How to approach a two set indirectly in a mall

[todudwns]

Hey Adam, I love this video. I was wondering if you could tell us how to approach a two+ set directly during the day. I like direct a lot better even though I am MUCH more nervous when doing the approach. Could you post a video on how to go about doing that?

[rafzPT]

hey ! the best way in a club to meet some girl is aproach at her side and saying hey! how are u?

[waveflamer101]

Hey Adam, I have a really puzzling question for you. I have been studying PUA and other pick-up you tube videos and I came across this thing called "trigger words" from Nick Braddock and Savoy from Love Systems. "Trigger words" are used to spark certain emotions when talking to a girl, you know NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming) stuff because they have taken in key ideals from pop culture and Disney etc. So my question is Do you know any "trigger words" or can you come up with any???

[HeartPain47]

i love watching these types of video's they are very intriguing . lol

they help me out alot. helps me separate the players from the genuine...but then again i guess all men are hunters.

I still like your video's :P

[AFCAdamLondon]

@HeartPain47 Yep! Glad you like them!

[Beyondinc]

HI, when it comes to women my game isnt weak but this scenario i dont know what to do. When I'm at university and i walk down a crowded hall or even an empty one and i see a good looking girl looking at me and we walk by each other how do i initiate without coming off as a desperate creep because i tend to make moves that guarantee at least 90% success... i cant take rejection or my selfasteem dies lol

[ExecutiveDmitri]

@Beyondinc drawing from what u said. You're confidence is good. You're AA (Approach Anxiety) is killing u. Do 180 levels of social freedom by Brad P.

On commet:"i cant take rejection or my selfasteem dies lol" Rubish-youll have to get used being rejected, even on a good night everyone gets rejected. If some claim they are not, its a fraud.

Getting rejected (discomfort) is the price to pay for social skill. Its a good bargain ^^

There is no something for nothing!

[dennis3380]

HAHAHAHHAHAHA GREAT VIDEO TUTORIALS!!!

[MrBOPESquad]

Most hot females in Malls are usually 15 year old jailbait girls. The fact that the age of consent in the USA is 18=21 years old has made me come to the conclusion.

Adam Lyons (who only teaches in the USA) is teaching the art of pedophilia to 25-40 year old Virgins.

Google Adam Lyons SCAM.

PS_ I cannot reply to all comment as rumour has it Adam Lyons blcoks anyone who critises him.

[driftaindapub]

@MrBOPESquad well your a bell end

[ahmadzai6]

i approached a set of two, they gave me a good response but their friends came over and the girls got all busy with their friends. As soon as this happened, i said to them, u guys are busy i let you to it. bye.

but i am still not sure if i did the right thing, your advise please?

[ahmadzai6]

do you have a website or do you coach?

[riky3]

I'd preferred if you actually showed us rather than telling us.

[Andybaby]

Hi Adam.

Q: Ok, so you open, you're having a chat, they both like you, they're both cute, they're both giggly and friendly - then what? How do you:

1. Choose your target (ie they're often both hot)

2. Find a way to see her again without insulting the other?

[HunterPUA1]

Hey Adam...I can open fine...but I cant hook...any tips?

[fazank]

Question: I think ive developed a great skill in creeping girls out. i just look and never do anything (no psycho stuff just stare) help me get over AA and make the breakthrough. How do i do it?

[ezname1234]

@fazank A great man once said " pick up your left foot, then pick up your right foot. now you know you are still in control of your body. start walking up to your target and engage even if you dont have any opening line. your brain will think you are insane but by the 5th time your brain WILL come up with something to say." and it will take a while before you found the right thing to say but you will be progressing.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@ezname1234 :D

[AFCAdamLondon]

@ezname1234 HAHAHA THANKS!

[MegaMikecheck]

thanx

[dzhao888]

Isit possible to Isolate a 2 set?

[b29349]

@dzhao888 Yes, but only if you take both of them to an isolation point. A better way to go is - Go find a guy fast, explain the situation to him and have him distract (entertain) the obstacle will you isolate the HB.

[xxzxcusxme]

This stuff is great. I need this day game material, I can't run night game because all the clubs in my town are gone over 20s.

[mizkaterpyl]

predicament

[mizkaterpyl]

I'm in the same predictment as bigbeeforever except I'm a girl and it's a frequent male customer (who's smoking hot btw). How would i go about getting him?

[b29349]

@mizkaterpyl Guy's are easy. Say hi. I have a break in -- minutes. If your still here. Could we talk? See I have this stuck up girlfriend that is coming to ask to borrow some money. I'm going to tell her no and it would be great if you wre there so she will leave right way.

[bigbeeforever]

I have a frequent customer, thats cute and would not mind get together with. But as its work hours, i have to be professional..OR DO I? how would you go about getting a girl while working, the signs are there that she could be into me.

[b29349]

@bigbeeforever Say hi. I have a break in -- minutes. If your still here. Could we talk? See I have this stuck up girlfriend that is coming to ask to borrow some money. I'm going to tell her no and it would be great if you wre there so she will leave right way.

[UrbanPoet]

To get over AA, just have a good enough REASON to approach. Do your homework for different situations an figure out normal casual reasons to get into a conversation.

[BrandonDyckMusic]

hey Adam

are there any games/ tricks you could recommended to get over AA?

This is seems to be my sticking point HAHAHAHA

[kobracai78]

Hi Adam

how to approach a 4 or 5 set (larger sets) or sets with guys in it?

Thanks

[b29349]

@kobracai78 Say- looks like the fun is over here. hi I'm NAME. ask every ones name, compliment guys, neg The girl you want - Nice clothes, my mother has one almost exactly like it. Demo social value, neg agAIN. then isolate her. toouch her shoulder and continue.

[THeEraSerr]

ah this guy is so goood. thanx for the help mate!

[wj77wj]

hi adam

after she give her number what cana conversation should open befor ejecting?

[TheTipperaryMan]

@wj77wj

You don't have to eject if you don't want to. See how far the interaction with the girl goes. If she definitely has to be somewhere else e.g. work, visit her sick granny etc. you eject. If she has nothing else to do that afternoon why not stick around?

If you set your sights on the number that's all your going to get. Just continue the conversation and you could go for a walk, bring her for a coffee or take her for a drink right away and get her into bed that evening if you want.

[mdlam04]

What do you do right when she starts giving IOIs.

[itzkingswell]

Hey Adam and the guys :) I know you've probably answered this a million times, and all i wanted to ask is that: i'm new to the game and just wondering where to make a start approaching. Thanks and love the video

[Doo0ne]

Its just practice, its social skills, meaning the more u practice the better u get. Tho of course u have to practice the right way. Practising being a dumbass will just make u a better dumbass.. lol.

The conversations will last longer the more comfortable n confident u get.

[DreamHavok]

Great advice ,But I still dont get how i can keep a conversation going once im in .

what im trying say is that i want to learn how to converse with someone for a long time not just meeting them and trying to be attractive or interesting

Please help 'dl really appreciate it

Thanx Adam For UR great advice

[mandd80]

wanna close 10s who have more too them! I love latinos bn out with a couple bt cant seem to close any recently..any tips..I need to rejuvinate my magic some how! You have a lot of energy which i am sure helps..any tips on how to get it as energy is

[mandd80]

Hey Adam QUESTION/REQUEST. Fab vid as always. Could u pls make another vid solid closing in a night environment, bar etc. Ive learnt more 4rm watchin u than any1 else!

[dbdbdbdb100]

When do you go direct during the day? it seems like you mostly like using observational openers.

[Grothbar]

I was with my sister at the mall, and saw a two set looking at a jewelry window, and I said loudly, "Man, women are like magpies, SO easily distracted by shiny things." My sister replies, "Hey, it has to be shiny enough to get our attention." The two set laugh, and I open: "See? It's true! What about that ring ladies, is that shiny enough for you?"

Requirements: Wing girl sister ;)

[headrazors]

legend

[Rtv03]

Here's a question.

I'm preceived as a good looking guy, combined with the confident personality women seem to find it intimidating. Plus i got all these different methods in my head that contradict eachother. How do i go about this shite?

[burgerbaps]

my question = How can you build up inner game, what techniques can i use to help build my self esteem and confidence up? i dont know why but i get this idea that women think all about looks, so i dont even bother with them even though i really want to. Thankingyou :)

[DmitriSochlioukov]

talk to people, really really talk a lot till you have the confindence to approach and speak to everyone and then youll allso be able to speak for hours.

[lukeizze]

hey adam, im currently 17 years old

and attend a lot of 18 and below clubs with the majoirty of the people being

from 17-18 i was woundering if could help me with opening sets as i oftenly find it hard due to the noise and

feel slightly nervous.

[lucasiscoolish]

Hi AFC Adam, im a 15 pua haha and i work mostly in the mall. I actually also teach other tean guys. one of my students asked me a question that i didnt know quite how to answer;

What happens if im chatting with a girl, its going really well, tons of IOIs, and all of a sudden her boyfriend pops out of nowhere?

[n0c0ntr0ll3r]

This happens to me far to often. Any suggestions other than the standard I was just talkingto her and then the guy wanting to start a fight. I don't like fight because I always win... brutally.

[lucasiscoolish]

nice.

[kjbaumga]

My guess: Ask the question, "So who are you here with" pretty early so you know what's what. If too late, befriend the BF, tell him he's lucky or you KNEW she couldn't be single, or even "she told me good things about you." Ask him if she has any cute sisters. If not, does he. Say you'd like to invite them out with your friends sometime. If you get her name she might be on facebook.

[DisForDave]

Hey Adam!

How do you keep the interest of a set in a club with real high volume? i tend to get blown out cos sometimes its too loud to talk to both of them!

cheerio, Dave

[gangsterrred36]

Hey Adam,

so i started at a new highschool and i havent met any girls, can you show me a way to make friends at school?

[Sebastiananteros]

Hey Adam just wanna say big fan, love the work you do and the way your always willing to help lots of respect

Iv been sarging about 4 months now and its all gone well but, now in a bit of a rut, when is it that you felt you became more natural what was it that clicked for u, and what where the sticking points. Kade

[soulkitchen77]

hey Adam, thanks for this, its really helpful stuff.

my question is how do you re-build attraction with a girl that you were previously involved with (not an ex though) that wants you in the friend zone now? is it possible to jump ships?

[fireinyoursoul]

replyed :im sorry mate but im 20 years old your a bit too young for me. i wasent really expecting this response what kind of thing could i have said back? cheers

p.s. Im 15

[SpacedTime]

"Take a look at my dick, it's daddy sized"

[fireinyoursoul]

Hey adam hows it going? its olie from puaforum, i recently had my prom which was lots of fun, me and my buddys noticed a HB9 in the hotel where the prom was hosted noticiting that she was one of the catering staff, i walked up and told her that the meal was very nice, thanks then handed her a slip of paper with my phone number on, more of a joke than anything but then later on when we were all dancing i saw her come over again and decided to ask her for a dance, she

[shiinkii]

she what? finish it... i love stories

[StickyPeump]

Adam, this is great stuff.

I have one for you: How do you go on an insta-date? Is there a certain way to induce it, or does the situation have to be perfect?

[comfortbreaker]

Dancefloorgame! Tell us something about dancefloor game. I watched your DancefloorgameDemo (but its deleted now I think?) How do you approach? What are the important key facts you should know? Social proof?

[kelso7070]

Hi adam,

when approaching in the day time, is it better to pick girls wisely (ie approaching a girl that is not in a rush is better than approaching a girl who is clearly in a rush). Or should you approach indiscriminantely and see what comes from this. As clearly you will be limiting yourself. Also it seems that people are generally in a rush in the city(i live in Nottingham).

Thanks. btw i think your style of teaching and philosophy of 'game' is healthy, positive and fun!

[simplyalif]

I cant get Entourage game to work, I rock to the club with 15 girls or so.

And still cant get any results.

Its also hard to keep all the girls entertained aswells. How do you it????.

P.S My PUA mate thinks your a fraud but I still love ya. Gimme a Shout out aswell please to ALIF the greatest..... :-)

[AFCAdamLondon]

Hahaha Love ya man!

Don't try to entertain all the girls it'll only stress you out, instead sexually escalate with all of them while flirting then venue change at the end of the night for food with the one you want and then bounce again to your place.

Easy.

[goldeagle419]

hey adam, surging a girl in gym. wats a good opener and transition?

[alitwani]

Hey Adam,what would you consider the best day 2 situation?

Regards,

ali.

[ukpua]

Hey Adam, first thanks for giving back it's much appreciated. My question...

With day game the community focuses on approaching new girls but what is the best way to go about approaching women whom you've had eye contact and exchanged smiles with over a period of weeks?

Understand this is more of a small town game but still a very valid question for me and I'm sure others.

All the best

[spades2318]

Hey Adam, i've had a lot of problem with flakes. i do a lot of my number closes on the street or cafes and would find it relatively easy to build comfort, and getting them to invest + qualify etc. everything seems to be going well and sometimes they even OFFER they're number but they still flake. i read on the lss that its because of something i did, or didn't do while in set. whats the best way to reduce flakes? its ANNOYING

[darkchildadil]

Hey Adam,

What's a great way to escalate during day game, because i seem to be hitting this sticking point like crazy!

[HF1263]

Hey guys, I'm really wanting to look for some dedicated aspiring PUAs to go out winging and sarging with. It'll really help boost commitment and support to improve everyone's game. so if there are any of you out there in Auckland City in New Zealand, contact me.

[davidsafc]

Sarging is a bad idea. This is what Adam would say: Befriend a few girls and go out with a group of them and their friends. Instant social proof. Entourage game is incredibly powerful.

When women see men out in groups, they instantly think they're on the pull and are trying to decide which one of you will be the most pathetic.

Like Niel Strauss said, sarging is for loosers. If you want to go out with another PUA to improve off of each other, make sure the ration of girls to boys is higher.

[GWHS10]

Im in college now and Im starting to notice some of the girls Ive approached walking by, Ive been blown out by a few how should I recognize the ones Ive been blown out by?

love the vids

[JohnEPaton]

I'm a high school student, and at the moment I'm not friends with the group of people who go out to parties. How does someone who has previously been introverted, get invited to parties?

[RockinNFuckin]

How do you open a girl that's with her family?

[atxgreenbelt]

What exercises do you recommend to get your mind in the right state to meet strangers and be a sociable person? Especially when you are about to enter or are all ready in a social situation.

[Andybaby]

Q: You're in set with 2 friendly hotties. It's been 5 minutes, and they both seem equally promising. You'd be happy with either - how do you decide?! Can you see them BOTH again without going direct with one of them? ie when you don't know which one can potentially have the the hots for you?

[sib92]

A 2set + how to decide!!??! Well, why not ask if there into a 3some!! Girls can v. often be willing and Bi without being fully aware-You should suggest going to' the after-party',once they're in your room(Use Gamblers tips for this@PUATraining) bang!!May take practice but why the f#*k settle for one when you can have the two!?!

[davidsafc]

Hi, thanks for doing this, very cool of you.

There is a lot of information out there about the initial stages of seduction, but there is very little on relationships. I suppose what I'm asking is how do you keep a relationship fresh without your partner getting bored?

I haven't been in a relationship but I fear that I would not be able to maintain one as I fear I would have trouble sustaining conversation.

[phillfamous]

whats up brother...for your question about relationship managment ,i found some helpful resources at the love systems website... and also a pua named stephane at the ideagasims web site...concepts and beliefs rock not only for woman but for everything

[davidsafc]

Awesome I'll check those out, thanks a lot.

[mythicalknave]

Adam, can u give some tips for dancefloor game. I usually go out with some girls, but i find it still hard to open surrounding girls, without the wtf look.  Thanx again :) :)

[geolev]

If you day 2 at a club, how can you continue to game for the next day 2s without offending the first?  In general, is it ok to game other women in front of a girl that you are on a day 2 with or further along in the interaction?

[geolev]

How important is the beauty of the girls you bring for preselection? IE. Is it far better to bring a 10 or a bunch of 5s and why?

[dukebballfan2113]

What is the best way to break rapport, and build sexual tension?

[chrisjvpua]

Hi adam do you have any way to set up dates..

[fezz349]

Hey Adam, thanks a lot for doing these videos, we all appreciate you helping us out. Here's my situation: I met a girl through facebook and I got her aim, playing this one carefully, now she lives in the county next to me and I was thinking of talking to her through webcam first before I met her to save me the trouble andto make sure I want to meet her you know. We've been talking for maybe 10 days now, how would you recommend to approach this.

[yorgoc]

hey adam,

I would like to know how to open a set in night game without using canned material, like what should a "natural" night game opener sound like?

[mjd1982]

Dancefloor game mate! I saw your video on that... how do you do it?

[Nachry]

Question:Could you please shoot a "detailed" dancefloor game tricks? You have got 2-3 videos about it but they are not so detailed and I couldn't find very usefull dancefloor game videos. Please make a video on that or instead pm me if u know very good video about it.

[nomadic122]

Hey,

Im building my entourage in my home town I havent been here in a while so I know itll be a challenge to rebuild my circle.

I am good at meeting women at first but whenever I get their numbers and call them its alot of awkward silence. I always feel the worry of running out of things to say.

2. Also I want to know whats a good way to let a girl know Im just interested in being friends. Alot of times girls dont take me seriously when they say I want to be friends.

[comfortbreaker]

THX a lot for answering the question.

So here is my next (its more general):

YOUR Game model is based on buildiung rapport first and then braking it, but I learned rapport breaking is always made in the first couple minutes of the approach (and just a few times). A neg is a rapport break routine too, but its too hard for most of the girls. E.g. I just disagree with her "The Bar XY is quite good" "WHAT? Ohh cmon, you seemed to be cool but this bar is shit!"*smile*

Can you tell us a bit about it

[cubandl]

Question: I want a soild number close routine, its not that i need one to get the number i just want a smooth one to make the interaction seem less clunky when it comes to the number swap. I'm not a fan of neils torn paper number tear, you got anything Adz?

[StylemasterKaze]

ok so this usually is not a problem but from time to time a girl will put up her shields, is there a way around this, or should u just move on?

RAFC Kaze

[StylemasterKaze]

yet again another really helpful tip

[rsaini1]

RETAIL CHICKS at the mall?

Cockblocks - customers, male workers, time.

How to game? plz any tips!

[mynameisawesome100]

Ok,question...Bar game..Its loud its hectic and I just have no freaking way of knowing what to do how to open how to keep her how to go for anything..PLEASE AL do bar and stuff like that.I need mayor help!

btw like the book,kinda short tho =-(

[Jelltown]

would you still use roleplays and future adventure projections when going indirect? It kinda feels like i'm revealing my intentions when i do it. Do you still use these in indirect?

[stephibobz]

hey adam, just thought i'd leave a comment because i find your videos absoloutly facinating! being a girl i almost feel i'm peering into a world i'm not really supposed to be looking at, lol, but though i'd give you a girls POV.

If a guy came over to me and my friend i'd totally want to speak to him if he acted like that, espesially if he seemed genuinaly interested in knowing about me :D

good luck guys xoxo

[PEBBLETHEREBEL1985]

if a girl opens you

what stage of your equation do you starft on

straight into qualifcation? so u still need to break rapprt 1st?

thanx in advance to the best Guru out there

[nobb2009]

Hey Adam how would you open a girl that's super hot but she's with her family?

[comfortbreaker]

to Mother/aunt/grandma etc:

"Excuse me, I HAVE to make you a compliment:

You have a really wonderful/cute daughter. Youre the mother, right? Well I am XY" introduce to the mother. A this point you can break rapport at the beginning by ignoring the daughter and talkting to mother ABOUT the daughter, its quite funny XD With good delivery and a big smile the mother starts helping you. This works for german girls.

[b29349]

@nobb2009 two ways- Hey there's a woman that needs help. Would you come help her is... in the restroom, etc. Say, could you help me over here and second. Then, isolate. Tell her I wanted to talk you.

[hadji087]

1st. nice adam. very helpful.