How not to be attracted to the same type over and over again

[BeautifulDreamerK]

I always picked "mr. right nows" or guys I "settled" with because commitment scared me; that meant responsibility and possibly marriage. I had to shy away from "my type" (which I knew in my heart) because I didn't want to settle so soon. Now at 25, I am moving away from my pattern of "right now" and hoping to be with "mr right"

[TheAbsintheReviewNet]

It's always great to stumble across someone that is a THINKER. Subscribed.

[tanyatmr]

Well said!

[katiejhowell]

Perfect. Really needed to hear this. Thank you.

[victoriapurple]

But what if it's just one guy that you keep going back to? And that they've done no wrong or anything to hurt you? Been feeling this way about a guy and I always have to distance myself from him because I don't want to fall for him again and again. Any help on what I should be doing about this feeling? :/

[themagicalfox6]

Im usually attracted to the quiet, shy guys that dont socialize or talk much to people when Im usually the social type Dx

[marianasreality]

@themagicalfox6 That's me. I talk. Just not as much as other people.

[themagicalfox6]

@marianasreality

.__. and the socially awkward too I might add, I just have a thing for quiet, and socially awkward guys

[109876543210ignition]

Thanks! Very insightful and succinct.

[Darthbelal]

people are intimdated or fear rejection about those they're very attracted to, so they wind up settling for the same kind of person who isn't all that great.

[thehapagirl92]

I'm attracted to someone who is just like me. I'm normally introverted by nature and I don't like flirting at all. I HATE guys that have tons and tons of girl pals and I despise players, I normally won't even be friends with them. I like quiet people just like myself because I feel they won't stray and won't be cocky. I think I do have flaws in who I'm attracted to though. There are things I should want more of in a partner.

[crystalguada24]

I'm always attracted to really outgoing, spontaneous, loud, good-looking type guys and I'm the exact opposite, I need to be attracted to people that have a more similar personality to mine, because my relationship pattern consists of I like a guy, he likes me, we almost date, but he interprets my quietness and reserved personality as a lack of interest, and it's over.

[iLike2scream7]

Thanks for making this video; it's very good.

My relationship pattern is no relationships; I've never had a GF and I'm 21. So, I'm led to believe that I'm the problem most of the time, and not the girls that I've liked; I'm just too awkward.

[EmilyForever96]

your voice is very soothing :)

[itwonthurtifyousmile]

You are great mariedubuque!:) you have so much insight:)