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  • I'd rather be beautiful then alive... </3

  • I've cut, and starved myself....I'm trying to stop now, because the guy I love wants me to be better...

  • @XCheriCataztropheX Good Luck!

  • Story of my life. I'd rather be beautiful than alive....

  • She didnt rather want to be beautiful than alive, she wanted to be good enough...

  • Oh Yaaay Top comment, im cool ;D^^^

  • this is gunna be my brother in a few years. To my parents: just because he's overweight dosen't mean he dosen't have an eating disorder. So I guess I'm left to watch him starve to death

  • It's not that I'd rather be beautiful than alive it's just... I can't stop..... I just can't. I'm "too far in the wrong direction" already.

  • For the sake of my family, for the sake of my friends, for the sake of keeping people reading this comment from headdesking, I'm proudly saying I'd rather be alive than beautiful. :)

  • I hate myself. I hate myself so much my dad just died. I throw up everyday I cant stop from eating so I have to throw up even more. Guys only like me for my body which I have to work SO hard to keep skinny. I cut all the time it was 5 days today and I just fucking ruined it

  • @Libbymariehaw I'm so sorry for your loss...God loves you for who you are, you are worth sooo much to Him... :)

  • @sweetiepie944eva Thanks,,,,,, and yeah.........i guess

  • @Libbymariehaw He does :) His love is perfect...and He made you, so you are beautiful and when you let Him save you and make you perfect on the inside nothing else matters...not what anyone says, or thinks can change how much He cares and how beautiful you ALREADY are in His eyes :)

  • @sweetiepie944eva When I LET him save me? NOTHING IS STOPPING HIM

  • @Libbymariehaw You have to let Him in your heart, because He gave us all the choice whether or not to let Him in, that's all I meant :) He won't force Himself on you :) He wants you to bring all your troubles and cares to Him but He won't make you :)

  • @sweetiepie944eva I pray ALL the time. it never matters

  • @Libbymariehaw Sometimes it feels like God doesn't hear me, and sometimes I don't get a clear answer to my prayers, but I have seen so many prayers answered...It does matter. Bad things happen, and it is really really hard to understand sometimes, but God doesn't make those things happen and He doesn't want them to. I know He loves you...I don't know how to explain it, but He loves you so much. I think we go through hard times so we can understand how strong we are with Him. :)

  • @sweetiepie944eva Idk... every day gets worse and worse.....

  • @Libbymariehaw Keep praying...Don't give up on Him :) I will pray for you everyday!! I put a sticky note on my computer!! :)...Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me. (Psalm 23:4)

  • @sweetiepie944eva Awwh. Ok thank you (;

  • @Libbymariehaw ;) No thanks needed, but you are very welcome!...I prayed for you already today!!

  • @sweetiepie944eva Awwh , Thanks AGAIN ;D

  • @Libbymariehaw ;D yourwelcome!!!...AGAIN! ;)

  • I think that every single person is beautiful. You don't have to be beautiful outside but it's the person inside you that matter. ( sorry bad english)

  • isn't it so funny how the people who aren't beautiful or believe they aren't want to be beautiful so much and hate themselves to death because they're not perfect, and the people that are beautiful hate it and wish they weren't because nobody'll ever look past their looks...

  • @DreamLikehDeCookie eveery beautiful person I know loves it

  • i think the 1,2,3,4 part kinda ruined it....but other than that OMGGGG I LOVE THIS SONG <333

  • @zebra3775 i disagree

  • I want to be beauitufl...I'll do anything to be pretty.

  • 15 but not looking back (:

  • I think this song is linked to BDD, Body Dismorphia Disorder, where someone could be so pretty but the person themselves would become so determined to change all the little things they hate about themselves and won't stop until they believe they're perfect. Most people who have BDD, if they don't get help, they could actually resort to try and do surgery on themselves. I've read some pretty grim articles about it . . .but yeah great song, very moving :)

  • This song... my lifeeeee.

  • I Love this song, soo much the top comments are a contradiction haha, But I go through this too, and I DO put my feelings on YouTube because its easier than telling people who REALLY know you

  • Rosalien, I freaking loved you. Why did you leave me? 11-12-'09

  • the most important thing to do is stick together and try to find help and get better; because thats the best answer to our problems. We have to remember we aren't alone and that someone, somewhere, loves us for who we are!

  • I have a feeling a lot of people who listen to this song are for real going through something hard; whether it has to do with eating disorders or any other form of depression. Well so am I! I'm depressed and hate my body... and as much as it hurts it's nice to know that I'm not alone! That there are others...

  • @WrittenDeep Of course your not silly :P there are now over 7 billion people on earth, NEVER think you're alone in anything you do or are going through :)

  • @HawkWhisper23 Youtube or yourself? weather you say anything about it on youtube or not if you truly do hate your appearence and have this serious disease you wouldn't NOT have it after telling people about it on youtube, i understand that you're venting and it may make you feel better but really? Youtube or yourself?.....i support you but that statement confuses me.

  • I don't struggle with the same thing that comes to everyone's mind when they hear this song. However I do struggle with Depression and Bipolar disorder (I am not medicated yet). I think that this song can help anyone because even though I am not physically doing anything damaging I still hate myself. I know some people go on here for sympathy but this is not one of those. I don't care if anyone cares I just want people to know that all people with mental complications can benefit from this song.

  • This song, oh my god.

  • Is it awesome or awesome ?

    I think its awesome...!

    <3 :o)

  • Aww. ):

  • @HawkWhisper23 Don't listen to her, if you need to get something out you should be able to vent where you like. It's better then holding it in. If you need to talk, and this goes for ANYONE, message me.

  • i want to be beautiful and skinny..but it takes a long way and pain to get there

  • I'm scared. I'm only 15. I know it's only the beginning. I don't want this, but i can't help it. What do i do?

  • @WhoKnowsNow9 well it would help if you talk to a very trusted friend jus someone who knows you as a person

  • I'd rather be beautiful then alive, I'd rather be anything then alive.

  • Everyone is beautiful<3

  • this is sooooo meh i listen 2 this song everyday even though it makes meh cry....<3

  • he loves her.....he broke my heart but im neva gonna be like her....in my opinion shes ugly but to him shes beautiful how can i look like her maybe he will love me properly?

  • love this song. <3

  • this song is my life thank you for shaing who sings it? thank you

  • She'd rather be beautiful than alive.

  • No one understands, Call me a drama queen, Go ahead! aint like its the first time i've been called names before..but everyday, I think "ew, who is that bitch?" "gross" :((( I tried OD, tried to cut myself,tried to do ANOREXIA! nothing worked.

  • @boogiegirl123 Dear, i understand...i have depression and have tried to kill myself 4 times, tried to over dose,have cut myself many times,and i have a problem with not eating as much as i should....if you ever need someone to talk to i'm here.

  • @TheSilentwolfgirl666 thank you<3 if you need me im here too! we are all family on here<3

  • @boogiegirl123 that's so true

  • Why are all the stereotypical pretty girls blonde with blue eyes? I'm blonde too, green eyes, and I'm not exactly breaking necks, y'know. And most of my crushes are going out with brunettes.

  • Why is every beautiful girl or plastic girl described with blue eyes and blonde hair?

  • @xgoodgirl1114xx THANK YOU SO MUCH STRANGERS WHO CAN SEE ME OR EVEN KNOW ME HELP ME EVERYDAY UR A ANGEL THANK U SO SO MUCH *CRYS HAPPY*

  • @dzzytyler235 im here for u, i feel like i can somewhat understand

  • THIS IS ME 15 UGLY AS ANYTHING FAT NO FRIENDS MOTHER HATES ME FOR BEING FAT IF I HAD A ED MABYE SHE LOVE ME OR CARE I WISH I HAD A POSTIVE OUTLOOK ON MY LIFE AM I WRONG

  • @dzzytyler235 we are all here for u, if it makes a difference, we all want to help eachother. my mom hates me because of my ed, mainly because she feels the need to eat for me. making her gain weight so she says its my fault. sometimes we feel like there's no other way out. this is a way to control something in our lives. but pls dont do this to urself.... im here for u

  • I'm 15 and I'm 5'6 and 130 pounds and most of the time when i look in the mirror I see something I hate. Someone who just can't be skinny to save her life. I want to be small... so bad

  • So the girl that never thought she'd break..broke. And when she broke a thousand tears slipped from her eyes and ran down her cheeks. Caught with the scars of past memories, shes terrified of what happens next in this messed up world thats always against her..

  • @forever2361 i know what its like to break. but with a single friend, i pulled myself back up. life is a tight rope, all we can do is walk it. its scary, we cry because we are afraid, because of memories of past falls, its our choice to get back up, and our right to have a safety net. ill be your safety net for u if u want me too, because u deserve one.

  • @xgoodgirl1114xx thankyou, so much. means a lot to me. and your defiantly right.

  • Everyone is beautiful! Make up does nothing but cover up your natural beauty, not eating does nothing but starve you! Cutting just chips away at your soul! Just stay beautiful...stay YOU!!! xxx

  • I'm not an attention whore . I'm far from it . But i refuse to look in the mirror anymore cause when I do I wont stop looking and I'll critisize myself . If your beautiful , just stop please

  • @LadyAlexiasWorld anorexia is about control not food she's starving herself to control the pain...it's a phycological disorder not a choice... get educated before u say stupid stuff

    

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  • Wauw..

  • I hate it when people find songs like these and make shit up, like unicornheart99 'Go ahead and tell me I'm beautiful, I won't believe you.' Fuck you. I dont know if they are making it up, but I sure as hell know that anyone who does shouldn't be seeking attention on fucking youtube. I dont have an eating disorder or anything. I do not like the way I look, I dont like alot of things but I dont act all 'woe is me' about it. Anyone who does needs a good kick in the ass.

    Screw all of the fakers.

  • Dieses Lied hat eine wichtige Bedeutung für mich..! :o) <3

  • Suffered with anorexia for 5 years, it's not about eating anyway. It's having control on something you can't control. When you continue for too long, it will control you.

    Secretly I don't believe it's a disease. You've created it by yourself so you will get better by yourself. It's possible, Something you've created can be destroyed. So never give up hope. Never.

  • For all youwho are just on here attention seeking, 'go ahead tell me im beautiful I won't believe you' etc, just shut the fuck up. you have no idea what its like to have to wake up hating everything about yourself and everything else - you hate your body, your face, your skin, your clothes, your life. you would do anything to be beautiful. you're addicted its a disease. you want to be different. you'd do anything. people who have been through this dont broadcast it all over youtube. so fuck off.

  • @MisherMasherMan .....bout damn time someone said this. you, my friend, are my hero :)

  • @MisherMasherMan How do you know they have no idea what it's like? Maybe they feel the exact same way. Don't judge. And if your calling them attention seekers then I guess your the same way considering your saying stuff like that too...

  • @MisherMasherMan Thank you for making me feel insignificant. You have no clue the shit I go through in my life, I have the idea and the feeling of waking up everyday hating everything about myself and you know what? Sometimes I take my feelings out on Youtube. It's either Youtube or myself. People don't know me so it makes me feel like I won't be judged as hard, is that so bad? Does that make me an attention whore? You know nothing about the people you're addressing, so think next time.

  • @HawkWhisper23 You probably don't even know who the fuck you're adressing either, so maybe you should shut the fuck up, eh? Maybe they're going through the same thing as you, YOU NEVER KNOW! So maybe YOU should shut the fuck up.

  • @LeeWongChineseMafia1 Erm...Okay. Yell at me all you want, I had an opinion and I spoke it. Don't be such a jerk, you don't even know me.

  • @HawkWhisper23 I wasn't yelling at you, and I wasn't being a jerk I was simply stating that maybe instead of "yelling" at other people you should think, eh? Ya, I agree. >_>

  • @LeeWongChineseMafia1 I did, I put a lot of thought into what I said. Not just for me but for multiple people....

  • @HawkWhisper23 He said "for all of you who are attention seeking", seeing as you say you're not, that doesn't apply to you does it?

  • @MisherMasherMan tad bit hypocritical. 

  • @MisherMasherMan Harsh.

  • @tattootigerchoc Also true.

  • @crazysgirl49 I dunno. Don't want to start arguing, but it's fair to say that without knowing how people feel, eg. being that person, you can't say how they feel. Some people do, after all, find it easier to say how they feel to strangers because those strangers don't know them personally. So...it is kinda harsh. :-(

  • @TheGrinningHippo I never said it wasn't harsh. Just that it's true. For the most part at least.

  • @MisherMasherMan I know this is how i feel :(

    Even if you was like right pretty and so skinny . it wont make you beautiful , because theres loads of skinny and pretty girls out there . You wouldnt be the only one so i kinda think about that nd that lets me down even more and im so angry because i wanna be so special and one of a kind . But urghhh , for fu** sake :@

  • @MisherMasherMan I always hated keeping things to myself. Youtibe is the only place I can say what I feel and not get into any sort of problem. Plus you just told alot of people. That must mean you dont have it because that is what you just said. You know nothing about me. You dont know what its like to be me. Its so hard. Dont tell me I am not feeling what I do just because I express it.

  • @lovetakeslove exactly -_____- Its easier to tell people anonymously

  • Go ahead tell me i'm beautiful, I won't believe you

  • @unicornheart99 yup my fiance tells me i am but I still hate what I see in the mirror

  • for those whom have never experienced such a deep hatred for how you look, how you act, and whom you are, then shut the hell up.

    you dont know what its like to live each day, unable to see the next.

    until you've been there; cutting, not eating, purging, and crying each day, then there is no way you could ever understand.

    the only thing you can do is help, and try not to judge.

    we dont ask to be this way, society creates us.

  • I cant believe people who say "Why don't people just eat?" "Anarexia is not a disease, it's mind created and can be controlled." People suffer and suffer day by day. People DIE! People NEED HELP. Sounds like a disease to me. :(

  • this song is me.. :(

  • This song is for everyone.

  • 5'4 130 gonna try dieting again... i hate this cycle :(

  • I'm 15 and i'm 5'5 and 115 pounds. I feel ugly and kind fat. I have ednos :(

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  • Insecurities are about as useful as trying to put the pin back in the grenade♥

  • You want to be beautiful. You want to be perfect. You want people to like you. You want to like yourself. Stop trying. You'll never be beautiful. You'll never be perfect. You'll never be liked. You'll never like yourself. Eating disorders will eat you from the inside out. You'll only be beautiful and liked when you realise that you can't be anyone but yourself. Love yourself, smile, be happy. Nobody is beautiful quite like you are. Love your inner and outer beauty, don't destroy it.

  • you're all gorgeous. don't ever change for anyone else<3

  • Each and every one of you has a small, often hidden something inside of you that has kept you alive this far, it could be your inner strength or the fire inside of you that makes you really stubborn at times, hold/focus onto it because its there for a reason. You all deserve to be loved, my advice is hang onto life, use your imagination to imagine yourself in 10 years watching your loved ones grow older, sharing a hug, a giggle... I never thought I'd see today so talk to someone. u are not alone

  • Im reading a book about an anorexic girl (Ive had an eating disorder for over a year now) and my boyfriend took the book from me at lunch and said I had to eat to get the book.He didnt mean it in a mean way he just wanted me to eat..I almost cried and we almost got into a fight bc I wouldnt eat and got the book back.."For everything thats wrong in life looks in the mirror to critize rather be beautiful then alive" ....Makes me wanna cry.

  • "Twenty three, now she's buried underneath red roses." I really wanna cry..

  • shes convinced herself he'll come back when she's perfect<3

    i go on walks/runs every day.

    i barely eat.

    he loves me, but i dont love myself..

    help??

  • @mickeyandbubbles If you need someone to talk to im here!!! you can message me if you want!!

  • @lovePINK1117 message me first please...

  • "maybe she's happy now

    maybe she's finally free."

    no one understands that...

  • "She'd do anything to catch his eye, but she knows she'll never compare..." I wanna be beautiful like her. i'll do anything. i run everyday, i never eat, and i wear makeup. I'll never compare

  • Unfortunatly, I'd rather be beautiful than alive too. ): I wanna beat this, but it's just so hard. /: I try so hard every day to change but it just isn't working...

  • i love this song so much, it's beautiful <3 does anyone know where i can get the chords for it?

  • @RainbowsnailXD try ultimate-guitar website (just google it can't post a link :) )

  • Rather be beautiful and dead than alive and fat with all the people looking down on you and bullying you and everything : /

  • I just want to beautiful...

    Less food ,

    More makeup ,

    More cuts

    More scars

    More hurt

    More pain . .

  • i used to think i looked really bad then one day i realized because of a friend i was beautiful but i lost that friend now i look at my reflection and i look fat and ugly and idc what people say thats what i see there is no help for me. i dont know what to do i just sit in my room and cry at night because it seams no matter what i do i am always gonna be ugly

  • My family, since I'm 6 have been telling me I'm fat, ugly & that I'm no one just cause I'm not like many of the girls around(you know, skinny & "perfect")I'm different, & they just can´t get it, I learned to don't pay attention to what people think or says about me, I like to decide who I am by myself;I told a friend how I think, cause she was anorexic & I wanted to help her, & she says I saved her life, so I feel proud of myself and for being who I am, even though my family is not. :)

  • I don't like this guy...

  • crying... same as me i rather be beautiful than alive evry time i look in the mirror i look ... ugly people always say to me it counts what is on the inside but that makes me feel like they r agreeing with me that i am fat ugly inside and out manly out i starting not eating 3 days ago to be honest it isnt so bad and every time i look at the scale i see loss weight fast i have lost 8 pounds but i need to loos a hundred so i can weigh 60 pounds when i am 13 which is 1 year and 5 days away! :'( :'(

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  • Respond to this video... that isnt how eating disorders work.. it doesnt just suddenly happen

  • @SuperKendralicious no i meant for 1 year i didnt eat 3 days i tried but just counldnt eat

  • @funnytime1231 oh.. it makes u feel good huh

  • @SuperKendralicious I know, right?

  • @funnytime1231 <3 if u wanna talk u can message me.

  • If you write on here about having an ED, then you probably do not have one. People with ED keep it hidden. Its part of the disease. So quite making up these bullshit stories about EDs, like some attention crazed teenager. Do your research and you will learn that there is way more to it than the want to be skinny. Its a real DISEASE! Not a joke.

  • @shelbylaura90 definitely agree with you there =D

  • @shelbylaura90 you're wrong. don't call anyone's story bullshit. just because they can talk about it doesn't mean they don't have a disease.

  • @shelbylaura90 i agree!!

  • she'd rather be beautiful than alive. That's so me. I dont eat anything and when i even smell food cooking or anything i feel like i just gained 10 pounds so i make myself puke.

  • If any of you need someone to talk to im here!! Just message me!!

  • i was doing really well, then my parents intervened. they took me to some therapist and doctor and they wont let me play soccer, or go out or do anything that i dont have to do. they tell me everyday that if i skip even one meal they're going to put me in the hospital, all this just because i want to be beautiful....

  • @xgoodgirl1114xx I don't have an ED, but I have a mental disorder, and I know what it's like for your parents to say 'do this or we'll put you in a hospital'. I hope you get better soon. :) <3

  • ive been saying my appetitie is being weird lately. . . just so i dont have to eat as much. . today all i ate was a couple grapes and strawberrries for breakfast before cheerleading . . and a REALLYYYYYY small tv dinner thing. .

  • @mickeyandbubbles I'm here if u wanna talk.......

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  • Lol I almost binged and then I heard this and i was like ' Oh right. nevermind. I'd rather die than gain more weight..' I know I'm sick.. I just dont care??

  • @cocoacandi i feel the exact same way, i know its terrible for me and that im sick, but i honestly dont care.

  • I am always afraid my little sister will follow in my foot steps.. I have hid it from her and everyone else.. But someday.. I am afraid she will notice.. No eating.. Or hear me purging.. I don't want that ever to happen.. It's just so hard to stop..

  • @KyleA558

    I feel you girl D: I ahve 2 little sisters, 2 little brothers and an older brother. I'm so scared on of the other 5 will notice what I'm doing, my brother always calls me "Stupid bulimic whore" and when I don't eat he'll mock me on that... It hurts to swallow I've thrown up so much, I lost weight too fast and people are noticing my habits.... Message me if you wanna talk, I'll support you and I need someone who knows what it feels like...

  • @KokoroAiNeko Wow, I am so sorry. Your brother is kinda an ass.. It's just because he doesn't get it.. No one really does.. It hurts for me to swallow too and whenever I eat it makes me feel like I am going to throw up, People are noticing mine too.. But not to much I will for sure message you hun.

  • @KokoroAiNeko hey can we talk?

  • @favoriteGIRL7

    Sure, IM/PM me :)

  • there's alittle 10 year old girl who looks up to me. i have to hide from her because i dont want her thinking that its ok to stop eating. i kno i shud eat but i want to be thin.... forgive me emory <3

  • this almost made me cry. my best friend has anorexia and id really hate to see it progress any more that it has. i wish she would see that she is already beautiful and small and she doesnt need to be "perfect" for people to love her. she already has people who love her for who she is. being thin is not being perfect, it's unhealthy. i care too much about her to let it destroy her.

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  • subtitulada al español?? 

  • Its true though.. id rather be beautiful then be alive. <3

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  • I relate to this song and all, except I stop believing this song was partially made for 'me' or anybody 'relating to this song' when she says, '' she doesn't know she's beautiful. ''

  • This is just way too hard for me...

  • He called me Anarexic then Fat in one day..i only listened to the last one..

    I've been dieting for 6 months now..I wont eat..i tell my self i'll stop at 5 stone..thats half a stone more...I cant do this!

  • @randomemolol My ex did the same thing..

  • @Nyxgazer

    I guess guys aren't worth it but i was stoopid enough to listen to him :Z

  • this is by the falk...

  • she'd rather be beautiful then alive... hehe... :(

  • all the kids that make fun of me as a "joke" they have no clue what that can do to a teenage girls minde because if you hear it over and ove and over.....and over you start to belive it and start to see what they make fun of till you end up hateing yourself every day

  • seven years ago when you have seen her you would never know! :(

  • no offence intended but the type of beauty that i see you referring to is all external i'm not saying that having some self respect and caring for the body you have been given is a bad thing but if you are only focused on the exterior and especially if you are doing that for a guy in my opinion hes most likely not worth it or you because he can't see how many great qualities you have nor how much you care all he is looking at is the outside and you are so much more you are passionate & unique

  • This song reminds me of myself. I'll never be happy with how I look

  • i ran away last night for some stupid reason because i had a shrink appt last night and i didnt no what to do because they all have trown me into a hospital and when i got home my parents yelled at me for hours. they were saying that i was destroying my family with all my "fake problems" and that i was crazy and had no friends or family that loved me. and now i have to pay for my own clothes and food. i just dont know what to do any more.i want to stop, but i cant