Don't worry my parents fought all. The time and they are going through a divorce now but all you can do is not take sides and keep them happy but make sur your happy aswell.
my parents arent divorced but they always fight /: im afraid that one of this days something bad happens im trying to do the best for them to be happy i love them so much gray and i dont want them to get divorced.. what can i do to prevent it?
My parents are divorced and my mom never answers the phone when I call her and she doesn't want to see me:( i hate my life so much and Gray you give AWESOME advice you should be a therapist:)
You did a great job. My uncle just got remarried to a complete bitch and my cousin is obviously freaking out (no family except for his kids was invited to wedding/ we didnt even know until 3 days before) and i pointed him to this video and he said that it really helped him out.
So thank you because ive been really worried about him lately:)
my dad escaped with his new woman to canada from me and my mom when i was 3 years old, my mother was sick at heart, underwent several operations on it, previously she underwent five operations, My mother was weak, and he did this... it was hard to educate me... Mom was in the hospital for a long time, I was raised by my grandmother... Now we all good, but live in poor, so i can't explain all the situation, i don't know english so good, i'm from Ukraine, thx for your vids Gray )
@SaveaxX I just don't understand why he would want to talk to me after all these years because he left after my mom was pregnant with me, so he left because of me:(
ok so my mom and dad are divorsed. my mom got a new boyfriend. i try and try to be happy for my mom and like let them go out but HE IS A TOTAL ASS TO ME AND MY MOM!!!!!! total ass. he always freakin curses me out, pushes me around, makes me do things and my mom doessnt do shit! i already go to counseling..... its sucks
@Ashtinzoo Okay, for something like this I highly suggest talking with your mom and making it really apparent to her that he does those things. I'm sure she knows about it but she is probably ignoring her gut instinct to leave and stays because she wants to have someone. Just try and really get her to come to face reality and see if she REALLY wants to be with a man who treats her and her family like that.
My parents got divorced when I was in grade 8. (freshman year) Perfect timing huh? Which would now be 6 or 7 years ago. Then they got married and I still haven't forgiving either of them.. Even though I act like I have. She ruined my family and I will never forgive them for that. My family is the most important thing to me right now and they always will be.
@shhoshh :/ Unfortunately, as I'm sure you know, something was going on while they were still married. That or he just really jumps into things. Just try and be happy for your parents, love them and try to also not blame you for anything <3
My mom and step dad are divorced and still good friends, but I have a different situation. I'm 17 and I've never met my real father, and I've been ok with that. Now after all this time he wants to talk and hang out with me and I don't know if I should....
@ThisGuyStandingHere Getting to know who your real father is isn't a bad thing unless he's a horrible person. And if that were the case, your mom wouldn't want you talking with him. Don't do anything for him if he asks something of you but just try and get to know him.
..anyway, sorry for this long ass comment, just pouring out everything right here because you made a video about the whole divorced parents situation. Thanks Gray for making this and giving your advice(:
@BrookeElainee You're very welcome! I hate to see you go through a situation like that :( unfortunately, there's nothing more you can do except honestly give him the cold shoulder. It is that he doesn't know what he's got until it's gone, but it may also be a way to just manipulate your family into going back with him. People like that tend to be very keen with finding ways to get what they want, so be careful please <3
..so I always end up rejecting him. Legally I don't have to do anything with him, since my mom has sole custody of my sister and I. But its annoying that he's just now trying to make things work instead of trying to fix them back before they got terrible. My mom says it's because someone doesn't know what they have until they lose it. I'm just tired of him trying to buy me stuff in order to get into my life again, it sucks and its hard, and he still wants to be married to my mom..
...a good daughter or something. I'm so much closer to my mom than my dad, its always been that way. Now, my mom has met someone and he's great(: They are planning on getting married sometime next year & he's moving in with us. I'm really happy with the person my mom met and has made a relationship with, and I want a good father/daughter relationship with this new guy, and so far it's going great. But then there's my dad that's always trying to get me to do things with him when I don't want to..
My parents just recently got divorced in June, and this might seem weird but I'm glad they got a divorce. My dad has bipolar disorder & he's an alcoholic, and was very abusive towards me, my mom, and my sister. He was always mean to us and never had a good attitude towards anything..so I just stopped trying to "be his daughter" i guess. Now that he's moved out, he wants me in his life and I don't want anything to do with him. He makes me feel bad though because I feel like I'm not being...
I don't blame myself, i blame my dad being a douch bag lol, my dad left my mum for her best friend of 15+ years and she is a man head, i have no intention of ever having her in my life and if i ever see her i will have to stop myself punching her in the throat lol
my dad cheated on my mom for 5 years before finaly leaving and marrying the woman he was with, i hate what he did to my mom and i dont know how to forgive him a year down the line :(
my parents got divorced 4 or 5 years ago,now im 16 lol... its hard first but then you get used too... are your parents divorced gray? nice video btw :D
@hobbitg3 No, fortunately I've been blessed with two parents that really do love one another. My mom waited for a very long time to get married and to have my. My father has had a previous marriage, but he's been with my mom through thick and thin. I'm a really lucky kid honestly. I hate to see that there are so many people that are divorced ;(
A lot more people will come to you than go to a counsellor. People choose to accept your advice. I know I'd rather not pay some person who acts like he/she knows what you're going through.
And let's see how long until there's some creep/pervy comment about Gray. No offense or anything but it's ANNOYING. And on EVERY video, at least one guy comments something creepy/pervy or is hitting on Gray. Get a life! It makes it look like it's behalf of ALL the guys that watch these, when really its just a handful of CREEPS. Show respect, holy shit!!! Sorry but if I were Ty and Gray I wouldn't want to do a meet up when theres those types of people who comment that and thumbs them up.
He should accept the fact that his dad has a girlfriend. It should take time cause normally it won't be easy. If he refuses to accept it then yes, counselling wouldn't be a bad idea. Cause in a way, it is sort of selfish. They're most likely lonely too so they need a girlfriend/boyfriend. And just like a dad would accept his teen son having a girlfriend, the son should accept that his father has one. Of course she'll never replace his mom. You don't even have to hug or talk much to her at all!
My parent actually split up a few days ago and I was expecting it for a few months now. I think it is a lot better now they have split up and I still see my dad quite a bit :)
GO TO COUNSELING? Wow what a sad father. The kid needs time. He has to be open too. Like seriously the father seems more selfish. I support the kid and would be the same. He needs time for himself. Not forceful openess and counseling for not wanting to meet someone? Hahaha
my parents arent divorced but my dad hasnt been in my life for 15 of the 16 years ive been on this planet... i dont realy care to much about my dad.. i dont remember hhim, i dont want to care or know him again. nor do i want to make amends with my father that i dont consider a father. to me hes more of the kinda guy u meet at a concert whos a huge dick -____- i fuckin hate him but i dont care about him if that makes any sense :)
@SaveaxX oh my god yes he is u dont even know! he left her about 2 years after i was born... he wud rarely be there for me tho... and they hate eachother still to this day...but ya my mom is happy so im happy. the only thing he does is child support which basically goes out the window in 2 years when i turn 18 and am classified as an adult... karma will bite his and and bite it really fuckin hard some day... xD he will defineatly deserve it when it does happen tho! and ya i got my moms back <3
@tylerwalker2 I know exacly what u mean the same thing happend to me, then then I got a step dad or whatever its called he treated me like I was the random kid that was just there... and now I live with my aunt and uncle :) Im happy tho my mom come and visit me on the weekends :D but yeah I trusted my "new" dad but if he doesn't like me then... oh did I mention that my littlebrother is like hes son and my moms? x) damn! sry for bad spelling and all that.... just had to tell it....
Divorce = crappy divorce with a disabled sister = life's practically over
Rahrahprincess 1 month ago
Just be your self and do what you think is right ...follow your your instincts but ask for advice
Prudence1223 3 months ago
Don't worry my parents fought all. The time and they are going through a divorce now but all you can do is not take sides and keep them happy but make sur your happy aswell.
Prudence1223 3 months ago
my parents arent divorced but they always fight /: im afraid that one of this days something bad happens im trying to do the best for them to be happy i love them so much gray and i dont want them to get divorced.. what can i do to prevent it?
holdupniga 3 months ago
Aww you did really well
And use your webcam more often!
Love you too
phildude 3 months ago
great singer! lol
im1mikep 3 months ago
davedays new video is in the suggested videos
imachku 3 months ago
My parents are divorced and my mom never answers the phone when I call her and she doesn't want to see me:( i hate my life so much and Gray you give AWESOME advice you should be a therapist:)
applefan271 3 months ago
Gray can you make a video on bullying and harassment? Cuz that's what I always get at school and im sick and tired of it.:(
applefan271 3 months ago
Your a good singer
4lifepalomo 3 months ago
You did a great job. My uncle just got remarried to a complete bitch and my cousin is obviously freaking out (no family except for his kids was invited to wedding/ we didnt even know until 3 days before) and i pointed him to this video and he said that it really helped him out.
So thank you because ive been really worried about him lately:)
LinuxSwag 3 months ago
u sing beautiful ... i want you so bad gray !! :D
TheCarlitos10 3 months ago
my dad escaped with his new woman to canada from me and my mom when i was 3 years old, my mother was sick at heart, underwent several operations on it, previously she underwent five operations, My mother was weak, and he did this... it was hard to educate me... Mom was in the hospital for a long time, I was raised by my grandmother... Now we all good, but live in poor, so i can't explain all the situation, i don't know english so good, i'm from Ukraine, thx for your vids Gray )
numbazZify 3 months ago 2
My parents got divorced shortly after I was born so it's never really effected me.
My dads new GF gave me £2 when she first met me.... I see now just to try and get me to like her.... What a nice woman.
I don't care anyway I never really see my dad much now.. :/
1000ouija 3 months ago
@SaveaxX I just don't understand why he would want to talk to me after all these years because he left after my mom was pregnant with me, so he left because of me:(
ThisGuyStandingHere 3 months ago
As in how they look in this vid!
knipdyoif 3 months ago
Ur bangs look good on the other side
knipdyoif 3 months ago
mmm boobs
DrHiplop1 3 months ago
My pants, they hurt me every day :(
PiratedFilmsPro 3 months ago
I hate my parents
needog7 3 months ago
I want you (She's so heavy)
Daniel19980902 3 months ago
@Daniel19980902 hellyes
SaveaxX 3 months ago
ok so my mom and dad are divorsed. my mom got a new boyfriend. i try and try to be happy for my mom and like let them go out but HE IS A TOTAL ASS TO ME AND MY MOM!!!!!! total ass. he always freakin curses me out, pushes me around, makes me do things and my mom doessnt do shit! i already go to counseling..... its sucks
Ashtinzoo 3 months ago
@Ashtinzoo Okay, for something like this I highly suggest talking with your mom and making it really apparent to her that he does those things. I'm sure she knows about it but she is probably ignoring her gut instinct to leave and stays because she wants to have someone. Just try and really get her to come to face reality and see if she REALLY wants to be with a man who treats her and her family like that.
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PureMacAttack 3 months ago
My parents got divorced when I was in grade 8. (freshman year) Perfect timing huh? Which would now be 6 or 7 years ago. Then they got married and I still haven't forgiving either of them.. Even though I act like I have. She ruined my family and I will never forgive them for that. My family is the most important thing to me right now and they always will be.
aruss717 3 months ago
Good advice. So when are you and Ty getting married?? Lol
macho2k8 3 months ago
she´s most beautiful in any situation...
GOD...
XD...
and that video is a good video...
good topic...
and gray's opinions are good opinions...
congrats gray...(I believe you have helped many people with this video)
XD...
raphaeljesussr2 3 months ago
@raphaeljesussr2 thankyou<3333
SaveaxX 3 months ago
My mum and dad have just got divorced (on the 13 October) and my dad is getting married to his girlfriend in January
shhoshh 3 months ago
@shhoshh :/ Unfortunately, as I'm sure you know, something was going on while they were still married. That or he just really jumps into things. Just try and be happy for your parents, love them and try to also not blame you for anything <3
SaveaxX 3 months ago
My mom and step dad are divorced and still good friends, but I have a different situation. I'm 17 and I've never met my real father, and I've been ok with that. Now after all this time he wants to talk and hang out with me and I don't know if I should....
ThisGuyStandingHere 3 months ago
@ThisGuyStandingHere you should but if he ask for anything big or anything like my dad kinda did dont do it
BKxHaT3r 3 months ago
@ThisGuyStandingHere Getting to know who your real father is isn't a bad thing unless he's a horrible person. And if that were the case, your mom wouldn't want you talking with him. Don't do anything for him if he asks something of you but just try and get to know him.
SaveaxX 3 months ago
That is some sexy outfit your wearing.. Will you marry me? :)
ENKElXPRESS 3 months ago
your hair is very pretty :)
puertoricanman468 3 months ago
i need advice on which potatoe i should eat!
GetDatMoney321 3 months ago
@GetDatMoney321 THATONE
SaveaxX 3 months ago
I need advice for talking to girls. PLZ HELP
M3TALMETALLICA 3 months ago
..anyway, sorry for this long ass comment, just pouring out everything right here because you made a video about the whole divorced parents situation. Thanks Gray for making this and giving your advice(:
BrookeElainee 3 months ago
@BrookeElainee You're very welcome! I hate to see you go through a situation like that :( unfortunately, there's nothing more you can do except honestly give him the cold shoulder. It is that he doesn't know what he's got until it's gone, but it may also be a way to just manipulate your family into going back with him. People like that tend to be very keen with finding ways to get what they want, so be careful please <3
SaveaxX 3 months ago
..so I always end up rejecting him. Legally I don't have to do anything with him, since my mom has sole custody of my sister and I. But its annoying that he's just now trying to make things work instead of trying to fix them back before they got terrible. My mom says it's because someone doesn't know what they have until they lose it. I'm just tired of him trying to buy me stuff in order to get into my life again, it sucks and its hard, and he still wants to be married to my mom..
BrookeElainee 3 months ago
...a good daughter or something. I'm so much closer to my mom than my dad, its always been that way. Now, my mom has met someone and he's great(: They are planning on getting married sometime next year & he's moving in with us. I'm really happy with the person my mom met and has made a relationship with, and I want a good father/daughter relationship with this new guy, and so far it's going great. But then there's my dad that's always trying to get me to do things with him when I don't want to..
BrookeElainee 3 months ago
My parents just recently got divorced in June, and this might seem weird but I'm glad they got a divorce. My dad has bipolar disorder & he's an alcoholic, and was very abusive towards me, my mom, and my sister. He was always mean to us and never had a good attitude towards anything..so I just stopped trying to "be his daughter" i guess. Now that he's moved out, he wants me in his life and I don't want anything to do with him. He makes me feel bad though because I feel like I'm not being...
BrookeElainee 3 months ago
I don't blame myself, i blame my dad being a douch bag lol, my dad left my mum for her best friend of 15+ years and she is a man head, i have no intention of ever having her in my life and if i ever see her i will have to stop myself punching her in the throat lol
Chardymc 3 months ago
@Chardymc :(
SaveaxX 3 months ago
my dad cheated on my mom for 5 years before finaly leaving and marrying the woman he was with, i hate what he did to my mom and i dont know how to forgive him a year down the line :(
TECHN0GE3K 3 months ago 4
@TECHN0GE3K :( I understand. :( :( i'm sowwy <3
SaveaxX 3 months ago
my parents got divorced 4 or 5 years ago,now im 16 lol... its hard first but then you get used too... are your parents divorced gray? nice video btw :D
hobbitg3 3 months ago
@hobbitg3 No, fortunately I've been blessed with two parents that really do love one another. My mom waited for a very long time to get married and to have my. My father has had a previous marriage, but he's been with my mom through thick and thin. I'm a really lucky kid honestly. I hate to see that there are so many people that are divorced ;(
SaveaxX 3 months ago
A lot more people will come to you than go to a counsellor. People choose to accept your advice. I know I'd rather not pay some person who acts like he/she knows what you're going through.
georgew0304 3 months ago
And let's see how long until there's some creep/pervy comment about Gray. No offense or anything but it's ANNOYING. And on EVERY video, at least one guy comments something creepy/pervy or is hitting on Gray. Get a life! It makes it look like it's behalf of ALL the guys that watch these, when really its just a handful of CREEPS. Show respect, holy shit!!! Sorry but if I were Ty and Gray I wouldn't want to do a meet up when theres those types of people who comment that and thumbs them up.
damierJordan 3 months ago 4
@damierJordan I love you :)
SaveaxX 3 months ago 4
My parents got divorced a few months back.
anthonyf51094 3 months ago
He should accept the fact that his dad has a girlfriend. It should take time cause normally it won't be easy. If he refuses to accept it then yes, counselling wouldn't be a bad idea. Cause in a way, it is sort of selfish. They're most likely lonely too so they need a girlfriend/boyfriend. And just like a dad would accept his teen son having a girlfriend, the son should accept that his father has one. Of course she'll never replace his mom. You don't even have to hug or talk much to her at all!
damierJordan 3 months ago
My parent actually split up a few days ago and I was expecting it for a few months now. I think it is a lot better now they have split up and I still see my dad quite a bit :)
CeeGeeHD 3 months ago
GO TO COUNSELING? Wow what a sad father. The kid needs time. He has to be open too. Like seriously the father seems more selfish. I support the kid and would be the same. He needs time for himself. Not forceful openess and counseling for not wanting to meet someone? Hahaha
appleism100 3 months ago
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appleism100 3 months ago
my parents arent divorced but my dad hasnt been in my life for 15 of the 16 years ive been on this planet... i dont realy care to much about my dad.. i dont remember hhim, i dont want to care or know him again. nor do i want to make amends with my father that i dont consider a father. to me hes more of the kinda guy u meet at a concert whos a huge dick -____- i fuckin hate him but i dont care about him if that makes any sense :)
tylerwalker2 3 months ago 10
@tylerwalker2 :( He's an ass for doing that to you and your mom. Just always be there for your mom and be happy for her if she's happy :)
SaveaxX 3 months ago 11
@SaveaxX oh my god yes he is u dont even know! he left her about 2 years after i was born... he wud rarely be there for me tho... and they hate eachother still to this day...but ya my mom is happy so im happy. the only thing he does is child support which basically goes out the window in 2 years when i turn 18 and am classified as an adult... karma will bite his and and bite it really fuckin hard some day... xD he will defineatly deserve it when it does happen tho! and ya i got my moms back <3
tylerwalker2 3 months ago
@tylerwalker2 I know exacly what u mean the same thing happend to me, then then I got a step dad or whatever its called he treated me like I was the random kid that was just there... and now I live with my aunt and uncle :) Im happy tho my mom come and visit me on the weekends :D but yeah I trusted my "new" dad but if he doesn't like me then... oh did I mention that my littlebrother is like hes son and my moms? x) damn! sry for bad spelling and all that.... just had to tell it....
LayerHD 3 months ago
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barhuma 3 months ago
1st viewer.
ACGJProductions 3 months ago