Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.
Be careful with the "being yourself" rule...Women want to see you but they might not want to see all of you so soon. For example, if you're a goofy dude and you a approach a female "goofily" then most women will reject you. You can be more goofy once you have already bagged her. Show your self in parts and slowly; slowly introduce your self to her
the only thing i don't like is that when immature men approach women, they automatically expect the lady to be all over him, just because your attracted to a female, it doesn't mean she has to be attracted to you to lol
@thickjai18 And likewise, you idea of an attractive man doesn't have to approach a woman, and even if he does he doesn't have to do anything that she would want him too for that matter, or even care what she wants lol. This way of how we look at relationships is why things are the way that they are.
@thickjai18 I just have a question from a womans perspective, unless someone is just extremely ugly or physicaly unattractive, what about someone could make you be able to decide that they are in no way worth getting to know that person at all; just after saying hello? You are rejecting someone without knowing what youre even rejecting, i don't understand that, and im sure I never will.
@rehsa2194 a person's physical attributes are the first thing u see lol, if a dude isn't dressed nice, doesn't groom himself, or has bad hygiene..................thats a no no, a woman's standards should be realistic, but at the end of the day she should have some type of standards
@thickjai18 i agree bcause ima keep it real,im a 17yr old dude n wen i tk the train to skool everyday i get looked at by girls of all types n i kno its because i get founded as an attractive person she may look good or she may look hit lol,for ex: im chillin n i look to my left n see a gurl givin me eye contact so rite then i kno wats gud,but i luv it wen i catch a gurl lookin at me n then play it off TURNS ME ON lol
im a big guy and talk to women all the time some i get some i dont....and the ones i dont doesnt mean i got rejected...i dont consider it rejection....its alot of scary shy as men out here so me takin my time to spit doesnt mean i got rejected....flat out
He is talking about being congruent. Consistent behavior, state of harmony. For example, if your a classy guy dress in a suit and went out to a rock concert that is incongruent. Instead, he decide to listen to classical music at a concert that the definition of being congruent. You ever heard of "just be yourself"? That also applies as being congruent.
Just to clarify. You said the easiest rejection is the rejection that comes from being yourself as opposed to the rejection that comes rom role-playing right? Why would you invent the face in the first place? It seems to me people only do this when they can't accept people not loking them fo who they are naturally.
Another amazing video! I would like to add coming from a female, give her a unique compliment that will help you stand out. Be cautious of your tone and eye contact, when guys are nervous they tend to look away and their tone of voice tends to be not so soothing. most females are sensual instead of sexual. Also for me awkwardness is attractive, means you don't have much practice with females or me specifically make you nervous which is nice. Make sure you make her feel wanted! peace Loves
@indigobeauty1 great tips. if i was talking to a lady and could sense that she is just polite but uninterested in me, should i hang around with her in conversation, or just politely cut it off and keep it moving. I approach alot of women and am respectful but i dont seem to be getting any results at least from the ones i am attracted to. if they arent physically attracted to me, that i can understand. but i dont think that is the case cause I attract tons of women that i am not attracted to.
my opinion... eye contact, smile (not a grin, not a smirk) be concious of your body language, shoulders relaxed... Note though that different women have different prefferences in men. Some like aggresive ones, some like shy ones, play the slightly aggresive/neutral role. Don't come off as cocky.
Funny thing about the hover comment. This happen to me a few weeks back at the store, this chica and I made eye contact, she getting salad. I was just chill, and then she was HOVERING around me. I didn't realize this at the time, I was late for work...by the time I walk out the store I was like, WTF.
example take a look at flava flave, he is not really a good looking guy but his show really prove like telling the world you cant tell me what i can do and what i can do lol.there is no need to be scare or nervous, u need some attitude too like most blk people,most blk people will say shit if they got rejected, like i said fuck rejection i dont want to believe that in the black community, maybe because im thug and you just a regular blk guy
fuck rejection, who r women to reject a guy, especially black guys why should you like someone and the dont like you back, guys are way more cuter than women, 70 percent of women r obese, im surprise u said u got rejected before, i see u smart and u good lookin so what could be the problem then, was it that she was way cuter than you or what, even if she was cuter than u, personality also count n i think u got one
Here is 3 tips my brother gave me when I was a kid maybe 14 1. If a girl intimidates you, picture her taking a wet, smelly, runny shit (The Hershey Squirt Type) this will bring her down a few pegs. 2. Should you get the nads to talk to her end the conversation short in your next few meetings get her number and call a few days later. 3. To check to see how much she is into you, suggest she would look better with a different hair style and see if she changes it.
great advice in this video homie! fa sho!! these dudes dont know the deal.. thats how they get they women took.. cuz they be something when they first meet em then.. after the woman find out they not all they seem
@leous666 i know eh, it seems like they just have the balls to get to a women...like appearently im an attractive dude, but I dont have many women....its pretty sad but this was helpful
ah but too much respect just leads to friendship. i would never disrespect a women to the extent of abuse but the only girls iv been successful with are the ones u barely show an interest to
I for one just wanna say thank you Gurl Talkk. I am glad i watched saw video,because i myself have been having problems approaching women, to the point where i got afraid of rejection. i tried taking advice from like every friend i can think of. They always tell me just make them laugh or be this or that. But thanks for puttin down that realness right there.
Maybe I'm just mean but I don't really like being approached on the street at all. I just see a dude steppin to me on the streets and think "Don't even" lol. I personally want to meet someone in school or somewhere else that shows interest in something useful=). Lol but thats just me.
@BabyGirl908 yea and all dudes know this, which is why mostly we just keep moving. Then often when you do date someone, they end up telling you something like "hey why didn't you approach me sooner" or hey we were around each other for months before you approached me what took so long? And the simple answer is because we all know that women have that attitude of not valuing that attention untill its not given. Silly situation really.
@BabyGirl908 I feel you!! I didn't use 2b like that tho!!. I guess since I'm older tho...the "aye girl, where yo man @, can I go?" lines, are so like, UGH!!!! U kno wut I mean??
I was talking to this woman at a Karioke Club- a black on HOT ONE. We were talking about poetry. And she asked me to kicked something on the spot while someone's on the spot while someone was singing. Well I'm thinking this aint not dog and ponny show. So I told her I'll kick her something later when I called her. She said.."What make you think I'm giving you my number." "It would be foolish for us to have this type of energy between us and not exchange numbers." She was like call me..
Great advice man. The fear of rejection is the biggest obstacle that guys face when trying to meet women. When you get pass being rejected, alot of the nervousness and anxiety that comes with approaching females naturally goes away. Consequently, you'll be more relaxed which will allow you to give a good first impression and increase your chances of being accepted by the girl. Thanks for all of the vids and keep up the good work. By the way, I really like the beat that plays at the end.
That was a great message man, being who you are all the time and not copy someone else's character or try to be somebody else is always the best way to go. Keep makin em playa..
In no way shape or form am i attracted to thugs.some girls just dont want to be bothered being approached. nowadays the majority of dudes are just rude and disrespectful
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How to step to a black woman, lets see, drink a 40 oz, smoke a blunt, sag your pants, get some tats & gold teeth, have 20 inch rims on your car, have 4-5 babies by 4-5 different baby mamas. Once you have that, then just walk up to a sista, and say "yo..whats good shorty"..
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO this nigga is so funny. "But that's on some whole nother playa shit." LMAO. Your video really boosted up my confidence and made me able to handle rejection. I also like your swag with that closing, "brush off" when shorty is "blind"...nice.
Its very true that women judge men to quickly. I can personally attest to that. more than a few women developed feelings for me once they took time to know me rather jumping to conclusions
me judge women too quickly. They are just as shallow as women. That Double standard exists everywhere women have it harder. Everyone wants the woman to stand be her man, but it's alright for the man to divorce the wife and leave her with the kids with nothing. A woman cheats, leave her. When the man does it, the woman is told to forgive him.
huh, the court system is totally in favor of women. What country you living in where a man can walk out on his WIFE and kids leaving them with nothing? I would like to know cause the court system here in USA is very bias in the FAVOR of WOMEN
maybe involving the issue of custody. Not every woman brings the man to court. There have been many case where women have to start over. Granted, it is her fault she chose to put her life in his hands, but she also thought he would take care of her. That example is what happened long ago, but those women are paying for it now. They are left alone. You only focused on the court system. When I said everywhere I mean worldwide.
That is not true. Women around the world want a man with money. People kill me how they try make excuses for their preference instead of stating the truth.
I don't judge on looks alone. If you dress tacky, why should i want u? He was not like that, however, as i said in my comment to you, i was in the process of starting a relationship w/ someone else. That would have been wrong to do to both of them and stupid.
I like that. This was a great explanation on how to (basically) be human. I know sometimes there's this idea of "I have to be this, or I have to say that". But like u said, either a person will accept u as u are, or not. period.
You are adorable...so truthful and funny! You have sex-appeal which let me tell u goes ALONG way!!! Not alot of people have it but it is so apparent w/ you!
Rejection is a good thing. The Best sales people in the world have been rejected more times then they can even count. This is GOOD ADVICE! If the sister rejects you then oh well. Yell NEXT! GOOD ADVICE!
what you should do is make a vid telling females how to reject these dudes because i have seen soooo many females take it way to far when all buddy did was say something simple like 'hi you looked nice today'...
now this man thinks you and your personality are ugly
Be True. No lines, No game, even if u got it. Attraction is the initial motive, so ladies, dont get mad if he says u look nice cuz u would REJECT him if he didnt(look nice).They may word it wrong, but they mean no disrespect. Men, Ask her for her phone number and dont talk too much at first meeting. Make her anticipate your phone call. Get to know her over the phone then set up a date
Also, if you're fake when you meet a girl (or guy), then you'll have to be fake throughout your relationship, should you have one. And that never lasts.
I reject the men who refer to me as "ma", "shorty",or with some silly sound. My best advice is to be polite and make sure that your personal hygiene is on point (it sounds silly, but you would be surprised how many pieces of gum or mints I have offered to men.)
Actually, my mother had me attend a charm school and one of the things they taught us was to always have mints and gum on hand. It was more for us than for anyone else. I was also a debutante. I'm not sure if your comment was a dig, but there is nothing wrong with expecting a man to have manners and good hygiene. And from the responses and GTV's own video I'm not the only one who thinks those are reasonable expectations either.
But even if they say they wanna be friends, would you believe that? Or in the back of your mind would you be saying, this is game, he wants to sleep with me. Men dont wanna be your friend, unless he IS just your friend. And that friend may even wanna be your "Homie-Lover-Friend". And if they are the type of friend you would like, he may not want to make that transition into boyfriend when u want him to. Then u end up putting yourself out there and that aint good.
good advice....one major thing some females cant stand is the fact that some men greet us with something so ignorant like "wussup ma", "how you doin ma" because were not your mother, greet us with respect or just get rejected.
That's exactly what Mr.T said on Diffrent strokes. That's how I've always been I just be myself I don't try and say nothing slick or cool I just let know what I want and if she down cool if she ain't aw well.
this is the only thing that i can't do is go up young lady or whatever and try to get with her cuz i get nervous just thinking about do it if theydont gofor what i say then it's upsetting cuz every female is one of akind to me
thanks for telling the guys not to take it personally whenever a lady rejects them. A lot of the times, it's not really personal. It's just that the particular guy might not be there type, etc...
Good advice. And fellas, most of all, be respectful. If she politely turns you down, don't regress and act like a 4-yr old. Politely end the exchange and go your way. Any real woman will appreciate that.
i totally agree with T. Christian but i also agree with carameldelight. Be you be original at least then the female cant say she didnt get the real first impression she was looking for him to deliver
you kinda look like Dave Chappelle...
bucci777 2 months ago
Hover that's the shit hover , hover , hover
Makemoneynow6789 3 months ago
but...you're Black??
dhide14 5 months ago
If you really want to pick up girls, I recommend that you read both of the following guides:
- "The Game" by Neil Strauss
- "Pandora's Box" on MackMethods. com (highly recommend this)
GENERAL GUIDELINES
1) Be Confident (Posture, Eye Contact, Speak With Authority etc).
2) Act like you don't need them and make them prove themselves to YOU!
3) Make them feel comfortable (comfort comes before intimacy)
4) Demonstrate that you're a good provider & protector (easy ways to do this)
MMArtist99 7 months ago
@MMArtist99 stop tryna sell shit
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Guys,
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.
FreeOnlineWorkouts 7 months ago
Be careful with the "being yourself" rule...Women want to see you but they might not want to see all of you so soon. For example, if you're a goofy dude and you a approach a female "goofily" then most women will reject you. You can be more goofy once you have already bagged her. Show your self in parts and slowly; slowly introduce your self to her
ChiTownOnDeck 9 months ago
Thats whats up. Just be yourself. Because women can see a phony a mile away. If she is not feeling you thats fine, move on to the next one.
datingwomensex 9 months ago
you look like paul pierce
Nemesis13Blades 11 months ago
What song or beat is playing at the end, someone please let me know.
tobysoter 11 months ago
the only thing i don't like is that when immature men approach women, they automatically expect the lady to be all over him, just because your attracted to a female, it doesn't mean she has to be attracted to you to lol
thickjai18 11 months ago
@thickjai18 And likewise, you idea of an attractive man doesn't have to approach a woman, and even if he does he doesn't have to do anything that she would want him too for that matter, or even care what she wants lol. This way of how we look at relationships is why things are the way that they are.
rehsa2194 11 months ago
@thickjai18 I just have a question from a womans perspective, unless someone is just extremely ugly or physicaly unattractive, what about someone could make you be able to decide that they are in no way worth getting to know that person at all; just after saying hello? You are rejecting someone without knowing what youre even rejecting, i don't understand that, and im sure I never will.
rehsa2194 11 months ago
@rehsa2194 a person's physical attributes are the first thing u see lol, if a dude isn't dressed nice, doesn't groom himself, or has bad hygiene..................thats a no no, a woman's standards should be realistic, but at the end of the day she should have some type of standards
thickjai18 11 months ago
@thickjai18 i agree bcause ima keep it real,im a 17yr old dude n wen i tk the train to skool everyday i get looked at by girls of all types n i kno its because i get founded as an attractive person she may look good or she may look hit lol,for ex: im chillin n i look to my left n see a gurl givin me eye contact so rite then i kno wats gud,but i luv it wen i catch a gurl lookin at me n then play it off TURNS ME ON lol
MrFlyJ 11 months ago
@MrFlyJ lol, word i feel you
thickjai18 11 months ago
dave chapelle ass nigga..lol
na thts real nigga shit tho
The59PIRU 1 year ago
Helpful ! wise man
koyagul 1 year ago
YOU KINDA LOOK LIKE PAUL PEIRCE
hoolywood07 1 year ago 4
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not all women are the same
TheBluePianist 1 year ago
im a big guy and talk to women all the time some i get some i dont....and the ones i dont doesnt mean i got rejected...i dont consider it rejection....its alot of scary shy as men out here so me takin my time to spit doesnt mean i got rejected....flat out
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NaturalNoGame 1 year ago
he think he a player :/....I'm waiting for his mom to yell out "did u clean your room ?" in the background lol
2009killacam 1 year ago
@2009killacam BOL. That was funny. u just made my day homie
westplace2001 6 months ago
He is talking about being congruent. Consistent behavior, state of harmony. For example, if your a classy guy dress in a suit and went out to a rock concert that is incongruent. Instead, he decide to listen to classical music at a concert that the definition of being congruent. You ever heard of "just be yourself"? That also applies as being congruent.
straighttalkreviewtv 1 year ago
good shit homie. real talk.
McAdooM33 1 year ago
lmao hover!
beautychickbold10 1 year ago
wow man ur awsome!! that was some amzing shit!!
macedonianBLOOD17 1 year ago
if im gonna be myself im never going to approach em.lol
89aneesh 1 year ago
be yourself huh are you a god think about what women want LOL.
demonkiller281 1 year ago
good fukin advice. seriously. specially about being yourself and rejection. how they relate.
whowantstogetnaked 1 year ago
where are you temple?
jaided79 1 year ago
Just to clarify. You said the easiest rejection is the rejection that comes from being yourself as opposed to the rejection that comes rom role-playing right? Why would you invent the face in the first place? It seems to me people only do this when they can't accept people not loking them fo who they are naturally.
fredbloggs02 1 year ago
Good video and moral message! Thx
TECHBUGTv 1 year ago
The "hover" part was mad funny, hover, hover, hover.
tobysoter 1 year ago
i love u!!!!!!!!!! approach me neday............
socajem 1 year ago
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if i was Born a Nigger' I'D Blow my Head off.
ConfederateKlan 1 year ago
I'm one of your new subcribers and I think you can make more people follow you in other area's besides youtube! You got what it takes... your real!
Mr1Love99 2 years ago
"What's up family". Haha.
New York niggas, I swear. I wish I had a thick ass New York accent, like James Gandolfini.
MrDuke32 2 years ago
@MrDuke32
Why?
c00lwatter 2 years ago
Another amazing video! I would like to add coming from a female, give her a unique compliment that will help you stand out. Be cautious of your tone and eye contact, when guys are nervous they tend to look away and their tone of voice tends to be not so soothing. most females are sensual instead of sexual. Also for me awkwardness is attractive, means you don't have much practice with females or me specifically make you nervous which is nice. Make sure you make her feel wanted! peace Loves
indigobeauty1 2 years ago
@indigobeauty1 great tips. if i was talking to a lady and could sense that she is just polite but uninterested in me, should i hang around with her in conversation, or just politely cut it off and keep it moving. I approach alot of women and am respectful but i dont seem to be getting any results at least from the ones i am attracted to. if they arent physically attracted to me, that i can understand. but i dont think that is the case cause I attract tons of women that i am not attracted to.
westplace2001 6 months ago
nicely done!!! just be yourself!!
missbabyfacepob 2 years ago
I just say "hey how are you"
TheFlex21 2 years ago
You made a very very intelligent point there friend...
RobertsDigital 2 years ago
REAL TALK BRUH!!!!!!!!
ballin1822 2 years ago
I liked this particular video because it can apply to either gender.
19dymondgurl 2 years ago
UGH I DONT WANNA GET REJECTED DANG IT!(im 13) *sigh*
KissChad 2 years ago
It's comes with the game!!!!!!!!
ballin1822 2 years ago
whoa i dont even remeber making this comment but yeah rejection freaking sucks.....dont know how im gonna deal with it
KissChad 2 years ago
Just be yaself!!! Everybody get's rejected from time 2 time. Just keep trying. After a few time you'll stop caring and dat's when da fun comes!!!!
ballin1822 2 years ago
my opinion... eye contact, smile (not a grin, not a smirk) be concious of your body language, shoulders relaxed... Note though that different women have different prefferences in men. Some like aggresive ones, some like shy ones, play the slightly aggresive/neutral role. Don't come off as cocky.
phillyhotboy02 2 years ago 4
Funny thing about the hover comment. This happen to me a few weeks back at the store, this chica and I made eye contact, she getting salad. I was just chill, and then she was HOVERING around me. I didn't realize this at the time, I was late for work...by the time I walk out the store I was like, WTF.
venomspeak 2 years ago
@venomspeak LOL...
RobertsDigital 2 years ago
HOVER!
redtintin 2 years ago 2
errrrrrrrrrr yo wut's goin wit victorakay... but yea wut happens when u can't handle rejection...what happens u bein u isn't enough
Blacklogic203 2 years ago
her loss ;-)
PreCurSeD 2 years ago
dude are you high
ganga651 2 years ago
but you talk like thug lol, even when u started your video lol, i like that
victorakay 2 years ago
true player!
Masthieve 2 years ago
thnks ur very intelligent good advice man
najeejihadsaheed 2 years ago
example take a look at flava flave, he is not really a good looking guy but his show really prove like telling the world you cant tell me what i can do and what i can do lol.there is no need to be scare or nervous, u need some attitude too like most blk people,most blk people will say shit if they got rejected, like i said fuck rejection i dont want to believe that in the black community, maybe because im thug and you just a regular blk guy
victorakay 2 years ago
fuck rejection, who r women to reject a guy, especially black guys why should you like someone and the dont like you back, guys are way more cuter than women, 70 percent of women r obese, im surprise u said u got rejected before, i see u smart and u good lookin so what could be the problem then, was it that she was way cuter than you or what, even if she was cuter than u, personality also count n i think u got one
victorakay 2 years ago
lol, I wonder what chick u thinking about when u said this comment. (My dude started the paragraph with "Fuck Rejection!"
FitnessGuru1988 2 years ago
Book-The Art of Seduction by Robert Green ''get ya game up''
EveningGoDs 2 years ago
yo thanks for the tips.... Realitywedding ur a racist bitch dont hate on this guy u dont even no him
danilo3022 2 years ago
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Here is 3 tips my brother gave me when I was a kid maybe 14 1. If a girl intimidates you, picture her taking a wet, smelly, runny shit (The Hershey Squirt Type) this will bring her down a few pegs. 2. Should you get the nads to talk to her end the conversation short in your next few meetings get her number and call a few days later. 3. To check to see how much she is into you, suggest she would look better with a different hair style and see if she changes it.
robb1031 2 years ago
Dude your rule!
Thank you sir!
tae0mo 2 years ago
Yo dude you need your own show on bet or bet after dark.
Jabbaro123 3 years ago
i met ths girl,we kissed i felt on her ass etc.(no sex)but it seems that we have both slowed down.what can i do to keep it moving with her?
cmonee777 3 years ago
Look if you really want to, get the right answer to that question. Then you need to check out Ross Jeffries on youtube.
ewolf32 2 years ago
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just say "sup bitch, lookin to suck a cock?"
works everytime
HiddenHitman 3 years ago
great advice in this video homie! fa sho!! these dudes dont know the deal.. thats how they get they women took.. cuz they be something when they first meet em then.. after the woman find out they not all they seem
tramayn 3 years ago 4
"Huver"
HY20007 3 years ago 3
Bro I enjoyed your video! Been a lil bit of dry spell, so this was a tune up for me. thanks.
dreamblufilms 3 years ago 2
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USE COCKY COMEDY!
NIGGA6669 3 years ago
It seems like the ugly dudes get the most females. what is it are females attracted to the worst looking dudes?
leous666 3 years ago 16
@leous666 i know eh, it seems like they just have the balls to get to a women...like appearently im an attractive dude, but I dont have many women....its pretty sad but this was helpful
mrkennedy4321 1 year ago
@leous666 No they're just not cocky assholes
2009killacam 1 year ago
@leous666 No they're just not cocky assholes or they're car is sweet as a bitch ^_^
2009killacam 1 year ago
@leous666 No they're just not cocky assholes or their car is sweet as a bitch ^_^
2009killacam 1 year ago
@leous666 ugly dudes are the only ones approaching females now a days lol
thickjai18 11 months ago
@leous666
u made a good point...i ask that myself
whitesongs73 10 months ago
you the man
dimebeats 3 years ago
"How to step to a female." Yeah, that's really classy (rolling eyes)
How about calling us women not "females" and treating us with respect. Respecting our boundaries is a start.
realitywedding 3 years ago 5
ah but too much respect just leads to friendship. i would never disrespect a women to the extent of abuse but the only girls iv been successful with are the ones u barely show an interest to
davidrivers3492 3 years ago 3
i hope this isn't a response to the video itself, bcuz theres a lot more to his selection than this one
iHipHop 3 years ago
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FUCK YOU! AND YOUR DICKLESS OPINION!
NIGGA6669 3 years ago
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My, my, aren't we testy?
I don't give a damn about useless "niggas" like you.
realitywedding 3 years ago
but the funny thing is your boundaries disappear when a 100 dollar bill falls out my pocket
Internetgangstakilla 2 years ago
i swear, you get sexier and sexier every vid i watch . . .
justcrystalle 3 years ago 2
I for one just wanna say thank you Gurl Talkk. I am glad i watched saw video,because i myself have been having problems approaching women, to the point where i got afraid of rejection. i tried taking advice from like every friend i can think of. They always tell me just make them laugh or be this or that. But thanks for puttin down that realness right there.
574woodz 3 years ago
Maybe I'm just mean but I don't really like being approached on the street at all. I just see a dude steppin to me on the streets and think "Don't even" lol. I personally want to meet someone in school or somewhere else that shows interest in something useful=). Lol but thats just me.
BabyGirl908 3 years ago 24
@BabyGirl908 yea and all dudes know this, which is why mostly we just keep moving. Then often when you do date someone, they end up telling you something like "hey why didn't you approach me sooner" or hey we were around each other for months before you approached me what took so long? And the simple answer is because we all know that women have that attitude of not valuing that attention untill its not given. Silly situation really.
rehsa2194 11 months ago
@BabyGirl908 I feel you!! I didn't use 2b like that tho!!. I guess since I'm older tho...the "aye girl, where yo man @, can I go?" lines, are so like, UGH!!!! U kno wut I mean??
81kiema 11 months ago
@BabyGirl908 Makes sense.
ChiTownOnDeck 9 months ago
@BabyGirl908 what? that made no sense wht so ever lol
illuminous09 8 months ago
lies. you feel bad whether you are rejected for any reason.
abobjenkins 3 years ago
When you make any attempt without understanding that failure is more than a real consequence of your attempt... yeah rejection hurts.
ReasonableDoubt4 3 years ago
Uh...........what?
abobjenkins 3 years ago
Real Talk son!!
darkryder2008 3 years ago
lol dat shit was funny
313Key313 3 years ago
I was talking to this woman at a Karioke Club- a black on HOT ONE. We were talking about poetry. And she asked me to kicked something on the spot while someone's on the spot while someone was singing. Well I'm thinking this aint not dog and ponny show. So I told her I'll kick her something later when I called her. She said.."What make you think I'm giving you my number." "It would be foolish for us to have this type of energy between us and not exchange numbers." She was like call me..
Iwilldoyes 3 years ago
Sometimes the best lines are in the FLY.
And yes Success is in the Numbers.
Iwilldoyes 3 years ago
that's on the FLY.
Iwilldoyes 3 years ago
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I approach women with the same thing my dad used to bring me into this world...
mikecockrell 3 years ago
what if the gurl you approach you really have true love for??????
michael100024 3 years ago
Good advice. Thanks for keeping it real and the positive lesson. peace
tdo7125 3 years ago
can you say guru!!!!that was hard ya hoverx3
JjonahDaGr8 3 years ago
Great advice man. The fear of rejection is the biggest obstacle that guys face when trying to meet women. When you get pass being rejected, alot of the nervousness and anxiety that comes with approaching females naturally goes away. Consequently, you'll be more relaxed which will allow you to give a good first impression and increase your chances of being accepted by the girl. Thanks for all of the vids and keep up the good work. By the way, I really like the beat that plays at the end.
tchalla071 3 years ago 3
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GorGeousyetsmart 3 years ago 2
yeah u talkin real talks brotha
BigSkanehundred 3 years ago
hehe this is great, keep it up:)
helen2U 3 years ago
That was a great message man, being who you are all the time and not copy someone else's character or try to be somebody else is always the best way to go. Keep makin em playa..
Yaadman26 3 years ago
When all else fails ( in other words, if you cant think of anything to say), just tell them that they look like someone you know.
i.e.
"Hey do you have a sister named...? No, really? yo look just like..."
"Did you ever go to ... high school? No, really you look just like?
Hey, if nothing else, you ddnt get rejected and you started a small conversation.
guterbol 3 years ago
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BUT you bitches love us anyway ya heard me!!
NIGGA6669 3 years ago
In no way shape or form am i attracted to thugs.some girls just dont want to be bothered being approached. nowadays the majority of dudes are just rude and disrespectful
bj1013 3 years ago
gr8 point about not feeling as bad gettin rejected bein urslef thats all that really matters bein urself in the end anyway
weaponz3545 3 years ago
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How to step to a black woman, lets see, drink a 40 oz, smoke a blunt, sag your pants, get some tats & gold teeth, have 20 inch rims on your car, have 4-5 babies by 4-5 different baby mamas. Once you have that, then just walk up to a sista, and say "yo..whats good shorty"..
Washanen07 4 years ago
Preach young brotha!!!!!!!!!!
Longhornhistorian 3 years ago
Look at his King Mags in the back LOL. I love your channel.
glamaddictdotnet 4 years ago
Wow u are so fucking right!!!!
Dude write a fucking book
cortezfu2 4 years ago
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO this nigga is so funny. "But that's on some whole nother playa shit." LMAO. Your video really boosted up my confidence and made me able to handle rejection. I also like your swag with that closing, "brush off" when shorty is "blind"...nice.
320996903 4 years ago
Its very true that women judge men to quickly. I can personally attest to that. more than a few women developed feelings for me once they took time to know me rather jumping to conclusions
rydar1978 4 years ago
me judge women too quickly. They are just as shallow as women. That Double standard exists everywhere women have it harder. Everyone wants the woman to stand be her man, but it's alright for the man to divorce the wife and leave her with the kids with nothing. A woman cheats, leave her. When the man does it, the woman is told to forgive him.
OutspokenShy 4 years ago
huh, the court system is totally in favor of women. What country you living in where a man can walk out on his WIFE and kids leaving them with nothing? I would like to know cause the court system here in USA is very bias in the FAVOR of WOMEN
rydar1978 4 years ago
maybe involving the issue of custody. Not every woman brings the man to court. There have been many case where women have to start over. Granted, it is her fault she chose to put her life in his hands, but she also thought he would take care of her. That example is what happened long ago, but those women are paying for it now. They are left alone. You only focused on the court system. When I said everywhere I mean worldwide.
OutspokenShy 4 years ago
That is not true. Women around the world want a man with money. People kill me how they try make excuses for their preference instead of stating the truth.
OutspokenShy 4 years ago
*thumbs up* this is the oldest lesson in life: be yourself. You shouldnt want anyone to want anything of you but the REAL you.
chokolytedelite 4 years ago
The black man's guide on how to pick up "fe-ales" (not grown ass "women"):
"Aay bay bay!"
"Ay shawtay lemme holla at you fo a minute!"
"Damn grrrl look at all dat ass! Can I get in dem jeans?!"
BoomSelekta 4 years ago 5
I don't judge on looks alone. If you dress tacky, why should i want u? He was not like that, however, as i said in my comment to you, i was in the process of starting a relationship w/ someone else. That would have been wrong to do to both of them and stupid.
true2daeyes 4 years ago
There's nothing more unattractive than a guy being phony when he approaches me
cocoskin305 4 years ago 3
I like that. This was a great explanation on how to (basically) be human. I know sometimes there's this idea of "I have to be this, or I have to say that". But like u said, either a person will accept u as u are, or not. period.
true2daeyes 4 years ago
You are adorable...so truthful and funny! You have sex-appeal which let me tell u goes ALONG way!!! Not alot of people have it but it is so apparent w/ you!
snowbunnyxiv 4 years ago 6
HOVER?! bwahahah!
herFLYness79 4 years ago 3
Rejection is a good thing. The Best sales people in the world have been rejected more times then they can even count. This is GOOD ADVICE! If the sister rejects you then oh well. Yell NEXT! GOOD ADVICE!
kendrabyrd 4 years ago 5
everything that you are saying about the females is so true!!!
silkk07 4 years ago
u juz making me smarta at how to pik up gurlz...keep up da gud work...
dominicanboy12 4 years ago
You're getting better and better.
mazzoan 4 years ago 3
what you should do is make a vid telling females how to reject these dudes because i have seen soooo many females take it way to far when all buddy did was say something simple like 'hi you looked nice today'...
now this man thinks you and your personality are ugly
Aprylshwrs 4 years ago
great advice plaboy..like alwayz
mrkingjames23 4 years ago
got the little king magazine collection
bo0ogeyWoman 4 years ago
you speaking the truth, where part 2 at,pimp?
Njabulo86 4 years ago
Great advice for the men. Being authentic, respectful and positive (not pushy) is attractive always.
captivatejoy 4 years ago
Be True. No lines, No game, even if u got it. Attraction is the initial motive, so ladies, dont get mad if he says u look nice cuz u would REJECT him if he didnt(look nice).They may word it wrong, but they mean no disrespect. Men, Ask her for her phone number and dont talk too much at first meeting. Make her anticipate your phone call. Get to know her over the phone then set up a date
TinaSoFresh 4 years ago
Also, if you're fake when you meet a girl (or guy), then you'll have to be fake throughout your relationship, should you have one. And that never lasts.
PiratePuppetMelba 4 years ago 7
I reject the men who refer to me as "ma", "shorty",or with some silly sound. My best advice is to be polite and make sure that your personal hygiene is on point (it sounds silly, but you would be surprised how many pieces of gum or mints I have offered to men.)
diamonddoll1008 4 years ago 4
so do you own a charm school or a 7-11 ? just curious
jonpgonzales 4 years ago 2
Actually, my mother had me attend a charm school and one of the things they taught us was to always have mints and gum on hand. It was more for us than for anyone else. I was also a debutante. I'm not sure if your comment was a dig, but there is nothing wrong with expecting a man to have manners and good hygiene. And from the responses and GTV's own video I'm not the only one who thinks those are reasonable expectations either.
diamonddoll1008 4 years ago 4
you just had me laughing thats all. i was just messing with you. altoid?
jonpgonzales 4 years ago
Thank You, I hate when Guy step to me and be like "ayy you look good" and all that nonsense. I would love a guy who would want ot be my friend first.
MixedMami29 4 years ago 2
But even if they say they wanna be friends, would you believe that? Or in the back of your mind would you be saying, this is game, he wants to sleep with me. Men dont wanna be your friend, unless he IS just your friend. And that friend may even wanna be your "Homie-Lover-Friend". And if they are the type of friend you would like, he may not want to make that transition into boyfriend when u want him to. Then u end up putting yourself out there and that aint good.
TinaSoFresh 4 years ago
did you learn all that from those king magazines on your shelf? lmao j/k
thanx for tellin them cause some men are clueless!
yvette404 4 years ago
Lol yea I saw that too! He got the issue with Mya on the cover there. Nice
Jimystic 4 years ago
"I can't help it she's blind" hahaha... I heard that playa...great vid :)
msdrella 4 years ago
"She will, 'huver'". Be yourself and yes, I will huver! Love my some GTTV!
ATLMicki 4 years ago
so true so true.
i just had a guy friggin make the sound people make at cats to me at wal-mart!!!
i was like WTF?!?! are you serious..yea...sure kept it movin from that.
leaving him lookin like the dumdass he was for makin that damn "here kitty kitty" sound.
Ugh!
bestkeptsecret84 4 years ago
good advice....one major thing some females cant stand is the fact that some men greet us with something so ignorant like "wussup ma", "how you doin ma" because were not your mother, greet us with respect or just get rejected.
UniqueTwinz 4 years ago
That's exactly what Mr.T said on Diffrent strokes. That's how I've always been I just be myself I don't try and say nothing slick or cool I just let know what I want and if she down cool if she ain't aw well.
blacktigerwu 4 years ago
I'm so MAD you brought up MR. T, I'm even MADDER you remembered. I actually remember that episode, now that yo mentioned it. LMAO Great Comment!!
GurlTalkkTV 4 years ago
the perfect line is no line at all!
windcu 4 years ago
LOL @ "HOVER!"
This is soo true!
YehDuh 4 years ago
this is the only thing that i can't do is go up young lady or whatever and try to get with her cuz i get nervous just thinking about do it if theydont gofor what i say then it's upsetting cuz every female is one of akind to me
dakingofhearts 4 years ago
thanks for telling the guys not to take it personally whenever a lady rejects them. A lot of the times, it's not really personal. It's just that the particular guy might not be there type, etc...
kbaby1221 4 years ago
Thank you so much. Im making a video about an experience having to do this in about 5 min. Send thins video to every male on youtube! lol
chbbychkzqt 4 years ago
Good advice. And fellas, most of all, be respectful. If she politely turns you down, don't regress and act like a 4-yr old. Politely end the exchange and go your way. Any real woman will appreciate that.
med151 4 years ago 2
My boyfriend is so smart!!! LOL!
Just playing ladies...dont get salty =-)~
Good vid Temple!
leslied81 4 years ago
i totally agree with T. Christian but i also agree with carameldelight. Be you be original at least then the female cant say she didnt get the real first impression she was looking for him to deliver
Pchef07 4 years ago
Very cool. Thanks for telling the fellas just to be them. No flash, no extra excitement, just hey! As always I'm enjoying your vids.
ivibeblk 4 years ago
great vid...think the bottom line of just being yourself and not letting rejection ruin your day works for both sexes
juiceegapeach 4 years ago