feminism has peverted the west man and woman are not equal they are different. womens libertion is a joke. Women are now goverment pawns in the work force and because she is not home to take care of her childern now the goverment can do this for her. Day care centers people trained by the goverment teaching your children up to 11 hrs a day. Larger workforce more money. Just look at the breakdown of american morals and the family system and this only touches the surface.
Many women, when they get older, will loose their attractiveness.
then they will no longer be gazed at. To men they will be invisible. Men will look right through them at younger women who still have beauty. These women then will know that their youth has passed, and they will regret rejecting the men who admired them, as those chances will be gone forever.
"In film, the male gaze occurs when the audience is put into the perspective of a heterosexual man. A scene may linger on the curves of a woman's body...The theory suggests that male gaze denies women human agency, relegating them to the status of objects. Hence, the woman reader and the woman viewer must experience the text's narrative secondarily, by identifying with a man's perspective."
Here, "object" refers to a person who lacks agency, as opposed to a subject
I think the tragedy though is that women who are obsessed with the male gaze and getting it are actually not confident. If you are a truely confident person - you don't need attention. You don't need to feel attractive through the eyes of OTHER people. And besides, most of what is considered attractive these days is FAKE. I think it's sad because women deny how they actually look and their own comfort - for men.
i understand where shes coming from. we have come so far as a western culture. For men and women to be treated equally. Yet i will inevitably have to chose between my carer and having a family and that's something i don't want to have to do.
every day is so confusing trying to be a woman when there is no real or strong role models for us to know how to behave anymore.
we have learned to miss trust men. with comments such as "they only want dumb girls" or "men only want one thing from women"
This dummy spends the first minute and a half worrying about her hair and how she looks on camera and then talks about how we shouldnt concentrate on looks.What an idiot....
TokyoTraveller- I've been dating my Japanese girlfriend for just over a year now. It's such a satisfying relationship. Trust me, a lot of Western men are going overseas in search of a wife now due to the radical feminists that have taken over. The women 35 and younger in the Western half of the world have been indoctrinated to more or less be obsessed with their own looks and to not trust men. You made a good decision.
I was told I think to much.... I have just met my match... You think way to much girl....For someone as buatiful, and intelligent......"Don,t drink and drive as well....
I am living in Tokyo right now, but whenever I am in the United States, I must admit that I actively avoid looking at a woman longer than it takes to know her position and momentum. Since this takes a split second, my gaze is actively avoided. I even do this with beautiful women. Honestly, I am worried that I will get my head bitten off, or looked at like I'm some kind of hedonistic, demon animal that needs to be put to sleep.
I don't ogle, but I am able to look at an attractive woman, and she doesn't take offense to it.
I think this is due to multiple factors:
-Japanese women have less shame or cognitive dissonance towards their femininity
-Japanese women are more focused on family, and thus more focused on finding a husband. Single motherhood is still fairly rare in Japan. I didn't realize that you can have a country where most families are actually together.
-And finally, of course I would be remiss to not note that Japan is controlled by men. Although in the United States, simply saying that will inspire ire, somehow the Japanese make it work. Low crime, intact families, stable country.... maybe men aren't all bad.
You know what's weird...Japanese women actually appear to want to be mothers and wives. Many voluntarily leave the workforce to be wives and mothers.
Of course, I believe in equal rights (truly equal, for both sides), equal pay, and fair treatment (not equal per se, because men and women are somewhat different creatures, and the same treatment on one side may be condescending or brutal to the other side).
But women can work and climb the corporate ladder, or stay at home and take care of a family, both without shame.
I automatically consider any response to be an insult. However, I respond in a sincere and positive way regardless, just in case the person is actually positive and sincere.
As a man its very difficult for me to work this out as well. In terms of I almost feel guilty for thinking about a woman in a sexual way. In all honesty I have no answer. Is the answer that we should not think of anyone as sexual beings as it demeans them, that seems very callous and cold.
I think both men and women can come together and agree that feminism destroys individual rights. We should all have a common interest in protecting the smallest minority- the individual.
correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the male gaze considered sexual harassment, or sexual assault, or rape, or something like that. It certainly seems as though it applies in the workplace.
feminism has peverted the west man and woman are not equal they are different. womens libertion is a joke. Women are now goverment pawns in the work force and because she is not home to take care of her childern now the goverment can do this for her. Day care centers people trained by the goverment teaching your children up to 11 hrs a day. Larger workforce more money. Just look at the breakdown of american morals and the family system and this only touches the surface.
formassio71 6 months ago
I walk right up to women, stare creepily and masturbate. That is the most profound male gaze, yet women seem not to appreciate it. C'est la vie.
365to173repubsPWNED 10 months ago
pretension ain't pretty
imthepb 1 year ago
Many women, when they get older, will loose their attractiveness.
then they will no longer be gazed at. To men they will be invisible. Men will look right through them at younger women who still have beauty. These women then will know that their youth has passed, and they will regret rejecting the men who admired them, as those chances will be gone forever.
Albacorewing 1 year ago
@ Denouement
From Wikipedia:
"In film, the male gaze occurs when the audience is put into the perspective of a heterosexual man. A scene may linger on the curves of a woman's body...The theory suggests that male gaze denies women human agency, relegating them to the status of objects. Hence, the woman reader and the woman viewer must experience the text's narrative secondarily, by identifying with a man's perspective."
Here, "object" refers to a person who lacks agency, as opposed to a subject
anemone9 2 years ago
I think the tragedy though is that women who are obsessed with the male gaze and getting it are actually not confident. If you are a truely confident person - you don't need attention. You don't need to feel attractive through the eyes of OTHER people. And besides, most of what is considered attractive these days is FAKE. I think it's sad because women deny how they actually look and their own comfort - for men.
cannibalcountry 2 years ago 4
that's right, as it should be. Plus we like to fuck women like that.
shmiggen 2 years ago
@cannibalcountry BULLSHIT ...women these days only dress to impress.........other women!
jimmy27paul 1 year ago
@cannibalcountry BULLSHIT!......WOMEN THESE DAYS ONLY DRESS TO IMPRESS OTHER WOMEN!
jimmy27paul 1 year ago
Do you know the three main races of man according to the world book.Caulkcasian,mongoliod and negroid?
zeno57 2 years ago
i understand where shes coming from. we have come so far as a western culture. For men and women to be treated equally. Yet i will inevitably have to chose between my carer and having a family and that's something i don't want to have to do.
every day is so confusing trying to be a woman when there is no real or strong role models for us to know how to behave anymore.
we have learned to miss trust men. with comments such as "they only want dumb girls" or "men only want one thing from women"
beatifulkiller 2 years ago
Its so wierd hearing an american girl voice coming out of this,this mongoliod
zeno57 2 years ago
This dummy spends the first minute and a half worrying about her hair and how she looks on camera and then talks about how we shouldnt concentrate on looks.What an idiot....
lee2848 3 years ago
This is kinda hard to listen to, her ideas are too jumbled up and resemble verbal diarrhea. My head hurts now
vwguyaz87 3 years ago 2
TokyoTraveller- I've been dating my Japanese girlfriend for just over a year now. It's such a satisfying relationship. Trust me, a lot of Western men are going overseas in search of a wife now due to the radical feminists that have taken over. The women 35 and younger in the Western half of the world have been indoctrinated to more or less be obsessed with their own looks and to not trust men. You made a good decision.
Daric3000 3 years ago
I was told I think to much.... I have just met my match... You think way to much girl....For someone as buatiful, and intelligent......"Don,t drink and drive as well....
DAVZEE3 3 years ago
I am living in Tokyo right now, but whenever I am in the United States, I must admit that I actively avoid looking at a woman longer than it takes to know her position and momentum. Since this takes a split second, my gaze is actively avoided. I even do this with beautiful women. Honestly, I am worried that I will get my head bitten off, or looked at like I'm some kind of hedonistic, demon animal that needs to be put to sleep.
it sucks.
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago 3
How is your behavior different in Tokyo, and why (do you think)?
xoxoANP 3 years ago
I don't ogle, but I am able to look at an attractive woman, and she doesn't take offense to it.
I think this is due to multiple factors:
-Japanese women have less shame or cognitive dissonance towards their femininity
-Japanese women are more focused on family, and thus more focused on finding a husband. Single motherhood is still fairly rare in Japan. I didn't realize that you can have a country where most families are actually together.
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago 2
-And finally, of course I would be remiss to not note that Japan is controlled by men. Although in the United States, simply saying that will inspire ire, somehow the Japanese make it work. Low crime, intact families, stable country.... maybe men aren't all bad.
You know what's weird...Japanese women actually appear to want to be mothers and wives. Many voluntarily leave the workforce to be wives and mothers.
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago
Of course, I believe in equal rights (truly equal, for both sides), equal pay, and fair treatment (not equal per se, because men and women are somewhat different creatures, and the same treatment on one side may be condescending or brutal to the other side).
But women can work and climb the corporate ladder, or stay at home and take care of a family, both without shame.
That's what is missing in the U.S.
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago 2
Your observations are both deeply fascinating and profoundly reductive. I appreciate you taking them time to share them.
xoxoANP 3 years ago
Thank you, and I think you are cute.
I must admit that I gazed at your video, but since I'm in Japan, you can't bite my head off (yes!)
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago
@ TokyoTraveller
Did you really not realize that xoxoANP was insulting you, or are you being sarcastic? I can't tell.
anemone9 2 years ago
I automatically consider any response to be an insult. However, I respond in a sincere and positive way regardless, just in case the person is actually positive and sincere.
anything else?
TokyoTraveller 2 years ago
You raise a very important point.
As a man its very difficult for me to work this out as well. In terms of I almost feel guilty for thinking about a woman in a sexual way. In all honesty I have no answer. Is the answer that we should not think of anyone as sexual beings as it demeans them, that seems very callous and cold.
bigaddo 3 years ago
I know - so many questions! Ugh, my "pretty little head" hurts :P
xoxoANP 3 years ago
I think both men and women can come together and agree that feminism destroys individual rights. We should all have a common interest in protecting the smallest minority- the individual.
professorfoxtrot 4 years ago
I guess that would depend on how you are defining feminism?
Agree that sacrificing the individual for the greater good is dangerous Stalinesque territory.
xoxoANP 4 years ago
Inner cavewoman? Abuuuh? ... You know... This pressure on being beautiful is not inherent, it's a factor of the culture you grow up in. So...
hiverhythm 4 years ago
Great point. I do think that what constitutes beauty is a fxn of culture, but I'm not sure that the desire to court the male gaze is not inherent.
xoxoANP 4 years ago
correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the male gaze considered sexual harassment, or sexual assault, or rape, or something like that. It certainly seems as though it applies in the workplace.
I remember hearing about that somewhere.
TokyoTraveller 3 years ago