Last night he said, "All People in Africa are in the Occult" and I disagreed due to Christian Missions in Africa and he got upset. He said, "All protestants oppose the Catholic Church and are working with Freemasons to attack the Church of Rome." If you disagree (even in a peaceful matter he blow his top.
(part 2) Last night he said, "All People in Africa are in the Occult" and I disagreed due to Christian Missions in Africa and he got upset. He said, "All protestants oppose the Catholic Church and are working with Freemasons to attack the Church of Rome." If you disagree (even in a peaceful matter
@keepthefaith1 Religion on the believe in God are to different things. Not all people of of certain churches are bad and not all are good. Strange someone would make a statement about everyone in Africa. Not sure what to say execpt bad people come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religions, non religious. Just they same good people come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religions, and non religions.
(Part 1) This video describes someone I know. Yet us call him "Jeff". Jeff is a Roman Catholic, he reads alot of books. He wears his faith "on his shoulders". I would say, I like this and he would say "Thats stupid".) he gets really upset. In public (those he can use to get on top) he is really nice to............
yeah i was in a relationship with a person with this disorder, they assaulted me and i got away, they found me and apologized, and i forgave them, they didnt assault me again but they always tried to make me do what i didnt want to do, or convince me that because i didnt want to have sex with them, that i did not care for them, they also told me they loved me after 1 week of dating, at 3 weeks i broke up with them and they tried to pretend it was my fault
@BigFellaMarkus yeah its like they are trying to make you be some that you arent and in order to trap you they tell you they love you; i tend to be compassionate but im so glad i got out of it before anything worse happened
@prosperitywoman4life that's good u got out, i stuck with her for a while. I wanted to give her the benefit of a doubt but she is a extreme narcissist.. she actually just text me right now saying she was just using me for sex lol.
@BigFellaMarkus they always have to get the last word. Sometimes its better to let them have the last word so you and fade away from them like a distant memory.
@begood4000 yeah that's what she was doing and i just told her, thanks for saying that and left it at that.. few mins later she said she was joking lol
After finding out that my partner (of 7 years), had a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (because I watched these videos and extensively researched the disorder) I slowly prepared myself for the break 6 months ago. I finally ended the relationship 2 weeks ago, and I feel so peaceful and happy now. I feel free.
These videos (by begood4000) changed my life for the better, and I thank him.
@optionsupdate The best thing to do is find a good psychologist or psychiatrist that deals with personality disorders. State that you have concearns regarding you thinking you might be a narcissist and would like to take a test. They can then usually give you a test that can tell you what your problem is or isn't.
@macguyvergirl thank you for liking my video. Actually I do say at the begining of this video that both men and women are abused the same, and that I think it's wrong. Which is indeed the case. However, the reason for having this channel with the title men who are abused is because society wrongfully sees abuse on men as normal and humorous. Society already gets that abuse against women is wrong. We need to get everyone caught up to speed that abuse against men is wrong too. I help women too.
@begood4000 I agree. There is such a double standard against men in our society(western). Some women complain a lot that it's the other way around but I think that may be a distraction tactic. lol jk
@xXStrWbrrYsToneXx i think you are corret. The good thing is there are a lot of women waking up to this fact and standing up for their good men. They were duped out of their good men and now they want them back. Hopefully the pendullum will swing to the center where we all can just treat each other good.
@Indaingiver45 yw and thank you for your kind comments. I'm so glad you are aware of this problem. Hopefully more people will catch on and be able to save themselves from such people before it's to late.
NPD is really characteristics of a reptilians. these people have more reptilian DNA and this is what they really are, it is their natural way of being.. so they see nothing wrong with it..
@begood4000 Not many know about the Serpent races yet, there is plenty of info here on utube.. although much of it suspect and no most doctors are reptiles, so no i wouldnt count on them for anything.. unless you want to get sicker..!
the reptilians are emulators, manipulators, unable to show empathy, they are spiritually inept.
they love power, control, they r ego maniacs.. they dont care about anyone else, if they appear to, they are only doing it to get something for their own benefit.
They feel off emotional energy, so they love it when you are in fear, anger or love with them.
they deliberatly wind u up and criticize to get their feed ..The Govt & those in power are Reptilians who need the feed, so that is why they create violence, war, race hatred, gay discrimination, poverty,
divorce, separation, bullying etc. it is all to feed their cravings for emotional energy.
most 'celebs' you see are reptilians, they adore the praise & worship, getting more power from people..
After getting out of a relationship with a NPD, I was followed.
I fell into the pattern of accepting the appologies and believing that they've changed only to find the same 'punishments' re-occuring with just as much anger and venom as before. For a moment I thought that the person was hearing me, but they didn't. Your video has helped me realise that they won't.
Strength and wisdom to all who have found and are finding themselves in this position
@Skrhenderson I'm so glad you were able to wake up to this abuse and see it for what it is. I'm glad my videos helped. Yes, it's easy to get sucked in by their fake apologies, and to get brain washed by them. The good people of humanity need to wake up and see this so we have the chance to spend out time with the rest of the people instead of being sucked dry by these vampire types. The more this information is passed around the less chance these types of people have of winning.
@AstroMen2911 some narcissist can be like this but many are not. Narcissism and Borderline are actual personality disorders that makes the afflcted appear they have a mental illness at times.
My abuser was bipolar type 1. Abuse is pretty much the same. It's the disorder that makes them that way. I was abused by my x-gf in the past (when I was a man, I'm a transexual now,..and no I look nothing like a man..I've completed transition: Search Nong Poy and that's as close as how I look). Despite of my transexualism, this shouldn't disqualify me about claiming the abuse. If you hate me because I'm different, then I understand. Just remember, I'm a person too who can be abused by another.
@MyVoicenotSilenced I'm sorry you had these experiences with such people. It's a growing problem. It seems everyone has been negatively touched in one way or another by these people.
Wait...do you think I'm narrcisticic? that's why you sent me a F/R? just curious... Because i've heard it from my dad only in joking term but, but do you believe that?
@begood4000 just noticed you are the author....duh. and perhaps you either an experienced soul of a narcissist or mental health worker... obviously you have vast knowledge regardless and you hit on 2 key points ; 1. Cant ever get explanation time...2 dont bring up issue at later date unless u want to reopen a sore subject
@begood4000 if you have never been exposed to someone abusive you"re not missing anything fun. it is shame on them fiirst 10 times shame on me thereafter. Bottomline i allowed it to happen. sad that the abuser can be so perfect while the wind blows their way but when it doesnt, look out.
@iworkforme any correction depends on the motivation for the person with this problem to seek help both mentally and spiritally. They also have to be honest in therapy sessions which 99.9 percent of the times they're not. However, the best way these people can get help is to have someone else that knows their behavior detail for the DR what their behavior is really like. They have to give concent and sit back and let someone else talk about them because they won't tell the truth themselves.
@begood4000 thanks. I wonder how the disorder is developed? could it be from constant berating from a parent in early life and the child learns that he/she is wrong even if they are right and so they learn to lie in self defence?
There are reportedly many (even 8) factions or variations of feminism, from uber-hostile NOW to male-friendly ifeminists.
the ifeminist web site even publishes many article that are anti-main-stream-feminism/pro-men's-rights. Still many men get an uneasy feeling about ifeminists but can't put a finger on exactly why. Here it is: ALL feminist factions have at their root the same foundational claim/MYTH/LIE: that women were oppressed. Otherwise they would not be feminists, of any faction.
@begood4000 When we refuse to see the enemy fully, we pre-surrender to that enemy. We can't fight a mythical enemy and win n the real live war. Many "commanders' mandate that we don't make it political (it's all political) and that we don't bring religion in (which is femifascists' winning front - idolatry as female/mother-worship) and that we don't tell the FULL truth which is "too offensive" so as not to offend anyone, esp the gang-rapists, abusers, pillagers of men, children and ALL society.
Congrats! You really nailed it well - Far better than 99% of psychologist can or do.
Sociopaths Are likewise more female, but the PC "psychologists" in charge of the DSM manipulate the diagnoses to target and define ONLY men while enabling and excusing entitled narcissistic and sociopath women (the ages-old pussy-pass). "Women's oppression" NEVER existed in western civilization which always put women on a pedestal. Thus no gender pendulum, ONLY institutionalized worship of women - idolatry.
@addvoc8 thanks so much for liking this video. Hopefully this type of education will help swing the pendulum a bit hopefully to the middle anyway as this bias is only hurting our society.
@begood4000 Even the mention of the legitimacy of a gender pendulum is promoting that feminist myth.
Futilely trying to stop a non-existent mythical gender pendulum lets the solid eternal institution of female-worship/supremacy continue to thrive as it always has from time immemorial.
We must only target the everlasting solid institution of female-worship, supremacy and entitlement, a solid institution eternally perched on alabaster pedestals supported by a firm foundation of chivalry.
Great truths here. Ten years with one of these characters. When she couldn't get to me anymore, she just said "You should go kill yourself and do your family a favor........." You may have left out the pathological lying part of this. This may be in part 2.......
A lot of radical lesbian feminists (who are narcissists) post on the internet (and youtube / facebook) as men or heterosexual women. They aren't. They write as men in order to make men look stupid, or the post as heterosexual women giving the impression that all straight women hate all men.
Yes...he literally loathes me if I do something nice for him, but expects me to do EVERYTHING short of breathing for him. He actually thinks he is "doing me a favor" by being with me. These people should be caged. They lives they destroy...he has ruined every woman he has ever been with. If he doesn't get his way on the smallest thing, he threatens to leave.
@blueguise23 what you described is classic for these types behavior. They do indeed wreck lives like a human wrecking ball. The key is to know the signs and in future with new people like this to leave sooner rather than later. Dealing with such a person can be used a valueable learning tool. Learning what makes these people tick can be a valueable gift indeed. However, the pain one must thru with this people is just terrible.
Your videos are SO ACCURATE! It is as if you have studied my husband. He does this stuff all the time. He is a monster. Life with him has been a living hell!!! He then apologizes, says he loves me and sets me up again for his cruelty. Narcissist HATE kindness. They loathe when people are nice to them.
@blueguise23 I'm sorry you had to go through such an ordeal. Yes they do hate niceness. They see it as a weekness. They feel their victim gets what they deserve for being week.
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Healthy people run into people with issues just like unhealthy people do. The difference is that healthy people once they’ve figured out something isn’t right, they move on. Unhealthy folks take a different approach. They run the gamut on trying to change and or justify or rationalize abusive behavior. But really, conjuring up narcissistic personality disorder to justify your relationship failures is bullshit. Bottom line brah, you’ve got no stones!
@wrouillie actually I did not make my videos to justify falling prey to narcissist in past relationships. I do this to educate those that are caught on the hamster wheel and can't get off. Actually my stones are attatched to me just fine. That is why I speak the truth about something that is an unpopular taboo topic that many aren't willing to address. Thank you for watching my video and providing your comment.
@wrouillie that would be a wrong assumption. They might have been victim to a narcissistic mother or father growing up. Thus not having the same life skills to detach themselves from the abuse. These videos shares with others this information, and has done a lot of good. Hundreds of men and women have now opened up their eyes got their "stones" and are abuse free and making healthy descisions for their life. I live by the rule love you neighbor as yourself, & giving my knowledge is doing that.
@wrouillie - If you had been in a relationship with someone like this, you would not be saying that.
It's not a matter of having 'stones' or in my case, 'oves' - it's a slow, slow breakdown of your self image. A Hallmark of NPD is a very charming personality, and someone who treats you like you are The One, the Best they've ever had, no one has ever been like this...it's intoxicating...and they tend to find people who need that.
@wrouillie these types are slow working poison. Many people are victims of these people in other areas of their lives and don't even know they were victims. These types don't just meet someone and start acting bad. That is easy to spot and easy to run from. These people come to you as your best friend. They treat you like you are the love of their life. Then thru years of munipulation does the real abuse start, but by then you are stuck financially, emotionally, and phsycially with kids.
@begood4000 Yeeeeeaah, like I said before – no stones. Don’t bother with another “heart felt” educational snipped from some western psyche text. No stones, stones not attached, nope, uh uh, not.
@wrouillie not something snipped from a book. This is what I grew up with in my home with my mother. Would you say a 8 y/o child has no stones are a mislead ? Well if you grow up this way it's easy to grow up and end up with someone just like that again. Only with education can one understand why and get away from such people.
@begood4000 - so now I'm supposed to believe that an 8 year old conjured up this disorder with neither books nor schooling and from shear experience? You can’t be serious. I may not know you personally, but the NO STONES impression stands.
@wrouillie what does where a diagnosis came from have to do with child abuse ? Have you ever heard of mothers making their chidlren sick on purpose so they can go the hospital because they are addicted to the attention they get ? Munchausen Syndrome by proxy ?
@wrouillie saying that james dosent have " stones" isnt relevant.but you wouldnt know that because obviously you are a narcissist,pathetically so because you didnt get my point.
@wrouillie clearly no one especially james want your opinion.i dont have to know anything about you because its OBVIOUS you are a narcissist because you come here insulting james.
@fallencypress2 I don’t know James, I don’t know you and nothing is obvious other than your inability to think critically. Besides, one doesn’t need a reason to insult another person – dummy.
@twodice416 Knowledge is indeed power. I'm glad you are now gone away from such a person. The goal now is to be able to spot these stealthy users and munipulators so they can no longer reak havoc in your lives. Thank you so much for your kind words about my video. I do hope you watch the others as they will be in more of help I think.
Society and the law looks the other way when they see the woman abusing the husband. "He's a man and he should take it, you're a big boy and you should handle your woman" kind of crap attitude. What they don't realize is that abuse is a cycle and can be passed on from generation to generation costing a lot of money. If you dismiss abuse from women, and prosecute mostly men, the cycle will never stop. The system and people in general are ignorant and primitive. Afterall, we are just primates.
I feel your pain. In my case my gf has bipolar and there might be similarities with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. She doesn't do it all the time but when chemical shifts in her brain, she becomes a monster in a second. I'm also being henpecked beyond belief. When she calms down, she feels guilty and apologize. This happens everyday so I hear sorry pretty much every night.
vid is brilliant just like the gentleman that talks about the dangerous woman. My npd gf would play backgammon or read junk mail when I would try & have a meaningful talk with her she even confessed to me that she only wanted to hear nice things about her & nothing bad about her I mean npd or what? even she must have realized it when I told her she was yet she was so mad when I told her yet she didn't deny or confront the issues! She’d use good sex to manipulate or it was shit
she said all my viewpoints were being negative IE i couldn't say the truth or had to be embarrassed to ask for simple things yet she would have no embarrassment requesting things most women would be too scared to ask especially teh way she would demand it. What a bitch just totally used me in teh relationship. Yep shed only enhance things she was doing & wanted emotional support yet never gave me any except to find out what i liked so she could then manipulate it. Good fucking riddance bitch!
Thing is....they actually appear to LIKE abuse. When someone is cruel to them, falsely accuses them of something or punishes them in some way (like putting them in jail) They (NPDs) love it! They will show that person love and respect and rationalize in their minds that they are being "mean" to that person. BUT the person that stands by them, shows them love and respect they absolutely HATE. They will call that person names, show them no respect, and tell them how bad they are. (My husband)
she gave everything to these criminal scumbags that were drug dealers & 1 ended up being murdered because he stole large amounts of $ from his victims & yet she helped this monster by paying for his plane ticket to free this shithead yet I helped her through her panic attacks when shed cry just when i was going to have my orgasm selfish if that doesn’t fuck up a man’s masculinity. She made me jump through hoop. She also said sorry wo confronting.
Good work. You made an important point on ratio/frequency based on sex. The error in statistics is at least partly due to the fact that "mental illness" is counted when the patient is suffering from a condition. Thus, a person with condition X who is successful at getting away with bad behavior will not become a patient and therefore not be counted as a person with condition X.
@thejolene100 I'm so glad you found my video helpful and yes men and women can be equally abusive. However, society sadly turns a blind eye to women that are abusive. This just leads to the vicious cycle going on and on. Hopefully this video might help someone escape before it's to late.
Thank you for the effort you put into this excellent video. I am a woman who is just getting out of a six-and-a-half year relationship with a narcissistic man (married since last July). Narcissistic behavior is universal and not gender-based. What you described is what I lived through almost exactly, except that my soon to be ex-husband couldn't care any less that he is losing his wife and kids. I bore him now.
@greenranger8100 I'm glad you found the videos helpful and that you are out of your toxic relationship. Yes, though they like to hang on to their prey as long as they can, but when they get bored they kick their once prey loose like they never knew them. Just sick behavior.
From what I have experienced in my personal life, or have seen or heard about, I believe that there are more women than men, who shown signs of narcissist behavior. Men have not been as open as women to talk about their relationships. This is why the professionals believe that this disorder is more common in men than in women, but, like yourself, I beg to differ!
@suchafool990 I can understand how you'd think that, I used to get that mixed up before I learned about Narcissism as a disorder. The disorder has nothing to do with vanity or being conceited, or any preoccupation with looks, but it's easy to conflate the commonplace word (narcissistic) with the identically named personality disorder.
I think the majority of narcissistic people are stupid and spoiled because either they have been given everything, in a monetary sense, or because they're good looking (mainly girls in this case), so they are truly unaware of others feelings/concerns/struggles/etc. They can't help it, and they won't understand their selfishness of lack of moral character until they hit rock bottom.
gee....I wonder if living in a society where Hollywood and the entertainment industry places utmost importance on youthfulness and looks has anything to do with epidemic of narcissism.
@suchafool990 yes, actually what young people see on TV can and indeed does shape a lot how our young people think. So, if they see non-caring quick fix relationships and quick divorces, and people that get a mate on a reality show then they start to become very shallow and Narcissistic in how they approach their own relationships that utimately fail.
@suchafool990 This video is not about the common understanding of narcissism as simple Hollywood-style vanity; it is about narcissism as a complicated psychological disorder.
This video should be a "must see" to all narcisstic women in the world. Not that they would see themselves - all narcissists have zero empathy, so you could hit them in the head with a 2x4 of common sense and it would have no effect.
@ohjujubeeme yes indeed. i agree that npd is" feminized"with the histrionic and bpd labels. all these behaviours share a narcisstic disregard for others and lack of real empathy. i think men are cornered by society because patriarchy teaches them to suffer in silence and not to honor their own feelings. i think women who prey on people in this fashion have an advantage, they are often able to pretend to be people of great empathy or feeling with many guises for different audiences.
@calloway7000 don't talk to her unless you have to. Don't show any emotion when you do (fear to happiness). Fear will make them pounce on you and happiness will make them do the same. Don't talk about anything personal to or around them (this goes with don't talk her unless you have to). If her behavior gets worse torwards you transfer to a different dept quick.
I agree that there are just as many female narcissists as men. Women are often labeled as Histrionics or Borderlines but I believe both of these are "feminized" versions of narcissism or antisocial personality disorder.
@ohjujubeeme I think your point is a ver important one as we need to take the stigma of the gender off of these disorders that both genders suffer from
I just watched all the videos in this series and I can't thank you enough for the info I've just learned! I'm a female dealing with a female boss that appears to be a "stealth" narcissist. I'm one of the select few that she unleashes her abuse on. I'm arming myself with a digital voice recorder to gather evidence of her nasty behavior that she only does in person. She has the classic sweet & mean behavior, gossips to others about my personal life and acts very different in front of co-workers.
@gingerztube I'm glad my video series has helped you. Yes these stealths are all to common, but because they're stealths they fly under the radar. I'm glad you're noticing this and are going to hopefully get yourself free of your Stealth boss.
You know, instead of pitying the victim, why don't you start pitying the 'narcissists'? It's not their fault they are built like that, and they need as much support as the so-called 'victim' does. Narcissists are people too, how do you think they'll feel if you just LEFT them because they were hurting you? The truth is probably that they are suffering as much as you are. I hate these misinterpretations
@Mikutashi I went out with one recently. I offered to help and she wanted to know nothing about it. Unfortunately, the narcissist doesn't realise they are doing wrong. The lies and manipulation are so ingrained, that they now believe it to be truth.
Plus when they are female, 99% of their friends make the issue worse by backing them up, even when they are reasonably sure that the narcissist is lying. It's that rubbish 'it's raining men' attitude. Women will stick together whatever the truth.
@Mikutashi (That sounds sexist, but it's true). My view is that a lot of this disorder, stems from the sense of entitlement that women are given by society. I've found the most narcissistic people in life are single parent, unemployed mothers. In other words, people with huge chips on their shoulders.
I don't pity these people. They are evil, manipulative, and deserve everything they get.
@jamesvolunteer That is not entirely true. Some, or perhaps a few, narcissists do realize what they're doing IS hurting other people. But people seem to forget that this is a 'disorder', it's not something they can easily change as if narcissism was their choice. Say psychopaths don't choose not to feel emotions, they just psychically can't as it's a brain disorder. What the 'victims' and the narcissist really need is determination if they want their relationship to go well, there's always hope.
@Mikutashi Depends if you're talking about an actual personality disorder, or just selfishness. A lot of people hide behind medical labels. Which is something the narcissist does naturally anyway.(i.e You have a headache, so I have a migraine). On the whole, I see narcissism as a trait, not a disorder.
Also, I'm not sure how you think these people can be helped. Narcissists hurt the ones closest to them. Like sending rats into a research lab and hoping the scientists will feel guilty.
3. It's always the victim trying to make things happen for their lil' fantasy, even in ways that compromise you as a person! It leaves you drained! In this world you have to teach people how to treat you, DO NOT tolerate this. There's BETTER people who will treat you like the human being you are. Love, respect and patience is needed and they CANNOT provide that. Run away as fast as you can from these energy vampires! As sadly, they lack empathy and will not care. Love yourself.
1. I have been a victim of an emotional abuser/narcissist.
I'm so happy I got out early, though I wish it was sooner. Honestly, I was scared, lonely and damn near programmed. EVERYTHING you said in this video was dead on. There were SO many red flags and I always felt on eggshells. That person was never concerned, caring or genuine, rather, selfish, exploitative, FAST, needy, moody/angry, judgmental, drama and manipulative.
2. I was always left feeling insecure, unhappy and as if I was the one in the wrong when I did NOTHING wrong in fact. What I did wrong was allow this behavior and not work on my life before bringing someone else in to ruin it before it got better. It's so funny that narcissist want so much out of you and relationships aka perfection (which does not exist) but yet they don't bring anything to the plate LOL.
@begood4000 Thank you :). And thank you for exposing these hurtful people.
I'm sorry you had to go through these painful events but at least now you can help others and spread the message and show them how to move on.
I've read some of your vid comments and some people view this as misogynistic and I don't agree at all. Men can be abused too and be taken advantage of also and this can happen to women as well, of course, as you stated.
@IslandKiss246 you're very welcome. Yes it can happen to both men and women a like. I'm glad you could see the points of the videos and know I don't mean anything negative towards good, nice, decent women ( and there are good women out there). However, some of my videos shows these women cursing, acting terrible and abusive as toxic people in general can do, and they assume I'm pro man and anti woman. I am no way this. I'm pro-people. At some point I will make videos showing the other side
@IslandKiss246 I'm glad you were able to learn this very important life lesson. You are so right. Narcissist expect the world and then some leaving us drained, yet they bring nothing to the plate.
@begood4000 Yes :). It is a life lesson and it made me stronger. I thought I would be very sad after ending things and felt a loss, but, I feel a great gain to live life, do better, meet better people. A big weight has been lifted off my shoulders as I don't have to compromise myself anymore. Only thing that I'm struggling with is gaining back my power, healing from compromising myself and the hurt by him. Every since I dropped this person my life has been getting on track. Coincidence? Not lol.
@700moby Most Narcissist become very aware of this fact from an early age. They take on the role of the predator and enjoy it. The only thing is they don't think there is anything wrong with it, but yet they're entitled to this role. However, there are some Narcissists that aren't life smart and don't know they are offending and hurting others. These types often get used by other self aware Narcissists.
@700moby good question. The reason why they stay is the reason why they started the relationship to begin with. It's to have a long standing victim in which they can feed of the misery and pain they cause in that individual. That's what we call Narcissistic Supply. They slowly work to get control of this person and sadistically misuse these people as they see fit. It's the only thing in the world that makes them feel good. To abuse others how they were abused as children most likely.
i never knew I was with someone like this til this video...ty for this video it explains a lot
nayukimai 5 days ago
i'll say it would be worth going to prison for killing a narcissist
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Last night he said, "All People in Africa are in the Occult" and I disagreed due to Christian Missions in Africa and he got upset. He said, "All protestants oppose the Catholic Church and are working with Freemasons to attack the Church of Rome." If you disagree (even in a peaceful matter he blow his top.
keepthefaith1 3 weeks ago
(part 2) Last night he said, "All People in Africa are in the Occult" and I disagreed due to Christian Missions in Africa and he got upset. He said, "All protestants oppose the Catholic Church and are working with Freemasons to attack the Church of Rome." If you disagree (even in a peaceful matter
keepthefaith1 3 weeks ago
@keepthefaith1 Religion on the believe in God are to different things. Not all people of of certain churches are bad and not all are good. Strange someone would make a statement about everyone in Africa. Not sure what to say execpt bad people come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religions, non religious. Just they same good people come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religions, and non religions.
begood4000 3 weeks ago
(Part 1) This video describes someone I know. Yet us call him "Jeff". Jeff is a Roman Catholic, he reads alot of books. He wears his faith "on his shoulders". I would say, I like this and he would say "Thats stupid".) he gets really upset. In public (those he can use to get on top) he is really nice to............
keepthefaith1 3 weeks ago
Blame it on "Mother's Day", from where all this "worship-wanting-women" and worship-wanting-mothers" glorifying mess has derived!!!!
LainOutOnTheFloor 1 month ago
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LainOutOnTheFloor 1 month ago
yeah i was in a relationship with a person with this disorder, they assaulted me and i got away, they found me and apologized, and i forgave them, they didnt assault me again but they always tried to make me do what i didnt want to do, or convince me that because i didnt want to have sex with them, that i did not care for them, they also told me they loved me after 1 week of dating, at 3 weeks i broke up with them and they tried to pretend it was my fault
prosperitywoman4life 1 month ago
@prosperitywoman4life I'm glad you got away from such a toxic person.
begood4000 1 month ago
@begood4000 yes and thank you for shedding light on the mindest of people like this, i just wish that there wasnt so many people like this
prosperitywoman4life 1 month ago
@prosperitywoman4life lol my ex said she loved me after about a week or two after also
BigFellaMarkus 1 month ago
@BigFellaMarkus yeah its like they are trying to make you be some that you arent and in order to trap you they tell you they love you; i tend to be compassionate but im so glad i got out of it before anything worse happened
prosperitywoman4life 1 month ago
@prosperitywoman4life that's good u got out, i stuck with her for a while. I wanted to give her the benefit of a doubt but she is a extreme narcissist.. she actually just text me right now saying she was just using me for sex lol.
BigFellaMarkus 1 month ago
@BigFellaMarkus they always have to get the last word. Sometimes its better to let them have the last word so you and fade away from them like a distant memory.
begood4000 1 month ago
@begood4000 yeah that's what she was doing and i just told her, thanks for saying that and left it at that.. few mins later she said she was joking lol
BigFellaMarkus 1 month ago
Generally vanity and narcissism is more acceptable in women than men
kashifv 1 month ago
After finding out that my partner (of 7 years), had a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (because I watched these videos and extensively researched the disorder) I slowly prepared myself for the break 6 months ago. I finally ended the relationship 2 weeks ago, and I feel so peaceful and happy now. I feel free.
These videos (by begood4000) changed my life for the better, and I thank him.
andreasegde 1 month ago
@andreasegde I'm so glad you like my video and you found them helpful.
Life changes can be good :)
begood4000 1 month ago
Fuck these bitches...Get your cash on M.O.B.
IraHayesIraHayes 2 months ago
Compare this with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
thanks for this great video, I think i may be a narcissist, is there a test I can take?
optionsupdate 3 months ago
@optionsupdate The best thing to do is find a good psychologist or psychiatrist that deals with personality disorders. State that you have concearns regarding you thinking you might be a narcissist and would like to take a test. They can then usually give you a test that can tell you what your problem is or isn't.
begood4000 3 months ago
Viewing this makes me learn something that I was not the Crazy One after all. Thanks for the video.
Nelson10125 3 months ago
@Nelson10125 I'm so glad you enjoyed it ;)
begood4000 3 months ago
Thank you.
Maybe2348 3 months ago
@Maybe2348 Your welcome
begood4000 3 months ago
This set of videos is helping me a lot. I watch them almost every day, because it's nice to know I'm not alone. I thank you, begood4000.
andreasegde 4 months ago
@andreasegde thank you for liking them, and thank you for watching them. I'm glad they're helping you :)
begood4000 4 months ago
I clicked "like" on this video, but it's not fair that he only refers to the abuses as female. I have a male one.
macguyvergirl 4 months ago
@macguyvergirl thank you for liking my video. Actually I do say at the begining of this video that both men and women are abused the same, and that I think it's wrong. Which is indeed the case. However, the reason for having this channel with the title men who are abused is because society wrongfully sees abuse on men as normal and humorous. Society already gets that abuse against women is wrong. We need to get everyone caught up to speed that abuse against men is wrong too. I help women too.
begood4000 4 months ago
@begood4000 I agree. There is such a double standard against men in our society(western). Some women complain a lot that it's the other way around but I think that may be a distraction tactic. lol jk
xXStrWbrrYsToneXx 3 months ago
@xXStrWbrrYsToneXx i think you are corret. The good thing is there are a lot of women waking up to this fact and standing up for their good men. They were duped out of their good men and now they want them back. Hopefully the pendullum will swing to the center where we all can just treat each other good.
begood4000 3 months ago
Wow.... That was profound dude.... I've known many!
carlinsaves 4 months ago
@carlinsaves thanks for your comment. Yes they are indeed every where in our society.
begood4000 4 months ago
@rightfredsdead thank you. I'm so glad you see there value.
begood4000 4 months ago
@Indaingiver45 yw and thank you for your kind comments. I'm so glad you are aware of this problem. Hopefully more people will catch on and be able to save themselves from such people before it's to late.
begood4000 4 months ago
NPD is really characteristics of a reptilians. these people have more reptilian DNA and this is what they really are, it is their natural way of being.. so they see nothing wrong with it..
OverSoulMatrix33 4 months ago
@OverSoulMatrix33 that might be something Doctors should investigate, but is still a very interesting point. Would be interested to hear the answers.
begood4000 4 months ago
@begood4000 Not many know about the Serpent races yet, there is plenty of info here on utube.. although much of it suspect and no most doctors are reptiles, so no i wouldnt count on them for anything.. unless you want to get sicker..!
the reptilians are emulators, manipulators, unable to show empathy, they are spiritually inept.
they love power, control, they r ego maniacs.. they dont care about anyone else, if they appear to, they are only doing it to get something for their own benefit.
OverSoulMatrix33 4 months ago
They feel off emotional energy, so they love it when you are in fear, anger or love with them.
they deliberatly wind u up and criticize to get their feed ..The Govt & those in power are Reptilians who need the feed, so that is why they create violence, war, race hatred, gay discrimination, poverty,
divorce, separation, bullying etc. it is all to feed their cravings for emotional energy.
most 'celebs' you see are reptilians, they adore the praise & worship, getting more power from people..
OverSoulMatrix33 4 months ago
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drugsfx 4 months ago
Here is an example. hahah :-) see uploaded example
LewisLuong 5 months ago
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expectamiracletoday 5 months ago
thank you.
After getting out of a relationship with a NPD, I was followed.
I fell into the pattern of accepting the appologies and believing that they've changed only to find the same 'punishments' re-occuring with just as much anger and venom as before. For a moment I thought that the person was hearing me, but they didn't. Your video has helped me realise that they won't.
Strength and wisdom to all who have found and are finding themselves in this position
Skrhenderson 5 months ago
@Skrhenderson I'm so glad you were able to wake up to this abuse and see it for what it is. I'm glad my videos helped. Yes, it's easy to get sucked in by their fake apologies, and to get brain washed by them. The good people of humanity need to wake up and see this so we have the chance to spend out time with the rest of the people instead of being sucked dry by these vampire types. The more this information is passed around the less chance these types of people have of winning.
begood4000 5 months ago
I thought Narcissist is a person who are in love with themselves. They can't stop looking at thier reflections or self pics.
AstroMen2911 5 months ago
@AstroMen2911 some narcissist can be like this but many are not. Narcissism and Borderline are actual personality disorders that makes the afflcted appear they have a mental illness at times.
begood4000 5 months ago
@AstroMen2911 You were wrong!
plalelal 5 months ago
You just described my ex-husband to a tee.
Elphadyre 5 months ago
Thank you!! My narcisist just found me again. :{ I needed to hear this...must not succumb!!!
lovely9161 5 months ago
@lovely9161 yw. Yes, please indeed hold strong to what you know is right.
begood4000 5 months ago
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tkathryyn 5 months ago
My abuser was bipolar type 1. Abuse is pretty much the same. It's the disorder that makes them that way. I was abused by my x-gf in the past (when I was a man, I'm a transexual now,..and no I look nothing like a man..I've completed transition: Search Nong Poy and that's as close as how I look). Despite of my transexualism, this shouldn't disqualify me about claiming the abuse. If you hate me because I'm different, then I understand. Just remember, I'm a person too who can be abused by another.
tkathryyn 5 months ago
@tkathryyn abuse against anyone is wrong
begood4000 5 months ago
@MyVoicenotSilenced I'm sorry you had these experiences with such people. It's a growing problem. It seems everyone has been negatively touched in one way or another by these people.
begood4000 5 months ago
Wait...do you think I'm narrcisticic? that's why you sent me a F/R? just curious... Because i've heard it from my dad only in joking term but, but do you believe that?
EarthAngel504 5 months ago
@begood4000 just noticed you are the author....duh. and perhaps you either an experienced soul of a narcissist or mental health worker... obviously you have vast knowledge regardless and you hit on 2 key points ; 1. Cant ever get explanation time...2 dont bring up issue at later date unless u want to reopen a sore subject
swill1020 5 months ago
@begood4000 if you have never been exposed to someone abusive you"re not missing anything fun. it is shame on them fiirst 10 times shame on me thereafter. Bottomline i allowed it to happen. sad that the abuser can be so perfect while the wind blows their way but when it doesnt, look out.
swill1020 5 months ago
interesting...when describing examples i could imagine a picture of my exs face.
swill1020 5 months ago
@swill1020 wow. I've heard that a few times. It's sad there are so many disordered people in the world.
begood4000 5 months ago
I'm waking up... O.O my eyes are wide open...
jockme1 6 months ago
@jockme1 i'm very glad. knowledge is power.
begood4000 6 months ago
O.m.g every step word for word...
jockme1 6 months ago
the script that you follow... wow...
jockme1 6 months ago
smh...
jockme1 6 months ago
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jockme1 6 months ago
i wonder if the disorder can be corrected with desire to change and awareness of the problem?
iworkforme 6 months ago
@iworkforme any correction depends on the motivation for the person with this problem to seek help both mentally and spiritally. They also have to be honest in therapy sessions which 99.9 percent of the times they're not. However, the best way these people can get help is to have someone else that knows their behavior detail for the DR what their behavior is really like. They have to give concent and sit back and let someone else talk about them because they won't tell the truth themselves.
begood4000 6 months ago
@begood4000 thanks. I wonder how the disorder is developed? could it be from constant berating from a parent in early life and the child learns that he/she is wrong even if they are right and so they learn to lie in self defence?
iworkforme 6 months ago
There are reportedly many (even 8) factions or variations of feminism, from uber-hostile NOW to male-friendly ifeminists.
the ifeminist web site even publishes many article that are anti-main-stream-feminism/pro-men's-rights. Still many men get an uneasy feeling about ifeminists but can't put a finger on exactly why. Here it is: ALL feminist factions have at their root the same foundational claim/MYTH/LIE: that women were oppressed. Otherwise they would not be feminists, of any faction.
addvoc8 6 months ago 3
@addvoc8 very interesting information indeed.
begood4000 6 months ago
@begood4000 When we refuse to see the enemy fully, we pre-surrender to that enemy. We can't fight a mythical enemy and win n the real live war. Many "commanders' mandate that we don't make it political (it's all political) and that we don't bring religion in (which is femifascists' winning front - idolatry as female/mother-worship) and that we don't tell the FULL truth which is "too offensive" so as not to offend anyone, esp the gang-rapists, abusers, pillagers of men, children and ALL society.
addvoc8 6 months ago
@addvoc8 I think you are hitting the nail on the head my friend.
begood4000 6 months ago
Congrats! You really nailed it well - Far better than 99% of psychologist can or do.
Sociopaths Are likewise more female, but the PC "psychologists" in charge of the DSM manipulate the diagnoses to target and define ONLY men while enabling and excusing entitled narcissistic and sociopath women (the ages-old pussy-pass). "Women's oppression" NEVER existed in western civilization which always put women on a pedestal. Thus no gender pendulum, ONLY institutionalized worship of women - idolatry.
addvoc8 6 months ago
@addvoc8 thanks so much for liking this video. Hopefully this type of education will help swing the pendulum a bit hopefully to the middle anyway as this bias is only hurting our society.
begood4000 6 months ago
@begood4000 Even the mention of the legitimacy of a gender pendulum is promoting that feminist myth.
Futilely trying to stop a non-existent mythical gender pendulum lets the solid eternal institution of female-worship/supremacy continue to thrive as it always has from time immemorial.
We must only target the everlasting solid institution of female-worship, supremacy and entitlement, a solid institution eternally perched on alabaster pedestals supported by a firm foundation of chivalry.
addvoc8 6 months ago
Great truths here. Ten years with one of these characters. When she couldn't get to me anymore, she just said "You should go kill yourself and do your family a favor........." You may have left out the pathological lying part of this. This may be in part 2.......
ufozmankato 6 months ago
REMEMBER:
A lot of radical lesbian feminists (who are narcissists) post on the internet (and youtube / facebook) as men or heterosexual women. They aren't. They write as men in order to make men look stupid, or the post as heterosexual women giving the impression that all straight women hate all men.
Don't fall into that trap. Always remember:
1. Bitchy behavior
2. passive aggresive behavior
3. Ironic aggressive behavior
4. Sarcastic aggressive behavior
5. Shame tactics, blame game
=
Lesb.Fem
imscaredofcoffee 6 months ago
Yes...he literally loathes me if I do something nice for him, but expects me to do EVERYTHING short of breathing for him. He actually thinks he is "doing me a favor" by being with me. These people should be caged. They lives they destroy...he has ruined every woman he has ever been with. If he doesn't get his way on the smallest thing, he threatens to leave.
blueguise23 6 months ago
@blueguise23 what you described is classic for these types behavior. They do indeed wreck lives like a human wrecking ball. The key is to know the signs and in future with new people like this to leave sooner rather than later. Dealing with such a person can be used a valueable learning tool. Learning what makes these people tick can be a valueable gift indeed. However, the pain one must thru with this people is just terrible.
begood4000 6 months ago
Your videos are SO ACCURATE! It is as if you have studied my husband. He does this stuff all the time. He is a monster. Life with him has been a living hell!!! He then apologizes, says he loves me and sets me up again for his cruelty. Narcissist HATE kindness. They loathe when people are nice to them.
blueguise23 6 months ago
@blueguise23 I'm sorry you had to go through such an ordeal. Yes they do hate niceness. They see it as a weekness. They feel their victim gets what they deserve for being week.
begood4000 6 months ago
This video sounds like a NOAA station !
East180thStreetYard 6 months ago
Google: Martha Laura Granados Immigration Prostitute
The VAWA Immigration Loop-hole:
If you are a woman, pretend to be in love with a US citizen or a Legal Resident, get him to marry you. As soon as you got the marriage certificate dial 211 and falsely accuse him of Domestic Violence and Rape and move to a VAWA shelter.
You will be on a fast-track for a Green-Card and US citizenship - all expenses paid for by the US tax payer and as a bonus you will be getting full social benefits.
VAWAhorrors 6 months ago
@VAWAhorrors saddly I'm sure that happens every day.
begood4000 6 months ago
So they have a term for every mood and increment of psychology.
BahamutElDiablo 6 months ago
@BahamutElDiablo Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a major personality disorder and listed in the DSM.
lillie1990am 6 months ago
Utterly invaluable knowledge.
capturedpilot 6 months ago
@capturedpilot thank you.
begood4000 6 months ago
Healthy people run into people with issues just like unhealthy people do. The difference is that healthy people once they’ve figured out something isn’t right, they move on. Unhealthy folks take a different approach. They run the gamut on trying to change and or justify or rationalize abusive behavior. But really, conjuring up narcissistic personality disorder to justify your relationship failures is bullshit. Bottom line brah, you’ve got no stones!
wrouillie 7 months ago
@wrouillie actually I did not make my videos to justify falling prey to narcissist in past relationships. I do this to educate those that are caught on the hamster wheel and can't get off. Actually my stones are attatched to me just fine. That is why I speak the truth about something that is an unpopular taboo topic that many aren't willing to address. Thank you for watching my video and providing your comment.
begood4000 7 months ago
@begood4000 - if they can't get of the hamster wheel, it's because they've no stones! You're welcome to my comment anytime. :-)
wrouillie 7 months ago
@wrouillie that would be a wrong assumption. They might have been victim to a narcissistic mother or father growing up. Thus not having the same life skills to detach themselves from the abuse. These videos shares with others this information, and has done a lot of good. Hundreds of men and women have now opened up their eyes got their "stones" and are abuse free and making healthy descisions for their life. I live by the rule love you neighbor as yourself, & giving my knowledge is doing that.
begood4000 7 months ago
@wrouillie - If you had been in a relationship with someone like this, you would not be saying that.
It's not a matter of having 'stones' or in my case, 'oves' - it's a slow, slow breakdown of your self image. A Hallmark of NPD is a very charming personality, and someone who treats you like you are The One, the Best they've ever had, no one has ever been like this...it's intoxicating...and they tend to find people who need that.
Hawaiiansky11 6 months ago
@Hawaiiansky11 - I'm not buying it, but I'm open to the possibility that I could be wrong. So don’t anyone go slitting their wrists or anything. O_o
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie these types are slow working poison. Many people are victims of these people in other areas of their lives and don't even know they were victims. These types don't just meet someone and start acting bad. That is easy to spot and easy to run from. These people come to you as your best friend. They treat you like you are the love of their life. Then thru years of munipulation does the real abuse start, but by then you are stuck financially, emotionally, and phsycially with kids.
begood4000 6 months ago
@begood4000 Yeeeeeaah, like I said before – no stones. Don’t bother with another “heart felt” educational snipped from some western psyche text. No stones, stones not attached, nope, uh uh, not.
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie not something snipped from a book. This is what I grew up with in my home with my mother. Would you say a 8 y/o child has no stones are a mislead ? Well if you grow up this way it's easy to grow up and end up with someone just like that again. Only with education can one understand why and get away from such people.
begood4000 6 months ago
@begood4000 - so now I'm supposed to believe that an 8 year old conjured up this disorder with neither books nor schooling and from shear experience? You can’t be serious. I may not know you personally, but the NO STONES impression stands.
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie what does where a diagnosis came from have to do with child abuse ? Have you ever heard of mothers making their chidlren sick on purpose so they can go the hospital because they are addicted to the attention they get ? Munchausen Syndrome by proxy ?
begood4000 6 months ago
@wrouillie lol you mean stones in your heart?you have a heart of stone wroullie? ha ha ha lol
fallencypress2 6 months ago
@fallencypress2 I’m assuming you were (are?) out of sorts when you wrote this, it isn’t relevant to the subject matter.
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie saying that james dosent have " stones" isnt relevant.but you wouldnt know that because obviously you are a narcissist,pathetically so because you didnt get my point.
fallencypress2 6 months ago
@fallencypress2 You are clearly irrational and speak without facts, not knowing anything about me. Nobody that’s rational want’s your opinion.
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie clearly no one especially james want your opinion.i dont have to know anything about you because its OBVIOUS you are a narcissist because you come here insulting james.
fallencypress2 6 months ago
@fallencypress2 I don’t know James, I don’t know you and nothing is obvious other than your inability to think critically. Besides, one doesn’t need a reason to insult another person – dummy.
wrouillie 6 months ago
@wrouillie and i dont want to know anything more about you because i can clearly see what kind of of person you are by your comments.
fallencypress2 6 months ago
oh my god..... i just got out of a relationship with a narcissist. I WISH I SAW THIS MONTHS AGO so I ended it earlier.
twodice416 7 months ago
@twodice416 Knowledge is indeed power. I'm glad you are now gone away from such a person. The goal now is to be able to spot these stealthy users and munipulators so they can no longer reak havoc in your lives. Thank you so much for your kind words about my video. I do hope you watch the others as they will be in more of help I think.
begood4000 7 months ago
Society and the law looks the other way when they see the woman abusing the husband. "He's a man and he should take it, you're a big boy and you should handle your woman" kind of crap attitude. What they don't realize is that abuse is a cycle and can be passed on from generation to generation costing a lot of money. If you dismiss abuse from women, and prosecute mostly men, the cycle will never stop. The system and people in general are ignorant and primitive. Afterall, we are just primates.
tkathryyn 7 months ago 2
@tkathryyn You are correct. This is why the cycle keeps on repeating itself.
begood4000 7 months ago 2
I feel your pain. In my case my gf has bipolar and there might be similarities with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. She doesn't do it all the time but when chemical shifts in her brain, she becomes a monster in a second. I'm also being henpecked beyond belief. When she calms down, she feels guilty and apologize. This happens everyday so I hear sorry pretty much every night.
tkathryyn 7 months ago
vid is brilliant just like the gentleman that talks about the dangerous woman. My npd gf would play backgammon or read junk mail when I would try & have a meaningful talk with her she even confessed to me that she only wanted to hear nice things about her & nothing bad about her I mean npd or what? even she must have realized it when I told her she was yet she was so mad when I told her yet she didn't deny or confront the issues! She’d use good sex to manipulate or it was shit
uncreativeranter 7 months ago
she said all my viewpoints were being negative IE i couldn't say the truth or had to be embarrassed to ask for simple things yet she would have no embarrassment requesting things most women would be too scared to ask especially teh way she would demand it. What a bitch just totally used me in teh relationship. Yep shed only enhance things she was doing & wanted emotional support yet never gave me any except to find out what i liked so she could then manipulate it. Good fucking riddance bitch!
uncreativeranter 7 months ago
Thing is....they actually appear to LIKE abuse. When someone is cruel to them, falsely accuses them of something or punishes them in some way (like putting them in jail) They (NPDs) love it! They will show that person love and respect and rationalize in their minds that they are being "mean" to that person. BUT the person that stands by them, shows them love and respect they absolutely HATE. They will call that person names, show them no respect, and tell them how bad they are. (My husband)
nebaioth 8 months ago 2
@nebaioth that is a real world example of exactly how these types operate. This is why it's important for this information to be known.
begood4000 8 months ago
she gave everything to these criminal scumbags that were drug dealers & 1 ended up being murdered because he stole large amounts of $ from his victims & yet she helped this monster by paying for his plane ticket to free this shithead yet I helped her through her panic attacks when shed cry just when i was going to have my orgasm selfish if that doesn’t fuck up a man’s masculinity. She made me jump through hoop. She also said sorry wo confronting.
uncreativeranter 7 months ago
Good work. You made an important point on ratio/frequency based on sex. The error in statistics is at least partly due to the fact that "mental illness" is counted when the patient is suffering from a condition. Thus, a person with condition X who is successful at getting away with bad behavior will not become a patient and therefore not be counted as a person with condition X.
pkpapers 9 months ago
If it were me I'd try and go along with there script as much as possible.
professorbluefoot 10 months ago
@professorbluefoot no thanks. I will pass on that idea.
begood4000 10 months ago
most of these ppl are very good looking i know cuz im 1 of them
samantha34ize 10 months ago
@thejolene100 I'm so glad you found my video helpful and yes men and women can be equally abusive. However, society sadly turns a blind eye to women that are abusive. This just leads to the vicious cycle going on and on. Hopefully this video might help someone escape before it's to late.
begood4000 10 months ago
Thank you for the effort you put into this excellent video. I am a woman who is just getting out of a six-and-a-half year relationship with a narcissistic man (married since last July). Narcissistic behavior is universal and not gender-based. What you described is what I lived through almost exactly, except that my soon to be ex-husband couldn't care any less that he is losing his wife and kids. I bore him now.
greenranger8100 10 months ago
@greenranger8100 I'm glad you found the videos helpful and that you are out of your toxic relationship. Yes, though they like to hang on to their prey as long as they can, but when they get bored they kick their once prey loose like they never knew them. Just sick behavior.
begood4000 10 months ago
From what I have experienced in my personal life, or have seen or heard about, I believe that there are more women than men, who shown signs of narcissist behavior. Men have not been as open as women to talk about their relationships. This is why the professionals believe that this disorder is more common in men than in women, but, like yourself, I beg to differ!
MissWinner247 10 months ago
@suchafool990 I can understand how you'd think that, I used to get that mixed up before I learned about Narcissism as a disorder. The disorder has nothing to do with vanity or being conceited, or any preoccupation with looks, but it's easy to conflate the commonplace word (narcissistic) with the identically named personality disorder.
wormhole 10 months ago
amen
MrNightshade69 11 months ago
@MrNightshade69 Thanks
begood4000 10 months ago
I think the majority of narcissistic people are stupid and spoiled because either they have been given everything, in a monetary sense, or because they're good looking (mainly girls in this case), so they are truly unaware of others feelings/concerns/struggles/etc. They can't help it, and they won't understand their selfishness of lack of moral character until they hit rock bottom.
Slugg329 1 year ago
My ex.
Dolphidood 1 year ago
wow, i dont think i have come to involvment with one of them, ...
this is like a relationship inside of a relationship inside of a relationship ...
wow
ChannelThePoetry 1 year ago
gee....I wonder if living in a society where Hollywood and the entertainment industry places utmost importance on youthfulness and looks has anything to do with epidemic of narcissism.
........
naaaah, prolly just a coincidence. lolo
suchafool990 1 year ago
@suchafool990 yes, actually what young people see on TV can and indeed does shape a lot how our young people think. So, if they see non-caring quick fix relationships and quick divorces, and people that get a mate on a reality show then they start to become very shallow and Narcissistic in how they approach their own relationships that utimately fail.
begood4000 1 year ago
@begood4000 right you are sir. guess they dont call it "programming" for nothing
suchafool990 1 year ago
@suchafool990 google the price of affluence - paper on the apa website is interesting
burgalarab 10 months ago
@suchafool990 This video is not about the common understanding of narcissism as simple Hollywood-style vanity; it is about narcissism as a complicated psychological disorder.
greenranger8100 10 months ago
This video should be a "must see" to all narcisstic women in the world. Not that they would see themselves - all narcissists have zero empathy, so you could hit them in the head with a 2x4 of common sense and it would have no effect.
tritonrocks 1 year ago
@tritonrocks to most of them it'd mean fuck all. it wouldnt even phase them in the slightest
suchafool990 1 year ago
wowwww !! what an amazing video. You said exactly what I was feeling !!
mintvista 1 year ago
@mintvista I'm glad you liked it
begood4000 1 year ago
@ohjujubeeme yes indeed. i agree that npd is" feminized"with the histrionic and bpd labels. all these behaviours share a narcisstic disregard for others and lack of real empathy. i think men are cornered by society because patriarchy teaches them to suffer in silence and not to honor their own feelings. i think women who prey on people in this fashion have an advantage, they are often able to pretend to be people of great empathy or feeling with many guises for different audiences.
screaminmeani 1 year ago
@calloway7000 don't talk to her unless you have to. Don't show any emotion when you do (fear to happiness). Fear will make them pounce on you and happiness will make them do the same. Don't talk about anything personal to or around them (this goes with don't talk her unless you have to). If her behavior gets worse torwards you transfer to a different dept quick.
begood4000 1 year ago
I agree that there are just as many female narcissists as men. Women are often labeled as Histrionics or Borderlines but I believe both of these are "feminized" versions of narcissism or antisocial personality disorder.
ohjujubeeme 1 year ago
@ohjujubeeme I think your point is a ver important one as we need to take the stigma of the gender off of these disorders that both genders suffer from
begood4000 1 year ago
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jamesvolunteer 1 year ago
I just watched all the videos in this series and I can't thank you enough for the info I've just learned! I'm a female dealing with a female boss that appears to be a "stealth" narcissist. I'm one of the select few that she unleashes her abuse on. I'm arming myself with a digital voice recorder to gather evidence of her nasty behavior that she only does in person. She has the classic sweet & mean behavior, gossips to others about my personal life and acts very different in front of co-workers.
gingerztube 1 year ago
@gingerztube I'm glad my video series has helped you. Yes these stealths are all to common, but because they're stealths they fly under the radar. I'm glad you're noticing this and are going to hopefully get yourself free of your Stealth boss.
begood4000 1 year ago
You know, instead of pitying the victim, why don't you start pitying the 'narcissists'? It's not their fault they are built like that, and they need as much support as the so-called 'victim' does. Narcissists are people too, how do you think they'll feel if you just LEFT them because they were hurting you? The truth is probably that they are suffering as much as you are. I hate these misinterpretations
Mikutashi 1 year ago
@Mikutashi I went out with one recently. I offered to help and she wanted to know nothing about it. Unfortunately, the narcissist doesn't realise they are doing wrong. The lies and manipulation are so ingrained, that they now believe it to be truth.
Plus when they are female, 99% of their friends make the issue worse by backing them up, even when they are reasonably sure that the narcissist is lying. It's that rubbish 'it's raining men' attitude. Women will stick together whatever the truth.
jamesvolunteer 1 year ago
@Mikutashi (That sounds sexist, but it's true). My view is that a lot of this disorder, stems from the sense of entitlement that women are given by society. I've found the most narcissistic people in life are single parent, unemployed mothers. In other words, people with huge chips on their shoulders.
I don't pity these people. They are evil, manipulative, and deserve everything they get.
jamesvolunteer 1 year ago
@jamesvolunteer That is not entirely true. Some, or perhaps a few, narcissists do realize what they're doing IS hurting other people. But people seem to forget that this is a 'disorder', it's not something they can easily change as if narcissism was their choice. Say psychopaths don't choose not to feel emotions, they just psychically can't as it's a brain disorder. What the 'victims' and the narcissist really need is determination if they want their relationship to go well, there's always hope.
Mikutashi 1 year ago
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@Mikutashi Depends if you're talking about an actual personality disorder, or just selfishness. A lot of people hide behind medical labels. Which is something the narcissist does naturally anyway.(i.e You have a headache, so I have a migraine). On the whole, I see narcissism as a trait, not a disorder.
Also, I'm not sure how you think these people can be helped. Narcissists hurt the ones closest to them. Like sending rats into a research lab and hoping the scientists will feel guilty.
jamesvolunteer 1 year ago
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@jamesvolunteer oh yeah, they are just downright nasty
suchafool990 1 year ago
3. It's always the victim trying to make things happen for their lil' fantasy, even in ways that compromise you as a person! It leaves you drained! In this world you have to teach people how to treat you, DO NOT tolerate this. There's BETTER people who will treat you like the human being you are. Love, respect and patience is needed and they CANNOT provide that. Run away as fast as you can from these energy vampires! As sadly, they lack empathy and will not care. Love yourself.
Thank you :).
IslandKiss246 1 year ago
1. I have been a victim of an emotional abuser/narcissist.
I'm so happy I got out early, though I wish it was sooner. Honestly, I was scared, lonely and damn near programmed. EVERYTHING you said in this video was dead on. There were SO many red flags and I always felt on eggshells. That person was never concerned, caring or genuine, rather, selfish, exploitative, FAST, needy, moody/angry, judgmental, drama and manipulative.
IslandKiss246 1 year ago
2. I was always left feeling insecure, unhappy and as if I was the one in the wrong when I did NOTHING wrong in fact. What I did wrong was allow this behavior and not work on my life before bringing someone else in to ruin it before it got better. It's so funny that narcissist want so much out of you and relationships aka perfection (which does not exist) but yet they don't bring anything to the plate LOL.
IslandKiss246 1 year ago
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IslandKiss246 1 year ago
@IslandKiss246 well said Islandkiss246 well said
begood4000 1 year ago
@begood4000 Thank you :). And thank you for exposing these hurtful people.
I'm sorry you had to go through these painful events but at least now you can help others and spread the message and show them how to move on.
I've read some of your vid comments and some people view this as misogynistic and I don't agree at all. Men can be abused too and be taken advantage of also and this can happen to women as well, of course, as you stated.
IslandKiss246 1 year ago
@IslandKiss246 you're very welcome. Yes it can happen to both men and women a like. I'm glad you could see the points of the videos and know I don't mean anything negative towards good, nice, decent women ( and there are good women out there). However, some of my videos shows these women cursing, acting terrible and abusive as toxic people in general can do, and they assume I'm pro man and anti woman. I am no way this. I'm pro-people. At some point I will make videos showing the other side
begood4000 1 year ago
@IslandKiss246 I'm glad you were able to learn this very important life lesson. You are so right. Narcissist expect the world and then some leaving us drained, yet they bring nothing to the plate.
begood4000 1 year ago
@begood4000 Yes :). It is a life lesson and it made me stronger. I thought I would be very sad after ending things and felt a loss, but, I feel a great gain to live life, do better, meet better people. A big weight has been lifted off my shoulders as I don't have to compromise myself anymore. Only thing that I'm struggling with is gaining back my power, healing from compromising myself and the hurt by him. Every since I dropped this person my life has been getting on track. Coincidence? Not lol.
IslandKiss246 1 year ago
@700moby Most Narcissist become very aware of this fact from an early age. They take on the role of the predator and enjoy it. The only thing is they don't think there is anything wrong with it, but yet they're entitled to this role. However, there are some Narcissists that aren't life smart and don't know they are offending and hurting others. These types often get used by other self aware Narcissists.
begood4000 1 year ago
@700moby good question. The reason why they stay is the reason why they started the relationship to begin with. It's to have a long standing victim in which they can feed of the misery and pain they cause in that individual. That's what we call Narcissistic Supply. They slowly work to get control of this person and sadistically misuse these people as they see fit. It's the only thing in the world that makes them feel good. To abuse others how they were abused as children most likely.
begood4000 1 year ago