I'M NOT IN LOVE - 10cc

[FernandoNINETorres]

62 people havent moved on............haha

[bearyguy1]

be quiet big boys don't cry...be quiet big boys don't cry...

[Catsumi7777]

<3

[TypesALot]

Summer of 1975 - Jaws was the #1 movie and this song was in a Dickie Goodman record! I can be right in the moment when I hear this song! A great time to be alive

[sunnysimms]

I'm not, but I want to be. So many years--the girl is still in there yearning- Song is home strong. <3 <3 Sunny

[utuberine]

@sixchildren100 Not much chance of finding love again if ya kill all of us off.Life throws its curve balls. We all have our ups and downs with the opposite sex, but like entwistle4ever says, find it within yourselves. Partners are not for sucking the life from, or controlling, blaming, but sharing, compassion, understanding. The door swings both ways. The playing field always has two halves.I'd love to meet you in the middle.

[sixchildren100]

@utuberine  Whoaaaaaa it was a JOKE ( hand on my wee angel heart ) brownies honour n stuff like that ( GULP ) i believe in love just not been very lucky lolol btw Sir i KNOW the door swings both ways it just ALWAYS seems to be swinging at me and ME pushing it back guess my exs had NO ( curve ) BALLS EH ? ......Angel ; ) ...

[utuberine]

@sixchildren100 I didn't mean to make you feel bad. Have you considered that all these men who have treated you so, were picked out by you? Were you mistreated when you were young? Molested or beaten. You are worth more. Believe it. Aim high. Don't settle for losers. Go without until someone worthwhile shows up. He will. You are worth that and it shall be so if you believe in yourself.

[sixchildren100]

@utuberine I always will believe in myself FACT...

[sixchildren100]

@utuberine WHOAAAA you kicked my heed in so bad there i got bumps n lumps haha..

[utuberine]

@sixchildren100 Oh come now.

[sixchildren100]

@utuberine Btw i.m so NOT being cheeky here buh are you male OR female ? I was thinking why the swinging doors senario thingy just asking ;D ....Angel ; ) ...

[utuberine]

@sixchildren100 I fail to see how asking what sex I am could be mistaken for cheekinewss. I am sure you are just being polite. I am a normal guy, from NZ livin in California with my wife from here. Life is what I make it. I am capable of blaming the world around me for all kinds of melodramatic self pity, but I do not. What good am I to anybody, including myself, by sabotaging my well being unnecessarily.Optomism comes easier and bears more good than pessimistic doubt filled gloom. Your choice.

[sixchildren100]

@utuberine Yes i WAS being polite i HATE offending precious ppl i just could'nt tell by your pico since you CANT tell if you're male or female noo give me my nose back ? ( please ? ) ....Btw they big fancy words you type i CANT spell em even tho i know what they mean and an OTHER thing i blame NO-ONE buh my self stupidity however i choose to be happy NOT doom n gloom Mr.N.Z.....FACT...

[entwistle4ever]

Don't look for a lifetime of happiness in a man. Find it within yourselves, ladies.

[salchst]

BIG BOYS DON'T CRY. If he's not in love, then WHY IS HE CRYING?

[GodConsciousness]

The middle part reminded me of a funny comment I saw whilst I was searching for the lyrics to this song. Someone anonymously posted that he/she thought for the longest time the lady was saying "Be quiet, requesting quiet, requesting quiet". LOL...I just had to crack up at that not-too-unreasonable notion.

[naposweden]

one of the gretest songs I kow, have so much to remember about the us then time

[Lisajreed]

I always come back to this song....why? what is it?

[gracie10756]

@Lisajreed Maybe you have no social life. I dont know. :D

[calituchi1]

the middle always freaks me out, but besides that I'm in love with this!!! Thanks mom, I blame you for loving this song!!! <3

[beableish]

to bad this band never continued whata waste of talant.

[beableish]

simply the best!

[ShadowsGathered]

This song brings back lovely memories of when I was in my early 20s.

[bolmsp]

nice slide vid ,love to see peeps share feelings n emotions here , that a waii to vent - always

[MEDIOLOKO1]

Gracias por los recuerdos, what a memories

[fishinsolitude]

I was in the military when 10CC came out with this beautiful song.

It's such a smoothing tune, it made some of the rough times much better.

[CrashN2Me1000]

The best "in denial" song ever. ♥♥

[erkiik]

i wish i was not in love

[icouldbecontacted]

Between the chorus of this song , tells it all

[MrJameswildcat]

i cried so much when you left me Melody now your in Texas married to a guy named James. how ironic. i remember all our nites at the lake. watching you slowly walk away knowing i would never see you again. i often wonder how you are hope your well

[melanieburn]

@MrJameswildcat :( xx

[jjp009]

@MrJameswildcat Life is about nothing but loss. Think about it: everything we have, everything we know, everyone and everything we love ...we will lose someday. This is why it isn't worth living.

[gibsg62]

@jjp009 ...for you to love like that...so deeply and with such emotion...tells mE that YOU were givin' a Gift...the Gift of Life...Imagine if YOU never existed...now THat would be a true bummer...did you get to share Love with anyone...you must have because if u had noT then you would not feel such a loss...welcome to the Human condition and Dream good Dreams...Peace my brother !

[gibsg62]

@gibsg62 ...or Peace my sister !!!

[dollyandtoffee]

@jjp009 But that's not it. We're here to learn . Yes every things is rising.. stable..and disband. But are you sure that the 'disband 'thing will not change or transform into another forms. Simply put : donn't we need to look at the thing called 'mind and matter'?

What's the composition of 'life'. Everyone evolve differently according to one's deed.I donn't think that I know the answer to everyting, but at least I am a learner.

[utuberine]

@jjp009 Without pain, we have nothing to strengthen us, or to make a comparison with happiness. . How can you say you have nothing, if there is stuff dear to you worth having, to lose.I was told by my disappearing partner once, by her Mother, its better to have loved and lost than never at all.I could have thrown up on her. However, now I cherish our memories and would not trade the love we felt, just to save my ego a little pain.Its OK to feel bad sometimes. It will pass. You will see.

[MICKJAC08]

I love my beautiful & so very precious wife. You are 'MY MAGICAL TINK' forever, Jacquie xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxxooxoxoxox­oxoxooxooxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo­xoxoxoxoxoxooxoxxoo

[sixchildren100]

@MICKJAC08 WOOOOOOOW thats so beautiful i love it when men show their love for their lady...May you have MANY MANY happy healthy yrs to-gether my friend.....Angel ..

[nicolelg85]

I'm really not in love! its never real love when it fades.. :( disappointment.

[lushvalley]

I'm not in love......DENIAL!

[ChrissieBana]

Who is in love with this song?

[nicolelg85]

@ChrissieBana "im not in love, no no..."

[RobsMusicBox]

@ChrissieBana i am...i leave it for awhile,then always find myself back here again.

if only i can find true Love again...

[GodConsciousness]

@ChrissieBana I'm not in love...except with this song! DUH!!! ;)

[bolerkins]

@ChrissieBana Who's Not in Love with this song?

[TheDxandy]

this music it was theme of brazilian opera soap in 1997 called corpo dourado.

[0200100]

The summer this was out had a beautiful blond girlfriend. She was out of my league.  But left me with fantastic memories of that summer. Hope she is doing well.

[karitomermelada]

jaja keep telling me the same word every time " im not inlove"....but im starting to doubt it :)

[constance163]

I,m listening to this unforgettable song again LOVE 

[MAY777ABLE]

In Divine Love

[lionelthomas101]

a good love making song

[sixchildren100]

@lionelthomas101  Aaaaaah you mean this one ?

[lionelthomas101]

@sixchildren100 yes

[sixchildren100]

@lionelthomas101  Mmm hmm ...

[sixchildren100]

@lionelthomas101 ALL men lie cheat crush you then blame you thankyou for the kind inbox buh onced bitten twiced shy well in my case its zroooooooooooooom thankyou anyway whoever YOU are.......Angel ; )))...

[dollyandtoffee]

@sixchildren100 Men are deceivers ...forever!!! One foot on sea and one on shore.

[sixchildren100]

@dollyandtoffee ALL MEN ? I thought MAYBE i would at least find ONE who was differant no ?

[dollyandtoffee]

@sixchildren100 You're lucky to have found one. MAY BE you are right, not all men. I withdraw my words. In fact I should believe in KARMA, I just understand and accept it. Wonn't hurt though if we're secretly prepared for faults and failings.

[sixchildren100]

@lionelthomas101 Hope ALL is well my friend Tom whoever yu are...Your friend Gerry..shine on ..

[mrrtsno1]

good song

[sixchildren100]

Guess what ??? I dont have a man then again i DONT want OR need one ;D; )))...

[dollyandtoffee]

@sixchildren100 No.. I donn't want one either. Never try to, even when you re full of promises. Some women have certain kind of conducts towards men, but then, you can fall into disillusion without the right answers. You know what I mean? You'll never understand... why you keep on getting it, this disillusionment. That's why I lost faith in men, (I should say--in my experiences).Now I see the 'eyes of truth'---the Ultimate Truth of nature. I hold no grudges to anybody.

[GreatGarloo]

*sigh* met her and we became friends. kept telling myself she didn't mean that much to me that I wasn't in love. after I met her boyfriend it became my mantra: "not in love"

i kept her picture and hid it away a long time ago. the other day I was cleaning and it fell out onto the floor and I got this strange pain inside.

[Bodyskillz2011]

Guess WHAT ?? I DONT HAVE A GIRL :S

[rob4041]

turn your caps off u freckin idiot james

[zchilton333]

@rob4041 lighten up ROB- enjoy the TuNeS DuDe

[craddlefack]

I'm not in love.....but I am. Still in the initial denial phase, but when it's love, it's love. It's the best thing ever.

[ayafujimiya19]

10cc was doing chillwave before it was cool.

[shootonface]

SUMMER OF 75??...

[dahughes44]

time is somethimg I have ....timeless songs are something I miss....

[Tman28666]

Damn, this channel has issues lol.. Good luck to you all, don't worry be happy :)

[shootonface]

@Tman28666 ...THE PLANET IS ONE BIG ISSUE....GOT THAT??

[Tman28666]

@shootonface AND YOU WILL NOT ADDRESS ME IN THAT INSOLENT TONE YOU PEON! lmmfao, who starts shit on youtube honestly??

[don32da]

@hotstuffandicecream

May "God" Bless you and your wife always..........

[DayDreamAscent]

@silicon605 Two words.

Caps.  Lock.

[ches71100]

Zajebiste !

[jenniloureid]

tune

[BobTheWad]

It sounds like someone is experiencing a serious case of denial...lol...

[Gracitagouv]

Evry time i hear this song it makes me laff, cus i fool my self by singin it. Lol...atleast i can laff

[MrJameswildcat]

the song is a reminder that life is too short before you know it it is gone so love to the max and enjoy every day like it was your last tell that special lady that she is special i had one and i let her slip away great song

[STEVEGET]

@MrJameswildcat yep I concur 100%

[hotstuffandicecream]

I met her in college and became best friends. I kept telling myself I am not in love. This summer me and that same best friend will celebrate our 34th year of marriage. Guess What? I was in love and still am!

[seabisquit45]

@hotstuffandicecream Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :)

[waxbobcat]

@hotstuffandicecream congrats.

[BlackdogScratch]

@hotstuffandicecream

Wonderful!!!!



[NegativeNumbers427]

@hotstuffandicecream

Congratulations Friend.

[zchilton333]

@hotstuffandicecream This song is awesome-so seventies and creamy-like.Sounds like the opening song for Portlandia-killer show

[stevensondavid096]

@hotstuffandicecream ...awwwwwww..neat story..makes ME inspired

[funniegangster2jp]

@hotstuffandicecream oh my goodness this is so cute im so happy for the both of you!

[berean111]

@hotstuffandicecream Correct english should be "This summer I and that same best friend... " Where did yuo go to college?

[hotstuffandicecream]

@berean111 Apparently the same college you did. With your spelling of you (yuo) I would say the best 4 years of your life were probably the third grade.

[berean111]

@hotstuffandicecream My mistake was a typo, but your mistake was an example of lack of knowledge.

[rottasta]

@hotstuffandicecream dam men!!! you're very lucky, God bless you and your lady

[cmnishie]

Wow...that's awesome!

[FernandoNINETorres]

@hotstuffandicecream Nice to hear. x

[dollyandtoffee]

@hotstuffandicecream Most lovely, I know many couples like this since my days of colleges and even longer. since the high-school days! They just made for each other! That's why I believe in KARMA.

[TheRanhyn]

Reminds me of summer days and thinking I know what love is, and thinking I love her in some ethereal sense, the music spacing me out????? What am I/he singing/thinking about? someone explain this beautiful and completely mistifying song to me hee hee praps just enjoy the nonsense eh?

[easyriderz45827]

What a great old song it still makes me cry reminds me of my true love at 18 in 1975 Imet her at the truck stop in beaverdam Ohio after our shift was over i met her in the parking lot we sat in her car and talked.Iasked her if she would go out with me and she said yes i was so happy i smiled all the way home. ill never forget you Pat. Ken L:)

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[st1dchef5150]

If I call you dont make a fuss, dont tell your friends. Perfect!

[Pinkyapplebuns]

... it doesn't mean that you mean that much much to me...

[TheIsyth]

Ive always loved this song, but right now it sums me up. I wanted to stay single, to concentrate on my work...then this guy comes along..and I cant get him out of my head. But dont forget it, Im not in love...its because....

[bobbymavrov]

@TheIsyth Never understood the women idea of "concentrating on work". Something that I heard not long time ago and made me feel terrible, that I'm thrown away just because of "work". :)

[maddogwally]

I just came across this song.. Have not heard it in years. It reminds of a time when a girl took me up to her bedroom at her parents house. I think we were about 15.. She wanted to make out. Well I was all for it, right? She but this record on.. And I was like.. What? She was a nice girl but a little wacko.. So I messed around with her, come on.. But it was just kissing and heavy rubbing... We never talked again after that.. Crazy

[Lisajreed]

I.m back....I love this song! I'm not in Love, no no

[VikingHeroe]

LOL!

[dizzyrico]

best version so far -lyrics a out standing and so true.we all have felt this way at some point .ones that have NOT.........will one day

[HarveyMidnight]

See, God? This is what humans do when set to this kind of music. Look through these stories of peoples' lives. See what people are like?

[NForcerSA]

I'm reminded of a woman that I'd fallen deeply in love with name Rebecca Susan Wuerflein when I hear this song. She basically used me for all the best things and wanted nothing to do with me when the tough got going. I tried to show her that I was more than everyone else thought of me, but it never mattered. Now the time has come where it's about me instead of everyone else first.

[hotmn4u]

good song

[Msjessbcuz10]

This song is NOT about a heartbroken man who lost his girlfriend....Its about a guy telling her that basically he just wants her around at HIS convenience..........He's saying to her you will wait a long time so don't get attached.

[ChopJoplGershw]

@Msjessbcuz10 I thought for a long time it was about a guy who was condescending to a girl he thought he could have at his convenience — and yet he really loved her. Now it makes more sense to me as a "sour grapes" rationalization of a guy who badly wants but can't have the girl. "Well, I don't want you anyway!" He's a bad liar!

[Msjessbcuz10]

@ChopJoplGershw Nope, Its definitely about a player who has a girl at his convenience. Been there, done that...even myself at times LMAO

[bonnemaman23]

@Msjessbcuz10 Having been there and done that corroborates the existence of the phenomenon but does nothing to refute that the narrator is rationalizing and adopting the "player" posture ironically. The "player" theory fits the lyrics but not the mood; the "ironic player" theory fits both. And then there's "big boys don't cry." Surely you at least get that he most certainly is in love?

[Msjessbcuz10]

@bonnemaman23 depends on which version you listen too, This the original or the Will to Power version in which the FEMALE sings it. But in either case its still a song about being played...NOW there is some sort of added attachment besides being played but either way, They are not owning up to it nor do they plan to......Find a new love and move on LOL You can't FORCE someone to love you or even admit it for that matter.

[bodhi1961]

@Msjessbcuz10 This is like Mike "The Situation" when he falls in love with a girl. He will try to keep up his player image, but then he rights a soft slow song and sings it to himself.

[Msjessbcuz10]

@bodhi1961 Sorry, Not a fan of Jersey Shore and before those kids existed we called those hair cuts "Gottis" LMAO No it's definitely a guy saying don't get attached LOL

[bodhi1961]

@Msjessbcuz10 Ha Ha lmfao your wrong baha!!! HOLLA!!!

[Msjessbcuz10]

@bodhi1961 Ok Im wrong

[JohnnyDart76]

@Msjessbcuz10: Regardless, it's a damn good song. 

[JohnnyDart76]

@JohnnyDart76: For sure. =) 

[Misty33Blue]

@jonimethfan How was my brief comment redolent of hatred? I merely pointed out that this song has nothing to do with hatred of a woman. Quite the opposite, in fact. I am female, BTW and have read numerous interviews with the writers of this song, so I know what I'm talking about.

[sgmale90]

beautiful song !

[Misty33Blue]

@jonimethfan You just don't get it!! Its about D.E.N.I.A.L.

[filipinobean]

Daft Punk covered this beat..It sounds awesome!

[liz326522]

Amazing, music can be so incredibly powerful. Instantly takes me back to the summer of 75', BEST time ever to be a 17 year old teenager, I might add. Also reminds me of having to let go of my first true love. After a year of thinking we belonged only to each other, I discovered that he belonged to someone else long before we met and still did. Not WANTING to be in love with him any longer, this song fed my denial until I could finally move on. Goosebumps still, whenever I hear this song :)

[goodmemory62]

I heard this song when i was a very young. I didn't have my heart broken, but this words and music are so bautifull that used to make me feel sadly romantic.

[thelilblackduck]

very well done!

[TerrySleeper]

Superb recording.

[angel2rx]

it's just a silly phase am going through...

[briddle2]

When I saw the picture in video that was on the wall, I had to look away, I wasn't privileged enough.

[DayDreamAscent]

For me, this is the most beautiful song ever written.

[rattinox]

This is but one of the many tunes that Forged my Soul. Before the Dark Times, before the Empire........

[KivasDaddy]

@rattinox

Excellent quote!

[TheCharisfulone]

This song is so relaxing!

[Lisajreed]

I come back to hear this song often...memories of when I was a child in the 70"s

[TheMikomakala]

@Lisajreed I'm tracking with you!!! Close your eyes and enjoy! I miss the 70's

[mattdub07]

59 people are still in love.

[willready2]

For all the boys ,who think there has hard has nails , brings out the soft side in me

[PabzGLRP]

Here's hoping I'm not the only one listening to this who hasn't come here to listen to this out of some strange yearning, regret, or guilt. Gotta love that ethereal, air-like ambience to this song.

[2012Mastema]

An Obama ad? Really?  We haven't been punished enough???

[metalheadjase]

I've listened to this gem of a song way to much these last four months. you can guess why. Not my normal stuff im into metal 99.9% of the time.

I first heard this as a child in the 70's

[maplewoodrr2]

@CxRax Read it again you douche bag. This dork makes comments like this, then closes his account. Coward...

[Jaybird0011]

Takes me back...

[fredrik103]

I was the biggest and strongest 20 years ago,beat the gypsies and all,but who is remembring.



[fredrik103]

kayene,eminen,you got nothing on us!!!!!



[peelan2k8]

@Jdem88 heaven with beautiful instrument harmony

[csumjr]

This song has haunted me for decades........Alicia Thompson

[ydnarnosfatsug]

@csumjr haha me to!, Trina Mcord, from Rockford ill

[MeatloafTribute1]

i waited long enough, some say to long!

[MrJoeldenning]

Lush.

[Cromag99]

I'm not in love, yeah right!

[paybacklosers1]

@Cromag99 lol

[globalron]

This is gonna sound corny as hell....but, when I was 17 I lost my first "real" girlfriend to a guy with a corvette. How could no job and a broken bicycle compete with that? Sadly, I lived at home with my parents. Mom suggested I get a job to occupy my thoughts. I "landed" one at a place called Chick Quick...of all names! That did the trick. I was in the back, everyday, cutting chicken into 8 pieces and listening to an old radio. It was Summer, 1975 and this hit song helped me forget and move on.

[SimonByford]

@globalron great story!

[MrJoeldenning]

@globalron My story is similar. My first love left me for an older guy with a car., This song helped me, still does.

[globalron]

@MrJoeldenning - now I'm the older guy with several cars. Haha!