"Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
To all the people who come on here to bash someone for being gay: get a life. Do you honestly have nothing better to do with your time? If not, I'm sorry for you but it's tough for people to come on here and talk about things, so I have total respect for them for that. Keep up the good work!
I think it'great you made this video.. These things are kinda personal.. I like the way you don't seem to be a stereotype.. which is not wrong offcourse!! But not all gays in "our community" are like that.. So thanks for that..
And.. in some weird way, your face reminds me of Jake Gyllenhaal.. lol..
@coolkid00761@stoodOnAnArk My friend, let no one tell you that in G-Ds' eyes you are anything but beautiful and precious! You are part of his creation, gay or straight and I care deeply for your well being! For I am my brothers' keeper! Had I possessed the wherewithal to speak these words to my boyfriend, Bobby (Prayers for Bobby) when we were young, he might be among us today! I salute your courage and integrity! May G-D Bless You! Blaine
Thank you so much! Your story is helping me a lot. I'm a junior in high school and am definitely not ready to come out to my parents right now but my sis is so cool with having a gay brother. And she and all my friends love for who I am. And I'm blessed by god for that. But I feel so much more comfortable with myself. You look kinda like Jake gyllenhaal in this vid. You're gorgous!
God still loves you. Believe it. The love of God and your sexuality are not at opposite ends. And another human being cannot speak for God and tell you otherwise. Press onward EVERY day...bypass haters.
one of my best friends who's very christian is trying to convince me that i'm straight, even though i've been gay since i was 12. she has helped me discover god, but she has also told me that it is a SIN for me to be in a relationship with another guy, sexual or not sexual. as the bible says "you shall not lie with a man as you would a woman. that is a hateful sin" but how can it be a sin if i CAN'T lie with a woman in that way? i mean, god still loves me no matter WHO i love on earth, right?
@ihatepop77 yes God loves you but it won't reach you not until you repent and turn from your wicked way.. otherwise you will be forever damned in hell because of homosexuality.. there is still time for you to repent
Asakura810, let me educate you in the facts. Homosexuality is not a "sin", and will not stop anyone from entering heaven. God creates, loves, and keeps homosexuals right here on His planet, as part of His divine plan for mankind. Ignorant men, deluded by Satan, have always tried to spread prejudice against sexual, racial, and religious minorities, but it is people like that who displease the Lord, and will have a hard time time Him on judgment day. I hope you see the light and repent in time.
@GodCreatesGays2 let me educate you too.. what ignorance you have there... here what 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says.."neither sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitute nor HOMOSEXUAL offenders nor thieves... will go to heaven" God clearly stated that homosexuals will not go to heaven.. if you say i am a liar, you also say that God's word is not credible.. go out of your gayness for repentance and God's mercy is still at hand
Asakura810, the men who wrote, edited, and (mis)translated the Bible got it wrong. You can listen to them or you can listen to God. Personally, I choose the Lord, but, of course, you are free to let confused men influence you..
@GodCreatesGays2 you are the one confused here.. that is the WORD of GOD that was passed on from generation to generation, if you wish to believe that being gay would not bring you to hell then let it be,it's your choice, but the Word of God clearly states that you will be damned to hell.. be wise on your choice... so where is your another version of bible?? i'm so curious about it..lol
Asakura810, let me correct you.. It's the word of MEN who purport to speak for God, which has been passed down from generation to generation. We know the Bible is full of myths, mistakes, and mistranslations; the idea that being gay is a "sin" is but one blunder. There was no word for homosexuality in the original languages and texts, and the word "homosexual" was only inserted into Bibles in 1946, revealing that it was only modern man's agenda and confusion that lead to all this mess.
@GodCreatesGays2 actually there was homosexuality in the bible in leviticus.. "If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination." (Leviticus 20:13) if they have been mistaken in Corinthians, would you still think that this law of God is also incorrect? wake up young lad.. hallucination is over... quit on justifying your sin
@GodCreatesGays2 here's another one. "If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination." (Leviticus 20:13) stop your delusion and repent!
really beautiful what you do on this video and I hope that you will have helped several other young person like you, I discovered my homosexuality at 15 years old and I have to keep for me during 22 years, at 22 years I tried the suicide but that did not function and today I would love helped the young person who live the same thing, cheer for what you do and enjoy life, takes care of you Chris
Your video is still being useful to many guys, I can see... It's very honest and very reflective, 'cause it's not the typical yesterday-I-came-out-story, full of drama (I do not blame them, though); yours, instead, is a serene-analysis-of-past-facts: much more conclusive.
You're a great loving guy. May you have all the luck ;)
It does help to have other people's stories. I've been addicted to these YouTube coming out stories for the past few days as I've started to tell my friends. Thanks, I don't think I could have enough courage without examples like yours.
do i need to come out if i'm bi? or is that considered gay too?
personally i think that everyone is gay or has gay moments. i think it's a natural benefit and it lingers in everyone's mind. it's easier for females to come out cuz they are gentle recievers and us men are the virgin takers.
unfortunately i cannot come out yet. when i do i will leave a video report.'
You don't need to come out of the closet either. You can just be yourself, and if ever someone asks you, you may be honest and answer them with the truth, or rather tell them "fuck off! it's none of your business", depending on the circumstances. Suerte ;)
Alaxazazel, Please come to this video "my coming out story-part 1" and locate MexicanCricket7's comment. I marked it as spam by mistake. Can you unmark it? My cursor was located right on top of "spam" and when I wanted to move it his comment was marked as spam. I was unable to unmark it. Thanks buddy!
wastedredhead-- Creation came before the Fall in the Garden. From the Fall until Christ's Resurrection, nothing was as God fully intended upon Creation. Now that Jesus is in the picture, it's time to be gracious.
You are partially right about your first point... you don't find out, you know from the time you have cognisant thought. It's like finding out you have fingernails or a nose. I'm not sure what you mean about physically impossible. It might be the fact that there's no punctuation.
your video reminds me of me cause a year ago i discovered i was gay and i would pray and bargain with god.... i told him i would stop watching gay porn and everything....
The genuineness and quiet confidence of your delivery is remarkable. You've transcended a crippling self-rejection to reach a state of enlightenment about yourself and the world around you. It's very difficult to reflect on the painful memories of your past, but you've done so with such strength and bravery. Through your courage I have found courage - courage to face myself and ultimately society to live the happy life that I deserve. You have given me hope. And for that, I'm eternally grateful.
Have to commend you man, Im female, straight and being straight feels normal to me, as I feel attracted to men, normal is of course, different to each person, but if the whole world was this stereotypical "normal" the world would be a really boring place. You also had the courage to let everybody know who you were and what you liked online, that is a strength that not many people in your situation would have. Fair play :) xx Fiona
Thank you for sharing, I have only come out to friends and I'm 22. I still don't want to tell my parents, I think they'd accept it, but I don't feel its the right time.
I recognise the things you mention in this video, and on't mind those other comments, the statistics doesn't matter anyway, it's the reason you are making this video!
Speaking for myself and lots others, thank you for making this video! ^^
all of the tags to this video are related to homosexuality, so if memais50 is not gay (which i'm not suggesting he is), then he is just looking through coming out videos to write, ignorant, bitchy comments to make himself feel more secure.
you wish that i was a fagget, but i'm not, so shut the fuck up about your closet. And i saw just the title of this nasty video. You homos are a treath for the humankind. I piss on all of you.
you fakking fagget, i didnt surch for this nasty video, it was next to a other video i i was watching, and i clicked on it so i could post a comment here to tell all you discusting gays how nasty and discusting you are, so go now and fuck your father, that's what your like isnt it?
Thank you so much chris. you have to be very brave to do this. i didn't see this before i came out to my first person, but still, i think that this is a great resource. Thanks!
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God
hey you get a life! this man is trying to a man by accepting his other part. bet u cant do that because you think shit! can't yoube empathic? ofcourse you cant, airheaD.
Excuse me? This dumbass, ewyatt, is saying gays go to hell. I think you thought I was calling Coolkid00761 a peice of shit, but I wasn't. I'm gay myself. Couldn't you tell it was a reply since it was below the comment I was replying to?!
I used to have the same thoughts. I would also pray to God to take this "curse" away from me. I also had a lot of issues with depression because I could not accept that I way gay. It helps to know that someone else went through the same thing
I am a Christian going through a very similar phase and let me tell you if you invite Jesus into your life you will never be lonely. I still have trouble accepting it, but I chose to give over my life to Jesus and I fight it every day. God Bless You Man!
Thanks. You're really doing people a favor by facing the adversity and telling your story. :] I came out a year ago, and I can really relate to a lot of what you're saying. :]
Thank you for coming out. At one point you will encounter a crossroads in your life and you have the choice to accept what you are or not. Your just trying to be true to yourself. I have done similar years back and I dont look back at it. I'm proud of what I am and looking forward to what it brings. There are PLU in this world. So I salute you and welcome you all.
So true, my dear. He probably wants you to do it. After all, it's quite clear from his comments that his brain isn't all that big and leaves him plenty of blood leftover for a constant erection. xD.
Look at Roman times. Check any history book. They were perfectly fine and open with being homosexual. It's sick, twisted, hateful fucks like you that make it so hard to be open about it. You should do yourself a favor and stop being a bitch.
And who are you to be making those claims? Maybe being straight isn't normal? You're just siding with the majority. And the plain and simple truth is, YOU'RE not normal.
Seriously, the hatred of an ignorant asshole should be ignored. If all he has to do is come to negatively respond to comments that support something that is very hard to do, so be it. A med school student studying to be a surgeon? Sounds like a stupid, pathetic 13 year old boy who hasn't hit puberty yet. to be this obsessed with gay bashing is pretty sad. Honestly, if you've got nothing suportive to say, keep it to yourself. No one forced you to watch this after all.
Thank you love, and I agree, this gay bashing fucker is probably just some deeply closeted 13 year old boy who wants to make himself feel like he isnt gay by bashing us, just come out with it kid, seriously, and for the record- I may be gay but I can probably kick your sorry ass (And if not, my two girls can help me <3 Choke on those words bitch~
and you faggots have to constantly lie to yourselves to make yourselves feel normal when you arent and you never will be. i know you were born a fag, i know you cant help it. but you're an abberation of nature, an abomination. all you are is a defect. society doesnt want you, society doesn't need you. humanity would be better off WITHOUT you.
And humanity would be better with angry, rude, hateful freaks like you? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. I'm confident enough in my heterosexuality to be able to accept others, but clearly you aren't.
what if he did? that would mean he also created murderers, rapists, child molesters, people born with aids. so what are you tryin to say fag boy? is that ok too? should all those cursed abominations be able to live their life to the fullest by giving into their urges? hell no.
u dont need religion to hate fags. anyone with a brain knows what perversions are and faggotry is a perversion which offers nothing positive to culture or society.
Fag BOY? Excuse you? I'm female, thanks. And if he did...well, it looks like that says more about God than you're willing to admit.
Anyone with a brain would say you were being a jerk, by the way. Honesty. HOW is it a perversion? Because you don't like it? You're one person, dude. Society is becoming more accepting. You either join the rest of us or be forgotten.
Your getting desperate again I see, well if you do happen to kill one of us, two more will come in his place, where just awesome that way (By the way, dont threaten me because me and my FEMALE GIRLS will own you
i bet you have all this hatred becuz u cant get a girlfriend
-get over yourself
-u think tht bringing down gay people will make people like u? will make god like u?? god accepts every1 for who they are because he made them like that
-and if he made you as such prejudice bitch
then maybe YOU will go to hell?
-gay people arent the ones that deserve to go to hell, its people like u
-and if u reply bak say stfu fag or anything like tht then go online and find better comebacks
Chris I think your gift from God to share with us your coming out story. It takes a real man to be honest and happy with yourself. Being happy with who you are is all God wants. Your a real man my friend. Take care, and peace be with you.
hi chris,i tried to email you but everytime it turned out that the delivery failed , i don't know why, so i just type my question here, thanks.
nice of you sharing your experience.but coming out for me is not easy cause i am a chinese and you know things are not
easy here in my society. i just want to know that what you'll do with your life, the rest of your life after your coming out. and it may be helpful and useful to me. have a nice day!
so i suffer a lot in my life though it seems that i have friends and a happy life. i can't let people know it. you know, here is china things are harder. and really i admire you, you finally did it. maybe i will go away living in a place where nobody knows me and then be myself. it's tough and your video is something as a relief and comfort to me. so thanks. and hope get to know you more and communicate more if i may.
first, thanks for the video and i learn something which maybe is happening every second in the world.
well, i'm a fag, and for a long time i keep telling myself that i am not and hope everyday i wake up becoming straight like you do. gradually i found there may be a reason for being a gay,and it's who i am. i just can't change it and have to live with it maybe forever. i am a chinaman ,and things are not that easy with coming out. maybe i will have wife and kid, but inside i am still a gay.
Dude, I love you man, most of this story was like hearing my own story. Seriously the guilt you feel is just like a web of secrets, and it does feel good to tell someone. (And suicide had creeped into my head as well as the desire to be straight) but one last point I'd like to make is that it really is a time where you feel alone and scared, just telling one right person can really turn it all around.
you have alot of courage to put this online, you're awesome! =]
I think that you can be gay. I think you can be lesbian. I think you can be bi. I think you can be straight. Just whatever works for you! Homophobes are nosey people who nose around in other people's relationships cuz they have nothing better to do. Or they put people of a different sexual orientation down to make themselves feel good.
I believe that people should be able to have a relationship with whoever they want.
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ALL GAYS ARE GOING TO HELL. READ 1ST CORINTHIANS 6 VERSE 7
IIIIlllllll 3 months ago
Good for you. It's good to be honest, if not to others, then to yourself.
jdogno1 3 months ago
You're are very attractive *swoon
OldNewsThinker 5 months ago in playlist Coming Out
Hey I'm Chris too and I'm gay^ ^
myzackfair01 6 months ago
i knew i was gay when i kiss this girl i knew,and fealt nothing by it,but too this day we're stell best friends and shes married happly with a son
bigger4life 7 months ago
thanks we are
bigger4life 7 months ago
love is love no matter what gender.i thinks gays are the most unique people on the face of the earth.
90zkid07 9 months ago
That was beautiful. I was thinking of doing a coming out video as well. And I want my first girlfriend to be in it.
XnaruXsakuX16 11 months ago
you're cute! ;)
morsyid 1 year ago
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"Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
fruitycunt 11 months ago
To all the people who come on here to bash someone for being gay: get a life. Do you honestly have nothing better to do with your time? If not, I'm sorry for you but it's tough for people to come on here and talk about things, so I have total respect for them for that. Keep up the good work!
TheseWordsAreAndrews 1 year ago 2
Another beautiful gay love story:
Chrolli love story
You Tube clip with the title:
Christian & Oliver 04.04.08 English Subtitles Part 45
Rumake 1 year ago
I think it'great you made this video.. These things are kinda personal.. I like the way you don't seem to be a stereotype.. which is not wrong offcourse!! But not all gays in "our community" are like that.. So thanks for that..
And.. in some weird way, your face reminds me of Jake Gyllenhaal.. lol..
Wesley
JustMeWes 1 year ago
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fucking useless fags
DMMhelperspirit1of1 1 year ago
u look like someone i've seen before. i don't know..it's weird. lol btw...you're sooo cute!
Tony9712262 1 year ago
coolkid00761: YOU are ADORABLE! It is GLBT youth like YOU who are the hope of the future! Any parent would be LUCKY to have you as their child!
Keep being out and proud and THANK YOU for this video! YOU ARE SAVING LIVES!
Make yours an incredible life!
mnmanariesram 1 year ago
I think a lot of people can relate to your feelings of being different, and being gay. It's nothing to ever be ashamed of, you're not alone.
jtaellio11 1 year ago
lol im gay
jessexbraughton 1 year ago
STOP talking about god! you sound like he`s your best friend or something. fuck god!<------remember that!
KaloAngelTV 1 year ago
blainebill39 1 year ago
haha your cute lol
mrgoogoowants2doyou 1 year ago
I know that I have said this before but I feel I must say it again thanks for this video!
jimbobubbadj 1 year ago
Thank you so much! Your story is helping me a lot. I'm a junior in high school and am definitely not ready to come out to my parents right now but my sis is so cool with having a gay brother. And she and all my friends love for who I am. And I'm blessed by god for that. But I feel so much more comfortable with myself. You look kinda like Jake gyllenhaal in this vid. You're gorgous!
Green77Dragon 1 year ago
Were all faggots!
1. "You shall no longer call me master, but husband"
2. God is all things including faggots.
3. Woman is a genetically modified man, made from the rib of Adam.
4. C6 "Thou shalt not kill"
5. King James Bible commissioned by Homosexual King.
6. David of the Psalms deeply in love with Yahuah of hosts, yep dats God's name.
Look! Christendom pulls her nix down for all that is pagan. Call on Yahuah of hosts, protector of orphans of this world.
HallEluYah.
stoodOnAnArk 1 year ago
@stoodOnAnArk
I'm so pleased that you alluded to the well documented sexual proclivity
of James Stuart(King JamesI). People are so fond of citing scripture from their
KJV, and it was a stunning achievememt, but haven't a clue regarding its history!
Cheers!
Blaine
blainebill39 1 year ago
@blainebill39 It was often said in the streets "Here comes the Queen" and he loved it. So kamp.
Christians love a translation commissioned by a flamer. Don't you find that giggly and ironic?
God loves his little Gaybies.
Have you seen the movie "Prayers for Bobby" a brilliant film?
stoodOnAnArk 1 year ago
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@stoodOnAnArk
Just imagine this for the last reigning monarch, that weilded absolute power
in the UK!
I have yet to see"Prayers for Bobby", I'm mentioned in the original biography!
Just the existence of the movie has done a great deal to invigorate my
memories of Bobby as well as bring the discourse front and center!
Cheers!
Blaine
blainebill39 1 year ago
@stoodOnAnArk
That's fantastic! I've also read extant jokes that circulated among
all classes. After James elevated his "favorite", George Villiers and created him
Duke of Buckingham, the ribaldry increased. "Why does my Lord Buckingham
ejnoy such good favor from the King? Because his Magesty does enjoy ----ing him!
blainebill39 1 year ago
You are so hot!
comeoncomeflywithme 1 year ago
You are so cute. Oh and j have that shirt but only in red. Lol
ryansalvatore92 1 year ago
Jesus was gay silly closeted republican Latter Day Saints
atlantasinglemales 1 year ago
You are sooooo cute!
MRBBJC 1 year ago
Hi,Happy Valentine everyone..me still in the closet...T T
NutCrackerNuts 1 year ago
God still loves you. Believe it. The love of God and your sexuality are not at opposite ends. And another human being cannot speak for God and tell you otherwise. Press onward EVERY day...bypass haters.
flenif2247 2 years ago 6
one of my best friends who's very christian is trying to convince me that i'm straight, even though i've been gay since i was 12. she has helped me discover god, but she has also told me that it is a SIN for me to be in a relationship with another guy, sexual or not sexual. as the bible says "you shall not lie with a man as you would a woman. that is a hateful sin" but how can it be a sin if i CAN'T lie with a woman in that way? i mean, god still loves me no matter WHO i love on earth, right?
ihatepop77 2 years ago
god loves us no matter what! amen dude!
ferret22222 2 years ago
@ihatepop77 yes God loves you but it won't reach you not until you repent and turn from your wicked way.. otherwise you will be forever damned in hell because of homosexuality.. there is still time for you to repent
asakura810 1 year ago
Asakura810, let me educate you in the facts. Homosexuality is not a "sin", and will not stop anyone from entering heaven. God creates, loves, and keeps homosexuals right here on His planet, as part of His divine plan for mankind. Ignorant men, deluded by Satan, have always tried to spread prejudice against sexual, racial, and religious minorities, but it is people like that who displease the Lord, and will have a hard time time Him on judgment day. I hope you see the light and repent in time.
GodCreatesGays2 1 year ago 2
@GodCreatesGays2 let me educate you too.. what ignorance you have there... here what 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says.."neither sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitute nor HOMOSEXUAL offenders nor thieves... will go to heaven" God clearly stated that homosexuals will not go to heaven.. if you say i am a liar, you also say that God's word is not credible.. go out of your gayness for repentance and God's mercy is still at hand
asakura810 1 year ago
Asakura810, the men who wrote, edited, and (mis)translated the Bible got it wrong. You can listen to them or you can listen to God. Personally, I choose the Lord, but, of course, you are free to let confused men influence you..
GodCreatesGays2 1 year ago 3
@GodCreatesGays2 you are the one confused here.. that is the WORD of GOD that was passed on from generation to generation, if you wish to believe that being gay would not bring you to hell then let it be,it's your choice, but the Word of God clearly states that you will be damned to hell.. be wise on your choice... so where is your another version of bible?? i'm so curious about it..lol
asakura810 1 year ago
Asakura810, let me correct you.. It's the word of MEN who purport to speak for God, which has been passed down from generation to generation. We know the Bible is full of myths, mistakes, and mistranslations; the idea that being gay is a "sin" is but one blunder. There was no word for homosexuality in the original languages and texts, and the word "homosexual" was only inserted into Bibles in 1946, revealing that it was only modern man's agenda and confusion that lead to all this mess.
GodCreatesGays2 1 year ago
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@GodCreatesGays2 actually there was homosexuality in the bible in leviticus.. "If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination." (Leviticus 20:13) if they have been mistaken in Corinthians, would you still think that this law of God is also incorrect? wake up young lad.. hallucination is over... quit on justifying your sin
asakura810 1 year ago
@GodCreatesGays2 here's another one. "If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination." (Leviticus 20:13) stop your delusion and repent!
asakura810 1 year ago
I find it peculiar that gays or anything other than strict heterosexuals need a coming out story, if not a little bit sad.
A heterosexual does not need to "come out" and say, I think I like the opposite sex. You guys have my full support.
shiningfantasia 2 years ago 9
Your story is very similar to mine. I came out to my mom a few months ago.
oscarrs13 2 years ago 2
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AIDs please do NOT come out no one likes you when you are gay
popolynn2 2 years ago
BRAVO DUDE!
You are literally speaking my story.
vegasbaby92 2 years ago 3
Thank you for sharing. I'm straight but I'm really just trying to understand. The world is changing and I really need to try to understand.
cmwill0 2 years ago 5
his sooo adorable. i agree with you checkmate77777.
MrVersus001 2 years ago
Well done! Terrific! It is wonderful that you are sharing this very personal story!
God Bless,
A Gay Christian Pastor
LAFOF0238 2 years ago 3
@LAFOF0238 Lord have mercy on you . Woe to you if you do not repent.
noel720104 1 year ago
The Bible has no baring anyone else's lives who don't subscribe to that,So BACK OFF YOU CLOSET HOMO!
ryukage99 1 year ago
Good grief... "Work out your own salvation" (or can you not read the Bible?
LAFOF0238 1 year ago
i commend you for coming out. the story needs to be told. i came out in 1999 and everything is ok.
jimbobubbadj 2 years ago 2
this guy is adorable
checkmate7777777 2 years ago 5
I really need to come out. I need help! I hate not being myself.
TheJoshanderson192 2 years ago 3
im exactly the same way, i want to tell everyone i know and yet i am also too embarrased
dan22695 2 years ago
really beautiful what you do on this video and I hope that you will have helped several other young person like you, I discovered my homosexuality at 15 years old and I have to keep for me during 22 years, at 22 years I tried the suicide but that did not function and today I would love helped the young person who live the same thing, cheer for what you do and enjoy life, takes care of you Chris
Max
Maximd3 2 years ago 2
i pray but i never wanted to change
JPECHERSKY 2 years ago
I didnt have any problems because my parents wer elike super de duper hippies =)
I am like bi but i prefer women
alotofcheese76 2 years ago
Wow your story is just like mine. I grew up religiously also and prayed that God would take it away from me. Thank you for sharing....
swimmer35 2 years ago
Chis your comming out story will help alot of people. i belive it.
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optimaloptimusprimus 2 years ago 2
I have that polo :D
AdamOnlineXII 2 years ago
OMG! My name is Chris Too!!!!!
OnlyChrisHere 2 years ago
Wow that is exactly how I felt that was my life almost exactly only except Jr. year just pasted still in the depression area........
AiRbenderg2 2 years ago
Your video is still being useful to many guys, I can see... It's very honest and very reflective, 'cause it's not the typical yesterday-I-came-out-story, full of drama (I do not blame them, though); yours, instead, is a serene-analysis-of-past-facts: much more conclusive.
You're a great loving guy. May you have all the luck ;)
alxazazel 2 years ago
It does help to have other people's stories. I've been addicted to these YouTube coming out stories for the past few days as I've started to tell my friends. Thanks, I don't think I could have enough courage without examples like yours.
Qarqara3 2 years ago 3
do i need to come out if i'm bi? or is that considered gay too?
personally i think that everyone is gay or has gay moments. i think it's a natural benefit and it lingers in everyone's mind. it's easier for females to come out cuz they are gentle recievers and us men are the virgin takers.
unfortunately i cannot come out yet. when i do i will leave a video report.'
i am 23 years old and in the closet
mexicancricket7 2 years ago
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umm every1 isnt gay and not everybody had or has gay moments im sorry but i think u must be fake or sumthing
xMxYxSxTxIxKxAxLx 2 years ago
You don't need to come out of the closet either. You can just be yourself, and if ever someone asks you, you may be honest and answer them with the truth, or rather tell them "fuck off! it's none of your business", depending on the circumstances. Suerte ;)
alxazazel 2 years ago
Alaxazazel, Please come to this video "my coming out story-part 1" and locate MexicanCricket7's comment. I marked it as spam by mistake. Can you unmark it? My cursor was located right on top of "spam" and when I wanted to move it his comment was marked as spam. I was unable to unmark it. Thanks buddy!
lexZender57732 2 years ago
I like your story. Yours is so much better than mine lol
nights2200 2 years ago 2
wastedredhead-- Creation came before the Fall in the Garden. From the Fall until Christ's Resurrection, nothing was as God fully intended upon Creation. Now that Jesus is in the picture, it's time to be gracious.
You are partially right about your first point... you don't find out, you know from the time you have cognisant thought. It's like finding out you have fingernails or a nose. I'm not sure what you mean about physically impossible. It might be the fact that there's no punctuation.
RealVikingsWearKilts 2 years ago
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you cant find out your gay its physicaly impossible God made adam and eve not adam and steve
wastedredhead 2 years ago
That is the most tired and moronic statement. Pull the bible out of your ass and use your own brain for once in your life.
tattooskin72 2 years ago 6
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put this story about Adam and Eve near Donald Duck on cartoons shelf.
NEOagainstSystem 2 years ago
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na its ok its the truth
wastedredhead 2 years ago
your video reminds me of me cause a year ago i discovered i was gay and i would pray and bargain with god.... i told him i would stop watching gay porn and everything....
joshisocoolike 3 years ago
"discovered"? I'm gay and I know it since Iwas born!!
AndersonAntichrist 3 years ago
How could you possibly know you were gay since you were born?
Do recall coming out of the vagina and looking at the doctor?
I know I don't.
apostolicguy89 2 years ago 5
me too, I've always being way, and I didn't discovered, I just was not aweare that htere was a term for my sexuality.
blackreazor 2 years ago
ive been watching many coming out videos to help me come out.... this video definetly helped me.... every video has helped me
joshisocoolike 3 years ago
You came out exactly the same time as me! We seem to have a similar past!
cmacle11 3 years ago
The genuineness and quiet confidence of your delivery is remarkable. You've transcended a crippling self-rejection to reach a state of enlightenment about yourself and the world around you. It's very difficult to reflect on the painful memories of your past, but you've done so with such strength and bravery. Through your courage I have found courage - courage to face myself and ultimately society to live the happy life that I deserve. You have given me hope. And for that, I'm eternally grateful.
gamesetmatchjlh 3 years ago 2
thanx for sharing, good job
markru79 3 years ago
I totally understand where you're coming from, I went through the same thing
Zanian 3 years ago
Have to commend you man, Im female, straight and being straight feels normal to me, as I feel attracted to men, normal is of course, different to each person, but if the whole world was this stereotypical "normal" the world would be a really boring place. You also had the courage to let everybody know who you were and what you liked online, that is a strength that not many people in your situation would have. Fair play :) xx Fiona
sharofox 3 years ago
Thank you for sharing, I have only come out to friends and I'm 22. I still don't want to tell my parents, I think they'd accept it, but I don't feel its the right time.
reereereer12 3 years ago 5
I recognise the things you mention in this video, and on't mind those other comments, the statistics doesn't matter anyway, it's the reason you are making this video!
Speaking for myself and lots others, thank you for making this video! ^^
I'm going to watch your others asap ^^
RaZalsinMiqatinay 3 years ago 2
all of the tags to this video are related to homosexuality, so if memais50 is not gay (which i'm not suggesting he is), then he is just looking through coming out videos to write, ignorant, bitchy comments to make himself feel more secure.
boredkid92 3 years ago 2
YOU ARE FUCKING ADORABLE!!! BESOS
monsieurjv 3 years ago 3
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fucking fagget
memais50 3 years ago
I bet you watched the whole vid :). Please come out of the closet!
revilolee 3 years ago 3
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you wish that i was a fagget, but i'm not, so shut the fuck up about your closet. And i saw just the title of this nasty video. You homos are a treath for the humankind. I piss on all of you.
memais50 3 years ago
Yeah right bitch. You know you were surfin for "homo" videos. Don't deny it! You got caught REDHANDED!
revilolee 3 years ago 12
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you fakking fagget, i didnt surch for this nasty video, it was next to a other video i i was watching, and i clicked on it so i could post a comment here to tell all you discusting gays how nasty and discusting you are, so go now and fuck your father, that's what your like isnt it?
memais50 3 years ago
Well that video had to be nasty for it to link to this :). Lmao I love it when you talk dirty to me :P.
revilolee 3 years ago 8
ur hot good story
dragonlava33 3 years ago
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Here are some fun facts about Homosexuals:
1. They make up less than 2% of the US population
2. 90% of them are among to top 10% of wage earners in the US
3. They commit 35% of sex crimes against our children!
tlm4040 3 years ago
omg wtf!!! act ur fucking age! why the fuck do u watch these videos if u r such a homophobe????
JJtheAcorn 3 years ago
Why the hell are you watching this video if you don't like homosexuals?
broadwaybound4eva 3 years ago
wow why would you watch this video if your so mean to us?
dragonlava33 3 years ago
Not a single one of those satistics were true 9_9
jordan13589 3 years ago 2
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so who commit the other 65%? la gente como tu es un puto lastre para la sociedad, cacho de mierda :)
PerriVerde 3 years ago
?estas seria o estas bromeando? pareces muy ignorante si no bromeas. buena suerte en el nuevo milenio.
boredkid92 3 years ago
Yeah people who commit sex crimes automatically make a lot of money going to prison and getting murdered. That's so logical.
90% of gay people are in the top 10% of wage earners? Are you serious? I want my gay check.
90% of homophobes pull statistics out of their asses.
After all, all the gay people who get thrown out of their house as teenagers are rolling in the dough.
Who told you the 2% figure, most estimates I've heard are 10%.
theknightswhosay 3 years ago 5
Thank you so much chris. you have to be very brave to do this. i didn't see this before i came out to my first person, but still, i think that this is a great resource. Thanks!
haha202haha 3 years ago 3
This is amazing :]
thisisBO 3 years ago 2
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1 Corinthians 6:9-11
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God
ewyatt35 3 years ago
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You are a peice of shit. I'll pray for you.
broadwaybound4eva 3 years ago
hey you get a life! this man is trying to a man by accepting his other part. bet u cant do that because you think shit! can't yoube empathic? ofcourse you cant, airheaD.
markindoha 3 years ago
Excuse me? This dumbass, ewyatt, is saying gays go to hell. I think you thought I was calling Coolkid00761 a peice of shit, but I wasn't. I'm gay myself. Couldn't you tell it was a reply since it was below the comment I was replying to?!
broadwaybound4eva 3 years ago
I commend you for your honourable intentions. You are very brave and I get the impression that you would be a great person to know. x
DrKeithTaylor 3 years ago 3
what you have done with this video is awesome! You have definitly helped more than your goal of just one person. Never give up faith or hope.
lauber18 3 years ago 2
I used to have the same thoughts. I would also pray to God to take this "curse" away from me. I also had a lot of issues with depression because I could not accept that I way gay. It helps to know that someone else went through the same thing
cutblack74 3 years ago
I am a Christian going through a very similar phase and let me tell you if you invite Jesus into your life you will never be lonely. I still have trouble accepting it, but I chose to give over my life to Jesus and I fight it every day. God Bless You Man!
someguy90909 3 years ago
Thanks. You're really doing people a favor by facing the adversity and telling your story. :] I came out a year ago, and I can really relate to a lot of what you're saying. :]
DarlingDeather 3 years ago
I need to talk to you, I neeed to discuss this issue I addded ur email please...
accept.
PickleGoat 3 years ago
Thank you for coming out. At one point you will encounter a crossroads in your life and you have the choice to accept what you are or not. Your just trying to be true to yourself. I have done similar years back and I dont look back at it. I'm proud of what I am and looking forward to what it brings. There are PLU in this world. So I salute you and welcome you all.
joeytorres99 3 years ago 2
You are aware this is titled "My coming out story" right?
laziboy2010 3 years ago
thanks
adryan923 3 years ago
good god you're gorgeous.
gamenick923 3 years ago
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faggot
georgioclooney 3 years ago
ha, when you can say that to anybody's face, then someone will take you seriously. faggot.
gamenick923 3 years ago
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LOL? say what? faggot? it's not like nigger or anything. i say faggot to people all the time. what part of the world do you live in? lmfao
georgioclooney 3 years ago
Heyy, remember me Gergie? I've missed you (My girls as well naturally) <3 Ever since we trashed you you havnt said much, so how you been buddy?
laziboy2010 3 years ago
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silly faggot stop talking to me
im not interested
georgioclooney 3 years ago
What are you afraid of me now? Because it seems to me like your fucking scared
laziboy2010 3 years ago
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keep dreaming about my hot throbbing cock in ur mouth
u wsh u could grab a hold of this thick juicy man meat dont u
mmmmmmmmmmmm yeahhh................
georgioclooney 3 years ago
You seem a bit more into that kind of shit than I am hun...and you say your NOT gay? Yeah, I'm calling bullshit on that XD
Oh and by the way, I perfer cocks larger than my little finger and it seems that you've...come up a bit short :(
laziboy2010 3 years ago
So true, my dear. He probably wants you to do it. After all, it's quite clear from his comments that his brain isn't all that big and leaves him plenty of blood leftover for a constant erection. xD.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago 2
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u must have gigantic fingers then, i knew that would get u all excited
queer
georgioclooney 3 years ago
Look at Roman times. Check any history book. They were perfectly fine and open with being homosexual. It's sick, twisted, hateful fucks like you that make it so hard to be open about it. You should do yourself a favor and stop being a bitch.
Seregelleth 3 years ago
yeah and the romans were perfectly fine with pedophilia too.
not only that their idea of entertainment was watching a bunch of horses trained to fuck women rape the shit out of 14 year old virgins.
georgioclooney 3 years ago
Mmhmm, great...you do forget history changes what's acceptable in society. Also, I see you have nothing to say about my God comment...
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago
Yes the romans werent perfect but they still own over your ass, and I think I will do the same. You are now my youtube bitch!
laziboy2010 3 years ago
And who are you to be making those claims? Maybe being straight isn't normal? You're just siding with the majority. And the plain and simple truth is, YOU'RE not normal.
Seregelleth 3 years ago
Seriously, the hatred of an ignorant asshole should be ignored. If all he has to do is come to negatively respond to comments that support something that is very hard to do, so be it. A med school student studying to be a surgeon? Sounds like a stupid, pathetic 13 year old boy who hasn't hit puberty yet. to be this obsessed with gay bashing is pretty sad. Honestly, if you've got nothing suportive to say, keep it to yourself. No one forced you to watch this after all.
Seregelleth 3 years ago
Thank you love, and I agree, this gay bashing fucker is probably just some deeply closeted 13 year old boy who wants to make himself feel like he isnt gay by bashing us, just come out with it kid, seriously, and for the record- I may be gay but I can probably kick your sorry ass (And if not, my two girls can help me <3 Choke on those words bitch~
laziboy2010 3 years ago
and you faggots have to constantly lie to yourselves to make yourselves feel normal when you arent and you never will be. i know you were born a fag, i know you cant help it. but you're an abberation of nature, an abomination. all you are is a defect. society doesnt want you, society doesn't need you. humanity would be better off WITHOUT you.
georgioclooney 3 years ago
And humanity would be better with angry, rude, hateful freaks like you? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. I'm confident enough in my heterosexuality to be able to accept others, but clearly you aren't.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago
To be honest man, humanity was doing fine with US for generations
But with your sorry ass logic around its gone to shit
laziboy2010 3 years ago 2
Also, you seem like an extremist Christian. You believe God controls EVERYTHING. Well, he must have created gays then. Just to let you know.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago
what if he did? that would mean he also created murderers, rapists, child molesters, people born with aids. so what are you tryin to say fag boy? is that ok too? should all those cursed abominations be able to live their life to the fullest by giving into their urges? hell no.
u dont need religion to hate fags. anyone with a brain knows what perversions are and faggotry is a perversion which offers nothing positive to culture or society.
georgioclooney 3 years ago
Fag BOY? Excuse you? I'm female, thanks. And if he did...well, it looks like that says more about God than you're willing to admit.
Anyone with a brain would say you were being a jerk, by the way. Honesty. HOW is it a perversion? Because you don't like it? You're one person, dude. Society is becoming more accepting. You either join the rest of us or be forgotten.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago
I vote he needs to fuck himself before I make him <33 Love you Bloodybeeroses <33
laziboy2010 3 years ago
lmao. Make him you could. I love you, too, laziboy.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago
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its funny when fags get killed for being gay
georgioclooney 3 years ago
It's funny when idiots get killed for being...well, idiotic.
bloodybeeroses 3 years ago 4
Your getting desperate again I see, well if you do happen to kill one of us, two more will come in his place, where just awesome that way (By the way, dont threaten me because me and my FEMALE GIRLS will own you
laziboy2010 3 years ago
i bet no1 likes
i bet you have all this hatred becuz u cant get a girlfriend
-get over yourself
-u think tht bringing down gay people will make people like u? will make god like u?? god accepts every1 for who they are because he made them like that
-and if he made you as such prejudice bitch
then maybe YOU will go to hell?
-gay people arent the ones that deserve to go to hell, its people like u
-and if u reply bak say stfu fag or anything like tht then go online and find better comebacks
samrocks342 3 years ago
and tht comment was for georgioclooney
samrocks342 3 years ago
what faggot? i didnt read any of that shit faggot
georgioclooney 3 years ago
Why do you consider homosexuality an abberation of nature? Hopefully you can come up with something better than "they can't make babies".
l0gically 3 years ago
Georgio is one sick dude.
Patrick144000 3 years ago
Same here, that's why it's great to post these videos on youtube I think. thanks for sharing!
Snaurky 3 years ago
Chris I think your gift from God to share with us your coming out story. It takes a real man to be honest and happy with yourself. Being happy with who you are is all God wants. Your a real man my friend. Take care, and peace be with you.
labette 3 years ago
ur cute... nice vid.
hawaiianstyle911 3 years ago
jaunary 2006... that's about when I came out to myself
Aoah 3 years ago
hi chris,i tried to email you but everytime it turned out that the delivery failed , i don't know why, so i just type my question here, thanks.
nice of you sharing your experience.but coming out for me is not easy cause i am a chinese and you know things are not
easy here in my society. i just want to know that what you'll do with your life, the rest of your life after your coming out. and it may be helpful and useful to me. have a nice day!
holylennon 3 years ago
so i suffer a lot in my life though it seems that i have friends and a happy life. i can't let people know it. you know, here is china things are harder. and really i admire you, you finally did it. maybe i will go away living in a place where nobody knows me and then be myself. it's tough and your video is something as a relief and comfort to me. so thanks. and hope get to know you more and communicate more if i may.
holylennon 3 years ago
first, thanks for the video and i learn something which maybe is happening every second in the world.
well, i'm a fag, and for a long time i keep telling myself that i am not and hope everyday i wake up becoming straight like you do. gradually i found there may be a reason for being a gay,and it's who i am. i just can't change it and have to live with it maybe forever. i am a chinaman ,and things are not that easy with coming out. maybe i will have wife and kid, but inside i am still a gay.
holylennon 3 years ago
i love you!
wired121 3 years ago
Dude, I love you man, most of this story was like hearing my own story. Seriously the guilt you feel is just like a web of secrets, and it does feel good to tell someone. (And suicide had creeped into my head as well as the desire to be straight) but one last point I'd like to make is that it really is a time where you feel alone and scared, just telling one right person can really turn it all around.
laziboy2010 3 years ago 4
thank you so much for the post
really helped me I completely understand what you mean thank you sohhh much=')
Dannyfan1997 3 years ago 3
you have alot of courage to put this online, you're awesome! =]
I think that you can be gay. I think you can be lesbian. I think you can be bi. I think you can be straight. Just whatever works for you! Homophobes are nosey people who nose around in other people's relationships cuz they have nothing better to do. Or they put people of a different sexual orientation down to make themselves feel good.
I believe that people should be able to have a relationship with whoever they want.
xXdarkclearXx 3 years ago 2
Thank you for making this...I am questioning my sexuality, and this helped...
gcrox657 3 years ago 3
Thanks for being so brave. You're a star.
Picklehorse 3 years ago 6
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pray the gay away of lightning will strike upon you
BlikjeBier 3 years ago
Good job hun. Your cause is inspiring.
sept3mberengagedlove 3 years ago
i give u props 4 doing this , ive already come out ,but im sure this will help others,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,thanks
goofyboi2008 3 years ago
Thank you for making and posting this!
wasdwhut 3 years ago
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story.
reguy09 3 years ago