Get Your Husband to Do What You Want

[hankhalle]

I'm fairly certain that what he's building up to, is simply ask the guy for what you want. Be direct and don't manipulate the guy, expecting him to read your mind. We don't read your minds, and any attempt at manipulation will only backfire.  In my Stephen Ministry group, the ladies said that their marriages were revolutionized when they realized they wouldn't get what they wanted till they very clearly and directly asked for it.

[missellie505]

oh my god hes a better singer and performer than justin bieber

[missellie505]

lmao this false romantic fantasy land

[magski1]

is he gay???

[msclarephipps]

@magski1 Why is that important?

[cbasskilla001]

wait dave chappelle already told us the secret, i thought it was dont talk so much,suck his dick,pipe his balls and go fix him sandwich

[TomboyCactus101]

ROFL love the singing bit

[mba2ceo]

Fellatio ?

[mba2ceo]

#1 reason ... for divorce for men. Sexual neglect

[slm22222]

@cowgal69 Guess what cowgal? It's not "seperates," it's "separates." Don't lecture until you are right yourself. But don't worry - get a dictionary.

[10yearvet]

@slm22222 Maybe you should watch the episode concerning the intentions of the heart and leave cowgal69 alone. I'm quite sure you are just like the rest of us and much worse problems than a misspelled word.

[RobzFanpire]

Its not out fault, we're raised watching movies like "Sleeping Beauty" and "Cinderella" and our mums say "one day you'll meet prince charming" ....and we never fucking do!

[MishellaLee]

lmao

[ShadowBasker]

wtf, he spent 2 and a half minutes building up to something, then he didnt say it

[HeartBreak2291]

@ShadowBasker

He does say something... It's the person who posted this who cut the video short.

[usmcoth]

@ShadowBasker - I agree. He might be either making the point that we men has already lost interest or that she's now saying I hate you, get out by now. Definitely, WTF over?

[Sandbar136]

@ShadowBasker Because he wants you to buy his DVD's. :(

[ShadowBasker]

@Sandbar136 lol I just came back to this video because of your comment, and im surprised to see I have the number 1 comment

[RoyalMessup]

answer: bring him a sandwich

[LidiyaShadow]

Oh I see....so the solution for a woman to "Get Her Husband to Do What She Wants" is to not want anything from her husband. Typical.

[Smileater]

@LidiyaShadow He's not saying that, What he does say is that women need to talk about it, ask for it, not just stay quiet, waiting for a miracle or some kind of love-epiphany from their husbands. That's why he says: 0:57 "because you, in fact, have the power to change this..."

[Aprilshowersss]

My dude and I are lucky. If he ever bought some useless trinket (jewels, flowers etc.)Id question whether we are compatible anymore. No V days no B days no need to "gift" me at all. He helps me in ways he can(like fixesmy computer) and on occasion gets me things I want and NEED. Like a new blender, or video card). I keep him fed, sexed, and leave him alone a lot. I have an empty box as well and we can ignore each other all day sometimes and then kiss goodnight. Its a beautiful relationship :).

[kennyhammad]

he is very very wrong. Women take before they ask and when done taking they ask for whats left utile you have nothing. Try to get a divorce and you will find out. She will have a pussy judge who will give her even what she does not ask for. Ask me and I will prove it to you.

[anonimystro1234567]

@kennyhammad In other words, "my bitch wife divorced me and now I want to complain about it on youtube".;

[Ichigo1997Monse]

"SoMeWhErE OvEr ThE RaAaAaAiNBoOw" ROFLOL!!! XD

[ERumm1]

he is brilliant we were like a thousand people there even saw the local butcher the fish and chip shop guy and other random people. he stresses in the beginning that he is GENERALIZING - but alot of it is how people are - there are people who are the exception of course and he does STRESS that POINT in the beginning. he has a very off beat humour it is how he is -

still have not laughed so much in ages and ages brilliant

[nettieheartful]

masoginistic and patronising!

[HowManyTimes234]

@nettieheartful the incorrect spelling of "misogynistic" negates the credibility of your opinion.

[nettieheartful]

@HowManyTimes234 ha ha yes teacher! You are also condescending!

[22v]

@cowgal69 separates*

[scarpatimom]

OK some of this may be a bit corny, but .... he gets to some subjects that are typically avoided with his humor that sometimes can be corny. I recently saw his show live and recommend you see it if you have a chance.

[5959512]

i wish he was less corny i would be able to share his vids

[Jennifer009]

cant argue with you there i live in that false land

[DiJohnny18]

@runemythzazans I like what he's saying, but sadly, I have to agree with you. He's a lot like Dane Cook. Just because you yell something really loudly, or say it in a silly voice doesn't make it funny. :-/

[dreamsofmercedes]

Sooooooooooooooooooo cooooooooooooooooooooooooooool­lllllllllllllllll !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[49jubilee]

Mens brains are simple but very direct; womens brains are complex but indirect, but together they work fine. A man can come home from work , and leave it there, but women are more integrated and takes it home with her; also, if shes having a bad day at home, more likely than not, she'll take it home with her.---regarding primates: before Darwin, they were called something else, i forgot what they were called though--we are NOT RELATED TO THE APES...

[Lachdenan]

@49jubilee An excellent point.

[JoNat315]

I was real realistic about love until my current boyfriend showered me in fairytale romance to the point I once said "Ok, this is not normal, people like you DO NOT exist". I'm talking about flowers, poems, princess treatment, gaining the love and respect of my mother (like, what??), calling me just to know about MY DAY, carefully planned dates, INCENSE!! I'm not all lubby-dubby so I'm basically learning from him what do to in return xD

[angiezagrodnik]

Bottomline men have empty box in their brain... Women rule the world ....hahaha

[joa40]

@angiezagrodnik hahaha

Not realy! You can say Women control the rulers of the world. Of been their mothers their wifes even their lovers. For ex. Show me any women who is a great scientist or invertor. But All of them got inspired from a great woman. And let me tell you this if God the Almight invent sthing better than a woman he kept for himself. Because there is no powerfull or smart or strong or faithfull man could resist a woman. And I can prove you this. ....lol... have a good day!

[kiro1990122]

@angiezagrodnik sadly, this will NEVER happen! hahahaha

[ihfppl]

@angiezagrodnik and look at the state of it.

[creedluv04]

For all of you who think he makes fun of women too much... check out all his dvd's. He picks on everyone. That's what makes it funny.

Also, he can get serious with both. I highly recommend all his dvd's.

[kikilikimoo]

@cowgal69 Love your comment, it's hilarious, but... it's spelled "separates" with an "a".

[Rola1981]

looooooooool

[Calixtus]

There is very little actual difference between a man and a woman, especially in contrast with consideration of the distance we have with our relations the primates, which sufficiently provides tilt to group us wholistically as two halves of a single species. Seeing this, it is riling to note that you will receive so much support for a claim that ridicules itself by attempting to degrade with a rambling simplicity by alluding to the primate in order to further divide what is closer to your soul.

[Morna777]

The mockery is a bit heavy on women. He should make it more even.

[sashasquash]

@cowgal69 As a grammar nerd, I see your point in picking on whoever that was, but you might want to spell things right if you're gonna do it (seperate->separate).

[Helenhealer]

he is fantastic lol

[buutich]

@scottelgin4life I agree with you. What I don't agree with in this video is that he is making fun of women for being the way they are, which is their hardwiring, too. He could have made the talk more interesting by making light of both sides, not just saying that women should "change" how they view things.

[yinyangjumper]

U guys need to stfu and stop taking shit personally.. its just comedy and hell if it doesnt offend some1 it wouldn't be funny now would it :P

[azgirl777]

Ah!  Where is the rest of this video?!?!?! What is the secret ???? haha :-D

[buutich]

What I don't like about his presentation is that he makes fun of the way women are hardwired, but seems to say "men can't help the way they are." So, it is okay for men to be the way they are, but "silly" if women act they way they are. There's no equanimity in this talk, though there could have been very easily.

[swapswap2007]

@buutich because he himself is a man!

[lizkel]

@buutich agreed. totally absolving men as if they are some sort of animals who can only act on impulse

[robertoc7]

@cowgal69 Love your comment dude xD

[urboyfriendjim]

cool, so he pretty much thinks that women are hysterical, out of touch idiots. this isn't funny, its just sad that this person bases entire dvds off of such played out and offensive stereotypes.

[nettieheartful]

@urboyfriendjim thankyou I agree!

[alliancesfinest]

@cowgal69 haha you pooped on him

[Bushra1409]

yaaaaaaa really man's brain is tooooo narrow ha ha ha ha "WOMEN " cannot be challenged :) coz of her too wide minde

[nina755]

LOOOL 100% true

[fourtywpm]

ha ha ha. I LOVE his impressions of women!

[poniewczasie]

He's funny but he makes things VERY simple. I know guys who are naturally charming and romantic with girls and they are veeery successful with them ;) Anyway, there is nothing wrong with being romantic every now and then, it makes things beautiful and enjoyable! For both, men and women.

[GonegoodK]

NOT funny. It's not women's fault that they live in a more romantic world. That's how WE are programmed to function, the way we are wired. And it does come naturally. The man is allowed to have rushes of testosteron in the morning and demand sex, but we do not have the right to desire romanticism?

Blah!

[norwayguy1976]

@GonegoodK I understand what you mean, AND it is bad if he gives that impression.

I understand, he is NOT critizicing the concept of romance, but a simplified form of romance, that does not involve you shaping it.

HE is also equelly talking to men and women, not as put down...

So Yes, you can me romantic, but he is talking about a responsibility and a deeper more independant type of romantic thinking. There is a lot of true romance in the bible.

[Illonaxpg]

It's funny at first, but at some point you've got to stop and say, "Okay, I get it, women are bitchy and stupid and unrealistic. Do you have any other material?"

[justpeachy62]

Were using this in small group..its wonderful... Hes so funny and gets his point across...

[YourTeacherLE]

I learnt a long time ago to buy my own flowers.

[patobnorte]

Good Idea!

Don´t you wanna suggest this to my girlfriend, she likes flowers more than bees do!!!!

[AloutkaKazawa]

:) thanks for a good laughter

[wubs23]

that and the internet, which allows us to fall back to primate state, but still be perceived as human beings..

as proved by every tenth comment on youtube.

[timsas]

Wow so true women are perhaps the more stupid then apes, with their fantasies and dreamworlds. I assure you women, that I as a man is more inteligent then all of u!

[felicianomiko]

@timsas ...porn is the fantasy world men build, and we see how realistic THAT is, but you guys persist on thinking it is indeed, real....I rest my case.

[roza371]

perhaps the reason he gets "static" from women is that they feel that he doesn't respect their (admittedly, often misdirected) point of view. Making fun of people *is* wont to put them on the defensive...

[spikaia]

this is so true! my mom is always saying "everyone got lucky with their husbands, why not me?"

[Americanjazzlady]

To receive the man of my dreams or a man who receives the woman of his dreams is NOT fantasyland. You....qwuad81 are very rude, insulting and need to experience joy, love and peace and especially GOD's love!!

[MyGuruLife]

here we go with the invisible man in the sky again...

[ConversePrincess01]

@MyGuruLife

the invisible beardy man on a cloud

[MyGuruLife]

ooh, nice.. thanks bud

[TatsuJay]

where is the rest of it?

[gauharjk]

Showbiz... Give me knowledge, not a show...

[Semechki]

Y people hated Ur coment? I agree: demons make people laugh when it's not funny

[UncalledFor95]

this is guy is so shit... he's not even funny..

[morsa36]

i love this man

[StreetBall89]

0:11 - 0:14 What the fuck is "You so miaow May.. You so..."

[Zinger58]

He said, "You sold me out, man!" : ~ )

[jailanvet]

he is intellegent

[Americanjazzlady]

I love this man. He is reallllyyyy funny. He loves the Lord too!! I can't wait til GOD gives me the man of my dreams and I'm the woman of his!!!

GOD BLESS YOU MARK!!!

[qwuad61]

The man of any women's dreams,the women of every mans dreams lives in a place called fantacyland.

[Semechki]

qwuad61 : just dream the right dream and you'll get him/her *)

[felicianomiko]

@qwuad61 A-frikkin-men. Romance novels are pure fantasy, porn is pure fantasy, let's live in the real world.

[littlegiant1972]

EXCELLENT !

[laurasart1]

I am having my teens watch you! I saw you on EWTN the other day and I fell out of my seat laughing. I caught the last 9 minutes and could not believe how right you were but at the same time you made SO INCREDIBLY FUNNY! All middle schools should have you teach classes. I do not see marriage only I see relationships between any man and woman benefiting from listening and watching you! Our kids need help understand the opposite sex these days! Bless you. Can u work on an ADHD brain vs a normal???

[naje29]

GOD bless this man he help a lot of people and he make me laugh to much

[lifeisgood070]

14 year old girl below.... Damn women think about this stuff their whole life. I'm such a noob.

[twilightaddict120]

mark gungor, i am a 14 year old girl, and i already love your videos. you give amazing, true advice to couples today. every thing you say is so right! lol

[ArticAkita]

I love his version of "over the rainbow" LOL!!!FUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNY!!!

and so true!...well about me anyway :)

[Tuth9]

I know this version of Over the rainbow is best XD

[fisch246]

this guy reminds me of me

[angelexist]

hahahahahaa it's so true and funny.

theboycrys25: cut it out... Who are you? Mr.Righteous?????... :S

[DrowDrizzt1]

okay, what in heaven's name?! lol OMGOSH!!! i LOVE this!! he's freakin awesome!

[magdutza16]

:)))))))

[deathofbarney]

OMG I cant stop laughing!

[ifilmwatchlearn]

lol

okay, I totally wasn't expecting that musical interlude.