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  • One of the MOST underrated artist ever!!!!

  • song reminds of "Imagine That" by Donell Jones. Siiicckk

  • i love dis is real and true!!!

  • MEN AND WOMEN DON'T TALK JUST LISTEN! HOPEFULLY U WILL UNDERSTAND. THIS ONLY APPLIES TO THE MEN & WOMEN WHO TAKES THAT SIGNIFICANT OTHER FOR GRANTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • "what if she knocked u up & said it ain't mine"

    MY FAVORITE LINE OF THIS SONG!!!! I love Joe!

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  • This video is truly deep and I liked how the ending was left open-ended, there was no resolution. This song is great.

  • maan all relationships are not the same a man can make mistakes but fix up and settle for that special one but without trust i wont work out

  • thumbs up if u will still be jammin to this in 2020

  • Wow. Shut the fuck up everyone. Men arent fucked up, women arent fucked up. PEOPLE are fucked up. In general. Fuck generalizations

  • @heartmeme hey i aint fucked up.....U MOTHAFUCKA!!! LOL

  • @HavokOnePointZero LOL damn, that's not the poiiint I was tryna come across.

  • what if we were... dudes wouldnt know how to act.

  • Joe is the best R&B singer of all times!!!!!

  • WOMEN ARE FAR BETTER THAN MEN... ANY QUESTION???

  • I did not ask for your two cents. So next time keep your shit to yourself. When you open your mouth you only deceive yourself by not telling the truth WOMEN ARE BETTER THAN MEN HONEY.

  • thumbs up if you still listen to this in 2011!!!!!!!!!!!:)

  • lol People r so stupid how yu gonn say the girl is a bitch wen shes us duin 2 tht nigga w the braids wha he did 2 her? hes the scumbagg...

    anywayss love this sng

  • lol People r so stupid how yu gonn say the girl is a bitch wen shes us duin 2 tht nigga w the braids wha he did 2 her? hes the scumbagg...

    anywayss love this sng

  • Most men do dirt and this song is to open a mans eyes period cause everything in the song my ex said and did so if it turned on him what... <3 love this song

  • ONE DAY MEN WILL LEARN THAT US WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE YOU ONLY BETTER.

  • @85dymedyva Honey, I wouldn't say that women are better because if you feel being deceitful and unfaithful better you are only deceiving yourself.

  • my song

  • LOVE THIS SONG!

  • omg my mommy love her so joe!!! he's a good singer

  • Dhatt Ladii Iss Auhh Str8 Upp Bitchh . iWuldvee Stayedd Widd Dhatt Niqqahh Widd Dhaa Braidss Shitttt . Buhht N.e Wayss Mhaa Favoo Partt Of Dhaa Sonqq Wuss 3:39 t2 4:04 iRemindss Mhee Of Auhh Boii Whoo iUsedd t2 Bee Soo Inn Lhuv Widd

  • love this song ,lots of no good men need to listen to this

  • @mrscook31 lol um gon download this song and play it for one of them

  • @eriquito-that's great to hear, there are several women looking for a man such as yourself(including my sis), you will find that women, God Bless You!

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  • @MyJade14 goooooooooooooo girl because i was with a guy for 7 almost eight years and he messes around on me and lied about it I left him it hurt me but it was for the best tho(I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF)

  • "who is he and what is he to you" now this bill withers song was mad in the 70s so listen to it and tell me if i am wrong or not. in that song he says and i quote" you are too much for one man... but not enough for two"!!! i believe that 100% men what u have to do is get over the "she give me good sex" trick because the same "good" sex u getting may also be someone elses good sex too! watch what u believe when it comes to females, watch her actions NOT what she says!

  • All men that cheat need to listen to this sing.

  • @Sexyrochelle33 lets get this out in the open real quick. men cheat a that woman who is getting cheated on KNOWS more then 80% of the time, 80% of men get cheated but the woman "jedi" trick is that she will never be exposed for the cheat she is! what if my ass they been doing it for a long time and i am not a blind sheep that doesnt see it. woman talk about how we dog females out but if u ask me they have dogged themself before we are in the picture. everyone need to look up Bill withers

  • man i think my girl is on some shit like this RIGHT NOW. dont what to do. she might not be cheatin but shes ignorin the fuck out of me and i aint nothing but good to her

  • what if my ass

  • WHAT IF YOUR WOMEN CHEATING?HOW WOULD YOU REACT?WILL YOU GIVE HER A SECOND CHANCE AND SET YOUR SELF UP FOR HURT N PAIN AGFAIN?OR WOULD YOU TELL HER PACK IT UP,IT'S OVER?THINK ABOUT IT...FROM MY EXPERIANCE,LOVE IS FULL OF PAIN AND A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP ISNT PROMISED TO US MEN..

  • if i were a boy...joe is the shit and my mama LOVES him

  • still goes hard.. SMH @ men like this

  • i love this song im glad i aint one of those dudes cause i think its wrong how dudes treat a women so wrong it aint right thats why i dont do it

  • atleast joe knows how us women feel and all tha shitt we go thru wit these no good men who lie to us,cheat on us, and most of all those who use us. smh.

  • Men need 2 listen to this song might teach em something

  • what if my ass, its 2011 and females BEEN having men on the side and being late out on the town while kids are with any and every body, o my fault that is if they dont kill em first. thats real world... dont ya watch cheaters then the news. what if my ass

  • shit if I was a woman I would cheat on that nigga he ugly

  • @kingzuku Wow.

  • @ImNotYourFriend212 lol I'm js

    

  • Favorite part of the song:

    "If the table were turned around

    Would you leave

    Would you stay

    Would you drown"

    Thats the part that makes people think. Joe puts them on the spot right there.

  • Sweet song. Nice concept. I have never heard a song put together like this one and it is Joe...one of my favorite male singers. Thanks for putting me on.

  • 54 IDIOTS that have PALMETTA as thier lady! If u cannot be sensitive to a womans needs then to HELL with you.

  • wat if a woman..... ooooooooo

  • AMEEENNNN!! Finally I thank you so much Joe

  • This song made me change my ways and be faithfull.! =)

  • I EFFIN LOVE THIS SONG

  • whoever dislike doin exactly what he talkb bout...y b mad just face it..

  • this song is proly dha reason y der r 54 dislykes...smh bt i lubb disx song.!

  • I was faithful and loved hard. Now I gave up and figured that I will get hurt eventually.

  • I couldn't take the heart break never looked at it that way thank's joe sorry lady's

  • I got something to say to the brotha who thinks real woman aren't around anymore. All women can agree to dis we Don't wanna cheat! We love hard a$& hell simply bc we want our man. But men don't get that part bc yall think it's being a man to be with more than one woman or to leave a relationship for whatever the reason to get with someone else. But the old saying goes "u don't miss ur water until the well is dry". As for cheating women sometimes do it to get back at men bc it's like her little

  • shit song trust it womens cheat these dayz more then mens 

  • ouch, bad memories. lol! you live and learn and pay for the knowledge you receive!

  • Even though I knew it would be over at that point for sure, at 2:45 he and she would have gotten there ass whipped!

  • They are just like us!

  • Wow...I'm so late hearing this but its right on time...I feel as if God has blessed me with my soul mate and this truly have me thinking...WOW...such a song for us all!!!

    THANKS JOE!!!

  • Give a man something to think about... Us woman put up with everything in the name of love but WHAT IF..... Shout out to Joe for this brain freeze!!!!!

  • This song made me realize that if i did choose to cheat......what if the tables were turned. Treat ppl the way you wanna be treated. Eye opener

  • real talk women do that already but if a woman acted like me that'll be great i should know thats how my wife is

  • Add and Subscribe! Also Add SkeMaticsTv Channel!!

  • True Song

  • i luv this song

  • One of my favorites, I can listen to it everyday and it never gets old.

  • man.... all i can say is that god works in the greatest of ways. in jr high i fell head over heels for this one gurl and u couldnt tell me nothing, well long story short one my buddies got with her right before i hada chance to, and years and years have gone past and i ran into her today and i havent felt that way in a min its nice to meet a great woman and something that u have wanted for a min

  • great song...you men better get it together....!!!!! these lyrics are so serious....just listen to what he is saying....you could not walk 1sec in our shoes......

  • god just spoke tough his lyrics. an thats nothing but the truth. fuck these puss* as* guys

  • myyyyy altime favo god bless you Joe and e1

  • this is sooo true my ex need to listen to this

  • this is sooo true

  • say that preach on and to yumm stay like u are on point cause a man is going to be a man

  • i think not!

  • what if my a**, its 2011 and these females acting down right flat out hateful, the last "relationship" people could go by that wasnt hell on earth was in the cosbys and we all know that aint real life, real life is that a womans nature is to kill as many birds with so little stones and if that measn she ha to do a lil dirt then so be it, but the puch line is that us men... we would never ever know when woman stray unless they want us to, just because we get caught more that means we cheat more?

  • @kabol69 I know what year it is and alot of people are getting hurt. Mostly because one or both people is too selfish to make it work and people tend to settle because they don't want to be alone or make their life uncomfortable. Which leads to misery. I say cut your losses early, youdon't have to take your relationship to hell because if you let it get there then you are responsible too. Question: If you say women aren't getting caught for cheating then how do you know they cheat more??? lol

  • ok, all i have to say is that this song cam out when females still wanted to be a woman that us men were used to. now i understand what joe is saying 100 % cause it isnt right and iam not the man to say that is, but the whole point of this song is that what if we EVER got to the point where the woman is acting just like us, i can only speak for myself but its 2011, females are doing all of this and more... killing there kids, leaving there husbands for his best friend and forever in the club

  • What if?

  • I went through this in a 7 year relationship till I started doing it to him it was like a game I ended up leaving him and he was so upset but I couldn't live like that anymore now Im in a better relationship we are always together and with no cheating involved

  • I LOVE JOE!

  • Glad Joe kept it real n this song. So true.....

  • Iceberg better watch out

    

  • come on people,this song is just for each and everyone of us to think before we act

  • Between Joe's suit, the guy's turtleneck and the woman wig.. damn.

  • Old school

  • They can dish it out but when they find out you been steppin oh you a ho slut this and that oh well i say if your ass were a real man your woman wouldnt have time for someone else seek ye shall find!!!!

  • Great ... LOVE the lyrics so so true... Big thumbs up!!

  • I love this song nice song

  • i use women as toilet....thumb please!!

  • @BigBosTube Use your mother, sister, aunt & grandma as one, too, cause they're all women & they're not perfect cause they're human! Asshole!

  • oh Joe! xxxxxxx

  • This that real RNB I dont know what all this other stuff is. Bt I do know it's sad.

  • Joe is my dude !

  • love the song but realized the 50 dislikes must be the men he is talkin about.....story is def true!!!!

  • @MrsZayas not really women cheat just as much as men. Dont act innocent women.

  • i think fair is fair orginize your self not to fall in to the trap of a un happy relationship from the start, just dont you break your own morals

  • for all the men that has a girl and really loves her, take notes from this song. this is some real shit (y)

  • JOE I LOVE U SOO MUCH!! UR MUSIC IS AMAZING!! THE LYRICS, UR VOICE!!

  • @dmetsu you speak the truth! I like what you said

  • I want that book!!

  • love your song joe...~!

  • Wow, right on. Joe please keep your music and lyrics going... we love you :)

  • 058

  • Lots of men need to treat women better instead of running around on them,the reverse is also true that a lot of women need to treat men better.The problem is a lot of women if not most cheat and when they realise that a guy really loves them and is faitfull treat him like dirt and cheats on him left, right and center.Thats part of the reason why some men cheat,cause when they are faitfull and give a woman everything and treat her like a queen just to be cheated on makes them close their heart

  • luv his songs!!!

    WOT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND lol

  • 49 dislikes must have a swinging brick in their chests...

  • I was so in love with this song! I could hear this song everyday and neva get tired of it!

  • 210

  • man this guy is awsome i have no idea why he stopped making music he needs to do some more concerts i know ill be at all of them his soo understanding and his music is so realisic non of this booty wooty shit

  • @babbutoto booty wooty shit looooooool

  • Sexy latin lady is there **busizz4me.info**

  • elle tue cette zik

  • this song right here aint no joke either, ok lets come to an understanding, the whole what if a woman thing is going own on right now and has been for a long time now, when this song came out it wasnt tha bad it really wasnt but now woman are not trying to be what they have been this whole time which are ladies, good mothers, ect. woman killings their kids left and right making me not even wanna have another child, y just to end up on nacy grace sorry not this guy!

    james missouri

  • I love this song

  • I like it

  • I LOVE THIS SONG!!!

  • exactly.. joe is so right in this song.. maybe I should spent more time on myself instead of him

  • it's so small but I love the exchange between the cheating guy and joe. the cheating guy is like " man seriously?" and joe is like " hey man what if?"

  • Man this is my shit, havent heard this song in ages. Im telling ya fellas yall need to treat ya lady like a queen. Cause trust and believe the grass isnt always greener on the other side, i found out the hard way. Like they say you dont know what you got until its gone.

  • yo this song is soo. true!

  • anything u can do i can do better, i can do anything better than u

  • i love this song . if only niqqas knew how we felt when we do dha saem thng dhay did

  • he the truth

  • This song is so real ima addicted to it.

  • whoever doesnt like this doesnt know real music

  • Thank you so much Joe...for making not only the song...but also the video!!! :o) Brothers...take heed...Women do not like it anymore than you do! ;o)

  • 49 people don't know how to treat a good woman

  • Omg Joe is the man!

    (No homo!)

  • joe at his finest...dang we need more songs like this

  • relationship is a two way street. If women are being unfair sometimes... it`s not because they want it but because men taught them to.

  • Thanx for supporting my music! Keep great artist alive!!

    Allstar

  • This song is so true. Guys really need to man up in a relationship too be honest and stop creeping about like they haven't got someone good waiting up for them back home. But at the same time, some women need to stop being so damn manipulative and keep their legs closed to other men. I guess it works both ways really.

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  • when i first heard this song i could have swore i thought it was his "my name is joe album"

  • Speaking from a man's point of view. Men are like so called "dogs" for 1 of 2 reasons. 1 either they're young and trying to impress others (their boys or whatever) with how many women then can get or they have been done dirty by a woman and may not trust women too much anymore. So they may think it's been done to me I'm gonna do it you whoever.

    Just speaking off experience.

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  • wait wait hold up!

    Beyonce sooo copied joe on this one..."If i were a boy"!!!!! HELLOOOO!

  • I'll never treat my woman wrong! This song is just amazing........I used to be one of 'em players back then, but I learned my lesson!

  • A man would NEVER be able to handle the things women do...

  • life would be good if all men thinks the way Joe does.

  • THIS IS DA REASON Y WOMEN TURN GAYY!!!!!!, DOG, DIRTY DICK, HIV HAVN MEN!!!!!

  • i used to be a good woman and always loyal, honest and faithfull to my man. but after too much crap and disrespect, i changed. now i'm the woman shown in this clip, and i don't feel bad about it. i'm actually proud i'm better at it than any man is.

    i'll see if i want to change back to good, if i can finally find a man that is loyal, honest and faithfull to me in return.

  • @YummYp00p I Feel You On Dat But Only Diff Between Us Is Im Still Faithful Honest An Loyal.. Even Doe Des Men Did Me Wrong.. But I Give U Props Doe.. Cuz Atleast U Not Lyin Like Otha Females Do.. Shidd I Hope I Can Find A Man Dats Exactly Wat U Said In The End.. But Until Then All Men Aint Nun But Dogs Till Atleast 1 Prove Me Wrong..

  • @YummYp00p

    I hear you my Sista...men just do not know when to stop all the nonsense...and we certainly do get tired of being so darn understanding...patient....and taken for granted. Rock on! We Rock! :o)

  • @YummYp00p i used to be gud also after so much crap bullshit hurt and pain, but now caant be bothered

  • @YummYp00p you might as well be single or become a lesbian lol!

  • @YummYp00p Its to bad some asshole man has made you that way babygirl. There are good men out there. I hope you find yours.

    EL

  • @YummYp00p Pray for a good man and he will come.

  • @detriotman : amen.

  • @YummYp00p you should change back those man where just test to get you ready for a good man. your going to miss the man that was right for you if you keep it up.

  • @20loner So true.

  • @YummYp00p Those men, you got crap and disrespect from arent real men, i have never cheated on a woman, never disrespected one, and never lied to one. especially not any of my girlfriends. A relationship is based on honesty, if there is non its just a Sexual relationship fullstop. The men these days in the western society act this way because the women in the wester society give them the option to act this way... the media makes it look like a normal thing... to sum it all up. real men do exist.

  • @SabDaKing P.s its not that i dont get tempted to do shit with other women, every man does, i was grown up and born in the projects, all my niggas were fucking around with chicks, but a real man would never do that. Chivalry isnt dead, and honesty still exists. A real man isnt one who can sleep with the most women.. a real man is someone who can love and cherish one woman who loves him and he loves her in return. A real man is someone who can turn his other cheek if he see's another fine mami..

  • @YummYp00p thats your fault for being stupid and going out with guys that cheat. And your even more ignorant for acting that way instead of moving on and staying true to who you are.

  • @YummYp00p I was with a woman for 3 yearsand we were engaged to be married. I had many chances to cheat on her but i didnt because i loved her. I even provided for her when it meant i would have to go without. Only to find out she sleept with many men during our time together. It hurt me greatly but i made my mind up that i will never be that way. I'm going to be a Godly man and when i find my good thing, my rib, she will love me how i love her. I'm going to be what i am looking for.

  • @yummYpoop. you are a real man for not cheating on your wife. i hv been in similar situation and i understand how you feel.

  • @eriquito My husband did me the same way. Slept with my sister, had the nerve to think we was gone be together. It hurt like hell but im over it. He lost the best thing that ever happened to him. Im also waiting on my rib. Good Luck!

  • @TheBigsexymama Wow, that's awful! Well, God bless and you'll find the right man one day! Smh...

  • @eriquito God will bless you just hold on. !

  • -wow i'm sorry that happend to u well i hope u will find wat u lookin for becuse nobody doesnt deserve that

  • @eriquito i been there to sir, we werent engaged but same result. sucks i know man

  • @eriquito im sorry to hear that however just keep in ind not every woman is like that and your time to be in love will come and never let yourself go without because if she really loved you she would'nt let you do that pain heals and love is always there :)

  • @eriquito AMEN BROTHER AMEN!!!

  • @YummYp00p I feel you on that girl!

  • @YummYp00p i was the same i didnt care anymore in the end i eneded up getting a divorce ,,, his whole life is ruined good on ya im glad u didnt put up with shit .. soo not worth it :) muchrespect sister.

  • makes men really think 

  • Love this song !! <3

  • Listen....its simple, marry who loves you and keep who you love on the side....it never fails, only the woman whom you love can hurt you...end of story