Came Out to a Friend

[nicolassaucedo]

I know its weird but a lot of people on Xbox know I'm gay but real world people dont

[Benji0014odom]

Please check out my coming out video its the only video i have up. I love ur videos this was an inspriation

[fukdyadad]

gay gamers rule!

[xXClarkygirlXx]

Omg, ima girl and i kik arse at black opps.... i made my boyfried soo jealous because i beat him, i hav my little brother to thank :) xxxx and i loveeee you as does my mates we all think your amazingly bravee :) <3

[NewZealandisthebest1]

@easyquinn1 - Only come out if your 100% confident that you'll be safe when you do, maybe just come out to a few of your closest friends first then if when you come out to all your friends you can get support from them. Just keep your chin up, smile and be yourself. this is just what I think :-)

[easyquinn1]

Hey I have a question for you I am bi and like I am trying to come out to all my friends and like I am so worried about it and like ik thy would freak out what do I do.

[CedKale]

Your best friend doesn't sound too nice but you don't seem bothered much... And this girl you came out to obviously liked you which is why she kept asking if you were bi

[thepbgg]

You are so freaking cute! Like your really awkward but its not a bad awkward its like not a bad kind of awkward ...idk does anyone else see what I mean lol

[Hplover231]

U have inspired me to come out to my friend when I see her next I will tell her thank you so much

[bytesize0801]

i play Skyrim! <3 and i've had the same problem with not saving and now i'm like paranoid and save every 3 minutes

[SteltekOne]

Haha, Skyrim is the first game in years that made me obsessed with the F5 (quick save) key on my PC again! (I don't even remember how often I died halfway through a dungeon and had to start it all over.)

[ZACollingham]

Hey, love your videos man, so easy to relate to! :) Even the skyrim frustration lol!

[stjuartsmills]

Your silences are complitely fine with me! It's you naturally speaking, so it is like really talking with you, and it is your turn to tell the story or things...

[justanote7]

First, my man, I'm glad you didn't make this video in 'smell-o-vision'. ;) You are so natural and honest with your feelings, that it makes me want to know more about how you came to be.  How did your parents make such a mature, open and caring dude ... with so freaking much self-love and courage? Clearly, you did like this girl a lot, just not sexually. After all, she WAS the first friend you told! That's a BIG, HUGE deal, Dillon! Don't change, dude!

[almostsirius]

You are such a nugget.

[Jessay120]

@almostsirius What does that even mean? O.o

[almostsirius]

@Jessay120 Jesus, what are you? Like 50? It's like something that's really cute like a kitten or a baby or something. Damn.

[ajjer12]

What your gamertag

[HatebeingBORNthisWAY]

I rage too on MW3 because of little bitches sitting in a fucking corner! Getting stressed thinking about it!

[thelgbtkids]

you can get married on skyrim whould you get married to a guy

[KLub101]

I LOVE Skyrim lmao

[andreasgafner]

Damn haha, love ure vids, and we are soo much alike, finally actually a guy who has an xbox 360!! and Skyrim!! I love gaming and i love watchign movies haha, and i love your videos, you are soo cute, this vibration in your voice is so cool haha, and my gay stories and stuff went just as yours haha, ahh girls, if u tell them they only get more annoying haha, anyway im talking to much.. Nice videos!! bye!

[Threeb03]

Also on your next video you should tell people about your favorites..... Like animal color and stuff like that haha

[Threeb03]

You are just so extremely cool I wish there were more kids lik you at my school but I definetly think you should make more videos lol

[27seasalt]

I love skyrim!!!! And you are pretty funny :) I love how you just completely changed topics !

[fishydude23]

Yay skyrim!!!

[willaroxx]

hahahahaha what a cuite :P

[tjport1980]

Thanks for sharing your coming out story. Eventually you will come out to someone at school who WILL tell everyone else so be ready to come out to everyone.

[greencrystalapple]

sounded like that girl liked you lol. and yeah telling a huge group of people would be a muchh better idea cause it shows you're confident and not afraid to be who you really are and it won't start random rumours :)

[387Hallows]

I think I still win...

I Came out on April Fool's.

No joke.

[TheBGills]

With the editing thing, if your on mac you can use imovie, if your on pc you can use windows movie maker.

[thisphotoisproof]

the views your getting is nuts

you should just make videos regularly and become a youtube partner

[iWantAcceptance]

omg. McAlister120, BradSoHood, You, and I are all rimmers; and gay vloggers :D

[iWantAcceptance]

@iWantAcceptance Sky-rimmers....if u didnt catch the nickname

[1011august11]

wanted to subscribe for a long time now but I'm not exactly out all the way and felt weird or apprehensive on my other you tube channel. i have still been watching since the came to know vid though. then i said the hell with it I'm making another channel devoted to lgtbtq

[Xxdrew102]

My mom is making me wait to get skyrim for Christmas.. :(

[FelieTHEGreat]

You're so cute (not in a creepy way, you just seem like a very nice person) and I can't believe you aren't even 16! I'm so proud of you and how far you've come in accepting and telling people - it takes real character to do that and you should be really proud of yourself. You're a real example for others

[taylorturnerbpn]

Hahaha! 'Gather round, I have news'

[IndiaJacob]

You say awkward alot...

[eslgr8]

A lot of people really care about you and wish you all the best things in your life! Congratulations on coming out to your friend. Play it cool...step by step... You're on the right track. Your YouTube friends are very proud of you!

[winston0797]

I seriously know exactly what your going through. The kid i like sits with us at lunch and my friends know that i like him so they all ask him really awkward questions, and it was so awkward i literally walked away from them...hate people haha good luck

[KaymenSOS]

OMG U HAVE NEVER WRITTEN ME BACK LOL i was just thinking about that lol but good look with coming out.i promise you.ive only been out for like 2 years but if feels like a life time lol:)

[danfromuk]

Yey, congrats mate :) Just remember not to rush into telling everyone at school, do it in your own time. Enjoy your week off!

[stoner829]

It's always safe to talk about "crushes" that you have on celebrities. We all have them..and it takes away "what if that person that I know finds out? phobia."

[thisphotoisproof]

lol 30 hours of no shower is not a big deal dude , dont even worry

i recall being sick before and literally not showering for like a week because i couldnt even get out of bed it was so bad.

[Justlukeishly]

Haha she's so into you... 'are you sure you're not bi?' lol. Congratulations on telling another person! It doesn't really get easier as you tell more and more people and you'll be coming out to people for the rest of your life but you do get a lot better at reading people and deciding who to tell and who not to tell.

P.s. something I never thought of but when you come out at school -like to everyone- you lose control over who knows you're gay and who doesn't which can be kind of scary at times

[brndnrckn]

do a video with your friend!!

[Ichigo29440]

Haha sexist :P Jking but awesome vid dude :) and I play Skyrim :) PS3 but it autosaves enough for me :/

[brndnrckn]

aww it sounds like she likes you..

[trisshandy]

Hey Dylan - that's awesome - having someone to talk to about guys and all - its a big step toward the great life you deserve. And I like how you're all "so I came out to a friend for the first time, yeah, okay, now back to the important stuff like Skyrim."

ps - It's obvious you didn't get the memo about things gay guys HAVE TO DO - like shopping with their gal pals and keeping their rooms clean and showering at least once every 12 hours! (lol - just kidding!!)

[ry989]

I told my best friend like 2 weeks ago (it was a guy) it was sooo awkward at first haha but he's cool with it...happy he doesnt ask about shopping lmao but good for you man...slowly but surely we'll both be outta the closet.

[Gongack]

when i was in high school, i had the biggest crush on my best friend, and i had a conversation with him exactly what your friend said to your best friend, "what would you do if _______ was gay" and he said the exact same response. about being awkward and hanging out less. but after i told him, it made our friendship stronger and he's super opened minded about gay people now. so your best friend could change his opinion too about gay people

[Sanctuaryofstars]

Skyrim has stolen my brother's soul. I haven't seen him in days.

[AsianQT562]

lol you're really living up to your username!

[officialNickL]

I play cod! Wanna play with me? ;)

[RGVASHarlingen]

Your friend is probably just all talk about what he said. I have a homophobic friend, and said the EXACT same thing before. but when I did came out, he was alright with it. It wasn't awkward at all, he still plays around with me like: winking at me, rubbing his leg against mine, and all these weird things. And I don't even do anything to start any of this. Ha so your best friend would stick around. If he doesn't, he's stupid for leaving. Doesn't know what he's missing:)

[theoddone2992]

1) congrats on the friend thing

2) you play Modern warfare 3 ? .... I wish you were just a few years older (like im serious im 19 not that much but still...)

3) do not edit your awkwardness is adorable , and its in your youtube name too.

[rayslinky]

congrats on coming out to a friend!

[FredCDAA]

So, I don't actually play Skyrim or any video games really, but most of my friends do, and apparently, so does my physics teacher. He told us our homework was to go kill a dragon over the weekend. And he was only half kidding. I'm pretty sure he'd give extra credit. Your video just made me think of that, thought maybe it was relevant. Also, of the two girls I've told, one eventually stopped caring, and the other one stopped thinking of me as her "gay best friend" before too long. So no worries.

[rivenadeshizzle]

Have fun skyrimming

[MarcoEnReynosa]

Haha, I hate that skyrim doesn't autosave too, I'm at the part just past the golden claw door, it took me forever to figure out the pattern to open the door! I felt all dumb when I learned that the answer was on the claw itself haha.

[xchamorrobrox]

I know what you mean by forgetting to save in a game and then losing everything lol. When I used to play stuff like pokemon and my DS would die I'd completely flip the heck out x'D I really want to get skyrim because it sounds like an amazing sandbox type game, but I don't have one of the major platforms and my computer definitely couldn't handle those graphics >.< I'm freaking jealous! That aside, congratulations on coming out, I seriously need to get around to coming out as well :3

[1609nh]

Well at least your coming out experiences so far have been pretty good! :) keep making them awesome videos!

[lohbeatsdotcom]

lol @ "gather around i have news"! congrats on coming out! btw, check out BF3, its wayyyy better than MW3. I've been wanting to check out skyrim too!

[evillejon]

once again, great video...and yeah you went on about skyrim for a hot minuter there but your facial expressions were funny as hell. so. in all your videos eh? is it the guitar hiding sheepishly beside your shelf? if so, pleeeeeeeeeeease make us all a video of you playing....please. thanks for another great video and it's cool the way you came out to your friend...don't rush it though...you've got all the time in the world. have a good one.

Jon

[RoomsForSquares]

How do you sleep on your bed? theres always so much stuff on it hahaha. Anyways congrats on telling your friend. its always nice to have someone your own age to talk to about that stuff

[mmmitch643]

@ISH2008 I hopee :)

[mmmitch643]

Love you Dylan :)

[1malldoc1]

CONGRATS! Nice going

[mmmitch643]

I wish I was as brave as you!

[IDH2008]

YEAH! A fellow geek! (you playing Skyrim lol)

[PartingtonsWorld]

Is this person you 'like' straight or gay or bi? :')

[dennisdman11]

Congrats on coming out to your girl friend You will know the time to come oit to your guy friends ...maybe she will be able to help . Annolize your guy friends on there open mindness and then proceed when your comfortable . Introduce us to your dog in a future video man . Take care till then and as always enjoy your vids !

[tattooedboy04]

Dylan, you are so awesome... Yea, when I came out to my friend, it was bad; he told everybody I know, then by the afternoon, the whole school knew and I got bullied the rest of the year...you must live in a much wiser area and have much better friends. Best to you. :)

[NoShortsNoLosses2]

i got a lot of guy friends but so far i came out to 3 guy friends and one girl.... and suprisingly they all took it well.... love my friends lol....i still need to come out to a couple more ppl then ill let the others find out on their own lol

[capchemist]

Good news! I can't see your hair is greasy, and can't smell you over the internet :) I never talk about guys with my parents. Glad your friend is cool with everything. Telling a large group of people is complicated - after a while you hit the point that you just don't care anymore, or don't know who knows and who doesn't - and it's not so bad because everybody already knows you for you.

[jaketaylor015]

It's like the same thing that I did, but instead of being a girl friend it was my best guy friend. And he was chill about it.

[JustAnotherJake7]

@jaketaylor015 lol, lucky. my guy friend stopped talking to me.

[JustAnotherJake7]

I've told so many people.. don't regret any except one. It's on my channel if anybody cares. I've only told like two guys I think. All the girls I've told have become like, "gay best friend" with me

[thatawkwardone01]

@JustAnotherJake7 That what she calls me now and it bugs me! She always wants to go shopping!

[JustAnotherJake7]

@thatawkwardone01 haha, I haven't gone shopping.. yet, but checking out/talking about guys is quite common.

[Ichigo29440]

@thatawkwardone01 Lol wow well that comes with being gay and coming out to females who love to shop XD NEVER GO SHOE SHOPPING @_@

[thatawkwardmoment01]

@thatawkwardone01 That's all they wanna do! HaHaHa......GAY = SHOPPING....Automatically... :)

[thatawkwardmoment01]

@thatawakardone01 RUBIK'S CUBES IS THE HIDING ITEM! :) Are you good at solving them?

[thatawkwardone01]

@thatawkwardmoment01 haha yes! I'm not that good anymore but I was OBSESSED in 6th and 7th grade

[thatawkwardmoment01]

@thatawkwardone01 I believe you!......LOL :)

[thatawkwardone01]

@depfox Ya I pretty much smell like roses :) Don't worry you're invited. Haha and no we have just been friends, lol I'm not sexist it's just an observation I've made over the years :)

[eslgr8]

@depfox Thanks for continuing to inspire and support "That Awkward One."

[depfox]

@eslgr8 I think he needs to change his name :O) nothing Awkward about him any more :O)

[202bigbrother]

Am I the first view? Awesome! Cool video.