to come across this video & it seriously touched my heart. I've always been a big girl, and just a year or so ago started to lose weight. I went from 210 to 168, and still going. it's amazing how evil some ppl in this world are....haha, i don't know what else to say...but thank you. :) i heard some words i really needed to hear.
Thank you so much. Every word is true. Since December 2010 I went from 180 to 140 and the reactions I get from coworkers is mindblowing. I thought I was imagining things but after watching your inspiring video I see peoples reaction to my changes are universal.....lol
Thank you. You really changed my perspective of myself now I don't look to please other people and don't cry when I het home about what other people said about me. You're really inspiring and a great role model. :) -3 ~Sara
great vid. I stop tryin to please people long ago. I've been just mew for over 30 yrs now. now I'll have to really get down to fixing this bod the way I really want it to be. Bad knees ans pain have put a big damper but I have made some changes and will be making more in the coming new year. I want 2011 all for myself. You really should do life coaching on the side if you had the time. Thanks for the sharing of your vids. Smooches Babydoll! :=))
Love this. For the first time EVER when thinking about weight loss i wasnt thinking about loosing weight to make my man happy. I wanted to do it for myself. I never thought i was worth something and now i am thinking I might be worth... stuff.
you really made me smile. i was realy skeptical when the video first started running. i was almost about to closclick that little X button. but boy am i glad i didn't. :D
You definitely inspired me. Thanks for this and your videos. They are awesome, for sure!!! Continue to have such an amazing spirit and glad someone recommended to subscribe to u!
dude i kno exactly what ur talking about iv lost like 65 pounds since last year and all these girls that would never giv me the time of day before are all like hey wahtsup its prty sad. anyways just want u to kno the way u command wehn u speak is pretty sexy
i just wanna say that this video is such a motivator for me. Every word you spoke hit home. As a woman that continues to deal with my wieght and struggles everyday with alot of the topics that you say you once have, this truly inspires me.
Blessings to you and congrats to you for your accomplishment.
Hey girl, thanks so much for this vid! I can relate as I've always been a fat girl. I'm 25 and this is the first time in my life I've lost a significant amount of weight. I've lost 55 lbs overall and 40 lbs in just the last 3 months by walking for 30 minutes every day and watching what I eat. It's hard. I have so many obstacles to overcome but my motivation of being successful in the music industry is what keeps me going. The part about not being afraid to be alone for a while... I needed that.
I understand where you are coming from. I was always a small girl, and men are still saying that I have an attitude. Now that Im married these same female who were my friend are like "DAMN U STILL MARRIED." You are right, I had to cut off even family member and keep my marriage and happiness to ourself. Me n my husband are else my marriage wouldnt be going on 4yrs. Amen, to that.
Thank you so much for this. I have been struggling with a few of the things you talked about, and this video is really helpful for me. Always trying to please other people, becoming obsessed with the numbers on the scale, even my best friend didn't want to be friends anymore when I really started to lose weight, and I learned who really were my true friends. Weight loss is challenging, but in the end healthy means a less stressful, happier, longer life. Amen.
Girllll.......i can so relate to what you're saying. I"ve lost 107 have still have more to go. But boy oh boy! I experienced E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G you're saying.
i subscribed before i even watched the video because i read the comments...... you really are amazing i am going to try hard to lose my weight this is getting unhealthy :S
i loveeee youu thankss so much for this! you truly inspire me and everything youre saying is how i felt and i feel about myself right now but i want to change that. i really needed to hear that because i dont think anyone i know understands and now that i heard this, i feel like i can take that big step into becoming and feeling better about myself :)
@simp1eone expressing passion for something that she truly believes in is ghettoness to you?I think she is referring to people like you who only look at the negative.how can you compliment her and say she has beauty and then try to beat her down with "bring the ghettoness down a notch" NEWSFLASH:"ghettoness" is not a word,so stop being ignorant and be encouraging simp1minded
I know i'm seeing this a year later.. but this is very awsome. Love the passion you speak with. You are a great example for black women all over the world. To all people in general. You do look great with the weight loss, but I really love your Natural hair. I'm a fan of black woman with natural hair. Continue doing what you do..
I've watched this video a few times, but I still love the bit where you say "Why not pop up and be the hotness? Why have to keep talking about what it is to be the hotness?!" Sooo true. People (me included) have to learn to be their own audience, cheerleader, and sometimes backing dancer as well! Let them find out later when you are well on your way to your destination. I hope you make more keeping the confidence and education/career videos. Thanks!
For the most pt, ur on point. I can't fully agree with the last thing u said. Simply, because at some point a person does have to get serious about lossing wt. It dosent mean ur not thankful, but every day, 9 times out of 10, is not going to be always good. As a human, there's a desire for other things and wt loss is one of them. Its the pro and con and both r a pt of life
Nina I must have watched this particular video over and over so for that little part me for that want all those men that said I wasnt they "type" can eat their heart out!
Thank you sooo much me and my friends are trying to loose wait but we don't get the motivations from other we are trying really hard Iwe join cross country in school and I extersice every day but it's hard sometimes when people don't give you the motivation or help you like telling you not to eat something that your not supost to and stuff like that but thanks you you helped our motivations ALOT
You are such an amazing person; you`re cute, beautiful and smart...I just love your earings, your glowing skin, that flower, the eyeshadow :) What you said about relationships is so true
Oh my god you are surely speaking the truth and you said one thing that touched me like nothing I ever felt before.. ALL I NEED IS MYSELF AND MY SANITY. People in this world judge you everyday and every chance they get but what they dont know is that I can make it on my own and I dont need you. Friends are recycleble, but your sanity and self-worth is forever...
I really love you girl....the threating thing hit home like I don't know what...when you start accomplishing any goals or feel good about anything in your life the truth sets in about what kind of company you keep!
Wow, you are a strong woman. I love u for being u. You made me feel less empty because of having no man. Girl, you`re right...better years with good friends, than years in a bad and empty relationship.
Thank you so much for not being afraid to call people out! What you said is so true about woman and relationships, and how a lot of times it comes from insecurity so we settle for less. Youre amazing! Keep speaking the truth!!
This video doesnt relate to my life but I think its amazing and encouraging and so truthful in so many ways. God has given you a message and a ministry to so many people who have had a similar experience. God bless you, you're amazing, You're talking God's truth here.
i`m a 19 year old overweight woman myself && this is so true . now that i have started losing weight i have realized i put up with so much because i didn't have the confidence i'm starting to gain now. i'm in the process of getting rid of all the negativity in my life ( men/boys , so-called friends, etc. ) && i'm realizing i'm in this by myself, && i'm getting used to that. you have motivated me sooo much! stay beautiful && stong . =)
Girl you don't know how Beautiful of an impression you've made on me. Im 19 , 243 pounds,,, 5'7. I've been a yo-yo diet and weight loss , and I can't remember when I've last been out of the 200's. Your natural movement, your losing the weight on your own and not through 'Quick-fixes' Is amazing! Lord knows, the motivation you had, still have... I pray it is contagious.
I Celebrate Your Existence,Your Journey.. For the Good Of All Concerned .. All the Lives You Are touching and Will Continue to Touch...And The Realization of your Divinity..Your Infinite Potential. Grow Goddess Grow
You are toooooo awesome... Like Lola said underneath me, life coaching is your calling. You are so inspirational, it's ridiculous. This video helped me a lot. Thank you for your words, sister.
Bravo! This is the most informed video on youtube! Thank you BeautifulBrownBabyDol for keepin it real. I'm tryin to lose weight and everytime I'm seeing a positive dfference in my body, I tend to stop working out..hate it. Pray for me
my friend referred me to you and i must say you have open my eyes to a whole new light. you have touched on so many bases that i myself have been fighting with for years. Thank you i hope to here more from you and how ur maintaing the wieght loss hopefully i can share in ur success one day ( well at least one of my own lol)
I love your videos!! I Just started my weight loss journy about 2 months ago and have lost about 22 lbs...I really neede to hear the things u r saying! Thank u
Love the video, you're real about things a lot of people hardly put any thought to. Thanks for sharing your experiences with everybody in order to help them! You're even reaching out to the peeps in New Zealand! xx
girl i just love you!! (tear) i watch of ur videos and u are such and inspiration. i watch this video whenever i need motivation on weight loss journey. i get a lot of attention even as im kinda heavy and people tell me constantly im beautiful. but i know im not at my full potential and everything u just said is so true. thank u so much for all of ur videos! much luv and success to you!
I really like this video. I dont have a lot of weight to lose but I am working on losing belly fat. I am also going natural. I am just tired of perms and the damage they do to my hair and scalp. I am learning to love myself. This is an inspiring video.
U need to be a life coach because you are surely speaking the truth. Blessings for all the encouragement you give to others. You truly spoke to my heart. PREACH! lol
Nina I must have watched this particular video over and over so for that little part me for that want all those men that said I wasnt they "type" can eat their heart out!
Hi, ok just few words to say thank you so much, I m french but I live in UK, yes Bbdol you re famous all over the world!!!!!
You re just fantastic and your words moved me so much. I am real fan and you inspire in my own journey. I m losing weight and I was absolutely determined to but your videos give me confirmation that what I doing right now it s just the right thing to do for myself and my child.
So I will keep losing weight, doing sport with God s help and of course your inspiring videos.
Hi, This is just great! I'm not an ex-fat girl, but I can relate in regards to the self-esteem aspect. Thank You! You are Beautiful! and this video made me feel that spirit within' shouting at me, saying "i'm beautiful!" ...Sistah your soul is beautiful...Take care
Hi, I just want to thank you for posting this. It really means something to me. I think you're beautiful (in the broadest and deepest sense of the word). The things you've said are really inspiring. Thanks. -carmela
ok I am a guy and I´ve always been very skiny but I can relate to some of the things you say because as you say we´re all humans and we all have our own demons. Anyway I just ran into this video and I think you are very pretty and it is amazing the change you have made, I can see that you´ve suffered but you learnt from it and you endured and you have made a very amazing physical and mental transformation. Congratulations.
GURL GO HEAD!!!! I got goose bumps when I watched this!! You better tell the truth and shame the devil!! I'm glad I'm not the only one who has been through those types of situations! Thank you for keeping it real!! Peace and love my sistah!!
I have to tell you weight is something I have struggled with all my life and I never found my own reason for wanting to do it. You have inspired me more than you will ever know. Thank you so much.
I think you are a very beautiful girl, but as fly as you claim to be you come off a bit bitter, and almost as if you are putting up this front of being So confident! By no means am I knocking you87lbs weight loss because sweetie that is a wonderful thing, but its almost as if you are saying big girls don't have style , big girls can't catch a man or all big girls have low self esteem! Not true.. There is a such thing as being plus size and fit and healthy. @clubcushions tone it down & be proud
You are so wise! I love this video, I'm subscribing to you because you produce really good content
tammymarykay1 1 day ago
kick the bo-bo's girl!, I hear what your saying. Thanks for the encouragement. I'm going through the struggle now
tammymarykay1 1 day ago
What you said is soo incredibly true. Your video has definitely blessed me. Thank you! Keep shining the way you do! :)
LindaLucia17 1 week ago
Usher in the back wooosah
VersaceShay 1 week ago in playlist Confessions of an Ex-Fat Girl
White male wishing for external positive reinforcement/ gradification of black girlfriend of 23mnths...NEVER RECEIVED a SINGLE COMPLIMENT(sheThinksIhaveThisHUGE EGO&WANTS 2CHOPmDown2size)&has had me on an emotional rollercoaster & I've lost my sense of self,self confidence,& self worth; no matter how hard I try, I can't stop it from affecting me DETRIMENTALY IN EVERY FACIT OF MY LIFE..MONDAYzTheEND&I PRAY 2 WANT IT 4 ME AGAIN..THX 4 UR POST.
nickAnthony76 1 week ago
I feel like God sent me to watch this.!! you said all the things i needed to hear & the things i'm working on as we speak.!! I Love you.!!
bluebone74 2 weeks ago
You are so real and I think you for saying this because I needed to hear this!Bless you young lady
12frenchy1 3 weeks ago
congrats :)
bibby10jb 3 weeks ago
Same thing with us disabled girls....people are shallow. I'm 29 yrs old and the only boys I've had were just cold. Some guys don't care if I'm disabled when I'm skinny but if I gain like 19lbs. it's see ya.
27loldie 1 month ago
You are definitely telling my life story. Misery sure does love company...and the men in your past (hell, and in mine) all need someone to keep them some damn company.
msladi012 1 month ago
Thank you so so much for sharing this video with us, it's truly inspiring.
Sweetness822100 1 month ago
PREACH!!!!
MsChassidy2008 1 month ago
I love your vids and really admire how you give so much of yourself and personal experiences to uplift and inspire others. You are a compliment to black women and I'm proud of you.
prettiblackbuttafly 2 months ago
ur beautiful n U inspired me so much.....Luv from India..
nakedface123 2 months ago
i like how she has music playing in the background! :)
DollFace4111 2 months ago
I'm taking notes! I'm going to make it this time! You're beautiful.
JazztheSpazz99 2 months ago
Girl your skin is flawless and glowing. ..IT's beautiful.
HeartyOne17 2 months ago
I'm not a big girl but I needed to hear this! Tell em Dr. Nina :)
stanethia 2 months ago
YOU have inspired me to change my life! thank you!!
monisola1986 2 months ago
Loved the realness! I can relate to everything that you said here but it definitely made a larger impact to hear it from someone else and to hear it out loud. As crazy as this sounds...part of the reason that I'm so hesitant to really do things to better myself and any real, major way...such as losing this weight that I really want to lose, is b/c I'm afraid of what the haters will have to say. I'm surrounded by people who 'love' you most when you look, think, and act just like they do...
tinkerbellblues 3 months ago
Aww shoot that's my song.
NSync Do Your Thing :)
Love this!!
SuperDemi2009 3 months ago
Real Talk!! I'm a big girl, I started taking better care of myself a few years ago it's showing even though there is such a thing as body type and I know I'll always be a little plump, I can relate to everything you say! The self love, people changing... etc Good stuff!
yettawade 3 months ago
LOL real talkin'....
Msadriiiable 3 months ago in playlist Confessions of an Ex-Fat Girl
Sorry but you're hawt big or small.
corioa 3 months ago 4
this is the shit i think about and im still at my heaviest now : / i wonder if the emotinal change will be too much for me but i HAVE TO LOSE this weight...its gotten really bad .also you were still pretty back than but i like your vid and i like ur presence and being able to be honest without having to be a jerk about it. you seem cool
tavern2468 4 months ago
you're really pretty!
Diabetty115 5 months ago
PURE TRUTH HUN
sexyjamaican22 5 months ago
Girlllll, I had to pause the video just to comment and say: YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH!
sanjones24 5 months ago
Everything that you said here was on POINT! lol Its everything that I think about when I get slimmer esp. dealing with motives behind dudes wanting to talk to me. Great Job!
puremagic08 6 months ago
lol @ the rapper going "ooooooo" after your petty eddie comment.
u were definitely preaching on this one tho, excellent insights:)
EbunnyEthereal 6 months ago
she's deep
onestone45 6 months ago
hey hey! Have you considered intellectus 424 diet (search on google)? Ive heard some great things about it and my mate lost a ton of weight with it.
Max12656 6 months ago
thanks for the encouraging wisdom..... I know with God all things are possible n I can n others can shed the weight if we jus stay positive n focus.....n keeping mind that losing weight is for ourselves n not 4 no1 else... thanks Girly have a bless1...
MzThinkBigg 6 months ago
I can listen to you talk ALL DAY!
NikitaDiamondTV 6 months ago
Like other viewers have already said you are truly inspirational!!! You speak the truth and that is why it is good to hear. I'm on my own weightloss journey and even though i have lost quite a bit of weight and look better, i still know i can be better. This gain in self esteem is like getting to actually know myself. Just wanted to say thank you for letting me know i am not alone
Italianbrowneyes08 7 months ago
I loved this!!!! It really inspired me on my weight loss journey. Thank youf or your words of wisdom.
Sennatra 7 months ago
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!I watch your videos everyday and I want you to know that they make me feel better and are a knock on my head when Im having a "crazy and negative thoughts" day!!!!
Thank you!!!!
Hairtogo2011 7 months ago
Damn girl, I'm a slim girl I never had weight problem nothing against big girls. But I workout everyday and everytime I watch your vids you give me the chills and my hair raise. Your choice of words are so deep and encouring. Keep the vids coming luv it!
Passhun4Fasshun 7 months ago
I guess 12 people didn't want to hear the truth.
tracylocke7 7 months ago 20
@tracylocke7 It hurts sometimes! lol
cocoaisbeautiful 2 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
Damn dat was deep, I myself am jus startin my weight lost and I do look for validation from this 1 individual, n when I don't get the feedback I want it weakens me, but these past months i've been feelin the whole ima do me mode, im glad I tuned in :)
amy08609 7 months ago
Your words are really powerful, and it all runs smoothly. You can really give advice. Just saying.
allakhaytool 7 months ago
The bible is clear man looks on the outside and God looks on the inside. This is why some people did not notice you when you were larger. Praise God you were not only change outside, but inside as well. Some people will not consider me because I am not tall and there is nothing I can do about it but be the best me I can be.
mclay37 7 months ago
The bible is clear man looks on the outside and God looks on the inside. This is why some people did not notice you when you were larger. Praise God you were not able to change outside only, but inside as well.
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phougoul 8 months ago
Wise words! And @ 1:31 SKEEEE-WEEE Soror!
vanorris1908 8 months ago
GREAT VIDEO!
From a Ex-Fat Girl.
Thank you.
Ms1naturalbeauty 8 months ago
You are beautiful.
BenjaminJasmine 8 months ago
Girl, I love YOU! This was SOO needed!!!
blackbeauty100582 8 months ago
So now I'm a new subscriber! I heard a lot of what you said many times from people trying to encourage me (like parents, other fam & friends) but it's something about when you hear it again from someone different or someone who has been where you are. It feels good to hear someone talk about what I'm in the process of going through. Just so much truth. This was a wake-up call for me, esp. from 3:30 to 6:14!!!!! God bless you!!!
CafeLeigh 8 months ago
Great videos! Thanks!! :)
Sternschnuppen85 8 months ago
Wow your inspiring and real. I love that
rockrgirl44681 9 months ago
Preach it!
africanigbolove 9 months ago
You are such an inspiration!
andimchaya 9 months ago
you better preach boo, i love you already your spirit is so humble :) & your a great spokes person eye candy forreal :)
girlybrownbone 9 months ago
Good work!!!
kmcd7 9 months ago
You are such a positive person! Your energy is magnificent and I'm motivated to do this for myself!
gamjc 9 months ago
PREACH IT SISTAH !!!!!!!
blknproud 10 months ago
Oh my god this is one of - if not the best motivational video about weight loss!!
Thanks for this! You're really inspirational girl!
Keep it up :)
jeweli 10 months ago
Preachhhhhh. Thank you father.
OhYeahTheNightNurse 10 months ago
excellent truth
onli1luv 10 months ago
Amen Sista Amen!
CelineSC 11 months ago
haha i went trough the same ,and you know...when i was thin,it didnt satisfy me COMPLETELY either,i gained weight and now i am losing again. So funny we are chasing confidence and acceptance with weight loss...but is it really the right path?
heyyy185 11 months ago
REALTALK!!!!!
sheadjones 11 months ago
OMG u were so pretty when you were thicker...OMG u were really gorgeous. I guess being pretty doesnt change whether u are thick or skinny
abbyquaye 11 months ago
girl i wish i had girls like u i nearly cried!!!!!
rangepwnstr4 11 months ago
Inspiration <3.
winnryax 11 months ago
YES!!! Message Delivered... and Received!
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pink33169 11 months ago
I love ur video, i too found that when i lost weight i got more guys after me!
jeanniefan4life 11 months ago
Ive lost 85 pounds. I know what shoes you are walking in now. you have said that everything that I have felt recently. Good for you. you are beautiful no matter what size you are!
xacirex 11 months ago
wow great video. i can relate to thiss video a lot..although i don't need to loose weight, there were alot of things that u stated in the video that i really needed to here..like the issues of friends and validation. thanks so much for spreading the knowledge. God will def bless you !
Sweetheartbabez 1 year ago
i just happened to come across this video & it seriously touched my heart. I've always been a big girl, and just a year or so ago started to lose weight. I went from 210 to 168, and still going. it's amazing how evil some ppl in this world are....haha, i don't know what else to say...but thank you. :) i heard some words i really needed to hear.
AitebaarS 1 year ago
THIS IS SOOOOOOOO TRUE TRUE TRUE TRUE HATERS AND FAKERS BE GONE IN MY LIFE THANK YOU FOR OPENING MY EYES BBBG
inluvwitluvable 1 year ago
Thank you so much. Every word is true. Since December 2010 I went from 180 to 140 and the reactions I get from coworkers is mindblowing. I thought I was imagining things but after watching your inspiring video I see peoples reaction to my changes are universal.....lol
Tirimisou 1 year ago
you are AMAZING :') thank you for this video :D
LedZepPeaceGirl69 1 year ago
EXCELLENT!
lyricalhealer 1 year ago
you so smart and hood at the same time its hilarious lol go head girl
LaSydneyBob 1 year ago
Thank you. You really changed my perspective of myself now I don't look to please other people and don't cry when I het home about what other people said about me. You're really inspiring and a great role model. :) -3 ~Sara
heyitsSAP 1 year ago
AAAAAMMMEEEEENNNN
you are a speaker of absolute truth!!!
TENSHl 1 year ago
I just loveit my life story!!!! If nobody understands I do....
onthejourney84 1 year ago
great vid. I stop tryin to please people long ago. I've been just mew for over 30 yrs now. now I'll have to really get down to fixing this bod the way I really want it to be. Bad knees ans pain have put a big damper but I have made some changes and will be making more in the coming new year. I want 2011 all for myself. You really should do life coaching on the side if you had the time. Thanks for the sharing of your vids. Smooches Babydoll! :=))
LadyShyye 1 year ago
Love this. For the first time EVER when thinking about weight loss i wasnt thinking about loosing weight to make my man happy. I wanted to do it for myself. I never thought i was worth something and now i am thinking I might be worth... stuff.
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You need to fix YOU - that's the truth!
doaplu 1 year ago
This is extremely inspiring. Why talk about the hotness.........just show up and be the hotness! Yes Girrrll!
braveblossom 1 year ago
love it!!!
MsMarki25 1 year ago
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GbvfrNbhgy 1 year ago
I love this video, you are speaking the truth. God Bless you in all you do.
faht2010 1 year ago
you really made me smile. i was realy skeptical when the video first started running. i was almost about to closclick that little X button. but boy am i glad i didn't. :D
denouements 1 year ago
Speak the truth! Excellent video.
triniti300 1 year ago
I Love It! Sooooo true. You are a wise young woman.
chajen32 1 year ago
that is so true you are the same person but people treat you so different!
fnlmjl1 1 year ago
Sista, you were speaking the damn truth in this video! Everything you said was so true. Keep being fabulous honey~God bless
sktruth 1 year ago 2
You definitely inspired me. Thanks for this and your videos. They are awesome, for sure!!! Continue to have such an amazing spirit and glad someone recommended to subscribe to u!
GabbyGirl09 1 year ago 14
dude i kno exactly what ur talking about iv lost like 65 pounds since last year and all these girls that would never giv me the time of day before are all like hey wahtsup its prty sad. anyways just want u to kno the way u command wehn u speak is pretty sexy
fuchalo 1 year ago
@fuchalo Oh snapz.
Ariegiggles 1 year ago
loving your hair, loving your style, mega cool!
Jacquimawa 1 year ago
loving your hair, loving your style, maga cool!
Jacquimawa 1 year ago
i just wanna say that this video is such a motivator for me. Every word you spoke hit home. As a woman that continues to deal with my wieght and struggles everyday with alot of the topics that you say you once have, this truly inspires me.
Blessings to you and congrats to you for your accomplishment.
Bfanatic20 1 year ago
how do you tighten the loose skin??? i used to be 210lns and now weigh 120lbs...i have alot of skin!!!??? what to do???
bissonsgurl 1 year ago
Hey girl, thanks so much for this vid! I can relate as I've always been a fat girl. I'm 25 and this is the first time in my life I've lost a significant amount of weight. I've lost 55 lbs overall and 40 lbs in just the last 3 months by walking for 30 minutes every day and watching what I eat. It's hard. I have so many obstacles to overcome but my motivation of being successful in the music industry is what keeps me going. The part about not being afraid to be alone for a while... I needed that.
MsLadySongstress 1 year ago
Wooow, you really talk sense!!! I feel what you are saying.....God bless!!!!
MsTara27 1 year ago
I understand where you are coming from. I was always a small girl, and men are still saying that I have an attitude. Now that Im married these same female who were my friend are like "DAMN U STILL MARRIED." You are right, I had to cut off even family member and keep my marriage and happiness to ourself. Me n my husband are else my marriage wouldnt be going on 4yrs. Amen, to that.
THANK U LORD.
melane03 1 year ago
Thank you so much for this. I have been struggling with a few of the things you talked about, and this video is really helpful for me. Always trying to please other people, becoming obsessed with the numbers on the scale, even my best friend didn't want to be friends anymore when I really started to lose weight, and I learned who really were my true friends. Weight loss is challenging, but in the end healthy means a less stressful, happier, longer life. Amen.
sugarlemonpie 1 year ago
UR SO PRETTY. U have the Classy Zesty Allure of the young and Gorgeous DIAHANN CARROLL. Absolutely BBBEEAUTIIIFFULLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
poseidon3201 1 year ago
You are awesome!
MolotovTNT 1 year ago
Girllll.......i can so relate to what you're saying. I"ve lost 107 have still have more to go. But boy oh boy! I experienced E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G you're saying.
j81jevon 1 year ago
i subscribed before i even watched the video because i read the comments...... you really are amazing i am going to try hard to lose my weight this is getting unhealthy :S
thequeenofgoofy 1 year ago
i loveeee youu thankss so much for this! you truly inspire me and everything youre saying is how i felt and i feel about myself right now but i want to change that. i really needed to hear that because i dont think anyone i know understands and now that i heard this, i feel like i can take that big step into becoming and feeling better about myself :)
joszna90 1 year ago
you go girl!
raine627 1 year ago
Your loudness takes all the beauty away. Bring the ghettoness down a notch
simp1eone 1 year ago
@simp1eone
You have not heard ghettoness
GamerJerks 1 year ago
@simp1eone expressing passion for something that she truly believes in is ghettoness to you?I think she is referring to people like you who only look at the negative.how can you compliment her and say she has beauty and then try to beat her down with "bring the ghettoness down a notch" NEWSFLASH:"ghettoness" is not a word,so stop being ignorant and be encouraging simp1minded
luvinmysailor 1 year ago
I know i'm seeing this a year later.. but this is very awsome. Love the passion you speak with. You are a great example for black women all over the world. To all people in general. You do look great with the weight loss, but I really love your Natural hair. I'm a fan of black woman with natural hair. Continue doing what you do..
Iwilldoyes 1 year ago
This just proves skinnier women have lower self esteem than bigger women.
This girls sounds angry and bitter with all that head snapping talking about her past on how people treated her.
Big girls got better personalities, but it's like riding a moped it's fun and cool till your friends see you doing it.
catonic 1 year ago
Wow, that was amazing....ALL of your messages are exactly what I've been waiting to hear. Thank you!!!!!!!!!! (and you look terrific!)
elawrence20 1 year ago
I've watched this video a few times, but I still love the bit where you say "Why not pop up and be the hotness? Why have to keep talking about what it is to be the hotness?!" Sooo true. People (me included) have to learn to be their own audience, cheerleader, and sometimes backing dancer as well! Let them find out later when you are well on your way to your destination. I hope you make more keeping the confidence and education/career videos. Thanks!
Mznubeing 1 year ago
Good for you : ) More people need to see this video!
tckaramelcutie 1 year ago
Wow....just wow....u really spoke the truth there.
hey1111112222222 1 year ago
Nothing but the truth!!!! BE BLESSED GIRL!
ratrice7 1 year ago
Baby Girlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll.. you are so right. such an inspiration you are :-)
pammish11 1 year ago
For the most pt, ur on point. I can't fully agree with the last thing u said. Simply, because at some point a person does have to get serious about lossing wt. It dosent mean ur not thankful, but every day, 9 times out of 10, is not going to be always good. As a human, there's a desire for other things and wt loss is one of them. Its the pro and con and both r a pt of life
crystaleward 1 year ago
thank you...
brilliantchic 1 year ago
This is my favorite video of yours! You were beautiful then! And are beautiful now! Congrats!
BeCoily3Paula 1 year ago
Nina I must have watched this particular video over and over so for that little part me for that want all those men that said I wasnt they "type" can eat their heart out!
Growsine 1 year ago
I love your make up hun :) x
custardT89 1 year ago
Preach sista! I am now a subscriber!
eclipsegirl34 1 year ago
Thank you sooo much me and my friends are trying to loose wait but we don't get the motivations from other we are trying really hard Iwe join cross country in school and I extersice every day but it's hard sometimes when people don't give you the motivation or help you like telling you not to eat something that your not supost to and stuff like that but thanks you you helped our motivations ALOT
jhonjovial 1 year ago
You are such an amazing person; you`re cute, beautiful and smart...I just love your earings, your glowing skin, that flower, the eyeshadow :) What you said about relationships is so true
wormasd 1 year ago
Oh my god you are surely speaking the truth and you said one thing that touched me like nothing I ever felt before.. ALL I NEED IS MYSELF AND MY SANITY. People in this world judge you everyday and every chance they get but what they dont know is that I can make it on my own and I dont need you. Friends are recycleble, but your sanity and self-worth is forever...
misswww89 1 year ago 7
I really love you girl....the threating thing hit home like I don't know what...when you start accomplishing any goals or feel good about anything in your life the truth sets in about what kind of company you keep!
niaranyela 1 year ago
Wow, you are a strong woman. I love u for being u. You made me feel less empty because of having no man. Girl, you`re right...better years with good friends, than years in a bad and empty relationship.
lov U
Jiexica 1 year ago
girl ...i love u ....ur such a great person ....everything u say is so so true......u just made my day ....thank u ..^_^
gaxyy2008 1 year ago
Thank you so much for not being afraid to call people out! What you said is so true about woman and relationships, and how a lot of times it comes from insecurity so we settle for less. Youre amazing! Keep speaking the truth!!
livelaughlove311 1 year ago
you have beautiful glowing skin, great teeth and i love the eyeshadow
lizkel 1 year ago
Your amazing!! I could listen to you all day. Lol:)
florida9101 1 year ago
This video doesnt relate to my life but I think its amazing and encouraging and so truthful in so many ways. God has given you a message and a ministry to so many people who have had a similar experience. God bless you, you're amazing, You're talking God's truth here.
ChristieAwesome 1 year ago
i love you girl, ur inspire me. God Bless!
honime 1 year ago
Girl you are so beautiful!!! U have been a blessing to me. Keep on tellin the truth!!! Much love baby girl!!!
lrb18 1 year ago
i loveeee this .
i`m a 19 year old overweight woman myself && this is so true . now that i have started losing weight i have realized i put up with so much because i didn't have the confidence i'm starting to gain now. i'm in the process of getting rid of all the negativity in my life ( men/boys , so-called friends, etc. ) && i'm realizing i'm in this by myself, && i'm getting used to that. you have motivated me sooo much! stay beautiful && stong . =)
moniicobabesz 1 year ago 2
Girl you don't know how Beautiful of an impression you've made on me. Im 19 , 243 pounds,,, 5'7. I've been a yo-yo diet and weight loss , and I can't remember when I've last been out of the 200's. Your natural movement, your losing the weight on your own and not through 'Quick-fixes' Is amazing! Lord knows, the motivation you had, still have... I pray it is contagious.
Neeqd 1 year ago 2
Please do more of these!!
qutie2day 1 year ago
I Celebrate Your Existence,Your Journey.. For the Good Of All Concerned .. All the Lives You Are touching and Will Continue to Touch...And The Realization of your Divinity..Your Infinite Potential. Grow Goddess Grow
Dancia101 1 year ago
You are toooooo awesome... Like Lola said underneath me, life coaching is your calling. You are so inspirational, it's ridiculous. This video helped me a lot. Thank you for your words, sister.
GoldnBrown90 1 year ago
Bravo! This is the most informed video on youtube! Thank you BeautifulBrownBabyDol for keepin it real. I'm tryin to lose weight and everytime I'm seeing a positive dfference in my body, I tend to stop working out..hate it. Pray for me
chickitie34 1 year ago
my friend referred me to you and i must say you have open my eyes to a whole new light. you have touched on so many bases that i myself have been fighting with for years. Thank you i hope to here more from you and how ur maintaing the wieght loss hopefully i can share in ur success one day ( well at least one of my own lol)
sooexclusivetv 1 year ago
I love this girl you are so motivating and straight up I wish you where in chicago. Keep it up!
josz1018 1 year ago
thank you for this!
succeedingNOW 1 year ago
Shit girl you got me against the wall for a bit. lmao!!! Thank You SOOOOOO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
mizfitinpink 1 year ago
I love this video!!! so true...Everything you said...
mj021986 1 year ago
thanks from sweden for the inspiering video :)
maya06227 1 year ago
i love the way you talk it really inspires me, i feel like you have the ability to push the truth into people
feliciax0x0 1 year ago
I love your videos!! I Just started my weight loss journy about 2 months ago and have lost about 22 lbs...I really neede to hear the things u r saying! Thank u
buggsb1 1 year ago
@buggsb1
wow. what have you been doing to lose the weight?
hisboo911 1 year ago
wow..you are very inspiring
partootie 1 year ago 3
Love the video, you're real about things a lot of people hardly put any thought to. Thanks for sharing your experiences with everybody in order to help them! You're even reaching out to the peeps in New Zealand! xx
molotov1nz 1 year ago
I love this video, nothing but real talk. Thank u so much, you're such an inspiration.
yadilove818 1 year ago 19
lol gurl u da truth love da video
tsinger08 1 year ago
girl i just love you!! (tear) i watch of ur videos and u are such and inspiration. i watch this video whenever i need motivation on weight loss journey. i get a lot of attention even as im kinda heavy and people tell me constantly im beautiful. but i know im not at my full potential and everything u just said is so true. thank u so much for all of ur videos! much luv and success to you!
marryme32 1 year ago 4
I really like this video. I dont have a lot of weight to lose but I am working on losing belly fat. I am also going natural. I am just tired of perms and the damage they do to my hair and scalp. I am learning to love myself. This is an inspiring video.
bequietimtalking 1 year ago
How do you get your hair like that I love it I have had my hair natural my entire life and have never been able to do a style like that
krumpclown12 1 year ago
U need to be a life coach because you are surely speaking the truth. Blessings for all the encouragement you give to others. You truly spoke to my heart. PREACH! lol
Lola7314 1 year ago 30
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Nina I must have watched this particular video over and over so for that little part me for that want all those men that said I wasnt they "type" can eat their heart out!
Growsine 1 year ago
You are SO RIGHT, this video is so inspiring.
LiliannOHIO 1 year ago 3
Girl!! Good points! I have thought about so much of this stuff. I feel like you're speaking to me personally!!
FunnyChloeMichelle 1 year ago 2
speak that!!! I feel better just by watching this video. thanks :)
720ent 1 year ago
This was a great video. A lot of your points can apply to any major change you are making in life. Thanks for sharing.
projectdanielle 1 year ago
Hi, ok just few words to say thank you so much, I m french but I live in UK, yes Bbdol you re famous all over the world!!!!!
You re just fantastic and your words moved me so much. I am real fan and you inspire in my own journey. I m losing weight and I was absolutely determined to but your videos give me confirmation that what I doing right now it s just the right thing to do for myself and my child.
So I will keep losing weight, doing sport with God s help and of course your inspiring videos.
AUMIEL1 1 year ago
Great video!
Cindy504 1 year ago
Hi, This is just great! I'm not an ex-fat girl, but I can relate in regards to the self-esteem aspect. Thank You! You are Beautiful! and this video made me feel that spirit within' shouting at me, saying "i'm beautiful!" ...Sistah your soul is beautiful...Take care
rocksta101 1 year ago
Hi, I just want to thank you for posting this. It really means something to me. I think you're beautiful (in the broadest and deepest sense of the word). The things you've said are really inspiring. Thanks. -carmela
humadapon 1 year ago
ok I am a guy and I´ve always been very skiny but I can relate to some of the things you say because as you say we´re all humans and we all have our own demons. Anyway I just ran into this video and I think you are very pretty and it is amazing the change you have made, I can see that you´ve suffered but you learnt from it and you endured and you have made a very amazing physical and mental transformation. Congratulations.
michaelmusica 1 year ago
GURL GO HEAD!!!! I got goose bumps when I watched this!! You better tell the truth and shame the devil!! I'm glad I'm not the only one who has been through those types of situations! Thank you for keeping it real!! Peace and love my sistah!!
PetiteUnique2010 1 year ago
Amen. Watch the company you keep very closely. Weight Loss or any life style changes can create conflict, competition and jealousy. Sad, but true.
kast256 1 year ago
I agree with everything you said 100%
KillBorn88 1 year ago
I have to tell you weight is something I have struggled with all my life and I never found my own reason for wanting to do it. You have inspired me more than you will ever know. Thank you so much.
april19832007 1 year ago
I think you are a very beautiful girl, but as fly as you claim to be you come off a bit bitter, and almost as if you are putting up this front of being So confident! By no means am I knocking you87lbs weight loss because sweetie that is a wonderful thing, but its almost as if you are saying big girls don't have style , big girls can't catch a man or all big girls have low self esteem! Not true.. There is a such thing as being plus size and fit and healthy. @clubcushions tone it down & be proud
PreserveYourCurves 1 year ago