When ever I try to tell a story it never comes out right or I can't make it as interesting as other people can, I feel like I can't even talk to my sister the right things anymore it just ends in an akward silence now until i say something really stupid I've been shy my whole life and I dont like it I want the guts to stop being akward and make closer friends (aqquntices right now still after all these years) (high schooler now) :(
It is a heightened sense of humility, coming from fearing criticism, ridicule, and rejection. If it is (as often) a result of long-term negative social experiences, then a person may be, rationally, shy. It is definitely not the case that shy people 'demand' social acceptance, from there peers. Quite the contrary. Shy people question their acceptance, while common people assume it, by default. You've taken a virtue, and turned it into a disease....Typical of Western Psychology.
This is a great video. I too have made a 5 step plan for overcoming shyness please feel free to check out my channel and video 5 steps towards overcoming shyness. I wish you all the greatest luck
hate it how people are commenting to basically 'get a grip' to shy people, it's something no-one can understand how hard it is. i feel like choking up when i talk to people who aren't my close friends or family, and i panic when i know i have to work in a group with people. It's awful to live with being a 15 year old girl in high school
the best way to overcome shyness is to DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT ANYONE AROUND YOU! you people are so fucking stupid! you only have one life, god knows how much you'll live to see another fuckin' day! get matters into your own hands, stop searching for advice 'cuz medication doesn't work. and no matter how people will accommodate you telling you that its nothing serious, since most people can't overcame it, its a mental disease / disorder. live with it, accept it and fuck off.
I'm shy because I have a severe case of OCD. It makes me analyze every word that comes out of my mouth until i finally find something I could have said better or something I could have done better. I'm the girl at the back of the class that doesn't say a thing because I'm afraid that any word that comes out of my mouth will be wrong. I beat myself up for it so bad for these things and it lowers my self esteem and my arm starts twitching and has come close to hitting myself before. I'm scared o
Im alright around friends but i can't say ANYTHING to a girl even vaguely pretty. I fill that when i grow up I'm going to live alone and will never of had a girlfriend. I'm being serious I can't even say hi :(
why am i shy? why affradi? maybe cos i had no friends at all in years 7 and 8 at school.a teacher called me a fat tub of lard infront of class. i got picked on constantly. called so ugley that no woman would ever sleep with me. kid spat into my mouth at school. attacked for fun by a guy with a stik that had anail in it. went to an all boys school. cried whilemaking speaches infront of the class. i was to scared to tell my parents or skip school. thats why i look good now, im 42, still shy.
I have really bad shyness. I am in high school and have never had one friend. I am only comfortable around my close family. (like my parents and siblings). It sucks!!! I always wonder why I had to be born like this. Why couldn't I be born like all these other kids at my school? Shyness is horrible. When i'm walking down the hall I always feel like everyone is looking at me and I get really awkward when people try to talk to me. I need to end it! Thats why i'm looking up this video... :(
Im so shy too.. It really bothers me. I was depressed today and thats why Im at this video... I just wanna get out already.. out of this stupid shell..
I've been shy my whole life. I can't even talk to my relatives. I can't even talk to my parents or sister without feeling shy! Whenever I actually bring up the nerve to tell a story, my face gets hot, my voice becomes lower, my face turns red and I start tearing up. People always make fun of me for "never talking" and being too quiet and shy. I hate myself. I need to overcome it somehow, but I feel like this is never going to stop ruining my life...
@4Haters2Gonna0Hate I know, right? :( It's the worst trait in the world! I followed this guy in the video's advice and went to the website and e-mailed a hypnotherapist near me for an (I hope) appointment sometime soon... I just really hope it turns out successful. Wish me luck and I really hope you overcome this horrible shyness as well!! :( <3
@AmaterasuHusky I used to be like that myself. Don't worry you will survive it, it's going to take time and a lot of of perseverance. Eventually you will train your mind to stop thinking so negatively about how you're perceived and gain more confidence about yourself. This is coming from a 3 sport high school athlete and someone the "ladies" are fond of. Everyone has their battles.
I didn't learn to be shy I just have no self-confidence or self-esteem I think that's because my whole life all 6 of my siblings were and still are telling me how ugly and fat I am
Whenever I'm in a room full of people or in a public place like the mall, I always feel like I'm not wanted and that everyone is staring at me to leave or to be isolated from society to prevent people from looking at me.
@xUmbrellaCo you're not alone, i too have lost many opportunities to rid myself of this social anxiety, don't worry im sure you will lose your shyness in due time.
@xUmbrellaCo Yes, but hope is just the idea that we want it to happen, but we actually have to go out there make it happen, and i have no idea where to start
Im way to shy the problem is i turn red really fast cause im this shy i hate it!i wish i could be loud at school than just sitting alone when every one eles is having fun or talking to there friends
@chezybx :( yeah I have felt it :( I lost my girl too :( feels bad but u can get her back if u ask for another change and then heres a tip for you all guys if u are shy ; so if u date her on street and u go on walk then : breath deep in and then out and then read 1 2 3 very slowly and take her hand . She will feel good and u too :)
ive been shy all my life and what im about to say is like a life time of what people would hear me say.im extreamly shy and i dont feel comfortable around anyone not my family or my friends but to honest i hav no friends.people come up to me and treat me like im different just because i dont talk they always feel sorry for me but they leave me out.little things like saying she doesnt speak is really upsetting nd people dont understand that, the only cure for it is being shy i being excepted
I really hate being shy.... When I do try to talk to someone... Its just awkward and some of the people I try talking to look at me as if I was stupid... :(
Dude...all I can say is be yourself! If you have something to say...then talk about it, and if you don't have anything to say....then? Just stay silent and reflect of what you're going to say next.
Being shy and and having a social phobia are two different things. Ever since I reached 6th or 7th grade I've been shy but over the years it has turned into something far worse: social phobia. I am in a extremely difficult situation because I am now 20 years old and I still live with my parents. I have a hard time getting jobs simply because it is hard for me to go to interviews and when I do go I freeze up which prevents me from getting a job. Pretty much I go to all costs to avoid social inte
@Metallicaguy91 I can relate with you, im 19 and i just cant get a job because the thought of an interview scares the hell out of me enough to prevent me from even trying.
I wish i could get over my shyness ffs, I'm at a point where i literally NEED to but im just so hopeless pffff. When i try to get my nerve up it all goes to pot at the last minute and i freeze grrrrrrrrrrrr :( You are right of course, it is all in the mind and i do precisely as you speak of envisioning nothing but disaster. I really need to sort it out, this video encourged me to do just that - Thank you :) ~PG~
I've always been a little shy until I moved to Georgia my 7th grade year, I've became extremely shy. I'm not use to meeting new people since I've been around the same ones since Pre-K. When I tell my old friends I'm shy in Georgia, they laugh because they know the other side of me. I'm about to start my junior year and I'm going to a new school and I'm soooo sick of being shy. I wish I can just overcome this within the next four days before school starts. I hate this...
@summersetred Exact same thing I do. I bet its probably because I'm worried how they would react or think of me so I just make up conversations that go in my favor. I wouldn't even try to talk to anyone and dreaded group assignments...
Im shy because i feel ugly all the time and people say im pretty but i dont see it. I feel like when ever walk in a room every one is staring at me all the time. i think to much but i talk to little and i think i might be losing my mind.
this guy talks like hes been through hell and returned he is a good encourgager in trying to mak people feel betterr and put them on the write track the site just be well im just about to go on see what they can do with hypnosis and nlp wish me luck
shyness is a natural thing we all have consciousness of being watched by others for example eating to much fatty foods and worry what others think (they dont care by the way) but why would you be shy if you had nothing to be shy about or maybe paranoier fits in aswell
@clemnext such a pessimist, you can always make a situation better for yourself. It's just whether you can be bothered or not. I used to think like you, then I decided to do something about it.
Well,I Started Being Shy about Last Year,I Was Actualy a Very Open Person,Loved making People Laugh,Im Not Shy at all around the People I Know,But It's just Hard for me To Speak to People that I Don't know,I Just get Nervous,Start Sweating and Stutter,Im Talking a Second Language that's Spanish,My Main Language is English,But Today I Got My Best Friend that I Grew Up With ask Me Out,And I Want To Stay Friends,What should I Do?
I'm sooooooooo shy around opposite sex,when a guy offers me a hug,it feels like it's my duty to reject that hug, even though I know he's just being friendly.HELP?
I hate being shy. Even little things, like reading my work in front of the class, make me go bright red and my heart thuds like mad and I tremble! It's sooo annoying. :( I would LOVE to bee confident...
like man...i remember being younger was funner man. use to go out alot. talk to people and just hang out. now that im at my 20's. i have no idea why i stopped going out. like wtf. people tell me i have life to the fullest..well man. i got no one to see..no where to go. just my family to talk to. im overly frustrated man. im alone too much..and this introvert life is driving me fucking nuts man. my life is hardly ever exciting anymore. just got a job...but. its not enough.
aye dude. im on the same boat man. i get shy too easily...like i can talk and stuff. i love it. but the anxiety kicks in right away. i hardly ever go out anymore. sometimes..on special occasions. or work. but thats about it. i can talk lots and ramble on and on. if i get into a conversation. but...when it comes to new people..or ppl i know...i have no idea on what the fuck to say. lmao. know u feel though...i dont give a fuck either. lol
I have got a English Applied Studys to do. I have to do it on a movie star and do 8 slides about him/her. Then put it onto a board and on my own talk through each slide to my class. I am apsolutely shy. I can't even talk to my friends. I hardly talk in school i only say stuff like "uh-huh" so i don't talk. When i talk my voice goes quiet and weird. Please Help me. I got less than 3 weeks till i do it :(
i remember when i was in yr 10 i wasnt shy at all and after my last break up with my ex i jusy went shy right a way idk how it happen and it makeing my life sad and i want to overcome ima try this and see how it goes SHYNESS NEED TO STOP!!!!
i hate being shy! Im 16 nd Ive been shy my whole life nd it suks really bad! Im even shy around my family sometimes. This summer i invited my whole class (25 ppl)to my 16th birthday party nd only 6 came :( I know if i were more outgoing i would have hndreds of friends. hopefully youtube vids ,about overcoming shyness, will help me bc i rlly need it!
I was very very shy, with hard work I've gotten just a bit shyer than average. That's the good news. The bad news is no matter how more effort I put I cant seem to get normal, I always stay shy enough to make my life miserable
I used to be really social and outgoing but after age of 14-15 I started being really nervous outside my house. I'm 18 now and have figured out that I had a social anxiety disorder. It all changed at the age of 16, it got worse and I started watching these videos one youtube as I felt I couldn't speak to my parents. I did a lot of hard work to get better in social situations, still I get a bit nervous when I have presentations in front of my class and things like that but it's a lot better now.
i was at a friends lil get together and i think i was the shyest person there. everyone else was in a group, talking, enjoying each others presence. while i was just by myself drinking alone and just staring at everyone else =(
It's horrible being shy, I work hard to overcome it and have gotten better over a couple years. It just feels so bad when you KNOW you are someone else. you just know you are funny and fun and have great things to say but sometimes the words just don't come out and it's like you are not yourself. It's like you are trapped inside your own head listening to the words stumbling out of your mouth and thinking "what am I saying??"
hello im in my 20s and am the biggest hermit you could ever possibly conceive of with your imagination. In fact i take pride that i may very well be one of the most qiuet and reserved individuals the world has ever seen. This also used to cause me much stress, anxiety and all that as im sure you all know. Being this type of weird/off person can cause this. But after you stop giving a fuck it stops becoming a problem. Actually life as a rolling wheel of perpetuation contains no problems...
Its so terrible. Everyone in my family is very outgoing and I'm very shy. I can barely talk to anyone because of my shyness. Its hard to talk in front of groups and I often try to get out of it. I'm afraid to do certain things also. It gets pretty bad, I'm even shy in front of some of my family, when everyone gets together.
@ThatTwiztidBabygirl wow that is the exact same way i feel..everyone in my fam is so outgoing and my shyness messes up lots of opportunities..so sad lol
I'm so tired of being shy. I'm the only shy one in my family. I hate it when everyone always asks "why are you so shy" like if it was a choice. I just wish I was outgoing. I want to have lots of friends but cant. I am also terrified of public speaking.
Umm...You know what? There are really nice people that are shy out there, and these extroverted outgoing people do not give them a chance to open up. So those that are really outgoing tend to stay in their "cliques" or in other words their posse gang, it really doesn't help the shy person at all. So if you see a shy person, and this goes for everyone...help them open up instead of ignoring them, you might learn something from them that might surprise you.
I guess I never thought about that before. My mother is terribly socially anxios and shy so I always guessed it was genetic. But I was very sheltered as a child and told to be afraid of people. My little sister was allowed out of the house more and she is very comfortable. Hm... given me a lot to think about.
I used to be the nauhty annoying trouble making kid in 4th grade cuz i wasnt shy at all, in 5th grade school classes stop being mixed (boy/girl) so ever since them i have been changing until now, i have changed into a mixed school and will be going to the 9th grade, i dont know what i will do on the first day of school :\
Shyness can mean the difference between having a life worth living or not living. I encourage anyone who suffers from extreme shyness like myself to seek the root cause of your shyness and do evasive treatments like hypnosis, EMDR, neurofeedback, and perhaps up to shock treatment to rid of shyness.
Does anyone know whether this actually works, cos i'm a bit reluctant to spend between of 300-450euro on something that seems almost too good to be true.
That probably over 500euro after booking fees and consultations fees, and i'm a student like, so not growing money.
The site itself only has one shyness testimonial for the last year or so is there anyone who has actually done it?
:/ yea myshyness came at 6th grade cuz it was my first move and I didn't like leavin my friends but my shyness went on and off after my second move cuz I was more like he said confident. It sucks how it works.
I wasn't shy until about 6th grade and sometimes my shyness will just go away for months but then come back later on. I'll blush easier and I find it hard to make eye contact with anyone, even some of my family. What usually triggers my shyness is when someone calls me shy. A month ago I was super outgoing but then this one girl told me she was gonna vote for me as 'most shy' and after that I felt like I was shy. Words really do have an effect whether we realize it or not.
I'm 42 and I still blush terribly in certain situation. I can blush with males, I mean certain people can trigger this shyness, perhaps it's figures of authotity or people who question you with their eyes.
Of course, I blush with beautiful women specially. It is a crippling condition.
lol i thought it was supper funny when he laughed when said it can make your hole
life just a horrible experience its not genetic this. He is interesting. with his relaxing voice and side looks and stretches.. and his 007 book on his side
I'm 16 and I haven't been shy all my life. It seems about around 8th grade or my freshman year of high school that I got terribly shy to talk to new people and nervous when I had to talk in front of a class. I'm not shy at all around my close friends, but it takes so long for me to open up to anyone else except my tight-knit group of friends. Any tips to keep a conversation going with a new person/girl and not sound boring? I'm so sick of being shy, it's like being a prisoner in your own body.
I was super shy throughout all of high school. Then I got out and just got a job and started to talk to people, because I had to. Then I got used to it and just forgot that I was so shy about saying a word to people. The hard part about it was getting used to it. It took time. Also I smoked some weed and it opened up my mind. haha. I'm 19 and I can say shyness is not a problem for me anymore :)
I have the exact same problem. Through public school I was fine, I even went in-front of the school to do a speech. Through high school I have become shy when talking to new people. It is as if my personality goes away and I pick up a new one, were I just answer questions with the simplest answers, like yes, no, maybe. Shyness is ruining my life and I'm desperate for an answer.
@Coolphace same here. I think part of the reason was that I had spent my entire life from 1st to 8th grade in a very small school. Then moving to a big high school I suddenly became very shy. I'm 17 and I still hang out with the same group of friends as I did in middle school. Girls, however, are the hardest to talk to. And when I try I often come off as offensive when I don't mean to be. I've never been depressed but it certainly is a bummer that I probably will never have a girlfriend.
@Coolphace Hello man I have a few tips. Meeting women is the best way to overcome your shyness. There are a TON of good stuff out there to help you prepare and eventually do that. When you do it will greatly boost your confidence.
I personally have read and found extremely useful:
The Game- Penetrating the secret society of pick up artists
I'm 29 and I am still quit shy. I had 4 hypnosis sessions but I only got better for a short term. I've been doing the Linden Method for a week and its better.
@zone1480 does that mean that this guy is npt all he's cracked up to be. I was just about to make an appointment but want to make sure i'm not wasting a months worth of wages.
The guy sounded like he wanted to burp a couple of times. :)
I have a certain social anxiety. I'm not really that shy, I just find talking to people that I don't know, quite "tiring" in a way. My problem is that I see people as enemies, or at the least a pain in the arse. I make up my mind about people really quickly. That's what I need to change.
@HeartbreakWarfare I'm like that too. It usually takes me a long time to get to know people, because I'm fine around people I do know. There are only some of my friends who are more "out there" and they help me fit in more. I know what you mean about seeming "completely boring", I think I am too, around people who are really loud & always have something to talk about. I'm sure you're not boring though, you should go on a help website or something. Google it maybe. Good luck :)
Go get hypnosis and NLP? Thats my plan. From my experiences self help dosen't really work. Being a student, I'm just waiting to see how much this thing will cost.
Yes definately. Same happens to me, whenever i'm around people thoughts just stop coming in to my head. It's because you're so busy evaluating how you are coming across to others and putting yourself underpressure to say something, that you're mind pretty much goes blank.
No your not boring. One of the main symtoms of being shy, or avoidant personality disorder, or anything like that is that the person believes they are boring. That feeling is just a symptom and has no reality.
i have been shy only when talking to a chick but it has gotten better after a couple of years of pushing myself but yea i still am shy when it comes to hanging out with my girlfriend and stuff
Yeah shyness sucks.. i lost an opportunity to talk to a cute girl at the park last week she was checkin me out from far and it almost felt like she was calling me with her eyes..lol. but I was too shy to respond to that.. then i felt like crap.. the end..
im 19 and i look good from what alot of people tell me and alot of girls try to get at me but im a little shy and i get nervous uugh how da f*ck do i stop being shy!!!
I'm lightweight shy myself, but what folks have been telling me is to try to talk more often (any way possible) and to learn to like people. It also helps to ask yourself a question like "I am a stand up, good-looking dude. Why wouldn't a female want me?"
I hate being shy, i just fucked up bad at my school dance. My date ditched me and ignored me. And while everyone was slow dancing. I was one of the only ones sitting watching. :'(
and i feel like shit now and currently spiraling into depression *not suicidal due to religion*
Well, by saying that you were "one of the only ones sitting", then there were others sitting down as well, right? Not everyone was dancing? You've got nothing to be ashamed about. Enjoy life, and do the best that you can, with what you can do. Be patient, allow yourself to grow (growth takes time) and don't try to measure up to anyone else's standards.
Just a thought: that girl was probably not into you. Most likely, she was interested in some other dude who already had a date. Forget her, man.
@TheScreamingRetard prolly because you dont feel any pressure to impress a stranger and prolly wont see them again. your peers are the ones who you feel like the ones that would judge you because they are always around. I got somewhat of the same problem. I rarely talk to my family but around friends I loosen up.
i kinda consider myself shy, i have a few friends, no girl friend, and i am awkward when it comes to fitting in. And i dont really have the guts to talk to the girl i like
thanks for the advice, but i learned shes not my type. ANd i am going to a different school and the school i go to is a really bad one. Trust me, everyone is a jackass. Its basically the hood. I am planning to go to GCIT next year. and ill try to meet someone there so wish me luck! :)
...I have Social Phobia, and it SUCKS! I love horses and I have read TONS of books, but ppl recommend I take lessons..but I'm scared out of my freaked-out mind to do that!!! I've been worrying/thinking about it for like--3 months..I know theres stables waiting for me to take lessons (i didn't sign up, just an expression) and I'm too depressed, and social nxiety disordered to take them!..I am NOT social whatsoever...I hardly talk to a single person! yeah, another thing is VERY DEPRESSED!ne help
When ever I try to tell a story it never comes out right or I can't make it as interesting as other people can, I feel like I can't even talk to my sister the right things anymore it just ends in an akward silence now until i say something really stupid I've been shy my whole life and I dont like it I want the guts to stop being akward and make closer friends (aqquntices right now still after all these years) (high schooler now) :(
SCANDAL128 15 hours ago
It is a heightened sense of humility, coming from fearing criticism, ridicule, and rejection. If it is (as often) a result of long-term negative social experiences, then a person may be, rationally, shy. It is definitely not the case that shy people 'demand' social acceptance, from there peers. Quite the contrary. Shy people question their acceptance, while common people assume it, by default. You've taken a virtue, and turned it into a disease....Typical of Western Psychology.
zadeh79 5 days ago
This is a great video. I too have made a 5 step plan for overcoming shyness please feel free to check out my channel and video 5 steps towards overcoming shyness. I wish you all the greatest luck
MsDeelz 1 week ago
The only person that can change yourself is yourself, The Mind is a powerful thing, more powerful than you know, don't waste it.
CremeDeLaCremeFC 1 week ago
hate it how people are commenting to basically 'get a grip' to shy people, it's something no-one can understand how hard it is. i feel like choking up when i talk to people who aren't my close friends or family, and i panic when i know i have to work in a group with people. It's awful to live with being a 15 year old girl in high school
LaurennnLowe 1 week ago
and no offence to anyone btw but people are denying to accept what they can't change. consider i opened your eyes.
11MasterBlade 2 weeks ago
the best way to overcome shyness is to DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT ANYONE AROUND YOU! you people are so fucking stupid! you only have one life, god knows how much you'll live to see another fuckin' day! get matters into your own hands, stop searching for advice 'cuz medication doesn't work. and no matter how people will accommodate you telling you that its nothing serious, since most people can't overcame it, its a mental disease / disorder. live with it, accept it and fuck off.
11MasterBlade 2 weeks ago
I'm shy because I have a severe case of OCD. It makes me analyze every word that comes out of my mouth until i finally find something I could have said better or something I could have done better. I'm the girl at the back of the class that doesn't say a thing because I'm afraid that any word that comes out of my mouth will be wrong. I beat myself up for it so bad for these things and it lowers my self esteem and my arm starts twitching and has come close to hitting myself before. I'm scared o
IRemember1998 2 weeks ago
Im alright around friends but i can't say ANYTHING to a girl even vaguely pretty. I fill that when i grow up I'm going to live alone and will never of had a girlfriend. I'm being serious I can't even say hi :(
TheOpticzzz 2 weeks ago
@destruct2construct wow!! Man that's tough! And to think that I had it bad :( really tough life man :( hope you are doing better now.
TheMarroquinTwins 2 weeks ago
very nice explanation about why we are shy & what to need for a make changes..simple training our mind & being confidence ..........
EDWARD524 1 month ago
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why am i shy? why affradi? maybe cos i had no friends at all in years 7 and 8 at school.a teacher called me a fat tub of lard infront of class. i got picked on constantly. called so ugley that no woman would ever sleep with me. kid spat into my mouth at school. attacked for fun by a guy with a stik that had anail in it. went to an all boys school. cried whilemaking speaches infront of the class. i was to scared to tell my parents or skip school. thats why i look good now, im 42, still shy.
destruct2construct 1 month ago
Whatever the cause of shyness is, medication can't be the answer.
clemnext 1 month ago
Please check out my video on 5 steps to overcoming shyness, I hope you enjoy and it helps
MsDeelz 1 month ago
at 0:36 i genuinely believed that i may have been born shy lol. i am probably the most awkward person around others that i know.
AKBeazBoi 2 months ago
I have really bad shyness. I am in high school and have never had one friend. I am only comfortable around my close family. (like my parents and siblings). It sucks!!! I always wonder why I had to be born like this. Why couldn't I be born like all these other kids at my school? Shyness is horrible. When i'm walking down the hall I always feel like everyone is looking at me and I get really awkward when people try to talk to me. I need to end it! Thats why i'm looking up this video... :(
TheRedfire555 2 months ago 3
the only reason i post comments on youtube is because only stragners will see them
AnDRoIdmAN100 2 months ago
Im so shy too.. It really bothers me. I was depressed today and thats why Im at this video... I just wanna get out already.. out of this stupid shell..
KlonoaCute 2 months ago 2
I've been shy my whole life. I can't even talk to my relatives. I can't even talk to my parents or sister without feeling shy! Whenever I actually bring up the nerve to tell a story, my face gets hot, my voice becomes lower, my face turns red and I start tearing up. People always make fun of me for "never talking" and being too quiet and shy. I hate myself. I need to overcome it somehow, but I feel like this is never going to stop ruining my life...
AmaterasuHusky 2 months ago
@AmaterasuHusky i Know what you mean like i sont got it that bad but still it feels like it is running my life and i cant stop it!
4Haters2Gonna0Hate 2 months ago
@4Haters2Gonna0Hate I know, right? :( It's the worst trait in the world! I followed this guy in the video's advice and went to the website and e-mailed a hypnotherapist near me for an (I hope) appointment sometime soon... I just really hope it turns out successful. Wish me luck and I really hope you overcome this horrible shyness as well!! :( <3
AmaterasuHusky 2 months ago
@AmaterasuHusky I used to be like that myself. Don't worry you will survive it, it's going to take time and a lot of of perseverance. Eventually you will train your mind to stop thinking so negatively about how you're perceived and gain more confidence about yourself. This is coming from a 3 sport high school athlete and someone the "ladies" are fond of. Everyone has their battles.
m1dnightshow 2 months ago
i did no learn anything but say this to soe one smile and say hi
TheStephy032698 3 months ago
I didn't learn to be shy I just have no self-confidence or self-esteem I think that's because my whole life all 6 of my siblings were and still are telling me how ugly and fat I am
Awesomeallie2319 3 months ago
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NitroPazuzu 3 months ago
Whenever I'm in a room full of people or in a public place like the mall, I always feel like I'm not wanted and that everyone is staring at me to leave or to be isolated from society to prevent people from looking at me.
junior214223 3 months ago 4
@junior214223 omg I have the same problem :( I'm really sick of shyness!!
xUmbrellaCo 3 months ago
@xUmbrellaCo Amen to that, i wish i could go out without having my social anxiety beating me up inside
junior214223 3 months ago
@junior214223 What's making me feel down is I know what I have to do to overcome this
but I just don't do it in the right time... I've lost so many fun opportunities because of that :'(
xUmbrellaCo 3 months ago
@xUmbrellaCo you're not alone, i too have lost many opportunities to rid myself of this social anxiety, don't worry im sure you will lose your shyness in due time.
junior214223 3 months ago
@junior214223 I really hope so! hope you will too ^^
xUmbrellaCo 3 months ago
@xUmbrellaCo Yes, but hope is just the idea that we want it to happen, but we actually have to go out there make it happen, and i have no idea where to start
junior214223 3 months ago
Im way to shy the problem is i turn red really fast cause im this shy i hate it!i wish i could be loud at school than just sitting alone when every one eles is having fun or talking to there friends
puppylo9278 4 months ago
i act different when im at home than in school
yopoop100 4 months ago 9
yopoop100 Same here. I wish I could be the same spontaneous person that I am at home at school. :(
TheHelloKittyLover34 1 month ago
@chezybx :( yeah I have felt it :( I lost my girl too :( feels bad but u can get her back if u ask for another change and then heres a tip for you all guys if u are shy ; so if u date her on street and u go on walk then : breath deep in and then out and then read 1 2 3 very slowly and take her hand . She will feel good and u too :)
helkuriman12 4 months ago
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chezybx 4 months ago
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I'm really really REALLY shy:'( and no1 understands. I also lost the girl I love because of my shyness:(
chezybx 4 months ago
ive been shy all my life and what im about to say is like a life time of what people would hear me say.im extreamly shy and i dont feel comfortable around anyone not my family or my friends but to honest i hav no friends.people come up to me and treat me like im different just because i dont talk they always feel sorry for me but they leave me out.little things like saying she doesnt speak is really upsetting nd people dont understand that, the only cure for it is being shy i being excepted
123reletive123 4 months ago
i don't want to write why i am shy, it's a stupid reason.
MrBuffalosoldier420 4 months ago in playlist More videos from JustBeWell
every coment i see is exacty how i feel help me.......
tyler42773 5 months ago
I didn't know there were alot of shy people... :)
noOne233 5 months ago
I really hate being shy.... When I do try to talk to someone... Its just awkward and some of the people I try talking to look at me as if I was stupid... :(
Creepythecat 6 months ago 33
@Creepythecat its really sad to know that you go through the same horrible feeling i do and that no one understands us
123reletive123 4 months ago
@Creepythecat I use to be shy then i took an arrow to the heart
TheGamekid93 1 month ago
@Creepythecat aw how sad :(
if people look at you like tht guess what, fuck what others think of you.
Be Yourself, They're the fuckin stupid ones :)
cupcakeluva321 1 month ago 2
@Coolphace.
Dude...all I can say is be yourself! If you have something to say...then talk about it, and if you don't have anything to say....then? Just stay silent and reflect of what you're going to say next.
Just be yourself!
EricSchwin22 6 months ago
His voice is putting me to sleep. That's not a bad thing by the way, I just mean it's soothing.
trinach93 6 months ago
...interaction and if I don't get a job soon I fear I will be living on the streets. I dont know what to do
Metallicaguy91 6 months ago
Being shy and and having a social phobia are two different things. Ever since I reached 6th or 7th grade I've been shy but over the years it has turned into something far worse: social phobia. I am in a extremely difficult situation because I am now 20 years old and I still live with my parents. I have a hard time getting jobs simply because it is hard for me to go to interviews and when I do go I freeze up which prevents me from getting a job. Pretty much I go to all costs to avoid social inte
Metallicaguy91 6 months ago
@Metallicaguy91 I can relate with you, im 19 and i just cant get a job because the thought of an interview scares the hell out of me enough to prevent me from even trying.
christower50 6 months ago
I wish i could get over my shyness ffs, I'm at a point where i literally NEED to but im just so hopeless pffff. When i try to get my nerve up it all goes to pot at the last minute and i freeze grrrrrrrrrrrr :( You are right of course, it is all in the mind and i do precisely as you speak of envisioning nothing but disaster. I really need to sort it out, this video encourged me to do just that - Thank you :) ~PG~
PaganGlade 7 months ago
I've always been a little shy until I moved to Georgia my 7th grade year, I've became extremely shy. I'm not use to meeting new people since I've been around the same ones since Pre-K. When I tell my old friends I'm shy in Georgia, they laugh because they know the other side of me. I'm about to start my junior year and I'm going to a new school and I'm soooo sick of being shy. I wish I can just overcome this within the next four days before school starts. I hate this...
KayyB94 7 months ago
i hate my shyness. im always wishing i could talk to people but i dont. i make up conver sations in my mind to compensate
summersetred 7 months ago 17
@summersetred Exact same thing I do. I bet its probably because I'm worried how they would react or think of me so I just make up conversations that go in my favor. I wouldn't even try to talk to anyone and dreaded group assignments...
smada9711 6 months ago
Im shy because i feel ugly all the time and people say im pretty but i dont see it. I feel like when ever walk in a room every one is staring at me all the time. i think to much but i talk to little and i think i might be losing my mind.
cuteangle1501 8 months ago
he sounds like Snape from Harry Potter
dakitkatattack 8 months ago 3
I hate my shyness, any little thing makes me blush even a simple hello. Nevertheless, I'm going to try my best to change. Enough is enough.
GenesisRomanesque 8 months ago
this guy talks like hes been through hell and returned he is a good encourgager in trying to mak people feel betterr and put them on the write track the site just be well im just about to go on see what they can do with hypnosis and nlp wish me luck
marc09676 8 months ago
shyness is a natural thing we all have consciousness of being watched by others for example eating to much fatty foods and worry what others think (they dont care by the way) but why would you be shy if you had nothing to be shy about or maybe paranoier fits in aswell
marc09676 8 months ago
Shy, outgoing, yeah whatever. Life is still pretty f#@*ed up. Advantages and disadvantages are gained at birth.
clemnext 9 months ago
@clemnext such a pessimist, you can always make a situation better for yourself. It's just whether you can be bothered or not. I used to think like you, then I decided to do something about it.
SamwiseButtie 9 months ago
@SamwiseButtie
Yeah but, think about all the past losses that extroverted people have taken advantage of. When will those memories come back to you. That's life...
clemnext 7 months ago
Well,I Started Being Shy about Last Year,I Was Actualy a Very Open Person,Loved making People Laugh,Im Not Shy at all around the People I Know,But It's just Hard for me To Speak to People that I Don't know,I Just get Nervous,Start Sweating and Stutter,Im Talking a Second Language that's Spanish,My Main Language is English,But Today I Got My Best Friend that I Grew Up With ask Me Out,And I Want To Stay Friends,What should I Do?
RealGamingRoleplay 10 months ago
I'm sooooooooo shy around opposite sex,when a guy offers me a hug,it feels like it's my duty to reject that hug, even though I know he's just being friendly.HELP?
cuixinshi 10 months ago
is it just because i am high as fuck.! or every time he finishes a sentence u can hear his lips and saliva.. >..<
KiDJiZzY661 11 months ago
I hate being shy. Even little things, like reading my work in front of the class, make me go bright red and my heart thuds like mad and I tremble! It's sooo annoying. :( I would LOVE to bee confident...
harriejojo 1 year ago
@harriejojo this is me, even when I go to the store to buy something and i'm paying, it just makes me freak out.
YouLoveJASMINE 11 months ago
like man...i remember being younger was funner man. use to go out alot. talk to people and just hang out. now that im at my 20's. i have no idea why i stopped going out. like wtf. people tell me i have life to the fullest..well man. i got no one to see..no where to go. just my family to talk to. im overly frustrated man. im alone too much..and this introvert life is driving me fucking nuts man. my life is hardly ever exciting anymore. just got a job...but. its not enough.
shapman87 1 year ago
@CantWeedThis
aye dude. im on the same boat man. i get shy too easily...like i can talk and stuff. i love it. but the anxiety kicks in right away. i hardly ever go out anymore. sometimes..on special occasions. or work. but thats about it. i can talk lots and ramble on and on. if i get into a conversation. but...when it comes to new people..or ppl i know...i have no idea on what the fuck to say. lmao. know u feel though...i dont give a fuck either. lol
shapman87 1 year ago
I have got a English Applied Studys to do. I have to do it on a movie star and do 8 slides about him/her. Then put it onto a board and on my own talk through each slide to my class. I am apsolutely shy. I can't even talk to my friends. I hardly talk in school i only say stuff like "uh-huh" so i don't talk. When i talk my voice goes quiet and weird. Please Help me. I got less than 3 weeks till i do it :(
CrafterRuneGuide 1 year ago
@CrafterRuneGuide
Just breathe in and out deeply before you do it and then concentrate on the task. You'll be OK.
jigoku66 1 year ago
@jigoku66 Thanks for the tip.
CrafterRuneGuide 1 year ago
i remember when i was in yr 10 i wasnt shy at all and after my last break up with my ex i jusy went shy right a way idk how it happen and it makeing my life sad and i want to overcome ima try this and see how it goes SHYNESS NEED TO STOP!!!!
sonart3 1 year ago
i hate being shy! Im 16 nd Ive been shy my whole life nd it suks really bad! Im even shy around my family sometimes. This summer i invited my whole class (25 ppl)to my 16th birthday party nd only 6 came :( I know if i were more outgoing i would have hndreds of friends. hopefully youtube vids ,about overcoming shyness, will help me bc i rlly need it!
garcia2994 1 year ago
im a shy guy my life sucks cause of it i need your help because what u saying is true but i live in florida so.. fml
lalocaxoxo1 1 year ago
i was too hypnotized by his accent to actually pay attention....ironic? i think not.
cAiTyShEeK 1 year ago
so your saying ....... ?
AmmyGaga96 1 year ago
im 2 shy to comment :(
gtsgamer 1 year ago 33
@gtsgamer hahahaha
tomisinakatkid 1 year ago
I was very very shy, with hard work I've gotten just a bit shyer than average. That's the good news. The bad news is no matter how more effort I put I cant seem to get normal, I always stay shy enough to make my life miserable
2CSST2 1 year ago
I used to be really social and outgoing but after age of 14-15 I started being really nervous outside my house. I'm 18 now and have figured out that I had a social anxiety disorder. It all changed at the age of 16, it got worse and I started watching these videos one youtube as I felt I couldn't speak to my parents. I did a lot of hard work to get better in social situations, still I get a bit nervous when I have presentations in front of my class and things like that but it's a lot better now.
ParabeII 1 year ago
i was at a friends lil get together and i think i was the shyest person there. everyone else was in a group, talking, enjoying each others presence. while i was just by myself drinking alone and just staring at everyone else =(
westernrebel89 1 year ago
It's horrible being shy, I work hard to overcome it and have gotten better over a couple years. It just feels so bad when you KNOW you are someone else. you just know you are funny and fun and have great things to say but sometimes the words just don't come out and it's like you are not yourself. It's like you are trapped inside your own head listening to the words stumbling out of your mouth and thinking "what am I saying??"
rxstarh 1 year ago 8
@rxstarh ikr I thought i was the only one
PikaJess123 1 year ago
hello im in my 20s and am the biggest hermit you could ever possibly conceive of with your imagination. In fact i take pride that i may very well be one of the most qiuet and reserved individuals the world has ever seen. This also used to cause me much stress, anxiety and all that as im sure you all know. Being this type of weird/off person can cause this. But after you stop giving a fuck it stops becoming a problem. Actually life as a rolling wheel of perpetuation contains no problems...
CantWeedThis 1 year ago
Its so terrible. Everyone in my family is very outgoing and I'm very shy. I can barely talk to anyone because of my shyness. Its hard to talk in front of groups and I often try to get out of it. I'm afraid to do certain things also. It gets pretty bad, I'm even shy in front of some of my family, when everyone gets together.
ThatTwiztidBabygirl 1 year ago
@ThatTwiztidBabygirl wow that is the exact same way i feel..everyone in my fam is so outgoing and my shyness messes up lots of opportunities..so sad lol
BriMarie876 5 months ago
I'm so tired of being shy. I'm the only shy one in my family. I hate it when everyone always asks "why are you so shy" like if it was a choice. I just wish I was outgoing. I want to have lots of friends but cant. I am also terrified of public speaking.
coolfann1 1 year ago 35
@coolfann1 Same...all these girls in my school always ask me that..
Allyana12345 3 months ago
I am ouber shgy and it feels like i always will be and that scares me a little. it feels like its who i am supposed to be
terreanna 1 year ago
@Coolphace: Same Thing Here
Sajeelax 1 year ago
Nothing Works.........
Sajeelax 1 year ago
socialphobiaplanetdotcom :)
AimeebabyUK 1 year ago
iuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
AimeebabyUK 1 year ago
I thought and felt like I was the only one very very shy...
Hummers222 1 year ago 6
I hope you're still doing this in 2 or 3 years, cause I'm going to book a session. I'm ready to travel to the UK for it.
ThomasBellarusa 1 year ago
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Umm...You know what? There are really nice people that are shy out there, and these extroverted outgoing people do not give them a chance to open up. So those that are really outgoing tend to stay in their "cliques" or in other words their posse gang, it really doesn't help the shy person at all. So if you see a shy person, and this goes for everyone...help them open up instead of ignoring them, you might learn something from them that might surprise you.
EricSchwin22 1 year ago
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EricSchwin22 1 year ago
I guess I never thought about that before. My mother is terribly socially anxios and shy so I always guessed it was genetic. But I was very sheltered as a child and told to be afraid of people. My little sister was allowed out of the house more and she is very comfortable. Hm... given me a lot to think about.
gladrial89 1 year ago
make youtube videos it helps or smoke a joint it calms u down
HowellTyler 1 year ago
Does this work!?!?
XoBrownEyedBeautyXoX 1 year ago
I used to be the nauhty annoying trouble making kid in 4th grade cuz i wasnt shy at all, in 5th grade school classes stop being mixed (boy/girl) so ever since them i have been changing until now, i have changed into a mixed school and will be going to the 9th grade, i dont know what i will do on the first day of school :\
porscha110 1 year ago
Shyness can mean the difference between having a life worth living or not living. I encourage anyone who suffers from extreme shyness like myself to seek the root cause of your shyness and do evasive treatments like hypnosis, EMDR, neurofeedback, and perhaps up to shock treatment to rid of shyness.
RB902050 1 year ago
Does anyone know whether this actually works, cos i'm a bit reluctant to spend between of 300-450euro on something that seems almost too good to be true.
That probably over 500euro after booking fees and consultations fees, and i'm a student like, so not growing money.
The site itself only has one shyness testimonial for the last year or so is there anyone who has actually done it?
Meath3ad 1 year ago
i cant talk to anyone :(
0421165096 1 year ago
:/ yea myshyness came at 6th grade cuz it was my first move and I didn't like leavin my friends but my shyness went on and off after my second move cuz I was more like he said confident. It sucks how it works.
ivanich08 1 year ago
I am really shy, it's so annoying. :(
KoolKaterina 1 year ago 3
I wasn't shy until about 6th grade and sometimes my shyness will just go away for months but then come back later on. I'll blush easier and I find it hard to make eye contact with anyone, even some of my family. What usually triggers my shyness is when someone calls me shy. A month ago I was super outgoing but then this one girl told me she was gonna vote for me as 'most shy' and after that I felt like I was shy. Words really do have an effect whether we realize it or not.
iDIDurBFlastNIGHT95 1 year ago
I'm 42 and I still blush terribly in certain situation. I can blush with males, I mean certain people can trigger this shyness, perhaps it's figures of authotity or people who question you with their eyes.
Of course, I blush with beautiful women specially. It is a crippling condition.
chinchonchinchon 2 years ago
Jeez im only 13 && i can relate to Coolphace . yeah it sounds just like my issue .
TheAuthenticStar 2 years ago
Don't be shy
speaker3600 2 years ago
Just do it don't think about it have fun enjoy life:)
cwbrl3 2 years ago
@cwbrl3 . thats like telling a guy in a wheelchair to just get up and walk
Meath3ad 1 year ago
lol i thought it was supper funny when he laughed when said it can make your hole
life just a horrible experience its not genetic this. He is interesting. with his relaxing voice and side looks and stretches.. and his 007 book on his side
philosophyheal 2 years ago 6
Thanks for your comments :)
Its not my 007 book though, the vid was shot at the video guy's house :)
JustBeWell 2 years ago 2
lol, when? i cant find it when he laughs xD
SoyySauceeBoii 2 years ago
I'm 16 and I haven't been shy all my life. It seems about around 8th grade or my freshman year of high school that I got terribly shy to talk to new people and nervous when I had to talk in front of a class. I'm not shy at all around my close friends, but it takes so long for me to open up to anyone else except my tight-knit group of friends. Any tips to keep a conversation going with a new person/girl and not sound boring? I'm so sick of being shy, it's like being a prisoner in your own body.
Coolphace 2 years ago 137
I was super shy throughout all of high school. Then I got out and just got a job and started to talk to people, because I had to. Then I got used to it and just forgot that I was so shy about saying a word to people. The hard part about it was getting used to it. It took time. Also I smoked some weed and it opened up my mind. haha. I'm 19 and I can say shyness is not a problem for me anymore :)
JFMatador 2 years ago 3
@Coolphace
I have the exact same problem. Through public school I was fine, I even went in-front of the school to do a speech. Through high school I have become shy when talking to new people. It is as if my personality goes away and I pick up a new one, were I just answer questions with the simplest answers, like yes, no, maybe. Shyness is ruining my life and I'm desperate for an answer.
morleyrox 1 year ago
@Coolphace same here. I think part of the reason was that I had spent my entire life from 1st to 8th grade in a very small school. Then moving to a big high school I suddenly became very shy. I'm 17 and I still hang out with the same group of friends as I did in middle school. Girls, however, are the hardest to talk to. And when I try I often come off as offensive when I don't mean to be. I've never been depressed but it certainly is a bummer that I probably will never have a girlfriend.
fortisKID 1 year ago
i feel you.
now that its been over a year has it gotten better?
snoogboonin 10 months ago
@Coolphace i feel the exact same way
100btls 8 months ago
@Coolphace Hello man I have a few tips. Meeting women is the best way to overcome your shyness. There are a TON of good stuff out there to help you prepare and eventually do that. When you do it will greatly boost your confidence.
I personally have read and found extremely useful:
The Game- Penetrating the secret society of pick up artists
nasakotoqkata92 7 months ago
@Coolphace That's how it is for me too
TwiiZerN 7 months ago
@Coolphace i have the exact same problem..
TheVideomaker909 6 months ago
Suffering from extreme shyness sucks--until I can stop it, my life is going to go downhill forever
tropicallanterns 2 years ago 16
i love reading these comments because i can easily relate to them. :)
NewYorkerForGood 2 years ago 93
@NewYorkerForGood same here but wish i didnt... am i right or a i right
dontoadz 1 year ago
I'm 29 and I am still quit shy. I had 4 hypnosis sessions but I only got better for a short term. I've been doing the Linden Method for a week and its better.
zone1480 2 years ago
@zone1480 does that mean that this guy is npt all he's cracked up to be. I was just about to make an appointment but want to make sure i'm not wasting a months worth of wages.
Meath3ad 1 year ago
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I trained mtself to be shy like last year.
777jackpot1 2 years ago
The guy sounded like he wanted to burp a couple of times. :)
I have a certain social anxiety. I'm not really that shy, I just find talking to people that I don't know, quite "tiring" in a way. My problem is that I see people as enemies, or at the least a pain in the arse. I make up my mind about people really quickly. That's what I need to change.
capricious71 2 years ago
@HeartbreakWarfare I'm like that too. It usually takes me a long time to get to know people, because I'm fine around people I do know. There are only some of my friends who are more "out there" and they help me fit in more. I know what you mean about seeming "completely boring", I think I am too, around people who are really loud & always have something to talk about. I'm sure you're not boring though, you should go on a help website or something. Google it maybe. Good luck :)
BambiArmani 2 years ago 3
Go get hypnosis and NLP? Thats my plan. From my experiences self help dosen't really work. Being a student, I'm just waiting to see how much this thing will cost.
Meath3ad 2 years ago
Yes definately. Same happens to me, whenever i'm around people thoughts just stop coming in to my head. It's because you're so busy evaluating how you are coming across to others and putting yourself underpressure to say something, that you're mind pretty much goes blank.
Meath3ad 2 years ago 11
No your not boring. One of the main symtoms of being shy, or avoidant personality disorder, or anything like that is that the person believes they are boring. That feeling is just a symptom and has no reality.
Meath3ad 2 years ago
I'm shy, I need to get pretty use to people before I can be comfortable just talking with them.
QuixoticXmischief 2 years ago 8
it sucks =(
dddoughboyyy 2 years ago
I hate being shy. I have so many opportunities speak out but I just can't. I'm a flower on a wall at social parties.
RumbleM0NKEY 2 years ago 12
same here
from707to916 2 years ago
i have been shy only when talking to a chick but it has gotten better after a couple of years of pushing myself but yea i still am shy when it comes to hanging out with my girlfriend and stuff
loganjalonen120 2 years ago
i am shy, for some reason I just am. I have trouble talking to people unless they are friends family or if they start the chat
Xuth54 2 years ago 15
Yeah shyness sucks.. i lost an opportunity to talk to a cute girl at the park last week she was checkin me out from far and it almost felt like she was calling me with her eyes..lol. but I was too shy to respond to that.. then i felt like crap.. the end..
Manny2damax 2 years ago 7
i feel you on that because i still am shy and it is alot of girls i could have went with but i be holdin myself back
franklinheard 2 years ago
something like dat happened to me too
padilla091 2 years ago
im 19 and i look good from what alot of people tell me and alot of girls try to get at me but im a little shy and i get nervous uugh how da f*ck do i stop being shy!!!
from707to916 2 years ago
I'm lightweight shy myself, but what folks have been telling me is to try to talk more often (any way possible) and to learn to like people. It also helps to ask yourself a question like "I am a stand up, good-looking dude. Why wouldn't a female want me?"
norcalgemini420 2 years ago
dude im the same way, to tell you the truth i really don't know i got the same problem
franklinheard 2 years ago
I hate being shy, i just fucked up bad at my school dance. My date ditched me and ignored me. And while everyone was slow dancing. I was one of the only ones sitting watching. :'(
and i feel like shit now and currently spiraling into depression *not suicidal due to religion*
RoldanIncorporated 2 years ago
Tell me about I am 24 years old & Shyness has ruin my Life
Harlemlate 2 years ago
i know how you feel.. :)
xmagistar 2 years ago 2
Well, by saying that you were "one of the only ones sitting", then there were others sitting down as well, right? Not everyone was dancing? You've got nothing to be ashamed about. Enjoy life, and do the best that you can, with what you can do. Be patient, allow yourself to grow (growth takes time) and don't try to measure up to anyone else's standards.
Just a thought: that girl was probably not into you. Most likely, she was interested in some other dude who already had a date. Forget her, man.
SnakePlissken001 2 years ago 4
I definitely consider myself shy which is something that I want to work on. I feel so shy around people my age and I'm 16.
extraordinarystar979 2 years ago
i seem to be fine around strangers but really super anxietiec and shiy around the peers ive been with all my life. im 17 . why is this??
?
TheScreamingRetard 2 years ago
@TheScreamingRetard prolly because you dont feel any pressure to impress a stranger and prolly wont see them again. your peers are the ones who you feel like the ones that would judge you because they are always around. I got somewhat of the same problem. I rarely talk to my family but around friends I loosen up.
84slugz 2 years ago
i kinda consider myself shy, i have a few friends, no girl friend, and i am awkward when it comes to fitting in. And i dont really have the guts to talk to the girl i like
RoldanIncorporated 2 years ago 12
ditto
RowdiKat 2 years ago
pretend she's someone you're not shy around.
SDAxALLxDAY 2 years ago
thanks for the advice, but i learned shes not my type. ANd i am going to a different school and the school i go to is a really bad one. Trust me, everyone is a jackass. Its basically the hood. I am planning to go to GCIT next year. and ill try to meet someone there so wish me luck! :)
RoldanIncorporated 2 years ago
since i was in 5th grade i was shy to talk not even a single word so i went to special ed til 7th grade :P
mystic0276 2 years ago
...I have Social Phobia, and it SUCKS! I love horses and I have read TONS of books, but ppl recommend I take lessons..but I'm scared out of my freaked-out mind to do that!!! I've been worrying/thinking about it for like--3 months..I know theres stables waiting for me to take lessons (i didn't sign up, just an expression) and I'm too depressed, and social nxiety disordered to take them!..I am NOT social whatsoever...I hardly talk to a single person! yeah, another thing is VERY DEPRESSED!ne help
777Kiana 2 years ago
i know how you feel! :(
lilchiquiss04 2 years ago
try ecstasy. it helped me.
SDAxALLxDAY 2 years ago
hahah
diablo19876 2 years ago
welcome to the club... :(
FlyItUpZero 2 years ago
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MarryWitch94 2 years ago
thats why some bands play music people like and heard from other musicians instead of their own.
Redoubtable23 2 years ago 3