@MrMigo626 dropped out of school and jobless, and in need of a therapist for both my mental and physical condition. Not so good. But already at least 50% better than I was 5 months ago thank you :)
My comments aren't to condemn. Controlling whether a child uses a computer or tv or game system inside of their house is not parental dictatorship as the child is not an adult. The child doesn't have adult rights and the child doesn't have practically any responsibilities, so and adult showing what responsibilities are is a good example. To be honest I was left to my own devices as well online as a kid too, I went through the same deal. I played Doom 2 and the Quake games far too much!
@904PinballZine still, i believe when a girl is 15 she should be given more responsibility and freedom such as deciding what she wants to spend her time doing, even if it means being on her pc all her spare time. In medieval times girls got pregant at that age. As for boys, they tend to be two years behind on girls maturing-wise, but they are more aggresive in claiming freedom than girls. If you want to make a teenager miserable, be a strict parent and control how they spend their free time.
She really is not to blame. You can't blame a child for being consumed by what they are curious about. Parents if not child like themselves will have the consciousness to discern the difference between healthy time in the world over unhealthy time locked up in a room for hours on end for days on end. Its not really sad, its just bad parenting. You can't blame the parents completely many times as their parents probably left them to their own devices when they grew up too. The cycle continues
@904PinballZine my parents have been great, and always nagging me on how I spent too much time on the pc, they warned me countless of times really. They just respected my own decisions from when i was 15, al my brothers and sisters were out trying cigarettes, alcohol, drugs by that age, at least inside I was safe from all of that and I think my parents knew all too well. They just kept telling me I should call my friends and meet with them, and stop spending so much time on the pc every day.
I'm happy my parents didn't force me away from my PC, sure, I had a bad addiction, and yes, I've become a little socially disturbed. Nothing that a good psychologist can't help me retrieve. Parents shouldn't control their childrens lives and decide how they live, that's plain parental dictatorship.
@vassilli0s nope, my dad's been really great :3 I thought he was a lousy dad when i still lived at home, but when I lived on my own for a year and came back I think he's a great dad x3 I live with him and my brother again, now it's my brother that gets on my nerves sometimes haha xD
@konohamarutard School, math class :D I was what people would call a nerd so to say? I was nervous to talk to class n all depending on people, this class was all chill, at the time I had an online GF and really, didnt think about girls in any sexual way at the time, only about 3 months in my current relationship I had those feelings ... but anyways lol, first 3 months of hanging out with my current girlfriend, was as friend only, and I had my current Long distance online girlfriend ...
oh, online things NEVER work. Just tell her it isn't going to work and go for the girl that's actually in your life atm. And it's good, you shouldn't haste love, ever. Even if I fall in love due to some chemical atttraction, I'd still rather get to know the guy first to see if he's friend material or just an asshole. Best way to judge a man is see how he treats his inferiors.
@konohamarutard Yea, over 6months in a relationship with my Love, 3months as Friends Only before hand too :) Yea I decided best for my life so ended it with Long Distance, was an experience thou I say I had :)
@konohamarutard I was with my current girlfriend(Being friend only) for 3 whole months mean while having online girlfriend, I was with my Friend-Girl more and more everyday, after about 2 weeks I was with her about all day long. I stayed with my online girlfriend because I felt bad for her(was this was about 5 months in relationship with her), and after about 2-half months being friends with my friend-girl she told me she liked me
@konohamarutard I said no i have a girlfriend sorry n all basicly. Thou I did like her back I tried to make her happy as I could all the time, and I did happen to visit my long distance girlfriend after 8 months in relationship, I flew in plane to go see her Lol. this is while im 16. Mother let me her parents let me ... 2 weeks later I broke up with her over phone (had to), and was together with my Love the next day xD thats my lil story said short xD
@konohamarutard Dont get me wrong here thou, I still LOVE to be on the computer, and now for more reasons I make money off the computer, good money. Not to make up for a job, but maybe, 1/3rd of a job? and this is just leaving my computer running more or less, I dont regret being on comp so much playing games. It helped my knowledge of the computer AND fanacially wise too being ... so much money just leaving comp on now :) From time invested IN GAMES MMORPGs!
Nobody's gonna save you if you're locked up in your room for months on end, not even friends. The only way to get out is to reach out to family and have them take you out of the situation. And even then the road to recovery is long and sad. I just need a good friend who lives nearby who's there for me, but all my friends either live far away or have busy lives themselves so it's hard to get out of this shitty hellhole.
@konohamarutard i know, v.v .......but to keep complaining about it either,just take time ;) ,or a walk.And answers will appear.As long as you walk on the right road m8 ^_^
i don't know i just say am in love with computers if i have time i would work on my computer 24/7 playing games,solving pc problems,updating,programming,making music,cracking,little hacking,playing music,internet,3d modeling.... oh theres alot .. alot alot more! i do with computers,am good in computer works but i always wished for a super computer with high specs for gaming and rendering.
Well it's true, but when you're isolated with just you and your computer for a couple of years it's going to get boring and you're going to feel very very lonely. The loneliness will turn you into a depression that you don't spend enough time with your friends or don't have any at all. Lonely because there's no lover to hold you because they left you for spending too much time on the PC, and you'll find it hard to open up and socialize with others after the long isolation.
So it's nice to spend a lot of time on the computer indeed.
But please, don't let it take over and ruin your life. I need a psychiatrist who's going to help me get over my problems, turns out I can't get out of this alone, but computer addiction is just one of my many problems.
Anyways thanks for watching my videos, I hope you enjoy your PC while it lasts.
As for me? It feels like I've been dead. I want to go outside and live, make memories that I experience by exercise and interaction.
i use the computer to watch eps, but the aniem i watch is one piece and it airs every sunday. im a major otaku fan. i wish i had a poster! wer do ya live?
and also when i go somwhere i say COME ON LETS GO YOUR WASTING MY TIME! when we go shopping. but like i said if i lived by myself. and neopets was addicting, but its too random and unfair so i stoped. and i dont want to play world of warcraft becuase i might get addicted, so if u dont play u wont get addicted. but i did the 1 month trial!
Great job Thank you so much for having the courage to do this. Please watch nayosha08 my niece's story. this is helping people thanks and good luck. I'm a counselor and I know this was therapeutic for you too. God bless and I'm happy you became aware. My son is a game addict and i'll share your story with him. thanks again.
Wowzerz. You are a brave person for putting this up! I wouldn't say I have an addiction. (though I do) Hehe. I will definently start hanging out with the friends I have. Thanks a bunch~!
WOW u sound like me , i been on the computer 24/7 like crazy but after that when i was 14 years old when i started to be on the computer like crazy ....LOL and then after when i had no wedsite at all. i started to write story it was good too. because it was taking my mind off thing and making good thing unit my mother mess thing up now i am on
Wow, I can definately relate to that. You've given me a wake up call, I've been spending way too much time on the computer, rather than with friends and family. Thank you so much! :)
And I'm sorry about your mother, this is kinda insiring, because I'm kinda of a computer addict too.... And the funny thing is that it too started with the sims 1 O.o
boobs plz
pure7mood 1 month ago
I will pray for u everyday
seanza1126 2 months ago
i have had the same life....
menushadesanayaka255 2 months ago
Wow i love watching your videos it really informs me about your interesting life so how are you now?
MrMigo626 5 months ago
@MrMigo626 dropped out of school and jobless, and in need of a therapist for both my mental and physical condition. Not so good. But already at least 50% better than I was 5 months ago thank you :)
konohamarutard 5 months ago
My comments aren't to condemn. Controlling whether a child uses a computer or tv or game system inside of their house is not parental dictatorship as the child is not an adult. The child doesn't have adult rights and the child doesn't have practically any responsibilities, so and adult showing what responsibilities are is a good example. To be honest I was left to my own devices as well online as a kid too, I went through the same deal. I played Doom 2 and the Quake games far too much!
904PinballZine 5 months ago
@904PinballZine still, i believe when a girl is 15 she should be given more responsibility and freedom such as deciding what she wants to spend her time doing, even if it means being on her pc all her spare time. In medieval times girls got pregant at that age. As for boys, they tend to be two years behind on girls maturing-wise, but they are more aggresive in claiming freedom than girls. If you want to make a teenager miserable, be a strict parent and control how they spend their free time.
konohamarutard 5 months ago
She really is not to blame. You can't blame a child for being consumed by what they are curious about. Parents if not child like themselves will have the consciousness to discern the difference between healthy time in the world over unhealthy time locked up in a room for hours on end for days on end. Its not really sad, its just bad parenting. You can't blame the parents completely many times as their parents probably left them to their own devices when they grew up too. The cycle continues
904PinballZine 5 months ago
@904PinballZine my parents have been great, and always nagging me on how I spent too much time on the pc, they warned me countless of times really. They just respected my own decisions from when i was 15, al my brothers and sisters were out trying cigarettes, alcohol, drugs by that age, at least inside I was safe from all of that and I think my parents knew all too well. They just kept telling me I should call my friends and meet with them, and stop spending so much time on the pc every day.
konohamarutard 5 months ago
I'm happy my parents didn't force me away from my PC, sure, I had a bad addiction, and yes, I've become a little socially disturbed. Nothing that a good psychologist can't help me retrieve. Parents shouldn't control their childrens lives and decide how they live, that's plain parental dictatorship.
konohamarutard 5 months ago
did your dad have anything to do with this video?
vassilli0s 6 months ago
@vassilli0s nope, my dad's been really great :3 I thought he was a lousy dad when i still lived at home, but when I lived on my own for a year and came back I think he's a great dad x3 I live with him and my brother again, now it's my brother that gets on my nerves sometimes haha xD
konohamarutard 6 months ago
Shes cute! Id totally date her! Has the nerdy look,,,, (:
thecapone45 6 months ago
Thats how it was for me!!!! Got a wonderful girlfriend that got me out of the shithole! LOL!
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
That's wonderful :D
How did you meet her? I mean, if you were on the computer so much it's hard to meet people in RL.
konohamarutard 7 months ago
@konohamarutard School, math class :D I was what people would call a nerd so to say? I was nervous to talk to class n all depending on people, this class was all chill, at the time I had an online GF and really, didnt think about girls in any sexual way at the time, only about 3 months in my current relationship I had those feelings ... but anyways lol, first 3 months of hanging out with my current girlfriend, was as friend only, and I had my current Long distance online girlfriend ...
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
oh, online things NEVER work. Just tell her it isn't going to work and go for the girl that's actually in your life atm. And it's good, you shouldn't haste love, ever. Even if I fall in love due to some chemical atttraction, I'd still rather get to know the guy first to see if he's friend material or just an asshole. Best way to judge a man is see how he treats his inferiors.
konohamarutard 7 months ago
@konohamarutard Yea, over 6months in a relationship with my Love, 3months as Friends Only before hand too :) Yea I decided best for my life so ended it with Long Distance, was an experience thou I say I had :)
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
@konohamarutard I was with my current girlfriend(Being friend only) for 3 whole months mean while having online girlfriend, I was with my Friend-Girl more and more everyday, after about 2 weeks I was with her about all day long. I stayed with my online girlfriend because I felt bad for her(was this was about 5 months in relationship with her), and after about 2-half months being friends with my friend-girl she told me she liked me
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
@konohamarutard I said no i have a girlfriend sorry n all basicly. Thou I did like her back I tried to make her happy as I could all the time, and I did happen to visit my long distance girlfriend after 8 months in relationship, I flew in plane to go see her Lol. this is while im 16. Mother let me her parents let me ... 2 weeks later I broke up with her over phone (had to), and was together with my Love the next day xD thats my lil story said short xD
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
@konohamarutard Dont get me wrong here thou, I still LOVE to be on the computer, and now for more reasons I make money off the computer, good money. Not to make up for a job, but maybe, 1/3rd of a job? and this is just leaving my computer running more or less, I dont regret being on comp so much playing games. It helped my knowledge of the computer AND fanacially wise too being ... so much money just leaving comp on now :) From time invested IN GAMES MMORPGs!
Oblivonkilll 7 months ago
Raichi, i told ya once,take as much time as ya want, bt do not get lost in cases like this.Remember you have things to do.
Realizment,is athinkg you have ti train and to think of a while.
Just keep going,savior is the middle of your road,but you wont see him, He will apear as soon as the time is narrow
spieletippser 8 months ago
BUllshit honey.
Nobody's gonna save you if you're locked up in your room for months on end, not even friends. The only way to get out is to reach out to family and have them take you out of the situation. And even then the road to recovery is long and sad. I just need a good friend who lives nearby who's there for me, but all my friends either live far away or have busy lives themselves so it's hard to get out of this shitty hellhole.
konohamarutard 7 months ago
@konohamarutard i know, v.v .......but to keep complaining about it either,just take time ;) ,or a walk.And answers will appear.As long as you walk on the right road m8 ^_^
spieletippser 7 months ago
I'm not complaining about it silly o.o;;;
I just replied to what you said. Complaining is when I contact you to rant about it, and I didn't do that.
konohamarutard 7 months ago
i don't know i just say am in love with computers if i have time i would work on my computer 24/7 playing games,solving pc problems,updating,programming,making music,cracking,little hacking,playing music,internet,3d modeling.... oh theres alot .. alot alot more! i do with computers,am good in computer works but i always wished for a super computer with high specs for gaming and rendering.
zhir96 9 months ago
Well it's true, but when you're isolated with just you and your computer for a couple of years it's going to get boring and you're going to feel very very lonely. The loneliness will turn you into a depression that you don't spend enough time with your friends or don't have any at all. Lonely because there's no lover to hold you because they left you for spending too much time on the PC, and you'll find it hard to open up and socialize with others after the long isolation.
cont...
konohamarutard 9 months ago
So it's nice to spend a lot of time on the computer indeed.
But please, don't let it take over and ruin your life. I need a psychiatrist who's going to help me get over my problems, turns out I can't get out of this alone, but computer addiction is just one of my many problems.
Anyways thanks for watching my videos, I hope you enjoy your PC while it lasts.
As for me? It feels like I've been dead. I want to go outside and live, make memories that I experience by exercise and interaction.
konohamarutard 9 months ago
DON'T GET YOUR KID A COMPUTER.
EddyARB 1 year ago
@EddyARB Shut up, games make ya reach
spieletippser 8 months ago
I respect your honesty, subbed
i have a computer addiction aswell ;)
HarrySackthatsme 1 year ago
Thank you :3 if you need advice on how to lose your computer addiction I'm always here, feel free to pm me :3
konohamarutard 1 year ago
AND DO U LOVE ANIME?
IS THAT DEATHNOTE?
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
Yes I love anime, i have many cosplay videos ^^;
And addiction is basically putting the computer before all. Since you claim not to do that or never have done that, I guess you're clean :3
konohamarutard 1 year ago
0_0 actually i do! im not that clean, but its ok!
i use the computer to watch eps, but the aniem i watch is one piece and it airs every sunday. im a major otaku fan. i wish i had a poster! wer do ya live?
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
holland
konohamarutard 1 year ago
cool.
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
and also when i go somwhere i say COME ON LETS GO YOUR WASTING MY TIME! when we go shopping. but like i said if i lived by myself. and neopets was addicting, but its too random and unfair so i stoped. and i dont want to play world of warcraft becuase i might get addicted, so if u dont play u wont get addicted. but i did the 1 month trial!
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
i go on the computer but i dont have an addiction. if i was 18 i would go outside everyday!
nice jacket tho were did u buy it?
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
@RetardedAnime I bought it at New Yorker =P
and true, neopets is unfair ;_;
konohamarutard 1 year ago
awesome... neopets is unfair indeed.
im a one piece fan and my otaku career is building up.
i hate living in australia! they have jack
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
australia :D then you live pretty close to Japan right?
konohamarutard 1 year ago
yeah but they hav nothin here. its all in america
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
dubs are in america, who watches anime on tv anyways? simply watch the japanese animes on the internet with english subs, it's much better!
konohamarutard 1 year ago
yeah i do.
but it wud be awesomer is i went to japan and watched one piece on tv
EPIC WIN!
RetardedAnime 1 year ago
Great job Thank you so much for having the courage to do this. Please watch nayosha08 my niece's story. this is helping people thanks and good luck. I'm a counselor and I know this was therapeutic for you too. God bless and I'm happy you became aware. My son is a game addict and i'll share your story with him. thanks again.
jamesiea 1 year ago
Oh! I will be sure to check out your neice's story and I'm looking forward to hearing your son's story too :D thank you!
konohamarutard 1 year ago
Wowzerz. You are a brave person for putting this up! I wouldn't say I have an addiction. (though I do) Hehe. I will definently start hanging out with the friends I have. Thanks a bunch~!
Majoramaster 2 years ago
Thank you sweety ^^ And awesome! You go do that!
konohamarutard 2 years ago
computer now i am 24 /7 again ..LOL
and i am very werid alot heheh
jkcrystal2 2 years ago
Aww! Well good luck!
Remember, don't let the computer be your life!
Hang out with friends and make more and more friends :D
konohamarutard 2 years ago
WOW u sound like me , i been on the computer 24/7 like crazy but after that when i was 14 years old when i started to be on the computer like crazy ....LOL and then after when i had no wedsite at all. i started to write story it was good too. because it was taking my mind off thing and making good thing unit my mother mess thing up now i am on
jkcrystal2 2 years ago
Wow, I can definately relate to that. You've given me a wake up call, I've been spending way too much time on the computer, rather than with friends and family. Thank you so much! :)
TheLost4400 2 years ago
Glad to help :D
I still spend too much time on the computer, but the fact it isn't my top priority anymore is already a good start ^^
It's just too much fun to stop doing haha x3
konohamarutard 2 years ago
字幕がほしかったな～
miematusaka 2 years ago
Aww x3
Subtitle is a lot of work, it will take hours.
But maybe I can write it all down in the comment section.
I'll tell you if I finish it. =3
konohamarutard 2 years ago
Heck..I have a computer addiction too. Gaming, chatting, etc etc.
PS: The Sims 1 sucks compared to Fallout 3 ;)
And hell, you know WoW is evil, you shoudn't play it! Good luck :)
MarlonTheRogue 2 years ago
You too, good luck!
Hopefully you understand the computer isn't what's most important in life!
Thanks!
konohamarutard 2 years ago
Neopets!! Kyaaaaaaaaaa~ <3
And I'm sorry about your mother, this is kinda insiring, because I'm kinda of a computer addict too.... And the funny thing is that it too started with the sims 1 O.o
BettyDogGirl 2 years ago
Whoa, well good luck! Remember to not let it become your first priority in life!
konohamarutard 2 years ago
lolz, well I'm not THAT addicted, but thankies ^_^ and I will
BettyDogGirl 2 years ago