Getting rejected in dating - how to stay happy when it hurts

[Kellbee89]

great advice once again carolin <3 you always brighten my day

[RayRayClones]

Damn this woman is fine

[SpiceyPear]

Oh my gosh, this is all so hard to believe when your boyfriend of 5 months tells you that you're the one and that he loves you then all of a sudden says, "idk anymore" or "I love you a bit". I guess what I WANT to hear is that everything with remain okay. But what I NEED to hear's the truth. :(

[carolinlovecoach]

@SpiceyPear Feelings are hard to control, and we can´t control anyone elses either... Be the person he fell in love with; when you worry and feel low you stress the relationship even more. Chin up. Smile. Attract...

[kazXsamXhay]

Your'e videos are always amazing and helpful.. thankyou.

[carolinlovecoach]

@kazXsamXhay Thank you, Bless

[RockingJoe]

How many rejections you expect everyone to go through to find someone, that 1 person who will like you. I have been rejected by every girl I liked and asked out, even the ones i got setup with by my friends. you said there will be someone for everyone, what about i met that one person but got rejected by her as well than what happens. Some people go for body image and facial features, its not always about personality and stuff and being nice doesnt always work. So what do yuo suggest then.

[SpiceyPear]

@RockingJoe 1st of all, if the kind of people you like go for physical images then that's their problem! Not yours! You have a whole entire life to live! Many new people to meet! 2nd of all, it seems like you go after every girl you get sn oppourtunity to talk to. I may be wrong, but from how I read your message that's what I got. You could possibly be coming off as too desperate. That's a big turn off! I'm here to help. And everyone has their love issues. Like I just got my heart broken...

[RockingJoe]

@SpiceyPear Hi, I don't go for those people who look at physical image. I was saying that is what people look at 1st of all when they meet someone, which i feel happens more often then others and i feel it happens with me as well when i meet someone. 

[RockingJoe]

@SpiceyPear Also i dont try to ask out every girl i meet, I have many friends who are girls but i feel the friends i have made have helped me understand myself and when asking girl's out they always say to me, they just want to be friends. Also that's how 1 or 2 girls i know have become friends. I dont think i'm too desperate, if i come that way, please tell me how to change myself.

[carolinlovecoach]

@RockingJoe Build friendships with people, do what you love doing and enjoy life. Have faith and the girl will come. Don´t rush every encounter into an "asking out" situation. Wait, become friends first. Hope it works :)

[bigtazzsmoke99]

Um do u got a boyfriend I'm just wondering?

[sancarden]

Du är fantastisk, Carolin! Hittade dina videos i somras efter en otroligt tuff dejtingperiod gone bad, och dina ord gick rakt in i hjärtat och hjärnan då, som de gör nu!:-) Har dejtat vidare och gått på minor, men så hittar jag någon coachande video som passar precis i rätt stund, och allt känns genast lite lättare. Tack, och keep up the great work! Kalla svenska hälsningar /Sandra

[carolinlovecoach]

@sancarden Ah tack Sandra :) Vad härligt att det lättar! Kram

[LeClassics]

Rejection sucks, that's why I never ask anymore :(

[VictoriasRoses]

You are so awesome! I love listening to your videos!

[carolinlovecoach]

@VictoriasRoses Thank you dear :)

[misnalgas108]

It sucks knowing she picked someone else over you : (

[tanfish27]

Love Video!

[007HubbaBubba]

Great video and good advice, thank you. One simple solution to your audiophille's complaint up there, would be a room with some carpet, cloth covered furniture, and drapes and curtains if there is a window, and low ceiling. That would soak up some of the sound and stop the echo's, which don't bother me, especially for the price. Those empty rooms with wood or tile floors tend to echo sound a lot.

[007HubbaBubba]

@007HubbaBubba ... oh, and depending on your computers audio driver, you should have a setting on it that has echo and background noise cancellation to turn off or on. on my computer I have Realtek Audio Manager, with all the sound adjustments. You look beautiful with your video, and I like your accent and passion is overwhelming.

[AngryPenguin27]

Hey, Carolin, I think you have great content but you could definitely benefit from better recording equipment. You should get a high-definition camera and find a way to record your audio better. The echo in your recording is a little distracting and a professional look to your recordings would attract more business. Great stuff, as usual.

[carolinlovecoach]

@AngryPenguin27 Well thank you. The minute you guys start paying me I can afford better equipment. This is a free service I offer to help people.

[shartasticful]

@carolinlovecoach You seem so calm and that makes me want you.

[shartasticful]

@AngryPenguin27 Send her a donation if it matters that much to you.