yeah this is a serious issue here in America,from what i see i really do not know if this is practice in other countries but i do know America is flooded with this type of personality.
I admit it. I was a wanna be narcissist between my peers. I wanted to be best because that's what my parents pushed me into especially my dad. My dad probably gave me the worst advices. He told me to talk well but not really teaching me anything. He always tried to make me win at arguments. He and I just didn't didn't match. Heck nobody really did when my pops was younger.
Being a Narcissist is sad. These people are sick assholes, because they lie ridiculously with all there grandiose crap and if you try to talk them to reality they will argue. Remember they also have to devalue other people like a devil. If you are saying it ok to be a narcissist, I'm sorry to say your probably a narcissist.
@Jlau897 It gets me how many people are proud of being a narcissist. I have known quite a few of them and after so many years they usually end up with huge problems. Destroyed relationships, Financial ruin, No friends, Psycotic episodes, Medication, Dysfunctional children, etc etc. Avoid them like the plague and if you can't, learn their traits, methods and anticipate the cog on the side of their head. Never trust them.
My brother is currently ending a marriage with a narcissistic person, in fact the end of their marriage was due to her wanting to further pursue the affair she was having and to get rid of the risk of being caught. She has everything handed to her by her father, her car, and her father is even paying her half for this divorce under these pretenses. Now I understand how her father indulging her is the fuel to her already strong unwarranted self importance.
My husband is a narcissist but has lots of friends. He boosts his friends egos by acting like they are great because they are HIS friends. Portraying the devaluations of everyone else's friends unless they are friends with him as well. I feel constantly devalued by him. However after watching the video on avoidance disorder I'm 100% positive I have that. Talk about a miserable situation!
@purity4all It's called being the "narcisstic supply". Narcisstic Personality Disorder has been removed from the Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)by the American Psychiatric Association, siting the popularity of narcissism in our culture as the reason. Insurance companies complained it was overdiagnosed. Don't let that stop you from reaching out. In addition to individual counseling try support groups for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery. You deserve healthy relationships!
@qawwalification Huh..wouldn't ya know it. It costs too much money so lets just pretend it doesn't exist. Real healthy attitude APA, good job. Yes I know I deserve a healthy relationship, just not sure it's attainable. I know on one hand that I do deserve a good relationship, but knowing it and feeling it are somehow two different things and I don't really feel like I'm worth enough to deserve it..if that makes any sense. Just started counseling today.
@purity4all Yes, to counseling. Grab every tool you can to reclaim your life. If you're insurance is tied in with his plan, remember United Way First Call for Help (USA) is a free call. This non-profit has free and income based listings including services like counseling, support groups and even, health care. Take it one day at a time. True, it's difficult, but you are worth it. Best to you.
@6flakes wow how can you have such a broken mindset? we're not incomplete, thats just what those companies want you to think so that they can sell you their stuff to "fix" you! It's all a placebo my friend
Thank you Dr. Hahn for this! You are cute and hot! I know a person who is exactly like this. Your video helps me realize these people are around and most likely never get well.
I dont understand whats so bad about being a narcist? Being a narcist is good, because you have a sense of self worth, a feeling of competence, which is a crucial element for success. Also nobody will hold you back if your a narcist because nobody else matters but YOU.
@ironmantis25 nothing is bad about it, but there should be a limit to how much you love yourself because if you break the limit then you will also become arrogant and your ego pretty much takes control of you. It's better to channel this love towards other people and I tell ya you will certainly live a much happier life, as she said in the video those people only seek people that can benefits them this will lead to unhappiness since greed also develops.
@1Mperios if i write like a bitch so what? i am not intelligent ? ohh cmon u gotta change ur fuckın borıng ideassssss i write wat ever i like i m not literatur teacher
Yeah I have all this stuff except the envy. I like it when others succeed, but at the same time I do have this higher sense of myself. Probably through overindulgence as a child. Even though narcissism is seen as bad, it's quite sad how she explains how a child's grandiosity gets chipped away by the harshness of the adult world. Exact same grandiosity that took man to the moon. And personally I love other narcissists, I think people who think they're great usually tend to be more interesting.
@yahoo3396 If you can see these traits in yourself you may not be a narcissist, bravo for self correcting though, it will help for sure. Having a high self esteem is really good, but you don't want to perceive yourself as better than, or more deserving than anyone else and you don't want to be at the point where you just expect special privileges just because you're you.That's NOT good. Best of luck. You deserve to be liked, just work on being compassionate and all will be well.
@purity4all thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I agree that nobody should perceive themselves as better than anybody else. Being realistic is important. Thank you and have a great day
This lady is correct, but she is very gentle at describing the disorder.The biggest problem with someone with NPD is that they don't see themselves as having a problem.They can't, because they view any mental or medical disorder/disease as a weakness.Can't have a weakness, because that would devalue themselves.One of the biggest problems is relationships with people, especially since they have no empathy.Like the lady said,"People hate you." Intimate relationships get stressful and may not last.
Narcs are fun to troll, I mean I know I know trolling is antisocial, but have you ever trolled a narcissist? They can't escape, seriously, keep slighting their ego and they're trapped forever.
My father has NPD. The last time I spoke with him was on Father's Day of 2009. (I tried to call him 1 last time) For the sake of my self esteem, my wife and my children I simply had no alternative left. I haven't called him since and he's made no effort at all to contact my family. The cycle of abuse had to stop. You can't defend yourself against someone with a disorder. The only option is to walk or allow yourself to be abused.
Body language wins on the speaking. Asians and chinese people fail on that. They are not credible and they will never be when it's about giving a diagnostic. /Valerie - speak loyaly the truth
@joshxsw don't worry. It will catch up to you. You dont' stay young forever...and you will eventually lose whatever value you think you have, invested in all the wrong shit.
I have/had a friend that was a narcissist. All the symptoms applied to him and I just wish I could have found the name sooner so I could rub it in his face all the times he told me I was wrong even though he was pretty much being a hypocrite. He made it seem as if he was the most important person even under a household that wasn't his and often made obvious excuses just to get away with something.
"Narcissism" and NPD are SYMPTOMS of an underlying set of psychological wounds developed from early-childhood trauma. Most lay people and mant mental-health people are unaware of these wounds and how to reduce them. See sfhelp.org/gwc/gwc.htm and the "gercacn"{ channel on YouTube
@OneEyedSwampWookie Why is God an answer to some of you people? There are narcissists who believe in Christianity.
Like she says, Narcissism is abstract, it isn't always obviously negative like she's explaining. Narcissism can be very hidden, and at times the narcissist doesn't realize that they're so self-indulged.
Meaning: they can believe that they care, but they don't realizing that they're not really emphasizing. But what she's talking about is the extreme, broader Narcissism.
NPD is not a bullshit label. It is a useful description for an individual that displays these traits to a pathological extent. If you ever have significant contact with someone with npd you will see.
@adamjhnorris Very true!!! No wonder there is no easy fix solution for these people either. Having had the unfortunate experience of having a brother with undiagnosed NPD, I can't see him ever becoming likeable or even reasonable. You might ask me how I know he has NPD - ha!!! It's very easy.
@SicilianSnacks You're right, these are just personality traits that most people have at least one or two of to some degree. That's why people only get diagnosed with a personality or mood disorder if the symptoms are strong enough that they affect the persons life or the lives of those around them, in a negative way.
For example, most people are shy to some degree but if that shyness or fear of going out prevents them from going outside, then it is social anxiety and not just simple shyness.
shes all good at explaining the symptoms and breaking down the disorder, however when she comes to the solution part i despise how she said "standard fasion" about the treatments. As if doping up some mentally challenged people will help them at all.
I was married to one for 28 years. I cannot describe the hell it was like for me and our 3 children. One child was disabled so I couldn't leave because I didn't think i could support us all and take care of the child. He was never faithful. Double standard. Very jealous. His last affair went 6 years and then i found out. we are divorced. He doesn't see the problem that he destroyed a perfectly good family withholding love and good things always wanting our worship but we could never measure up.
If you meet a narcissistic run for your life. I had many experienced with them is amazing how they are so clever not to show they claws and evil right way. They are masters in manipulation and making you feel guilty about everything. They will suck you dry without any remorse or guilty. Usually these people don't like children, animals or living thing. That's how you spot them. They just worship themselves as God and superior being.
Can't stand 'em either, no point giving them an excuse for being like it, better to make them realize that they're destroying their own life so that they actually do something about it. Check out Sparkster at Hubpages for good info, he got it nailed!
@The25Sister guuuurl plz i dont really care for what youve been through, it doesnt give you the right to judge someone else because they're mentally SICK. youre quite the sophist
@limellexX Well aren’t you a hypocrite? READ again, you have no idea so who is judging over who? Something that is based on experience is not a judgment, I have experienced one person myself. Save your energy and don’t try to change my mind because it won’t work. Think of me whatever you want. With one thing I agree with you that they are SICK.
I lived with a narcissist for 33 years before I discovered what he was and left him. I still have PTSD six years later. He sadistically crushed my spirit to gain control over me. He did not love me and our children. He secretly envies people who outshine him, especially men. He called my brother socially inept though he is more intelligent and successful and has many more friends. The freak has a PhD and high-level government job. He fools most people, including mental health experts.
This is exactly what my father in law does to everybody around him. He's a nightmare and as bad as it sounds I really wish something would happened to him for him to finally realize how torturing and destroying he is to the whole family. I wouldn't call it a disease!!! I'd call this thing pure toxic evil and deliberate abuse &disrespect to everybody. The disease is something you can proof with blood/urin... tests.Narcissists are purely consciously aware and when they torture us.
@jujuhec Yep, I have family members with this disorder and I know they are very aware of what they are doing. They go about it in a calculated way. What I have learned is to stay away from these toxic relationships.
An in law would be more difficult to avoid because that would put strain on the relationship. When he insults you give him a compliment, return his rudeness with manners. It take the wind out of their sails, you won't be as much fun to torture. You can help him to look more stupid.
@lillie1990am I'd be most happy if we could avoid contacts... But where I live, real estates are really really expensive...The prices for food, gas, taxes... are very high and the salaries are quite low. We could afford going somewhere else and pay rent, but in that case we won't be able to save any money to buy a house. So we are forced to stay where we are and be under the dictation of his old man. And it's really killing us all.
Its so strange I've come across people who actually wish that they had this disorder and/or convince themselves that they have it. Don't people understand that being a Narcissist doesn't make your life epic, make you charming or make things turn out the way that you want them to? There is a healthy way to be goal driven and ambitious but Narcissism is the NEGATIVE side to these personality traits. If you had Narcissism, you wouldn't admit that you had it. You'd think you were perfectly normal
I lived with a husband who increasingly emotionally abused me and our children. No one could ever please him. I didn't find out what was wrong until 30 years into our marriage. In the end my brain would flat -line (go blank) when I heard his footsteps. He led a double life. I found out and we were divorced. Tragic. But the freedom has been wonderful.
@nanamom4 guy i am with right now is like this i am planning on leaving he is way to crazy first he was sweet loving and caring but then we moved in together and now its hell also he has kids and no matter what his kids do they are always right and better than mine which is nuts
Whew girl, at least he likes his kids. My ex narc lives to detroy our childs self esteem, and he puts his gf son above our /his own child. Oh my god the things he does to pick on him. Courts don't call it physical abuse, but its mental, and now I have to get therapy for my kid in order to have proof his dad is nuts! Thank god you don't have kids with your guy!
Also, (closet) narcissist's aren't feeling like the king of te world, allthough they want to, to fill the emptyness. It's a lot of show, but they just want to be loved (in an exaggerated way). By the way: stop bashing narcissist's please, it's not helping them and it's mean to do so. Noone chooses to have a disorder and helping eachother is the best we can do. What good is it to put them away as master manipulators (which a lot of them are, yes) and leave them to their own? That's selfish.
There are different forms of narcissism. I'm diagnosed with closet narcisism. I worked in psychiatry, I care about people, but still have grandious images of my future etc. Also the feeling of being to good for certain tasks, but I never look down on people or use them.There are so many (forms) of disorders that it's certain everyone has something. People calling you a narcisist have no idea what they're talking about and propably mean egoism. Leave it to a psychologist.
I usually pay for lunch and helped substantially financially for my son his wife and their beautiful two children, no problem I can afford it; but I feel that once in a while they should treat me and my wife too since they are pretty well off too. Well, since they were not doing it, after a nice meal at my favored place I stated that it was my turn to order to order the most expensive item on the menu just like my dear in-law had just done. well she got mad stating this & that & that; so wgoh?..
@ilikevines Dear ilik., This vt. is obviously for people in training to be therapists. Labels are nesessary, how else will students pass the examinations. . It is encouraging to be reminded that as some therapists quit or die or change jobs, there are new ones in the offing, who will soon be able to help for money, all those who are moaning in this comments list. The speaker in this vt. is very good. . Get well soon. . . Cheers. from, del-boy.
I never did like these "experts" in the psychiatric profession. Just look at this one in the vid flapping her lips and flinging labels out left and right and being so proud as she does, as if she actually knows anything about anything!
@TheDp321 The difference is most people want their real selves to be liked. With narcs they want the image they have of themselves as perfect to be reinforeced so that they won't have to deal with their real imperfect (and therefore in their minds unacceptable) selves. Their whole way of interacting with people is just a bunch of bullshit. A show.
If you want to read the rants of the biggest narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
I have a question for you guys. Can a person still be a narcissist if he/she have high self esteem? She said that narcissist have low self esteem. But could a person have high self esteem and still be a narcissist?
@KINGARTHUR3341 In my interpretation, no. Someone with a reasonable amount of self-esteem would see no good reason to intensely devalue others and/or their possessions or accomplishments.
I wish the audio was better on this but otherwise this is very informative. I know I have definitely observed this type of behavior in people in my life.
He goes to a small school but considers everyone too dumb to be his friend, he doesn't feel the need to go to college because he thinks he can easily get whatever job he wants.
Women can be narcissistic too, a lot of girls I know depreciate themselves in hopes that someone will tell her otherwise and they usually do. Men are considered more narcissistic possibly because they're more open about it, women are more sly and manipulative about it. I would know, I am one.
My father has NPD and it's difficult to live with him. He convinced me to give up my biggest dream, even though I would have been successful in life. But later he turns around and blames me for not doing what I would have done in he first place and made me look like the fool while he thought he was such a guru. These people never take any responsibility and don't care about what happens. You can't change these people.
Narcissism is a self defence. My dad is one and when hes around i become narcissist because i just need to desperately boost my selfisteem. I dont wanna hurt other ppl but sometimes i cant get my narcissism off so im cold and angry with ppl if they try talk to me or sth. But to me im not a "wholetime" narcissist. Some just dont get a chance to "see the light" so they hold on to narcissism. But you shouldnt try to change the narcissist because you cant only he/ she can. Btw im 18 yo girl :---)
this is a really good explaination of narcissism!!! everyone will come in contact with people like this in their life at one time or another and its important to understand why they act the way they do. people with this don't tend to get help for some reason, and they really are in need to because it affects them but also all the people around them too
i wish i had known more about NPD before. it was very difficult being in the dark about NPD and living with a mother who suffers from this disorder. it caused a lot of irreparable damage. but it is a relief to learn about this PD even now that it's too late. thanks for posting!
I'm wondering the same. I might have mild narcissism because I noticed it. I usually feel really upset or frustrated if no one notices what I have accomplished or when someone else gets praise. The only difference is I have empathy towards others & I don't brag, hardly ever. I also don't show off! I would never want to hurt anyone. But, I admit, sometimes my thoughts are selfish. It's more internal then external. I don't really show it, I feel it. It makes things very tense. :/
actually i am narcissistic but it never turned into a disorder because I do feel empathy...it's just that i try to think of myself as a great, awesome person because yes i have been mentally, emotionally, and physically abused as a child and i probably didn't want to think of myself as worthless but as i didn't want those who hurt me to win and seem bigger and better than i am because they are really scum for causing me to be like this
I lived with one for 20 years and he had me convinced I was a nothing. But then I found out about NPD and everything fit. I have experienced every single thing in this video. There is no cure for these people. And they are a menace to their children. All they see is them selves. No matter how well others do they are always wrong. Anyone who needs to lash out amd devalue this video is definitely a narcissist. I
The worst thing about NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) is that it could really be your best friend. They are great at parties and could be viewed as really popular. The thing that really sucks about it is when it happens to you! It turns out that one of my best friends has this and he won't get help for it! This is a rare disorder (0.5% of the USA has it) and it really hurts everybody in the end. You gotta get away from them. You have to.
hmm.....having studied this disorder for several years now i must warn you that there is a big difference between being narcissistic and having the actual NPD. I have been around those who are narcissistic, and around those with NPD. Huge difference! People with NPD are emotionally numb to everything, as a matter a fact they dont even have any emotions inside. It is very unlikely for them to seek treatment due to subconscious fears of exposure.
i think they need to love themselves more, if they did, they would see the love in everyone else too. you don't have to prove to someone that you love yourself and everyone else by saying it all the time, if you really do, you won't have to say it.
if you loved your life and where so increadibly happy for being yourself, you would not be envious of others. so i think they need to find some love for them selves, since they are constantly asking for approval in others. guide them to their heart.
Have a BAD situation with a family member, ANY topic that is brought up is quickly changed to THEM...along with great details as if you were their biographer jotting down all these facts about them.
@WanderingRover Watch the video again, and try to listen. Your comment displays the narcissistic characteristic of devaluation of a disapproving other.
@sandjetteer Yes, women are more empathic, nurturing, selfless, etc. because we give birth and those qualities go hand in hand with caring for children. We are also more emotional and sensitive.
@MsAgnosticatheist That is crock. Most women are self centered and always have to have their way. Caring my foot. They want to their way, and they ruin mens lives to get what they want. Men are much more open minded when finding the right woman, but a woman has a long check list of what her ideal man should be, and if hes not those things, she will try to mold him into what she wants him to be.
My dad has this... it sucks. He makes a fool out of everyone in the family (and we, the kids are all adults that have our own lives and our mom hasn't lived with him for 20 years, doesn't stop *him* though), just left my house yelling at me so that the neighbors could hear that I'm "an evil junkie who hurts everyone around him", even though I don't use drugs and am a kind person and give money to UNICEF every month, help out my friends every day and give away my stuff. That really bothers him :/
My dad has this... it sucks. He makes a fool out of everyone in the family (and we, the kids are all adults that have our own lives and our mom hasn't lived with him for 20 years, doesn't stop *him* though), just left my house yelling at me so that the neighbors could hear that I'm "an evil junkie who hurts everyone around him", even though I don't use drugs and am a kind person and give money to UNICEF every month, help out my friends every day and give away my stuff. That really bothers him :/
@Samoutuomas my mom has it too, and my sis and I were always trying to figure out what we did wrong...until we learned about it and how to survive if you have a parent with it...I still refuse to say sorry when SHE is wrong!
@agentspinnaker He's the president of the united states. every magazine he reads has had his picture on it at one point. he however, has never tried to legally trademark his name after hosting a reality show, which was done after a half term stint as governor. the woman bleeds of NPD.
I love how this is one big joke for all of you. This is a real thing, but just because you might have traits of it or you know someone thats narcissistic, doesnt mean they or you have Narcissistic Personallity Disorder. As someone who is training to be a psychiatrist, all of these comments really bother me.
My "Narcissistic boss": Would and / or should an Narcissistic boss be categorized as a health risk for fellow employees? A health risk because, as it could be assumed, they would inevitably create a stressful working environment where numerous employees would experience higher levels of anxiety (i.e. health related problems)?...To say nothing of the employees expressing withdrawn attitudes, slumbering productivity, drained creativity, and deflated enthusiasm! I'm just saying!
@dnjp4life Your Wrong & clearly misinformed about NPD. I looked this video up for help with my long time friend. No doubt I 2 have a personality disorder myself but it's not NPD. People w/ NPD have no awareness or or interest in self development. But if your just trying to devalue this video then it's most likely you have NPD.
Bullshit. Apparently i have the narcissistic and these retards are speaking shit. im still bloody awsome. its not a disorder - its a girl. this asian cunt is just jealous of how awsome i am.
@youbeenreviewed I was engaged to a guy like this, RUN for your life. I called off our wedding two years ago and I'm still trying to recover from his damage to me...They suck your mind dry...OMG, run from the nut...
NPD is male and HPD is female. Same self-focused personality disorder and both hateful and dangerous. Let any of each in your life and you will hate them for life. It is a permanent personality type and cannot be changed except for a minute percentage. Run from each of them and deny future contact is the only defence.
@MiamiPush2theLimit - So you are a female AND you are a narcissist? OK, but rarer. Curious. Would you find that drama is a huge component of your personality? In your behavior do you appear to be cool, distant and restrained or vibrant, in-your-face and emotional? I won't tell.
@JohnnyRock2000 My behavior goes both ways. I am very moody. Drama is a big part of my life mostly because I am very selfish and other people are sick of dealing with my selfishness.
The cure for narcissism is to tell them they are "working class nobody's" just like the rest of us. They aren't immortal, they will die like the rest of us. Spending like crazy thinks you are doing well when you're up-the-ass in debt that you'll never pay off your mortgage until you're 70+. Last. if you want your next generation surrounding you at your death bed when you leave this world, put them first before YOU yourself.
yeah this is a serious issue here in America,from what i see i really do not know if this is practice in other countries but i do know America is flooded with this type of personality.
jiggy588 3 days ago
DPRjones and Venomfangx brought me here
bigmike4758 1 week ago
I admit it. I was a wanna be narcissist between my peers. I wanted to be best because that's what my parents pushed me into especially my dad. My dad probably gave me the worst advices. He told me to talk well but not really teaching me anything. He always tried to make me win at arguments. He and I just didn't didn't match. Heck nobody really did when my pops was younger.
marvelous211 1 week ago
Being a Narcissist is sad. These people are sick assholes, because they lie ridiculously with all there grandiose crap and if you try to talk them to reality they will argue. Remember they also have to devalue other people like a devil. If you are saying it ok to be a narcissist, I'm sorry to say your probably a narcissist.
Jlau897 2 weeks ago
@Jlau897 It gets me how many people are proud of being a narcissist. I have known quite a few of them and after so many years they usually end up with huge problems. Destroyed relationships, Financial ruin, No friends, Psycotic episodes, Medication, Dysfunctional children, etc etc. Avoid them like the plague and if you can't, learn their traits, methods and anticipate the cog on the side of their head. Never trust them.
GrumpSkull 5 hours ago
so today was the day i found out i was narcissistic and i dont care
YaBHeavyHittaz 2 weeks ago
My brother is currently ending a marriage with a narcissistic person, in fact the end of their marriage was due to her wanting to further pursue the affair she was having and to get rid of the risk of being caught. She has everything handed to her by her father, her car, and her father is even paying her half for this divorce under these pretenses. Now I understand how her father indulging her is the fuel to her already strong unwarranted self importance.
soccerbabey 3 weeks ago
Oh I see, Politicians now I get it.
crorivpro 3 weeks ago
My husband is a narcissist but has lots of friends. He boosts his friends egos by acting like they are great because they are HIS friends. Portraying the devaluations of everyone else's friends unless they are friends with him as well. I feel constantly devalued by him. However after watching the video on avoidance disorder I'm 100% positive I have that. Talk about a miserable situation!
purity4all 3 weeks ago
@purity4all It's called being the "narcisstic supply". Narcisstic Personality Disorder has been removed from the Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)by the American Psychiatric Association, siting the popularity of narcissism in our culture as the reason. Insurance companies complained it was overdiagnosed. Don't let that stop you from reaching out. In addition to individual counseling try support groups for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery. You deserve healthy relationships!
qawwalification 3 weeks ago
@qawwalification Huh..wouldn't ya know it. It costs too much money so lets just pretend it doesn't exist. Real healthy attitude APA, good job. Yes I know I deserve a healthy relationship, just not sure it's attainable. I know on one hand that I do deserve a good relationship, but knowing it and feeling it are somehow two different things and I don't really feel like I'm worth enough to deserve it..if that makes any sense. Just started counseling today.
purity4all 3 weeks ago
@purity4all Yes, to counseling. Grab every tool you can to reclaim your life. If you're insurance is tied in with his plan, remember United Way First Call for Help (USA) is a free call. This non-profit has free and income based listings including services like counseling, support groups and even, health care. Take it one day at a time. True, it's difficult, but you are worth it. Best to you.
qawwalification 3 weeks ago
@qawwalification Thank you,kind words always bring a tear to my eye ..sniff... Hoping to find out why soon.
purity4all 3 weeks ago
Your crazy and have narcissism! Your the one get defensive like the Dr. Said
Jlau897 3 weeks ago
@Jlau897 who are you taking to?
purity4all 3 weeks ago
@Jlau897 I didn't hear the Dr. say anything about getting defensive.
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ironmantis25 3 weeks ago
We are all broken.. We are all incomplete.. But now thanks to modern science, we have a savior. The pharmaceutical company!
6flakes 3 weeks ago
@6flakes wow how can you have such a broken mindset? we're not incomplete, thats just what those companies want you to think so that they can sell you their stuff to "fix" you! It's all a placebo my friend
1Mperios 3 weeks ago
How come this chick doesn't think I'm incredibly awesome and special.
emanmark 3 weeks ago
Thank you Dr. Hahn for this! You are cute and hot! I know a person who is exactly like this. Your video helps me realize these people are around and most likely never get well.
Jlau897 1 month ago
I dont understand whats so bad about being a narcist? Being a narcist is good, because you have a sense of self worth, a feeling of competence, which is a crucial element for success. Also nobody will hold you back if your a narcist because nobody else matters but YOU.
ironmantis25 1 month ago
@ironmantis25 nothing is bad about it, but there should be a limit to how much you love yourself because if you break the limit then you will also become arrogant and your ego pretty much takes control of you. It's better to channel this love towards other people and I tell ya you will certainly live a much happier life, as she said in the video those people only seek people that can benefits them this will lead to unhappiness since greed also develops.
1Mperios 3 weeks ago
ITS ME , BITCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH !! I AM NARCISTTT SO WHAT??? SUCK MY COCK
inmyboxer 1 month ago
@inmyboxer atleast learn how to spell it :p it's narcissistic, you might be narcissistic but most certainly not intelligent..
1Mperios 3 weeks ago
@1Mperios if i write like a bitch so what? i am not intelligent ? ohh cmon u gotta change ur fuckın borıng ideassssss i write wat ever i like i m not literatur teacher
inmyboxer 3 weeks ago
Narcissists don't make it obvious that they are seeking admiration. They do it subconsciously and subtly.
Triipticz 1 month ago
Yeah I have all this stuff except the envy. I like it when others succeed, but at the same time I do have this higher sense of myself. Probably through overindulgence as a child. Even though narcissism is seen as bad, it's quite sad how she explains how a child's grandiosity gets chipped away by the harshness of the adult world. Exact same grandiosity that took man to the moon. And personally I love other narcissists, I think people who think they're great usually tend to be more interesting.
khazal12 1 month ago
@khazal12 Same here. All the traits except envy. Maybe i am putting my accomplishments in people faces. I will stop, hopefully they will like me more
yahoo3396 1 month ago
@yahoo3396 If you can see these traits in yourself you may not be a narcissist, bravo for self correcting though, it will help for sure. Having a high self esteem is really good, but you don't want to perceive yourself as better than, or more deserving than anyone else and you don't want to be at the point where you just expect special privileges just because you're you.That's NOT good. Best of luck. You deserve to be liked, just work on being compassionate and all will be well.
purity4all 3 weeks ago
@purity4all thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I agree that nobody should perceive themselves as better than anybody else. Being realistic is important. Thank you and have a great day
yahoo3396 3 weeks ago
This lady is correct, but she is very gentle at describing the disorder.The biggest problem with someone with NPD is that they don't see themselves as having a problem.They can't, because they view any mental or medical disorder/disease as a weakness.Can't have a weakness, because that would devalue themselves.One of the biggest problems is relationships with people, especially since they have no empathy.Like the lady said,"People hate you." Intimate relationships get stressful and may not last.
Dragonheat13 1 month ago 2
i think there's different lvs of narcissism
jet44444 2 months ago
Narcs are fun to troll, I mean I know I know trolling is antisocial, but have you ever trolled a narcissist? They can't escape, seriously, keep slighting their ego and they're trapped forever.
Laughingblades 2 months ago 3
She explained the subject well.
realestatecathy 2 months ago
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My father has NPD. The last time I spoke with him was on Father's Day of 2009. (I tried to call him 1 last time) For the sake of my self esteem, my wife and my children I simply had no alternative left. I haven't called him since and he's made no effort at all to contact my family. The cycle of abuse had to stop. You can't defend yourself against someone with a disorder. The only option is to walk or allow yourself to be abused.
MrTurbochargd 2 months ago
Body language wins on the speaking. Asians and chinese people fail on that. They are not credible and they will never be when it's about giving a diagnostic. /Valerie - speak loyaly the truth
lifeispsychology 2 months ago
My girl calls me "a fucking narcissist" (the funny, not angry way, no drama stuff) and i feel ......... PROUD
The way I AM
joshxsw 2 months ago 12
@joshxsw Of course you're proud, your a narcissist.
purity4all 3 weeks ago
@joshxsw don't worry. It will catch up to you. You dont' stay young forever...and you will eventually lose whatever value you think you have, invested in all the wrong shit.
Have a nice day.
mlynn1231 3 weeks ago
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ironmonnkey15 2 months ago
I have/had a friend that was a narcissist. All the symptoms applied to him and I just wish I could have found the name sooner so I could rub it in his face all the times he told me I was wrong even though he was pretty much being a hypocrite. He made it seem as if he was the most important person even under a household that wasn't his and often made obvious excuses just to get away with something.
TunaaaFishhh 3 months ago
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"It's all about me! LOOK AT ME!" Basically......
xXPurpleLoliTranceXx 3 months ago
OEMMGEE!!! she jus described my EX!!!!
love7147 3 months ago
"Narcissism" and NPD are SYMPTOMS of an underlying set of psychological wounds developed from early-childhood trauma. Most lay people and mant mental-health people are unaware of these wounds and how to reduce them. See sfhelp.org/gwc/gwc.htm and the "gercacn"{ channel on YouTube
gercacn 3 months ago 2
@OneEyedSwampWookie Why is God an answer to some of you people? There are narcissists who believe in Christianity.
Like she says, Narcissism is abstract, it isn't always obviously negative like she's explaining. Narcissism can be very hidden, and at times the narcissist doesn't realize that they're so self-indulged.
Meaning: they can believe that they care, but they don't realizing that they're not really emphasizing. But what she's talking about is the extreme, broader Narcissism.
FoamKittyGamer 3 months ago 6
@FoamKittyGamer - yeah i know, Jesus is the magical answer to everything...it's so fucking annoying when people try to bring that delusion.
SpearofDestiny0 1 day ago
NPD is not a bullshit label. It is a useful description for an individual that displays these traits to a pathological extent. If you ever have significant contact with someone with npd you will see.
adamjhnorris 3 months ago 3
@adamjhnorris Very true!!! No wonder there is no easy fix solution for these people either. Having had the unfortunate experience of having a brother with undiagnosed NPD, I can't see him ever becoming likeable or even reasonable. You might ask me how I know he has NPD - ha!!! It's very easy.
darkallegiance666 3 months ago
@SicilianSnacks You're right, these are just personality traits that most people have at least one or two of to some degree. That's why people only get diagnosed with a personality or mood disorder if the symptoms are strong enough that they affect the persons life or the lives of those around them, in a negative way.
For example, most people are shy to some degree but if that shyness or fear of going out prevents them from going outside, then it is social anxiety and not just simple shyness.
Averagegamer100 3 months ago
Read my profile, you will all laugh,its probably the most narcissistic bio EVER! lol Its a joke though
oscie1 4 months ago
Read my profile you will all laugh i promise you( its a joke but people take it seriously)
oscie1 4 months ago
im the best in the world
Moc870 4 months ago
shes all good at explaining the symptoms and breaking down the disorder, however when she comes to the solution part i despise how she said "standard fasion" about the treatments. As if doping up some mentally challenged people will help them at all.
northwestblazinfire 4 months ago
I was married to one for 28 years. I cannot describe the hell it was like for me and our 3 children. One child was disabled so I couldn't leave because I didn't think i could support us all and take care of the child. He was never faithful. Double standard. Very jealous. His last affair went 6 years and then i found out. we are divorced. He doesn't see the problem that he destroyed a perfectly good family withholding love and good things always wanting our worship but we could never measure up.
nanamom4 4 months ago
If you meet a narcissistic run for your life. I had many experienced with them is amazing how they are so clever not to show they claws and evil right way. They are masters in manipulation and making you feel guilty about everything. They will suck you dry without any remorse or guilty. Usually these people don't like children, animals or living thing. That's how you spot them. They just worship themselves as God and superior being.
youfilha 4 months ago
These people make me sick. I was best friends with one and she really fooled me. I started catching on so I left her.
saharski77 4 months ago
@saharski77 A wise decision, I did the same.
The25Sister 4 months ago
23 persons didnt like this video I wonder why LOL......
pokaii 4 months ago
Can't stand 'em either, no point giving them an excuse for being like it, better to make them realize that they're destroying their own life so that they actually do something about it. Check out Sparkster at Hubpages for good info, he got it nailed!
STPMeeboo 4 months ago
I am sorry but I can’t stand these kind of people, disorder or not I don’t see them as a victim.
The25Sister 4 months ago
@The25Sister do you want a cookie for being judgmental
limellexX 4 months ago
@limellexX
You have no idea what I have been through so keep your cookie.
The25Sister 4 months ago
@The25Sister guuuurl plz i dont really care for what youve been through, it doesnt give you the right to judge someone else because they're mentally SICK. youre quite the sophist
limellexX 4 months ago
@limellexX Well aren’t you a hypocrite? READ again, you have no idea so who is judging over who? Something that is based on experience is not a judgment, I have experienced one person myself. Save your energy and don’t try to change my mind because it won’t work. Think of me whatever you want. With one thing I agree with you that they are SICK.
The25Sister 4 months ago
I lived with a narcissist for 33 years before I discovered what he was and left him. I still have PTSD six years later. He sadistically crushed my spirit to gain control over me. He did not love me and our children. He secretly envies people who outshine him, especially men. He called my brother socially inept though he is more intelligent and successful and has many more friends. The freak has a PhD and high-level government job. He fools most people, including mental health experts.
asynkronos 4 months ago
@asynkronos You sound like you just left him, and you believe he is a narcissist.
alexjalaff 4 months ago
@asynkronos Ha ha it took you 33 years to discover.Retard
oscie1 4 months ago
wow sounds like obama is a narcissist!
bcmclaca 5 months ago
So in other words narcissism can't be treated.Solutions:avoid them or put them in jail if they go too far.
NlmDth 5 months ago
This is exactly what my father in law does to everybody around him. He's a nightmare and as bad as it sounds I really wish something would happened to him for him to finally realize how torturing and destroying he is to the whole family. I wouldn't call it a disease!!! I'd call this thing pure toxic evil and deliberate abuse &disrespect to everybody. The disease is something you can proof with blood/urin... tests.Narcissists are purely consciously aware and when they torture us.
jujuhec 5 months ago
@jujuhec Yep, I have family members with this disorder and I know they are very aware of what they are doing. They go about it in a calculated way. What I have learned is to stay away from these toxic relationships.
An in law would be more difficult to avoid because that would put strain on the relationship. When he insults you give him a compliment, return his rudeness with manners. It take the wind out of their sails, you won't be as much fun to torture. You can help him to look more stupid.
lillie1990am 5 months ago
@lillie1990am I'd be most happy if we could avoid contacts... But where I live, real estates are really really expensive...The prices for food, gas, taxes... are very high and the salaries are quite low. We could afford going somewhere else and pay rent, but in that case we won't be able to save any money to buy a house. So we are forced to stay where we are and be under the dictation of his old man. And it's really killing us all.
jujuhec 5 months ago
This disorder that al sharpton and george w bush have hahahahaha money diggers
Speed7743 5 months ago
@Speed7743 you cannot escape karma.
davewoodring 2 months ago
Its so strange I've come across people who actually wish that they had this disorder and/or convince themselves that they have it. Don't people understand that being a Narcissist doesn't make your life epic, make you charming or make things turn out the way that you want them to? There is a healthy way to be goal driven and ambitious but Narcissism is the NEGATIVE side to these personality traits. If you had Narcissism, you wouldn't admit that you had it. You'd think you were perfectly normal
Cadsn6 5 months ago
I lived with a husband who increasingly emotionally abused me and our children. No one could ever please him. I didn't find out what was wrong until 30 years into our marriage. In the end my brain would flat -line (go blank) when I heard his footsteps. He led a double life. I found out and we were divorced. Tragic. But the freedom has been wonderful.
nanamom4 5 months ago
@nanamom4 guy i am with right now is like this i am planning on leaving he is way to crazy first he was sweet loving and caring but then we moved in together and now its hell also he has kids and no matter what his kids do they are always right and better than mine which is nuts
ilovesteve7 5 months ago
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Whew girl, at least he likes his kids. My ex narc lives to detroy our childs self esteem, and he puts his gf son above our /his own child. Oh my god the things he does to pick on him. Courts don't call it physical abuse, but its mental, and now I have to get therapy for my kid in order to have proof his dad is nuts! Thank god you don't have kids with your guy!
Sahbisun 5 months ago
crap...
juliusreea 5 months ago
Also, (closet) narcissist's aren't feeling like the king of te world, allthough they want to, to fill the emptyness. It's a lot of show, but they just want to be loved (in an exaggerated way). By the way: stop bashing narcissist's please, it's not helping them and it's mean to do so. Noone chooses to have a disorder and helping eachother is the best we can do. What good is it to put them away as master manipulators (which a lot of them are, yes) and leave them to their own? That's selfish.
WeZetMusic 5 months ago
There are different forms of narcissism. I'm diagnosed with closet narcisism. I worked in psychiatry, I care about people, but still have grandious images of my future etc. Also the feeling of being to good for certain tasks, but I never look down on people or use them.There are so many (forms) of disorders that it's certain everyone has something. People calling you a narcisist have no idea what they're talking about and propably mean egoism. Leave it to a psychologist.
WeZetMusic 5 months ago
are you joking me?! narcisccism disorder is just an excuse for wussies to blame their parents on their failure in life
Omgsome1just 5 months ago
Some people call me a narcissistic, but enough about them...
emstratten 5 months ago
I usually pay for lunch and helped substantially financially for my son his wife and their beautiful two children, no problem I can afford it; but I feel that once in a while they should treat me and my wife too since they are pretty well off too. Well, since they were not doing it, after a nice meal at my favored place I stated that it was my turn to order to order the most expensive item on the menu just like my dear in-law had just done. well she got mad stating this & that & that; so wgoh?..
aoknponte 6 months ago
does anyone else find these psychological labels nauseating? like the self-indulgence of it all makes your head want to explode
ilikevines 6 months ago
WistfulnessLonging 5 months ago
23 people have narcissistic personality disorder .
simplekeepitsimple 6 months ago
im always surrounded by these people
TheJasonDR 6 months ago
pena q eu não entendo inglês.
MrMariana53 6 months ago
narcissistic personality disorder is just human nature
TheDp321 6 months ago
I feel like everyone is narcissistic...
turnernp 6 months ago
I never did like these "experts" in the psychiatric profession. Just look at this one in the vid flapping her lips and flinging labels out left and right and being so proud as she does, as if she actually knows anything about anything!
What a farce.
guyNbluejeans 6 months ago
The only thing narcissists hope to gain from social interaction is for people to admire them and reinforce the image they have of themselves.
niverent 6 months ago
@niverent hmm sounds like everyone
TheDp321 6 months ago
@TheDp321 The difference is most people want their real selves to be liked. With narcs they want the image they have of themselves as perfect to be reinforeced so that they won't have to deal with their real imperfect (and therefore in their minds unacceptable) selves. Their whole way of interacting with people is just a bunch of bullshit. A show.
niverent 6 months ago
1:27 - 1:40 = 98% of people on facebook (especially photo comments lol)
TheDoritosfan1 6 months ago
i am a narcissist, its hard to be a narcissist believe me.
proximaism 6 months ago
my best friend has grown to be a narcissist...its annoying as fuck.
ghostdance202 6 months ago
they sound like the biggest trolls
RiVa667 7 months ago
@RiVa667
lol if you get a basketball they get one with diamonds
AmphibiousReconMSOB 6 months ago
If you want to read the rants of the biggest narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
MrToronto2009 7 months ago
I have a question for you guys. Can a person still be a narcissist if he/she have high self esteem? She said that narcissist have low self esteem. But could a person have high self esteem and still be a narcissist?
KINGARTHUR3341 7 months ago
@KINGARTHUR3341 In my interpretation, no. Someone with a reasonable amount of self-esteem would see no good reason to intensely devalue others and/or their possessions or accomplishments.
TheBadSpoon 7 months ago
I wish the audio was better on this but otherwise this is very informative. I know I have definitely observed this type of behavior in people in my life.
lemonkooler 7 months ago
my cousin is a narcissist.
He goes to a small school but considers everyone too dumb to be his friend, he doesn't feel the need to go to college because he thinks he can easily get whatever job he wants.
KneezBees 7 months ago
Man, narcissistic personality disorder seems like a normal human nature
JiggaNiggaFigga 7 months ago
@JiggaNiggaFigga All personality disorders have exaggerated elements of human nature.
CambridgeHeights 7 months ago
Women can be narcissistic too, a lot of girls I know depreciate themselves in hopes that someone will tell her otherwise and they usually do. Men are considered more narcissistic possibly because they're more open about it, women are more sly and manipulative about it. I would know, I am one.
mochimochi15 8 months ago
My father has NPD and it's difficult to live with him. He convinced me to give up my biggest dream, even though I would have been successful in life. But later he turns around and blames me for not doing what I would have done in he first place and made me look like the fool while he thought he was such a guru. These people never take any responsibility and don't care about what happens. You can't change these people.
jpzxcvbnm 8 months ago
she has guilty look on her face
atmark666 8 months ago
Narcissism is a self defence. My dad is one and when hes around i become narcissist because i just need to desperately boost my selfisteem. I dont wanna hurt other ppl but sometimes i cant get my narcissism off so im cold and angry with ppl if they try talk to me or sth. But to me im not a "wholetime" narcissist. Some just dont get a chance to "see the light" so they hold on to narcissism. But you shouldnt try to change the narcissist because you cant only he/ she can. Btw im 18 yo girl :---)
Purrfectification 8 months ago
this is a really good explaination of narcissism!!! everyone will come in contact with people like this in their life at one time or another and its important to understand why they act the way they do. people with this don't tend to get help for some reason, and they really are in need to because it affects them but also all the people around them too
SumMer70401 8 months ago
Excellent video. My brother Mike in a nutshell.
chewybuddy 8 months ago
i wish i had known more about NPD before. it was very difficult being in the dark about NPD and living with a mother who suffers from this disorder. it caused a lot of irreparable damage. but it is a relief to learn about this PD even now that it's too late. thanks for posting!
jahguide1122 8 months ago
I bet they had a pill ready before they made this disorder
Zareste 9 months ago
Donald Trump
prschuster 9 months ago
German nationalist party?
RowanSIG 9 months ago
I'm wondering the same. I might have mild narcissism because I noticed it. I usually feel really upset or frustrated if no one notices what I have accomplished or when someone else gets praise. The only difference is I have empathy towards others & I don't brag, hardly ever. I also don't show off! I would never want to hurt anyone. But, I admit, sometimes my thoughts are selfish. It's more internal then external. I don't really show it, I feel it. It makes things very tense. :/
cookiedipp 9 months ago
actually i am narcissistic but it never turned into a disorder because I do feel empathy...it's just that i try to think of myself as a great, awesome person because yes i have been mentally, emotionally, and physically abused as a child and i probably didn't want to think of myself as worthless but as i didn't want those who hurt me to win and seem bigger and better than i am because they are really scum for causing me to be like this
PsYcHoTiCrAgE 9 months ago
I lived with one for 20 years and he had me convinced I was a nothing. But then I found out about NPD and everything fit. I have experienced every single thing in this video. There is no cure for these people. And they are a menace to their children. All they see is them selves. No matter how well others do they are always wrong. Anyone who needs to lash out amd devalue this video is definitely a narcissist. I
vonda1964 9 months ago
The worst thing about NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) is that it could really be your best friend. They are great at parties and could be viewed as really popular. The thing that really sucks about it is when it happens to you! It turns out that one of my best friends has this and he won't get help for it! This is a rare disorder (0.5% of the USA has it) and it really hurts everybody in the end. You gotta get away from them. You have to.
thewolfkiba 10 months ago
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@thewolfkiba
hmm.....having studied this disorder for several years now i must warn you that there is a big difference between being narcissistic and having the actual NPD. I have been around those who are narcissistic, and around those with NPD. Huge difference! People with NPD are emotionally numb to everything, as a matter a fact they dont even have any emotions inside. It is very unlikely for them to seek treatment due to subconscious fears of exposure.
glutamin111 9 months ago
@glutamin111 What else can you tell me about it?
thewolfkiba 9 months ago
i think they need to love themselves more, if they did, they would see the love in everyone else too. you don't have to prove to someone that you love yourself and everyone else by saying it all the time, if you really do, you won't have to say it.
if you loved your life and where so increadibly happy for being yourself, you would not be envious of others. so i think they need to find some love for them selves, since they are constantly asking for approval in others. guide them to their heart.
yocbjone 10 months ago
What meds, if any can be Rx'd for NPD?
Have a BAD situation with a family member, ANY topic that is brought up is quickly changed to THEM...along with great details as if you were their biographer jotting down all these facts about them.
IT'S HELL.
believr77 11 months ago
since when is pride and arrogance a 'disorder' ?
stupid psychology.
WanderingRover 11 months ago
@WanderingRover Watch the video again, and try to listen. Your comment displays the narcissistic characteristic of devaluation of a disapproving other.
quartercherries 10 months ago
@quartercherries Everything nowadays is reduced to a syndrom.....a disease.....a disorder.....
thanks for your comment! It really gave me a laugh. You are so smart to pick up so many things from a youtube comment.
WanderingRover 10 months ago
is this all women?
DanielG0LD 11 months ago
@DanielG0LD No but it's most men. Women tend to be empathic, humble, selfless, etc.
MsAgnosticatheist 9 months ago
@MsAgnosticatheist really?
sandjetteer 9 months ago
@sandjetteer Yes, women are more empathic, nurturing, selfless, etc. because we give birth and those qualities go hand in hand with caring for children. We are also more emotional and sensitive.
MsAgnosticatheist 9 months ago
@MsAgnosticatheist not my ex
crh2010 9 months ago
@MsAgnosticatheist That is crock. Most women are self centered and always have to have their way. Caring my foot. They want to their way, and they ruin mens lives to get what they want. Men are much more open minded when finding the right woman, but a woman has a long check list of what her ideal man should be, and if hes not those things, she will try to mold him into what she wants him to be.
VASINGER 9 months ago
@VASINGER I know women don't have a blood stained history like men. Men have a very long list of requirements for a woman:
Perfect nose
Big boobs
Small waist
MsAgnosticatheist 9 months ago
@MsAgnosticatheist women can also be pieces of garbage, don't generalize, it is narcissistic.
bischerosti 9 months ago
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My dad has this... it sucks. He makes a fool out of everyone in the family (and we, the kids are all adults that have our own lives and our mom hasn't lived with him for 20 years, doesn't stop *him* though), just left my house yelling at me so that the neighbors could hear that I'm "an evil junkie who hurts everyone around him", even though I don't use drugs and am a kind person and give money to UNICEF every month, help out my friends every day and give away my stuff. That really bothers him :/
Samoutuomas 11 months ago
My dad has this... it sucks. He makes a fool out of everyone in the family (and we, the kids are all adults that have our own lives and our mom hasn't lived with him for 20 years, doesn't stop *him* though), just left my house yelling at me so that the neighbors could hear that I'm "an evil junkie who hurts everyone around him", even though I don't use drugs and am a kind person and give money to UNICEF every month, help out my friends every day and give away my stuff. That really bothers him :/
Samoutuomas 11 months ago
@Samoutuomas my mom has it too, and my sis and I were always trying to figure out what we did wrong...until we learned about it and how to survive if you have a parent with it...I still refuse to say sorry when SHE is wrong!
tiamarr 11 months ago
@tiamarr I hear ya mate!
Samoutuomas 11 months ago
I went to college with an asshole like that - hasn't changed an iota.
ftheGOP 11 months ago
sarah palin
bobbybenjamin 11 months ago
@bobbybenjamin Try BArak Obama - he was the one walking around with GQ mag with his picture on it.
agentspinnaker 11 months ago
@agentspinnaker He's the president of the united states. every magazine he reads has had his picture on it at one point. he however, has never tried to legally trademark his name after hosting a reality show, which was done after a half term stint as governor. the woman bleeds of NPD.
bobbybenjamin 11 months ago
I love how this is one big joke for all of you. This is a real thing, but just because you might have traits of it or you know someone thats narcissistic, doesnt mean they or you have Narcissistic Personallity Disorder. As someone who is training to be a psychiatrist, all of these comments really bother me.
RawrsItsJamie8D 11 months ago
I couldn't be a narcissist. I'm far too beautiful and exquisite.
uraharafkedme 11 months ago 83
@uraharafkedme Well said. lol
jfnuyen 10 months ago
Thanks for posting. I like this lady, she gets right to it, and gives lots of examples to the issue.
mozeus5 11 months ago
My "Narcissistic boss": Would and / or should an Narcissistic boss be categorized as a health risk for fellow employees? A health risk because, as it could be assumed, they would inevitably create a stressful working environment where numerous employees would experience higher levels of anxiety (i.e. health related problems)?...To say nothing of the employees expressing withdrawn attitudes, slumbering productivity, drained creativity, and deflated enthusiasm! I'm just saying!
SensieSanzashi 11 months ago
@MiamiPush2theLimit must be nice my bro is narcissistic too :P
TheDeacon09 11 months ago
Who cares!! Ore-sama is just pure awesome! Take it! xD
Everyone is and will always be narcissistic. Some are just good at faking it
jAjA004 11 months ago
If you've looked this video up it's most likely you have NPD.
dnjp4life 11 months ago
@dnjp4life Your Wrong & clearly misinformed about NPD. I looked this video up for help with my long time friend. No doubt I 2 have a personality disorder myself but it's not NPD. People w/ NPD have no awareness or or interest in self development. But if your just trying to devalue this video then it's most likely you have NPD.
ciji916 11 months ago
Bullshit. Apparently i have the narcissistic and these retards are speaking shit. im still bloody awsome. its not a disorder - its a girl. this asian cunt is just jealous of how awsome i am.
TheVanishingSky 11 months ago
BULLSHIT. Apparently i have the narcissistic and these retards are speaking shit. im awsome so she needs to shut the fuck up...dumb asian bitch
TheVanishingSky 11 months ago
Is having ADHD completely dismiss NPD people, people?
pizazzi 11 months ago
narcissistic personality disorder...
Sounds like what is being taught as the way of life in our schools.
batfly 11 months ago
she knows her shit I'll give her that
goldaviators 1 year ago
My cuz is narcissistic and I always feel like beating the shit out of him
Yukkid 1 year ago
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they will ask for something or you give them something and won't even say thank you to you!
chuchukabingbing 1 year ago
I'm not a narcissist since I'm better than all narcissists.
toucansam3 1 year ago
I wish i had known all of this before i married one!
youbeenreviewed 1 year ago 48
@youbeenreviewed I was engaged to a guy like this, RUN for your life. I called off our wedding two years ago and I'm still trying to recover from his damage to me...They suck your mind dry...OMG, run from the nut...
MisSoc2011 8 months ago
@youbeenreviewed
You still would've anyway. :)
wakeupfist 7 months ago
@wakeupfist I know!! :)
youbeenreviewed 7 months ago
NPD is male and HPD is female. Same self-focused personality disorder and both hateful and dangerous. Let any of each in your life and you will hate them for life. It is a permanent personality type and cannot be changed except for a minute percentage. Run from each of them and deny future contact is the only defence.
JohnnyRock2000 1 year ago
@JohnnyRock2000 How dare you say that??????? I am a narcissist and I can change anytime I want! I just choose not to!!!! muahhaahahahahahahaa!!!
MiamiPush2theLimit 1 year ago
@MiamiPush2theLimit - So you are a female AND you are a narcissist? OK, but rarer. Curious. Would you find that drama is a huge component of your personality? In your behavior do you appear to be cool, distant and restrained or vibrant, in-your-face and emotional? I won't tell.
JohnnyRock2000 1 year ago
@JohnnyRock2000 My behavior goes both ways. I am very moody. Drama is a big part of my life mostly because I am very selfish and other people are sick of dealing with my selfishness.
MiamiPush2theLimit 1 year ago
This desciption fits perfectly with the "western wife."
TSM8088 1 year ago
18 borderline and narcissistic people didn't like this video. ; )
bigway40 1 year ago
very fucking
funny!!!!
capeverdoswa 1 year ago
The cure for narcissism is to tell them they are "working class nobody's" just like the rest of us. They aren't immortal, they will die like the rest of us. Spending like crazy thinks you are doing well when you're up-the-ass in debt that you'll never pay off your mortgage until you're 70+. Last. if you want your next generation surrounding you at your death bed when you leave this world, put them first before YOU yourself.
lem0n2lime 1 year ago