all black women should cut themselves off from all black men and marry outside of your race. once that come to a reality, then black men including myself, will come to their senses. so we'll be force to go out from among you and seek out a new group of women some where else in the world knowing from experience, how to conduct ourselves to their satisfaction and how to be self-sufficient. i think that would be a help to you all, then you wouldn't have to worry about deficient black men...peace!
@dasunmanify That sounds like something a white supremicist would say. I have faith in the black race, and in order for it to continue, we need more black educated confident children. We need strong healthy black families. I will be a part of that future, not sure about you, but I know what I want.
@blacksncommercials Remember what misseducated25 said 7 months ago? "We should find mates based on love and if he respects us and not on race, because *race* is *just* about *skin color*". And I think you did agree to her views. That doesn't go like confident. I think we black men need to learn to accept the things we can not change, be content and go along with the flow. And don't get me wrong, I too, agree to what misseducated25 had said. " don't settle for a particular race" female or male.
@dasunmanify I honestly cannot recall that video, but I would not choose only based on race. I want to see the black race continue into the future, and prosper as a people. I would never settle, there is no reason, there are too many good men and women out there.
I sooooo like this girl! Mostly because she is speaking the truth and also because she hasn't limited black women to one race of men. Your prince may not be black....and feel that sometimes we settle for less just to have a black man (when that particular man may not have his crap together). We should find mates based on love and if he respects us and not on race, because race is just about skin color.
@misseducated25 Thank you. Although I love nothing more than seeing a happily married black couple raising a strong family, we cannot limit ourselves to one race. So many of us have settled out of desperation, and it normally ends badly for both.
what about a man that gave her everything she wanted to make her happy, wanted to be a good father later on in life and had his whole life was for her. But then she goes nuts over one fight with her mom and i didn't take her side cause she was completely in the wrong. Then Cursed me in text messages for over 8 hours in witch i didn't curse her back or put her down at all. I loved her. But I could take it anymore. I left. Was I in the wrong? Im a (24)white man.. she was (18) beautiful black woman
@animedudevid I never condone anyone staying in a destructive relationship for any reason. Some women are toxic, just like some men. We need to identify the losers and get away from them as soon as possible. Look out for the signs, don’t get blinded by love or lust, and take it slow. When you’ve been burnt, it’s easy to become pessimistic about love, that’s why it’s so important to approach It with a clear head. I think you did the right thing, you probably should have done it sooner.
@ygldd5577 I agree with most of what you're saying. Education is important, and putting ones' needs above others, while casual dating, is also important. I have never dumbed down myself for anyone, and would never encourage others to do so. There is a shortage of viable black men in our community, therefore sisters need to consider those with "potential". Maybe he's educated, but not the best dresser, like the one of my male friends. Maybe he has a great career, but no swag.
@ygldd5577 What is your problem? What could you possibly have negative to say about this video? I need specifics, not just rhetorical shit throwing. If you're not a single woman, this is not for you and you're just here to hate.
@ygldd5577 I don't know who you are directing your comments to, but if that was meant for me, you're waaaaayyyy off base and you need to check yourself.
============what steve harvey meant was picky in regards to certain type of job and height....thats what he meant by picky ...not the way you say he meant it...american black females are the only mass group in the world that speaks on dating in this way ......others like height as well but you never her them stress that issue........and true many sistas hate smiling .......i recent went on a friendly date with blk woman i was not attracted to...but I like her smile and she is great to talk with
@blacksncommercials ============my point is I know for a fact brother give sistas more chances than sistas give brothas ....I recently know a very good looking brother who is always around very good looking women but he proposed to a very average looking lady slightly overweight sista it was her personality that got this brotha not just looks
@blacksncommercials ===========you made steve harveys point just in a female way ...might not make the money you make ..keep him around to see if he will mature into the man you want...........thats what we do with females fathers teach many sons this....so you made steve harveys point
And hey, I encourage Black Women but I refuse to encourage Mammy behavior just as I despise Negro behavior!
I saw many Sisters all through High School, College, and even today many years later laugh at regular Brothers and mess with Cats who they know didn't have their best interest but they coveted these Negroes even though many of them sold drugs, did dippers/crack, dogged em' out, and the whole nine and they are never held accountable for their choices in Men!
"we need to focus on taking better care of ourselves, so that we are able to love others. We have the power to control our attitudes and our behavior, we need to deal with us, and let the rest happen as it may."
steve harvey is a damn charlatan. I wouldn't say BW have very high standards, they are just as lost as BM. We don't really know how to love in balance...we need balance.
Also the whole black men don't "match my education" is an excuse. I've let a few good bm pass me by...and I sometimes regret...I'm learning it takes sometime to get the head straight...
@missaquaboogie Yes, Me too, and I have massive regrets. But on the other hand, there were men who I rejected, and they sooooooo needed to be rejected. We live we learn, or if we're lucky we learn.
@missaquaboogie ===============applause, ==applause ==applause ====a lady who is humble enough for self reflection thx u for doing that......it is rare very rare that a lady can see things she can do better
I NEVER understand the mentality...and the low self esteem to stay with a terrible man/women. What is up with that? Even with friendships...when it is DONE. It is over. More on.
@missaquaboogie I don't understand it either, hope I never do. I think its desperation, and some women learn this behavior from their mothers. That's why its so important to know your self, only then can we take an active role in changing our behavior.
@blacksncommercials ============= ok here is the question if you want more ads showing the smiling sista.......should not sistas put a stop to the NENE`s of the world when they rise....where is Dr Maya Angelou on this topic..she is overwelmed because other sistas are not stepping up to take her place in polite conversation on classs
@blacksncommercials It is hard for me to even feel sorry for someone who cannot leave their oppressor/abuser. there is always a level of AGENCY. My former hair dresser (when I was still relaxing my hair)...took back a man who cheated on her and had a kid. I think she eventually left him. People LOVE being lied too...I mean look @ the society that has been built. Lies from the government, from parents, friends, teachers, pastors, politicians, businessmen/women.
@QLEANQLASSY your right...but I love a dude to fight with me abit, challenge me haha I don't like a man who follows me around...personally a man with no backbone = a fail
@missaquaboogie ...a brother will fight but look him up and down and wink make him know you want it...step away from your girlfriends so he can make a move away from the blockers fighting thru a herd of female friends is played out............make it easy to say hello
Black women need to unite...females always look at others with suspicion. Myself included...but it is hard to trust women sometimes. I've always said this: the most trouble I've ever had was from fellow black women. I HATE men asking me to "smile". I will smile when I'm happy...but I try not to have such angry attitude. It is hard but I do have a more positive attitude particularly for black men.
@missaquaboogie Sister, we are all works in progress. Women see each other as competition too often, and that gets in the way. It’s almost like we have to disarm ourselves before interacting, our defenses are on high alert.
@blacksncommercials sometimes I feel it is like human nature. One person, I stayed with when I was more or less homeless...told me that at the shelter she had to do sexual favors for men cause the women would beat on her if she had nicer clothes or if they thought she was prettier. Crazy shit seriously!
@QLEANQLASSY it starts with the mothers seriously---every black woman in the world knows this! deep down. Something is REALLY wrong with BW. Most of us are confused. IE: many bw will step out of the house half nakid and be suprised when men constantly bother them. It is sending mixed messages. Of course they will attract alot of thristy men! Women need to realize that bodies should not be sold: to the lowest bidder
@QLEANQLASSY also I'm not saying this in any apologetic tone...but alot of bw have low self esteem...only a person with low self esteem will allow themselves to drink themselves silly and be assaulted by men at a night club, enter a strange guy's car. A person who loves him or herself generally does not engage in activities that are self-destructive. I am no way colluding with the closeted misogynists on YT but they aren't ALL lying.
all black women should cut themselves off from all black men and marry outside of your race. once that come to a reality, then black men including myself, will come to their senses. so we'll be force to go out from among you and seek out a new group of women some where else in the world knowing from experience, how to conduct ourselves to their satisfaction and how to be self-sufficient. i think that would be a help to you all, then you wouldn't have to worry about deficient black men...peace!
dasunmanify 2 months ago
@dasunmanify That sounds like something a white supremicist would say. I have faith in the black race, and in order for it to continue, we need more black educated confident children. We need strong healthy black families. I will be a part of that future, not sure about you, but I know what I want.
blacksncommercials 2 months ago
@blacksncommercials Remember what misseducated25 said 7 months ago? "We should find mates based on love and if he respects us and not on race, because *race* is *just* about *skin color*". And I think you did agree to her views. That doesn't go like confident. I think we black men need to learn to accept the things we can not change, be content and go along with the flow. And don't get me wrong, I too, agree to what misseducated25 had said. " don't settle for a particular race" female or male.
dasunmanify 2 months ago
@dasunmanify I honestly cannot recall that video, but I would not choose only based on race. I want to see the black race continue into the future, and prosper as a people. I would never settle, there is no reason, there are too many good men and women out there.
blacksncommercials 2 months ago
@yankeetrin True True.
blacksncommercials 7 months ago
Great job! And you didn't cough once! Thanking for sharing.
PrincessKizziemae 7 months ago
@PrincessKizziemae Thank you, I was struggling, lol
blacksncommercials 7 months ago
I sooooo like this girl! Mostly because she is speaking the truth and also because she hasn't limited black women to one race of men. Your prince may not be black....and feel that sometimes we settle for less just to have a black man (when that particular man may not have his crap together). We should find mates based on love and if he respects us and not on race, because race is just about skin color.
misseducated25 10 months ago
@misseducated25 Thank you. Although I love nothing more than seeing a happily married black couple raising a strong family, we cannot limit ourselves to one race. So many of us have settled out of desperation, and it normally ends badly for both.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
"I've had every flu shot known to man..."
That's probably why. :-(
GloriousReturns 10 months ago
@GloriousReturns Very possibly true. Been getting the shot for at least 5 years but this is the first year I got 2, you never know.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
I MEANT....WILL DO.
spainishgirl 10 months ago
PREACH IT AND TEACH IT,SIS!! THANK YOU!!!
WII DO!!
spainishgirl 10 months ago
what about a man that gave her everything she wanted to make her happy, wanted to be a good father later on in life and had his whole life was for her. But then she goes nuts over one fight with her mom and i didn't take her side cause she was completely in the wrong. Then Cursed me in text messages for over 8 hours in witch i didn't curse her back or put her down at all. I loved her. But I could take it anymore. I left. Was I in the wrong? Im a (24)white man.. she was (18) beautiful black woman
animedudevid 10 months ago
@animedudevid I never condone anyone staying in a destructive relationship for any reason. Some women are toxic, just like some men. We need to identify the losers and get away from them as soon as possible. Look out for the signs, don’t get blinded by love or lust, and take it slow. When you’ve been burnt, it’s easy to become pessimistic about love, that’s why it’s so important to approach It with a clear head. I think you did the right thing, you probably should have done it sooner.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
@ygldd5577 Thank you, you too.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
@ygldd5577 I agree with most of what you're saying. Education is important, and putting ones' needs above others, while casual dating, is also important. I have never dumbed down myself for anyone, and would never encourage others to do so. There is a shortage of viable black men in our community, therefore sisters need to consider those with "potential". Maybe he's educated, but not the best dresser, like the one of my male friends. Maybe he has a great career, but no swag.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
@ygldd5577 What is your problem? What could you possibly have negative to say about this video? I need specifics, not just rhetorical shit throwing. If you're not a single woman, this is not for you and you're just here to hate.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
@ygldd5577 I don't know who you are directing your comments to, but if that was meant for me, you're waaaaayyyy off base and you need to check yourself.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
@caramel100percent Will do, thank you sister.
blacksncommercials 10 months ago
Very true many bw are not picky enuff, plain and simple. It s ok if a brother is strugglin but for a woman to support a simp is her own fault
vincerashaad 11 months ago
@vincerashaad Thank you
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
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you are weak!
painless78 11 months ago
============what steve harvey meant was picky in regards to certain type of job and height....thats what he meant by picky ...not the way you say he meant it...american black females are the only mass group in the world that speaks on dating in this way ......others like height as well but you never her them stress that issue........and true many sistas hate smiling .......i recent went on a friendly date with blk woman i was not attracted to...but I like her smile and she is great to talk with
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
@QLEANQLASSY I'm glad you had a good experience with that sister.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials ============my point is I know for a fact brother give sistas more chances than sistas give brothas ....I recently know a very good looking brother who is always around very good looking women but he proposed to a very average looking lady slightly overweight sista it was her personality that got this brotha not just looks
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
And I forgot to mention that this was a great video! Keep em' coming!
BIGBKELtheGOD 11 months ago
@BIGBKELtheGOD Thank you, will do, have another one tonight.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials ===========you made steve harveys point just in a female way ...might not make the money you make ..keep him around to see if he will mature into the man you want...........thats what we do with females fathers teach many sons this....so you made steve harveys point
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
Awe!!! I hope you feel better.
And hey, I encourage Black Women but I refuse to encourage Mammy behavior just as I despise Negro behavior!
I saw many Sisters all through High School, College, and even today many years later laugh at regular Brothers and mess with Cats who they know didn't have their best interest but they coveted these Negroes even though many of them sold drugs, did dippers/crack, dogged em' out, and the whole nine and they are never held accountable for their choices in Men!
BIGBKELtheGOD 11 months ago
Steve Harvey needs to clean his own house.
Auntkekebaby 11 months ago
@Auntkekebaby Yes, true, he certainly does!
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
Very Positive Great Video every black woman should watch this video.
JESUSSWOOPE 11 months ago
@JESUSSWOOPE Thank you Brother.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
i see the photo i win hahhahahahahaha
GRIZZLYBEARR7 11 months ago
@GRIZZLYBEARR7 LOL
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
that why i say i love your mind
i bet money you got nicesss ass hahahahahahaha
just mess with you my queen
GRIZZLYBEARR7 11 months ago
@GRIZZLYBEARR7 You flirting with me bear, LOL
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials WHAT THERE NO RULE
WIN A KING GRIZZLY WILL SOON LOOKING TO TAKE
HIS NEW QUEENGRIZZLY!!!!
ASK YOURSELF THIS??? CAN YOU RULE OVER A LAND WITH OTHER QUEENGRIZZLY???
AND O' YES AM FlirtING YOU TELL ME WHAT TEDDY BEAR WILL NOT FIirting love to flirt WITH YOU ALL DAY
ALL NIGHT HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
GRIZZLYBEARR7 11 months ago
"we need to focus on taking better care of ourselves, so that we are able to love others. We have the power to control our attitudes and our behavior, we need to deal with us, and let the rest happen as it may."
Exactly
lovie2000 11 months ago
@lovie2000 Thank you Lovie, we have to reclaim us!
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
steve harvey is a damn charlatan. I wouldn't say BW have very high standards, they are just as lost as BM. We don't really know how to love in balance...we need balance.
painless78 11 months ago
@painless78 I completely agree, and we need to start with self.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
Also the whole black men don't "match my education" is an excuse. I've let a few good bm pass me by...and I sometimes regret...I'm learning it takes sometime to get the head straight...
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie Yes, Me too, and I have massive regrets. But on the other hand, there were men who I rejected, and they sooooooo needed to be rejected. We live we learn, or if we're lucky we learn.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie ===============applause, ==applause ==applause ====a lady who is humble enough for self reflection thx u for doing that......it is rare very rare that a lady can see things she can do better
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
@QLEANQLASSY doing the right thing should never be applauded.
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
I NEVER understand the mentality...and the low self esteem to stay with a terrible man/women. What is up with that? Even with friendships...when it is DONE. It is over. More on.
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie **move**
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie JUST LIKE I LOVE YOU ASWELL GRIZZLYQUEEN
GOOD TO SEE YOU AROUND!!!
FOREVERLOVE
RASTA RA'
GRIZZLYBEARR7 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie I don't understand it either, hope I never do. I think its desperation, and some women learn this behavior from their mothers. That's why its so important to know your self, only then can we take an active role in changing our behavior.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials ============= ok here is the question if you want more ads showing the smiling sista.......should not sistas put a stop to the NENE`s of the world when they rise....where is Dr Maya Angelou on this topic..she is overwelmed because other sistas are not stepping up to take her place in polite conversation on classs
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials It is hard for me to even feel sorry for someone who cannot leave their oppressor/abuser. there is always a level of AGENCY. My former hair dresser (when I was still relaxing my hair)...took back a man who cheated on her and had a kid. I think she eventually left him. People LOVE being lied too...I mean look @ the society that has been built. Lies from the government, from parents, friends, teachers, pastors, politicians, businessmen/women.
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie ====people like things they can control ====so we like things and people that dont challenge us
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
@QLEANQLASSY your right...but I love a dude to fight with me abit, challenge me haha I don't like a man who follows me around...personally a man with no backbone = a fail
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie ...a brother will fight but look him up and down and wink make him know you want it...step away from your girlfriends so he can make a move away from the blockers fighting thru a herd of female friends is played out............make it easy to say hello
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
Black women need to unite...females always look at others with suspicion. Myself included...but it is hard to trust women sometimes. I've always said this: the most trouble I've ever had was from fellow black women. I HATE men asking me to "smile". I will smile when I'm happy...but I try not to have such angry attitude. It is hard but I do have a more positive attitude particularly for black men.
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie Sister, we are all works in progress. Women see each other as competition too often, and that gets in the way. It’s almost like we have to disarm ourselves before interacting, our defenses are on high alert.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@blacksncommercials sometimes I feel it is like human nature. One person, I stayed with when I was more or less homeless...told me that at the shelter she had to do sexual favors for men cause the women would beat on her if she had nicer clothes or if they thought she was prettier. Crazy shit seriously!
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie Yeah, that sounds like an extreme situation, you never know what life will bring.
blacksncommercials 11 months ago
@missaquaboogie i think we men keep saying this on youtube all this will change when women start challenging women on behavior
QLEANQLASSY 11 months ago
@QLEANQLASSY it starts with the mothers seriously---every black woman in the world knows this! deep down. Something is REALLY wrong with BW. Most of us are confused. IE: many bw will step out of the house half nakid and be suprised when men constantly bother them. It is sending mixed messages. Of course they will attract alot of thristy men! Women need to realize that bodies should not be sold: to the lowest bidder
missaquaboogie 11 months ago
@QLEANQLASSY also I'm not saying this in any apologetic tone...but alot of bw have low self esteem...only a person with low self esteem will allow themselves to drink themselves silly and be assaulted by men at a night club, enter a strange guy's car. A person who loves him or herself generally does not engage in activities that are self-destructive. I am no way colluding with the closeted misogynists on YT but they aren't ALL lying.
missaquaboogie 11 months ago