Craiger please dont do anything to hurt yourself. We all have some troubles and heartache in our life's but things will turn around and get better you have to believe, no i don't go around preaching to everyone i see or meet, I dont even go to church. But i do believe and trust god. you have to feel it in your heart, say just a small prayer to god everyday and trust me things will just start falling in place. we were blessed with a beautiful life, and no it isn't always good. life is precious.
I also was a cool kid breaking all the rules living wild and free....But i grew up and changed!!the world changes everyday.Your daughter doesnt need a cool dad she needs a responsible Father!! Christmas is wonderful but its just another day...Your dad lived his life,and his faith is in the LORDS hands!!!Please worry about those who you brought into this cold world..The only way you will fix things is not by cheap drug induced sympathetic love talk-It takes positive action!!!Make a change Brother
@PaulKate322 Thank you for your insight. I spoke with my psychiatrist and I'm starting a group therapy and hopefully it will get me back on track. As far as my daughter goes, you don't know or understand what happened. This will be a long process and it may never be resolved. I'm working on the drug addiction, but people who don't deal with constant excruciating pain will never understand what it's like. Thanks for your advice, but you don't know the whole story. I've had a horrible
@craiger5 life of being raped, abused, health issues that never end. I have faith that I will fix this, it's not drug induced love talk, it's my desire to change and make myself a better person. Please don't judge me, it only makes it harder for me to obtain my goals. I know what I have to do, and it's not easy. Go easy on me, I'm doing everything in my power to change for the better.
@PaulKate322 All I care about is my daughters happiness, but when you have an ex-wife cutting you at the knees at every turn, it makes it hrd to make ammends. Walk a day in my shoes and you'll understand the mountain I have to climb. Go easy on me, my friend, I don't need a beat down, I need support from wherever I can get it. I'm not a bad person, I've just been beaten down my whole life and I don't know any better.
@craiger5 Brother dont get me wrong at all,i only tried to give you tough love....I know you are hurting both mentally and physically..I was down and out myself...I saw many others destroy their beautiful lives....I want you to dig to the core of your soul and force yourself to change! Only you have the key to change everything in your life.I know it seems impossible but if you hold on ,pray,stay focused and most importantly avoid hiding behind excuses your life will change for the better..
Eventually your daughter will want to know her father and have a relationship with you as well.Everybody makes mistakes ,its a part of life brother, however, we cant give up!!!You must get away from bad influences and stay away from bad seeds!!!!Maybe you should start a journal and write down your thoughts;make a small life changing goal for each month,..Small victories turn to big victories.You must be responsible for everything that happens in your life from today on!-i am here 4 u brother
The only person in the world you should change for is your daughter.Kids need their parents more than ever before...Who is going to walk her down the isle??Who is going to help her pay for her wedding???Who is she going to turn to if not you?????Who will she turn to for money and help if she ever needs it???As a father you have a obligation to help your precious little girl.Now how can you help, when you need help?For the love of your little girl get better and make things right no matter what!!
Whats up bro,i think everyone was in your stage in one point in their lives....it seems that life really is tough for you these days,however Our Good Lord has a mission for us all..As for your daughter dont blame her because of how she feels,children are under major pressure these days.....When a father hits rock bottom ,he brings down his entire family...Look to the Lord for help...You dont have to go to church..Your actions effect your family more than it effects yourself.Please change brother
Craiger please dont do anything to hurt yourself. We all have some troubles and heartache in our life's but things will turn around and get better you have to believe, no i don't go around preaching to everyone i see or meet, I dont even go to church. But i do believe and trust god. you have to feel it in your heart, say just a small prayer to god everyday and trust me things will just start falling in place. we were blessed with a beautiful life, and no it isn't always good. life is precious.
jmartra 2 months ago
I also was a cool kid breaking all the rules living wild and free....But i grew up and changed!!the world changes everyday.Your daughter doesnt need a cool dad she needs a responsible Father!! Christmas is wonderful but its just another day...Your dad lived his life,and his faith is in the LORDS hands!!!Please worry about those who you brought into this cold world..The only way you will fix things is not by cheap drug induced sympathetic love talk-It takes positive action!!!Make a change Brother
PaulKate322 2 months ago
@PaulKate322 Thank you for your insight. I spoke with my psychiatrist and I'm starting a group therapy and hopefully it will get me back on track. As far as my daughter goes, you don't know or understand what happened. This will be a long process and it may never be resolved. I'm working on the drug addiction, but people who don't deal with constant excruciating pain will never understand what it's like. Thanks for your advice, but you don't know the whole story. I've had a horrible
craiger5 2 months ago
@craiger5 life of being raped, abused, health issues that never end. I have faith that I will fix this, it's not drug induced love talk, it's my desire to change and make myself a better person. Please don't judge me, it only makes it harder for me to obtain my goals. I know what I have to do, and it's not easy. Go easy on me, I'm doing everything in my power to change for the better.
craiger5 2 months ago
@PaulKate322 All I care about is my daughters happiness, but when you have an ex-wife cutting you at the knees at every turn, it makes it hrd to make ammends. Walk a day in my shoes and you'll understand the mountain I have to climb. Go easy on me, my friend, I don't need a beat down, I need support from wherever I can get it. I'm not a bad person, I've just been beaten down my whole life and I don't know any better.
craiger5 2 months ago
@craiger5 Brother dont get me wrong at all,i only tried to give you tough love....I know you are hurting both mentally and physically..I was down and out myself...I saw many others destroy their beautiful lives....I want you to dig to the core of your soul and force yourself to change! Only you have the key to change everything in your life.I know it seems impossible but if you hold on ,pray,stay focused and most importantly avoid hiding behind excuses your life will change for the better..
PaulKate322 2 months ago
Eventually your daughter will want to know her father and have a relationship with you as well.Everybody makes mistakes ,its a part of life brother, however, we cant give up!!!You must get away from bad influences and stay away from bad seeds!!!!Maybe you should start a journal and write down your thoughts;make a small life changing goal for each month,..Small victories turn to big victories.You must be responsible for everything that happens in your life from today on!-i am here 4 u brother
PaulKate322 2 months ago
The only person in the world you should change for is your daughter.Kids need their parents more than ever before...Who is going to walk her down the isle??Who is going to help her pay for her wedding???Who is she going to turn to if not you?????Who will she turn to for money and help if she ever needs it???As a father you have a obligation to help your precious little girl.Now how can you help, when you need help?For the love of your little girl get better and make things right no matter what!!
PaulKate322 2 months ago
Whats up bro,i think everyone was in your stage in one point in their lives....it seems that life really is tough for you these days,however Our Good Lord has a mission for us all..As for your daughter dont blame her because of how she feels,children are under major pressure these days.....When a father hits rock bottom ,he brings down his entire family...Look to the Lord for help...You dont have to go to church..Your actions effect your family more than it effects yourself.Please change brother
PaulKate322 2 months ago