i just watched a lot of your videos. You seem like a really intelligent smart guy. Props to you! you are also very handsome hahaa this is coming from a straight girl wah wahh :(
It probably depends on where you're from. If it's a big city try to look for some gay magazine and the rest will just happen. If it's a smallest town try internet, but very likely to end up in a city, sorry lol;-)
Heh, no no no, I love women. Not more than one at a time of course, im not gay at all, I'm so straight I make jay-z look gay, and he's not fricking gay, want to know how I know?? He's married to beyonce!!!
Heh. No no no, I love women (of course not more than one at one time, but I don't see why you wouldn't want to be gay, you already have a dick!?!? Maybe lol, but I'm completely straight, in fact I'm so straight I make Jay-z look gay, and he's married to fricking beyonce!! But just saying, your strong passion for being gay sickens me, gays don't have a purpose in life.
@MichaelJCortez Says you watching gay videos. Your life must be pretty sad. Don't worry, being in the closet is hard, but once you come out it gets better. So you wont have to be a sourpoes all your life.
Being serious isn't that bad. I rarely see any serious teens. If you're old enough, the pubs... the Glbt community centers... the gay and straight alliance... Gay Churches... the personals. there are numerous venues to use. but if you're disabled, fat and gay it gets even harder to find the right person rather you're gay or not... We muddle on. Later mate!!
thats exactly my question coz i dont go to gay clubs and im both too shy and masculine to meet other gay ppl from the street specially when i prefer the straight and masculine acting
That's because people are usually afraid and not very confident in public and don't feel like talking about it knowing there are so many people that are ignorant and hateful. On the internet we feel we're safe and therefore we are just okay with it.
I'm surprised you're having issues with this. To be honest, you're really cute and you have an adorable accent. I have to say though, it's harder meeting lesbians in my case than gays, but the way I made them was by going to gay clubs and gay parties. Maybe you should try that. Sometimes by jut appearing there even if you know no one can get someone to approach you. If a person sees you enough times they'll get the curiousity to talk to you. Good luck in your search (:
sexxxxy, sorry but you are, yeah i agree, it's diffucult [i think] to tell if someone is gay, maybe we should all wear a sign or something? shame i live in the uk otherwise id lve to get together with you : P
@BananaSandwich1 i live in nyc,an got my butthole nice n wet on the 62nd street station el.this old guy knew how ta toss a wicked salad..he basically gave me a free colonscopy !!
I CAN TELL IF A GUY IS INTERESTED BY THE LOOK. A STRAIGHT MAN WILL LOOK AT YOU WITH CURIOSITY, BUT GAY MEN'S LOOKS TEND TO LINGER.
WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WE HAD A GREAT GUY IN THIS CITY CALLED DAVID WHO STARTED ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL GROUPS FOR GAYS. HE BROKE UP WITH HIS BOYBRIEND ABOUT SIX YEARS AGO AND HAS SINCE SHRANK BACK FROM THE SCENE. IT'S BEEN A TERRIBLE LOSS. WE NEED ORGANISERS. WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH SOCIAL GROUPS,
I CAN TELL IF A GUY IS INTERESTED BY THE LOOK. A STRAIGHT MAN WILL LOOK AT YOU WITH CURIOSITY, BUT GAY MEN'S LOOKS TEND TO LINGER.
WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WE HAD A GREAT GUY IN THIS CITY CALL DAVID WHO STARTED ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL GROUPS FOR GAYS. HE BROKE UP WITH HIS BOYBRIEND ABOUT SIX YEARS AGO AND HAS SINCE SHRANK BACK FROM THE SCENE. IT'S BEEN A TERRIBLE LOSS. WE NEED ORGANISERS. WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH SOCIAL GROUPS,
Perhaps this has been suggested before, but if you live close to a large urban center, there should be several volunteer gay organisations you can check out.
Are you in the UK? Possibly check out one of the gay helplines; in the States we have Parents, Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). If something similar is in your area, contact them as well.
When I first came out, I had people that I had known for years approach me and tell me they too were gay but to afraid to come out. You can go to gay clubs but I've found that usually you just meet barflys there. it really is hard. One way is to be a bit daring and be more aggressive when meeting cute guys and taking a chance they may be gay. There's and old joke; "what is the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy? Answer: 6 beers! haha thats more true than you would think. :)
Go to gays n make friends n if that happens then they'll introduce to there gays friends n eventually u like one of them ... Ur really pretty wen u smile .. Smile more
unfortunately it is hard to meet other gay guys without finding yourself in a bar of some type. i did it this way for years and all i found was sex and guys with lots of problems. my only suggestion would be, if the bar scene is not for you, use your God given gaydar and pay attention to the guys around you. they are everywhere.
i live in greece...here in greece only in athens u can flert "free"...(and not always..)..in all the other towns of my country its reallyyyyy dificult!!
i personally hate meeting new gay people from the internet...! its better face to face....i chat from 16 years old.now i am 22.i really need to have flert as str8 people have..its unfair....
@88Xania pesta re c, 20 xronon apo thessaloniki eimai kai ego to idio akrivos provlima kai idies skepseis exo. An se aftous tous 3 mines vrikes enan kalo tropo pes mas kai emas :D
Your question is what most poeple ask to,but one of the awser for that is just BE your self and go to places like a City,Mall,Clubs,beach those kind off places, poeple will notice you and will be able to say Hi,or something like that,other ways are easy as go with some female friends allot of female's have gay friends maybe they can interduse you to some of them if you like,and from there your friendship can grow and like that you can be friends with there friends to and see how the meet poeple.
From your videos you don't really come off as gay so other gay guys might not know if you are. This is also a problem of mine, people don't know at first and if your like me and like the kind of guys that are more masculine then its REALLY hard to meet guys. The internet is useful but also just going out to gay clubs, or bars (that is if your old enough for that), was the most helpful for me. I hope you meet some hotties soon!!! cheers mate.....bty, you guys do say that where your from right?
First of all, I love your accent! Secondly, I'm Jewish...so I want to meet someone who's Jewish and gay (and preferably a religious Jew)!...and that makes something hard 1000x harder. :/
same way a straight person does it... figure out what you like.. religion/bars/social activities/etc. and then do some research as to what in your area is gay or gay friendly...and go.. you have to put yourself out there and like with a straight person, you will be rejected/used/disappointed by some.... but you'll also be loved by others
I guess people might think that just because South Africa is one of the few countries that has complete equality for all, it might be a 'great' place for those who are homosexual.
Unfortunately not!
Equal rights came about as a reaction to Apartheid, I assume almost everyone must no what that was about, and were not earned by changing the general populations minds.
If it was put up to a popular vote, like what happens in the USA, we would have far fewer or no rights at all and not by a slim
I have the same problem! Where are the gay people?! lol I actually went to a hotel in my area to apply for a job and there where two guys working there that seemed gay...so i'm guessing gay people are in hotels? lol
@RicardoJav LOL! hahaha... Guess ima have to visit some hotels in my area then. Psh... them gays think they can hide from me, ima go hunting in hotels from now on. haha
@borisgoodenough1988 - na im still in highschool, and my school definately does not have anything to do with gays etc. when people find out about me at school there will be a huge 'non-understanding uproar'. And i dont know of any 'groups' i can join. - i wouldn't even know where to start to look for these groups. haha, thanx though. appreciate it!
hahah! ok well firstly... for all the gay haters, and anyone else that wants to watch i've uploaded a new video. ''GAY BASHERS!...are FOOLS!'' - i suggest you take a look. or whatever.
why should you have a hard time meeting other gay folks??you are VERY intelligent,and articulate, and incredibly cute.you seem very nice and polite.aren't there any l.g.b.t. youth groups or university groups for you to join?
I would get with you, you seem pretty kewl!! :)
biggmc100 3 days ago
I wish I can find a boyfriend as well. I'm getting lonely :(
AceJetstorm 2 weeks ago
i just watched a lot of your videos. You seem like a really intelligent smart guy. Props to you! you are also very handsome hahaa this is coming from a straight girl wah wahh :(
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It probably depends on where you're from. If it's a big city try to look for some gay magazine and the rest will just happen. If it's a smallest town try internet, but very likely to end up in a city, sorry lol;-)
thelizard111 3 weeks ago
You wanna meet me?
captaincarl1 3 weeks ago
Saawth Afrikaaaaaaaa
keaney123321 3 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
Hit me up,i would like to talk
Sandy11708 1 month ago
just use you gaydar!
fablewars 1 month ago
OMG ur so HOT !!!
TheYaoiGuardian 1 month ago
Dont call us fag-:| the knly way i have is online i mean i know there gay if they came out already but thats sit
Elijahlopez23 1 month ago
Heh, no no no, I love women. Not more than one at a time of course, im not gay at all, I'm so straight I make jay-z look gay, and he's not fricking gay, want to know how I know?? He's married to beyonce!!!
MichaelJCortez 1 month ago
Heh. No no no, I love women (of course not more than one at one time, but I don't see why you wouldn't want to be gay, you already have a dick!?!? Maybe lol, but I'm completely straight, in fact I'm so straight I make Jay-z look gay, and he's married to fricking beyonce!! But just saying, your strong passion for being gay sickens me, gays don't have a purpose in life.
MichaelJCortez 1 month ago
Fag
MichaelJCortez 1 month ago
@MichaelJCortez Says you watching gay videos. Your life must be pretty sad. Don't worry, being in the closet is hard, but once you come out it gets better. So you wont have to be a sourpoes all your life.
JontyKL 1 month ago 6
@JontyKL He's probably a christian :-) I usually meet gay folks through my straight friends, and usually at work since I work with the public.
smurfboywv 1 month ago
@JontyKL fag:))
Murderofself 4 weeks ago
Your videos are never boring...I love your channel.
tattooedboy04 1 month ago
Being serious isn't that bad. I rarely see any serious teens. If you're old enough, the pubs... the Glbt community centers... the gay and straight alliance... Gay Churches... the personals. there are numerous venues to use. but if you're disabled, fat and gay it gets even harder to find the right person rather you're gay or not... We muddle on. Later mate!!
Fagula6969 1 month ago
Gay clubs!!! Social networking with friends!
casterboarderfiend 1 month ago
I dress like a drag and go out. Things just work out themselves.
an7r1x 2 months ago
Leting your fear control you is tye first thing you should not let happenm.Unless you can break them.It can be hard,danerous or life threatning.
AllenTax 2 months ago
thats exactly my question coz i dont go to gay clubs and im both too shy and masculine to meet other gay ppl from the street specially when i prefer the straight and masculine acting
TheSaudiboy2010 2 months ago
I could say the same, and then I met around 3-4 other guys on my year in university.
satrapy27 2 months ago
@clicheanonperson Yes, for 1 year and 3 months now. Going strong
JontyKL 3 months ago
That's because people are usually afraid and not very confident in public and don't feel like talking about it knowing there are so many people that are ignorant and hateful. On the internet we feel we're safe and therefore we are just okay with it.
66EscapE 3 months ago
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I'm surprised you're having issues with this. To be honest, you're really cute and you have an adorable accent. I have to say though, it's harder meeting lesbians in my case than gays, but the way I made them was by going to gay clubs and gay parties. Maybe you should try that. Sometimes by jut appearing there even if you know no one can get someone to approach you. If a person sees you enough times they'll get the curiousity to talk to you. Good luck in your search (:
tokey2633 4 months ago
sexxxxy, sorry but you are, yeah i agree, it's diffucult [i think] to tell if someone is gay, maybe we should all wear a sign or something? shame i live in the uk otherwise id lve to get together with you : P
BananaSandwich1 4 months ago
@BananaSandwich1 i live in nyc,an got my butthole nice n wet on the 62nd street station el.this old guy knew how ta toss a wicked salad..he basically gave me a free colonscopy !!
BizzareCorpse 4 months ago
I CAN TELL IF A GUY IS INTERESTED BY THE LOOK. A STRAIGHT MAN WILL LOOK AT YOU WITH CURIOSITY, BUT GAY MEN'S LOOKS TEND TO LINGER.
WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WE HAD A GREAT GUY IN THIS CITY CALLED DAVID WHO STARTED ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL GROUPS FOR GAYS. HE BROKE UP WITH HIS BOYBRIEND ABOUT SIX YEARS AGO AND HAS SINCE SHRANK BACK FROM THE SCENE. IT'S BEEN A TERRIBLE LOSS. WE NEED ORGANISERS. WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH SOCIAL GROUPS,
RayL1983 5 months ago
I CAN TELL IF A GUY IS INTERESTED BY THE LOOK. A STRAIGHT MAN WILL LOOK AT YOU WITH CURIOSITY, BUT GAY MEN'S LOOKS TEND TO LINGER.
WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WE HAD A GREAT GUY IN THIS CITY CALL DAVID WHO STARTED ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL GROUPS FOR GAYS. HE BROKE UP WITH HIS BOYBRIEND ABOUT SIX YEARS AGO AND HAS SINCE SHRANK BACK FROM THE SCENE. IT'S BEEN A TERRIBLE LOSS. WE NEED ORGANISERS. WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH SOCIAL GROUPS,
RayL1983 5 months ago
Perhaps this has been suggested before, but if you live close to a large urban center, there should be several volunteer gay organisations you can check out.
Are you in the UK? Possibly check out one of the gay helplines; in the States we have Parents, Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). If something similar is in your area, contact them as well.
evan1276 6 months ago
I actually love your accent :D, yeah, im gonna do as im the only one xD
93vk 7 months ago
I like your smile and you are very cute too. I also like your accent.
AjSlutboi 7 months ago
When I first came out, I had people that I had known for years approach me and tell me they too were gay but to afraid to come out. You can go to gay clubs but I've found that usually you just meet barflys there. it really is hard. One way is to be a bit daring and be more aggressive when meeting cute guys and taking a chance they may be gay. There's and old joke; "what is the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy? Answer: 6 beers! haha thats more true than you would think. :)
pvampire 8 months ago
your so beautiful <3 i agree , it feels like theres no one else .. ?
daaniele7 8 months ago
Meant to write go to gay clubz
xSw3etxBiitchx 1 year ago
Go to gays n make friends n if that happens then they'll introduce to there gays friends n eventually u like one of them ... Ur really pretty wen u smile .. Smile more
xSw3etxBiitchx 1 year ago
unfortunately it is hard to meet other gay guys without finding yourself in a bar of some type. i did it this way for years and all i found was sex and guys with lots of problems. my only suggestion would be, if the bar scene is not for you, use your God given gaydar and pay attention to the guys around you. they are everywhere.
teachmisteron 1 year ago
@teachmisteron ~word~
MatthewLeelev 1 year ago
ooooooo my God...i have the same PROBLEM!
i live in greece...here in greece only in athens u can flert "free"...(and not always..)..in all the other towns of my country its reallyyyyy dificult!!
i personally hate meeting new gay people from the internet...! its better face to face....i chat from 16 years old.now i am 22.i really need to have flert as str8 people have..its unfair....
88Xania 1 year ago
@88Xania opa, hey :P I'm from Greece too, kiegw exw to idio provlhma an kai menw A8hna xD kai ime 16 :/
Einai ondws adiko...
alx64uzumaki 1 year ago
@88Xania pesta re c, 20 xronon apo thessaloniki eimai kai ego to idio akrivos provlima kai idies skepseis exo. An se aftous tous 3 mines vrikes enan kalo tropo pes mas kai emas :D
rogerbrownaki 9 months ago
@rogerbrownaki lol, mazeuthkan Ellhnes kai s'auto to video :P logiko afou tpt dn ine eukolo pia edw.
alx64uzumaki 8 months ago
Awww ur so dam cute! :) I hope u do find some1 especially for yew :)
77alebrije 1 year ago
Your question is what most poeple ask to,but one of the awser for that is just BE your self and go to places like a City,Mall,Clubs,beach those kind off places, poeple will notice you and will be able to say Hi,or something like that,other ways are easy as go with some female friends allot of female's have gay friends maybe they can interduse you to some of them if you like,and from there your friendship can grow and like that you can be friends with there friends to and see how the meet poeple.
ReyX1991 1 year ago 8
From your videos you don't really come off as gay so other gay guys might not know if you are. This is also a problem of mine, people don't know at first and if your like me and like the kind of guys that are more masculine then its REALLY hard to meet guys. The internet is useful but also just going out to gay clubs, or bars (that is if your old enough for that), was the most helpful for me. I hope you meet some hotties soon!!! cheers mate.....bty, you guys do say that where your from right?
mrazman 1 year ago
@mrazman bty? lol have no idea what that means.
And I met a guy and we've been dating for 3 months. :)
JontyKL 1 year ago
Its not any easier meeting gay men in person. Some are so shut off and snooty its terrible.
odessyrcr589 1 year ago
Well you can always have sharpened abilities, such as a better gaydar
you know we man kind love to see patterns on things.
Try to aproach people you think that might be gay and then start a simple, non invasive conversation XD
katinese 1 year ago
First of all, I love your accent! Secondly, I'm Jewish...so I want to meet someone who's Jewish and gay (and preferably a religious Jew)!...and that makes something hard 1000x harder. :/
Autodude18 1 year ago
@Autodude18 go to New York there are plenty of Jewish gays there.
phantomsuccour 1 year ago
YOUR HOT!
Hottielvr 1 year ago
same way a straight person does it... figure out what you like.. religion/bars/social activities/etc. and then do some research as to what in your area is gay or gay friendly...and go.. you have to put yourself out there and like with a straight person, you will be rejected/used/disappointed by some.... but you'll also be loved by others
mikeinmass 1 year ago
I guess people might think that just because South Africa is one of the few countries that has complete equality for all, it might be a 'great' place for those who are homosexual.
Unfortunately not!
Equal rights came about as a reaction to Apartheid, I assume almost everyone must no what that was about, and were not earned by changing the general populations minds.
If it was put up to a popular vote, like what happens in the USA, we would have far fewer or no rights at all and not by a slim
be19nt86 1 year ago
... majority either.
There are no LGBT support groups in schools, not many LGBT friendly areas, etc. that are 'common' features of some western countries.
At least when equality is achieved in the USA, you would have done so by changing the majority of minds.
be19nt86 1 year ago
ur question at the end is my question too.... for realz....
aracruz1988 1 year ago
@aracruz1988 Haha, yip... I think its alot of people's question.
JontyKL 1 year ago
I have the same problem! Where are the gay people?! lol I actually went to a hotel in my area to apply for a job and there where two guys working there that seemed gay...so i'm guessing gay people are in hotels? lol
RicardoJav 1 year ago
@RicardoJav LOL! hahaha... Guess ima have to visit some hotels in my area then. Psh... them gays think they can hide from me, ima go hunting in hotels from now on. haha
JontyKL 1 year ago
no not all of my ex's are girls... and how the hell am i being a hypocrite?
JontyKL 1 year ago
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Don't be a hypocrite because you used to be straight and all of your ex's are girls?
jenna120s 1 year ago
@borisgoodenough1988 - na im still in highschool, and my school definately does not have anything to do with gays etc. when people find out about me at school there will be a huge 'non-understanding uproar'. And i dont know of any 'groups' i can join. - i wouldn't even know where to start to look for these groups. haha, thanx though. appreciate it!
JontyKL 1 year ago
hahah! ok well firstly... for all the gay haters, and anyone else that wants to watch i've uploaded a new video. ''GAY BASHERS!...are FOOLS!'' - i suggest you take a look. or whatever.
JontyKL 1 year ago
why should you have a hard time meeting other gay folks??you are VERY intelligent,and articulate, and incredibly cute.you seem very nice and polite.aren't there any l.g.b.t. youth groups or university groups for you to join?
borisgoodenough1988 1 year ago
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fag dude you are so fuck gay go fuck your self we dont care about the gay they can all go die in a hole
sqeeker4 1 year ago
@sqeeker4, white trash like you can DROP DEAD and GO TO HELL
borisgoodenough1988 1 year ago
@sqeeker4 maybe you should do that too!
go f*** yourself and mind your own business!
Ricoiskudaponie 1 year ago
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FAGGOT
chesaning1 1 year ago
@chesaning1 ASSHOLE
borisgoodenough1988 1 year ago
@chesaning1 maybe you too man..
why you watching this video if the only thing you want to say is FAGGOT?
maybe because you like the man talking in this video, so you watched it!
dont be fool..
Ricoiskudaponie 1 year ago
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your gay
jgcreo5o9 1 year ago
@jgcreo5o9,SO! what's your point.......?!
borisgoodenough1988 1 year ago
You could move to San Diego and marry me!
menofcolor 1 year ago