its not only teens who cut,,sometimes the bullying comes from a teen to a parent and the parent starts cutting,,its not for attention or because your EMO,,its not a mental disorder ..its a way to release the pain...
Cutting yourself is just wrong.....u mess up the body god gAve u.... He did not put you on this world to cut your self......I don't care if people hate on this comment....at least im normal :p
Sounds like you have a high pain tallerence,but heres the trueth...YOU ARE A POSSER! True cutters dont show themselves on you tube.And they arent concerned about shareing stories.iF YOU WANT ATTENTION JUST ASK BUT DONT BRING SHAME TO THE TRUE CUTTERS.Sry if im sounding rude,but these ppl on you tube talking about being cutters are mainley ATTENTION SEEKERS!
@BFSsonic Okay, i'm not gunna say your completely wrong because i cant know that. But, what i do know is that just because some people show their scars doesn't mean they're a poser! Some people actually want to help other people in similar situations to them. For some, it helps them to stop. Like self counselling but that doesnt mean they dont have a professional too. Also, it's educating people more about the subject so if they feel like they need to cut, they know what comes with it.
@Co0kieSs2 Seems the word cutter or self harm has new meaning.Cutters were people who did it for spiritual self cleaning.Was the name used for certian tribal traditions,by the so called straight people.Originally it was to clean the soul or get rid of evil spirits.Now i geuss it has a difrent meaning.Now im confused!?
@Co0kieSs2 Very true i agree.Problem im seeing is the people that seem to be useing it for attention.Known fact,attention seekers will go to freat extremes to get it.Only way to help people with the real problem ,is to know how to find out if they are real or looking for some attention.Self harm for attention is dangerous.These type of people will hurt others if needed to get reconized.
@Co0kieSs2 You find out by doing what i did to you.I beleave now your not a fake,and your being honest about your self.Attention seekers respond to my comments with hostile responces.You didnt!Now i know your someone i might be able to relate to.
@Co0kieSs2 Attention seekers will go to many extremes to get attention.They will make stories up about sex abuse,do mild harm to themselves,hurt other people.Attention seekers will go to some extremes,and cxant be trusted at all!People with real self harm problems almost always are more humble ,and almost everytime,won't respond with hostile comments,when certian things are said.Ive got many years experience on this subject.
@Co0kieSs2 just wondering if u have to take meds,and if so have any actually worked for any length of time?I found out that some medications can actually make this problem worse.Whats your thoughts on this.
@BFSsonic No i don't. I haven't got help from any adults, only friends and in my opinion i don't think i need to. If i did have to i probally wouldn't anyway coz in general i just dont like taking tablets.
@Co0kieSs2@Co0kieSs2 Very true i agree.Problem im seeing is the people that seem to be useing it for attention.Known fact,attention seekers will go to great extremes to get it.Only way to help people with the real problem ,is to know how to find out if they are real or looking for some attention.Self harm for attention is dangerous.These type of people will hurt others if needed to get reconized.
I am actually glad you asked, I think alot of people would think what a stupid question. However it's not.!!!When you are upset and have been cutting for awhile sometimes the pain just doesn't register so we cut deeper and harder.
Making alot of people have the screwed up notion that we are "trying to kill ourselves". Which is generally not true! The pain does set in after the "rush" settles. Different people cut for different reasons mine is generally for control
>that by being responsible for our own pain we can no longer blame the real perpetrators of the 'original pain source'..overall, we need to learn to forgive yet put the blame where it belongs..without guilt or shame affecting our mental decisions as to where we place it.."forgiveness" because its something I have LEARNED to do which helps in getting by the past as well as taking control of my own future..if you don't do this you allow the abusers to always have control over you..Mike from Canada
besides, when I cut myself..I could take "ownership" of he physical pain I was feeling..as if by doing it to myself forced me to believe that it was my responsibility for the pain and therefore it diminished the subconscious pain I still felt from the past abuses..this is couter-productive because it often results in more and more self-injury of varying varieties..of which often the severity and frequency get worse since we've convinced ourselves consciously and unconsciously ...cont'd
I dissasociated when I cut..my dissasociation(multiple personality disorder)was a result of severe mental, physical, and sexual abuse..I feel strongly that they're correlated to the degree where 'cutters' are always people who have suffered traumatic personal abuse..I knew many people who cut and engaged in self-injury..every one had a painful past of abuse and low self-esteem..when I cut it was 'blood-letting'..it was the only way to get a "by-product" that was worthy of the pain I felt..
I do it becausethe cutting releases something in me that tears cannot. It's like I need to see the pain to explain my pain and the cutting does that. I have had it explained that it is a chemical release in the brain. My most severe cutting incident I cut up my arm and an entire leg
didn't help so I cut more and deeper and finally I was relieved. Unless your a cutter I think you really can't get it. And different people cut for different reasons, some for the blood, some for the pain...
heya i agree it does need to be talked about im 16 an im a self harmer to ive been doing for 4 years an it its bad because of the adiction i try to stop but the addiction takes over an i end up cutting again ive tried to kill myself 3 times they failed im here for u if u need me
I agree with you there. I'm 17 and i'm a self harmer too. I've been doing it since i was 13 or 14. I think the blood lust part of it should be discussed as well. The need to see something bleed, i suffer from that part and yes it is an addiction in the crulest form.
CUT IT! CUT IT TO THE GROUND MUAHAHAHAHAHA LOOOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
ThePipoca77 5 months ago
its not only teens who cut,,sometimes the bullying comes from a teen to a parent and the parent starts cutting,,its not for attention or because your EMO,,its not a mental disorder ..its a way to release the pain...
MegaValeriep 7 months ago
Cutting yourself is just wrong.....u mess up the body god gAve u.... He did not put you on this world to cut your self......I don't care if people hate on this comment....at least im normal :p
sillysam06 7 months ago
i'm emo and i cut myself but being emo has nothing to do with cut yourself.
deadbabyfromspace 8 months ago
you act like it's a good thing, you don't sound too unhappy about it.
AsHleYBaBByy20 1 year ago
showing your scars can trigger you should put a trigger warnig in the title
fallendarkraven 1 year ago
Sounds like you have a high pain tallerence,but heres the trueth...YOU ARE A POSSER! True cutters dont show themselves on you tube.And they arent concerned about shareing stories.iF YOU WANT ATTENTION JUST ASK BUT DONT BRING SHAME TO THE TRUE CUTTERS.Sry if im sounding rude,but these ppl on you tube talking about being cutters are mainley ATTENTION SEEKERS!
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@BFSsonic Okay, i'm not gunna say your completely wrong because i cant know that. But, what i do know is that just because some people show their scars doesn't mean they're a poser! Some people actually want to help other people in similar situations to them. For some, it helps them to stop. Like self counselling but that doesnt mean they dont have a professional too. Also, it's educating people more about the subject so if they feel like they need to cut, they know what comes with it.
Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
@Co0kieSs2 Seems the word cutter or self harm has new meaning.Cutters were people who did it for spiritual self cleaning.Was the name used for certian tribal traditions,by the so called straight people.Originally it was to clean the soul or get rid of evil spirits.Now i geuss it has a difrent meaning.Now im confused!?
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@BFSsonic Well then look it up. People do it for all different reasons but it still does the same kinda thing. It makes them feel calm.
Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
@Co0kieSs2 Very true i agree.Problem im seeing is the people that seem to be useing it for attention.Known fact,attention seekers will go to freat extremes to get it.Only way to help people with the real problem ,is to know how to find out if they are real or looking for some attention.Self harm for attention is dangerous.These type of people will hurt others if needed to get reconized.
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@BFSsonic Well how do you find out if they are real or not then?
Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
@Co0kieSs2 You find out by doing what i did to you.I beleave now your not a fake,and your being honest about your self.Attention seekers respond to my comments with hostile responces.You didnt!Now i know your someone i might be able to relate to.
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@Co0kieSs2 Attention seekers will go to many extremes to get attention.They will make stories up about sex abuse,do mild harm to themselves,hurt other people.Attention seekers will go to some extremes,and cxant be trusted at all!People with real self harm problems almost always are more humble ,and almost everytime,won't respond with hostile comments,when certian things are said.Ive got many years experience on this subject.
BFSsonic 1 year ago
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Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
@BFSsonic Okay :)
Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
@Co0kieSs2 just wondering if u have to take meds,and if so have any actually worked for any length of time?I found out that some medications can actually make this problem worse.Whats your thoughts on this.
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@BFSsonic No i don't. I haven't got help from any adults, only friends and in my opinion i don't think i need to. If i did have to i probally wouldn't anyway coz in general i just dont like taking tablets.
Co0kieSs2 1 year ago
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@Co0kieSs2 @Co0kieSs2 Very true i agree.Problem im seeing is the people that seem to be useing it for attention.Known fact,attention seekers will go to great extremes to get it.Only way to help people with the real problem ,is to know how to find out if they are real or looking for some attention.Self harm for attention is dangerous.These type of people will hurt others if needed to get reconized.
BFSsonic 1 year ago
@BFSsonic she just trying to find ppl to talk to. give her a break
deadbabyfromspace 8 months ago
maybe this is why you had your fire....
SlimShaney2539 2 years ago
I had a fire because I fainted I have a medical issue that my internists are trying to figure out it had nothing to do with this.
LadyIllusions 2 years ago
sure sure, thats what they all say!! lol
SlimShaney2539 2 years ago
and I've come to understand I want to see my pain and the cuts symbolize that for me. I hope this answers your question
LadyIllusions 2 years ago
i have one question does it hurt???
XXXmaddnessXX 2 years ago
I am actually glad you asked, I think alot of people would think what a stupid question. However it's not.!!!When you are upset and have been cutting for awhile sometimes the pain just doesn't register so we cut deeper and harder.
LadyIllusions 2 years ago
Making alot of people have the screwed up notion that we are "trying to kill ourselves". Which is generally not true! The pain does set in after the "rush" settles. Different people cut for different reasons mine is generally for control
LadyIllusions 2 years ago
>that by being responsible for our own pain we can no longer blame the real perpetrators of the 'original pain source'..overall, we need to learn to forgive yet put the blame where it belongs..without guilt or shame affecting our mental decisions as to where we place it.."forgiveness" because its something I have LEARNED to do which helps in getting by the past as well as taking control of my own future..if you don't do this you allow the abusers to always have control over you..Mike from Canada
JCMisHK 3 years ago
besides, when I cut myself..I could take "ownership" of he physical pain I was feeling..as if by doing it to myself forced me to believe that it was my responsibility for the pain and therefore it diminished the subconscious pain I still felt from the past abuses..this is couter-productive because it often results in more and more self-injury of varying varieties..of which often the severity and frequency get worse since we've convinced ourselves consciously and unconsciously ...cont'd
JCMisHK 3 years ago
I dissasociated when I cut..my dissasociation(multiple personality disorder)was a result of severe mental, physical, and sexual abuse..I feel strongly that they're correlated to the degree where 'cutters' are always people who have suffered traumatic personal abuse..I knew many people who cut and engaged in self-injury..every one had a painful past of abuse and low self-esteem..when I cut it was 'blood-letting'..it was the only way to get a "by-product" that was worthy of the pain I felt..
JCMisHK 3 years ago
=O I have that V.f poster. And I cut to (im 14) I have been doing it for years. Im glad someone made a video on it
GothicPlayMate 3 years ago
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Dang... you need to get help.
LastDamnedStanding 3 years ago
I don't think that it is
generally wrong to do, just not to the extent of your cutting. Some people smoke (bad), drink exesively (bad),
or do the REAL Xtreme drugs (mega-bad), but I think that if you use cutting as a release, hopefully you use
cutting as not too much of a release (there is a bad pun there too, but true).
JamalGleeson 3 years ago
OK, i get waht you were trying to say, but you NEED to say waht makes you cut so maybe the people that will
evetnualy help you and everyone else cutting help you stop or cut down (bad pun). Generally, i've heard that
cutters do it NOT for attention but to either feel alive or release some tension, blood is life, and to see it
is assurance that you are alive.
JamalGleeson 3 years ago
I do it becausethe cutting releases something in me that tears cannot. It's like I need to see the pain to explain my pain and the cutting does that. I have had it explained that it is a chemical release in the brain. My most severe cutting incident I cut up my arm and an entire leg
LadyIllusions 3 years ago
didn't help so I cut more and deeper and finally I was relieved. Unless your a cutter I think you really can't get it. And different people cut for different reasons, some for the blood, some for the pain...
LadyIllusions 3 years ago
heya i agree it does need to be talked about im 16 an im a self harmer to ive been doing for 4 years an it its bad because of the adiction i try to stop but the addiction takes over an i end up cutting again ive tried to kill myself 3 times they failed im here for u if u need me
tiffanylacey1 3 years ago
I agree with you there. I'm 17 and i'm a self harmer too. I've been doing it since i was 13 or 14. I think the blood lust part of it should be discussed as well. The need to see something bleed, i suffer from that part and yes it is an addiction in the crulest form.
SoraxRikulover 3 years ago
Yeah same with me, I need to see blood. I am 14 (nearly 15) and have been self harming since I was 12
GothicPlayMate 3 years ago