bluedevilx u are really stupid, just because someone is fat does not make them ugly, it all depends on their features, there are plenty skinny gals who are ugly. And why are u judging that woman? maybe she is a good person so someone will love her for sure.
People...this is probably one of the more kind comments I get that I do not post.
I wanted to share an example of someone who does not have a clue, who did not learn anything from watching this video...and is a victim of the stigma.
THIS kind of comment is what people who have herpes are afraid of hearing if they tell others. They are afraid of being ridiculed, others finding out and ostracizing them...
I don't understand why people feel the need to post comments like this beyond the fact they have nothing better to do with their lives than be rude, crude, and ignorant.
You can say what you want, but if a girl tells me she has herpes, it's MY right to decide if I wanna be with her or not. If I say NO to a girl who has herpes, that should be MY right, and it doesn't make me any LESS of a person because I WOULDN'T go out with a woman with herpes!! Personally, I rather have someone who DIDN'T have herpes, thank you very much. If she finds someone who's cool with her having herpes, more power to her!
Well, unless you are 100% certain the person you marry and have sex with is a virgin...there is always a possibility a virgin could get it.
Further, some people do not consider oral sex as sex if there is no penetration...and you can transmit oral herpes to the genital area in this manner.
Many people do not realize that cold sores are in fact oral herpes, and that you can give oral herpes, HSV-1 to a person in their genital region if you perform oral sex on them. This is why HSV-1 is becoming more common in the genitals. Alternately, the virus that causes genital herpes, HSV-2 can be transmitted to your mouth if you go down on someone who has genital herpes, or vice versa.
Not all people who have herpes consider themselves 'victims'. I don't. It's common...with 20-25% of the population having it.
Further, you can get herpes when having protected sex.
I would never ask anyone to feel sorry for me. Hardly. I've been blessed to be able to help educate millions of people through the show, and thousands of people through this video.
I used Valtrex, we used protection, and we were not intimate when I thought I might be having any sort of symptoms. It is possible for someone who has herpes to date another person who does not...and not pass on the virus.
There is always that chance...but for some people, as with my ex-boyfriend, he loved me as I am...and that included my having herpes.
A pregnant woman can pass genital herpes on to her baby, so it's particularly serious during pregnancy. If you get infected near the end of pregnancy, the risk is highest. At least 30% and as many as 50% of newly infected pregnant women give the virus to their babies. For moms who were infected long before delivery, the risk is much lower.
Less than 1% of babies born to mothers with an older genital herpes infection get the virus. And if a woman has an outbreak at delivery, a cesarean deliver is usually done.
I do not post 60% of the comments received here because of how crude and cruel they are... I may make a future video sharing some of these comments...showing examples of the 'stigma'.
I want to note that you should encourage any future partners to get tested before becoming intimate.
I agree that the focus should be shared with HIV/AIDS, given that having herpes(or other sexually transmitted infections) makes a person 3-4 times more likely to acquire HIV in the same sexual situation as compared to someone who does not have an STD.
As for being completely STD free...the only way you can know is to be tested. If you have not been tested, there is a 20-25% chance you may have herpes. So...go get tested to be 100% positive that you don't have herpes.
It's not life threatening in and of itself. But having herpes sores makes it easier for HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, to enter your body. Not only is there an increased risk for getting HIV if you have genital herpes, but having the two diseases together may also make each one worse.
A pregnant woman can pass genital herpes on to her baby, so it's particularly serious during pregnancy. If you get infected near the end of pregnancy, the risk is highest. At least 30% and as many as 50% of newly infected pregnant women give the virus to their babies. For moms who were infected long before delivery, the risk is much lower.
Please feel free to check out the other videos on my YouTube channel that answer common questions about herpes. Doing a search for "Javacat" should get you there.
Please check out my YouTube channel for videos that feature answers to common questions about herpes. If you do a search for javacat...you should find your way there.
Im 16 and just learned last month that herpes and genital warts are non curable!.. And to any1 sayin im wrong im not, its a virus and in the history of the world there has never been a cure for a virus
It really is that big of a deal. The following answer is from WebMD(dot)com.
Having genital herpes can increase the risk of being infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, and it can cause serious problems for people living with HIV.
People who have genital herpes sores are more likely to be infected with HIV during intercourse. When you develop a sore, your immune system tries to heal it, so there are many immune cells concentrated in that spot.
She gets sexually tested b4 entering a relationship and leaving a relationship 2 b responsible,but yet SHE DOESN'T USE PROTECTION WHEN SHE HAS SEX,THAT'S STUPID AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT!
You CAN get herpes, even if a condom is used, I might add. You can have an outbreak in an area not covered by a condom. Using condoms is not 100% fool-proof.
Thank you...but I'm not. Really. I just believe that the best way to make a difference is to educate others. There are things that scare me...but talking about herpes isn't one of them. :)
I don't feel bad for myself. It's not the end of the world, and I am fine. I've been very lucky to meet a lot of people I would not have otherwise met, and this video has helped many people.
Herpes is spread by direct skin to skin contact. Unlike a flu virus that you can get through the air, herpes spreads by direct contact, that is, directly from the site of infection to the site of contact. For example, if you have a cold sore and kiss someone, you can transfer the virus to their mouth.
Similarly, if you have active genital herpes and have vaginal or anal intercourse, you can give your partner genital herpes. Finally, if you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partners genitals (oral sex), you can give your partner genital herpes.
People who have herpes live with the stigma of having herpes...some of which is demonstrated by comments listed on here...the worst comments...I have not posted.
Cold sores ARE herpes. And while having herpes is not the end of the world...it can be emotionally damaging. You DO have to take precautions when involved with future partners. Further, you have to be even more careful to protect yourself, as a person with herpes is at a higher risk of acquiring HIV.
But...I will say that you are right that fear is harmful. There are places out there where people who have herpes can go to meet others. Education is the best tool to help get rid of the stigma and fear...
if so many people have herpes unknowingly, they are also going untreated. So, is treatment for herpes mandatory? I understand treatment can minimize outbreaks and prevent you from spreading it, But if you don't know you have it, and are left untreated, is that dangerous?
I believe testing for herpes SHOULD be mandatory. As mentioned before, so many people have herpes and do not know it...because the symptoms are so mild.
Having herpes makes a person in a much higher risk group for acquiring HIV.
Given the facts, it just makes sense to me...that this test should be part of the battery of tests people get when they go in for their annual physical.
I know the volume is an issue. The feed I taped this off from was a bad feed. As a poor, broke college student, I can't really afford the $30 or so to order a copy directly from them. Perhaps after I save up the $2000 in repairs my car needs...then I might get a better copy. Until then, this is what is. :)
20-25% of the population of the United States...about 74 Million people have herpes. Of that number, 90% do not know they have herpes because the symptoms are so mild.
That is part of the point I am making...herpes can be so mild that you don't have a clue that you don't have a clue that you have it.
I really appreciated this video. More people who are thinking of AIDS need to be aware that there is something more subtle that slips through the cracks sometimes and that is herpes II. I urge everyone who is about to enter a sexual relationship to please go to the nearest STD center and have their partner Tested BEFORE engaging in any sexual contact (including oral sex). Do not take this lightly because the consequences might remain with you for a lifetime.
Thank you BraveHeart92. The only way to work towards eliminating a stigma is to get correct information out there. In order to do that...as well as take responsibility for my healthy...I had to do a whole lot of reading, research, and talking to people who know a whole heck of a lot more than I do.
amsk100, interestingly enough, there are many people who do believe the stigma, that if you have a sexually transmitted infection such as herpes that you are 'dirty'. I discussed this on the show to address that the stigma exists and let people know that herpes is very common and affects MANY people.
Actually, the difference between white women and black women is that African-American women have a higher rate of herpes and HIV in their segment of the population than Caucasian women do. With Black women having a higher rate of herpes in their community, there is also a higher rate of HIV and AIDS.
African Americans represent approximately 50% of those affected by HIV and AIDS. And African American women are nearly 20 times more likely to acquire the deadly virus than white women. Having herpes makes it more three to four times more likely a person may acquire HIV.
Im sorry if what I said was offensive. I was wrong, and I apologize. What you do is great and helpfull, and should be honored not laughed at. I respect that, thanks.
I'm not a fan of the Caucasian race, but the last part of your comment should've stayed in your mind. Persons regardless of race/ethnicity need to speak publicly about STDs and AIDS/HIV to educate those ignorant of the risks of having unprotected or protected sex for that matter.
Please read the whole of the comments section before reacting.
To make myself very clear, my comment that related breaking this down into statistics was specifically related to the following posted comment: "If I had herpes I surely wouldnt go on national TV and profess it to the world..the difference between black and white women! haha"
There are racial factors when it comes to sexually transmitted infections. According to the United States Government Centers For Disease Control and Infection:
Gonorrhea Rates are 30 Times Higher in African Americans than in Caucasians
African-American Women are at High Risk for Genital Herpes
Regardless of race, take responsibility for your sexual health.
thats not a black/white issue, most ppl would be ashamed but it takes a strong person to go on tv and be an example to the world, anyone can get a disease, we all need to be careful
In the short amount of time that was alloted to this subject...no. If you go to my profile page, there are videos that have the most asked questions about herpes, and answers to those questions.
Two things. One, your partner can wear a condom and still give you herpes. The condom only covers a small area of skin. Two, you can also get herpes through oral sex in the genital area. Please check out the videos on my main page that answer questions about herpes for more information.
Having herpes is not the end of the world, and is in fact, very common. Approximately 20-25% of the population has genital herpes, and approximately 60% of the population has oral herpes. Of those that have genital herpes, only 2-2.5% actually know they have it because the symptoms are mild to non-existent, or mistaken for other things.
I highly encourage testing before becoming sexually intimate with a partner, as well as honest and open communication when it comes to discussing sexual health.
I give Kudos to Tyra...there are few news/talk programs that will discuss herpes. Oftentimes when they do, there is an 'agenda' behind the story, promoting negative stigmas about sexually transmitted infections.
In this episode, Tyra provided information to people so they could be knowledgeable about their sexual health and to protect themselves. Yes, they did a bit of the 'scare 'em' stuff...that's the nature of the beast when discussing this subject.
Yes. If you have an active lesion, you can possibly transmit herpes through a break in the skin. Alternately, you can have the virus present, asymptomatic shedding, and not have symptoms present. If you have concerns about passing herpes on to anther person, please speak to your physician about treatments that will limit your outbreaks.
I'm glad. At the end of the video is the web address for the American Social Health Association. You can find a listing of support/social groups at their site where you can meet people who may help you even more. Best wishes.
Very common...with 20-25% of the population having genital herpes (HSV2), and approximately 60% of the population having oral herpes (HSV1). I would encourage you to get tested, because it's always possible you have herpes, but do not have symptoms, or the symptoms may be so mild you might mistake them for something else.
Women AND men need to take care of themselves and take control of their sexual health. This means not taking someone at their word. A person might not know they have herpes. Alternately, a person might know, but be afraid to tell.
Truth be told, the only person who can protect you from acquiring a sexually transmitted infection is yourself. Do not be embarrassed to bring the subject up. Acquiring a sexually transmitted infection can change your life forever.
Wearing a condom does not guarantee that the person using the condom will not get herpes. A condom only protects a small area of skin. Herpes lesion/asymptomatic shedding can happen anywhere in area where a person might wear shorts.
Protection was used in my instance, and I have a male friend(who I asked for permission to use as an example) who acquired herpes, even though he was wearing a condom, in an area not covered by the condom. A female friend (whom was also asked to be used as an anonymous example), gets her lesions on her inner thigh.
I am providing these examples to show that herpes can be acquired even when using a condom, and to encourage people to talk with their partner and get tested for sexually transmitted infections before becoming sexually involved.
If your test comes back positive, check out the links at the end of this video, as well as the other videos I have posted about herpes, questions and answers, information about free/low cost medication.
i totally agree with you. when it comes to haveing sex,you should ask your partner if they been tested if they say no and you dont trust them somethings wrong there.
That is one of the dumbest things I heard in my life. Just because you and your mate test negative for STIs does not mean they are faithful. Don't be a fool.
"If you both test negative for any STI's and you are in a monogamous relationship...it is a couple's personal choice as to what they choose to do. Having said that...TRUST is a large component. You have to trust that the person you are seeing will be monogamous, and vice versa."
No one can guarantee the ability of a partner to be faithful. Nor was I suggesting of the sort. That is where building a relationship through getting to know each other, faith, and trust comes in. Life carries no guarantees...which is why you must be responsible for your sexual health.
There are so many misperceptions about what herpes is, the only way to fight the stigma is through knowledge of the facts and a willingness to both share what I know and direct people to where they can find support and information.
For more information on herpes, you can watch the new videos I've uploaded, a series of three videos titled 'Herpes Q&A'. Two of the videos have answers to most commonly asked questions, and the third video offers information about medication assistance programs.
Many people do not realize that cold sores are in fact oral herpes, and that you can give oral herpes, HSV-1 to a person in their genital region if you perform oral sex on them. This is why HSV-1 is becoming more common in the genitals. Alternately, the virus that causes genital herpes, HSV-2 can be transmitted to your mouth if you go down on someone who has genital herpes, or vice versa.
Unfortunately, when infants do contract neonatal herpes, the results can be tragic. About half of infants who are treated with antiviral medication escape permanent damage. But others may suffer serious neurological damage, mental retardation or death. It's fear of these terrible consequences, rather than the level of risk, that makes neonatal herpes a concern.
To put this in greater perspective, an estimated 20-25% of pregnant women have genital herpes, while less than 0.1% of babies contract an infection. "Neonatal herpes is a remarkably rare event", says Zane Brown, MD, an expert on neonatal herpes and a member of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Washington. "Compared to all the other possible risks in a pregnancy, the risk of neonatal herpes is extremely small."
The following information is from herpes(dot)com: Neonatal herpes is not a reportable disease in most states, so there are no hard statistics on the number of cases nationwide. However, most researchers estimate between 1,000 and 3,000 cases a year in the United States, out of a total of 4 million births.
With genital herpes, the symptoms are, 'down there', and many people associate persons having a sexually transmitted disease as sexually irresponsible or promiscuous.
Though there are possible complications from having herpes, one of the most devastating effects can be the stigma of having herpes.
The rest of this answer is from a website that is no longer available for viewing on the internet: A survery conducted by the American Social Health Association found that 28% of people who contract genital Herpes have considered suicide as a result.
Psychological symptoms that accompany HSV infection are as large and substantial as the physical. Symptoms for primary infections range from confusion, denial, anger, hostility, withdrawal, and severe depression to guilt, shame, fear, a sense of immeasurable loss, resentment, and retaliation. Many people with Herpes become socially isolated. For many, the fear of transmitting the virus to another can lead to avoidance of relationships.
There is a real and very deep social stigma attached to genital Herpes. Many people after discovering they've acquired herpes are very much at a loss as to how to cope, feeling very lost and alone. People who contract HSV may at some point or another begin to face deep intimacy hesitancy, feelings of vulnerability, a sense of being "dirtied or disgraced," or a general state of "unworthy of being loved."
These feelings usually ease with time, management of outbreaks, and acceptance. Discussion with a close friend, family member, support group, or professional counselor can also be very helpful in alleviating these feelings.
In a person who has an immune system that is not compromised, having herpes in and of itself is not life-threatening.
Having a positive herpes diagnosis can cause a person great emotional distress. Some people have more severe outbreaks than others, and those outbreaks can be physically debilitating. I can not personally answer how often persons have severe symptoms.
Remember, 20-25% of the population has herpes, and of that, approximately 2-2.5% actually know they have herpes. Approximately 90% of people who have herpes do not know because their symptoms are mild to nonexistent.
Possible complications from having herpes include the following: Herpes Encephalitis, neonatal herpes, and ocular herpes.
Herpes does not directly lead to having HIV no matter how long you have had herpes. However, if you have an active outbreak of herpes, you are three to five times more likely to acquire the HIV virus as compared to someone without HIV in the same sexual circumstances.
The following answer if from famvir(dot)com: People who have genital herpes are twice as likely to acquire HIV than those who don't have the virus. Fifty-two percent of sexually transmitted HIV infections among people who also have herpes simplex virus type 2 can be attributed to infection with the herpes virus. This is because genital herpes and HIV can both be transmitted sexually.
nswer from famvir(dot)com: During a genital herpes outbreak, CD4 cells, which fight against the herpes infection, are found at the base of a herpes sore. CD4 cells are the main cells attacked by HIV. Therefore, if you are exposed to HIV during sexual contact and you have genital herpes sores, HIV can find an easy entry into your body.
Up to 95% of people who have HIV are infected with herpes simplex virus type 1, herpes simplex virus type 2, or both.
Having herpes can make you more vulnerable to HIV transmission if you sleep with someone who is HIV positive. Therefore, wear a condom always, herpes or not.
You are correct, through this has been previously discussed in the comments. Thank you for taking the time to bring up this very important point again.
No cure for herpes.....no cure for aids.....no cure for cancer. I'm sure the pharmaceuticals absolutely love that. I personally feel there is a cure for many of these "diseases".....including HIV/Aids.
I agree. It's interesting how we have technology available to send people into space for months at a time, but nothing to cure so many of the STD's out.
I guess the message is "don't have sex". Infected or not; it's the only way to save humanity.
I don't entirely disagree. I wish more money and attention was being put forth towards finding a herpes 'cure'.
What I do disagree with is the "don't have sex" part. Talk history THEN you can practice biology. Go get tested for all STI's before becoming sexually intimate. If you have something, get treated.
If you both test negative for any STI's and you are in a monogamous relationship...it is a couple's personal choice as to what they choose to do. Having said that...TRUST is a large component. You have to trust that the person you are seeing will be monogamous, and vice versa.
Though I agree with being aware of the risks out there, to me this is another fear tactic. "I used a condom, but I got herpes anyway" discourages people from having sex. Period. If you're at risk whether you use protection or not, what's the point of having sex, even if it's simply to reproduce?
Will 2010 begin the decade where we artificially inseminate pregnancy, just to " be safe from all STD's". Cause that's where it's heading it seems...
The truth is, a condom only protects a small area of skin, and that a person can have a herpes outbreak anywhere in the region where a person might wear shorts.
This is why I always suggest people discuss history before practicing biology, meaning that you should talk about your sexual history and get tested for STI's before becoming sexually involved with another person.
I'm one of the few people who never though a condom would protect you from anything. That's why I haven't slept with anyone in well over seven years...and counting.
Jesus. Now I feel like everyone has the herpes. On the good side for the cause: it does make one want to get tested. On the bad side: I fear it may be more likely than not I have the herpes.
The symptoms are so mild, you can have herpes and not know it.
So why not TALK about it? The statistics range from 1 in 4 to 1 in 5 people have herpes. Go to your family reunion, a concert, the grocery store, the Oscars ceremonies...look around...and realize that approximately 20-25% of the people there have herpes, and 90% do not know it!
Using condoms do not guarantee safety. The herpes sore or lesion is not always located in an area covered by the condom. Further, you could have oral sex with someone who has a cold sore (HSV-1, Oral herpes), and get herpes in the genital area that way as well.
Just because someone does not have a visible sore does not necessarily mean that they do not have herpes or that they are not having an outbreak. You can have viral shedding, where the virus is on the skin, but you are not having an actual outbreak. Also, as mentioned in the video, symptoms can be mistaken for an ingrown hair, a pimple, etc...,.
whats viral shedding?... Also if your not having an outbreak can it still be passed to another person via sex or oral sex? Or do you have to be having an outbreak to share it with others? I dont have it.. but im a health freak lol
The following answer is from goaskalice(dot)columbia(dot)edu: The herpes virus makes its home in the nerve cells of an infected person. At times, the virus creeps along the nerves up to the surface of the skin. This process is called "viral shedding," or just "shedding."
During shedding, the virus can be passed on to others by direct skin-to-skin contact, especially from anal, oral, or vaginal sex. Sometimes shedding is accompanied by symptoms, such as the characteristic herpes blisters. But sometimes shedding occurs without any noticeable symptoms; this is referred to as "asymptomatic shedding."
Precisely because there aren't any obvious symptoms or sensations when a person is experiencing asymptomatic shedding, it's virtually impossible to tell when s/he is contagious. Consequently, the majority of herpes transmission — up to 70 percent — occurs during periods without any evident symptoms, when intimate or sexual contact may be more frequent.
However, if herpes blisters are present, shedding is definitely taking place and precautions need to be taken, such as temporarily avoiding intimate or sexual contact with others, to prevent spreading the virus.
Because asymptomatic shedding is invisible to the naked eye, exactly how often it occurs is hard to pin down. Researchers, however, estimate that shedding (both with and without symptoms) occurs on between 20 and 40 percent of days in the first six months after initial infection and on 5 to 20 percent of days after this time. Studies have also found that 50 percent of asymptomatic shedding occurs in the 7 days before and after an outbreak with noticeable symptoms.
Because the frequency of these obvious outbreaks is highly variable, it is likely that the frequency of asymptomatic shedding also varies from person to person. But regardless of how often it happens, all people carrying the herpes virus experience periods of shedding at one time or another.
Although keeping close track of contagious periods is practically impossible, medications are available that greatly reduce shedding and therefore substantially lower the risk of herpes transmission. Individuals who are considering taking medicine to decrease (but not eliminate) the risk of passing herpes on to others should discuss this option with their health care provider.
The above was from AskAlice(dot)com. The following is from me...you can take antiviral medication and greatly reduce the amount of asymptomatic shedding you experience.
A person with herpes can be in a relationship with a person who does not have herpes and not transmit the virus if proper precautions are taken, such as using protection, taking antiviral medication, and not having sex when you suspect you may be having an outbreak.
I would recommend getting tested, as you and have herpes and not know it. If you do not have herpes, great!
My recommendation is then...to talk history before practicing biology.
Difficult as it may be, you have to talk about your sexual history and get tested BEFORE becoming sexually intimate with someone. It's for your protection.
bluedevilx u are really stupid, just because someone is fat does not make them ugly, it all depends on their features, there are plenty skinny gals who are ugly. And why are u judging that woman? maybe she is a good person so someone will love her for sure.
monas 3 years ago
People...this is probably one of the more kind comments I get that I do not post.
I wanted to share an example of someone who does not have a clue, who did not learn anything from watching this video...and is a victim of the stigma.
javacat 3 years ago
THIS kind of comment is what people who have herpes are afraid of hearing if they tell others. They are afraid of being ridiculed, others finding out and ostracizing them...
javacat 3 years ago
I don't understand why people feel the need to post comments like this beyond the fact they have nothing better to do with their lives than be rude, crude, and ignorant.
javacat 3 years ago
I admire her a lot, she is very brave to come forward about it.
marius95 4 years ago 17
Great job JC!
onetraveler 4 years ago 6
She is so brave to get up and talk about this on national television
rokyourbody 4 years ago 9
You can say what you want, but if a girl tells me she has herpes, it's MY right to decide if I wanna be with her or not. If I say NO to a girl who has herpes, that should be MY right, and it doesn't make me any LESS of a person because I WOULDN'T go out with a woman with herpes!! Personally, I rather have someone who DIDN'T have herpes, thank you very much. If she finds someone who's cool with her having herpes, more power to her!
autismpete 4 years ago
omg stigma..
legit4ya 4 years ago
Well, unless you are 100% certain the person you marry and have sex with is a virgin...there is always a possibility a virgin could get it.
Further, some people do not consider oral sex as sex if there is no penetration...and you can transmit oral herpes to the genital area in this manner.
javacat 4 years ago
Perhaps it was the lighting, or her eyes were dry... Who knows.
I just appreciate that she was wonderful and discussed this topic to help educate people. :)
javacat 4 years ago
Thanks for your comment! :)
javacat 4 years ago
We had a lot of information to fit in during the six or so minutes I was alloted.
In YouTube's search box, type in Javacat and you'll see other informational videos I've made that will answer your questions.
javacat 4 years ago
Either type of the virus can reside in either area of the body, on it's own, or together, and infect orally and/or genitally.
In other words, you can have HSV-1, generally associated with cold sores/oral herpes genitally, and HSV-2 orally.
javacat 4 years ago
Yes.
Many people do not realize that cold sores are in fact oral herpes, and that you can give oral herpes, HSV-1 to a person in their genital region if you perform oral sex on them. This is why HSV-1 is becoming more common in the genitals. Alternately, the virus that causes genital herpes, HSV-2 can be transmitted to your mouth if you go down on someone who has genital herpes, or vice versa.
javacat 4 years ago
What I would ask is that people get tested, become educated about what herpes is and is not...and realize that it could just as easily happen to you.
Before you are judgmental and condescending towards others with herpes...go get tested and make sure you don't already have it.
javacat 4 years ago
Not all people who have herpes consider themselves 'victims'. I don't. It's common...with 20-25% of the population having it.
Further, you can get herpes when having protected sex.
I would never ask anyone to feel sorry for me. Hardly. I've been blessed to be able to help educate millions of people through the show, and thousands of people through this video.
javacat 4 years ago
I used Valtrex, we used protection, and we were not intimate when I thought I might be having any sort of symptoms. It is possible for someone who has herpes to date another person who does not...and not pass on the virus.
There is always that chance...but for some people, as with my ex-boyfriend, he loved me as I am...and that included my having herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
I have only had one person in the almost seven years I've had herpes decline to continue dating after I told him. And that is okay.
I am recently out of a long-term relationship with a man who did not (and still does not) have herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
Not really.
This video has made a difference in the lives of thousands of people, and the show has educated millions of people.
There are a whole lot of people who have herpes around the United States I would never have met, friends I would not have otherwise made.
javacat 4 years ago
A pregnant woman can pass genital herpes on to her baby, so it's particularly serious during pregnancy. If you get infected near the end of pregnancy, the risk is highest. At least 30% and as many as 50% of newly infected pregnant women give the virus to their babies. For moms who were infected long before delivery, the risk is much lower.
javacat 4 years ago
Less than 1% of babies born to mothers with an older genital herpes infection get the virus. And if a woman has an outbreak at delivery, a cesarean deliver is usually done.
javacat 4 years ago
Good for you on going out and getting tested!
I do not post 60% of the comments received here because of how crude and cruel they are... I may make a future video sharing some of these comments...showing examples of the 'stigma'.
I want to note that you should encourage any future partners to get tested before becoming intimate.
Thank you for posting your comment!
javacat 4 years ago
I agree that the focus should be shared with HIV/AIDS, given that having herpes(or other sexually transmitted infections) makes a person 3-4 times more likely to acquire HIV in the same sexual situation as compared to someone who does not have an STD.
javacat 4 years ago
As for being completely STD free...the only way you can know is to be tested. If you have not been tested, there is a 20-25% chance you may have herpes. So...go get tested to be 100% positive that you don't have herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
CAN HERPES KILL U?
VietPro12121 4 years ago
The following answer comes from WebMD(dot)com
It's not life threatening in and of itself. But having herpes sores makes it easier for HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, to enter your body. Not only is there an increased risk for getting HIV if you have genital herpes, but having the two diseases together may also make each one worse.
javacat 4 years ago
A pregnant woman can pass genital herpes on to her baby, so it's particularly serious during pregnancy. If you get infected near the end of pregnancy, the risk is highest. At least 30% and as many as 50% of newly infected pregnant women give the virus to their babies. For moms who were infected long before delivery, the risk is much lower.
javacat 4 years ago
really bad audio
0dour 4 years ago
I know...the audio feed was a bad one. This is the best I could do. Sorry!
Just turn up your speaker... :)
javacat 4 years ago
Can you get cold sores without getting Herpes?
crazycaz1234 4 years ago
Cold sores ARE herpes.
Please feel free to check out the other videos on my YouTube channel that answer common questions about herpes. Doing a search for "Javacat" should get you there.
javacat 4 years ago
Cold sores ARE herpes.
Please check out my YouTube channel for videos that feature answers to common questions about herpes. If you do a search for javacat...you should find your way there.
javacat 4 years ago
Im 16 and just learned last month that herpes and genital warts are non curable!.. And to any1 sayin im wrong im not, its a virus and in the history of the world there has never been a cure for a virus
Resi12 4 years ago
Thank you for posting this.
mitsk2002 4 years ago
You're welcome. :)
javacat 4 years ago
well, if it is so minor that 90% of the people that HAVE it don't even know, is it really that big of a deal?
neogeon 4 years ago
It really is that big of a deal. The following answer is from WebMD(dot)com.
Having genital herpes can increase the risk of being infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, and it can cause serious problems for people living with HIV.
People who have genital herpes sores are more likely to be infected with HIV during intercourse. When you develop a sore, your immune system tries to heal it, so there are many immune cells concentrated in that spot.
javacat 4 years ago
Those are the cells that HIV infects. If HIV in semen, vaginal fluid, or blood comes in contact with a herpes sore, the risk for infection is high.
javacat 4 years ago
She gets sexually tested b4 entering a relationship and leaving a relationship 2 b responsible,but yet SHE DOESN'T USE PROTECTION WHEN SHE HAS SEX,THAT'S STUPID AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT!
magpie375 4 years ago
I state in the video that protection was used.
Please pay attention. :)
You CAN get herpes, even if a condom is used, I might add. You can have an outbreak in an area not covered by a condom. Using condoms is not 100% fool-proof.
javacat 4 years ago
damn shez brave
tycarsonn 4 years ago
Thank you...but I'm not. Really. I just believe that the best way to make a difference is to educate others. There are things that scare me...but talking about herpes isn't one of them. :)
javacat 4 years ago
aww i feel bad for her.
ElizaSpinelli 4 years ago
Thanks...but please don't.
I don't feel bad for myself. It's not the end of the world, and I am fine. I've been very lucky to meet a lot of people I would not have otherwise met, and this video has helped many people.
javacat 4 years ago
can men get that kind of virus too?
not0mrh 4 years ago
Yes.
javacat 4 years ago
TyRa keeps it real!!
wondabread25 4 years ago
omg now im SOO scared of getting it.
can u get it from toilets/bathrooms/germs/dorm showers and stuff?
or is it just from a person who had sex/sexual acts with some1 who had herpes
kclark89 4 years ago
It is highly unlikely that you could get herpes from a toilet or any of the other things you have listed.
The following answer is from herpes(dot)com:
javacat 4 years ago
Herpes is spread by direct skin to skin contact. Unlike a flu virus that you can get through the air, herpes spreads by direct contact, that is, directly from the site of infection to the site of contact. For example, if you have a cold sore and kiss someone, you can transfer the virus to their mouth.
javacat 4 years ago
Similarly, if you have active genital herpes and have vaginal or anal intercourse, you can give your partner genital herpes. Finally, if you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partners genitals (oral sex), you can give your partner genital herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
Wow...yeah health is nothing to play around with..its important to know your status...scary but important
virunime 4 years ago 21
Between 1 out of 5 and 1 out of 8 people have Herpes, it really is common! The most harmful symptom: Fear.
If you think you might have caught it, don't stress! Its no more damaging than coldsores! :)
christoiwas 4 years ago
Let me correct you on your statistics...
Between 1 in four to 1 in five people have genital herpes. It has been estimated 60-90% of all people have oral herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
The most harmful thing is...the stigma.
People who have herpes live with the stigma of having herpes...some of which is demonstrated by comments listed on here...the worst comments...I have not posted.
javacat 4 years ago
Cold sores ARE herpes. And while having herpes is not the end of the world...it can be emotionally damaging. You DO have to take precautions when involved with future partners. Further, you have to be even more careful to protect yourself, as a person with herpes is at a higher risk of acquiring HIV.
javacat 4 years ago
But...I will say that you are right that fear is harmful. There are places out there where people who have herpes can go to meet others. Education is the best tool to help get rid of the stigma and fear...
javacat 4 years ago
if so many people have herpes unknowingly, they are also going untreated. So, is treatment for herpes mandatory? I understand treatment can minimize outbreaks and prevent you from spreading it, But if you don't know you have it, and are left untreated, is that dangerous?
hushpuppy316 4 years ago
Treatment for herpes is not mandatory.
I believe testing for herpes SHOULD be mandatory. As mentioned before, so many people have herpes and do not know it...because the symptoms are so mild.
Having herpes makes a person in a much higher risk group for acquiring HIV.
javacat 4 years ago
Given the facts, it just makes sense to me...that this test should be part of the battery of tests people get when they go in for their annual physical.
javacat 4 years ago
i know
iiheartrelientk 4 years ago
the colume is tooooo low
TathiWitch 4 years ago
I know the volume is an issue. The feed I taped this off from was a bad feed. As a poor, broke college student, I can't really afford the $30 or so to order a copy directly from them. Perhaps after I save up the $2000 in repairs my car needs...then I might get a better copy. Until then, this is what is. :)
javacat 4 years ago
I really loved the way you talked about Herpes on the show. Couldn't have been better done. ;)
ashantifan1224 4 years ago 20
it's scary how dangerous sex is these days. not that you'll die, but you can get disgusting sores all over your genitals. :(
musicfan99999 4 years ago
Not necessarily.
20-25% of the population of the United States...about 74 Million people have herpes. Of that number, 90% do not know they have herpes because the symptoms are so mild.
That is part of the point I am making...herpes can be so mild that you don't have a clue that you don't have a clue that you have it.
javacat 4 years ago
I really appreciated this video. More people who are thinking of AIDS need to be aware that there is something more subtle that slips through the cracks sometimes and that is herpes II. I urge everyone who is about to enter a sexual relationship to please go to the nearest STD center and have their partner Tested BEFORE engaging in any sexual contact (including oral sex). Do not take this lightly because the consequences might remain with you for a lifetime.
lettherebevideos 4 years ago 67
yeah, many ppl makeout with countless ppl, without thinking of the risk they are taking, herpes can strike...
FamilyGuyRockz2009 4 years ago
topballa22, Thank you! Please check out my profile page for other informative videos about herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
tyra banks is so pretty
chiyo408 4 years ago 20
Wow, javacat, you're so informative.
BraveHeart92 4 years ago 4
Thank you BraveHeart92. The only way to work towards eliminating a stigma is to get correct information out there. In order to do that...as well as take responsibility for my healthy...I had to do a whole lot of reading, research, and talking to people who know a whole heck of a lot more than I do.
javacat 4 years ago
"people that are dirty, prostitutes, drug addicts" -- way to address the stigma of STDs!
amsk100 4 years ago
amsk100, interestingly enough, there are many people who do believe the stigma, that if you have a sexually transmitted infection such as herpes that you are 'dirty'. I discussed this on the show to address that the stigma exists and let people know that herpes is very common and affects MANY people.
javacat 4 years ago
u can get herpes weither you have safe sex or not. U can get it from kissing also. a lot of people have it in their blood and dont even know it...
FunkDaHouse 4 years ago
Informative. Thx for posting this up javacat. Better be safe than sorry.
aisya666 4 years ago
If I had herpes I surely wouldnt go on national TV and profess it to the world..the difference between black and white women! haha
ZenannM 4 years ago
Actually, the difference between white women and black women is that African-American women have a higher rate of herpes and HIV in their segment of the population than Caucasian women do. With Black women having a higher rate of herpes in their community, there is also a higher rate of HIV and AIDS.
javacat 4 years ago
African Americans represent approximately 50% of those affected by HIV and AIDS. And African American women are nearly 20 times more likely to acquire the deadly virus than white women. Having herpes makes it more three to four times more likely a person may acquire HIV.
javacat 4 years ago
It's not a matter of race/color, but rather taking responsibility for your sexual health.
javacat 4 years ago
Im sorry if what I said was offensive. I was wrong, and I apologize. What you do is great and helpfull, and should be honored not laughed at. I respect that, thanks.
ZenannM 4 years ago
Thank You, ZeannM...it takes a very big person to apologize. I respect that, and I respect you for taking the time to apologize.
javacat 4 years ago
I'm not a fan of the Caucasian race, but the last part of your comment should've stayed in your mind. Persons regardless of race/ethnicity need to speak publicly about STDs and AIDS/HIV to educate those ignorant of the risks of having unprotected or protected sex for that matter.
MaddyMill 4 years ago
Please read the whole of the comments section before reacting.
To make myself very clear, my comment that related breaking this down into statistics was specifically related to the following posted comment: "If I had herpes I surely wouldnt go on national TV and profess it to the world..the difference between black and white women! haha"
javacat 4 years ago
There are racial factors when it comes to sexually transmitted infections. According to the United States Government Centers For Disease Control and Infection:
Gonorrhea Rates are 30 Times Higher in African Americans than in Caucasians
African-American Women are at High Risk for Genital Herpes
Regardless of race, take responsibility for your sexual health.
javacat 4 years ago
thats not a black/white issue, most ppl would be ashamed but it takes a strong person to go on tv and be an example to the world, anyone can get a disease, we all need to be careful
dnb200 4 years ago 16
I am sure Tyra could answer all the questions you might have about herpes.
girl123interrupted 4 years ago
In the short amount of time that was alloted to this subject...no. If you go to my profile page, there are videos that have the most asked questions about herpes, and answers to those questions.
javacat 4 years ago
Two things. One, your partner can wear a condom and still give you herpes. The condom only covers a small area of skin. Two, you can also get herpes through oral sex in the genital area. Please check out the videos on my main page that answer questions about herpes for more information.
javacat 4 years ago
Having herpes is not the end of the world, and is in fact, very common. Approximately 20-25% of the population has genital herpes, and approximately 60% of the population has oral herpes. Of those that have genital herpes, only 2-2.5% actually know they have it because the symptoms are mild to non-existent, or mistaken for other things.
javacat 4 years ago
I highly encourage testing before becoming sexually intimate with a partner, as well as honest and open communication when it comes to discussing sexual health.
javacat 4 years ago
lol- "herpes is no joke"... yeah, thanks for the news flash, tyra.
javafiend 4 years ago
I give Kudos to Tyra...there are few news/talk programs that will discuss herpes. Oftentimes when they do, there is an 'agenda' behind the story, promoting negative stigmas about sexually transmitted infections.
javacat 4 years ago
In this episode, Tyra provided information to people so they could be knowledgeable about their sexual health and to protect themselves. Yes, they did a bit of the 'scare 'em' stuff...that's the nature of the beast when discussing this subject.
javacat 4 years ago
Still...she covered this topic. I wish other shows would cover this topic as well.
javacat 4 years ago
if you kiss someone and you have oral herpes, can you spead it?
is there a way to not spread it? like if you not on ur outbreak?
TasteyCookies 4 years ago
Yes. If you have an active lesion, you can possibly transmit herpes through a break in the skin. Alternately, you can have the virus present, asymptomatic shedding, and not have symptoms present. If you have concerns about passing herpes on to anther person, please speak to your physician about treatments that will limit your outbreaks.
javacat 4 years ago
Please check out the other videos on my page that answer questions about herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
wow, i should really show one of my friends this, she has it treats herpes like its no big thing,a joke!! its not a joke it is a big thing!!
animebunny5 4 years ago
I'm glad. At the end of the video is the web address for the American Social Health Association. You can find a listing of support/social groups at their site where you can meet people who may help you even more. Best wishes.
javacat 4 years ago
When I was first diagnosed, I had more than chills...so I understand how you feel.
It's not the end of the world, and it hasn't been the end of mine.
javacat 4 years ago
Very common...with 20-25% of the population having genital herpes (HSV2), and approximately 60% of the population having oral herpes (HSV1). I would encourage you to get tested, because it's always possible you have herpes, but do not have symptoms, or the symptoms may be so mild you might mistake them for something else.
javacat 4 years ago
Women AND men need to take care of themselves and take control of their sexual health. This means not taking someone at their word. A person might not know they have herpes. Alternately, a person might know, but be afraid to tell.
javacat 4 years ago
Truth be told, the only person who can protect you from acquiring a sexually transmitted infection is yourself. Do not be embarrassed to bring the subject up. Acquiring a sexually transmitted infection can change your life forever.
javacat 4 years ago
Wearing a condom does not guarantee that the person using the condom will not get herpes. A condom only protects a small area of skin. Herpes lesion/asymptomatic shedding can happen anywhere in area where a person might wear shorts.
javacat 4 years ago
Protection was used in my instance, and I have a male friend(who I asked for permission to use as an example) who acquired herpes, even though he was wearing a condom, in an area not covered by the condom. A female friend (whom was also asked to be used as an anonymous example), gets her lesions on her inner thigh.
javacat 4 years ago
I am providing these examples to show that herpes can be acquired even when using a condom, and to encourage people to talk with their partner and get tested for sexually transmitted infections before becoming sexually involved.
javacat 4 years ago
OMG. Going to get tested this weekend.
spunsugar2002 4 years ago
If your test comes back positive, check out the links at the end of this video, as well as the other videos I have posted about herpes, questions and answers, information about free/low cost medication.
javacat 4 years ago
i totally agree with you. when it comes to haveing sex,you should ask your partner if they been tested if they say no and you dont trust them somethings wrong there.
vrgn48 4 years ago
Herpes is herpes......HSV-1 or HSV-2 can affect any part of the body.
longlivethe80s 4 years ago
That is one of the dumbest things I heard in my life. Just because you and your mate test negative for STIs does not mean they are faithful. Don't be a fool.
john2124 4 years ago
What I said was:
"If you both test negative for any STI's and you are in a monogamous relationship...it is a couple's personal choice as to what they choose to do. Having said that...TRUST is a large component. You have to trust that the person you are seeing will be monogamous, and vice versa."
javacat 4 years ago
No one can guarantee the ability of a partner to be faithful. Nor was I suggesting of the sort. That is where building a relationship through getting to know each other, faith, and trust comes in. Life carries no guarantees...which is why you must be responsible for your sexual health.
javacat 4 years ago
Whoa you know a lot of info.
Beautifulmusicfan161 4 years ago
There are so many misperceptions about what herpes is, the only way to fight the stigma is through knowledge of the facts and a willingness to both share what I know and direct people to where they can find support and information.
javacat 4 years ago
For more information on herpes, you can watch the new videos I've uploaded, a series of three videos titled 'Herpes Q&A'. Two of the videos have answers to most commonly asked questions, and the third video offers information about medication assistance programs.
javacat 4 years ago
Either type of the virus can reside in either area of the body, on it's own, or together, and infect orally and/or genitally.
In other words, you can have HSV-1, generally associated with cold sores/oral herpes genitally, and HSV-2 orally.
javacat 4 years ago
Many people do not realize that cold sores are in fact oral herpes, and that you can give oral herpes, HSV-1 to a person in their genital region if you perform oral sex on them. This is why HSV-1 is becoming more common in the genitals. Alternately, the virus that causes genital herpes, HSV-2 can be transmitted to your mouth if you go down on someone who has genital herpes, or vice versa.
javacat 4 years ago
Unfortunately, when infants do contract neonatal herpes, the results can be tragic. About half of infants who are treated with antiviral medication escape permanent damage. But others may suffer serious neurological damage, mental retardation or death. It's fear of these terrible consequences, rather than the level of risk, that makes neonatal herpes a concern.
javacat 4 years ago
To put this in greater perspective, an estimated 20-25% of pregnant women have genital herpes, while less than 0.1% of babies contract an infection. "Neonatal herpes is a remarkably rare event", says Zane Brown, MD, an expert on neonatal herpes and a member of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Washington. "Compared to all the other possible risks in a pregnancy, the risk of neonatal herpes is extremely small."
javacat 4 years ago
The following information is from herpes(dot)com: Neonatal herpes is not a reportable disease in most states, so there are no hard statistics on the number of cases nationwide. However, most researchers estimate between 1,000 and 3,000 cases a year in the United States, out of a total of 4 million births.
javacat 4 years ago
Well if 90% of the people who have it dont even know it, then how bad could it be?
kebsis 4 years ago
With genital herpes, the symptoms are, 'down there', and many people associate persons having a sexually transmitted disease as sexually irresponsible or promiscuous.
Though there are possible complications from having herpes, one of the most devastating effects can be the stigma of having herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
The rest of this answer is from a website that is no longer available for viewing on the internet: A survery conducted by the American Social Health Association found that 28% of people who contract genital Herpes have considered suicide as a result.
javacat 4 years ago
Psychological symptoms that accompany HSV infection are as large and substantial as the physical. Symptoms for primary infections range from confusion, denial, anger, hostility, withdrawal, and severe depression to guilt, shame, fear, a sense of immeasurable loss, resentment, and retaliation. Many people with Herpes become socially isolated. For many, the fear of transmitting the virus to another can lead to avoidance of relationships.
javacat 4 years ago
There is a real and very deep social stigma attached to genital Herpes. Many people after discovering they've acquired herpes are very much at a loss as to how to cope, feeling very lost and alone. People who contract HSV may at some point or another begin to face deep intimacy hesitancy, feelings of vulnerability, a sense of being "dirtied or disgraced," or a general state of "unworthy of being loved."
javacat 4 years ago
These feelings usually ease with time, management of outbreaks, and acceptance. Discussion with a close friend, family member, support group, or professional counselor can also be very helpful in alleviating these feelings.
javacat 4 years ago
thank you for posting this!!!!..but i have one question,.is herpes life threatening??..does it lead to HIV for many years if you have it?
ryzabanks 4 years ago
In a person who has an immune system that is not compromised, having herpes in and of itself is not life-threatening.
Having a positive herpes diagnosis can cause a person great emotional distress. Some people have more severe outbreaks than others, and those outbreaks can be physically debilitating. I can not personally answer how often persons have severe symptoms.
javacat 4 years ago
Remember, 20-25% of the population has herpes, and of that, approximately 2-2.5% actually know they have herpes. Approximately 90% of people who have herpes do not know because their symptoms are mild to nonexistent.
Possible complications from having herpes include the following: Herpes Encephalitis, neonatal herpes, and ocular herpes.
javacat 4 years ago
Herpes does not directly lead to having HIV no matter how long you have had herpes. However, if you have an active outbreak of herpes, you are three to five times more likely to acquire the HIV virus as compared to someone without HIV in the same sexual circumstances.
javacat 4 years ago
The following answer if from famvir(dot)com: People who have genital herpes are twice as likely to acquire HIV than those who don't have the virus. Fifty-two percent of sexually transmitted HIV infections among people who also have herpes simplex virus type 2 can be attributed to infection with the herpes virus. This is because genital herpes and HIV can both be transmitted sexually.
javacat 4 years ago
nswer from famvir(dot)com: During a genital herpes outbreak, CD4 cells, which fight against the herpes infection, are found at the base of a herpes sore. CD4 cells are the main cells attacked by HIV. Therefore, if you are exposed to HIV during sexual contact and you have genital herpes sores, HIV can find an easy entry into your body.
Up to 95% of people who have HIV are infected with herpes simplex virus type 1, herpes simplex virus type 2, or both.
javacat 4 years ago
Having herpes can make you more vulnerable to HIV transmission if you sleep with someone who is HIV positive. Therefore, wear a condom always, herpes or not.
Tregnier52 4 years ago
You are correct, through this has been previously discussed in the comments. Thank you for taking the time to bring up this very important point again.
javacat 4 years ago
No cure for herpes.....no cure for aids.....no cure for cancer. I'm sure the pharmaceuticals absolutely love that. I personally feel there is a cure for many of these "diseases".....including HIV/Aids.
longlivethe80s 4 years ago
I agree. It's interesting how we have technology available to send people into space for months at a time, but nothing to cure so many of the STD's out.
I guess the message is "don't have sex". Infected or not; it's the only way to save humanity.
mistakrunk 4 years ago
I don't entirely disagree. I wish more money and attention was being put forth towards finding a herpes 'cure'.
What I do disagree with is the "don't have sex" part. Talk history THEN you can practice biology. Go get tested for all STI's before becoming sexually intimate. If you have something, get treated.
javacat 4 years ago
If you both test negative for any STI's and you are in a monogamous relationship...it is a couple's personal choice as to what they choose to do. Having said that...TRUST is a large component. You have to trust that the person you are seeing will be monogamous, and vice versa.
javacat 4 years ago
Ultimately *you* (and I mean any person), are responsible for your sexual health.
javacat 4 years ago
Though I agree with being aware of the risks out there, to me this is another fear tactic. "I used a condom, but I got herpes anyway" discourages people from having sex. Period. If you're at risk whether you use protection or not, what's the point of having sex, even if it's simply to reproduce?
Will 2010 begin the decade where we artificially inseminate pregnancy, just to " be safe from all STD's". Cause that's where it's heading it seems...
mistakrunk 4 years ago
I disagree.
The truth is, a condom only protects a small area of skin, and that a person can have a herpes outbreak anywhere in the region where a person might wear shorts.
javacat 4 years ago
This is why I always suggest people discuss history before practicing biology, meaning that you should talk about your sexual history and get tested for STI's before becoming sexually involved with another person.
javacat 4 years ago
I'm one of the few people who never though a condom would protect you from anything. That's why I haven't slept with anyone in well over seven years...and counting.
TRENZ2 4 years ago
can u cure herpes?
Steven123789 4 years ago
There is no cure for herpes. It is managable and treatable with such antivirals such as Acyclovir ($4 at Walmart!), Valtrex, Famvir, etc...,.
javacat 4 years ago
Keep your head up javacat! I wish you nothing but the best!
PryorRip 4 years ago
Jesus. Now I feel like everyone has the herpes. On the good side for the cause: it does make one want to get tested. On the bad side: I fear it may be more likely than not I have the herpes.
ILfoxtrot 4 years ago
javacat are u the girl on the show ?
joeblow59 4 years ago
Yes, I am the person who appeared on the show.
javacat 4 years ago
50 MILLION people infected with Herpes. Thats CRAZY!!!!!!!
joeblow59 4 years ago
I agree.
People need to learn the facts.
The symptoms are so mild, you can have herpes and not know it.
So why not TALK about it? The statistics range from 1 in 4 to 1 in 5 people have herpes. Go to your family reunion, a concert, the grocery store, the Oscars ceremonies...look around...and realize that approximately 20-25% of the people there have herpes, and 90% do not know it!
javacat 4 years ago
So did she use a condom or not?
I am so not doing anything with anybody for a while now :x
quitejaded 4 years ago
I used a condom.
Using condoms do not guarantee safety. The herpes sore or lesion is not always located in an area covered by the condom. Further, you could have oral sex with someone who has a cold sore (HSV-1, Oral herpes), and get herpes in the genital area that way as well.
javacat 4 years ago
Just because someone does not have a visible sore does not necessarily mean that they do not have herpes or that they are not having an outbreak. You can have viral shedding, where the virus is on the skin, but you are not having an actual outbreak. Also, as mentioned in the video, symptoms can be mistaken for an ingrown hair, a pimple, etc...,.
javacat 4 years ago
whats viral shedding?... Also if your not having an outbreak can it still be passed to another person via sex or oral sex? Or do you have to be having an outbreak to share it with others? I dont have it.. but im a health freak lol
shellbaby6 4 years ago
The following answer is from goaskalice(dot)columbia(dot)edu: The herpes virus makes its home in the nerve cells of an infected person. At times, the virus creeps along the nerves up to the surface of the skin. This process is called "viral shedding," or just "shedding."
javacat 4 years ago
During shedding, the virus can be passed on to others by direct skin-to-skin contact, especially from anal, oral, or vaginal sex. Sometimes shedding is accompanied by symptoms, such as the characteristic herpes blisters. But sometimes shedding occurs without any noticeable symptoms; this is referred to as "asymptomatic shedding."
javacat 4 years ago
Precisely because there aren't any obvious symptoms or sensations when a person is experiencing asymptomatic shedding, it's virtually impossible to tell when s/he is contagious. Consequently, the majority of herpes transmission — up to 70 percent — occurs during periods without any evident symptoms, when intimate or sexual contact may be more frequent.
javacat 4 years ago
However, if herpes blisters are present, shedding is definitely taking place and precautions need to be taken, such as temporarily avoiding intimate or sexual contact with others, to prevent spreading the virus.
javacat 4 years ago
Because asymptomatic shedding is invisible to the naked eye, exactly how often it occurs is hard to pin down. Researchers, however, estimate that shedding (both with and without symptoms) occurs on between 20 and 40 percent of days in the first six months after initial infection and on 5 to 20 percent of days after this time. Studies have also found that 50 percent of asymptomatic shedding occurs in the 7 days before and after an outbreak with noticeable symptoms.
javacat 4 years ago
Because the frequency of these obvious outbreaks is highly variable, it is likely that the frequency of asymptomatic shedding also varies from person to person. But regardless of how often it happens, all people carrying the herpes virus experience periods of shedding at one time or another.
javacat 4 years ago
Although keeping close track of contagious periods is practically impossible, medications are available that greatly reduce shedding and therefore substantially lower the risk of herpes transmission. Individuals who are considering taking medicine to decrease (but not eliminate) the risk of passing herpes on to others should discuss this option with their health care provider.
javacat 4 years ago
The above was from AskAlice(dot)com. The following is from me...you can take antiviral medication and greatly reduce the amount of asymptomatic shedding you experience.
javacat 4 years ago
A person with herpes can be in a relationship with a person who does not have herpes and not transmit the virus if proper precautions are taken, such as using protection, taking antiviral medication, and not having sex when you suspect you may be having an outbreak.
javacat 4 years ago
I would recommend getting tested, as you and have herpes and not know it. If you do not have herpes, great!
My recommendation is then...to talk history before practicing biology.
Difficult as it may be, you have to talk about your sexual history and get tested BEFORE becoming sexually intimate with someone. It's for your protection.
javacat 4 years ago
i have H and im not alone
toelesstimmy 4 years ago
i admire tyra for bringing an awkward subject to the open...go tyra!!^-^
dancerfeind 4 years ago