Abstinence Video

[piercethefilmstrip]

lol this was terrible actingg... plus theres this thing called PROTECTION. i think people should know the facts, but dont try

to scare people into abstinence...

[Sayuyagami1001]

Because, you know, even PROTECTED sex is evil and bad and dirty and gets you pregnant.

[megadjgrl]

I saw this video in class 2day...

[fuzzynippleman]

LOL-FUCK YOU GUYS!! so every time you have sex you'll get pregnant and get AIDS?? Maybe you should have taught those kids about condoms. . . . . . because they work. Or has no one told you about them?

[TheLavish99]

YEAH RIGHT! Like comprehensive sex ed is supposed to help you too when condoms and birth control are not even 100% effective either and all you tree hugging, jungle loving, fruity, wiccan, new age, hippy, trailer trash, queer, immoral, and undisciplined liberal shrimps should understand that! If you came from a classy and splendid family like I did, then you would understand this abstinence issue better. Learn to control you freaking hormones, you punks! FYI, I'm college educated too!

[IKillBabyKittensLOL]

@TheLavish99 LOL

[Sayuyagami1001]

@TheLavish99 Queer? Wiccan? Please don't put legitamite pieces of life in with insults? And condom failure happens less than 2% of the time. Mixed in with birth control, protected sex has VERY little risk of anything bad happening.

We can control our hormones, but why should we have to if we have a willing partner and protection?

[meggatonman]

i love sex

[Jennybean89]

The acting is actually really shit.

Also, contraception is much better than believing wishy-washy bullshit. People have sex. Get over it. Just because you have sex before marriage doesn't mean your life will be screwed up forever. I didn't wait and my life is fine, thanks very much and I can say the same for my friends too :-)

[ElMa1788]

The USA should be more like Holland

[twintomahawk]

i dont get it

[intestinalbuttfuck]

if god wanted me to stay a virgin why'd he give me this bigass dick?

[LifeIsABigPuzzle]

Teens who go to parties, get drunk, and have sex may be more likely to have unsuccessful relationships when they are older. Those teens might be used to breaking up and fooling around to have a good commitment. So you might want to wait until you find someone special! :D

[bunniiman]

First of all, 25% of AIDS carriers don't know they have it, that's bullshit, where did that statistic come from?

Secondly, wear a fucking condom, they've always worked for me.

Thirdly, get an abortion, and anybody who tells you you can't is anti-woman--hey, its your body, your life, your future, why sacrifice that for a bunch of microscopic undeveloped cells that takes about eight weeks to resemble anything human anyways.

Don't let these abstinence freaks frighten you, sex is NATURAL.

[cinderella22291]

@bunniiman dont tell people to get an abortion.those cells that you are talking about are a a human being.and there is a soul in that creature so by taking an abortion is like killing a person

[somerealrandomperson]

but what if you get aids form the person you married...Ha! you see it doesn't work all the time! Besides you just have to be smart and slowly find out about the person from clinical tests not a fast from sex and becoming an absolute prude like the rest of this country. Heck bacterial kinds of stds are treatable.

[TheGreenerItGets]

Ain't THAT a bitch.

[legendiam870310]

Is this video a joke?

[zodiakranch]

Maybe if everyone was tested for HIV it would help stop them from spreading it? Maybe if people used condoms it would help keep it from spreading it? Maybe if people were better educated at an earlier age it would help prevent disease and unwanted pregnancy? Teaching abstinence only doesn't help stop people so maybe educating them would help? Why not help young people make better decisions by giving them better information?

[WillTaylor08]

That is possibly the worst acting I've ever seen!

[Equichav]

LOL. This is ridiculously hilarious!

[Maghetti]

Blahahahaha, this video is so terrible I think it gave ME aids. Yes lets ignore all those other safety precautions away like condoms and testing and just not have sex =D. Also lets stop eating food because it MIGHT be infected rather than making sure we're eating safe food lol.

[lisa89]

@lilkitten13 Summed up everything perfectly. I just see it like driving a car. If you don't know how to drive you'll most likely die if you try. But plenty of people do drive and don't get harmed because they're careful and responsible.

[Acidpunk101]

Tbh i wish i was there just to shout EPIC FAIL!

And btw people, DUREX, it works.

[lilkitten13]

If had used a damn condom NEITHER of those thigns would happen... thats why birth control and condoms and regular testing.. regardless of if you have had esx or not, is key to staying healthy.. Its not whether you have sex... ever the most stupid people can do it... its the point of doing it safely.. If you cant protect your body your mind and your soul, then you shouldnt be having sex.

[lilkitten13]

If had used a damn condom NEITHER of those thigns would happen... thats why birth control and condoms and regular testing.. regardless of if you have had esx or not, is key to staying healthy.. Its not whether you have sex... ever the most stupid people can do it... its the point of doing it safely.. If you cant protect your body your mind and your soul, then you shouldnt be having sex.

[KarinMikazuki]

Hey stupids, condoms?

[daydreambeliever93]

Has anyone heard of condoms? Birth control? Hell, even abortion?

[katia04]

This is why you wear that little thing made out of latex. Maybe you've heard of it. It's called a condom. And you don't get AIDS from having sex, you get HIV from having sex (at least immediately after). Not that that's a good thing. This is why you use a condom and get on birth control. What the commercial shows is the RESULT of abstinence-only education that doesn't teach kids how to PROTECT themselves in case they DO mess up (which, statistically speaking, most do).

[whotrickedyouu]

So, pregnancy or aids is not the only things that can happen. I chose to wait to marry so no tramp can sue me or lock me into child support of 102,000 over 18 years (109 x 52 =5668 x 18 = 102,024 ). Do the people promoting promisuity, show you this COST guys? Of course not, they are there to trick you. (So you take the bait, now youre a slave for 30 years). Use woman to bait him in, like Delilah tricked Sampson, remember that? 100K, that's a lot of money!

[lisa89]

@whotrickedyouu If you have a child... you really need to financially support it...

[whotrickedyouu]

And if you don't pay? The court issues arrest warrants, to make you pay. My check will be 39.00 a week, lol, if I have nine babies, with nine different girls. The more babies you guys, the more cash they take! (Guys the court will need your SS#). And whats worse, is her new boyfriend is pocketing that money and eating off your child support. Wake up and wait guys.

[whotrickedyou]

Think i'll allow the movies, culture or crowd to trick or deceive me? How about you? Who is deceiving or tricking you? Is it the movies, music, friends, sleazy sites (the leaders of lewdness websites) a boy fiend? This video is clear about what can happen, great video. Ladies, If you ever become the "victim" of a life long, no cure - STD was the frog worth it? Or should you wait to marry that special prince charming, you're dreaming about? (Here's a hint, skip the frog, lol).

[whotrickedyou]

I'm glad didn't get involved during my teen years at all. I suspected someone was tricking me at the time. Years later I found out about the 100,000 cost of child support and a menu of STDs. See a grown man cry, because his paycheck was cut down to 99.80 a week take home by the courts, because of child support on my link. Hmmm, I noticed the crowd promoting promiscuity never ADDS that part when making their safe sex sales pitch. So now you found out, who tricked you.

[cantbefooled]

I read some comments below saying "protect yourself", but as Jason said in the video on my link in Romance Without Regret Part 7 he said "who do you protect yourself from"? An enemy right? Wow, that made perfect sense. If there's a threat of some sort (like HIV, AIDS, CRABS, VD, Herpes, now HPV etc) that means something of off, right? So, I would fall for the "protection fib cliche" but the problem is ... can I be fooled?

[neecee401100]

I think a lot more goes into sex then just stds and getting pregnant. Nobody ever talks about the emotional side of it. A condom won't protect your heart. Guys don't really care but it's more complicated for girls I think.

[TheWhiteRabbit1990]

LOLOLOL

Ahh the public education system. trying to scare their kids into doing what they want. Cumon kids, have sex, it feels great and your grossly unlikely to get a std.

they're called condoms.

[MrDamien1976]

Abstinence educators are not the 'sex police' we are not here to say "who, what when or where." We only want to inform, create a logical alternative to STD's and teen pregnancy. We want the youth to make the choice for themselves. After all the choice to have sex or not is always your's. Not mom's, dad's, god's, or your boy/girlfriend's, but your's! Besides life itself the next greatest gift given to you is the ability to choose. Make informed, educated decisions. The choice is your's...........

[elsielsis]

Abstinence is the only way?

condom,

day after pill,

female contraception...

come the fuck on

[Roflmafao]

stop trying to brainwash kids!!! we can have sex if you want to, nobody can make up our own choices

[m16chick]

Sex isn't bad, not having sex is good, having sex is good. It's all in your choices and in how you promote yourself! If you're going to screw some random security guard, and be covered in his blown loads, you're a slut. Shove that you're a virgin down someones throat about how you don't have sex, and they are bad, you're a prude. I'm 20, haven't had sex, but that is my choice! It's not for "God" my dad, family, no one but myself.

[reelkids]

I think this video make a very valid point. Abstinence education is not about never having sex. It's benifits verse consequences. THe consequences are real and that is what this video is trying to get you to understand. NO one is saying sex is evil or wrong ... Sex can be great ... but no one plans to get and std or pregnant yet 8000 teens get and std EVERY DAY in the US.

[elsielsis]

@reelkids what the fuck?

that is the most bullshit statistic i have ever read.

by your calculations 2,920,000 teens contract STIs EVERY YEAR. that means in 100 years, every single person in the US will have an STI.

Sex is a normal part of life, and SHOULD be expirenced from a youngish age, (16 both genders).

christians and other moralfags , like to push their beliefs, but in reality, those who can have sex will.

[txmcxlx]

I'm not a teen but last week I picked up a security guard who didn't have sex in a long time. He tore off his clothes and dove into the bed and fucked me over and over again. Like a horse. I was filled up, torn up, and sticky with loads of cum. I'm 20.

[hubert25]

WTF! that scares me! hahaha!

[SORCelement]

LOL

[apocaliips]

I think education is the best way to prevent STD's/STI's. Educating young adults instead of scaring them.

I believe that telling them, "Not having sex is the only way" is not only ignorant but unrealistic.

[rocwiler0]

sex is awsome :) i intend to have lost of sex before i die even if im a teen :)

[HymnofDoom]

They seem to forget that abortions are options. It may not be the best option but it is still an option.

As for AIDS... Don't be daft, cover your shaft

[PeteWentzLover1011]

lololol and they're both black... somehow that seems really racist xD

[fatas412]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHH oh man "I have aids" thats great just

"i have aids"

[sandroeleven]

some fool actually gave you thumbs up for that one......i bet you are another promiscuous liberal.

[fatas412]

ohh shes ready she doesnt even know

[beefygoblin]

Use condoms kids. Wrap it up.

[queenedwina]

Teenagers and abstinence don't tend to mix very well.

[lisaray101]

Powerful video!

[UATimka]

A Virgin Wife is like new clean title car its smells good and you enjoy riding it! NOn virgin wife or husben is like salvage wreacked car that can quit any minute! at least cars are easy to raplace .... Great video!

[kiwisunshine5233]

Because wifes are just objects and "virginity" is the only worth of a wife, not their experiences, minds, and personalities. Oh no, a virgin is always great in bed just like a person who just started playing piano is automatically a Beethoven. The more practice, the worse you get. Virgins always know how to sexually please & fullfil their partners, there is never any confusion, disappointment, nor akwardness during nor after the sex.

[Smileyldy08]

Thank you!!!!! Couldn't have said it better myself! Makes me VERY happy I haven't given my body away. No one but my husband deserves it anyway.

[txmcxlx]

Right, my mom started fucking when she was fourteen. She fucked a cop when she was fifteen. She had lot's of police protection after that. Any lawyer would have been jerking off during her rape trial.

[txmcxlx]

Yeah and when you marry the asshole you'll wish you'd have fucked someone else first.

Like my mom.

[Smileyldy08]

If I'm smart....I'll know he''s an "asshole" before I marry him....and have no regrets of giving my body to the undeserved :)

[theboombody]

There's an interesting passage in Ecclesiastes that says sometimes calamity befalls the righteous while the unrighteous reap rewards.  So yeah, whether you're abstinent or not, bad stuff can happen. Of course, boinking anything that moves is throwing caution to the wind and sure ain't smart.

But abstinence is about style. If Diogenes the Cynic was abstinent and awesome, we can be as well.

[snuffaluffagus89]

this video BLEW MY MIND. I LOLED SO HARD!

[dorado221]

Abstinence is the only way... if you don't feel like getting tested and using condoms + birth control.

[Coolbird00]

they don't work trust me I try.

[dorado221]

okay coolbird, you can be as retarded as you want about it. A woman has a 1 in approx 9,400 chance of getting pregnant if condoms and birth control are used. Assuming that both partners are STD free, it's almost 100% safe.

It's cool if you want to be abstinent, although I'm not so sure that it's by choice in your case.

heh, silly fundamentalism....

[blurryxxangel]

Abstinence is ignorance. People need to be taught about safe sex, because no sex is just not realistic.

[charismaticace]

Why is no sex (at least no sex until marriage) "just not realistic"? I am a 26 year old male and I made a promise to myself a long time ago to wait until I was married before having sex (and yes, I have had opportunities to break that promise.) It seems to me the only reason people of our generation see not having sex as impossible is because it takes discipline. Something this generation, for the most part, has never been taught.

[blurryxxangel]

It's not realistic because as humans we are made to want to have sex. It's going to happen -- if not to you, then someone else -- and I don't view it as a bad thing if the experience is positive and important.

But the real education lies in teaching kids about safe sex and abstinence. From there they can make their own decision. But leaving out information is just dangerous.

And while I'm not abstinent, I understand how difficult it is and I'm impressed by your willpower.

[charismaticace]

First, thank you very much for your kind compliment. I've had this discussion with too many people claiming I've had abstinence thrust upon me rather than it being my choice. So I thank you for that.

[charismaticace]

Second, I would like to clarify one thing: I am completely in favor of teaching kids/young adults about safe sexual practices and options. What I do not advocate is this idea of abstinence being unrealistic. Yes, God gave us those feelings for a reason, I understand that (yes I am a Christian but I'm also a Democrat - go figure) but God also gave us the ability to control those feelings.

[blurryxxangel]

Fair enough. And I appreciate your level-headed stance on this. When I said "abstinence is ignorance", I wasn't talking exactly about the practice of abstinence so much as the forced (and sole) teaching of abstinence.

I'm also an atheist so I don't agree that we were given these feelings by a god, but I respect your beliefs and your decision to act accordingly. It's nice to discuss topics like these maturely for once.

[kiwisunshine5233]

Your discipline from sex is just like an anorexic's discipline from eatting. Once you're 18, it is unreasonable to deny yourself sex when there is birthcontrol, STD tests, and condoms available. Studies have shown that those who don't start having sex before they're 21 are prone to sexual dysfunction. Studies also show that sex has many health benefits.

[charismaticace]

You're comparing sexual abstinence...to anorexia. Tell me, how many people have died from not having sex? Congratulations, I think that might actually be the weakest argument against abstinence I have ever heard.

[Dshort33]

That IS a terrible argument.

However, abstinence isn't the end all, be all. Sex can be fun, and perfectly healthy! People just need to be smart about it. It's almost a bit like drinking; in reasonable amounts, and with the right knowledge, it's perfectly fine.

[kiwisunshine5233]

Don't take the comparison too far. I'm just saying its disciplining yourself from a relatively healthy activity that everyone eventually does. The lack of sex doesn't directly cause death, but it indirectly influences people to become violent, homocidal, & suicidal. Sexual repression leads to an overall increase in aggression in a society. Societies forbiding premarital sex are plagued by acts of rage & tend to have higher rates of crime & violence. Sex reduces risk of heart disease & depression

[kiwisunshine5233]

People who have sex a few times a week tend to have improved sense of smell, overall fitness, blatter control, teeth, & prostate function. They also tend to have less colds & flus. Men who frequently orgasm have shown to have half the death rate compared to those who don't & those who ejaculate the most often have a reduced risk of prostate cancer.

[txmcxlx]

Yeah yeah yeah,

Now get in your car and go to your local gay bar.

There you can get sucked off until your dick get sore.

[kiwisunshine5233]

But I have a clit.

[txmcxlx]

From a sex change. Big deal.

[kiwisunshine5233]

Why do you assume that I'm a MTF transsexual? Is it because someone born with a clit (completely female) cannot be knowledgeable about sex or be pro-sex in any way?

[txmcxlx]

No cause you talk like you are more interested in a little lesbian action. Like my sister who takes showers with her LGF and piss on each other in the shower.

[kiwisunshine5233]

Then wouldn't you assume I'm lesbian and aren't MTF transsexuals mostly into men anyways? Its true that I do like lesbian action because I'm a bisexual female.

[Marlowann]

Which studies have shown that not having sex before the age of 21 causes sexual dysfunction? I haven't heard of such a study, and I have not found one as far as I have looked.

[kiwisunshine5233]

The study is done by the Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute's HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies. You can find lots of articles about the study if you google in "Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute's HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies sexual dysfunction abstinence".

[Marlowann]

Perhaps you have access to better sources about this study, but the only one I've been able to find was an article on body-philosophy(dot)net that said this:

"While the study found that men who put off sex until their 20s had an increased risk of having sexual problems (i.e., an inability to reach orgasm or be aroused) men who became sexually active at a young age were also likely to experience sexual dysfunction."

So this source tells me nothing that seems noteworthy.

[kiwisunshine5233]

They probably mean kids & young teens.

Males reach their sexual peak around 17. On average, the first time people have sex is when they're 16. When you get passed up by most people in that area, you're most likely going to worry about your performance when you meet a girl you want to have sex w/ who'll most likely be a non-virgin, which causes you to loss an erection & be disheartened. Also guys who wait until later are most likely prudes who think sex is evil, disgusting, &/or unimportant.

[Marlowann]

Are you saying that choosing to abstain until later causes you to worry about your first performance, and that'll cause the loss of an erection? Just for clarity.

Also, your opinion on what abstinent men are like is irrelevant, because it says nothing about wether or not abstinence is a good idea. Moreover, you come off as being rather insulting towards abstinent men in general, instead of being intellectually honest.

My apologies if that's not the case, but that's the impression I'm getting.

[outsidepers]

@Marlowann It tells you to young is too young. By young they are reffering to males under 14, and females under 15.

Having sex before that point is having sex before you really have hit puberty and it's going to mess with your body clock.

While people who take up abstinence pledges tend to look at erections/orgasms and sex negatively and this attitude causes emotional reactions down the line which affect there sexual health.

[Marlowann]

Then if by "sexual dysfunction" one means emotional instability and lack of confidence in the bedroom due to a negative view of sex (rather than actually physical disorders), then the problem is not with abstinence itself, but the attitude behind it.

I mean you basically seem to be saying that people who look at sex negatively have bad sex lives (since sex health usually means not just the physical but also the emotional and mental aspects of sex), which is sort of obvious.

[Marlowann]

Moreover, anyone who abstains until marriage but views sex in a positive light at the same time won't suffer any problems as far as what you're saying tells me.

[outsidepers]

@Marlowann

Those negative feelings (for men at the very least) can often manifest as erectile dysfunction or give men a sub-concious conflict when they do have sex making it hard for them to cum! (Feeling comfortable with what your doing and who your doing it wiith is a HUGE part of sex.

I however don't know much about what negative attitudes due to the female sex.

And yes, if you keep a positive and healthy mature view on sex, you should be absolutly fine

[outsidepers]

@Marlowann Without it for women it becomes hard for them to orgasm and men can suffer from erectile dysfuntion along with an inability to cum.

And yes I would agree with the marriage thing, if you abstain till marriage based but keep a positive and healthy attitude to it. Then you should be fine.

The problem is sex is demonised by abstinence only pledges and made to look like it is always dangerous and full of moral drama; which any sexually active person will tell you.. it is not!

[Marlowann]

Well then! Perhaps there could be a minor discrepancy between us as to how much Abstinence demonizes sex, but other than that, we seem to agree. Splendid.

[HumanPropProductions]

Okay, what's so "safe" about having a50% chance of contracting an STD with condom use? Sex outside of marraige is just plain selfish.

[blurryxxangel]

I don't encourage promiscuous sex, but I don't think that premarital sex is selfish. I see it as healthy and natural.

I think two people planning to be involved sexually with each other should get tested for STDs before having sex and use at least one kind of birth control. If they care for each other and are careful and responsible, I think that's just fine. And if you don't decide to have premarital sex, that's okay too. People just need to be taught the safest way to go about doing it.

[zokka]

Americans....

:)

[Marlowann]

Wow, is that prejudice I see?

[kiwisunshine5233]

50% chance? Where the fuck do you get your stats? Condoms are proven to be extremely effective against pregnancy and STDs, efficiency rates of over 90%.

What is selfish about sex outside of marriage? Its not hurting anyone & 95% of all Americans do eventually it. Sex outside of marriage is no different than sex within it. Marriage is only a legal document, a piece of paper. Long live free love!

[BUTTERFLY1868]

he is fine lol but im a African American female and 16 and i`m still a virgin and i want to wait till i get married to have sex but at times it gets hard trying to keep it that way because the people at my school and mainly the boys pick on me , and most of the girl i hang out with are sexualy active . but i made a promise to myself and i`m going to stick with it.

[foxyani]

good for you. when it gets hard just take pride in being the 1 chick that the cocky horny jerks can't have. and when that guy asks you when you're gonna hook up look him dead in the eye with your most sexy confident look and say "in your dreams as usual" and strut away like you're God's gift to mankind.

you don't need guys who like you cause you put out anyway, when you get older and want to settle down they won't marry you for that same reason.

[rocwiler0]

abstinence dosent work and this video is only going to make young adults afraid of sex. You should take down this video it isnt healthy for young adults learning about sex

[foxyani]

um just wondering what do u mean when u say abstinence doesn't work? is everyone having sex be4 they get married? do people get pregnant or transmit STD'S without the S part? last time i checked abstinence was working hella good & if people consider themselves young "adults" then they should be smart enough 2 think 4themselves & make sex decisions b/c they've thought about it not because they're scared of a utube video. if not, they still have growing up 2 do & are 2 immature to have sex anyway

[rocwiler0]

abstinence alone cant protect young adults from getting STD's or pregnancy.

Why?

Because humans like sex. I suppose you wont take 2 minuts to check the studies done that prove that young people who are taught abstinence only, end up getting pregnant more offten than people who are taught how to have safe sex. Using a video that shows a girl getting pregnant and to top it off getting AIDS, only puts fear around the issue of sex instead of teaching people how to use condoms and birth control

[Marlowann]

So you're saying that abstinence can't protect young adults from the consequences of sex because they choose not to be abstinent.

Um...

Duh.

[stevemoustache]

best video on the internet,.... keep up the truth!

[videomgr]

Powerful