im very very sorry james that it has finally come to this ~ but its probably 5 years of delaying and u optomisism that has just held it in abience it was always on the cards
it must be really hard to have to say that to your own mother. Its good that you stood up for yourself though, looks like this was a long time in the coming.
I'm SO sorry James. I had to do the same thing with my mother under different circumstances. My mom showed up for my daughters 3rd birthday drunk after me telling her NO MORE drinking when around my kids. She was falling down drunk in my front yard. I physically removed her from my property when she refused to leave. I had to say goodbye to my mom too.. it hurt but had to be done for MY sanity. I could no longer enable her. I know it hurts James but you did the right thing for her & you.
Well, having her hand permantly in my wallet was one thing, but the constant lies, stupid lies, mean-spirited lies, and ugly backstabbing to make Beth look good and everybody else bad just finally got to me. Enough.
Wow brother, what a steaming pile to have unbeknownst to you, and by the hand of fate (and the many mind altering chemicals coursing through your loved ones)... you've gradually stepped into.
Over time of course.
What hurt! Right here on YouTube for the roving cataract that is witness. This was painful for ME to watch.
Karma? Truly, I will see you in paradise.
The truth usually hurts for some reason... these days.
Well, I think I just heard the sorrowful sound of Momma hitting rock bottom. I'm so sorry that it's finally come to this, James. I know your heart is hurting. You did all you could to try and help momma. Nothing else you can do, but just take good care of yourself now. Sending hugs and love. xoxoxo
@marquisdejolie Yes, there is that left for now, but I doubt the electric will be there for much longer with Beth sucking up every cent for drinking and drugging. . The house, I guess, will be there until it finally rots and falls down. I don't know how they can bear to live in it with the way it is, but some people feel like any roof over their head is better than being on the street, so I imagine when the electric gets cut off, they'll just live without it. Hang in there, sugar. Hugz
This breaks my heart. So sad it has turned more uglier than I ever thought it would.
I understand the position you are in James. Thoughts are with you. Hope Momma will see the mess beth has dragged her into, and will finally do something about it.
I know the chances of that happening are like Marshall PD starting to do at least a shmidgin of their job!
@JoyousinJesus Well, maybe if you pray for me and "Tubby", we will see the light, and come over to your pedophile run religious side.Praise the Lord, and lock up the little boys!!
Umm wow bro.. <: | I dunno what to say to that one! That's beyond a slap in the face..Didn't ya know that takin money out of your pocket and payin THIER bills is stealin??LOL What were ya thinkin mister? ; ) Maybe Mama thinks that if she sucks up to Beth, she won't off her... *scratches head* \; |
You can only take so much. Momma is not right in the head. I can't help but feel bad for her. She will always stick up for Beth, she is drugged and brainwashed.
So sorry...hang in there. You have to take care of you now.
Awful. You did the right thing, you've been doing the right thing. Get well and continue to work on this document for the authorities in Marshall, TX.
It is shocking how your sister continues to take your mother down a terrible path that nothing seems to change. Tragic.
They do. Especially since momma spent the last 4 or 5 months telling them that it was my other sister Marie who was doing all the stealing of life savings (those life savings didn't even exist....Beth used them all for her drugs years ago).
I know that you love your mama and all but you did the right thing. You had a heart attack last month and you have to think of you now. You have to take care of yourself and make yourself well.
@marquisdejolie - The really screwy thing is that you returned to help your Mom and now you're there and she sees you as the enemy. After all you have tried to do for them....Nope, don't let them drag you 6 ft under (literally). Just walk away.
She sees me as the enemy because Beth told her I am. Beth told her that for the same reason she told momma that my sister Marie was stealing from momma.....so that Beth could steal from momma unhindered. Beth has momma brainwashed.
I had to do the same thing with my mother for different reasons (my mother has borderline personality disorder, she is like a high functioning Beth) but sometimes that has to be done because some people can't see in front of their own noses...
It really hurts me to see that it had to come to this, but James you did the right thing man. Be strong, and I have faith everything will work out in the end.
It ripped my heart out to confront my mother about her evil ways but I felt so much better after that weight had been lifted off me. It is never peretty when you have to do that but it has to be done. She will have to fix Beth now.
I got a feeling that would have went a whole lot different had she would have told the truth and finally admitted she's gotten herself way over her head with Beth. But... She didn't! Oh well!
@marquisdejolie No doubt James, but you can tell by looking at her that Mama's strung out on drugs herself. She's went and done got herself hooked on CrystalBeth!
I have. Five years worth. 99.9% talking with the camera off. She snarls like an angry dog off camera. On camera is her best behaviour, phony "poor me" face.
It always sucks when you have to do stuff like this to your own family and friends BUT a person can only be walked on so many times before they finally have to say something. Been there myself my friend. I wish you the best.
I know u love your mama, and can't help but feel sorry for her in a way. But at the same time, I think mama is a manipulator herself, and she has treated u like CRAP to protect Beth, so she sorta had it coming. Let people say what they might, but u needed to get that crap off your chest, or the 2 of them are gonna KILL u, my friend. Entirely TOO MUCH STRESS for u here. :(
What's up with those arms :O
tyler183 4 months ago
im very very sorry james that it has finally come to this ~ but its probably 5 years of delaying and u optomisism that has just held it in abience it was always on the cards
sooouuuuper 9 months ago
@sooouuuuper
I think you're right. It always was going to end badly.
marquisdejolie 9 months ago
@adiostraitorobama
I know. A sad one.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@adiostraitorobama
You are right! They absolutely ARE!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I still say get rid of beth, Your mama cant live with her there a whole lot longer.
whisperingwinds2u200 10 months ago
@whisperingwinds2u200
Beth has moved 3 more drug addicts into momma's house so now I can't just walk in and beat Beth to death without killing the witnesses too.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Sad...but the truth hurts! Even the rubber duckie sounded emotional...
MannyBei 10 months ago
@MannyBei
Yeah. Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
it must be really hard to have to say that to your own mother. Its good that you stood up for yourself though, looks like this was a long time in the coming.
hardcoremystic 10 months ago
@hardcoremystic
About 5 years. Yeah, momma has been backstabbing everybody in the family for Beth's sake for 35 years now.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
ouch
skyehoyt1971 10 months ago
@skyehoyt1971
Yep.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Oh my God, your life is like a soap opera! I really hope everything works out for you guys. :)
LadyLotus74 10 months ago
@LadyLotus74
Me too!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I guess you're out of the will now. So you can finally leave Marshall with a clear conscience... I hear the train whistle a-blowin'
phekwig 10 months ago
@phekwig
Me too!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
oh james no :(
twister7boy 10 months ago
@twister7boy
Yep.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I'm so sorry.
peglol 10 months ago
@peglol
Thanks. Me too :(
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I'm SO sorry James. I had to do the same thing with my mother under different circumstances. My mom showed up for my daughters 3rd birthday drunk after me telling her NO MORE drinking when around my kids. She was falling down drunk in my front yard. I physically removed her from my property when she refused to leave. I had to say goodbye to my mom too.. it hurt but had to be done for MY sanity. I could no longer enable her. I know it hurts James but you did the right thing for her & you.
sheri226 10 months ago
@sheri226
Well, having her hand permantly in my wallet was one thing, but the constant lies, stupid lies, mean-spirited lies, and ugly backstabbing to make Beth look good and everybody else bad just finally got to me. Enough.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
You just fired the main character of your story. It's like when they killed superman, can she be revived?
sstteevveesstteeiinn 10 months ago
@sstteevveesstteeiinn
I don't know.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Wow brother, what a steaming pile to have unbeknownst to you, and by the hand of fate (and the many mind altering chemicals coursing through your loved ones)... you've gradually stepped into.
Over time of course.
What hurt! Right here on YouTube for the roving cataract that is witness. This was painful for ME to watch.
Karma? Truly, I will see you in paradise.
The truth usually hurts for some reason... these days.
Love and respect,
gus
oinkst 10 months ago
@oinkst
Thanks, Gus!!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie
The truth is always explicitly crucial.
oinkst 10 months ago
@oinkst
It is.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Well, I think I just heard the sorrowful sound of Momma hitting rock bottom. I'm so sorry that it's finally come to this, James. I know your heart is hurting. You did all you could to try and help momma. Nothing else you can do, but just take good care of yourself now. Sending hugs and love. xoxoxo
Neferkit 10 months ago
@Neferkit
She's not at bottom yet. She still has electricity and a roof over her head.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie Yes, there is that left for now, but I doubt the electric will be there for much longer with Beth sucking up every cent for drinking and drugging. . The house, I guess, will be there until it finally rots and falls down. I don't know how they can bear to live in it with the way it is, but some people feel like any roof over their head is better than being on the street, so I imagine when the electric gets cut off, they'll just live without it. Hang in there, sugar. Hugz
Neferkit 10 months ago
Cheer up James. I hope everything works itself out.
boogieman2490 10 months ago
@boogieman2490
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
This breaks my heart. So sad it has turned more uglier than I ever thought it would.
I understand the position you are in James. Thoughts are with you. Hope Momma will see the mess beth has dragged her into, and will finally do something about it.
I know the chances of that happening are like Marshall PD starting to do at least a shmidgin of their job!
ruckusitas 10 months ago
@ruckusitas
Momma refuses to see truth.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@ruckusitas If you think you could do a better job of being a Marshall PD officer then, by all means, go to the Academy and get to work. Ass.
JoyousinJesus 8 months ago
@JoyousinJesus Well, well, do we finally have a Marshall PD ASSHOLE trolling the site now???
Get off your computer,and get back to your job,dickhead. Or are you still surfing porn on company time?
ruckusitas 8 months ago
@ruckusitas Don't be butthurt at me because your wife is too fat to get out the front door of your singlewide.
JoyousinJesus 8 months ago
@JoyousinJesus Well, maybe if you pray for me and "Tubby", we will see the light, and come over to your pedophile run religious side.Praise the Lord, and lock up the little boys!!
ruckusitas 8 months ago
@JoyousinJesus Apologize James, for sinking to new lows on your channel mate.
Some assholes just bring out the best in me.
ruckusitas 8 months ago
Umm wow bro.. <: | I dunno what to say to that one! That's beyond a slap in the face..Didn't ya know that takin money out of your pocket and payin THIER bills is stealin??LOL What were ya thinkin mister? ; ) Maybe Mama thinks that if she sucks up to Beth, she won't off her... *scratches head* \; |
theGHETTOMAN1 10 months ago
@theGHETTOMAN1
Hahaha! Maybe!!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Its sad, but what else is there for you to do?
BeYourHuckleberry 10 months ago
@BeYourHuckleberry
I guess I could just kill Beth. That would stop the missing money problem.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie You wouldn't miraculously get away with it if you did though. After all, you don't seem to have Beth's evil powers to do so.
BeYourHuckleberry 10 months ago
@BeYourHuckleberry
This is true. Even if she dies of natural causes I will be the MPD's number one suspect.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
You can only take so much. Momma is not right in the head. I can't help but feel bad for her. She will always stick up for Beth, she is drugged and brainwashed.
So sorry...hang in there. You have to take care of you now.
mortonsalt18 10 months ago
@mortonsalt18
I do. Especially since my heart attack last month.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I feel ya! My mom was similar but with different circumstances. And I wonder why there are no tears after her death last month.
Brennna 10 months ago
@Brennna
No tears. Just some sadness and a LOT of relief!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Awful. You did the right thing, you've been doing the right thing. Get well and continue to work on this document for the authorities in Marshall, TX.
It is shocking how your sister continues to take your mother down a terrible path that nothing seems to change. Tragic.
phainopepla95 10 months ago
@phainopepla95
Beth will burn in hell.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
How painful for you. Soft hugs.
cozzyk 10 months ago
@cozzyk
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
And it sounds like the church ladies see right through it all.
bananadoggies 10 months ago 3
@bananadoggies
They do. Especially since momma spent the last 4 or 5 months telling them that it was my other sister Marie who was doing all the stealing of life savings (those life savings didn't even exist....Beth used them all for her drugs years ago).
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Bless your heart. I know that was painful for you. It is awful to feel that rejection over and over. I know. Good for you and your bravery.
bananadoggies 10 months ago
@bananadoggies
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I know that you love your mama and all but you did the right thing. You had a heart attack last month and you have to think of you now. You have to take care of yourself and make yourself well.
hunhun23 10 months ago
@MyRealityBytes
They keep trying to pull me under but I'm NOT going!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie - The really screwy thing is that you returned to help your Mom and now you're there and she sees you as the enemy. After all you have tried to do for them....Nope, don't let them drag you 6 ft under (literally). Just walk away.
MyRealityBytes 10 months ago
@MyRealityBytes
She sees me as the enemy because Beth told her I am. Beth told her that for the same reason she told momma that my sister Marie was stealing from momma.....so that Beth could steal from momma unhindered. Beth has momma brainwashed.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I had to do the same thing with my mother for different reasons (my mother has borderline personality disorder, she is like a high functioning Beth) but sometimes that has to be done because some people can't see in front of their own noses...
MrSpemat 10 months ago
@hollytoo
Yep. It's like, they'll pull you under and then turn around and tell ya that you should have known better!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
It really hurts me to see that it had to come to this, but James you did the right thing man. Be strong, and I have faith everything will work out in the end.
shamos999 10 months ago 3
@shamos999
Thanks!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I am so sorry to see it come this :(
frontier33 10 months ago
@frontier33
Me too. Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
It's sad that you have to be like that but sometimes you have to be cold with some people.... It's called "tuff love" . good luck James
cbhonda90 10 months ago
@cbhonda90
Thanks! Had to be done.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
your mama is out of her league with beth
users are very manipulative
xoexo
edenbainbridge 10 months ago 2
@edenbainbridge
She is and they are!!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@edenbainbridge
Amen!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
poor momma needs assisted care ...
BEENDOWNHEARTEDBABY 10 months ago
@BEENDOWNHEARTEDBABY
Beth keeps blocking all attempts to get momma the help she needs.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
It ripped my heart out to confront my mother about her evil ways but I felt so much better after that weight had been lifted off me. It is never peretty when you have to do that but it has to be done. She will have to fix Beth now.
cdltpx 10 months ago
@cdltpx
Yes! Relief and sadness but overwhelmingly relief!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I got a feeling that would have went a whole lot different had she would have told the truth and finally admitted she's gotten herself way over her head with Beth. But... She didn't! Oh well!
izzy4el 10 months ago
@izzy4el
Over the last 5 years that I've tried to help momma, she has lied to me thousands of times. Baldface lies. Stupid lies. Hurtful lies.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie No doubt James, but you can tell by looking at her that Mama's strung out on drugs herself. She's went and done got herself hooked on CrystalBeth!
izzy4el 10 months ago
@izzy4el
Beth feeds momma Xanax to control her.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@marquisdejolie Is 'at like Bethadone?
izzy4el 10 months ago
@izzy4el
Hahaha! Yeah, like that.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
As hard as this was to do, It had to be done. I agree with you 100%.
danielerich 10 months ago
@danielerich
Thanks!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Oh boy........I'm so sorry.
That was more rough on you than her,
sunsetat6 10 months ago
@sunsetat6
Yeah, it was.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
That must be hard...but enough is enough.. I agree.
brerobertson 10 months ago
@brerobertson
Thanks. This sh*t HAS to end sometime!
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I understand that it had to be don...I just feel so sorry for Momma!! She's been through a lot too.
Zipster08 10 months ago
@Zipster08
I feel sorry for her too but she's the one preventing me from helping her.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Sad that momma is probably just thinking that, shoot there goes my money train.
princessjw1977 10 months ago
@princessjw1977
Yep. She knows.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
Good job. I was wondering why you kept involving yourself in that shit. Now what are you going to make videos about?
BoomerChick55 10 months ago
@BoomerChick55
Oh, I don't know. Hobo camps. Homeless people. Cute dogs. And I still have grandchildren to exploit :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
talk to her without poking the camera in her face
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35THIRTYFIVE 10 months ago
@35THIRTYFIVE
I have. Five years worth. 99.9% talking with the camera off. She snarls like an angry dog off camera. On camera is her best behaviour, phony "poor me" face.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
It always sucks when you have to do stuff like this to your own family and friends BUT a person can only be walked on so many times before they finally have to say something. Been there myself my friend. I wish you the best.
jboner668 10 months ago 2
@jboner668
Thanks!! Yeah, enough was enough.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
OUCH....ouch.....ouch.....TRUTH HURTS......OUCH BABY, don't make me bleed!
MISSBEBEBLUE 10 months ago
@MISSBEBEBLUE
Beth and momma have been playing the victim while deliberately hurting people for decades now. They know no other way.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
I know u love your mama, and can't help but feel sorry for her in a way. But at the same time, I think mama is a manipulator herself, and she has treated u like CRAP to protect Beth, so she sorta had it coming. Let people say what they might, but u needed to get that crap off your chest, or the 2 of them are gonna KILL u, my friend. Entirely TOO MUCH STRESS for u here. :(
fiddlestix2006 10 months ago 2
@fiddlestix2006
Definitely agree
MyHils 10 months ago
@MyHils
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@fiddlestix2006
Yeah, since my heart attack last month, I've decided to let the cards fall where they may.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
: (
islandGAL7 10 months ago
@islandGAL7
Had to be done.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago