i like your video.. cool.. i get your points because i also speak about these issues, as i am very politically motivated in the discourse of my speech more often than not (do you get the specific implications here?)..
i know it sounds quite a superficial point, but one point i think i would like to contribute here is this:
DESTROY the rap industry and you MIGHT just start something off with regards to cleaning up peoples' hearts, minds and actions..
Labeling poems about crime and its harvestings (and in a manner that can truthfully only be said to be promoting such crime) as "black culture" is tantamount to labeling all such crime itself as "black culture"..
As long as it is black people themselves (in general) who are labeling themselves and each other in this way and allowing themselves by their own free volition to become subject to and followers of the rap industry then these problems will continue and will even escalate - in my opinion. Feel free to disagree if you want, but remember.. the truth is often displeasing to the desires!
"It may be that you hate something that is good for you, and it may be that you love something that is bad for you.." (qur'aan)
The qur'aan commands us towards correct guidance in life and in the above translation of a part of a verse of the qur'aan we see the almighty is telling us about some of our attributes we must overcome if we wish to be of the successful ones.. and true success is in the afterlife!
BTW, i think you might actually end up marrying a white man who deeply loves you and whom you can easily deeply love for the rest of your lives together and you will have beautiful coffee coloured children.. but.. allah knows best.. you might even find that black man you are looking for, but i would suggest he is in africa and not here.. but what would i know.. i'm just a white lump of muscle.. lol..
Well.. just promise me this.. when that tanned white man who weighs in at around 140kg with near to no body fat and stands at around 6' tall gives you even that little inkling that he is a good man and he is interested in you... stick to your word here and snatch him up as your own!! MARRY HIM!! Make the man happy!!
And throw the big race thing out of the window.. i would have thought people would have just moved on from this ancient stupidity by now!! We are all ONE BLOOD!!
go to asian guys, they are also in ur position black women and asian guys are the ones that are out casts these days, and asian guys are the shit! they are sucessful...
Intelligent, dark-skinned, caring, level-headed and pretty. Pity you don't like White guys. In the same circumstances I'd put a ring on it. Can't help you find the right guy though. However if you need to have children go for artificial insemination. For God's sake don't settle for some thug. You look and sound way too good for that kind of comedown.
I think the problem is not with the black woman, its with the numbers. There are not enough black men to go around. If every black man decided "Ok. Today I'm going to get married to a black woman". There would still be close to 2 million black women left unmarried. And according to the statistics, less than 1% of black men marry outside of their ethnic group. The majority of black men, marry black women. But the numbers are not in the black woman's favor. Just not enough black men to go around:(
First off, Black men aren't getting married either, not just the women. Second, there are PLENTY of Black men having multiple children with Black women and not marrying them so we are not going extinct! There are PLENTY of Black people in Africa and the Caribbean who will be hard pressed to find White people to marry so they will continue having Black children!
Since you want a big strong man, why don't you get a couple of parking tickets, go down to the courthouse to pay them in person, and strike up a conversation with a good looking cop?
Since you want a big stron man, why don't you get a couple of parking tickets, go down to the courthouse to pay them in person, and strke up a conversation with a good looking cop?
@SuperKarabash1 Black women talking about 'downlows' is an insult to the 98% of black men who are not homosexual. African male leaders are telling Obama to keep his homo agenda out of Africa and most bm worldwide would consent to homos being put to death. Since bw are deceived they believe anything their white teachers/leaders tell them. First the white man tricked bw into rejecting their sons then their hair and now themselves. BW's insults of bm have them rejected with no solution in sight.
Is your problem finding a decent black guy or finding a decent black guy who fits all of your other superficial criteria? Like in your video you want a big black man. 300lbs, built like an athlete. Etc. But yet, also smart and successful? That doesn't usually go together. Would you even recognize a good successful man if he was right in front of your face? If he didn't meet your physical specifications. Maybe you should try dating online and talking to normal looking black guys who are employed.
@cpott23 I know of a lot of good quality black men. Ive dated a few but for some reason many black men do not want to get married. They feel as if it is unnecessary and isnt worth it for them. Ive done online dating... Im dating someone now that I met online. That isnt the problem....and I am not hell bent on a man thats 6'6 or 300 pounds. I dont care about all of that as long as you love God, family and self with good communication skills and an appreciation for my time we can roll.
Dating blk women is a chore? I do agree there are blk women with attitudes, but there could be more to this. Having a single mother who is an authority figure, with out the father to balance out the constant nagging with "that a boys" Blkmen from single mother homes may equate them with nagging/overbearing authority figures LOL!. Just find ur Joy anyway u can regardless of race. U say u dont want a white man, u only want blk men? how is that any different from blk men who only want white women?
To start you can stop stressing over "all the black men are either in jail, uneducated or on the downlow?" bc that's just not true :) From what I can see many men actually feel they hav nothing to gain from marriage. Also what will you gain from it? There are blk men in college, and you may hav to find one that is less attractive than u prefer, bc average men might want to lock u down :P lol. continued...
@Natsukashii3 Again, I dont care about all of that. I NEVER said I wanted a pretty boy that everyone falls head over heels for because they are SO FINE. I dont care about all of that as long as I like you.
@JessicaLaShawn It bothers me how we don't hav enough family structure in our community, I would not limit myself to blk men. I know that is not what you like but I think other types may be looking for marriage more often. I know blk men marry but not enough, and it could be due to our culture. Don't give up he might be right around the corner :)
i like your video.. cool.. i get your points because i also speak about these issues, as i am very politically motivated in the discourse of my speech more often than not (do you get the specific implications here?)..
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
i know it sounds quite a superficial point, but one point i think i would like to contribute here is this:
DESTROY the rap industry and you MIGHT just start something off with regards to cleaning up peoples' hearts, minds and actions..
Labeling poems about crime and its harvestings (and in a manner that can truthfully only be said to be promoting such crime) as "black culture" is tantamount to labeling all such crime itself as "black culture"..
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
As long as it is black people themselves (in general) who are labeling themselves and each other in this way and allowing themselves by their own free volition to become subject to and followers of the rap industry then these problems will continue and will even escalate - in my opinion. Feel free to disagree if you want, but remember.. the truth is often displeasing to the desires!
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
"It may be that you hate something that is good for you, and it may be that you love something that is bad for you.." (qur'aan)
The qur'aan commands us towards correct guidance in life and in the above translation of a part of a verse of the qur'aan we see the almighty is telling us about some of our attributes we must overcome if we wish to be of the successful ones.. and true success is in the afterlife!
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
BTW, i think you might actually end up marrying a white man who deeply loves you and whom you can easily deeply love for the rest of your lives together and you will have beautiful coffee coloured children.. but.. allah knows best.. you might even find that black man you are looking for, but i would suggest he is in africa and not here.. but what would i know.. i'm just a white lump of muscle.. lol..
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
Well.. just promise me this.. when that tanned white man who weighs in at around 140kg with near to no body fat and stands at around 6' tall gives you even that little inkling that he is a good man and he is interested in you... stick to your word here and snatch him up as your own!! MARRY HIM!! Make the man happy!!
And throw the big race thing out of the window.. i would have thought people would have just moved on from this ancient stupidity by now!! We are all ONE BLOOD!!
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
The only major difference between any of us as a whole is that some are believers and some are infidels unto their lord..
I am not a polytheist nor an atheist nor an agnostic nor a theist..
I am a muslim by conversion الحمدلله ....
AnabolicMutant 1 month ago
go to asian guys, they are also in ur position black women and asian guys are the ones that are out casts these days, and asian guys are the shit! they are sucessful...
myseramicsims 1 month ago
Intelligent, dark-skinned, caring, level-headed and pretty. Pity you don't like White guys. In the same circumstances I'd put a ring on it. Can't help you find the right guy though. However if you need to have children go for artificial insemination. For God's sake don't settle for some thug. You look and sound way too good for that kind of comedown.
Zebred2001 2 months ago
bitch your such a worthless racist piece of shit
ketoprince1 2 months ago
I think the problem is not with the black woman, its with the numbers. There are not enough black men to go around. If every black man decided "Ok. Today I'm going to get married to a black woman". There would still be close to 2 million black women left unmarried. And according to the statistics, less than 1% of black men marry outside of their ethnic group. The majority of black men, marry black women. But the numbers are not in the black woman's favor. Just not enough black men to go around:(
Gouche1981 3 months ago
First off, Black men aren't getting married either, not just the women. Second, there are PLENTY of Black men having multiple children with Black women and not marrying them so we are not going extinct! There are PLENTY of Black people in Africa and the Caribbean who will be hard pressed to find White people to marry so they will continue having Black children!
BronzeTrinity 4 months ago
Since you want a big strong man, why don't you get a couple of parking tickets, go down to the courthouse to pay them in person, and strike up a conversation with a good looking cop?
SuperKarabash1 4 months ago
Since you want a big stron man, why don't you get a couple of parking tickets, go down to the courthouse to pay them in person, and strke up a conversation with a good looking cop?
SuperKarabash1 4 months ago
@SuperKarabash1 LOL no thank you on the parking tickets but if I see a cop Im not afraid to holla and for the most part they arent either.
JessicaLaShawn 4 months ago
@SuperKarabash1 Black women talking about 'downlows' is an insult to the 98% of black men who are not homosexual. African male leaders are telling Obama to keep his homo agenda out of Africa and most bm worldwide would consent to homos being put to death. Since bw are deceived they believe anything their white teachers/leaders tell them. First the white man tricked bw into rejecting their sons then their hair and now themselves. BW's insults of bm have them rejected with no solution in sight.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 3 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD WoW!! This is deeep!
dunk602 2 months ago
Is your problem finding a decent black guy or finding a decent black guy who fits all of your other superficial criteria? Like in your video you want a big black man. 300lbs, built like an athlete. Etc. But yet, also smart and successful? That doesn't usually go together. Would you even recognize a good successful man if he was right in front of your face? If he didn't meet your physical specifications. Maybe you should try dating online and talking to normal looking black guys who are employed.
cpott23 4 months ago
@cpott23 I know of a lot of good quality black men. Ive dated a few but for some reason many black men do not want to get married. They feel as if it is unnecessary and isnt worth it for them. Ive done online dating... Im dating someone now that I met online. That isnt the problem....and I am not hell bent on a man thats 6'6 or 300 pounds. I dont care about all of that as long as you love God, family and self with good communication skills and an appreciation for my time we can roll.
JessicaLaShawn 4 months ago
Dating blk women is a chore? I do agree there are blk women with attitudes, but there could be more to this. Having a single mother who is an authority figure, with out the father to balance out the constant nagging with "that a boys" Blkmen from single mother homes may equate them with nagging/overbearing authority figures LOL!. Just find ur Joy anyway u can regardless of race. U say u dont want a white man, u only want blk men? how is that any different from blk men who only want white women?
Natsukashii3 4 months ago
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Natsukashii3 4 months ago
To start you can stop stressing over "all the black men are either in jail, uneducated or on the downlow?" bc that's just not true :) From what I can see many men actually feel they hav nothing to gain from marriage. Also what will you gain from it? There are blk men in college, and you may hav to find one that is less attractive than u prefer, bc average men might want to lock u down :P lol. continued...
Natsukashii3 4 months ago
@Natsukashii3 Again, I dont care about all of that. I NEVER said I wanted a pretty boy that everyone falls head over heels for because they are SO FINE. I dont care about all of that as long as I like you.
JessicaLaShawn 4 months ago
@JessicaLaShawn It bothers me how we don't hav enough family structure in our community, I would not limit myself to blk men. I know that is not what you like but I think other types may be looking for marriage more often. I know blk men marry but not enough, and it could be due to our culture. Don't give up he might be right around the corner :)
Natsukashii3 4 months ago