So according to this Christian guy, a parent has the right to bend their child's own ideas and feelings so that they can fit a stereotype? How disturbing! What ever happened to individuality!
If distant fathers are what cause little boys to want to be girls then there'd be WAY more transgenders in this world considering how many single mothers there are!
HIM, HETEROSEXUAL?! He sounds very feminine. He's just trying to fit in to stop the abuse. I don't think he's gay, just more of a girl. Redicuhlus! (spelled wrong on purpose..)
I don't get it! When the boy said he wanted to be a girl the mother backed him up without hesitation. Now that he says that he is feeling masculine and has a girlfriend, the mother questions his honesty??
@walterygor I have a strong feeling that this kid is homosexual. He wouldn't be the first to conform to society's standards as a means of self-protection. Nearly every homosexual on the planet has dated the other sex in order to make other people believe that they are straight. I want to hear more from him when he's in the 19-21 age range.
@truthhurtschristians Always a possibility, so I won´t argue with that. However, let´s not forget he already had full support from his mother. (not sure about his father tho)
@walterygor Can you blame her? That son of hers is as gay as a three dollar bill. The only reason he has a "girlfriend" is so that they can go shopping together and braid each other's hair.
My dad is salior as I grew up so I wasn't exposed to males all the time, during my childhood, so I was for 6-9 months a year the only male in the hose I generally thought that fantastic meant that I was special an fair better than the other sex.
Notice her husband has left the stage, she has a whole lot of opinion on this matter & her husband never said one word on stage. I believe the wife runs the household alone & that within itself sends a mixed message to a child as far as gender roles go.The dad has no say so. People can say but what about womans Lib,women can run a household just as men do, a woman doesnt need a man to raise a child ect. but in reality thats why these households crumble.
@Pizuzuzimmer Yes, absolutely. Focus on the Family is a joke and Pat Robertson & his dead crony Falwell are scumbags and it's a shame there's no hell for them to burn in.
@Pizuzuzimmer Actually, it's the parents of the bullying children who should be held accountable for that behavior. A child should be able to express their personal feelings about themselves without fear of ridicule, and that goes for their gender identity as well. The only people to blame for the suffering of that child are the close-minded peers of that poor kid.
I'm transgender, and that christian dude is a Simpleton. He needs to call Joe Rogan and smoke some DMT, asap. Get reconnected with your humanism, and your universe, Simpleton.
I can't believe the number of assholes that think they can dictate what other children/ parents/ adults can or can't do. Why do you care? Does it actually hurt you to see a male wearing stereotypically female clothing? No so shut up and let people live their lives. Some of you are no better than the playground bullies, and no thats not a good thing its pathetic.
and even if they, in the end, turn out not to be transgender, then at least their parents have supported them in making that decision for themselves. Not pushed them one way or the other. That "scientist" talks a load of cr*p...
a little boy that endures ridicule and even physical abuse to be what he clearly believes he is inside, that goes way beyond any parents influence. You can dress up you little boy as a girl, if he's really a boy he won't like it, and certainly not wear it to school and get the shit kicked out of them! These kids are clearly transgender, they don't simply believe they're the opposite sex, inside their brain, they ARE.
people are uncomfortable with this because it's something related to sex... and since it's a relatively rare occurance they believe it's a perversion. People must realise also, you can't get gender reassignment surgery (on the genitals) without getting a doctor (or in many cases two) to approve you are ready for it. People risk many things to 'be themselves', they wouldn't risk everything on a whim. (google gender identity clinic , disorder) Reverting back to male behaviour is being in denial
I just have to laugh at how Statton keeps saying it's 'wrong' and parents have to 'guide' their children, without providing any proof as to why it's wrong or why parents know better how a child/person feels or should be.
I also think this 16 yo may be transvestite. Liking the girly stuff, being fascinated by girls, liking girls so much that he actually indentifies with them, but still being straight and not wanting to live as a woman. That's something I have heard from transvestites.
The guy in the Audience is right, these parent are supporting the behavior. There is no such thing as boys nor girls toys, we make the names. 1st boy said he was at wallmart in the boys section he wanted an item in the girl section. very important. Children are being brainwash by companies that needs to sale stuff, he may think to get the "girl" stuff he has to be a girl. they should have giving it to him and told him it's ok for boys to have it. he would still identify as a boy notice the ....
@ghomnet ...... notice when the 2nd ladies son says he is straight, she was upset even said that she doesn't believe him. I think these parents and many others want to feel that they have this special kid. But in reality the kids are just caught in a cross fire of brainwash. i have seen a lot of parents who has bought into this my kids may be gay at a young age thing. Frankly unless the child is a hermaphrodite it is not true, and is impossible. These parents are the ones with the real issue.
@ghomnet People are not taking responsibility for there actions these days. Everything is free and do what you want. I guess its coming from the 70s generation. Thankfully they are dying off but the damage they have done is significant. We as a society can get so RATIONAL and ENLIGHTENED that we forget common sense. Many say if you change your preference your in denial. Who are they to judge. For example the 16 year old boy note some posts say he is in denial. No HE MADE A CHOICE. MOTHER IS SICK
@ghomnet That's not true. It's not the parents' action that is convincing this little boy that his a girl. Even if toys weren't identified as feminine or masculine this boy's gender identity as a girl would show in something else. He feels like a girl and it would show in whatever it is that is concidered feminine in the culture he lives in. Only in a culture where men and women are thought to be exactly similar there wouldn't be a problem for him and his condition woulnd't show..
Quite frankly I don't think women and men are really that different -their personality differs from other women just as much as it differs from other men. You know, I'm more like my husband than some women friend of mine, even though she has the same sex that I do... Our differences are not ones of sex but ones of personality. People differ in their personality way more than women are different from men. And I'm so happy to live in a culture where majority of people think the same way i do.
Respond to this video... What's so awful about someone behaving feminine?! Is there something awful and embaressing about women? So... Women can behave like men are traditionally thought to act (be active, self-assured, confident, smart) and they will be praised but it's embaressing to act like a woman? What shit is that?
Why does the audience clap for that Focus on the Family idiot? He says it breaks his heart when her son goes to school with earings, and to do everything in a masculine way? He's totally misogynistic. He's basically saying women are below men and men doing anything feminine brings their social value down. He only believes in social norms and hates personal freedom. It's within the social norms for women to wear men's clothing but not for men to be feminine.
What the heck!? Why is that guy being applauded? He has no idea what he's talking about. He's never been in that situation. He's from a Christian-based group, he's just bias! He has no idea on how the brain works for these children!
'Gender Identity Disorder' is so prevalent, some surgeons make a living by doing this surgery ONLY... changing a man to a woman (in the genital area) or a woman to a man.
I cannot believe the audience is applauding that guy so often.... what, was this taped a few centuries ago when people couldn't think for themselves and had to fit into society's role for them?
Most people can't fathom people with these types of feelings. They also can't see beyond what they feel is black and white. This is a complex world we live in and everything doesn't fit into neat little boxes. And yes it's sad that they can't form their own opinions based on facts instead of prejudice or sheer ignorance.
If they were responsible parents, they wouldn't be forcing their children or be okay with someone else forcing their children into a role they don't belong in. They wouldn't be okay with promoting hate against someone who doesn't fit the norm.
You clearly know nothing about parenting. You be against "someone else forcing your child into a role" they resist all you bloody well want; the reality is that you can't make the world treat your child as you want your child treated. What you are doing, in fact, is ensuring that your kid will be rejected and ridiculed. Real parenting requires that reality be recognized.
I'm tired of hearing "boy things"? I played with toys that were considered male toys when I was young and I did activities that were considered "boy stuff" when I was young as well, but I'm a heterosexual woman. So I don't see how a G.I. Joe would make me think I'm a boy. I don't think playing with a barbie doll or wearing pink is going to determine gender. I think it's just who you are. I'm sure family and friends can influence gender identity, but not like our minds can.
@misskorkad2 how do you know? are you a friend of him? You can accept him being a transexual homo but you wont accept him as a ordinary heterosexual man?
@MakeAGameWithMe that's a weird statement "You cant accept him as a ordinary heterosexual man?" ofcourse i can accept him, why wouldn't I? but you can tell that he is afraid, and considering what he's been through its compleatly understandable. also, being homosexual is just as "ordinary" as being hetro, and btw it's IMPOSSIBLE to turn someone straight/gay, whatever your sexuality is you can't choose to be soething else.
My little brother grew up for 7 years with just women in the house, he is a normal straight guy now. That ''doctor'' in the crowd is just full of ****.
let them choose toys before having forming any identity at all what they want to become. Like a lion cub sees his father or mother hunt. He knows what he wants to do. By taking the kid to the shop of course he will if he can choose himself some beautiful barbies to play with. What guy wouldn't want to play with hot girls? Give the kid an early rolemodel....something to want to become. And he will develop naturally. What bad parents...look at nature to understand how all animals work!
ok these parents are idiots. The parents are suppose to show or give the kid something to play with. A lion cub in nature are playing with eachother...there are no particular rules what an animal should play with. He plays with what there is to play with. Homos and sexually confused people, grew up unaturally. Let them play in the sand, let them climb in the trees...let them watch cartoons in the morning. And they will want to buy those toys. The first thing you do is to go to the shop and let
Sorry to sound judgemental, but the 16 yr old son who says hes no longer transgendered and calling himself a straight man is more queer than my drag queen ass! Give it a few years and he'll be hitting the gay bars and performing as a woman lol
I wonder if there are transgender people who have regretted their sex change... Just wondering.
2faymus 8 hours ago
So according to this Christian guy, a parent has the right to bend their child's own ideas and feelings so that they can fit a stereotype? How disturbing! What ever happened to individuality!
breyercrazy789 3 days ago
I have a strong feeling that the boy is gay. It sucks that people still can't be themselves in 2012.
TheVildee 5 days ago
God, what a crock of shit. Doctor Phil and that Christian "expert" are both bigoted arseholes.
AdeleJacotey 1 week ago
haha i didn't notice the swedish subs until now... i'm swedish.
BensonsOffice 2 weeks ago
If distant fathers are what cause little boys to want to be girls then there'd be WAY more transgenders in this world considering how many single mothers there are!
papatoony 3 weeks ago 4
Bless his heart, he is so not straight.
papatoony 3 weeks ago
Am I the only one who wants to punch not only the christian doctor but that woman nodding behind him??
Ilikesmalltitties 1 month ago
Ya that kid is totally a homo gayman
alphapudding117 1 month ago
ROFL
1x93cm 1 month ago
@LoveRants4u so ur gay? And gettin a sex change,
kingofrock231 1 month ago
"That's very, very contray-ver-see-yall" Gee I feel like I'm listening to such an intellectual
XxTheStealthyClownxX 1 month ago
I'm a girl soul in a boy body. very soon, I'll be a girl soul in a girl body. :)
LoveRants4u 2 months ago 4
HIM, HETEROSEXUAL?! He sounds very feminine. He's just trying to fit in to stop the abuse. I don't think he's gay, just more of a girl. Redicuhlus! (spelled wrong on purpose..)
Anichols321 2 months ago
I don't get it! When the boy said he wanted to be a girl the mother backed him up without hesitation. Now that he says that he is feeling masculine and has a girlfriend, the mother questions his honesty??
walterygor 2 months ago
@walterygor I have a strong feeling that this kid is homosexual. He wouldn't be the first to conform to society's standards as a means of self-protection. Nearly every homosexual on the planet has dated the other sex in order to make other people believe that they are straight. I want to hear more from him when he's in the 19-21 age range.
truthhurtschristians 2 months ago
@truthhurtschristians Always a possibility, so I won´t argue with that. However, let´s not forget he already had full support from his mother. (not sure about his father tho)
walterygor 2 months ago
@truthhurtschristians by 24 he'll prolyl transition LOL
1x93cm 1 month ago
@walterygor Can you blame her? That son of hers is as gay as a three dollar bill. The only reason he has a "girlfriend" is so that they can go shopping together and braid each other's hair.
papatoony 3 weeks ago
In other words I was a boy and now a adult male, never would I swamp my cock for vagina and all that bullshit that's called pregnancy.,
DoctorHver 3 months ago
My dad is salior as I grew up so I wasn't exposed to males all the time, during my childhood, so I was for 6-9 months a year the only male in the hose I generally thought that fantastic meant that I was special an fair better than the other sex.
DoctorHver 3 months ago
Notice her husband has left the stage, she has a whole lot of opinion on this matter & her husband never said one word on stage. I believe the wife runs the household alone & that within itself sends a mixed message to a child as far as gender roles go.The dad has no say so. People can say but what about womans Lib,women can run a household just as men do, a woman doesnt need a man to raise a child ect. but in reality thats why these households crumble.
essence64111111 4 months ago
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Pizuzuzimmer 4 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer Yes, absolutely. Focus on the Family is a joke and Pat Robertson & his dead crony Falwell are scumbags and it's a shame there's no hell for them to burn in.
InvertedHorizon 3 months ago
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Pizuzuzimmer 4 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer Actually, it's the parents of the bullying children who should be held accountable for that behavior. A child should be able to express their personal feelings about themselves without fear of ridicule, and that goes for their gender identity as well. The only people to blame for the suffering of that child are the close-minded peers of that poor kid.
InvertedHorizon 3 months ago
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Pizuzuzimmer 3 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer What the hell kind of conservative cocaine are you snorting? Lmao
InvertedHorizon 3 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer I'm sorry but it's just so hilarious and inconceivable to me to see somebody ACTUALLY DEFENDING bullying and psychological trauma.
InvertedHorizon 3 months ago
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Pizuzuzimmer 3 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer lol
InvertedHorizon 3 months ago
I'm transgender, and that christian dude is a Simpleton. He needs to call Joe Rogan and smoke some DMT, asap. Get reconnected with your humanism, and your universe, Simpleton.
Merrillizer 4 months ago
The audience is a big bunch of fuckin idiots clapping for that dick head.
ClythiaMysticka 5 months ago
These parents should go to jail!!! S.M.F.H!!
roscoewaterfire 5 months ago
Her son is not straight honey. Coming from a gay man, he loves it in the butt, just saying.
LouisianaCityboi 5 months ago
I can't believe the number of assholes that think they can dictate what other children/ parents/ adults can or can't do. Why do you care? Does it actually hurt you to see a male wearing stereotypically female clothing? No so shut up and let people live their lives. Some of you are no better than the playground bullies, and no thats not a good thing its pathetic.
PeterFoyle 5 months ago
and even if they, in the end, turn out not to be transgender, then at least their parents have supported them in making that decision for themselves. Not pushed them one way or the other. That "scientist" talks a load of cr*p...
poppylv21 5 months ago 2
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Pizuzuzimmer 4 months ago
a little boy that endures ridicule and even physical abuse to be what he clearly believes he is inside, that goes way beyond any parents influence. You can dress up you little boy as a girl, if he's really a boy he won't like it, and certainly not wear it to school and get the shit kicked out of them! These kids are clearly transgender, they don't simply believe they're the opposite sex, inside their brain, they ARE.
poppylv21 5 months ago
Gender roles are sociological constructs.
dextermoody24 6 months ago 3
Father of the Spanish kid is weak as fuck. He said not one thing and he looked embarrassed. He is whipped like a mother fucker.
onebadgs400 6 months ago
That Doc In The Audience kinda looks like Edward Norton
deathinface666 6 months ago
people are uncomfortable with this because it's something related to sex... and since it's a relatively rare occurance they believe it's a perversion. People must realise also, you can't get gender reassignment surgery (on the genitals) without getting a doctor (or in many cases two) to approve you are ready for it. People risk many things to 'be themselves', they wouldn't risk everything on a whim. (google gender identity clinic , disorder) Reverting back to male behaviour is being in denial
switcherxx 6 months ago
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switcherxx 6 months ago
I just have to laugh at how Statton keeps saying it's 'wrong' and parents have to 'guide' their children, without providing any proof as to why it's wrong or why parents know better how a child/person feels or should be.
thomaseshuis 6 months ago
I also think this 16 yo may be transvestite. Liking the girly stuff, being fascinated by girls, liking girls so much that he actually indentifies with them, but still being straight and not wanting to live as a woman. That's something I have heard from transvestites.
hypoksifilia 6 months ago
He can be transgndered and heterosexual my ex was! Homosexuality has nothing to do with gender identity.
hypoksifilia 6 months ago
Who wants to fucking menstruate?
Like seriously?
grendle7 6 months ago
The guy in the Audience is right, these parent are supporting the behavior. There is no such thing as boys nor girls toys, we make the names. 1st boy said he was at wallmart in the boys section he wanted an item in the girl section. very important. Children are being brainwash by companies that needs to sale stuff, he may think to get the "girl" stuff he has to be a girl. they should have giving it to him and told him it's ok for boys to have it. he would still identify as a boy notice the ....
ghomnet 6 months ago
@ghomnet ...... notice when the 2nd ladies son says he is straight, she was upset even said that she doesn't believe him. I think these parents and many others want to feel that they have this special kid. But in reality the kids are just caught in a cross fire of brainwash. i have seen a lot of parents who has bought into this my kids may be gay at a young age thing. Frankly unless the child is a hermaphrodite it is not true, and is impossible. These parents are the ones with the real issue.
ghomnet 6 months ago
@ghomnet Best quote posted. Very rational and well worded. I see the same thing. Some people just don't need kids.
onebadgs400 6 months ago
@onebadgs400 thanks, One thing i notice around the net, that is the voice of truth is moving away from us.
ghomnet 6 months ago
@ghomnet People are not taking responsibility for there actions these days. Everything is free and do what you want. I guess its coming from the 70s generation. Thankfully they are dying off but the damage they have done is significant. We as a society can get so RATIONAL and ENLIGHTENED that we forget common sense. Many say if you change your preference your in denial. Who are they to judge. For example the 16 year old boy note some posts say he is in denial. No HE MADE A CHOICE. MOTHER IS SICK
onebadgs400 6 months ago
@onebadgs400 I agree,
ghomnet 6 months ago
@ghomnet That's not true. It's not the parents' action that is convincing this little boy that his a girl. Even if toys weren't identified as feminine or masculine this boy's gender identity as a girl would show in something else. He feels like a girl and it would show in whatever it is that is concidered feminine in the culture he lives in. Only in a culture where men and women are thought to be exactly similar there wouldn't be a problem for him and his condition woulnd't show..
hypoksifilia 6 months ago
@hypoksifilia not convincing but brainwashing, and it is not necessarily done by the parent.
ghomnet 6 months ago
Quite frankly I don't think women and men are really that different -their personality differs from other women just as much as it differs from other men. You know, I'm more like my husband than some women friend of mine, even though she has the same sex that I do... Our differences are not ones of sex but ones of personality. People differ in their personality way more than women are different from men. And I'm so happy to live in a culture where majority of people think the same way i do.
hypoksifilia 6 months ago
Respond to this video... What's so awful about someone behaving feminine?! Is there something awful and embaressing about women? So... Women can behave like men are traditionally thought to act (be active, self-assured, confident, smart) and they will be praised but it's embaressing to act like a woman? What shit is that?
hypoksifilia 6 months ago
That guy in the audience is such a douche.
StargirllLauren 7 months ago
that 16 year old is in denial
zebradancing 8 months ago
@zebradancing Nope he got some wet pussy and his balls dropped. Listen to what he is saying not what you believe.
onebadgs400 6 months ago
Why does the audience clap for that Focus on the Family idiot? He says it breaks his heart when her son goes to school with earings, and to do everything in a masculine way? He's totally misogynistic. He's basically saying women are below men and men doing anything feminine brings their social value down. He only believes in social norms and hates personal freedom. It's within the social norms for women to wear men's clothing but not for men to be feminine.
JDivinorumVideo 8 months ago
What the heck!? Why is that guy being applauded? He has no idea what he's talking about. He's never been in that situation. He's from a Christian-based group, he's just bias! He has no idea on how the brain works for these children!
TheJazzaccount 9 months ago 2
That kid is not straight, good God.
ryan8029 9 months ago 2
'Gender Identity Disorder' is so prevalent, some surgeons make a living by doing this surgery ONLY... changing a man to a woman (in the genital area) or a woman to a man.
switcherxx 10 months ago
I cannot believe the audience is applauding that guy so often.... what, was this taped a few centuries ago when people couldn't think for themselves and had to fit into society's role for them?
MyPaperBleedsInk 1 year ago 57
@MyPaperBleedsInk I agree and it's sad.
Most people can't fathom people with these types of feelings. They also can't see beyond what they feel is black and white. This is a complex world we live in and everything doesn't fit into neat little boxes. And yes it's sad that they can't form their own opinions based on facts instead of prejudice or sheer ignorance.
ferre77 10 months ago
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Pizuzuzimmer 4 months ago
@Pizuzuzimmer
If they were responsible parents, they wouldn't be forcing their children or be okay with someone else forcing their children into a role they don't belong in. They wouldn't be okay with promoting hate against someone who doesn't fit the norm.
MyPaperBleedsInk 4 months ago
@MyPaperBleedsInk
You clearly know nothing about parenting. You be against "someone else forcing your child into a role" they resist all you bloody well want; the reality is that you can't make the world treat your child as you want your child treated. What you are doing, in fact, is ensuring that your kid will be rejected and ridiculed. Real parenting requires that reality be recognized.
Pizuzuzimmer 4 months ago
@MyPaperBleedsInk A few centuries ago?
People can think for themselves now?
johmedis 1 month ago
@MyPaperBleedsInk its dr. phil audience
Rosalila 2 weeks ago
I'm tired of hearing "boy things"? I played with toys that were considered male toys when I was young and I did activities that were considered "boy stuff" when I was young as well, but I'm a heterosexual woman. So I don't see how a G.I. Joe would make me think I'm a boy. I don't think playing with a barbie doll or wearing pink is going to determine gender. I think it's just who you are. I'm sure family and friends can influence gender identity, but not like our minds can.
housecry 1 year ago 7
Can someone punch the douche-bad "doctor" from Focus on the Family in the face?
kmerrill4444 1 year ago 5
he's not a heterosexual man! he is scared to express himself because of the bullying and harassment.
misskorkad2 1 year ago 45
He is very confussed, he shouldnt be hated for this. Nor, should we take the other extreme and encourage him in confussion and a false identity.
Yeshuamyhope 5 months ago
@misskorkad2 how do you know? are you a friend of him? You can accept him being a transexual homo but you wont accept him as a ordinary heterosexual man?
MakeAGameWithMe 3 months ago
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@MakeAGameWithMe that's a weird statement "You cant accept him as a ordinary heterosexual man?" ofcourse i can accept him, why wouldn't I? but you can tell that he is afraid, and considering what he's been through its compleatly understandable. also, being homosexual is just as "ordinary" as being hetro, and btw it's IMPOSSIBLE to turn someone straight/gay, whatever your sexuality is you can't choose to be soething else.
misskorkad2 3 months ago
My little brother grew up for 7 years with just women in the house, he is a normal straight guy now. That ''doctor'' in the crowd is just full of ****.
Denoyelleify 1 year ago 2
let them choose toys before having forming any identity at all what they want to become. Like a lion cub sees his father or mother hunt. He knows what he wants to do. By taking the kid to the shop of course he will if he can choose himself some beautiful barbies to play with. What guy wouldn't want to play with hot girls? Give the kid an early rolemodel....something to want to become. And he will develop naturally. What bad parents...look at nature to understand how all animals work!
Hermoor 1 year ago
ok these parents are idiots. The parents are suppose to show or give the kid something to play with. A lion cub in nature are playing with eachother...there are no particular rules what an animal should play with. He plays with what there is to play with. Homos and sexually confused people, grew up unaturally. Let them play in the sand, let them climb in the trees...let them watch cartoons in the morning. And they will want to buy those toys. The first thing you do is to go to the shop and let
Hermoor 1 year ago
Sorry to sound judgemental, but the 16 yr old son who says hes no longer transgendered and calling himself a straight man is more queer than my drag queen ass! Give it a few years and he'll be hitting the gay bars and performing as a woman lol
CrystalMystique 1 year ago 3