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  • Description: "On the importance of healing mother - daughter relationships."

    Healing? I heard nothing in this video other than typical ghetto hatred, anger, vulgarity and a general lack of education. 'Sounds to me like she's projecting her own abuse. Can you imagine being married to this broken, angry mess? I'd rather go to hell.

  • Pretty radical stuff there Alexyss. Speak your soul until it is out. Surrender to God :) Peace.

  • Thank you for your honesty and realness love ya Alexyss

  • Oops! In short, thanks for speaking about this topic.

  • Alexyss, I just started watching you on this video.I'm an Indian woman(India) born and raised in America most of my life and Had to deal w a toxic mother all my life. im glad you posted this-I have no Famly or friends that can relate or I can talk to-this is such a taboo topic-complaining about one's toxic mother.I have lived thru so much drama, hate,misunderstandings,judgeme­t

  • This video really touched me. My mom is everything you mentioned and none of her kids are for her husband but she wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire.

  • OK, at the end she starts making sense. I agree. Women need to stop putting each other down, especially their own daughters.

  • I can't understand what this woman is saying. It's incoherent. I literally don't know what she's saying. Is she speaking English?

  • @BoadieMcLeod Don't worry only the Real can understand Her. For a simple mind like yours I'd suggest starring at a wall.

  • Is this video a JOKE?

  • Goddess ur telling the muthafucking truth!!!

    I wish the fuck some cow ass hoe talk shit to my daughter.....I WILL KILL THE HOE

  • The movie character Precious' mother is a perfect example of this mother/daughter tragedy. No physical violence necessary...the psychological violence is just as toxic, if not more. Powerful message...the truth.

  • This is good. Really good except for all the cussing. 

  • This seriously needs to be talked about!!! Most people are ashamed to talk about it...there are people who otherwise have good mothers, but have dealt with a phase of this...it's just awful. Mothers sexualizing daughters...being jealous, accusing them of flirting and being sexually active LONG before they really are or even thinking about being so. Thank you for starting the dialogue

  • They're not only doing it to their daughters, believe me.... I Know!

  • 3:18 to 4:09 had ME ROLLING!!! YOU GO GIRL!

  • Say dat girl.what I wanna say to you is that no matter what you've been thru,I give yu upmost props.yu will become whateva yu choose.and who ever hates will remain a nobody;)).thanks for b n yu ma

  • Are you still good with your mother? I hope so... ;0)

  • I never heard a woman speak to other women in this way. What you 're talking about soooooo true.

  • so true......nuff said

  • Wow, I could feel her rage and heartache deep in my soul. I can relate, though, My mom is like this. And that's why I don't fuck with her ass no more.

  • lmfao @camera girl haha

  • very true i was in that situation thanks for putting this out

  • Thank you Alexyss tuchy subject but very true unfortunately :-)

  • This sounds exactly like 'Precious'

  • this is also applicable to how females treat each other, in general...not just mother-daughter. Remember when Dr. Oz said that when toxins are spilled in to the ocean, all the fish in the area--that are male will turn female. This speaks volumes. Also read Dr. Phil Valentine's book "Wounded Womb," profound!

  • "allll kinda~ways"......luv when you say this

  • precious?

  • One of my favorite pieces! She's laying down some serious truth here! =)

  • In Miami a few years ago a mother set her daughter on fire because the mother's sleazy boyfriend was making passes at her daughter.

  • Get on 'em Alexyss, this is too true.

  • I believe in what you are saying and it reminds me of the movie Precious even though the movie was fictional all of that happens in real life

  • PREACH!!

  • This is just nothing but Beautiful! And DAMN! It's not just Black mothers that do this. White women try to steal the sense of woman from their daughters. Women who buy 150 different colored bras and EVERYTHING to make them sexy, but buy their daughters 2 white bras (when they are already a 36B & neglected them before). How sexy do you ever have permission to be in that house? There's only ONE Queen bee - mine was White.

  • i wish she preach at my church

  • This is my second time watching this video. I love it! Alexyss, You need your own TV Show

  • you give a realli bad and biased representation of black women and mothers that arent necessarily true in some cases...just cause you experienced this does not mean everyonelse goes thru this......also u contradict urself in some places like u call these gurls certain names dat r innapprioriate...its not just in black people as well any race can go through such jealousy......am not saying your speaking falsely but its just abit severe.. how can u speak so falsely infront of your daughter?

  • where is your HBO show?

    I love you and feel everything you are saying .

    Keep it real.............

  • so true alexyss the older generation torments young girls, due to the fact that they are or were sluts!! Preach!!!

  • Alexis...I LOVE YOU!!!!

  • sorry so long, jus want 2 say any girls/young ladies/women if u need som1 2 talk 2, who can relate, if u wanna share ya story/kno mine, or wateva pleez feel free 2 comment/mess./email me i will answer im here n im reaching out sumtime a friend/sum1 2 talk 2s all u need no1 eva reached out 2 me evn at my worst ive been thru hell n back, things no1 def no child should n ive made it my goal 2 help/nform/empower girls/women i sincerely mean this stay strong ladies n alexyss thank u 4 doing wat u do

  • i got pregnant wit my daughter was kicked out, i took that oppurtunity 2 get on my feet. i struggle daily battling my disease n no1 even so much as visits or calls da hospital (which im in at least 1x every 6 weeks). things hav gotten a lot betta 1. cuz i fought 2 earn it n provemyself 2. cuz even wit how i was raised im a damn good mother who does da opposite of them n im happy so they look at me n see theres more than anger. they deny it all n pretend it neva happen, im glad im not like them.

  • you had me b4 da 1st min was up i grew up in a house wit 4 gen. of women n all but 1 was bitter/angry. i grew up never being hugged/kissed/told i love you, i had such low self esteem which forced me 2 go n look 4 luv elsewhere leading into mental/physically abusive relationships. i hav sickle cell disease n as i child i would hav these terrible pain episodes, i'd b screamin in pain n no1 took me 2 da dr. or ER they said i was faking 4 attention. wen it was proven no1 even said sorry.

  • omg ive been trying to prove that to my mom for the longest.. but she just miserable

  • AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMM­MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEE­EEEEEEEEEEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Man You ain't neva lied!!!! It's a throwback from slavery. Institutional Racism has caused a BAD inferior complex in our people. A lot of times those same women put the seed in the minds of our young black girls when their minds arent even thinking about such things. We have so much negativity and its GOT TO STOP!!!!

  • I love my mother and appreiciate her so much more watching this..This was her reality and she made sure it wasn't mine...

  • your mothers a strong woman that loved you enough to make sure you never lived through or felt the things that she did growing up. i respect her and commend her, n i dont even know her, because its so easy to fall into the cycle. im trying to do the same for my daughter she doesnt know anything but love. i was only 18 n didnt know how 2love but wen my daughter was born i was reborn as a mother, it came 2 me as soon as i saw her lil face... its nice 2c sum1 b appreciative n realize wat they hav!

  • Thank u for this video, I was a victim too it was terrible and I still have nightmares I cant understand my mother hit me so much when I was younger I cant explain... and I cant forget.But I can forgive.

  • she's really pretty

  • No one in this world like Dr Alexyss K. Tylor,the words of absolute truth,I SAY PREACH ,TEACH,reach them all and teach them all !!Luv her!

  • I love Alexyss! I went through this. As soon as my body started developing my mother treated me like trash. Looked at me with total disgust. Took a long time before I developed self worth.

  • I know what u r saying, when I was younger it surprised (but not anymore) me how these old bitches that u would think would have some common sense and knowledge to share with the younger females would b some of the most ignorant, ugly and useless waste of human flesh walking on this earth. How they would do their all to stop and prevent any good from coming to someone else, it is truly amazing and sad.

  • THANK YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING WHAT NEEDS TO BE SAID ALEXYSS!!!! Talk about it....keep talking about it. This subject alone is so disturbing and so deep it needs to be seriously addressed. My mother experienced this with her mother and many female members of her family and so called friends! Fortunately for me her misfortune has led her to be a great mother that talk to me about everything concerning life and women like you are describing.

  • So true. Sad but true.

  • a woman will do this to her sons also in the absence of daughters i have witnessed it both ways

  • yeh.why is it there is sooo much unhealthy Oedipus complexes w/sons in ALL ethnic communities?

    ps~I was HACKED too!

  • This is so deep and real. Alexys, girl...you don't pull no punches EVER, do you? I 'preciate you for exposing wrongs so they can be dealt with.

  • "even a broke clock iz rt 2'ce a day." I aint gonna front. take u out tht fuc'd up Janet Jackson outfit, give u a topic ur passionate about, and can relate 2... gud job. u hit it dead on. thnk U.... ur azz still crazy.

  • Alexyss rules...come to England Alexyss!!!

  • lol! I love how ironic the conversation contrasts with the classical music in the background.

    You are awesome nontheless alexyss :)

  • LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! word

  • But all jokes aside this is soooooooo true, my best friend has been going through this for a long time. Her mother is terrible to her. I cannot wait til next year because she turns 18 and the day she does I'm gettin her the hell out that house and taking her with me. Somewhere she cannot be hurt like her mother hurt her.

  • @felixpartz

    Yeah, I noticed it too. HILARIOUS LOL!

  • preach Alexyys!

  • join me on my live show call in and listen 347-884-9831 chat blogtalkradiodotcom/alexyss-kt­ylor-vp

  • Speak girl! This woman is deep as sh*t! She is telling the truth....unfortunately. I'm a witness.

  • i think women hating themselves & not seeing themselves r their image as divine is a direct result of patriarchal religious ideology & teachings

    i never understood women who could accept & practice any religions that taught them how evil, weak & inferior they r & how speacial, strong & superior men r when REAL LIFE demonstrats the opposite 2 b the truth

    women make religion a trillon dollar business & everyone of them tell her, "that next 2 a man, she aint shit!"

    U R what u bleve

  • JOIN MY LIVE 2PM TODAY 347-884-9831 blogtalkradiodotcom/alexyss-kt­ylor-vp

  • Is that the Nutcracker Suite I hear playing in the background?

  • preach!

  • I got a friend whos mother has three children by three different daddies and she does nothing but tear her daughters down and call them all types of whores and sluts. But sometimes I sit and wonder if she wasn't out whoring then her daughters wouldnt be out emmulating the shit she fucking do. Maybe if she took the time she spend cussing them out everyday to actually sit down and educate them then they would be women with respect for themselves and they wouldnt be out sucking and fucking!!!

  • U know a lot of women got nuttin but pure evil and hate inside of them.

  • seen so many of this in my family and others among female. like a generational curse

  • check out my live show 2pm today blogtalkradiodotcom/alexyss-kt­ylor-vp call in 347-884-9831

  • For a long time I grew up having to deal with the emotional abuse. I almost feel bad calling it emotional abuse, but at the end of the day that is what it is. When I was 15 I attempted suicide. I have much grown since then and realize that no one in this world will control my value, self-worth or my right to live in this world. You are an inspiration, thanks you brought tears to my eyes.

  • im sad. some1 msg me on M.S.N.

    msg me back uO

  • Yep i see this all the time in the ghett. but wow alexyss you were really affected by this.

  • You speak the truth here! We need to stay strong and love our daughters as we are raising Goddesses!

  • Just remember none of us get to choose our parents!

    Hope this is some consolation.

  • AMEN

  • Alexis you've hit a spot so correct for me that I'm feeling teary. Why mum used to call me a whore, her best things was when going out with friends whenever i was going out i would be fornicatin. i.e. f***ing. I do get on with her now, but you've touched me by letting me know it wasn't just me who was put down so much that i spent the 1st 4 years out of school doubting myself. I love you! x

  • yea, my mom used to treat me like dirt and put me down when i was a teen. i was a good kid who stayed in school, graduated, didnt run the streets, didnt smoke or drink...and she always yelled at me and once told me i was a "crumby kid"....yet, she adored my bro. who was a pothead and who got kicked out of school for smoking pot on campus. she adored him to pieces. i hated my mom for a long time, but im okay, now that i gave her a piece of my mind once and for all. she's a lot nicer to me now.

  • we have very similar stories i fought hard tried to do the best i could in skool hell at everything i did just to try n show her i was worthy or get an i love you or anything but it never came. now with a family and a man who actually loves me (after goin thru a buncha deadbeats) n a happy life, i realzied from my fiance n child how i was spose 2b loved/treated/cared 4 n i went back n told my family the pain n ish they caused, its funny now she wants 2b my friend n needs me i 4giv neva 4get tho

  • you know what I know this girl she is very messy just like her momma they jump people together and girl all they like to do is fight and then they fight each other I guess like mother like daughter Im like these bitches are some hoes that got problems they dont like each other she was a bully in school and I heard her momma was the same way very messy and sick.

  • there is also an epidemic of women who are so busy trying to be their daughters best friends and live vicariously through them that they deny that their children are prematurely having sex and engaging in other adult activities

  • I know a few myself. I'm glad someone is addressing this issue.

  • when they was young they let all types of donkey kong dicks all in em WOW!!.....LMAO

    but once again u speak the truth alexyss

  • Yes Queen,

    Continue to speak and teach us.

  • with so much conviction!!!! Are you alright?

  • this u s a not irock...

  • moms like this a go gods j e s u s hell hell hell baby

  • Speak sistah!!!!

  • PREACH SISTA! Vote for Obama! Yes We Can!!!!

  • Amen sistah you are on point!!!

  • Truly devastating...

    I didnt even realize I was under attack until I was GROWN. It leaves deep scars. Very deep.

  • you so right sistah

  • She hit the nail on the head with this one!

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