@BermudaEntrepreneur...Your 2 funny! But you may have to get in line...sure your sentiments are shared by many! Have you received my reply to your message detailing the "MJB Live at the House of Blues" in LA?
@surenuffright1 Yeah, I just looked it up on amazon. I may have to somehow rip it so I can jam to it at work. I don't know how to rip dvds yet. Thanks.
Well, if I can't marry her. Can she be my personal sleezy dominatrix for about an hour?
"Yes ma'm. No mam! Yes ma'm, I've been a naughty boy and I deserve to be punished! *SMACK* OUCH!!!
@BermudaEntrepreneur....LMAO!....You sure an hour will be sufficient??? Now there's somethin' to think about! ~ Depends on how far your mind can travel within it's imagination! ~ I'm just sayin'! LOL!...
Probably find instructions on 'ripping dvd's' on the net. Good luck, hope you find it! Again...cause you gonna love this concert! ;)
Sorry @BermudaEntreprenuer....think the concert & release date above is incorrect. Believe the performance I'm referring to may have taken place between 2004 - 2006! I have this DVD and it says 2006...but could be a print error! My apologies! If interested check between that time frame!
@surenuffright1 Ok. i don't know that version or dvd. But there was a version on youtube where Mary J Blige was singing LIVE in a blue dress and doing scat vocals with the guitar player. That was soooooooooooooooooo bad ass. I used to bump that at work. Youtube removed it due to copyright infrigement. Is it that one?
This should've been on her upcoming My Life II album since she sampled that same run from the first My Life album - love this song!! It sounds so live.
Yo Mary will have you crying and in your feelings.... I look up to Mary, her older music was beyond marvelous. The truth she put into this joint is crazy i mean "My Life" is my favorite album but this song just made the "Mary" CD one of the reasons I loved that album too.... This and No Happy Holidays. "I gotta wake up and stop living in dream" yes Mary sannnnnnnng
@BermudaEntrepreneur....Mary J. performed live at the House of Blues in LA back in 2006. This performance was videotaped and is available on DVD...a intimate evening....'Mary J. Blige ~ Live at the House of Blues'. She tears this song up! And if you like 'The Love I Never Had'....you gonna love every song she puts down!...the whole performance...WICKED....I say~
this should've been released on single. i have a real problem with her management team. all of her albums since '99 could've been bigger (well, sales & popularity-wise) but it doesn't seem like her team picks the best tracks 2 promote her albums. this is one of her alltime gr8est, hands down. yet most of her fans have never heard this.
@htownhomie06 You are SO right!!!!! The Mary album was a great artistic piece!!! SHe used a lot of live bands for several songs, inclucind this one! This is a CLASSIC song
She IS my favorite singer not just because of her voice, but because she is so honest in her music, it's a story in every song that she opens up and share with us, this paticular song is where I am right now, and I have heard it so many times, but it's deeper now, but it inspires me to wake up and move on, as usual thank you Mary!
I just wanted to come back here and say wooow and thank you to everybody who responded to my post about this song this song and singer is just proof that music can really bring one back to life when they have thought everything has died. Keep it going everybody and keep it livin for 2011!
everybody needs someone to love and i know that it true and i know that it u i dont understand why u cant be my man so id better wake up and stop livin in a dream yes id better wake up cause i cant lose the love i never had so id better wake up as painful as it seem yes id better wake up ohhh love i can not lose the love i never had....
what do i have to lose? Oh i think a little bit more than youuu! AND I DOUBT YOU WILL SEE THINGS CLEARRLY BEFORE IT'S TOO LA -ATE!!! CAUSE EVERYBODY NEED SOMEONE TO LOOOVE!!
I wish I would of gave James a chance,you told me Your sis or mom told me he was a good man Miss you guys on the road t Will see you !!!!!!!!!!!Happy Thanksgiving.Susan from Saginaw
I wish I would of gave James a chance,you told me Your sis or mom told me he was a good man Miss you gys on the road t Will see you !!!!!!!!!!!Happy Thanksgiving.Susan from Saginaw
this is the ONE song that always kept my head in the real world when it came to relationships, and honesty. And I too, thank Mary for always keeping it real in her music and appealing to the hurt, confused and crushed people of the world like I have ONCE been. :)
And If The Words Of This Song Dont Speak My Life Then I Dont Know What Else Does! I Love Mary For Her Pure Honesty Mixed With Soulful Grace and Effortless Realness.
oh mary....(sob) thank you....i listened to this song and just pulled my tattered pride back together and covered myself..i dont want to be bitter and lonely..let me love me first.
being in love with some one who won't leave some one for you is a mess and it hurts a lil bit more everyday you let it happen......i was looking for the perfect song to push me away and give me strength and this one screams it out for me :) love it.
Singing the words to this song out loud is real therapy and helps you realize that if it was meant to be it would have been. But God, obviously did not have that person as a lifetime person in your life so don't be afaid to let go~you can't lose the love you never had!
This is the perfect song for my current situation. He says he loves me, but actions always speak way louder than words. And I can't lose the love that was never mine in the first place.
i love this song Mary i going through something just like this right now and i hurt but i no i have to wake up and realize that if he wanted me then nothing would stand in his way no excuses
Mary this songs makes me cry everytime i hear it when im playing thIS song in front of ppl i try to hold back my tears but its hard."I HAVE TO LAUGH TO KEEP FROM CRYING"....even though Im a man we have feelings too and when u thought you had a LOVE and u realize you didnt it sucks....This person is still on my mind as I write this but this song helped me realize that i have to WAKE UP AND STOP LIVING IN A DREAM..thanks Mary for the years of music thats talks to the soul
I <3 this song, my fav to sing in the shower...haha...I don't care who is home...I belt it out! ~ I think it has more soul in it than any other song she's ever done, and that says a lot!!
Damn Mary Mary one of the best songs EVER! I heard this when I was going through a real messy break up and found out that I was hiv+ this song is the reason why I am living here today there's always a light at the end of that tunnel don't give up people!
Hey sweery live your life like it is golden being Hiv + doent have to change the fact that you can still enjoy everyday every sunrise and every sunset
This song is so touching its just Amazing Mary J is 1 of my favourite Artists a true Queen
@Pugartes - it is hard! i have had several ppl in my fam who have already passed on because of the ordeal with HIV/AIDS. Keep the faith and God will work it out. But i do understand the other part, this song helped me through a bad divorce. and since then life has been so much better! keep ya head up hunny! MWAH!
@Pugartes When you come to the end of all the light you know! TWO OF ONE THINGS WILL HAPPEN: Either there will be something Solid in the darkness for YOU to STAND ON or YOU will be taught how to FLY!
time warp..breaking it down..love don't live hear no more..what I never had a chance to get next to..damn..reality check..don't sign u away..it just gives u ur walking papers..2sign ..seal..and deliver..chow
i keep asking myself why so much pain in loving you???why do i think that without you baby i cant go on anywhere....it hurts my soul to feel my tears keep on faling and you to turn your back on me....why???was it realy nothing??did i mean this little to you baby???????maybe is better for bouth to let go,and find our way true life with someone else....nice song i dedicate it to my loved one that is thinking about living after 3 years becouse he is to stuborn...
i have always wondered why, why i can't live without you babe, and im longing to be your lady, i understand that you are leaving, please don't leave here without me babe, cause i think i might go insane
its 4rm the "Mary" album..the one wit,"All that I can say," "Deep inside," "Give me you," & "Your Child" This my favorite song off of this album..i listen 2 it all the time seriously!!!!
As a Educator, recently dating a parent, this song describes my situation to a T. I can't believe how Mary captured my feeling 100% despite the time frame. This song came out much earlier then my situation but it is so relevant.
This song makes me burst into tears..it reminds me of this dood i liked for 4 years..and finally realizing its never gona happen..to top it off he was a great friend..
recently i listened to this song and i cried for a minute which suprised me cause i dont cry. i feel like she knew what i felt at the time. this is one of my favorites from her
Sometimes you have to let a man come around. When you say that we can handle commitment, what could be happening is that his feelings may not be as strong as yours yet. If you make a man feel obligated just because you have feelings, it's only natural for him to back off. We are more likely to handle our responsibilities with ease when it doesn't feel like we didn't have a choice. Enjoy the ride and give us the time to come to terms that we really want to be with you.
I've never heard this before either, and I must say that this is the jam. I love Mary's music, because she knows how to deliver. I can always feel where she's coming from.
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Thanks for sharing this song. When I bought this album when it first came out I was in love with a guy that d@mn sure didn't want me. This song helped me get through it. Thanks for the memories because my husband now is a better husband than he could have ever been...
honey child, i know what u mean about being in love with a guy that didn't want u because that's the problem i'm dealing with right now. i love him so much & just don't know how i'm gonna get over him. =(
Girl just stay strong and have this song on REPEAT!!! Know that there is someone out there for you who will want you just as much as you want him. God bless! :)
you will in time!! time heals all wounds. gain knowledge from your ordeal and know one day you will find that special someone who will share you the feelings you'll have for them!! good luck
i feel u iam in a situation i been with my man 4 8yrs and to find out he's gettin married someone else its hard to get over someone when you love them just remember there are brite dayz ahead i cry everyday and pray i let go now cuz this time next year he'll be married so keep ya head up babygirl
This woman is my IDOL 4 life... She is soo influential 2 all ppl particularly African American women. Her talent his unmatched and her growth as a woman is incredible.
I played this song so many times when i bought this album(which in my opinion was her best to date) I LOOOVVEEE THIS SONG, you could not tell me i wasnt Mary in the mirror
Nice use of Prince "I Hate u"..
Dionmichelle2008 3 days ago
LOVE THIS!
itsumbre 2 weeks ago
*Long, deep and drawn out sigh*
chooseywon 1 month ago
HOW CAN I LOSE A LOVE I NEVER HAD?
c11393 2 months ago in playlist Top 3 Songs Mary Albums 3
I 'd like to thank you Mary, for helping me lettin' ít go...
ixjaguarix 4 months ago in playlist Video's die door ixjaguarix aan de favorieten zijn toegevoegd 3
I was going through a divorce when this song/ album came out.. many of teary nights. LOVE LOVE LOVE this song
princesacrystal 4 months ago in playlist YouTube Mix for Mary J. Blige 3
I know she was singing about KC, but now who's got that shine and look who's walking around with jacked up teeth. Karma's a bitch, aint it?
miecy2miecy 5 months ago 12
@miecy2miecy LMFAO!!!!!!!! :)
mrttamara 3 months ago
And Mary, if you're ever looking at this comment, if you ever come back in another life, "Can I marry you" Pleeeeeeeeeeeeassseeeeeeee????"
BermudaEntrepreneur 5 months ago
@BermudaEntrepreneur...Your 2 funny! But you may have to get in line...sure your sentiments are shared by many! Have you received my reply to your message detailing the "MJB Live at the House of Blues" in LA?
surenuffright1 5 months ago
@surenuffright1 Yeah, I just looked it up on amazon. I may have to somehow rip it so I can jam to it at work. I don't know how to rip dvds yet. Thanks.
Well, if I can't marry her. Can she be my personal sleezy dominatrix for about an hour?
"Yes ma'm. No mam! Yes ma'm, I've been a naughty boy and I deserve to be punished! *SMACK* OUCH!!!
BermudaEntrepreneur 5 months ago
@BermudaEntrepreneur....LMAO!....You sure an hour will be sufficient??? Now there's somethin' to think about! ~ Depends on how far your mind can travel within it's imagination! ~ I'm just sayin'! LOL!...
Probably find instructions on 'ripping dvd's' on the net. Good luck, hope you find it! Again...cause you gonna love this concert! ;)
surenuffright1 5 months ago
I have the album somewhere in the house. I can send you a copy when I find it.
liksha78 3 months ago
I have the album somewhere in the house. I can send you a copy when I find it.
liksha78 3 months ago
@liksha78 I got it. Thanks anyway.
BermudaEntrepreneur 3 months ago
Sorry @BermudaEntreprenuer....think the concert & release date above is incorrect. Believe the performance I'm referring to may have taken place between 2004 - 2006! I have this DVD and it says 2006...but could be a print error! My apologies! If interested check between that time frame!
surenuffright1 5 months ago
@surenuffright1 Ok. i don't know that version or dvd. But there was a version on youtube where Mary J Blige was singing LIVE in a blue dress and doing scat vocals with the guitar player. That was soooooooooooooooooo bad ass. I used to bump that at work. Youtube removed it due to copyright infrigement. Is it that one?
BermudaEntrepreneur 5 months ago
WOW !!! I LOVE THIS SONG :)
aniahburns 5 months ago
Best song ever
msbenson1989 5 months ago
This should've been on her upcoming My Life II album since she sampled that same run from the first My Life album - love this song!! It sounds so live.
VisualTradeShow 6 months ago
MARY YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW MANY NIGHTS THIS SONG GOT ME BY!!!!! SIS YOU IS ON BAD LADY. ALWAYS HAVE BEEN ALWAYS WILL BE!!!! LOVE YOU
belmarterr 6 months ago
Yo Mary will have you crying and in your feelings.... I look up to Mary, her older music was beyond marvelous. The truth she put into this joint is crazy i mean "My Life" is my favorite album but this song just made the "Mary" CD one of the reasons I loved that album too.... This and No Happy Holidays. "I gotta wake up and stop living in dream" yes Mary sannnnnnnng
weewee234523 6 months ago 3
They had a live version to this song. It was even more intense than this. Does anyone know where I can find it?
BermudaEntrepreneur 6 months ago
@BermudaEntrepreneur....Mary J. performed live at the House of Blues in LA back in 2006. This performance was videotaped and is available on DVD...a intimate evening....'Mary J. Blige ~ Live at the House of Blues'. She tears this song up! And if you like 'The Love I Never Had'....you gonna love every song she puts down!...the whole performance...WICKED....I say~
surenuffright1 5 months ago
4:43 REALLY?
datsher1 6 months ago
I needed to hear this....
SuperNeche 7 months ago
Thanks Mary 4 this song. I really needed this right now.
Janisprollylikesu 8 months ago
this is my shit too
its deep!
olddud25 8 months ago 3
This is one of Mary best songs ever!
dagrinch05 8 months ago
***cry****
ingrid717 8 months ago in playlist mary j blidge
I use to cray to this!
ingrid717 8 months ago in playlist mary j blidge
This is my JAM!
ingrid717 8 months ago in playlist mary j blidge
1998..this song helped ease the pain..and still does! MJB sings to my soul.
n1nar0ss 8 months ago
this woman is so beautiful, te wrdz 2 her music beautiful n true<3
TeamLewinskyz 8 months ago
this should've been released on single. i have a real problem with her management team. all of her albums since '99 could've been bigger (well, sales & popularity-wise) but it doesn't seem like her team picks the best tracks 2 promote her albums. this is one of her alltime gr8est, hands down. yet most of her fans have never heard this.
htownhomie06 9 months ago 4
@htownhomie06 You are SO right!!!!! The Mary album was a great artistic piece!!! SHe used a lot of live bands for several songs, inclucind this one! This is a CLASSIC song
kimby80 6 months ago
mmmmmmmmm....
tuzluchi 9 months ago
wow,real good this song
tuzluchi 9 months ago
Loved it when after pouring out her heart over the song, she lets out a sob. Great song.
timmy841212 9 months ago 3
She IS my favorite singer not just because of her voice, but because she is so honest in her music, it's a story in every song that she opens up and share with us, this paticular song is where I am right now, and I have heard it so many times, but it's deeper now, but it inspires me to wake up and move on, as usual thank you Mary!
imstillarose 10 months ago 5
5 ppl gotta laugh to keep from crying
jaydoggable 10 months ago
Damn I cant believe my comment has 50 likes...I appreicate yall like something that was REAL from my heart!!!...
JBoogie1 11 months ago
Nice Melody and Lyrics. Classic! She Should Of Made A Video Out Of This Song.
Jams98 11 months ago 3
thank you mary for changing my life with your music
rayrobs24 11 months ago 2
better wake up and stop living in a dream.............smh
83ashmo 11 months ago 3
I just wanted to come back here and say wooow and thank you to everybody who responded to my post about this song this song and singer is just proof that music can really bring one back to life when they have thought everything has died. Keep it going everybody and keep it livin for 2011!
Pugartes 1 year ago 4
everybody needs someone to love and i know that it true and i know that it u i dont understand why u cant be my man so id better wake up and stop livin in a dream yes id better wake up cause i cant lose the love i never had so id better wake up as painful as it seem yes id better wake up ohhh love i can not lose the love i never had....
brandicurry 1 year ago 4
Love this song, Mary keep doing you!!
MrChester1949 1 year ago
great artist and great song
musics56 1 year ago
what do i have to lose? Oh i think a little bit more than youuu! AND I DOUBT YOU WILL SEE THINGS CLEARRLY BEFORE IT'S TOO LA -ATE!!! CAUSE EVERYBODY NEED SOMEONE TO LOOOVE!!
stylist203 1 year ago
@stylist203 That verse is the tear jerker for me!
coveredNfavored 1 year ago 2
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I wish I would of gave James a chance,you told me Your sis or mom told me he was a good man Miss you guys on the road t Will see you !!!!!!!!!!!Happy Thanksgiving.Susan from Saginaw
MsRoadie 1 year ago
I wish I would of gave James a chance,you told me Your sis or mom told me he was a good man Miss you gys on the road t Will see you !!!!!!!!!!!Happy Thanksgiving.Susan from Saginaw
MsRoadie 1 year ago
"i understand that you are leaving, please don't leave here without me babe, cuz i think i might go insane"
tierrasc 1 year ago
which album is this from?
alteri 1 year ago
@alteri this is from her 1999 "Mary" album
tierrasc 1 year ago
JIMMY JAM & TERRI LEWIS BRING OUT THE BEST IN EVERY ARTIST THEY WORK WITH!
yvemystique1 1 year ago 6
why cant u by my man?
nadladus 1 year ago
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soul13desire 1 year ago
this is the ONE song that always kept my head in the real world when it came to relationships, and honesty. And I too, thank Mary for always keeping it real in her music and appealing to the hurt, confused and crushed people of the world like I have ONCE been. :)
velisa1112 1 year ago 4
oh unbelievable played!!!! there's CHRIS DAVE . . thats shit...
Matheond 1 year ago
CHILLS! listen and hear the words people.
coveredNfavored 1 year ago 4
Mary def. should do another album like this. i can listen to it all of the way through
jphaggins 1 year ago 5
This is one of my favorite songs. I absolutely love Mary and this song. I definetly cried to this song too and aint afraid to admit it
jphaggins 1 year ago 2
And If The Words Of This Song Dont Speak My Life Then I Dont Know What Else Does! I Love Mary For Her Pure Honesty Mixed With Soulful Grace and Effortless Realness.
amir7worldwide 1 year ago 5
So had wake up 7yrs in but guess what not living in a dream today doing better then ever my hair has even grown back mary is the truth
387babycakes 1 year ago 14
feeling this song.............this here is deepppp,even tough we need love-don`t be a door mat..wake up!!
thinkstright2002 1 year ago
oh mary....(sob) thank you....i listened to this song and just pulled my tattered pride back together and covered myself..i dont want to be bitter and lonely..let me love me first.
moanmyname17 1 year ago
being in love with some one who won't leave some one for you is a mess and it hurts a lil bit more everyday you let it happen......i was looking for the perfect song to push me away and give me strength and this one screams it out for me :) love it.
gettadose 1 year ago 2
Played this song till I couldnt play it no more...gotta get all of MJB cd again ...and again...and again...hell
detaja2 1 year ago
the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rosariofree1 1 year ago
THE BEST BREAK-UP SONG EVER!!!!!!!!!!
Bnsashbl 1 year ago
Singing the words to this song out loud is real therapy and helps you realize that if it was meant to be it would have been. But God, obviously did not have that person as a lifetime person in your life so don't be afaid to let go~you can't lose the love you never had!
nicjoy80 1 year ago 3
This is the perfect song for my current situation. He says he loves me, but actions always speak way louder than words. And I can't lose the love that was never mine in the first place.
honiekisses 1 year ago
@honiekisses I know that's right. Stay strong girly :)
nicjoy80 1 year ago
One of the greatest Mary songs ever
MrBlaximus 1 year ago
DOes anybody have the 1st run edition of no more drama with the "love" song think it was track 2 and crazy games track 3
VAYVAYSDAD 1 year ago
i feel like this wit my past relationships we as woman have to love god and our selves first trust me i pray everyday for that unconditional love
MsAshley91 1 year ago
i love this song Mary i going through something just like this right now and i hurt but i no i have to wake up and realize that if he wanted me then nothing would stand in his way no excuses
brandicurry 1 year ago 3
This is one of my all time favorites. This is the first time I had heard a live band on one of her Albums...............No one does it like Mary.
MediumThickness 1 year ago
qoood sonq!
OfficialDreamerProd 1 year ago
you have no idea how much this song describes the exact thing Im going through this very moment,
yoshismomma2010 1 year ago
this song is so true she tells a story that most of us go through on the regular
redbonebonered21 1 year ago 3
Man did this song give me an awakening that was well needed in 99'...I love you Mary!!!
TheMsblack35 1 year ago 4
Mary this songs makes me cry everytime i hear it when im playing thIS song in front of ppl i try to hold back my tears but its hard."I HAVE TO LAUGH TO KEEP FROM CRYING"....even though Im a man we have feelings too and when u thought you had a LOVE and u realize you didnt it sucks....This person is still on my mind as I write this but this song helped me realize that i have to WAKE UP AND STOP LIVING IN A DREAM..thanks Mary for the years of music thats talks to the soul
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XxTruBluBallaxX 1 year ago
This means EVERYTHING to me right now,i'll listen to this everyday allday if i have to!
LiLMZSWEETZ843 1 year ago
I love it very much
kiwibadboy 1 year ago
I <3 this song, my fav to sing in the shower...haha...I don't care who is home...I belt it out! ~ I think it has more soul in it than any other song she's ever done, and that says a lot!!
sugarbabie101 1 year ago 3
@sugarbabie101 me too! I get horse! lol
tamikah130 1 year ago
Damn Mary Mary one of the best songs EVER! I heard this when I was going through a real messy break up and found out that I was hiv+ this song is the reason why I am living here today there's always a light at the end of that tunnel don't give up people!
Pugartes 2 years ago 163
aw hun..that's so wonderful! you have a purpose here on earth :) xo
Avalita07 1 year ago
@Pugartes
Hey sweery live your life like it is golden being Hiv + doent have to change the fact that you can still enjoy everyday every sunrise and every sunset
This song is so touching its just Amazing Mary J is 1 of my favourite Artists a true Queen
cj06feb 1 year ago
@Pugartes OMG I am so sorry to hear that. That takes courage to share that. HOLD ON DO NOT GIVE UP! STAY STRONG
tonae03 1 year ago
@Pugartes
UNFORGETTABLETODSHA 1 year ago
@Pugartes inspiring if you can make it through that i can make it through whatever keep your head up positives wishes and praises always...
redbonebonered21 1 year ago
@Pugartes - it is hard! i have had several ppl in my fam who have already passed on because of the ordeal with HIV/AIDS. Keep the faith and God will work it out. But i do understand the other part, this song helped me through a bad divorce. and since then life has been so much better! keep ya head up hunny! MWAH!
NUBIANSISTA25 1 year ago 3
@Pugartes When you come to the end of all the light you know! TWO OF ONE THINGS WILL HAPPEN: Either there will be something Solid in the darkness for YOU to STAND ON or YOU will be taught how to FLY!
Catwalkification 9 months ago
ii feel yahh mary.... i feel yah. if yu feel mary comment unda dhis... yahh feel meh...
lilmzangiemason 2 years ago 2
the "Mary" album is so soulful and down to earth, this is her best album besides, "Share My World" and "Love and Life"!
MsSimpsons1999 2 years ago
time warp..breaking it down..love don't live hear no more..what I never had a chance to get next to..damn..reality check..don't sign u away..it just gives u ur walking papers..2sign ..seal..and deliver..chow
create823 2 years ago
wow......fa male questa, ma è davvero stupenda ;-)
babetta70 2 years ago
i keep asking myself why so much pain in loving you???why do i think that without you baby i cant go on anywhere....it hurts my soul to feel my tears keep on faling and you to turn your back on me....why???was it realy nothing??did i mean this little to you baby???????maybe is better for bouth to let go,and find our way true life with someone else....nice song i dedicate it to my loved one that is thinking about living after 3 years becouse he is to stuborn...
jeyloz 2 years ago 2
"I gotta learn to keep from crying" "as painful as it seems"<<<,TOO REAL
ShawnaBdashii 2 years ago 4
i have always wondered why, why i can't live without you babe, and im longing to be your lady, i understand that you are leaving, please don't leave here without me babe, cause i think i might go insane
tierrasc 2 years ago
YES I BETTA WAKE UP!
09charmeka 2 years ago 3
Yes i betta wake up cuz i cant lose da love i never had....dats my song i can relate to dat song real good....
SSLH2012 2 years ago 4
This is BAAAAD! When did it come out and what album is it on?
xio3mara 2 years ago
It was on the Mary CD. The one where she finally showed her scar on the cover.
ThaRealestGyrl 2 years ago 3
Its on the mary album
Missyann78 2 years ago
its 4rm the "Mary" album..the one wit,"All that I can say," "Deep inside," "Give me you," & "Your Child" This my favorite song off of this album..i listen 2 it all the time seriously!!!!
oplatre 2 years ago 2
One of her best! Wow!
19kentrell 2 years ago 2
I LOVE THIS SONG! Love you Mary!
timmy841212 2 years ago 2
The second woman's theme song
belmarterr 2 years ago 2
its the first im hearin this and i love it
gazababy85 2 years ago 2
moma always told us you cant miss what you never had!
whouwantme2b 2 years ago 4
the break down on this song is siiiicccccccc!
whouwantme2b 2 years ago 5
love it!!! thanks for posting...
BasedOnFantasy 2 years ago
love this song
princess400 2 years ago
this is my shit right here!!!!!
driak1984 2 years ago 3
Her vocals are flawless!
BDizzleNY06 3 years ago 4
Sorry, but it's 'As an educator...' Just thought you should know if you're teaching others.
MissJagUR 3 years ago
As a Educator, recently dating a parent, this song describes my situation to a T. I can't believe how Mary captured my feeling 100% despite the time frame. This song came out much earlier then my situation but it is so relevant.
StingTsu 3 years ago 2
This song makes me burst into tears..it reminds me of this dood i liked for 4 years..and finally realizing its never gona happen..to top it off he was a great friend..
ilovethecreatoralot 3 years ago 5
i can defanitley relate
loveaffair79 2 years ago 3
That was the numbe 1 thack on the Cd in my opion
jpittman12 3 years ago
i agree!!!! i hate that it was overlooked though
driak1984 2 years ago 3
recently i listened to this song and i cried for a minute which suprised me cause i dont cry. i feel like she knew what i felt at the time. this is one of my favorites from her
cokoqt81 3 years ago
Sometimes you have to let a man come around. When you say that we can handle commitment, what could be happening is that his feelings may not be as strong as yours yet. If you make a man feel obligated just because you have feelings, it's only natural for him to back off. We are more likely to handle our responsibilities with ease when it doesn't feel like we didn't have a choice. Enjoy the ride and give us the time to come to terms that we really want to be with you.
SALLYSLAST 3 years ago
This lady is FINE
CABaby4eva 3 years ago
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I have to tell on mary j. Blie that tyou did not sing your song good enough that you can do better
its its note good enough any way I must say you of for the first time
or I call another black
this your song you you sung like you lazy
not that
call me its oo316 429 139 18 you sang lazy it was not good
ronaldveneboer 3 years ago
U HAVE TO WAKE UP
mrtalktome 3 years ago 4
this song is sooooooooooooooooo true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mrtalktome 3 years ago
CALSSIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
km816 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing
charlita25 3 years ago
this help me get over my ex
sjw187 3 years ago 2
dis is my jam.
prettybashful773 3 years ago 2
this song is so tru i ♥ it
chaunesejack 3 years ago 2
Mary was her best album - so much life in that album
DiamonClustaHustla 3 years ago 5
THE JAM FO SHO! LOVE MARY J THE QUEEN
WESTNASHVILLESFINEST 3 years ago 5
what is the name of this album, anyone remember
echustla 3 years ago
The album was just called "MARY" IT ROCKED!
nosugarcoatn 3 years ago 4
Damn I forgot about this
laburnum12 3 years ago
newgirlfriend,....girl i am gonna kick your butt!
This is my jam!!!
this song has sooo much power in it.
whenever i am in a really bad mood i puts this on and shed me a couple and go on.
oplatre 3 years ago 3
from 4:54 and on is FIRE!!!!!!
SWLASVEGAS 3 years ago
this is the first time i ever heard this.This joint is hot.
laburnum12 4 years ago 3
I've never heard this before either, and I must say that this is the jam. I love Mary's music, because she knows how to deliver. I can always feel where she's coming from.
Kimmica20 4 years ago 2
i miss cruently this Mary J. Blige. After this release she dropped her style
gianniranzi 4 years ago
Mary is just the realest.
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timbaapologize 4 years ago
Thanks for sharing this song. When I bought this album when it first came out I was in love with a guy that d@mn sure didn't want me. This song helped me get through it. Thanks for the memories because my husband now is a better husband than he could have ever been...
LilShortRib 4 years ago 3
honey child, i know what u mean about being in love with a guy that didn't want u because that's the problem i'm dealing with right now. i love him so much & just don't know how i'm gonna get over him. =(
mslbianca 3 years ago 6
Girl just stay strong and have this song on REPEAT!!! Know that there is someone out there for you who will want you just as much as you want him. God bless! :)
LilShortRib 3 years ago 9
you will in time!! time heals all wounds. gain knowledge from your ordeal and know one day you will find that special someone who will share you the feelings you'll have for them!! good luck
rc0609 3 years ago
i feel u iam in a situation i been with my man 4 8yrs and to find out he's gettin married someone else its hard to get over someone when you love them just remember there are brite dayz ahead i cry everyday and pray i let go now cuz this time next year he'll be married so keep ya head up babygirl
BEDSTUY35 3 years ago
this is from the mary album. the one where she shows the scar she has on the cover. this album got me through a really hard time. luv ya mary!!!
tedara1 4 years ago
Man I luv this song this is the first I ever heard of it,,, somebody tell me what cd is this on
denishaleonard 4 years ago
Its on the album MARY
greasy2007 4 years ago
omg this song is so true I YOU LOVE MARY
blueeyes0821 4 years ago 2
This is my favorite MJB song, hand's down. I was 18 when that album came out. It turned me into a bona fide fan!
walker519 4 years ago
This woman is my IDOL 4 life... She is soo influential 2 all ppl particularly African American women. Her talent his unmatched and her growth as a woman is incredible.
greasy2007 4 years ago 2
You listen to this when u at ur lowest and it brings u back up
QueenBee2309 4 years ago 3
this my favorite MJB song; she gave it to you on this one...The Mary album as well was a masterpiece!
jmass04 4 years ago 3
I played this song so many times when i bought this album(which in my opinion was her best to date) I LOOOVVEEE THIS SONG, you could not tell me i wasnt Mary in the mirror
mskdavis 4 years ago 2
i saw in concent in 2000 she song this song from her heart ''mary keep letting these people know''
80sbaybe 4 years ago 3
When she sings this song live you feel what she is saying, I luv it!!!
slimthug17 4 years ago
OMG I love it
TYEWE 4 years ago
tell em mary sing it girl!!!!
sexykita28 4 years ago
Girlfriend I love Mary J. B.
Mona966 4 years ago 3
Yes this my jam.
deon2fletcher 4 years ago 3
5 stars!
ravejoy32 4 years ago 4
Next to the "My Life" album, this is her best one by far....at least to me anyway.
diva216 4 years ago 4
Doesn't get any better than this! MJB @ her finest..
musicborn82 4 years ago 3
this is so tru to heart.....i feel ya gurl
MelphGurlNik 4 years ago 3
THE GREATEST SONG. EVER!!!!!
ImHereForMary 4 years ago 4
in my top 3 of mary j songs of all time i believe
Walib 4 years ago 3
Love this song. It grows on you.
ringozstarr 4 years ago 2