@AFCAdamLondon, i'm new to this, but what if her place and my place is not an option? i'm not talking about staying the night, but just, logistically, where else?
Or save the $1,300 you were going to waste on an AFC Adam Bootcamp- and use it to secure a 2 month deposit on your own rented flat- so you can move out of your long suffering parents house and have a private place to bring girls.
Why do guys into PUA have to over complicate these things?
@MegaPhoenixBird Not everyone does. I think too many guys get caught up in the little stuff and keep asking questions and barely ever actually get out there and learn. These are generally the over-complicators. Too much thinking, not enough fucking. I still live at home and I find ways around it. I've stayed at girls houses, had roots at home which always have fun morning after awkwardness and I've opted for cars, motels, hotels etc. on occassion too.
@MegaPhoenixBird and at the end of three months when you still cant get any women, congratulations youve gone absolutely nowhere but -1,300$ with nothing to show except you living like a loner.
normally go for the get up there adventurous exhibitionist side and do them in the park, cemetery, alley or bushes. but its cold at the moment so ill give the dvd idea a shot.
I've gone pool hopping after the bar, and as long as you don't live in a place where people have guns, it's a sick idea. Adventurous, wet, fun, and it automatically requires you to take off most of your clothes haha
playing you need a home like a puppy dog is pretty lame.
You either escalate in her house to whatever you both like to do for fun or you leave her in good mood prepared to reconnect. Makes more sense than pressuring a stay.
what should you do if a girl asks you to dance and you are proppa uncumfortable and ashamed about dancing. the only time ill dance is if im making a mockry of it if ye no what i mean. i cant dance at all properly
I have a HUGE handicap...I can't dance and i feel very awkward and uncomfortable if I try to... it's a psychological thing...How important is dancing? Please give me some advice on this problem...thanks
I once had a date in another city who tried to delay me leaving to get the last train home, presumably so I would have no choice but to stay at his. I found it quite creepy. I get what you are saying and that you don't have creepy intentions. But wouldn't it be better to treat women as people with a right to know the facts and make their own decisions without pressure?
it's not pressure if you have been enjoying the time you spent with the guy. If a guy was to ask you to let him stay over and later on have sex, what's the answer you'll give.. a No. you have to understand that at this point there's no seduction so far, just light touching, so you wont be feeling sexual enuff to let him stay... your date was creepy, I can sense that already..the fact that you recognised it shows me that was his prime objective..I enjoy my dates and I provide the sexual frame
Wow, what made you so bitter? Got your heart broken a few times? We all do; it's part of life. I'm in love with a man who "treats me like a person", and no, I don't treat him like a log. Your twisted view of women is going to make you a very lonely man...
A girl might agree to you staying because she feels too guilty to turf you out at midnight, but feels very uncomfortable about the situation. Why not just have a discussion about you staying over and whether she would like that. Then you have both bought in to the situation, and nobody feels they have been emotionally blackmailed.
Ya, the guys that do that (like me) end up going home alone, then the girl complains that I'm not assertive enough so she'll go fuck someone who is.
Let me know when women become capable of actually making a reasonable decision like this and stop judging men for being too "nice" and then I'll go back to considering their opinion on whether I can stay over or not.
Oh, and a girl incapable of saying "no" for silly reasons is as bad as a girl incapable of saying "yes" for equally silly reasons.
But awesome idea for guys like me who sleep in parents livingroom. I'd also like to add that if theres some epic TV show late evening that you both like to watch, I'd tell her your cable's being fixed and she'd let me come over to watch it.
Hey guys, I'm really wanting to look for some dedicated aspiring PUAs to go out winging and sarging with. It'll really help boost commitment and support to improve everyone's game. so if there are any of you out there in Auckland City in New Zealand, contact me.
Hey Adem i'm only 17 but i have been in the community for a while now and my life has gotton so much better since but the thing is i cant get the girls i want. At school i know there r girls interested in me but they are like 6 or 7 and below. Do you have any tips on how to get 8,9, and 10's. Even my friends r telling me that I should go out with hotter girls. Btw I frequently get in a position where girls see me as a friend, do u have any tips on how I can stop this as well.
i do it classic MM...walk past girls or if your already in front of them run the opener over your shoulder...with a smile...."hey guys whats hotter tattoos or percings"opener dont matter...then as they repsond start to slow down... start to turn into them...transition, as they start to match your speed of walking slow down to a stop and run tight game
If you are going to a club alone, what is the best game plan to have? What ways are best to open people? Is it better to be there early and open up the few sets there, or is it better to go late and jump into the bigger more dense crowd?
The best plan is to have the most fun possible. Trust me, I was thinking the same way, and I decided to just say fuck it, and have as much fun as I possibly can. Had one of the best nights of my life, and I built up so much value. The best advice I ever got was DON'T GO TO TRY TO GET GIRLS.
My question is: How long roughly in set do you wait to start working the target i understand neg the target on approach etc but when do you start working her then moving her into isolation?
Good advice as allways Adam, keep up the good work.
What i wanted to ask you is about a topic i have noticed is a bit undeveloped.
I love older women then me, i'm 21 and i want to meet women in they're 30's, MILF's, Cougar's, however you want to call them. I until now managed to befriend 2, but that's it. Where can i find them? Some special MILf pickup advice? DIfferent technique? And even if i change the subject or have fun about it , it allways comes back to my age.
Hi Adam, take a USB stick with you! Put some nice picture there. For example your last holiday or party. Tell her a story about the last holiday or tripp. How funny it was, and tell her that she should see the pictures, and that you can go at her place to see them. At home try to put the laptop on her bad an see the picture together. Soundtack is norah jones..youtube provide nice playlists. After 10/20 minutes you can kiss her, or even more. :-)
oops a bit too quick meant to say i lived with my mum and sister lol and I'd do anything to try and bounce back to hers. I used to get them brag about their apartment/house and challenge them to it not being so nice for example. At this point if it was on she'd invite me, then I'd try to push into that night... last success was its been a good night and i dont want the party to end your place sounds perfect. tbf i wouldn't usually use that but it worked this time :-/
what about if you want to take her to a hotel ?
how would you work that adam?
espectroshock 5 days ago
@AFCAdamLondon, i'm new to this, but what if her place and my place is not an option? i'm not talking about staying the night, but just, logistically, where else?
creativesimplex 1 month ago
Adam, i'm new to this, but what if her place and my place is not an option?
creativesimplex 1 month ago
WHY have you stopped to put other videos where you answer these questions and explain in detail your formula?
frenkndjd 6 months ago
@frenkndjd Add "@AFCAdamLondon" to comment to increase chance of reply.
Pomme843 4 months ago
...fucking genious!
shadowkunai12 9 months ago
lol i randomly clicked on this but good advice lol
codylk101 9 months ago 3
@codylk101 Thanks so much!
AFCAdamLondon 9 months ago
wow... this is kinda pathetic...
i think i can manage to get to stay at a girls without having to come look for it on youtube... then again i watched the video how sad aint it?
darkfly600 10 months ago
Bro, I wish I had your accent.
rmnaam 11 months ago
If I am picking her up or driving her home when I get to her home I just ask, "hey can I use your bathroom?"
webshuuter 1 year ago 4
I live in a semi-detached house, and I fuck Her in my room which is on the first floor when my Barents are on the ground floor.
Withir 1 year ago 2
sorry im gay.
JAKEJAKEJAKEable 1 year ago
excellent
will use it
butterf1yz 1 year ago
adam what kind of things do you do to sexually escalate?
bangbangyi 1 year ago
Or save the $1,300 you were going to waste on an AFC Adam Bootcamp- and use it to secure a 2 month deposit on your own rented flat- so you can move out of your long suffering parents house and have a private place to bring girls.
Why do guys into PUA have to over complicate these things?
MegaPhoenixBird 1 year ago
@MegaPhoenixBird Not everyone does. I think too many guys get caught up in the little stuff and keep asking questions and barely ever actually get out there and learn. These are generally the over-complicators. Too much thinking, not enough fucking. I still live at home and I find ways around it. I've stayed at girls houses, had roots at home which always have fun morning after awkwardness and I've opted for cars, motels, hotels etc. on occassion too.
Whatever works :-P
not4resale 1 year ago 2
@MegaPhoenixBird and at the end of three months when you still cant get any women, congratulations youve gone absolutely nowhere but -1,300$ with nothing to show except you living like a loner.
BigAirTony 1 year ago
wow nice video love the content Adam, but the shaky video and only seeing half ur face was just a bit annoying, get a tripod? lol. good work tho.
partyguy210 1 year ago
normally go for the get up there adventurous exhibitionist side and do them in the park, cemetery, alley or bushes. but its cold at the moment so ill give the dvd idea a shot.
MrMikej73 1 year ago
You can also drive her home late at night and ask if you can use her bathroom :) he he he
UrbanPoet 2 years ago
@UrbanPoet
I did that once and as soon as i lfet the bathroom she didn`t let me out of her house xD
4nerub 1 year ago
Doesn't work.
Most girls say they wouldn't allow guys they "don't really know" into their house.
Girls know that if a guy doesn't suggest he gas his own place he is a loser.
Thats why girls say they're "going to the toilet/restroom but we'll be right back" (before leaving a guy waiting) have only done so because you
a) said you still live with you parents
b) haven't suggested that you head back to your pad to look at your CD collection.
No place to Sexually Escalate?
No chance!
MegaPhoenixBird 2 years ago
The point of PU is to get a girl you "don't really know" to feel like she does know you.
How can you expect to have sex ANYWHERE if she still feels like she doesn't really know you?
Girls are more comfortable at their place anyways.
"Losers" take a month the let the girl "get to really know them" and then decide the guy isn't worth it.
And haven't you ever escalated at a bar, club or house party?
ever heard of sex on the beach?
They didn't make it a drink because it never happens!
freestyleskierfasho 2 years ago
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pimpedout4life 2 years ago
Brah, some of us consider our human dignity more important than rawdoggin 2 cent hoes with our mothers listening in the other room. lmao
mrbeefy1515 2 years ago
valid point, chief.
pimpedout4life 2 years ago
But what about when u both live with your parents?
Well iv F-Closed in the car a few times.. lol.
No car either? Well if its summer and shes adventurous....
Doo0ne 2 years ago 7
you are 29! Surely your parents will let you have sex by now? LOL
DanReborn 2 years ago
I like the way you think haha!
I've gone pool hopping after the bar, and as long as you don't live in a place where people have guns, it's a sick idea. Adventurous, wet, fun, and it automatically requires you to take off most of your clothes haha
freestyleskierfasho 2 years ago
movie is fine.
playing you need a home like a puppy dog is pretty lame.
You either escalate in her house to whatever you both like to do for fun or you leave her in good mood prepared to reconnect. Makes more sense than pressuring a stay.
Demarcoz11 2 years ago
what should you do if a girl asks you to dance and you are proppa uncumfortable and ashamed about dancing. the only time ill dance is if im making a mockry of it if ye no what i mean. i cant dance at all properly
pignutbushcraft 2 years ago
Amazing...a friend from college, a true girl-killer, used to use this patented "movie"-move alot! Nice stuff again Adam!
bdevil4lif 2 years ago
I have a HUGE handicap...I can't dance and i feel very awkward and uncomfortable if I try to... it's a psychological thing...How important is dancing? Please give me some advice on this problem...thanks
vincemcneal600 2 years ago
Not important!
RichhhR 2 years ago
I once had a date in another city who tried to delay me leaving to get the last train home, presumably so I would have no choice but to stay at his. I found it quite creepy. I get what you are saying and that you don't have creepy intentions. But wouldn't it be better to treat women as people with a right to know the facts and make their own decisions without pressure?
Tess78uk 2 years ago
it's not pressure if you have been enjoying the time you spent with the guy. If a guy was to ask you to let him stay over and later on have sex, what's the answer you'll give.. a No. you have to understand that at this point there's no seduction so far, just light touching, so you wont be feeling sexual enuff to let him stay... your date was creepy, I can sense that already..the fact that you recognised it shows me that was his prime objective..I enjoy my dates and I provide the sexual frame
manjumaru 2 years ago
@Tess78uk
Oh, look, another female trash talker.
"treat women as people"
Bullshit, most men just want your vagina and for you to entertain them.
Believe it or not, we don't care about morality or any of that BS.
So, no, it wouldn't be better to "treat her like a person" because the second you do, she'll treat you like a log.
"creepy" I hate people who use that word, it's so overused nowadays.
Denose2003 2 years ago
preach!!
pimpedout4life 2 years ago
Wow, what made you so bitter? Got your heart broken a few times? We all do; it's part of life. I'm in love with a man who "treats me like a person", and no, I don't treat him like a log. Your twisted view of women is going to make you a very lonely man...
Tess78uk 2 years ago
A girl might agree to you staying because she feels too guilty to turf you out at midnight, but feels very uncomfortable about the situation. Why not just have a discussion about you staying over and whether she would like that. Then you have both bought in to the situation, and nobody feels they have been emotionally blackmailed.
Tess78uk 2 years ago
Ya, the guys that do that (like me) end up going home alone, then the girl complains that I'm not assertive enough so she'll go fuck someone who is.
Let me know when women become capable of actually making a reasonable decision like this and stop judging men for being too "nice" and then I'll go back to considering their opinion on whether I can stay over or not.
Oh, and a girl incapable of saying "no" for silly reasons is as bad as a girl incapable of saying "yes" for equally silly reasons.
insaniac82 2 years ago
am looking for some PUAs that live near Reading, PA. i am under 21
dalexispe 2 years ago
I don wanna have to pay for dvd and popcorn..!
norriscarlosray 2 years ago
how can you tell what age groups you are approaching, what age groups best hook on material on game ?
burgerbaps 2 years ago
hey, Adam.
How much of a disadvantage do u think it is, in situations like this, if I don't take alcohol?
do u have any videos with any advanced tips on seduction or sumting?
niggative 2 years ago 4
Heya man, actually I never drink. In the last 3 years I've only drunk once. So no problem at all.
Advanced stuff there is loads! my site attractionexplained has a lot more advanced stuff.
AFCAdamLondon 2 years ago 6
hey adam, what if i've a car. any other excuses?
leotom1990 1 year ago
What about SNLs tho?
But awesome idea for guys like me who sleep in parents livingroom. I'd also like to add that if theres some epic TV show late evening that you both like to watch, I'd tell her your cable's being fixed and she'd let me come over to watch it.
Zendau007 2 years ago
Hey guys, I'm really wanting to look for some dedicated aspiring PUAs to go out winging and sarging with. It'll really help boost commitment and support to improve everyone's game. so if there are any of you out there in Auckland City in New Zealand, contact me.
HF1263 2 years ago
Thanks brother
alexthemaster21 2 years ago
He doesn't look it, but this guy is one of the best.
"I'll get DVD and popcorn. You provide cinema"
Gold.
coash 2 years ago
damn awesome
Spectreblue 2 years ago
genius
StylemasterKaze 2 years ago
that's awesome for day twos but what about same night closes or day 1 closes?
Also do you have any tips on disarming the chicks that would potentially cock-block? Specific ways to game them without sending out the wrong message?
brocklanders1984 2 years ago
Hey Adem i'm only 17 but i have been in the community for a while now and my life has gotton so much better since but the thing is i cant get the girls i want. At school i know there r girls interested in me but they are like 6 or 7 and below. Do you have any tips on how to get 8,9, and 10's. Even my friends r telling me that I should go out with hotter girls. Btw I frequently get in a position where girls see me as a friend, do u have any tips on how I can stop this as well.
djules01 2 years ago 2
I live with my parents.. My date lives wih her parents.. Guess I will need to be even more creative :D
Maverickx89 2 years ago
How do you approach moving sets indirectly especially moving sets with 2 girl (because you dont find lonely wolfs in malls etc)
comfortbreaker 2 years ago
i do it classic MM...walk past girls or if your already in front of them run the opener over your shoulder...with a smile...."hey guys whats hotter tattoos or percings"opener dont matter...then as they repsond start to slow down... start to turn into them...transition, as they start to match your speed of walking slow down to a stop and run tight game
phillfamous 2 years ago
This is great Adam! Posting the best Qs in vids on youtube is just great man.
dehn 2 years ago
adam no homo but ur like the greatest guy to exist yet lol
juliangomez101 2 years ago
o snap u got a cat ?
alaingoldman 2 years ago
If you are going to a club alone, what is the best game plan to have? What ways are best to open people? Is it better to be there early and open up the few sets there, or is it better to go late and jump into the bigger more dense crowd?
rsaini1 2 years ago
The best plan is to have the most fun possible. Trust me, I was thinking the same way, and I decided to just say fuck it, and have as much fun as I possibly can. Had one of the best nights of my life, and I built up so much value. The best advice I ever got was DON'T GO TO TRY TO GET GIRLS.
strid3r34 2 years ago
Great advice, gonna give it a run this weekend :P
My question is: How long roughly in set do you wait to start working the target i understand neg the target on approach etc but when do you start working her then moving her into isolation?
cubandl 2 years ago
Awesome vid as always Adam!
Shame on the facebook thing though, they really are being irritating.
Hope to see you soon in london dude!
darkchildadil 2 years ago
I'll provide the food & you provide the restaurant can work similarly well, especially if you know how to cook.
garygoodbloke 2 years ago
Tell me what you think of my game!
I'll send a message.
boxingGARDEN 2 years ago
Thanks a lot for that Adam... That really has been useful... Much appreciated :)
Maverick2097 2 years ago
Adam that is so money man.
nobb2009 2 years ago
Good advice as allways Adam, keep up the good work.
What i wanted to ask you is about a topic i have noticed is a bit undeveloped.
I love older women then me, i'm 21 and i want to meet women in they're 30's, MILF's, Cougar's, however you want to call them. I until now managed to befriend 2, but that's it. Where can i find them? Some special MILf pickup advice? DIfferent technique? And even if i change the subject or have fun about it , it allways comes back to my age.
Thanks alot
verysexy92 2 years ago
Hey man, I find in my own experience the best logistical way to meet "cougars" is to find them at your nearest hotel bar.
nobb2009 2 years ago
Hi Adam, take a USB stick with you! Put some nice picture there. For example your last holiday or party. Tell her a story about the last holiday or tripp. How funny it was, and tell her that she should see the pictures, and that you can go at her place to see them. At home try to put the laptop on her bad an see the picture together. Soundtack is norah jones..youtube provide nice playlists. After 10/20 minutes you can kiss her, or even more. :-)
novantadue 2 years ago
thats cool of you man, I was interested to see the reply.
Being someone that moved from England to Toronto i've not had this problem :)
quadsimo 2 years ago
oops a bit too quick meant to say i lived with my mum and sister lol and I'd do anything to try and bounce back to hers. I used to get them brag about their apartment/house and challenge them to it not being so nice for example. At this point if it was on she'd invite me, then I'd try to push into that night... last success was its been a good night and i dont want the party to end your place sounds perfect. tbf i wouldn't usually use that but it worked this time :-/
quadsimo 2 years ago