I faild my first driving test the other week. this really got to me as literally all of my friends had passed first time and i was the only one to fail, the day i faild i was so upset i couldn't believe i had failed when all others had passed. I take failure very personally and sometimes it makes me want to better myself but this time it left me utterly defeated. i only told my best friend about my test as i couldn't deal with the humiliation of failing it, i love driving, but still failed.
And I just don't know what to do right now. I don't know who I am anymore. I can totally relate to Holden Claufield right now. I don't know how to apply things to school anymore. I use to be in love with science but things have changed. Right now, I find myself liking english more. That won't help my dreams of majoring in medical. I need help, how do I change and get back to my old self, I want to be that one successful girl I use to know, I want her to come back. It's almost time for college...
@SweetlySammie Start off by resetting your mind. Eliminate all the negative thoughts & experiences of the past that have you feeling this way. It doesn't matter what others believe you can achieve, it only matters what you believe you can achieve. You can achieve anything you believe. Some achievements require more effort & perseverance than other results. Nothing great comes easy & nothing easy is great. Refuse to lose & work your tail off until you succeed. Win or learn there is no failure.
And just recently, we had to turn in out physics lab, our results had minor errors in it and my friend changed the results and basically copied off of the other group, she did not even bother to tell me until the end! I want to stop competing with others and just focus on myself but it is just too difficult! Back to the chemistry exam I failed, one of the chemistry teachers even told her class about the "person who got the 25% on the exam." That really brought my day down and I just...
I forced myself to take all AP courses and honors math because I know that I will regret it if I don't. This was suppose to be my time to shine before I apply to college. But I don't know what's wrong with me right now. I've recently failed a couple exams and quizzes. I got a 25% on my chemistry exam which was worth 150 points, i got a 56% on my physics exam, I got a 2/14 on my recent history quizzes. And I usually do better than my friend but now she's doing better than me. And just recently...
i can feel that i'm a big failure..i fail in every aspect of my life , i'm a failure in relationships,ideas,studies.and even career ..and the most painful part of failing is that i don't get to cope up with failure that easily it usually takes time for me to overcome failure..i don't know whats wrong with me that i failed alot of times,..and i envy those people who seldom failed in their life..can you give me any piesces of advice?
@maan360 You're looking at failure wrong & taking it personally. It's causing you to believe that you are a failure. You must look at failure as a stepping stone & not a stumbling block. Look at failure as what it is, A RESULT or a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. It's not you, its not any part of your being. Failure is just a result. If you don't get the result that you desire, keep trying a different approach until you succeed. Failure is only permanent when U quit. Winners never quit & quitters never win
@HoomanCan iam feeling so miserable right now.its like my throat is choking up on me and my heart is just calous. i got detained for the second time in my college this yer..i have let down evryone ..my parents my friends everyone and evrything...
the fear of losing them and evrything that i know just killing me from inside..i have failed evry promise that i have made..i have become nothing but a FAILURE ..SOS i hope i dont......
@ippshi I've been there before so I know how you feel. So you let your parents & friends down. So you let yourself down. Stop the posion party & decide to take massive action today to change. NO ONE CAN CHANGE THE PAST! You can only change your future. You will not lose anyone if they see you taking immediate action towards a lasting change. Failure is an outcome, keep changing your approach until you get it right. Everyone in life gets knocked down but life rewards those who get back up.
thanks. Do you have a Facebook page of yours or something? I am just feeling so beaten by failure after failure in my life. But I'm feeling better now watching this.........
You and I are similar. Yes, same outcome different approach of thinking.
I think of failure as an odd in decision making. Say if the risk is 1:2 then you will be foolish if you only try one, right? What is the chance it will fail again? You will be foolish not to try again differently.
The basic fundamental of science is repeatability as well as trial and error. There are way of doing things correctly, just try to figure it out and then you will be successful.
@UnitedPebbles Thanks for watching and leaving a comment. Remember, it doesn't matter how many times we fail or how bad we fail. What matters is believing in your abilities to achieving the results that we desire. You are only a failure when you give up. I don't believe in failure, I believe its just an outcome. If I stay flexible in my approach & stay relentless in my pursuit, then its only a matter of time until I achieve my desired results. Win or learn there is no failure.
today probably is the worst fucking day of my life, because i got my final exams results and i just failed the high school twice now.But for some reason i am much more calm and have more control over myself than i had when i failed last year. Im not stupid or do drugs or anything and i have always remained a 2nd position holder in my entire life until i failed twice. My parents are at a point where they dont believe in me anymore. Is there still hope for some success? I really dont know!
@smokie199212 Its never too late for anyone. When I was in tenth grade I got a car and was hanging w/ the wrong crowd. I barely went to school & earned only 1 1/2 credits. Then I decided that I had to change. From that point on I let nothing get in my way of achieving my goals. This led to great success. U & I are no different. U have to decide that what you've been doing is just not good enough. No one can save U but U. No 1 can, & no 1 will. U have to save yourself. Tell me how U do. Hooman
It seems like you are going through some tough times in your life?
Persistence can never deal with failure. If you want something bad enough, failure will never be an option for you. Make your desired outcome your obsession and failure will never even cross your mind. But with your approach, you are letting your past failures get in the way of your growth & progress. You fail before you begin because of the fact that you are even considering failure.
So if all your options are gone after you've given them all your best, and you're still nowhere... that's called failing. But I like that ppl think a positive outlook will give positive results... because it's amusing to watch the denial set in about how much of failures we are.
When Thomas Edison was inventing electricity he failed over 10,000 times. Do you think he was giving it 100%? I bet he did, but he had not discovered a way to achieve the results that he desired. Instead of quitting like many would have done. He was committed to succeeding because he was going to try and try until he invented electricity. Never do anything to ever sell out,
Remember you can achieve anything you believe. The question is, do you believe in yourself?
thank you ver much! this was great! I'm going to do this thing i'm struggling with! and give it my all! I have not failed! i'm learning and growing! :)
Hooman is so full of shit. He's not a motivational speaker. He's working at the 7-11 down the street right now.
gfy115 3 months ago
I faild my first driving test the other week. this really got to me as literally all of my friends had passed first time and i was the only one to fail, the day i faild i was so upset i couldn't believe i had failed when all others had passed. I take failure very personally and sometimes it makes me want to better myself but this time it left me utterly defeated. i only told my best friend about my test as i couldn't deal with the humiliation of failing it, i love driving, but still failed.
Jannison585 3 months ago
And I just don't know what to do right now. I don't know who I am anymore. I can totally relate to Holden Claufield right now. I don't know how to apply things to school anymore. I use to be in love with science but things have changed. Right now, I find myself liking english more. That won't help my dreams of majoring in medical. I need help, how do I change and get back to my old self, I want to be that one successful girl I use to know, I want her to come back. It's almost time for college...
SweetlySammie 4 months ago
@SweetlySammie Start off by resetting your mind. Eliminate all the negative thoughts & experiences of the past that have you feeling this way. It doesn't matter what others believe you can achieve, it only matters what you believe you can achieve. You can achieve anything you believe. Some achievements require more effort & perseverance than other results. Nothing great comes easy & nothing easy is great. Refuse to lose & work your tail off until you succeed. Win or learn there is no failure.
HoomanCan 4 months ago
And just recently, we had to turn in out physics lab, our results had minor errors in it and my friend changed the results and basically copied off of the other group, she did not even bother to tell me until the end! I want to stop competing with others and just focus on myself but it is just too difficult! Back to the chemistry exam I failed, one of the chemistry teachers even told her class about the "person who got the 25% on the exam." That really brought my day down and I just...
SweetlySammie 4 months ago
I forced myself to take all AP courses and honors math because I know that I will regret it if I don't. This was suppose to be my time to shine before I apply to college. But I don't know what's wrong with me right now. I've recently failed a couple exams and quizzes. I got a 25% on my chemistry exam which was worth 150 points, i got a 56% on my physics exam, I got a 2/14 on my recent history quizzes. And I usually do better than my friend but now she's doing better than me. And just recently...
SweetlySammie 4 months ago
i can feel that i'm a big failure..i fail in every aspect of my life , i'm a failure in relationships,ideas,studies.and even career ..and the most painful part of failing is that i don't get to cope up with failure that easily it usually takes time for me to overcome failure..i don't know whats wrong with me that i failed alot of times,..and i envy those people who seldom failed in their life..can you give me any piesces of advice?
maan360 5 months ago
@maan360 You're looking at failure wrong & taking it personally. It's causing you to believe that you are a failure. You must look at failure as a stepping stone & not a stumbling block. Look at failure as what it is, A RESULT or a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. It's not you, its not any part of your being. Failure is just a result. If you don't get the result that you desire, keep trying a different approach until you succeed. Failure is only permanent when U quit. Winners never quit & quitters never win
HoomanCan 4 months ago
I shared this video on facebook!
CzechFitnessGirl 6 months ago
@CzechFitnessGirl Glad you like the video and thank you for sharing with your friends and followers.
HoomanCan 5 months ago
@HoomanCan iam feeling so miserable right now.its like my throat is choking up on me and my heart is just calous. i got detained for the second time in my college this yer..i have let down evryone ..my parents my friends everyone and evrything...
the fear of losing them and evrything that i know just killing me from inside..i have failed evry promise that i have made..i have become nothing but a FAILURE ..SOS i hope i dont......
ippshi 4 months ago in playlist Failure
@ippshi I've been there before so I know how you feel. So you let your parents & friends down. So you let yourself down. Stop the posion party & decide to take massive action today to change. NO ONE CAN CHANGE THE PAST! You can only change your future. You will not lose anyone if they see you taking immediate action towards a lasting change. Failure is an outcome, keep changing your approach until you get it right. Everyone in life gets knocked down but life rewards those who get back up.
HoomanCan 4 months ago
Thank you very much for video!
CzechFitnessGirl 6 months ago
thanks. Do you have a Facebook page of yours or something? I am just feeling so beaten by failure after failure in my life. But I'm feeling better now watching this.........
freshdumpling 1 year ago
You and I are similar. Yes, same outcome different approach of thinking.
I think of failure as an odd in decision making. Say if the risk is 1:2 then you will be foolish if you only try one, right? What is the chance it will fail again? You will be foolish not to try again differently.
The basic fundamental of science is repeatability as well as trial and error. There are way of doing things correctly, just try to figure it out and then you will be successful.
UnitedPebbles 1 year ago
@UnitedPebbles Thanks for watching and leaving a comment. Remember, it doesn't matter how many times we fail or how bad we fail. What matters is believing in your abilities to achieving the results that we desire. You are only a failure when you give up. I don't believe in failure, I believe its just an outcome. If I stay flexible in my approach & stay relentless in my pursuit, then its only a matter of time until I achieve my desired results. Win or learn there is no failure.
HoomanCan 4 months ago
today probably is the worst fucking day of my life, because i got my final exams results and i just failed the high school twice now.But for some reason i am much more calm and have more control over myself than i had when i failed last year. Im not stupid or do drugs or anything and i have always remained a 2nd position holder in my entire life until i failed twice. My parents are at a point where they dont believe in me anymore. Is there still hope for some success? I really dont know!
smokie199212 1 year ago
@smokie199212 Its never too late for anyone. When I was in tenth grade I got a car and was hanging w/ the wrong crowd. I barely went to school & earned only 1 1/2 credits. Then I decided that I had to change. From that point on I let nothing get in my way of achieving my goals. This led to great success. U & I are no different. U have to decide that what you've been doing is just not good enough. No one can save U but U. No 1 can, & no 1 will. U have to save yourself. Tell me how U do. Hooman
HoomanCan 1 year ago
Ccayco,
It seems like you are going through some tough times in your life?
Persistence can never deal with failure. If you want something bad enough, failure will never be an option for you. Make your desired outcome your obsession and failure will never even cross your mind. But with your approach, you are letting your past failures get in the way of your growth & progress. You fail before you begin because of the fact that you are even considering failure.
HoomanCan 2 years ago
So if all your options are gone after you've given them all your best, and you're still nowhere... that's called failing. But I like that ppl think a positive outlook will give positive results... because it's amusing to watch the denial set in about how much of failures we are.
ccayco 2 years ago
Ummm alrite but if I know that i gave my 100 % and / or i did everything right.. hw can i change my approach.
Should I change myself either to please someone or sell out?
gothicgarden2006 2 years ago
When Thomas Edison was inventing electricity he failed over 10,000 times. Do you think he was giving it 100%? I bet he did, but he had not discovered a way to achieve the results that he desired. Instead of quitting like many would have done. He was committed to succeeding because he was going to try and try until he invented electricity. Never do anything to ever sell out,
Remember you can achieve anything you believe. The question is, do you believe in yourself?
Hooman Hamzehloui
HoomanCan 2 years ago
thank you ver much! this was great! I'm going to do this thing i'm struggling with! and give it my all! I have not failed! i'm learning and growing! :)
operaman20 2 years ago