I was sitting here scraping my skin off with my finger nails and I think you just made me feel better about myself than I have in a long time. I'm gonna go make some tea. :)
you are amazing! this was quite helpful for me. i still struggle with depression and self harm and music seems to be my only way out of the crap hole lol
Everything you just said in this vlog is everything I've been though. I know how hard it is not to revert back into self harm as a way to escape. I didn't think I could do it but my boyfriend told me that I was better then that and I believed him. In not going to lie and say I haven't done it after he said that but I've been doing really good. Also tea is the best it really does help when you're in a bad mood. I love your channel btw you're one of my idols.
You're probably not going to read or see this, but thank you. For what you might ask? For being the most decent human being I have ever listened to. You are the reason some respect is still here. Thank you-3
You're my idol, you showed me that there's really nothing wrong with being Goth if you enjoy it, and how to deal with the gaytards that tease you about it. Thank you so much!
O n do u have any tips on hiding cuts because I do it on my thigh n my arm n im so scared that someones going to see it on my arm bc its just there but I always wear like skinny jeans so im not wirrued about my thighs but plz help if u can
I just watched a few of your videos researching depression. You have such great advice. I recently just came out about wanting to harm myself by cutting. I think that was the most bold thing I could have done. I recently discovered vitamins that have helped a lot to. But, I love your videos. You are such an awesome person. I think it is great you have accepted who your are. Just want to say rock on and looking forward to seeing more of your videos.
Im sorry that came across really nasty I don't like to be like this on the internet behind a screen, I just have so many things going on and my mind is a mess currently, fuck knows where my lifes heading, the things I hear/see/read everyday I take step back and look, the people in this world have no limits on things they do, it scares me what some people have to suffer.
I used to really like your videos and really admire you but the more I watch them I tend to feel every problem you've encounteed in life has been self inflicted, ok the bullying hasn't but everything else, it has. You think you know depression, cause you've dealt with it? People these days are always fucking depressed when they really have no idea what fucked up shit goes on in the world. You have no idea. Some people dont even get a choice, you did.
Thanks for making this video. I've been struggling with depression for a long time and it gets pretty bad periodically and only recently have I truely seen the effect of drawing as a way to help. Just my fear is that I'll never truely get over depression and I'm just using art as a way to supress it. Either way I feel better than I did yesterday, which is a step in the right direction I guess.
I've struggled with depression/self-harm too. Probably not to the same extent, but I agree that walking helps so much. I hate labels, but were you diagnosed with bipolar disorder? Sleeping for days and then staying up for really long periods of time doesn't really sound like "normal" depression, but I know everyone's different. I personally hate being awake when I'm depressed. If I can't sleep alcohol and sleeping pills do the trick.
Smfh, I see all these haters with no life commenting and arguing they are such attention whores trolololo,
Like leave her alone, she's a amazing person with a beautiful personality, you guys that are hating should get a life and stop waisting your time commenting, because clearly she doesn't give 2 flying fucks about what you have to say about her
haha I make tea too! Sounds so lame but it helps :) Dont use the teas bags though loose leaf is the go! Its more about the process. I love brewing coffee to but the caffeine does not help with anxiety
@Anferny9097 Why do you care? Does someone else's appearance affect you? Everyone has their own personal style. I'm not a goth, but I do have black hair, piercings, and tattoos. I have dressed in every different style you can imagine to try to find myself and try to please others. My hair color is always changing. Don't you think you're being shallow by judging someone based on how they're dressed? And KINGgutterface's videos should tell you that he is not, in fact, shallow. Especially this one
@OHMYGOSHitsSARA Also what makes you think I care? I'm just disappointed in subcultures that revolve around having a certain look. There is so much more to a person than what they wear. Its such a small part of you, why should it totally dictate your view of yourself and who you are?
@KINGgutterface thank you for making this video. But heres a question. How does someone really deal with death? My fiance' passed away in his sleep and i didnt know how to deal so i went to coccane. im not doing any kind of drug now but i cant get over his death and it was over a year ago. bc of the drugs i moved back to ny to live w my mom untill i could get oon my feet but living back here is making me very depressed on top of my fiance's death. how do i deal?
Goth people are so shallow. They spend all their time on their appearance and image. Its all about what other people think when they look at them. They want to be different but they don't have a unique personality so they change their appearance because they don't know how to be unique in a non-superficial way. What a bunch of bores.
@Anferny9097 What a close-minded and grotesque opinion. Not all people of this subculture are the same. One of my best friends is goth and she's one of the most bubbliest people you could meet. Also, image is irrelevant to the subculture and is considered personal choice. Goths can look like normal people honestly. Goth isn't an absolute terminology to describe a person. It's all about music and aesthetics. Besides, you should get to know someone before you make such statements.
@Anferny9097 What an ignorant and grotesque statement. Not all goths are equally alike. My best friend is one of the craziest and bubbliest person you might ever meet. Also, image is irrelevant to the subculture. It's all about music and darker aesthetics. You should try to be more open minded about things. You'll be surprised how good life will be to you.
@Anferny9097 Lol, you're like soo right. Having people make fun of me at school and hate me for doing absolutely nothing but dressing like a shallow and superficial loser is SO WORTH IT to pretend to be a unique and special snowflake. I would NEVER where the clothes I do or listen to Goth music (which, by the way, is the reason the subculture came to be) because that's ACTUALLY who I am! What a ridiculous thought! I much prefer to put up with my family rolling their eyes at me.
@Anferny9097 I mean, honestly, all I care about it the perception of other people on me, I love the adrenaline rush I get when I feel like someone's going to beat me up after school or outside the Target because I look so funny. Why on earth would I wear these clothes or do my makeup so pretty because /I/ like it? Because it makes /me/ happy? Because it's who /I/ am? What idiocy!
@Anferny9097 Why should it? If it's who I am and I know that and fully embrace it, why would that be in any way shape or form shallow? Because I LIKE heavy makeup? And just fyi, I don't even wear white makeup, I dont like and even when I did like i, it looked terrible one me so I took it off...or is that wrong? Wanting to look good? Is it wrong to want to feel beautiful and even -dare I say it- have OTHER PEOPLE think so too?! If that's wrong the entire world is in the kiddie pool
@Sayukae You are in high school I think and at that age looks are very important. I thought so too when I was a teenager. Even as an adult you have to look professional at your job and be presentable. You should not let that define you though. I wear a shirt and a tie at my job and in my leisure time I wear what is comfortable. Those things don't define my personality though. They are just clothes. Personality and character define a person.
@Anferny9097 Wow. Way to just assume that because I'm in High School I'm a teenager who thinks looks are "very important". If I thought that looks were very important I'd be dressing like everyone else, wearing skinny jeans, wearing neon jewelry. But I don't. I dress like I came from a darkly themed Renaissance Festival, and in fact, I get asked if I work there on a daily basis. I have no friends. I have no signifigant others. If I really cared about my appearance and m
@Anferny9097 And my looks, I'd be dressing like them, trying to get friends. But I don't. I like who I am and I like the way I look and I like the things I like and that is more important to me than anything else in the world. The fact that I have myself, that I know that one day I'm gonna find people like me carries me through. Not the confidence that I am beautiful. In fact, looking pretty is probably the LAST thing on my mind. The shoes I wear give me cankles.
@Anferny9097 But I like the way they look. Not beautiful. Not pretty. Artful. I love the way I look and I don't give a fuck what others think. I don't let anyone define me especially not fucktards like you who assume you know what I'm like beccause I'm in High school. You don't know me. You don't know how the events in my life have aged me. You don't know the scars that have added years to my life, that have wisened me beyond my years. You don't know how out of place I feel
@Sayukae I feel out of place and have to hide a lot of my past to the people I know because I know that it could endanger the new life I built for myself. It did however make me stronger. Its not productive to spend so much time trying to craft an image and dwell on how persecuted you are. Why not rise above those that persecuted you. I make more then the cops that locked me up and treated me like an animal. That's the difference between being different in a good way and a lazy way.
@Anferny9097 Omg like you're so right, I just wallow in my despair about what a poor human being I am. I don't go out to movies, or paint, or go shopping, I hate music, what a miserable wretch I am. Gosh, you really know me, don't you, incredibly wise scholar of Youtube? SUCK MY DICK LOL
@Sayukae You were the one complaining about how hard your life is but anyway I guess you have life all figured out before you can even smoke oh wise annoying whiny teenager. You win. You just keep on doing what you are doing. I'm just going to roll my eyes and find something better to do. Just keep on doing what you are doing. You will grow out of it like the goth kids in the 80s did. Or maybe you can be the first middle age goth, that'd be a laugh,
Do you actually know many goth people yourself? Because I know many that were before it had a name, and they still consider themselves goth to this day.
It's not necessarily about the image but love for the music. I dress simply and I don't wear make up very often. I know many women that feel secure/happy by wearing more make up and dark clothing, and others that are more into the music (like myself.) What's wrong with doing/liking something if you're happy?
There's nothing wrong with it. Why does everyone keep saying that? Whats bad is when you are so superficial that your look and others opinions rule your whole world. Lots of women wear make up and look pretty too. If you take away their makeup though they don't feel like a different person because they are secure with who they are. They might think they are less pretty without it (although its not really true, a beautiful woman will always be beautiful) but they don't lose their identity
@Anferny9097 Because of not only how I dress, but because of who I am...Oh wait...Same thing, but you wouldn't believe that, would you? No because you know exactly what I'm like, I'm shallow, a petty, catty teenager who would know nothing of being their own person and letting their personality define them. My clothing is an outwards reflection of my personality and it's not me that's doesn't understand here. it's you. And I feel sorry for you, thinking you can just judge anyone
btw its not about judging people how they look its about stating how fucking stupid the creator of this video is. talking about depressions with this age just shows how NOT selfreflective this person is. in addition, you suck. did it again :)
@Sayukae No one is judging anyone. I don't condemn you for what you wear. You can wear whatever you want. You don't know my scars either. You can't assume you are the only one that suffers hardship. In my youth I was in prison, I did a lot of things I would like to take back and that i'm not proud of. I grew up fast too. I turned my life around though and I take pride in that. You should take pride in your adversity and grow from it. Its a lot better than becoming bitter and image crazy
@Anferny9097 What? So calling all Goths shallow and assuming I'm bitter and image crazy isn't judging anyone? Whaaaat?? You mean I said I was the only one who suffered hardship? Wheere? You're putting on this front like you understand what I'm saying but it's seriously like talking to a rodent. You think you're trying to relate to me but all you're doing over is skipping over the key points I was trying to make. So um...fuck you? Yea, fuck you.
@Anferny9097 Do you not wear t shirts you like? Clothes that look good? Your entire monologue here is full of complete hypocrisy. You assume that because I put more effort into my appearance that must mean that I am shallow and the fact that I'm young only adds to that. Unfortunately, I and many others will spend a good amount of time dispelling the barrages of ignorant people like you.
@Anferny9097 You say you wear what is comfortable, is it so hard for your small, narrow mind to understand that I don't want to wear anything else, that I am COMFORTABLE in what I'm in?? That I DONT let it define me, that I let it be a part of who I am but nothing more. You wouldn't get that, though.
@Sayukae At first I was just being insulting for laughs but now that I'm talking to you I can see that we are not that different. I tried to be different by being a tough guy when I was 18-21 and you try to be different by looking different from your peers. Whats important though is that I didn't benefit from my behavior. Are you benefiting from yours? It doesn't sound like it. You may not have really harsh consequences but you are not gaining anything from it either.So why focus on it?
@Anferny9097 Wow. You really are stupid aren't you? Did you miss like, everything I just said?I already said not to assume things about me because you really don't know who the fuck I am or what I'm like. All you're getting are snippets of highly emotional well drawn out speeches focused on a single aspect of the cornucopia that is my life. And you're dumb enough to think that it's going to give you my personality and character flaws in a nutshell? Moron.
@Anferny9097 And more than anything, I'm so glad that you included us all into a neat umbrella, yes, you're right Goth people ARE shallow. All of us. Not like I've got better things to do than to think about what people are thinking of me, especially because they've got such vibrant, hateful, thoughts about me! It doesn't stress me out at all or make me feel like a freak, as long as I feel "special". Not because I like the way I look. REGARDLESS of what others like.
i totally agree tea fixes everything!!! i drink tea all the time its like the only thing i drink... i'm a tea junkie... lol your talking about it put me in the mood for some! Luckily i was already boiling the pot!! i enjoy your videos i think you have an interesting perspective and i love your makeup!!! I think its constructive you discuss your life experiences and who you are so openly it helps broaden understanding and acceptance :,)
@XxSammiiGoesRawrxX omg wtf it is a fucking tranny faggot, and by the way slut, your breath smells of cum... that thing is not a man or women it is fugly faggot
@4ndreiND Well you would know since you know me right, And Will you grow some damn balls and stop picking on people because you are so bored with your life.
I get depressed wondering whether or not I'm really depressed. To be honest I've found the best way not to be depressed is to just decide you don't want to be. Not everyone can do this but I think more people are capable of it if they just try.
I also think that it's important that people who seem to get depressed a lot seek help from their family and friends. No one should go through something like that alone.
@AndreaEatsRainbows .....that thing has a penis. no kidding, it's not a man of a women not kidding, it's just a fag that's trying to be a women. and it DOOOOES have a penis.
@4ndreiND Wow. You're a fucking ignorant moron. Why don't you figure out what the hell you're talking about before you go spewing out hate and stupidity and the like, you narrow minded neadrathal?
@4ndreiND Yes, yes I did know he is a man and a fucking sexy one at that. I would do him in a minute if given the chance. And yes I'm also a "fucking faggot" as you so amazingly put it.
@4ndreiND You really have no intellegence do you. Here let me put it in terms you will understand...
You are an ignorant prick who needs to get a fucking life and stop hiding behing their keyboards to try and impress people and make themselves look like a big boy with big balls.
And as you have said it to so many people to try to look like a badass, you can suck my dick and I hope you choke while you're down there.
@4ndreiND Oh did I really take that long? I'm SO sorry that my life took me that long to reply and I'm SO sorry that working for a living keeps me from argueing with you all day. Oh and is the best comeback you have is to all people a slut because if so I'm afraid you're very mistaken, I only sleep with one man and that's my boyfriend.
for me i have bad depression though i don't harm myself i get in a funk alot and i been this way for years no pill really gets me upbeat except paxil but it makes you gain weight so i dropped that so i'm stuck with a really blah feeling almost everyday.
@4ndreiND Wow you're really fucking pathetic aren't you. What are you, like 14? Here's a few tips. 1) get off the internet 2) Learn some manners 3) Apologize to Joji because he's a much better and hotter man than you will ever be.
I'm a recovering self harmer and when I feel the need to cut, I wear this choker I found that's plastic blood, and looks like blood dripping. I used to cut my throat, and wearing that choker it's like I see the blood, but I'm not causing it so it's healthier? Maybe? I also watch really bad horror movies from the 30's.
This may sound stupid but i play with makeup. I love black eyeliner/eye-shadow. Try new looks, make yourself look like Marilyn Manson or a fucking Black Veil Bides member. Its a lot better than ripping up your skin , trust me
4ndreiND I made a video for him do worry I always react to the dub fucks. They piss me off also, believe me. You should see it.
oh by the way my friend, I got You back, You are not what they say. yeah go check it out on my channel, as for ---> 4ndreiND <-----
He just may go and cry after seeing the two video's I made for him. The on on the channel you are going to see is not so harsh but the one I am posting on TheMsCryptic4 is just for him.
I know you don't give a fuck about hate but it really bothers me when people are saying such disgusting things to people just for fun. It's sad, really.
I really enjoyed this video on ways to cope with depression, and it couldn't have come at a better time for me. For recently, me and a long time friend have had a rather insignificant spat, that turned nasty. It has left me deeply hurting, and almost unable to function. And your videos in general cheer up the saddest day, this one on depression imparticular has helped me vastly. So rambling aside, I wanted to thank you for all your videos. They really do help and make a difference!
Nobody thinks any of you are cute or funny when you just start spewing a bunch of idiotic shit. if you don't like his videos, don't watch them. You don't know him and he sure as shit wasn't born to please any of you. He's not going to just stop one day and go "Oh, some douche-bag youtube user who has never met me told me to 'stop being a fag and stop being depressed.' and to dress the way they want me to. Those were the magic words I needed! Let me go change everything about me right now!"
@xwillyspx I'm not saying you shouldn't express your oppenion but you vary well could have worded better in a more expressive way with out seeming so rude..... Now you may not like his look and is fine you have the right to but all that matters is that he likes it and I personally find his look vary attractive and it looks good on him now that's my oppenion and you don't have to agree with it and I'm not saying you have no right to voice your oppeion you do
stop beeing such a emo faggot, depression is not a disease, you just want attention and want everyone to feel sad for you. grow up, and learn that shit happens, now get over it
your advice is alright but god fucking damn you are ugly, your ears are absolutely disgusting in particular, your hair is stupid, but otherwise i'd love to see your gash
I have bpd too and it really is a hard mental health issue to deal with. I hate that it doesnt react well to medication, I've tried almost any anti depressant out there to no avail. I wish you the best Joji, If you read this I just want you to know that watching you videos give me a lot of confidence about who I am and expressing that outwardly.
FANCY.
DANIELWHERESTHEB0AT 1 day ago
Hun have you thought about going into a psychology field? I think you would be excellant at it. :)
SoulsTiedTightly 3 days ago
You're truly a magnificent person with a beautiful personality. This helped me alot. Thank you
MsRrainey 3 days ago in playlist Uploaded videos
u are my idol <3 u atchually know how it feels and u always make me feel better, thax
laurmariexD 4 days ago
This helped so much. Thank you <3
KristinLikesBunnies 1 week ago
You are so amazing. You always calm me down. Your seriously one of my favorite youtubers. :
Selbug28 1 week ago
I was sitting here scraping my skin off with my finger nails and I think you just made me feel better about myself than I have in a long time. I'm gonna go make some tea. :)
BoogersMcFly 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
you are amazing! this was quite helpful for me. i still struggle with depression and self harm and music seems to be my only way out of the crap hole lol
ASLLover666 1 week ago
loved this
PaperStory 1 week ago
You're an awesome person. :)
This was really helpful.
Lolihime66 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Thank you for sharing these videos. You are awesome. Thank you thank you.
Immagoincrayyyzayyy 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
PUT THIS AS A TOP COMMENT PLEASE.
STOP REFERRING TO JOJI AS A GIRL.
"SHE""HER"
HE'S A MAN! YES THAT PERSON UP THERE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ IS A MAN.
Necromanticsadism 2 weeks ago
Everything you just said in this vlog is everything I've been though. I know how hard it is not to revert back into self harm as a way to escape. I didn't think I could do it but my boyfriend told me that I was better then that and I believed him. In not going to lie and say I haven't done it after he said that but I've been doing really good. Also tea is the best it really does help when you're in a bad mood. I love your channel btw you're one of my idols.
ThePandaBear91 2 weeks ago
Thank you, Joji.... thank you....
jeniivlogz 2 weeks ago
You're probably not going to read or see this, but thank you. For what you might ask? For being the most decent human being I have ever listened to. You are the reason some respect is still here. Thank you-3
xCOLORxMExRAINBOWx 2 weeks ago
You're my idol, you showed me that there's really nothing wrong with being Goth if you enjoy it, and how to deal with the gaytards that tease you about it. Thank you so much!
BaconSkittleFul 2 weeks ago
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BaconSkittleFul 2 weeks ago
Fuck your beautiful.
KainRagerSwag 2 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
You are awesome!!!! you have some really good advice! you Rock !!!!
Angeleyes198323 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
O n do u have any tips on hiding cuts because I do it on my thigh n my arm n im so scared that someones going to see it on my arm bc its just there but I always wear like skinny jeans so im not wirrued about my thighs but plz help if u can
peanutbutter2ish 3 weeks ago
I rlly like ur nose to ear chain thing n ur advice helped me so much thnx!
peanutbutter2ish 3 weeks ago
I just watched a few of your videos researching depression. You have such great advice. I recently just came out about wanting to harm myself by cutting. I think that was the most bold thing I could have done. I recently discovered vitamins that have helped a lot to. But, I love your videos. You are such an awesome person. I think it is great you have accepted who your are. Just want to say rock on and looking forward to seeing more of your videos.
nailbiter81 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
You're awesome.
MilkMakeupTutorials 3 weeks ago
As usual, Joji...you're one of the few who get it...
Maeonette 3 weeks ago
love this video.. you`re amazing and so inspirational..
beatingheartsbaby009 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Lol, what if you don't like tea..?? Much love and respect..
THEROGUE333 3 weeks ago
It feels as though you are the first person that actually gets it...
KimmyRains 4 weeks ago 8
You're so wise. All of your videos have taught me so much about life, emotions, self-acceptance and self-expression.
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, it is very helpful <3
fishwithlegz 4 weeks ago
tea? Ok c:! Thanks -33
princessninala 1 month ago
your videos help<3Thanks for making my day:)
voldemortsdick 1 month ago
Im sorry that came across really nasty I don't like to be like this on the internet behind a screen, I just have so many things going on and my mind is a mess currently, fuck knows where my lifes heading, the things I hear/see/read everyday I take step back and look, the people in this world have no limits on things they do, it scares me what some people have to suffer.
00geljea01 1 month ago
I used to really like your videos and really admire you but the more I watch them I tend to feel every problem you've encounteed in life has been self inflicted, ok the bullying hasn't but everything else, it has. You think you know depression, cause you've dealt with it? People these days are always fucking depressed when they really have no idea what fucked up shit goes on in the world. You have no idea. Some people dont even get a choice, you did.
00geljea01 1 month ago
Thanks for making this video. I've been struggling with depression for a long time and it gets pretty bad periodically and only recently have I truely seen the effect of drawing as a way to help. Just my fear is that I'll never truely get over depression and I'm just using art as a way to supress it. Either way I feel better than I did yesterday, which is a step in the right direction I guess.
Ryuuji91 1 month ago
I've struggled with depression/self-harm too. Probably not to the same extent, but I agree that walking helps so much. I hate labels, but were you diagnosed with bipolar disorder? Sleeping for days and then staying up for really long periods of time doesn't really sound like "normal" depression, but I know everyone's different. I personally hate being awake when I'm depressed. If I can't sleep alcohol and sleeping pills do the trick.
weebeastiebaby 1 month ago
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Smfh, I see all these haters with no life commenting and arguing they are such attention whores trolololo,
Like leave her alone, she's a amazing person with a beautiful personality, you guys that are hating should get a life and stop waisting your time commenting, because clearly she doesn't give 2 flying fucks about what you have to say about her
natalie27241 1 month ago
@natalie27241 Its a guy
Necromanticsadism 2 weeks ago
You are so beautiful and so fascinating :-) I hope you have beautiful things coming to you xxxx
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JayeErin 1 month ago
Thank you lol
TheMetalkiler 1 month ago
@Caleena616 Joji is a man.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
Girl, you and me would get along. My first time seeing your vids. Keep rockin!
Caleena616 1 month ago
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@Caleena616 ITS A GUY
Necromanticsadism 2 weeks ago
haha I make tea too! Sounds so lame but it helps :) Dont use the teas bags though loose leaf is the go! Its more about the process. I love brewing coffee to but the caffeine does not help with anxiety
MA123TT1 1 month ago in playlist misc.
...You don't like to talk about your issues? Uh... You post a million blogs and Videos about your issues all the time. What are you talking about? XD
gerkie2003 1 month ago
i like. your hair.
XOXOSeraph 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
This is a great video, Joji. I take walks and write, too. And I did not know that about bergamot. Good thing I love Earl Grey!
TheLadyLapine 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Why do you care? Does someone else's appearance affect you? Everyone has their own personal style. I'm not a goth, but I do have black hair, piercings, and tattoos. I have dressed in every different style you can imagine to try to find myself and try to please others. My hair color is always changing. Don't you think you're being shallow by judging someone based on how they're dressed? And KINGgutterface's videos should tell you that he is not, in fact, shallow. Especially this one
OHMYGOSHitsSARA 1 month ago
@OHMYGOSHitsSARA its not shallow to deduce that someone who spends a lot of time on their looks cares deeply about what others think.
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@OHMYGOSHitsSARA Also what makes you think I care? I'm just disappointed in subcultures that revolve around having a certain look. There is so much more to a person than what they wear. Its such a small part of you, why should it totally dictate your view of yourself and who you are?
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@KINGgutterface thank you for making this video. But heres a question. How does someone really deal with death? My fiance' passed away in his sleep and i didnt know how to deal so i went to coccane. im not doing any kind of drug now but i cant get over his death and it was over a year ago. bc of the drugs i moved back to ny to live w my mom untill i could get oon my feet but living back here is making me very depressed on top of my fiance's death. how do i deal?
ChickMustang93 1 month ago
what i do when i start feeling depressed. 1.drink heavy liquor 2.overeat 3.pass out from being drunk and eating too much.
TheInstanttv 1 month ago
Goth people are so shallow. They spend all their time on their appearance and image. Its all about what other people think when they look at them. They want to be different but they don't have a unique personality so they change their appearance because they don't know how to be unique in a non-superficial way. What a bunch of bores.
Anferny9097 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@Anferny9097 What a close-minded and grotesque opinion. Not all people of this subculture are the same. One of my best friends is goth and she's one of the most bubbliest people you could meet. Also, image is irrelevant to the subculture and is considered personal choice. Goths can look like normal people honestly. Goth isn't an absolute terminology to describe a person. It's all about music and aesthetics. Besides, you should get to know someone before you make such statements.
clearbear111 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@Anferny9097 What an ignorant and grotesque statement. Not all goths are equally alike. My best friend is one of the craziest and bubbliest person you might ever meet. Also, image is irrelevant to the subculture. It's all about music and darker aesthetics. You should try to be more open minded about things. You'll be surprised how good life will be to you.
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@clearbear111 If image is irrelevant why devote hours to make up? I call bullshit. Image is everything to the subculture
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Lol, you're like soo right. Having people make fun of me at school and hate me for doing absolutely nothing but dressing like a shallow and superficial loser is SO WORTH IT to pretend to be a unique and special snowflake. I would NEVER where the clothes I do or listen to Goth music (which, by the way, is the reason the subculture came to be) because that's ACTUALLY who I am! What a ridiculous thought! I much prefer to put up with my family rolling their eyes at me.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 I mean, honestly, all I care about it the perception of other people on me, I love the adrenaline rush I get when I feel like someone's going to beat me up after school or outside the Target because I look so funny. Why on earth would I wear these clothes or do my makeup so pretty because /I/ like it? Because it makes /me/ happy? Because it's who /I/ am? What idiocy!
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae So white makeup and black clothes are "who you are" and that doesn't sound shallow to you?
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Why should it? If it's who I am and I know that and fully embrace it, why would that be in any way shape or form shallow? Because I LIKE heavy makeup? And just fyi, I don't even wear white makeup, I dont like and even when I did like i, it looked terrible one me so I took it off...or is that wrong? Wanting to look good? Is it wrong to want to feel beautiful and even -dare I say it- have OTHER PEOPLE think so too?! If that's wrong the entire world is in the kiddie pool
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae You are in high school I think and at that age looks are very important. I thought so too when I was a teenager. Even as an adult you have to look professional at your job and be presentable. You should not let that define you though. I wear a shirt and a tie at my job and in my leisure time I wear what is comfortable. Those things don't define my personality though. They are just clothes. Personality and character define a person.
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Wow. Way to just assume that because I'm in High School I'm a teenager who thinks looks are "very important". If I thought that looks were very important I'd be dressing like everyone else, wearing skinny jeans, wearing neon jewelry. But I don't. I dress like I came from a darkly themed Renaissance Festival, and in fact, I get asked if I work there on a daily basis. I have no friends. I have no signifigant others. If I really cared about my appearance and m
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 And my looks, I'd be dressing like them, trying to get friends. But I don't. I like who I am and I like the way I look and I like the things I like and that is more important to me than anything else in the world. The fact that I have myself, that I know that one day I'm gonna find people like me carries me through. Not the confidence that I am beautiful. In fact, looking pretty is probably the LAST thing on my mind. The shoes I wear give me cankles.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 But I like the way they look. Not beautiful. Not pretty. Artful. I love the way I look and I don't give a fuck what others think. I don't let anyone define me especially not fucktards like you who assume you know what I'm like beccause I'm in High school. You don't know me. You don't know how the events in my life have aged me. You don't know the scars that have added years to my life, that have wisened me beyond my years. You don't know how out of place I feel
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae I feel out of place and have to hide a lot of my past to the people I know because I know that it could endanger the new life I built for myself. It did however make me stronger. Its not productive to spend so much time trying to craft an image and dwell on how persecuted you are. Why not rise above those that persecuted you. I make more then the cops that locked me up and treated me like an animal. That's the difference between being different in a good way and a lazy way.
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Omg like you're so right, I just wallow in my despair about what a poor human being I am. I don't go out to movies, or paint, or go shopping, I hate music, what a miserable wretch I am. Gosh, you really know me, don't you, incredibly wise scholar of Youtube? SUCK MY DICK LOL
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae You were the one complaining about how hard your life is but anyway I guess you have life all figured out before you can even smoke oh wise annoying whiny teenager. You win. You just keep on doing what you are doing. I'm just going to roll my eyes and find something better to do. Just keep on doing what you are doing. You will grow out of it like the goth kids in the 80s did. Or maybe you can be the first middle age goth, that'd be a laugh,
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Sometimes people are blind because they do not wish to see. You are one of them.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097
Do you actually know many goth people yourself? Because I know many that were before it had a name, and they still consider themselves goth to this day.
It's not necessarily about the image but love for the music. I dress simply and I don't wear make up very often. I know many women that feel secure/happy by wearing more make up and dark clothing, and others that are more into the music (like myself.) What's wrong with doing/liking something if you're happy?
Ravlei 1 month ago
There's nothing wrong with it. Why does everyone keep saying that? Whats bad is when you are so superficial that your look and others opinions rule your whole world. Lots of women wear make up and look pretty too. If you take away their makeup though they don't feel like a different person because they are secure with who they are. They might think they are less pretty without it (although its not really true, a beautiful woman will always be beautiful) but they don't lose their identity
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Because of not only how I dress, but because of who I am...Oh wait...Same thing, but you wouldn't believe that, would you? No because you know exactly what I'm like, I'm shallow, a petty, catty teenager who would know nothing of being their own person and letting their personality define them. My clothing is an outwards reflection of my personality and it's not me that's doesn't understand here. it's you. And I feel sorry for you, thinking you can just judge anyone
Sayukae 1 month ago 14
@Sayukae in fact, you can. moron. see? did it :)
btw its not about judging people how they look its about stating how fucking stupid the creator of this video is. talking about depressions with this age just shows how NOT selfreflective this person is. in addition, you suck. did it again :)
attention whore lvl 10000000000
DeutschlandIstSchuld 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@DeutschlandIstSchuld Lol what are you even talking about? Stupid lol
Sayukae 1 week ago
@Anferny9097 I'm sure you put yourself and your "wits" on a very high pedestal. But don't ever. Ever. Think you know who I am or what I'm like.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae No one is judging anyone. I don't condemn you for what you wear. You can wear whatever you want. You don't know my scars either. You can't assume you are the only one that suffers hardship. In my youth I was in prison, I did a lot of things I would like to take back and that i'm not proud of. I grew up fast too. I turned my life around though and I take pride in that. You should take pride in your adversity and grow from it. Its a lot better than becoming bitter and image crazy
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 What? So calling all Goths shallow and assuming I'm bitter and image crazy isn't judging anyone? Whaaaat?? You mean I said I was the only one who suffered hardship? Wheere? You're putting on this front like you understand what I'm saying but it's seriously like talking to a rodent. You think you're trying to relate to me but all you're doing over is skipping over the key points I was trying to make. So um...fuck you? Yea, fuck you.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Do you not wear t shirts you like? Clothes that look good? Your entire monologue here is full of complete hypocrisy. You assume that because I put more effort into my appearance that must mean that I am shallow and the fact that I'm young only adds to that. Unfortunately, I and many others will spend a good amount of time dispelling the barrages of ignorant people like you.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 You say you wear what is comfortable, is it so hard for your small, narrow mind to understand that I don't want to wear anything else, that I am COMFORTABLE in what I'm in?? That I DONT let it define me, that I let it be a part of who I am but nothing more. You wouldn't get that, though.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae At first I was just being insulting for laughs but now that I'm talking to you I can see that we are not that different. I tried to be different by being a tough guy when I was 18-21 and you try to be different by looking different from your peers. Whats important though is that I didn't benefit from my behavior. Are you benefiting from yours? It doesn't sound like it. You may not have really harsh consequences but you are not gaining anything from it either.So why focus on it?
Anferny9097 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Wow. You really are stupid aren't you? Did you miss like, everything I just said?I already said not to assume things about me because you really don't know who the fuck I am or what I'm like. All you're getting are snippets of highly emotional well drawn out speeches focused on a single aspect of the cornucopia that is my life. And you're dumb enough to think that it's going to give you my personality and character flaws in a nutshell? Moron.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 Lol and how shallow are you, coming on to Youtube and spewing hate about a subculture!
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Anferny9097 And more than anything, I'm so glad that you included us all into a neat umbrella, yes, you're right Goth people ARE shallow. All of us. Not like I've got better things to do than to think about what people are thinking of me, especially because they've got such vibrant, hateful, thoughts about me! It doesn't stress me out at all or make me feel like a freak, as long as I feel "special". Not because I like the way I look. REGARDLESS of what others like.
Sayukae 1 month ago
You're videos have helped me so much when I've been stuck in dark places every now and then.
I really and truly want to find you one day and give you a hug.
Because...You are just too amazing for words.
You really are.
Freakazoidhnnh 1 month ago
A nice way to not be depressed is to let out our anger on joji's videos under the comment box. lol...
Fireblaze15 1 month ago
can tea fix my car? :P lol i dont have a car. thank you for makeing this
itachi1145 1 month ago
This is a really helpful video. Thank you for making it.
MrJamesbach 1 month ago
earl grey is my favorite ^^
ElinoraDesrose 1 month ago
You are my inspiration, Joji. Your videos always help me feel better. :)3
kittiebrains 1 month ago
Agreed good sir, The Cure is the best for depression
AbsinthRipper 1 month ago
i totally agree tea fixes everything!!! i drink tea all the time its like the only thing i drink... i'm a tea junkie... lol your talking about it put me in the mood for some! Luckily i was already boiling the pot!! i enjoy your videos i think you have an interesting perspective and i love your makeup!!! I think its constructive you discuss your life experiences and who you are so openly it helps broaden understanding and acceptance :,)
DarkMoon3693 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Lmao not a tranny,, but nice to know you think im one, you are one judgemental bitch, little pussy.
XxSammiiGoesRawrxX 1 month ago
@XxSammiiGoesRawrxX omg wtf it is a fucking tranny faggot, and by the way slut, your breath smells of cum... that thing is not a man or women it is fugly faggot
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Well you would know since you know me right, And Will you grow some damn balls and stop picking on people because you are so bored with your life.
XxSammiiGoesRawrxX 1 month ago
@XxSammiiGoesRawrxX suck my boner, whore
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Oh no, I know where a link to this is probably going XD
MegaMouldyBanana 1 month ago
@MegaMouldyBanana omg really where??
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@MegaMouldyBanana omg really where??
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Oh sorry, i think you got the wrong person, maybe you meant to call your mom a whore (:
XxSammiiGoesRawrxX 1 month ago
I get depressed wondering whether or not I'm really depressed. To be honest I've found the best way not to be depressed is to just decide you don't want to be. Not everyone can do this but I think more people are capable of it if they just try.
I also think that it's important that people who seem to get depressed a lot seek help from their family and friends. No one should go through something like that alone.
endthedisease 1 month ago
I always wondered why I felt better after drinking Earl Grey. Thank you so much for making this video by the way, I needed to see it today <3
ittehbittehkitteh3 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Actually, he doesn't have a penis.
Seriously, though. Fuck you.
AndreaEatsRainbows 1 month ago
@AndreaEatsRainbows .....that thing has a penis. no kidding, it's not a man of a women not kidding, it's just a fag that's trying to be a women. and it DOOOOES have a penis.
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Wow. You're a fucking ignorant moron. Why don't you figure out what the hell you're talking about before you go spewing out hate and stupidity and the like, you narrow minded neadrathal?
Sayukae 1 month ago
@Sayukae Wow. how about you gargle on my nob you tranny slut
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND LOL WOW I AM LYK SO OFFENDED.
Sayukae 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Lol. No, he doesn't.
You're retarded.
AndreaEatsRainbows 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Yes, yes I did know he is a man and a fucking sexy one at that. I would do him in a minute if given the chance. And yes I'm also a "fucking faggot" as you so amazingly put it.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
@AkuNaruL point proven
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND You really have no intellegence do you. Here let me put it in terms you will understand...
You are an ignorant prick who needs to get a fucking life and stop hiding behing their keyboards to try and impress people and make themselves look like a big boy with big balls.
And as you have said it to so many people to try to look like a badass, you can suck my dick and I hope you choke while you're down there.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
@AkuNaruL says the bitch that spent 3 hours drafting a 3 paragraph reply, no life..... slut
4ndreiND 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Oh did I really take that long? I'm SO sorry that my life took me that long to reply and I'm SO sorry that working for a living keeps me from argueing with you all day. Oh and is the best comeback you have is to all people a slut because if so I'm afraid you're very mistaken, I only sleep with one man and that's my boyfriend.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
@AkuNaruL and again, a whole speech, whore
4ndreiND 1 month ago
tea is freakin awesome, not everyone realise it
aga95 1 month ago
for me i have bad depression though i don't harm myself i get in a funk alot and i been this way for years no pill really gets me upbeat except paxil but it makes you gain weight so i dropped that so i'm stuck with a really blah feeling almost everyday.
TheGotheena1 1 month ago
I'm not even depressed but I think I'll take your advice right now and go get some tea. Sounds like a better day already :D
fireonthesnow 1 month ago
Thanks, and I agree, tea really does fix everything.
jamie3197 1 month ago
Tea IS the best thing on this planet, and earl grey is one of my favorites next to chai (I LOVE CHAI)
randomguda 1 month ago
Thank you so much for making this video Joji darling. You really are a massive inspiration to me and so many others.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
I love you so much Joji! I really look up to you, thank you for making videos
sarahkcrider 1 month ago
@4ndreiND Wow you're really fucking pathetic aren't you. What are you, like 14? Here's a few tips. 1) get off the internet 2) Learn some manners 3) Apologize to Joji because he's a much better and hotter man than you will ever be.
AkuNaruL 1 month ago
@4ndreiND
Nah, still not really funny or clever. But don't worry sweetie you can always keep trying.
BassBeLouder101 1 month ago
I have to say I disagree. Coffee wins
xD cheers mate, your an inspiration for us
IllusiveOddity 1 month ago
I'm a recovering self harmer and when I feel the need to cut, I wear this choker I found that's plastic blood, and looks like blood dripping. I used to cut my throat, and wearing that choker it's like I see the blood, but I'm not causing it so it's healthier? Maybe? I also watch really bad horror movies from the 30's.
residentreject619 1 month ago
Joji, you are one of the people who inspire me to be just who I am, and to not care what others think of me. Thank you Joji for just being you!
residentreject619 1 month ago
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OKAY THE 4ndreiND DISS VIDEO IS NOW COMPLETE, every one can now know who he is, through this video i did for him. lol
any ways my friend This video was better then Mine. YOU TOTALLY ROCK!
MsJamesworld 1 month ago
OKAY THE 4ndreiND -> DISS VIDEO IS NOW COMPLETE, every one can now know who he is, through this video i did for him. lol
any ways my friend This video was better then Mine. YOU TOTALLY ROCK!
MsJamesworld 1 month ago
This may sound stupid but i play with makeup. I love black eyeliner/eye-shadow. Try new looks, make yourself look like Marilyn Manson or a fucking Black Veil Bides member. Its a lot better than ripping up your skin , trust me
AnnieLovesKillljoys 1 month ago
why all the hate?
fritt3erfr0g 1 month ago
Thank you :)
vinylflowersss 1 month ago
What the fuck is up with all these stupid comments? he's talking about Depression and thats something serious!
nightfall844 1 month ago
4ndreiND I made a video for him do worry I always react to the dub fucks. They piss me off also, believe me. You should see it.
oh by the way my friend, I got You back, You are not what they say. yeah go check it out on my channel, as for ---> 4ndreiND <-----
He just may go and cry after seeing the two video's I made for him. The on on the channel you are going to see is not so harsh but the one I am posting on TheMsCryptic4 is just for him.
MsJamesworld 1 month ago
@MsJamesworld thanks man :) your so nice, but unfortunatly, you're still a virgin pussy
4ndreiND 1 month ago
I know you don't give a fuck about hate but it really bothers me when people are saying such disgusting things to people just for fun. It's sad, really.
CrazyChicVids 1 month ago
wow to all the hate on here.. you people are terrible. get lives and stop acting like children.
Your videos are wonderful:3 hooray to feeling secure with your own emotions.. and yey to tea! peas and fluff <3
twistedcheshire 1 month ago
I really enjoyed this video on ways to cope with depression, and it couldn't have come at a better time for me. For recently, me and a long time friend have had a rather insignificant spat, that turned nasty. It has left me deeply hurting, and almost unable to function. And your videos in general cheer up the saddest day, this one on depression imparticular has helped me vastly. So rambling aside, I wanted to thank you for all your videos. They really do help and make a difference!
AkiraShikigami 1 month ago
Nobody thinks any of you are cute or funny when you just start spewing a bunch of idiotic shit. if you don't like his videos, don't watch them. You don't know him and he sure as shit wasn't born to please any of you. He's not going to just stop one day and go "Oh, some douche-bag youtube user who has never met me told me to 'stop being a fag and stop being depressed.' and to dress the way they want me to. Those were the magic words I needed! Let me go change everything about me right now!"
o0zing0o 1 month ago
@xwillyspx I'm not saying you shouldn't express your oppenion but you vary well could have worded better in a more expressive way with out seeming so rude..... Now you may not like his look and is fine you have the right to but all that matters is that he likes it and I personally find his look vary attractive and it looks good on him now that's my oppenion and you don't have to agree with it and I'm not saying you have no right to voice your oppeion you do
coldcoffeeballerina 1 month ago
@4ndreiND well i'm actually a girl with a boyfriend, so you might want to tell him first. have fun never leaving middle school.
o0zing0o 1 month ago
You are a disgusting looking man. Noone will take you seriously with all that clown makeup on, let alone those manhole covers in your ears.
xwillyspx 1 month ago
Dont worry. I'd still do you.
BlaziNomad 1 month ago
LOL
lagging199527 1 month ago
Hi 4chan.
TheFakeBlood 1 month ago
Flagged for promoting terrorism.
alexgrider 1 month ago
i don't think i'll ever stoop so low as to feel the need to talk shit for no reason. all of you need to go away.
kaylyii 1 month ago
stop beeing such a emo faggot, depression is not a disease, you just want attention and want everyone to feel sad for you. grow up, and learn that shit happens, now get over it
yaaay55 1 month ago
@yaaay55 straight up bro
4ndreiND 1 month ago
i´d be depressed,too if i was this fucking ugly
RapiDEraZeR 1 month ago
Your depressed cause you see yourself in the mirror each morning.
Fucking attention whore.
MrErik4you 1 month ago
What the fuck is this piece of nasty shit?
FacelessOnlooker 1 month ago
your advice is alright but god fucking damn you are ugly, your ears are absolutely disgusting in particular, your hair is stupid, but otherwise i'd love to see your gash
R32KLR 1 month ago
show us your tits ;)
alexgrider 1 month ago
nigger
GATORAID1993 1 month ago
TITS or GTFO
darthvaderabraham 1 month ago
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oh fuck ew its a girl?
xScreamfinity 1 month ago
u look fucktarded no wonder u are depressed
MasterOfGameHacking 1 month ago
OMG you're a woman. That is all.
JT777 1 month ago
I'm glad someone has their head on straight(:
BlackMassacre6 1 month ago
@4ndreiND
Dude. You just sound like a 13 year old loser desperately trying to come up with a funny comment. Just stop trying. It's not working hon.
BassBeLouder101 1 month ago 2
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HAHA is it a boy or girl? I'm pretty sure that thing has got a penis. Maybe it's a white african? Wtf is up with the earlobe.
alexgrider 1 month ago
You, Joji, are truly amazing. I really hope that I am as helpful to other people as you are. Thank you so much for being so awesome! x
ItsMisery666 1 month ago
I have bpd too and it really is a hard mental health issue to deal with. I hate that it doesnt react well to medication, I've tried almost any anti depressant out there to no avail. I wish you the best Joji, If you read this I just want you to know that watching you videos give me a lot of confidence about who I am and expressing that outwardly.
ObnoxiouslyObtuse 1 month ago in playlist More videos from KINGgutterface
@4ndreiND yeah, no really, you're a piece of shit. that isn't even funny or clever. joji is awesome and looks awesome and dapper as fuck.
o0zing0o 1 month ago
@4ndreiND
If you're going to insult Joji for no reason, at least ATTEMPT to sound slightly intelligent.
BassBeLouder101 1 month ago
Sometimes I just want to fly to Ohio and give you a hug! You're awesome Joji.
AMC32212 1 month ago
Everytime you said tip it sounded like tit..... I tried to be serious....
LollitaSamaXOXO 1 month ago
P.S. Tea DOES fix everything. haha!
Tiffanyvangoey 1 month ago
Great Advice. i love your videos and sound opinions. It's very inspirational!
Tiffanyvangoey 1 month ago
@4ndreiND You are so in-conciderate, and rude. ASSHOLE.
XxSammiiGoesRawrxX 1 month ago
Naw but I drink to much tea, its a problem, how can I fix that!
TrampVamp 1 month ago
Are they any other things to drink besides tea that might help? I'm not exactly fond of tea :P
MrsBritini 1 month ago
I was wondering if you could do a video about where you got your nose chain or how you made/make them?
MrHappyHazard