oh my god she's yummy! lord, i wonder if she does modeling or something.i'm smitten. yeah, vicky.... you can't believe this video has gotten so much attention...ha! it's YOU who are getting the attention. you're stunning. and classy. that's not common these days, so you stick out like a sore thumb. stay sweet and good luck.
Jesus Christ!!!! Thats what i am talking about! I hope YouTube women are listening. Simple and direct. Stop trying to be a man!!! Only a feminine man would like a manly woman. and by manly i mean physically and psychologically. that was some good stuff vickynj!
Wow, actual logic from a woman, and a black woman at that.
"You can't tell a man what he should want". Thank you sista VickyNJ, I'm glad you get it.
There's one sister on here talking about she can't understand how a man wouldn't want a strong sister. Of course she can't understand, because she won't close her mouth and listen.
We want feminine, sweet, healthy, non-mouthy women. If we wanted strong, we'd be gay and go date a man.
And we want you to get in the kitchen and fix us a sandwich
This is one real feminine sister, really she is. Whatsmore, she is very, very beautiful. I'd imagine white women keep a real keen eye on this chocolate cutie lol
You make some good points but you make a mistake assuming all men want the same thing. Obviously, the man's wants are also subject to his attractibility too. He may want your hot dainty babe but not being able to get her, go for a fat aggressive one. I like a girl to be "reasonably attractive"; I find "dainty" or dumb girls boring but I don't want a "monster" aggressive b*tch lol. Most men just want sex tho lol. We are scum. (A)
Omg I love you. I agree with you all the way. Women often start talking about what they want you to do for them as soon as you open ur mouth and say u want something from them. I dont know why everytime i talk about myself I have to talk about her too. Yet I allow her to talk about herself all the time without interruption its kinda selfish. And thats why women often get ignored by men because it pretty soon becomes all about her and guy just stops caring after a while.
A man needs a woman he can relax with. I get more positive attention and men wanting to do things for me when I dress feminine than I do in sweat pants. That's my input for now.
I love black women and so do the majority of the brothers on youtube making video's what we dislike about black women are the nasty attitudes,out of wedlock children,obesity issues and women that lack softness..
@whitebitchnigga BRAVO!!!!!! I like your comment..... especially the last word when you spoke on softness. Too many of our BW have become so danm hard looking it is no wonder a great deal of them are not married today. I'm a single Blk Male looking but will start to expand my horizons beyond what is avail. today. Thanks again for the wise words.
I think there is a difference between "black men" and the n word, which I will not say. I would use the example of Tiger Woods, but you see where he has fallen. lol.
Thank you sister! A blackwomen can speak her mind without insulting and disrespecting everybody else. You seem like the type of women that would be willing to work together to build a happy life, not just sit back and complain That the man ain't doing it . I would happily come home to a woman like you!
Because a great majority of black woman have mental fixations, and so do brothers. We both have mentally fixed perceptions about reality, but this does not just effect black woman, it effects both genders! we both suffer, from a false perception of reality!
vickynj, i have been following your page since this past spring; YOU GET IT! I HOPE ALL OF YOU WOMEN WHO ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT WHY ARE MEN NOT COMMITTING TO YOU ARE LISTENING TO THIS ARTICULATE AND RIGHT YOUNG LADY! I HAVE NO DOUBT SHE WILL BE SNAPPED UP BY A MAN IN HER NEAR FUTURE! If you want a man, you have to be what he says he wants, if not then you have two choices; either leave him alone or comply. Choose wisely. You have been warned.
u re a beauty ma girl...love ur eyes....nicely said .....i think ..sum black women talk too much nd they shd listen more rather than talk and always complaining....if the men aint coming find out y so and if they say...they want this and that...try and be that for them ..so they can stay ard or else am afraid u will grow old ma dear..thus the truth..stop argueing and be nice and listen ...BW re too proud nowadays ....come low girls...
When you start a sentence you're suppose to ALWAYS capitalize the first letter in your sentence, stupid. Before you attempt to TRY to check me, how about you check yourself first...Genius! Lastly, how do you know how I look? LMAO
lol...this girl here just spoke da dam truth...so ANY female who comes on here and disagrees....is just a Complete idiot. Im SERIOUS.......if u dont understand...reread what i just said.
i aint watch ya otha vids uet..so i dunno how accurate they are...but THIS HERE is 100percent true lol..Period.
Did anyone see that documentary called, a diary of a tired black man? The psychologists now have a name for, It's called: Angry Black Woman Syndrome or (ABWS)... It's really bacame a mental affliction! Most women who grow up without good parents turn into those sociopathic wommen that can't find a good man and can never happy in a relationship, a very enlightening movie! O_O
Why do you have to be so negative all the time? Maybe it's YOU that keep attracting the same man, don't you every figure that? Men are the chasers. It's up to women to choose the men who make the first move first. With that attitude, I can see why you don't have anybody. I'm single at 32 years old, and I'm on a verge of fixing myself up emotionall, mentally, and physically while I get a man, and I'm never too old to get one no matter what society says.
Now in this video I would AGREE with you. Because you thought about ( BOTH ) sides of the situation. It's about working together to make something between two people to make the relationship work and with good communication and understanding. Without those few components. It's possible that the relationship won't work out period. It's too bad that the majority of the population wants to keep the sexes divided between each other over dumb things.
I think a lot of black women are becoming more insecure as more and more black men are going for all the white women, I dono but that's what i heard? = S
Your a diamond in the ruff Vicky! I think I'm in love! <3
lol
But it works both ways ya know, I'm always asking what women respond to and I've I found out a lot of things that most guys and girls don't know about themselves let alone each other, just gotta know where to look for it that's all ; )
you are a godsend ? what happened to all the other bw brains? thak you honey! Do you feel less of a woman now that you acknowledged your natural role. BW take notes. Keep re-watching and re-listening to this vid over and over again! Damn how did BW get so stupid?
Hey! Nice video. And you're very pretty. Every individual's wants and needs are always tailored to his/her experiences and significant memories as well as emotional events in life. There is nothing general about what MEN want because we are all unique and specific. But every sane HUMAN definitely wants Love, Friendship, Honesty, and Laughter. I am a Black Man in the U.S. Army (HOOOAAH!), and I applaude you and your insight. Never stop learning and continue to grow spiritually. Life is great!
Awesome video but I think both parties need to have dialogue in order for the relationship to move forwards!! arguing is completely different from dialogue & so is telling someone what they should & shouldn't do but you hit the nail on the head when you said some women just like to argue that statement couldn't be anymore correct
I am truly in shock. I hate to sound so negative but, a woman who actually gets it??? Holy fishsticks there is hope! I hope you live by your own words Vicky, thank you very much!
OK, you make a good point overall, but u can meet anyone of any race who likes to argue and have the last word, especially with young and teenage girls. (u say when you were young black girls argued and wanted the last word). That sounds personal to me, like u were focusing on black women and then at the end u say "Black, white whatever."
I am a Black & I believe the same as u as far as u cant make a man settle for what he doesn't want. He may for a while until sumthin better comes along.
I wanted a woman who wishes to share herself with me. I wanted a woman just wanted to share life with me. I wanted a woman who wished to please me (and I please her).
BM and BW seem to have a lot of demands for each other and it seems no one is ever willing to compromise. So as long as we keep talking AT each other and making blanket assumptions (no, not all BW are ghetto) then nothing is getting solved. And for those of you who think all of one group are alike, you need to get out more. I would never say all BM are alike so you shouldn't say the same about women. Expand your horizons and find new places to meet people.
Holy shit, a real, feminine, thin, non-ghetto, mild-mannered, respectful black woman that actually listens to men. I never thought i'd see one again, I think i'm going to cry.
You may do all that, and you could add this video to your favorites. :0) Good content like this needs to get some publicity. If not to offset the rest of the stuff out there.
one thing is for sure...you have a man!!!!!!! you are one of the good black women who are worth something!!!!!! i would really appreciate it if you would break it down so black women can fully understand!!!!!
Sound loud and clear to me. And in very few word too (added bonus). Sometimes the problem is not with the messenger or with the message. Sometimes its the receiver who is not ready.
Jesus Christ am I dreaming? Have I just listened to a black woman that actually GETS IT? A black woman that is not argumentative and actually LISTENS. Wow I never thought I would see the day.
Sista, go buy a fucking clue! You are what's wrong with black females today. I pay black females like you to get sterilized here in Oakland! And to think, The MOST HIGH gave you a womb? I guess God is a comic!
Well I can def say I agree, who would'nt want someone physically fit, nice feminine and (of course someone who knows how to cook) being that I was raised in a jamaican family those things are something that was taught to me from the begining. I can be strong and opinionated but I can also be loving and nurturing like I was ment to be. Feminism in alot of ways has caused women to get certain roles confused. As a wife you help the man take care of you and your family.
My god woman, seriously just stop. You are a walking stereotype of everything that is wrong with black women. Vickyj is everything black men want in a woman!!!
@justmeinu ...thats why you'll only get temporary thugs and players and end up a lonely cat woman while the lady making this vid can hold a good man down. Typical attitude and perspective you have. Good luck trying to have a decent/happy life.
Really?! I didn't know you could predict my future. Thanks, but no thanks! Go suck a dick! You don't know me, just like I don't know you. You can't predict shit for me. You can't even predict your own future.
Its easy to predict your future because its easy to predict your type from the first comment you made. Now go listen to T.I, Lil Wayne and Beyonce you ghetto cunt!
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First off, what's wrong with listening to T.I, Lil Wayne, Beyonce?! So, am I wrong for listening to that?! Am I a bad person, for listening to that?! I mean let me know! I didn't know you could judge someone, based on the music they like. You're so pathetic! And you're the same person, who's TRYING to tell me about myself. Haha Sorry, you can't even predict your childrens future, bitch. How am I "Ghetto?" You've never met me, before. You can't judge me based on, my comment. Stupid!
I think this seven line essay is pretty self explanatory. Typical. I'm not going to pollute this nice ladies video comment page arguing with someone like you, life will be the teacher. Peace.
Come on, guys! Can we all just be positive? It's just youtube. It's not that serious. Everyone knows who they are inside. We shouldn't need outside approval from anyone.
How can this black woman know these hidden secrets of a man's heart except the spirit of God be in her?!!! You tell me HOW?!!! Truly, this is a woman who has been blessed by God.
oh my god she's yummy! lord, i wonder if she does modeling or something.i'm smitten. yeah, vicky.... you can't believe this video has gotten so much attention...ha! it's YOU who are getting the attention. you're stunning. and classy. that's not common these days, so you stick out like a sore thumb. stay sweet and good luck.
loytube1 6 months ago
I agree with that. It's not all about the Queen bee.
nativemrv19722 1 year ago
real talk lol
87kodak 1 year ago
majority of people are gay nowadays so this video is pointless, women dont want a man they want a manly woman aka dyke!!!!!!!!!!!
gutta1815 1 year ago
Jesus Christ!!!! Thats what i am talking about! I hope YouTube women are listening. Simple and direct. Stop trying to be a man!!! Only a feminine man would like a manly woman. and by manly i mean physically and psychologically. that was some good stuff vickynj!
mimimetamorpho 1 year ago 2
Wow, actual logic from a woman, and a black woman at that.
"You can't tell a man what he should want". Thank you sista VickyNJ, I'm glad you get it.
There's one sister on here talking about she can't understand how a man wouldn't want a strong sister. Of course she can't understand, because she won't close her mouth and listen.
We want feminine, sweet, healthy, non-mouthy women. If we wanted strong, we'd be gay and go date a man.
And we want you to get in the kitchen and fix us a sandwich
BlackPerspectivenet 1 year ago
Where are women around here like you? All i see are hoodrats everywhere.
willieg54 1 year ago
This is one real feminine sister, really she is. Whatsmore, she is very, very beautiful. I'd imagine white women keep a real keen eye on this chocolate cutie lol
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London
malarki5 1 year ago
You're a real woman. That's the truth.
visionimagify 1 year ago
real talk girl... jah bless u
GAMBIAN 1 year ago
you make many good points
huntedrasta 1 year ago
wow woman! you speak the truth
OfficialPromoterwWc 1 year ago
chris brown has taught women nothing
fataldesain 1 year ago
can you say "conforming to gender roles"
th3inquisitiv31 1 year ago
Great video
foreskinforest 1 year ago
damn ur right! y dont more black women listen to u! i bet ur married
redcutlass1 1 year ago
You make some good points but you make a mistake assuming all men want the same thing. Obviously, the man's wants are also subject to his attractibility too. He may want your hot dainty babe but not being able to get her, go for a fat aggressive one. I like a girl to be "reasonably attractive"; I find "dainty" or dumb girls boring but I don't want a "monster" aggressive b*tch lol. Most men just want sex tho lol. We are scum. (A)
truevoiceofsanity 1 year ago
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@truevoiceofsanity You are sick go get help
whateverredogg 1 year ago
everything you said is TRUE. Couldn't agree more.
mizkaterpyl 1 year ago
give up da pussy! lol
NoLaTvShow 1 year ago
@NoLaTvShow Using words like that , i sure you have a whole lot
whateverredogg 1 year ago
why is she wearing that? LOL Oh I agree with you by the way
Squinndesusama 1 year ago
i will want to meet a nice girl i live in spain i am black n 26 i work at DHL and 2 i am nigeria pls i with wait
MegaXton 1 year ago
Omg I love you. I agree with you all the way. Women often start talking about what they want you to do for them as soon as you open ur mouth and say u want something from them. I dont know why everytime i talk about myself I have to talk about her too. Yet I allow her to talk about herself all the time without interruption its kinda selfish. And thats why women often get ignored by men because it pretty soon becomes all about her and guy just stops caring after a while.
papertreegun 1 year ago 6
A man needs a woman he can relax with. I get more positive attention and men wanting to do things for me when I dress feminine than I do in sweat pants. That's my input for now.
TruthFan 1 year ago 2
5 STARS! I totaly agree.
TruthFan 1 year ago
GOD DAMN GIRL!!!...finally a black woman
that gets it!..i been saying the Shit for 28 yrs
in fact i'm gone try & VIDEO RESPOND plus
U look good, but next time try to show more
CLEAVAGE!!!
kaveack 1 year ago
@kaveack i second that
iseethruyou11 1 year ago
A masterpiece.Thank you.
4LOSTSOULSONLY 2 years ago
I agree 100% that women don't always listen to what's being said
KeepinitMarvelous 2 years ago
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No really you have ugly features!
tammy1ize 2 years ago
Okay, thanks, everyone has different tastes and opinions.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
actually your not ugly at all :)
TRINIBOY411 2 years ago
@VickyNJ i think youre hot! just thought i tell you to make it even with tammy1ize
Antillektuell 1 year ago
@VickyNJ @VickyNJ ,,,,,,,,,,, omg... watta jerk... u r a beautiful siata... dont listen to losers !!
jadenwoods11 1 year ago
there is nothing ugly about Vicky,she is pretty on the inside and outside.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
@whitebitchnigga I thought you didn't like black women.
111Treasury 2 years ago
I love black women and so do the majority of the brothers on youtube making video's what we dislike about black women are the nasty attitudes,out of wedlock children,obesity issues and women that lack softness..
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago 6
@whitebitchnigga I see that your eyes have opened. You no longer generalize us black women. "maybe not"
111Treasury 2 years ago
Perhaps i generalize too much,but very few black women have anything decent to say about black men.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
111Treasury
Do you love me?
Cynicalese 2 years ago
@Cynicalese who are you?
111Treasury 2 years ago
@whitebitchnigga BRAVO!!!!!! I like your comment..... especially the last word when you spoke on softness. Too many of our BW have become so danm hard looking it is no wonder a great deal of them are not married today. I'm a single Blk Male looking but will start to expand my horizons beyond what is avail. today. Thanks again for the wise words.
Defiant359 10 months ago
@tammy1ize Wow, stfu. You're rude.
visionimagify 1 year ago
@tammy1ize ,,,,,,,,,,, u r evil
jadenwoods11 1 year ago
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whitebitchnigga 2 years ago 2
I think there is a difference between "black men" and the n word, which I will not say. I would use the example of Tiger Woods, but you see where he has fallen. lol.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
Tiger was setup lol
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
@VickyNJ do you really consider tiger woods to be black? why use him as an example.
turnbacktime 1 year ago 2
@VickyNJ if only they were more good black women like u
i might marry one
kunzy3000 1 year ago
@whitebitchnigga Maybe your problem isn't the color of your skin but your attitude?
I know a black guy with a (black) wife like you want but you'd despise him for having a good job and living in the suburbs.
truevoiceofsanity 1 year ago
you are so ugly!
tammy1ize 2 years ago
@tammy1ize you are so jealous
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
Thank you sister! A blackwomen can speak her mind without insulting and disrespecting everybody else. You seem like the type of women that would be willing to work together to build a happy life, not just sit back and complain That the man ain't doing it . I would happily come home to a woman like you!
xclusiv118 2 years ago
wow you are gorgeous!!!
girraboyzz 2 years ago
I can't believe that this tiny video has gotten so much attention. I promise to post something new very soon. lol. Thanks!
VickyNJ 2 years ago
men want sex and food and a woman that is quiet.
norcalnupe 2 years ago
lol
nmr20067 2 years ago
"I don't understand why women aren't listening"
LOL! That, my dear, sums up many black men's life!
Ramal123 2 years ago
Because a great majority of black woman have mental fixations, and so do brothers. We both have mentally fixed perceptions about reality, but this does not just effect black woman, it effects both genders! we both suffer, from a false perception of reality!
64novasuper 2 years ago
U made the most sense on this thread!
trutherapy 2 years ago
vickynj, i have been following your page since this past spring; YOU GET IT! I HOPE ALL OF YOU WOMEN WHO ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT WHY ARE MEN NOT COMMITTING TO YOU ARE LISTENING TO THIS ARTICULATE AND RIGHT YOUNG LADY! I HAVE NO DOUBT SHE WILL BE SNAPPED UP BY A MAN IN HER NEAR FUTURE! If you want a man, you have to be what he says he wants, if not then you have two choices; either leave him alone or comply. Choose wisely. You have been warned.
1968KID 2 years ago
truth. 5 stars and a sub from me.
keep it up sis.
yourdreamgirl87 2 years ago
A man can't tell me what I want either.....
Empiren1 2 years ago
Hey everyone. sorry I haven't responded but I've been really busy with work. Thanks for all the opinions, good and bad. lol.
VickyNJ 2 years ago
u re a beauty ma girl...love ur eyes....nicely said .....i think ..sum black women talk too much nd they shd listen more rather than talk and always complaining....if the men aint coming find out y so and if they say...they want this and that...try and be that for them ..so they can stay ard or else am afraid u will grow old ma dear..thus the truth..stop argueing and be nice and listen ...BW re too proud nowadays ....come low girls...
einsteinpapa 2 years ago
Why is it always black women this, and black women that? Just wondering.
serious7231 2 years ago 2
I will tell you,black women have been throwing us under the bus for the last 30 years and what you hear now is pent up anger comming out.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
i wanna talk to SAMSON!!!!!
grabmyego 2 years ago
Play NICE!
VickyNJ 2 years ago
When you start a sentence you're suppose to ALWAYS capitalize the first letter in your sentence, stupid. Before you attempt to TRY to check me, how about you check yourself first...Genius! Lastly, how do you know how I look? LMAO
Good Day! :) :)
justmeinu 2 years ago 3
This is beautiful truth. 5 stars...
The10men 2 years ago
Oh my God the sista has spoken TRUTH. Peace
brotherminister1930 2 years ago
I LOVE YOU!!!
abobjenkins 2 years ago
Please keep teachin sis!!
logician3 2 years ago
AMEN sista!!!!
BruhMan09 2 years ago
Wow! it's so true.
cherrydiva1 2 years ago
lol...this girl here just spoke da dam truth...so ANY female who comes on here and disagrees....is just a Complete idiot. Im SERIOUS.......if u dont understand...reread what i just said.
i aint watch ya otha vids uet..so i dunno how accurate they are...but THIS HERE is 100percent true lol..Period.
SurreallTV 2 years ago
Did anyone see that documentary called, a diary of a tired black man? The psychologists now have a name for, It's called: Angry Black Woman Syndrome or (ABWS)... It's really bacame a mental affliction! Most women who grow up without good parents turn into those sociopathic wommen that can't find a good man and can never happy in a relationship, a very enlightening movie! O_O
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago
I mean, "socially inept" it Explaines a lot!
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago
Beautiful all around!!!!!!!
BlaccSuhn21 2 years ago
Good vid, sista. I see that you GET IT!
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You and other sane women like you will eventually displace the insane ones, because natural selection will take its course.
--The Khemist
Khemistry101 2 years ago
White women like to argue too, and I'm sure it's true for Asian women too.
The advice to stop asking "What do men want?" (mostly asked over and over on magazine covers) and just LISTEN was sensible.
MagiMysteryTour 2 years ago
as a blk woman I do all that shyt and they still dont appreciate me
Empiren1 2 years ago
Why do you have to be so negative all the time? Maybe it's YOU that keep attracting the same man, don't you every figure that? Men are the chasers. It's up to women to choose the men who make the first move first. With that attitude, I can see why you don't have anybody. I'm single at 32 years old, and I'm on a verge of fixing myself up emotionall, mentally, and physically while I get a man, and I'm never too old to get one no matter what society says.
70sbaby80schild321 2 years ago
Now in this video I would AGREE with you. Because you thought about ( BOTH ) sides of the situation. It's about working together to make something between two people to make the relationship work and with good communication and understanding. Without those few components. It's possible that the relationship won't work out period. It's too bad that the majority of the population wants to keep the sexes divided between each other over dumb things.
DwayneHollowayTV 2 years ago
I wish more black women were like you honey luv
kambridge967 2 years ago 2
I think a lot of black women are becoming more insecure as more and more black men are going for all the white women, I dono but that's what i heard? = S
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago
Your a diamond in the ruff Vicky! I think I'm in love! <3
lol
But it works both ways ya know, I'm always asking what women respond to and I've I found out a lot of things that most guys and girls don't know about themselves let alone each other, just gotta know where to look for it that's all ; )
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago
you are a godsend ? what happened to all the other bw brains? thak you honey! Do you feel less of a woman now that you acknowledged your natural role. BW take notes. Keep re-watching and re-listening to this vid over and over again! Damn how did BW get so stupid?
highinsights 2 years ago
Hey! Nice video. And you're very pretty. Every individual's wants and needs are always tailored to his/her experiences and significant memories as well as emotional events in life. There is nothing general about what MEN want because we are all unique and specific. But every sane HUMAN definitely wants Love, Friendship, Honesty, and Laughter. I am a Black Man in the U.S. Army (HOOOAAH!), and I applaude you and your insight. Never stop learning and continue to grow spiritually. Life is great!
DEMETRE85 2 years ago
Nice vid and it's the straight truth.
Jabbaro123 2 years ago
Awesome video but I think both parties need to have dialogue in order for the relationship to move forwards!! arguing is completely different from dialogue & so is telling someone what they should & shouldn't do but you hit the nail on the head when you said some women just like to argue that statement couldn't be anymore correct
MalcomAP 2 years ago 2
Wow...a woman who understands,finally.
Werewulf150 2 years ago
It is nice to hear such wisdom from a young black woman. Sadly, you are a rarity these days.
ContrarianExpatriate 2 years ago
Bravo! I think you are just awesome!
Thanks for trying to listen!
1woozoo 2 years ago
Wow, one half of a good relationship. How novel.
humanills 2 years ago
I am truly in shock. I hate to sound so negative but, a woman who actually gets it??? Holy fishsticks there is hope! I hope you live by your own words Vicky, thank you very much!
outlaw2747 2 years ago
This woman is love, 5 stars for this powerful video.
Flamingrivers 2 years ago
Very simply put. The soul of wit.
TheBlackAuthority 2 years ago
Ypou are beautiful very easy on the eyes
dontadadon 2 years ago
you're hot
travisrashawn216 2 years ago
Excellent video Gorgeous,Excellent..Very Simplistic.
chenderson30 2 years ago
You are attractive.
Luffyone 2 years ago
real talk
Spade0007 3 years ago
lol dis woman gonna look funny as hell when she reaches da senior ages hahaha. i know dat was random but her gestures is annoyin as hell
DeadCee 3 years ago
thats real talk. NOW DATS A REAL BLACK WOMAN
Flyblackmale 3 years ago
True. Women should listen to men IF they want to get the man they want.
cjjaxxon 3 years ago
OK, you make a good point overall, but u can meet anyone of any race who likes to argue and have the last word, especially with young and teenage girls. (u say when you were young black girls argued and wanted the last word). That sounds personal to me, like u were focusing on black women and then at the end u say "Black, white whatever."
I am a Black & I believe the same as u as far as u cant make a man settle for what he doesn't want. He may for a while until sumthin better comes along.
choklit 3 years ago
others dont matter in the land where they r taught to get wat they want even though they fail to accept the fact they r immigrants
diversysveryown 2 years ago
I wanted a woman who wishes to share herself with me. I wanted a woman just wanted to share life with me. I wanted a woman who wished to please me (and I please her).
I am now married to that woman.........
LwaziOfItaly 3 years ago 2
DAAAAMMMNNN. I LOVE YOU! 100% CORRECT (Black man speaking)
PepGame4 3 years ago
Beautiful and Smart. Pass the word on fellas and maybe it will catch on.
DJSyn3000 3 years ago
LOL:"If you don't want to be that, then you can't have one." That sums up almost everything...
scarletrose17 3 years ago
tell it like it is sister
imsatindoll 3 years ago
BM and BW seem to have a lot of demands for each other and it seems no one is ever willing to compromise. So as long as we keep talking AT each other and making blanket assumptions (no, not all BW are ghetto) then nothing is getting solved. And for those of you who think all of one group are alike, you need to get out more. I would never say all BM are alike so you shouldn't say the same about women. Expand your horizons and find new places to meet people.
lisa3876 3 years ago
Thank you! At least someone knows what a man wants from a women.
footebs69 3 years ago
Keep keepin it real baby. You're a REAL black woman, show the little girls how it's done.
rjharris1960 3 years ago
i love you will you marry me
1445rim 3 years ago
VickyNJ = wife material. Nuf said.
JamesJ30t 3 years ago 4
Nice Video Clip My Sista!! Sistas Like Yourself Are "Very" Hard To Come By!! Peace.
olmec19 3 years ago
very straight to the point and very coincise, i am impressed.
Rooseveltdunn 3 years ago 3
Holy shit, a real, feminine, thin, non-ghetto, mild-mannered, respectful black woman that actually listens to men. I never thought i'd see one again, I think i'm going to cry.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago 4
You may do all that, and you could add this video to your favorites. :0) Good content like this needs to get some publicity. If not to offset the rest of the stuff out there.
opposethis 2 years ago
lol great woman
MRTUPAC28 3 years ago 2
I love you Vicky
chrisr3315 3 years ago 2
one thing is for sure...you have a man!!!!!!! you are one of the good black women who are worth something!!!!!! i would really appreciate it if you would break it down so black women can fully understand!!!!!
tmoss2009 3 years ago 5
Sound loud and clear to me. And in very few word too (added bonus). Sometimes the problem is not with the messenger or with the message. Sometimes its the receiver who is not ready.
opposethis 2 years ago
Jesus Christ am I dreaming? Have I just listened to a black woman that actually GETS IT? A black woman that is not argumentative and actually LISTENS. Wow I never thought I would see the day.
boostmeup 3 years ago 6
A lot of women could learn from her ... assuming, of course, that their cup is not already filled, i.e. open-minded.
opposethis 2 years ago
what a woman!
andsanp 3 years ago 5
This world is coming to an END! lol. A black woman talking like a woman?
6lemans10 3 years ago 4
hahahahaha
assassin216 3 years ago
Thank u sis for the vid
primemeridium 3 years ago
You are a blessing from the sky !! Only if all black women were like you =D That is the world that I someday wish to live in.
BalanceAuto 3 years ago
will you marry me??
tsunamilyde20 3 years ago
I like to wife that up.
whitebitchnigga 3 years ago 3
All I can say is WOW... Wifey Material
AskMicB 3 years ago 3
will you marry me !
justinjamesturner 3 years ago
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Sweetie, I think that you're the prime example of a "PUSH OVER". Enough said!
Good Day!
justmeinu 3 years ago
Who made you the arbiter of who is a push over or not. Very judgemental are we. I think you are MISERABLE. Enough said!
Good Day
ajw21778 3 years ago
Why are you TRYING to judge me, as well?! Damn, hypocritical, ass bitch! Enough, said!
Good Day!!! :)
justmeinu 3 years ago
I was being sarcastic not judgmental dumb ass.
ajw21778 3 years ago
Well, how in the hell, was I suppose to know that?! You called me "Miserable", so that's not being judgemental?! "Dumb Ass!". Go drink bleach, bitch.
justmeinu 3 years ago
Sista, go buy a fucking clue! You are what's wrong with black females today. I pay black females like you to get sterilized here in Oakland! And to think, The MOST HIGH gave you a womb? I guess God is a comic!
SpeakDaReal27 3 years ago
Aw, go fuck yourself!
I do stay in Oakland, now what?!
I don't have to agree with your mental ass.
"The MOST HIGH gave someone LIKE YOU a womb?!"
Now you go get a fucking clue!
justmeinu 3 years ago
*I don't stay in Oakland, now what?!
justmeinu 3 years ago
Well I can def say I agree, who would'nt want someone physically fit, nice feminine and (of course someone who knows how to cook) being that I was raised in a jamaican family those things are something that was taught to me from the begining. I can be strong and opinionated but I can also be loving and nurturing like I was ment to be. Feminism in alot of ways has caused women to get certain roles confused. As a wife you help the man take care of you and your family.
Veronicathalia 3 years ago
My god woman, seriously just stop. You are a walking stereotype of everything that is wrong with black women. Vickyj is everything black men want in a woman!!!
boostmeup 3 years ago
Dude, you didn't even have to reply to me for that. You don't know me personally, so you need to shut the hell up.
justmeinu 3 years ago
Thank you for taking the point and proving my point
boostmeup 2 years ago
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Fuck Off, asshole!!!!
justmeinu 2 years ago
um am bleechin my skind soz i kin be whut a wight menz wanz look et my channa
79PercentSingleHiv 3 years ago
@justmeinu ...thats why you'll only get temporary thugs and players and end up a lonely cat woman while the lady making this vid can hold a good man down. Typical attitude and perspective you have. Good luck trying to have a decent/happy life.
nothing5630 3 years ago
Really?! I didn't know you could predict my future. Thanks, but no thanks! Go suck a dick! You don't know me, just like I don't know you. You can't predict shit for me. You can't even predict your own future.
Have a dick, and a smile! =)
justmeinu 3 years ago
Its easy to predict your future because its easy to predict your type from the first comment you made. Now go listen to T.I, Lil Wayne and Beyonce you ghetto cunt!
nothing5630 3 years ago
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First off, what's wrong with listening to T.I, Lil Wayne, Beyonce?! So, am I wrong for listening to that?! Am I a bad person, for listening to that?! I mean let me know! I didn't know you could judge someone, based on the music they like. You're so pathetic! And you're the same person, who's TRYING to tell me about myself. Haha Sorry, you can't even predict your childrens future, bitch. How am I "Ghetto?" You've never met me, before. You can't judge me based on, my comment. Stupid!
justmeinu 3 years ago
I think this seven line essay is pretty self explanatory. Typical. I'm not going to pollute this nice ladies video comment page arguing with someone like you, life will be the teacher. Peace.
nothing5630 3 years ago
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Well, if you're not trying to argue, than why bother to even reply back?! I don't get it! You've been demolished, bitch.
Go to hell, and eat shit!
justmeinu 3 years ago
Come on, guys! Can we all just be positive? It's just youtube. It's not that serious. Everyone knows who they are inside. We shouldn't need outside approval from anyone.
VickyNJ 3 years ago
LOL @ "Have a dick, and a smile!"
Haitian1130 3 years ago
justmeinu your funny as shit lol
coolbreezegirl27 3 years ago
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black men said they DONT like women who wear weaves, so i hope thats ur real hair. Like u said women need to liten.
ColorfulSoul129 3 years ago
ur very pretty, ignore these men and just be YOU. stop defending dumbasses
ColorfulSoul129 3 years ago
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my fiance wants sex and babies, i give it to him, hehehe. i love sex too.
he works damn hard, and so i work hard for him.
No woman should listen to these fools on youtube. Listen to YOUR man.
ColorfulSoul129 3 years ago
I like it
WarSymbol1 3 years ago 3
Good Fucking Video
WarSymbol1 3 years ago 3
THANK YOU BRAVO! Thank you.
If Ya'll wanna know a black women on her way to gettin married looks like u just found 1
TheSargeWP 3 years ago 9
Excellent Video!. And very well said.
Attunahbrix 3 years ago 3
VickyNJ woo woo- u kin trik a main an make him luv u but den lata on make him tak his butt to mcdonalz n git hiz own burga an fies
uz sustaz gat it lik dat lol
an don tell him u bleechin yo skind like me
um am liteskinededed
79PercentSingleHiv 3 years ago
classic video.
dnice5555567899 3 years ago 2
How can this black woman know these hidden secrets of a man's heart except the spirit of God be in her?!!! You tell me HOW?!!! Truly, this is a woman who has been blessed by God.
SpeakDaReal27 3 years ago 9