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  • this song always makes me cry. it's so beautiful

  • They play this on the radio where I work!

  • 3 years of not seeing or hearing from my ex girlfriend...And she finally talks to me explaining how stupid she was and taking the blame for everything she ever did she cryed over the phone to me for hours then she sent me this song....It brought us back together and we are happier then ever before THANK YOU! UPLOADER! AND THANK YOU FOR THE AMAZING SONGS! STAIND ROCKS!!!!

  • I wish my parents would listen to this song and realize that they need to change. My moms an alcoholic and when her and my dad both drink they abuse eachother. My sister and brother are both older than me and they were both out of the house before i hit the age of 8. My sister would have to "babysit" me after school while my parents are at the bar. I want my family to change and come closer. I wish i just had the motivation in helping my mom. I love this song and its inspired me to help people.

  • this song gets to me big time

  • Staind is God 'nuff said...

  • THIS SONG JUST CHANGED MY LIFE!

  • this song is so fucking beautiful

  • Thanks.

  • This song made me cry the most ever in my life, beautiful song.

  • Nice.

  • This song so reminds me of the one I lost and still love....and he never knew. So I've told him and now I just wait and see what happens. I hope everything will change. Thanks for your awesome video and post...Great Staind Song.

  • Don't waste your true and meaningful words on this video.

    Go and tell your beloved persons directly.

    Even if they can't forgive you or you can't forgive them.

    Don't let things unsaid.

  • every one is putting how it reminds of an x but because of this song my and my amazing beautiful girlfriend got together

  • this video reminds me of a girl i love. only recently have these feelings come to light but i've known her for 3 years. we've both been through hell and back, and this song is gonna give me the courage i need to go for it.

  • At first me & you were unstoppable, now everythings changing..including my feelings..

  • nice video dude :)

  • really good timing and nice sound quality...great pics...and of course its aaron lewis so who could complain anyway?

  • this is a great video good job

  • thumbs if u r playing this song to take out ur pain from ur heart cos of so called "X" girl frend !!!

  • @rainbow4124 i know the feeling man. If you asked me if i would take my ex gf back my answer is" in a heartbeat". I love her so much i will die for her. We both gotta give it time and patience.

  • I am a recovering alcoholic. The more I drank the further I pushed her away and the further she went away the more I drank. Odd how it works, the moment I stopped quit drinking is the time she chose to leave. Story ends well however, I no longer drink and have 3 wonderful children to change everything with.

  • @Dogeatsdogs thank you for posting this my man. Not only because it contradicts the meaning the person who posted this video tried to get across, but it was good. Just because everything changes does not mean it has to be bad. Thank you sooooooo much @Dogeatsdogs. I love your story because it did not end in sorrow or a sad feeling as most of these posts are, but you turned your life around. Way to be man, way to be.

  • @Dogeatsdogs Some people are just there for the challenge.. maybe she's part of the reason you are who you are today :) You'll never forget her, and she'll never forget you. Good job and never give up!

  • @Dogeatsdogs Your story makes my eyes tearing as this song does. I'm glad that you have won against alcoholism. My father also stoped drinking but he never understood his faults. I'm his only child. Be a great father to your children, they need you more than you think. All the best.

  • this is a good meaningful song

  • this song reminds me of a girl i really love named shelby she means the world to me and no matter where i go i will always miss her but hopefully things change and we are back to the way it was. i love that girl to death and nobody else knows how much i do because nobody aint me but ima try to get her back. little time,effort,and patience is all i need then everything changes for the best cus i really love this girl and nobody is going to take her from me. thats how much love i have for her

  • <3

  • SONG FOR MY SWEET LIL MALLIE!!!!!!!!!

  • Thummmbs up is u r drinking and watching this song !!!

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  • When my ex sent me to this, I didn't understand what he was trying to say. Now I get it and I really wish I wouldn't have walked away from what could've been the second chance that would've made everything in my life whole again. Oh well, going to see him soon enough and maybe just maybe we'll find a way to salvage what could've and should've been.

  • i shed tears when i saw the quotes...

  • This reminds me of my best friend robbie who i just recently lost. He left me, because he say's im too stressful...im just a bad person. Idk. :( God, i miss him more than you can imagine though.

  • My close friend zack is moving to missouri this coming january, we've known each other since preschool... the quote in the video relates to me as much as the song...

    It's sad when the people you know become the people you knew. When you walk passed someone, like they were never part of your life. How you used to be able to talk to them for hours, and now you barely look at them. It's sad how time changes everything...

  • I would cry every time for this song... but I must be be proud and stand...

  • 24 dislikes???? wow you must have no SOULS!

  • This song reminds me of my mom, She recently just walked out on me. She told my grandma that she doesn't want me anymore, that she don't love me. She said she wasn't ever coming home that I wasn't her problem anymore. This makes me wanna ball my eyes out, because everything does change... </3

  • ugh, fuck..i love staind so much..this song is making me cry..this is a really good video.

  • @DanJervisGuitar I know your post was from so long ago, but no matter the time, things will be alright in the end, don't give up hope. You can do it!:] You are loved, no matter what

  • its funny how 5 years ago this was just a song and now it is so relevant to my life

  • wow what i dislike is the dislikes! song is great and the creation aint too bad either. GOOD job dude

  • @DanJervisGuitar love you man. I was born in 1994 21st october. i treat everyone like shit as well and am in love with a girl for abt 2.5 years, who loves someone else and feels 'sorry' for me beacuz of the way i feel. Everything is shit for me now, and it gives me much strength thinking that im not alone :)

  • i love this song ! <3

  • this is amazinggg! :) <3

  • Come back...Please.... Things will be better</3.. I love you....now...

  • My song to myself

  • Song reminds me of my ex :'(

  • that we could no longer communicate, And I do not want to live a life knowing I cant talk to her anymore:/

  • I love her!!!

    But she doesnt care!

  • I like it

  • How can it say time changes it really doesn't it mostly the ppl in ur life

  • Dain i said something and it didnt matter 2 her.

  • <3 staind is so amazing. i've loved this band for what seems like my entire life.

  • great song oh how it reminds me of people i once knew and good times we had but its true everything does change but its how you chose to change and if its for the better

    -stay strong-

  • I listen to this song, sing sometimes to it, and find my throat tight with unshed tears. It brings out emotions I keep hidden... This is truly a beautiful and emotional song. Love it<3

  • only an idiot would dislike this song

  • Been looking for a song all day to describe how I feel. Thank you Staind for making such an awesome song. I miss them so much. :/

  • the best solo EVER...

  • Hahah.. its mid 2011 and I'm listening (;

  • apparently this is mine and my boyfriends song I think o.o I mean we always talk about this song so i guess it would be...

  • I wish I could feel. I mean really feel. I act so cold and I'm so so sorry. I wish I could take it all back. I still love you and I wish I could prove to you that I won't hurt you like that again. I'm not worthy, but I'll beg if I have to. I need you with me. You make me smile when no one else can. You understand me and have always brought out the best in me. I am the mess you chose, that inner demon you cannot let go of. And I'm sorry.

  • @BlacqKatt

    thats exactly the same for me.. i hurt my ex too much but lucky enough he gave me another chance, i have no idea but i thank god he did! he completes me <3 I love you James Allen Roberts, forever and always <3

  • @BlacqKatt wow sounds like my ex's story

  • @BlacqKatt He will always be there for you....

  • We will spend our whole lives learning, making mistakes, and forgiving. We are human so we are entitled to do it all. DON'T let it take you down too far. Just go with the flow. Let the past go. We can't forget but we can let it fade some. ALWAYS make the best of each day even when it's not going great. Be sure to laugh at something. Do something fun. Big or small. Never be afraid to love and like u and others. Say what you want. You have a voice. Just do it all. With heart.

  • i love this song makes me cry btw i am a boy i don't feel shame to say that i cry when i listen this song coz its soo meaningfull to me every one will cry when u listen this song i bet ya :)

  • god that man...aaron lewis... he had to had some bad shit happen to him cuz u can tell when u watch his videos... he has pain.... man.... i wish i knew how to show ppl how i feel

    

  • I still think this is the best lyric video on youtube. And I've seen a LOT.

  • this is what i can't stand. i'm from Ireland and have never heard of them. this band should be known worldwide..they are brilliant. my friends have heard their songs because i have found them on youtube, we really should be finding their music in the shops.. why is there bands out there that are making it and are crap and then there are bands like these guys that should be making it more and should be huge and are brill...just don't understand it..anyway, we over in Ireland absolutely love you..

  • Im in love with this girl... but she lives so far away... </3 ='( this song tears me apart

  • ive found the love of my life, the one i pray to wake up every morning to see his face someday, i just hope i dont fuck this up. im so afraid i will..

  • beautiful song, even if u r with some1 else i will still love u my culito

  • No, this is not a "sob story", just a way to release.

    I still love you Alex..so much. I wanted it to end for us like it ended for Noah and Allie, you were living proof that not all men are jerks. Please...please come back and I swear to fix everything and make it right.

  • I love this song...

  • This song... Brought me to my weakest point.

  • This is my breakup song </3 I understand now Skylar.

  • @lovedrreid1 My breakup song too :(

  • @BeachBMXer sadly mine to :'(

  • this song bring me a lot of memories

  • I love this song <3 but they really need to work on there soloing...

  • This is a very very very very very VERY special song for me for a certain reason and I love it and the band so incredibly much. ♥

  • this song brakes me down inside and out i will always love you <3

  • IF YOU DONT LIKE STAIND THE FUCK OFF

  • how in the hell do u not like this song?!

  • Did anybody know,that Aaron play this song on CD in standard tuning and Live is Half step down? cool...its easier to sing,so maybe this is the reason they sound always so good live...I Love 'Em !

  • brought a tear to my eye, makes me think of my x gf, and very good vidoe

  • I will forever love this song. It reminds me of a time when my husband nd I got back 2gether after being split up for a month. we listened 2 this song and watched the video over nd over. He passed away May 23, 2009. Leavin me nd our 2 kidz - aged 12 nd 14 at the time. so when we hear this song it reminds us of him.

  • Staind knows all the right words. This is exactly how i feel right now with my Boyfriend. I am a mess and he chose me. And everything would be okay if i could go back a few years and change what made me the way i am. I say things i shouldnt once we argue and i feel horrible and try to apoligize but he wont learn to forgive me. He loves me to death. I know he does. But these games we play hurt. And I will always love him and will always want to be with him. Just have to make it through the day.<3

  • Staind is amazing <3 , its my favorite band in the world.

  • @WhtRose

    Love the response you fave the other guy up there. My question is, though, what font did you use in making the video? I've fallen in love with it! I work with computer graphics and such, and it's a REALLY NICE FONT!!!*****

  • @Margret2you sadly I can't remember. this was made on my old computer which crashed and I lost everything, including my fonts :( Sorry.

  • @WhtRose it's alright! Thank you anyway! :) Sorry that u lost everything when it crashed! I hate it when that happens!

  • @WhtRose the font is called "bergell" (found via new.myfonts.com/WhatTheFont/) and you can get it for free here: jabroo.com/index/search/q/berg­ell

    at least those links work in germany. don't know about other countries.

  • Why Don't Staind just write songs like this song , it is sooooooooooooo good , and deep , and i can't feel the sad in all songs they write

  • Staind is amazing

  • i love Staind... theyre so deep. <3

  • Excellent vid to an excellent song. Thanks for posting it

  • @flounderal thank you for watching :)

  • My friend was hit by a drunk driver two days ago :'( I keep listening to this song to remind me of her

  • This is an awesome song & video. Just discovered Stain'd and have to say I will be listening to them more often. Every song i have heard so far speaks to my heart!!

  • Why does every moron with a sob story feel the need to post their personal problems on here like its a damn therapy session?

  • @yogurtpimp Because could it be, possibly, it helps them feel better to get it off their chest? I don't mind them posting on here, and seeing as how it's MY channel, why do you feel the need to find it a problem? when You are not the one looking at it everyday? Stop worrying about whether or not it's appropriate for them to post or not and just enjoy the video, or leave if you're that much of a jerk.

  • @WhtRose cool dats was an instant amazing reply!

  • @yogurtpimp

    Staind brings people's emotions to the surface... and that's okay

  • @yogurtpimp stop sobbing about how u hate sobbers. u know y they do? kuz music brings out emotion obviously it brings out ur inner dickheadedness....thanks i just spent half of the song trying to think of how to reply owell thats y they hav replay wooooop!

  • @yogurtpimp because no one can really see them crying or how upset they really are. sometimes it helps to get it out and sometimes it's hard to talk to someone personally rather than just posting how you are feeling maybe some people don't have someone to talk to. what you said was ignorant and i hope karma kicks you in the pants when you are down and someone says to you ''why are you telling me your problems'' see how you like it. im sure it will make you feel like crap. you are ignorant man

  • Aweome awesome job WOW

  • 1:58 - 2:16 i'd rather die, than feel all this shit inside.

  • @ImaginarySunsets shudnt say tht..all the shitt ya go thru ggod throws at ya to prove yur worth creatin homiee

  • This song makes me cry bcause i can really relate to it. I cant help but listen and watch this over and over again & the font, + the pictures are beautiful. Thank you for this.

  • My gf have been off and on for 2 years now. I'm usually the one doing all of the drama, because I want to feel needed. She thinks me of as a prideful person, when actuality I'm one of the most self-conscious and insecure person I know. I play games with her heart and mind to find my satisfaction in myself. She is now breaking up with me this moment and I can't help but calling her back, no matter if she doesn't answer the first 12 times.Myself now broken, crawling back and there is nothing there

  • I let a good guy go because my mom didn't like us together. I'm still so in love with him, but I've hooked up with a guy that he knows, and now he's actually getting over me. And I'm regretting every single moment of it. I fucked up big time.

  • @Diana5513 Are you sure hes over you, this girl thinks im over her.....but im not, not even close, every time i see her my heart aches, my hands shake, and i remember the good memories we had together. I try to be a best friend since i cant have her back, but were slowly drifting apart, its sad. Just keep in mind, you never know, he may still love you :)

  • wgat style of font is that? whats it calles? it looks sweet.

  • @DanJervisGuitar same with this girl i like too man.

  • 18 people are lame.

  • That was our song .. Forever yours, Nadia.

  • I miss you brother every minute of every day. It's been two months since you left me.

  • my fav song </3

  • <3

  • i think this discribes alot of me. of what i USED to have. he never relized what he really had tho and what was good for him. it makes me sick just thinking of it. but MAYBE it will be for the best!!!!

  • how many ppl does this song describe other than mee???

  • 1826 likes

    17 dislikes... What does that tell you?

  • 17 cant learn that everything changes

  • @killerinstinctism I really hope everything changes, then maybe people would change and realize jokes about the dislike bar are not funny.

  • This song has always had a personal place in my heart. The extra words you wrote with it seem like you know exactly my situation. This is the most awesome video I've seen on You Tube in fact anywhere!!!!

  • Damn, I screwed up bad.....I miss her too much =(

  • good job

  • nicely done:)

  • Love the Video. If I could just say something that gives me a feeling when listening to this song:

    I love this girl Brianna, but she's either taken or just doesn't believe I exist. I'm fat, ugly, unattractive, she's beautiful, fit, and popular. Since these two worlds only collide in insults, this fantasy of us being together will NEVER happen. I wish it would, but this song makes me feel better, even while facing reality.

    Thank you.

  • @TemptationsClan2010

    Girls aren't superficial like men. They care more about confidence than anything. Good looking guys just tend to be more confident. They will get their foot in the door easier but if they are insecure they will get dropped like a bad habit. You can have a beautiful girl like Brianna if you become comfortable in your skin. Girls think nothing is sexier than that.

  • Nice handling with the video editing, if it's your first it's pretty well done!

  • damn,, i think 16 people missed to press LIKE. becaus one of them was me .. :D omfg. sry .

  • @abualborz hahah u can change it :D just click like

  • I lost pretty much the love of my life today...

    I'm 27, haven't found a girl really worth a damn since my highschool sweetheart..  I've dated and had relationships etc.

    this last year was one of the most wonderful years of my life...love found me again...

    Today she decided to throw it all away for no reason (because she couldn't figure her emotions out) This song sums up absolutely everything im feeling...last words i spoke to her was sending this song to her in an email...i hope she listened

  • staind is one of my favorite bands......mostly cuz he sings on how i feel exactly..ever since i dated this one girl....we have fallen apart.....when we first met....i saw it was a great connection even as friends...we got closer became best friends....dated.....and thats when everything went downhill.....now im lost...now i hurt...now all i think about is ending it all....but i keep fightin....keep fightin to get things back to wat they were...back to bein friends

  • @holydefender1 when you think about ending it all. listen to waste. keep your head up bro

  • Everything changed..

  • You did an amazing job on this video.

  • okay...do u realize that this song just mad me remember everytime i shared with my ex...i miss him so much!..this video is amazing...

  • A Veces Las Cosas Cambian Y Uno No Puede Hacer Nada Solo Aprender De Los Errores, De Eso Se Trata La Cancion A Veces Es Demasiado Tarde Para Pedir Perdon O Darse Cuenta Que Las Cosas Cambiaron, Pero De Eso Se Trata Vivir, De Aprender, De Golpearse y Saber Levantarse Y Seguir Adelante

  • Does anyone else sing along to the song and choke back on crying?

  • @Phorsakyned ~~yes i do

  • @Phorsakyned probably more people than would care to admit...i know i do

  • @Phorsakyned better yet, does anyone sing along to the song and actually cry....

  • @Phorsakyned No, not at all

  • @seanymph73 And the person you fell in love with never really existed. Nothing hurts more.

  • This song makes me think about the situation im in... what i couldve done.. what went wrong.. and how i wish he'd give me another chance...

  • @XxJazyWolfxX same here but the he is a she

  • i listen to this every time

  • I keep listening to this song over and over again.....Im currently going through my divorce, we were together for 4 years, When we first started it was if I had everything I ever wanted, like the feeling of having your whole life complete...I guess within that 4 years, things started falling apart, I hate knowing that she will just be another chapter in my life....everything changes

  • @lyssaluv93 sorry to hear that. I'm in the same situation so I can understand where your friend is coming from. Its too hard to be around the person you love and them not have the same feelings. =(

  • @lyssaluve93  i could be the hard place- bow chika bow wow

  • its really cool how music can change some ones life(:

  • ....ah man

  • Staind has such emotional songs.. gotta love it

  • Well done!

  • Ahh man i want her back..

  • I miss her =[

  • ich liebe dieses lied. (: es ist so wundervoll.<3

  • Aaron Lewis is an amazing poet.

  • just walk away if you will just hurt me

  • Oh no!! 15 ppl got blinded by the amazingness of this song and missed the like button D:

  • absolutely beautiful video!

  • @WhtRose what's the song at the end??

  • @MakingSorrowLonely

    it's just the break in the song playing over. the part where it goes into the guitar solo (i think thats a guiitar solo >.>)

  • @MakingSorrowLonely. That part of the song is called "the bridge"

  • @MakingSorrowLonely haha the same song u was listening to