wow. i'm so sorry people have been responding so negatively sweetie. its shocking to me. obviously none or very few of the people making these ludicrous statements have ever suffered from this or they wouldnt be acting so ignorant. social anxiety is NOT mild shyness that can just be grown out of .. it makes life extremely difficult, affects peoples ability to develop/maintain personal relationships, it can destroy lives. I really hope you recover, stay strong, I know how hard it is & i'm here fo
I find the best way to help my hurt feelings is to PRAY to God above. He really is there. Pray for truth, wisdom, comfort, and strength. He will help you, just BELIEVE it. He made the world for us, he made air, water, food for us to live. He wants us to be happy. He soon will bring peace to the world. His KINGDOM is coming!! Be happy because the world is really about to change. READ the bible everday, and pray alot everday. YOU will see God work in your life to help if you do.
No 'mental disorders' is a disease. it' is there opinion of you as a 'disease' .
No drugs should be given as 'the cure' for this SAD.
They can even induce other problems by stopping parts of you natural brain chemistry. the problem is harder to reason with. This stuff can cause death too
Well, you kids say No to psychiatric drugs in school. We never had all this way back in my day. Oh, don't take those vaccine's either.
I don't know if that helps but, noone can judge those eyes. If something embarrassing happens to you, just put a smile on, and laugh it off - I'm sure you have a wonderful smile, no soul can resist :D
Trust me on this one, a lot of embarrassing things heppen to me all the time, coz I can get very clumsy. xD And beeing able to just laugh it off, is the best way to deal with it.
We all make mistakes, don't worry about it, we all get embarrased and humiliated, every single one of us. Just go on :)
@gardner90125 That is so mean! I'm sorry that she upsets you but you should NEVER give deathreats, bullying can lead to depression which i have been there. You would have to be a heartless monster to want someone to feel that wsy!! I will pray for you, hopefully you can see how disgusting your being!!
@gardner90125 U dumb ass loser nerd... no one cares about ur ass.... shut the fuck up in youtube...waaaaaaa! no 1 luvs you! waaaaaa! KILL YOURSELF FKN KID. gtfo this vid and go play COD and eat nachos fatty
First of all . Do not look at the tv or mags for an idea of how to live your life. It's all a lie, a huge con. Real life is quite simple and many people feel like you. Meet them.
knowing that you have the disorder is such a huge advantage..i suffered from neurotic anxiety for 7 years..and i dont even know..well the recovery will really take time..and the only way to get rid of it is-- to get rid of it..i know its not easy..but thats the only way...just try to eliminate one symptom at a time or day..just start from the smaller ones to the big ones,,try to resist it..tell yourself that this is not normal..and therefore you ought to do the normal..always pray^^
@wolfgang29 Ahh now it seems if anyone does anyting that is slighty out of the "normal box" the answer must be "so people will tell her she's good looking" smh. Maybe she's trying to overcome it and this is a step sh's taking to help her do so. You don't know her life :p
yea i see what shes doing. shes saying that so people will tell her shes good looking.if she had real social disorder she wouldnt even get on the camera in front of youtube.
@fer1989ist I'm certainly no expert so take this with a grain of salt (or several grains), but that sounds like fairly normal shyness to me more than an anxiety disorder. But I can't get inside your head and feel what you're feeling when you're anxious, so if you think you have it you'd probably be better off talking to your doctor about it rather than people on Youtube. Best of luck to you in either case! :)
No such thing, baby, if you dont feel good, its becuase you're not paying attention to YOURSELF, everyone else is a pieace of meat, literally, the only way to connect is via your minds eye, everyone is the same.
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THE ADVICE IN UR LIFE4BETER RESULTS(THE KEY IS 2 KEEP WATCHING UR THOUGHTS)DO NOT LET UR MIND THINK ABT DEPRESED NEGITIVE THOUGTS OR ANY THOUGHT WHICH HURTS U OR MAKE U ANGRY,ONLY ALLOW THE +TIVE THINKING IN UR MIND, 4 THE TIME UNTIL U ARE OUT OF DEP ETC & TRY 2 KEEP URSELF AS MUCH POSSIBILY, AWAY FROM THE PEOPLE WITH WHOM U FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. DRINK GREEM SMOTHIES.
Well I'm fortunate that many people seem to think I am "pretty" etc. Which is meaningless really because looking a certain way does NOT make me a superior human being, or interesting just for that reason, nor does it for anyone else. Every human has the right to look the way they DO and think & feel they are physically attractive & have equal opportunities!!!
hi emily. i had excruciating social anxiety my whole life till july 2011. this lady helped me. her work is free and there is no money exchange. her name is byron katie and her website is thework [dot] com. i hope you check it out and if not now, i hope you find reliefe from the website (or somewhere) soon. i lived the helll of s.a. for my whole life. you cant tell by looking at me cuz i am funny, friendly and successful. but deep inside my hell knew no boundaries. peace emily and merry xmas.
Even though she comes of as helpful i don't think she can relate 100%.As a girl looking the way she looks she'll really have no problems.A little shy?No problem. Guys will probably find it cute and girls won't really mind either.
Guys are the ones drawing the shortest straw in this and girls just can't fucking relate.It's like a working-class person telling a homeless guy "money isn't everything".The working-class guy is by no means rich, but he has enough to prevent him from really relating
@BigDog91527 true i do believe women in general have more doors open for them just purely because they are viewed as the weaker sex and generally have more support from family, peers, teachers, society in general etc they have double standards, i know for a FACT that if this was a guy on this video people would be saying shit like "be a man" but your right we do draw the shortest straw
@mrboyface that's exactly how it is. Even though people tell you they've good your back, you can't fucking trust them. They look down upon you secretly, thinking that you're less of a man, a fucking loser.
Not only do you have to live on the fucking bottom because of this fucking disorder, you also have to keep your mouth shut about it not to come off as a poor victim, making it all worse.
I also think men have a biological resentment to appear weak and have others "pat their back".
@BigDog91527 you're right, I can't relate to guys experiences because I've been raised as, & seen as a female & not a male my whole life. So I may not be able to relate to or help guys in some areas. I think it may be definitely possible that both males & females have some same problems as eachother, both may need assertiveness skills, & both may have been abused. I've read lots of books by males & see tonnes of posts & comments by guys online therefore I must have some relating useful to guys.
@dddimmitri Improve her confidence? I'm guessing that posting videos of yourself on the internet probably isn't easy if you have extreme social anxiety.
@Thumpkinsbilal2 I hope u rot in helllllllllllllllo...... Don't talk to her like that. She's better than u cause she has anxiety and still post videos on YouTube. And she's doing just fine without u in her life
SHES SEXY TO ME I KNOW SHES FREAKY I BET ONCE YOU GET HER naked in OPEN :)IM THE SAME WAY I LIKE SOCIAL ANXIOUS GIRLS THEIR MORE NASTY IN FREAKY IN BED IN THEY KEEP IT QUIET IN I DO AS WELL SHHH LOL
To the girl in this video, judging by several comments of yours that I've read, you seem to be just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside. A rare combination, indeed!
"Pretty" girls can also have social problems. Maybe one of them is that people think that pretty girls are perfect. They have no problems or they can't be sad or lonely.
@DragonToko that ain't even fucking close to a guy who may very well stay viring until god-knows how long if he doesn't straighten up. Atleast she'll never have this problem. "thinking that they are perfect"? Well regular, outspoken girls get that shit too, so you can't use that as an argument for SA girls having it pretty hard also.
Sure, they don't have it easy. But compared to NEVER getting anything as a guy vs still being accepted and getting boyfriends as a girl...
@DragonToko There is no problem. You're bringing this shit up because you're a fucking loser who is desperate to show that everyone has it just as bad. You want it this way because it's easy, you don't have to reflect about it. "everyone has it equaly hard", a classic. A cheap way to end a discussion because your arguments suck ass.
@BigDog91527 You're right. Social Anxiety is serious. Screw cancer research, famine, the lack of clean water in the third world, a cure for AIDS, the instability of the modern nation-state, the over-consumption of western society, global climate change, the proliferation of nuclear weapons, over-population, the demoralization of modern man, the economic crisis in Europe, or the lack of any economy in Africa. Let's concentrate on getting socially inept teenagers laid!
@DiomedesStrosMkai It's not about just getting laid dumbass. Social Anxious men are seen as weak and undeseriable by EVERYONE, women more than anything. It's not really about getting laid but about the fact that you matter. You can fuck a random hooker in every country, it's not about that, it's about the lack of appreciation for ones manhood.
People get bullied and kill themselves over shit like this.
@BigDog91527 That Social Anxiety can be serious does not imply that social anxiety must be serious. In fact, social anxiety is almost always grown out of.. it hardly demands the same attention that the problems I listed below do. For every one person who commits suicide in the world, 2.5 million people will die from AIDS, cancer, malaria, and other communicable disease. I suggest we get our priorities in order.
@DiomedesStrosMkai Is this some fucking world-aid shit you're coming with? Those "2.5 million people" live in shithole countries and it's not anyone elses problem.
@BigDog91527 You mean the World Health Organization and the Center for Disease Control? If they are not my problem, why in the hell should some socially anxious teenager who cannot cope with his privileged life, and who is at least making a choice in his death, be my problem? What kind of double-standard is that? What in the hell happened to cosmopolitanism.
@DiomedesStrosMkai people can have problems even in the "privileged West". Social Anxiety is probably even worse here then in some poor country where people meet up with eachother more instead of writing shit over facebook :)
A country is responsible for it's own citizens in the first hand.
@BigDog91527 Well considering most developing nations have to sell their raw resources at a ridiculously low prices due to subsidizing in industrialized areas, even a government with little to no corruption in the global south becomes unable to do so. Taking into account the extreme lack of transparency such nations have, however, almost guarantees that the individual constituents of their respective countries get left in the dust, even with foreign aid.
@BigDog91527 How bad have things in your life gotten for you? What unkind things have people said and done to you? I want you to be happy and have what makes you happy. I want you to be and feel accepted and have a girlfriend that makes you happy.
@NoSocialAnxiety well the feelings of social anxiety and lack of social skills is the biggest problem but apart from that there's also my fucked-up family relationship, my so-called "friends" that were never really there for me (who i don't even call anymore, making me resort to being alone basically).
The worst thing is that since highschool is over, there's no real platform to make friends anymore. Also getting a girlfriend without having friends? And where would i find her anyway?
@kurtanglerocks555 actually i know you probably don't want to here this but my mate thought he was just really shitty but he was really paranoid. also this isn't the best advice but my parents thought i was psychotic when i was 15 ( i wasn't), anyway my point is your parents are not trained psychologist and have no real clue as to what they are talking about, i suggest talking to your consultant and recommending an analysis (not medication!!!!!!) if you need to talk message me
Hey i live in Australia too! (Brisbane to be specific) and i feel like the society in Oz is very extroverted which is why being a introvert in brissy feels very uncomfortable and alienating -.-
Us socially anxious people should live in one place. To be honest, eve tho hanging with people like me can still be extremely scary but the facts that they feel the same way makes me feel accepted more. Everyone thinks im just "too shy" but they dont understand how awful it is to have Social Anxiety Disorder. Ugh.
@BassamDaSonicLova200 thats SO true, and one thing i really hate is when people ask me " why are you so quiet ?" "or why are you so shy ?"..its annoying.
social anxeity .. the best cure i have discovered is to avoid da situation that trigers the social anxiety.. i know its diffcult.. but easy then to be in that situation which make u anxious..
@pushtun1000 Thats not always the case though. Anything can make you anxious, and if social anxiety disorder keeps you away from several things daily or just takes over your life, you cant just avoid certain situations when they could just come up constantly. Otherwise, you just have mild anxiety or just shyness-not S.A.D.
I just began reading into this and I now know what I suffer from. It's easy to make friends when people approach you but when you're in college, and you have to make the initiative, it's a real problem. I cannot believe I suffer from this at 20 years of age. This explains why I have 0 friends at the moment.
@chocomocha i have social anxiety, most of us have problems with being judged and criticized so a few of us dress our best to avoid being criticized. :-/
@x0summerskiss0x : okay, well then that makes you look stuck up instead of shy. People would think that naturally, because if your confident enough to look good, and you dont social with anyone, they think you are being stuck up. It appears that way, even if its not true. But guess you hav a point, maybe its better to be judge like that than, having no life and no friends.
@NoSocialAnxiety : Uhhh its not about freedom. Its the fact if your not shy to show your skin and boobs, I dont see how thats you being shy and anxious. Your normal
I hate social anxiety!!! It's fucking killing my life!! I used to be so hyper when I was a kid but since 15 onwards I started to have social anxiety for no reason at all, It was the 1st day of my school, I suddenly felt weird and didn't wanted to talk to anyone and it just got worse and worse as the years went on. Fuck Social Anxiety, I wish this shit didn't exist!
Btw, Emily u are so brave and you look so pretty!! =)
@isiaihify That makes no sense. A less attractive person would be more likely because they already know they aren't perceived positively in terms of their physical appearance.
I have S.A.D and my life has collapsed ive been in therapy for 7 years and im 14 (fml) i can tell you can do great...i cannot do what you just did...those 8 second chaped alot of people and thoughts
Funny, the link goes to your "SHOP", but books and mp3's can't help anyone fight social anxiety. In the end, you need to do it yourself, as you should know.
I feel more confident and happy when attractive people like you have social anxiety. Sorry it's the truth. Soon you'll be confident one day though "NoSocialAnxiety" person you. Don't chu worry. I bet guys are salivating over you cause their guys.
Anxiety disorder? It's not possible for you to be more self absorbed aka Typical American Female Attention Whore - It's all about me, me ,me. And then all the other mindless females who write in to compliment you about your looks. The truth is you're neurotically self obsessed - have nothing of value to offer and desperately need to learn the real movers and shakers of this world don't give a damn about your black hole ego. Get an education and give something worthwhile to this world.
Poor girl. I have SAD too, and I can be really hard some times I know. Do you have a face book? You should consider joining a SAD group to talk to others who suffer from this socially crippling disorder. It really helps at time to talk to other who have it and under stand how you feel.
lol she's not ugly, she's actually kind of hot. I know some people who have Social Anxiety Disorder.. I have anxiety but I don't really tell to many people lol
Hmm.. I´ve been in therapy for 6 years now.. I´ve been in a clinic for more than over a year and still I have bordeline, PTSD and.. what not.. a lot more.. Nothing helps.. Any suggestion?
@xCleverlyx Insecurity is all about the mind, your thoughts, deep unconscious beliefs, interpretations or misinterpretations of social events, perhaps how one was treated at a young age, not the random body one happened to be born inside. Although if you are seen as attractive by others, maybe that helps. Which is why I think it might be wonderful for humans to see the physical attractiveness in everyone as we might treat eachother better.
@NoSocialAnxiety You don't get it...you need to stop focusing on all the things that are wrong with yourself and making excuses and just focus on the things that are right with yourself...social anxiety disorder should just be renamed to social excuses disorder or social negative focus disorder...and trust me I've had it in the past and only way to get over it is changing your thinking + behaviour...focus on what's right with you not wrong, and stop making excuses take control of your own life.
I love all the comments like "you're too pretty to fail socially". WRONG. As you well know these people don't know s%!T about how you feel inside. As a guy with social anxiety I get the comments like "no way! I can't tell you have have it all together, you are confident!" "Don't be so sensitive you have it all!" And on the outside, I do. I am handsome enough, speak well, intelligent, appear relaxed and cool. The only people that understand how you feel are the ones that have social phobia
@kentx333 true but why do people like you really care about appreance does it matter what people look like yes the girl is pretty and she desvrses to be treated just as much as everyone else does
@NoSocialAnxiety I'm sure your right, I just haven't been able to find any quiet / shy types yet.. Anyways, I have recently begun battling my SA through medication and cognitive behavior techniques I learned from my therapist a while back, if you are still struggling with SA I suggest if you haven't already looked into it - Celexa. In my opinion, it's an awesome SSRI that is helping me get over blushing and nervous tics during social settings. Anyways sorry for my long post, good luck!
You're gorgeous.
ttu3319 2 days ago
r you....also i think its incredibly brave of you to have made a video and to have told the world about your condition :)
sacredxserenity 4 days ago
wow. i'm so sorry people have been responding so negatively sweetie. its shocking to me. obviously none or very few of the people making these ludicrous statements have ever suffered from this or they wouldnt be acting so ignorant. social anxiety is NOT mild shyness that can just be grown out of .. it makes life extremely difficult, affects peoples ability to develop/maintain personal relationships, it can destroy lives. I really hope you recover, stay strong, I know how hard it is & i'm here fo
sacredxserenity 4 days ago
you are an ugly cuntbitch. so, when did you get progeria?
NBGfly23 5 days ago
Hi there, can we friends?
ThiXtreme1 5 days ago
very good looker.xx
strongbow681 6 days ago
I find the best way to help my hurt feelings is to PRAY to God above. He really is there. Pray for truth, wisdom, comfort, and strength. He will help you, just BELIEVE it. He made the world for us, he made air, water, food for us to live. He wants us to be happy. He soon will bring peace to the world. His KINGDOM is coming!! Be happy because the world is really about to change. READ the bible everday, and pray alot everday. YOU will see God work in your life to help if you do.
eternityandforever 1 week ago
DAMNNNNN ur hottttt
akabdallah1 1 week ago
Noted.
Danne550 1 week ago
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eww gross your so fucking ugly! just try not to show your disgusting face to anyone around you.
jesus christ.
boxyman6 1 week ago
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Mental Disorder' is Eugenics in Disguise.
No 'mental disorders' is a disease. it' is there opinion of you as a 'disease' .
No drugs should be given as 'the cure' for this SAD.
They can even induce other problems by stopping parts of you natural brain chemistry. the problem is harder to reason with. This stuff can cause death too
Well, you kids say No to psychiatric drugs in school. We never had all this way back in my day. Oh, don't take those vaccine's either.
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CliveGains80s 1 week ago
jesus you don't need to go into that much detail, just split it up into different videos
vassillioss 1 week ago
go on.
xcon99 2 weeks ago
i have social anxiety and i doubt i would be able to record myself and let thousands of people watch it.
92stoner 2 weeks ago
I have Vaginal Anxiety Disorder, is that bad?
mindoes1983 2 weeks ago
very cute girl.
brewhip 2 weeks ago
I don't know if that helps but, noone can judge those eyes. If something embarrassing happens to you, just put a smile on, and laugh it off - I'm sure you have a wonderful smile, no soul can resist :D
Trust me on this one, a lot of embarrassing things heppen to me all the time, coz I can get very clumsy. xD And beeing able to just laugh it off, is the best way to deal with it.
We all make mistakes, don't worry about it, we all get embarrased and humiliated, every single one of us. Just go on :)
Duhec89 2 weeks ago
cool. story. bro.
xEazyC187x 2 weeks ago
your a brave beautiful girl
rflood89 2 weeks ago
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U dumb ass loser bitch...no one cares about u...shut the fuck up...waaaaaaa! no 1 luvs me! waaaaaa! KILL YOURSELF, TONIGHT!
gardner90125 3 weeks ago
U dumb ass loser bitch...no one cares about u...shut the fuck up...waaaaaaa! no 1 luvs me! waaaaaa! KILL YOURSELF, TONIGHT!
gardner90125 3 weeks ago
@gardner90125 That is so mean! I'm sorry that she upsets you but you should NEVER give deathreats, bullying can lead to depression which i have been there. You would have to be a heartless monster to want someone to feel that wsy!! I will pray for you, hopefully you can see how disgusting your being!!
SmilesAndMakeup17 2 weeks ago
@gardner90125 you sir have no life
flash8246 2 weeks ago
@gardner90125 U dumb ass loser nerd... no one cares about ur ass.... shut the fuck up in youtube...waaaaaaa! no 1 luvs you! waaaaaa! KILL YOURSELF FKN KID. gtfo this vid and go play COD and eat nachos fatty
linktxc 2 weeks ago
@gardner90125 Yr a loser ......
reggaechinie 2 weeks ago
I'll watch the rest of the video later.
WOWjman713 3 weeks ago 20
yeah, thats so fuckin terrible, but who gives a fuck?
Fusion2222 3 weeks ago
First of all . Do not look at the tv or mags for an idea of how to live your life. It's all a lie, a huge con. Real life is quite simple and many people feel like you. Meet them.
HardeyLeone 3 weeks ago
Thanks man. I learned a lot.
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knowing that you have the disorder is such a huge advantage..i suffered from neurotic anxiety for 7 years..and i dont even know..well the recovery will really take time..and the only way to get rid of it is-- to get rid of it..i know its not easy..but thats the only way...just try to eliminate one symptom at a time or day..just start from the smaller ones to the big ones,,try to resist it..tell yourself that this is not normal..and therefore you ought to do the normal..always pray^^
38marga 3 weeks ago
@ Cowgba uh, thanx i gues, but is not just when im around girls i feel this way, also in public settings.
fer1989ist 3 weeks ago
please subscribe my channel :D . I will be making videos asap :)
xsocialanxiety559 4 weeks ago
@wolfgang29 Ahh now it seems if anyone does anyting that is slighty out of the "normal box" the answer must be "so people will tell her she's good looking" smh. Maybe she's trying to overcome it and this is a step sh's taking to help her do so. You don't know her life :p
MadisonDavis77 1 month ago
yea i see what shes doing. shes saying that so people will tell her shes good looking.if she had real social disorder she wouldnt even get on the camera in front of youtube.
wolfgang29 1 month ago
I'm sure that took a lot. Cheers.
TheComedyClassics 1 month ago
Id tap dat!
Djirod123 1 month ago
"...and I'm a mormon"
Infinite101001 1 month ago
Im tryin to find out if a have it, i mostly have a hard time interacting with girls and try to avoid them, do u feel that way about guys?
fer1989ist 1 month ago
@fer1989ist I'm certainly no expert so take this with a grain of salt (or several grains), but that sounds like fairly normal shyness to me more than an anxiety disorder. But I can't get inside your head and feel what you're feeling when you're anxious, so if you think you have it you'd probably be better off talking to your doctor about it rather than people on Youtube. Best of luck to you in either case! :)
cowgba 1 month ago
So do I :\
jaelove123 1 month ago
Hey Amy, just woundering are you still going thru this?
Rob2977 1 month ago
me too =]
nokineeded 1 month ago
hey im from aus too =) ur dardy as n dont worry we all get shy and scared around new ppl =) i understand wat ur going throuigh
1234eaglesfreak 1 month ago
No such thing, baby, if you dont feel good, its becuase you're not paying attention to YOURSELF, everyone else is a pieace of meat, literally, the only way to connect is via your minds eye, everyone is the same.
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HealingYouu 1 month ago
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ImJodidoMan 1 month ago
Well I'm fortunate that many people seem to think I am "pretty" etc. Which is meaningless really because looking a certain way does NOT make me a superior human being, or interesting just for that reason, nor does it for anyone else. Every human has the right to look the way they DO and think & feel they are physically attractive & have equal opportunities!!!
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
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try the hormone oxytocin see watch?v=i1Wgb09528o
overzichtje 1 month ago
I say us ppl with anxiety let's attack ppl without!!!
ifromthepast 1 month ago
People take Xanax for anxiety,I hear it's a good anxiety reliever but is so addictive.
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Socialy Anxiety? No, that's a Great Accent is what you have, lol !!
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hi emily. i had excruciating social anxiety my whole life till july 2011. this lady helped me. her work is free and there is no money exchange. her name is byron katie and her website is thework [dot] com. i hope you check it out and if not now, i hope you find reliefe from the website (or somewhere) soon. i lived the helll of s.a. for my whole life. you cant tell by looking at me cuz i am funny, friendly and successful. but deep inside my hell knew no boundaries. peace emily and merry xmas.
john123wayne 2 months ago
Hot. idk why you would have it. You look pretty, accent is sexy.
TopZAirborne 2 months ago
@TopZAirborne So you're trying to say only ugly people have SAD?
ELSR1ER 1 month ago
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imma come find you, slam it in your mouth, slam it in your pussy, slam it in your ass
welzen 2 months ago
@welzen wtf is wrong with you.
TopZAirborne 2 months ago
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awwwww shit it's rape time
welzen 2 months ago
is that all.. ? no wonder u have social anxiety lol
ElephantsTongue 2 months ago
ever since i became a grave digger that has helped me overcome my anxiety, but its also made me a miserable bastard
mrboyface 2 months ago
Even though she comes of as helpful i don't think she can relate 100%.As a girl looking the way she looks she'll really have no problems.A little shy?No problem. Guys will probably find it cute and girls won't really mind either.
Guys are the ones drawing the shortest straw in this and girls just can't fucking relate.It's like a working-class person telling a homeless guy "money isn't everything".The working-class guy is by no means rich, but he has enough to prevent him from really relating
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 true i do believe women in general have more doors open for them just purely because they are viewed as the weaker sex and generally have more support from family, peers, teachers, society in general etc they have double standards, i know for a FACT that if this was a guy on this video people would be saying shit like "be a man" but your right we do draw the shortest straw
mrboyface 2 months ago
@mrboyface that's exactly how it is. Even though people tell you they've good your back, you can't fucking trust them. They look down upon you secretly, thinking that you're less of a man, a fucking loser.
Not only do you have to live on the fucking bottom because of this fucking disorder, you also have to keep your mouth shut about it not to come off as a poor victim, making it all worse.
I also think men have a biological resentment to appear weak and have others "pat their back".
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@mrboyface what unkind things have people done to you? how did you feel? I want the best for you, I want you to be happy.
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
@BigDog91527 you're right, I can't relate to guys experiences because I've been raised as, & seen as a female & not a male my whole life. So I may not be able to relate to or help guys in some areas. I think it may be definitely possible that both males & females have some same problems as eachother, both may need assertiveness skills, & both may have been abused. I've read lots of books by males & see tonnes of posts & comments by guys online therefore I must have some relating useful to guys.
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
@dddimmitri Improve her confidence? I'm guessing that posting videos of yourself on the internet probably isn't easy if you have extreme social anxiety.
SebbeSucksBawlz 2 months ago
@Thumpkinsbilal2 I hope u rot in helllllllllllllllo...... Don't talk to her like that. She's better than u cause she has anxiety and still post videos on YouTube. And she's doing just fine without u in her life
linusbomb 2 months ago
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SHES SEXY TO ME I KNOW SHES FREAKY I BET ONCE YOU GET HER naked in OPEN :)IM THE SAME WAY I LIKE SOCIAL ANXIOUS GIRLS THEIR MORE NASTY IN FREAKY IN BED IN THEY KEEP IT QUIET IN I DO AS WELL SHHH LOL
thompkinsbilal2 2 months ago
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shy people should check out my blog.
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its about my first-hand experience and steps to change myself.
please check it out
FruityLoopsJunkie 3 months ago
now tell me the truth if you have severe social anxiety disorder,im feeling
right now its hard for you to smile cause its awkward and you are like performing
even in one person,im one of you,i have sex only once,its hard to find a job
maybe i go to saudi in find serious people there,i like talking religious and spiritual this day,i tell you the truth even my family dies
rockwitchdrunk 3 months ago
so do i, i hardely go out of my house
mrfizzzzzzzy 3 months ago
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You guys should come and talk to us other sufferers on Mapofmates :)
miissmiaa 3 months ago
To the girl in this video, judging by several comments of yours that I've read, you seem to be just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside. A rare combination, indeed!
Stay lovely, and I wish you nothing but the best.
Yrhp8268 3 months ago 7
@Yrhp8268 Yrhp!!! Thank you :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
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it's easy for girls with social anxiety to find love or find happiness than us guys
HLB285 4 months ago
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HLB285 4 months ago
thats why they call me keyboard warrior!!!
halflifeproductionz 4 months ago
My name is Emilie too and I have it too O.o
Nitendosa 6 months ago
O.o my name is Emilie too and i have it too
Nitendosa 6 months ago
i have s.a to and i dont like it
rubberband3456 6 months ago
"Pretty" girls can also have social problems. Maybe one of them is that people think that pretty girls are perfect. They have no problems or they can't be sad or lonely.
DragonToko 6 months ago
@DragonToko that ain't even fucking close to a guy who may very well stay viring until god-knows how long if he doesn't straighten up. Atleast she'll never have this problem. "thinking that they are perfect"? Well regular, outspoken girls get that shit too, so you can't use that as an argument for SA girls having it pretty hard also.
Sure, they don't have it easy. But compared to NEVER getting anything as a guy vs still being accepted and getting boyfriends as a girl...
You do the math.
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 You should tell us what is your problem.
DragonToko 2 months ago
@DragonToko are you being funny?
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 Yes I am. No need to tell us what is your problem. Tell this to your psychiatrist.
DragonToko 2 months ago
@DragonToko There is no problem. You're bringing this shit up because you're a fucking loser who is desperate to show that everyone has it just as bad. You want it this way because it's easy, you don't have to reflect about it. "everyone has it equaly hard", a classic. A cheap way to end a discussion because your arguments suck ass.
BigDog91527 2 months ago 5
@BigDog91527 Do you know you are adopted?
DragonToko 2 months ago
@DragonToko you shouldn't even be making comments, this is clearly an excercise above your lever of intelligence.
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 Who's talking?
DragonToko 2 months ago
@DragonToko not your mom, that's for sure. No room for talk while giving a blowjob.
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 Hey dog, do some dancing. Sing us a song
DragonToko 2 months ago
@DragonToko cool story bro
BigDog91527 2 months ago
@BigDog91527 You're right. Social Anxiety is serious. Screw cancer research, famine, the lack of clean water in the third world, a cure for AIDS, the instability of the modern nation-state, the over-consumption of western society, global climate change, the proliferation of nuclear weapons, over-population, the demoralization of modern man, the economic crisis in Europe, or the lack of any economy in Africa. Let's concentrate on getting socially inept teenagers laid!
DiomedesStrosMkai 2 weeks ago
@DiomedesStrosMkai It's not about just getting laid dumbass. Social Anxious men are seen as weak and undeseriable by EVERYONE, women more than anything. It's not really about getting laid but about the fact that you matter. You can fuck a random hooker in every country, it's not about that, it's about the lack of appreciation for ones manhood.
People get bullied and kill themselves over shit like this.
BigDog91527 2 weeks ago
@BigDog91527 That Social Anxiety can be serious does not imply that social anxiety must be serious. In fact, social anxiety is almost always grown out of.. it hardly demands the same attention that the problems I listed below do. For every one person who commits suicide in the world, 2.5 million people will die from AIDS, cancer, malaria, and other communicable disease. I suggest we get our priorities in order.
DiomedesStrosMkai 2 weeks ago
@DiomedesStrosMkai Is this some fucking world-aid shit you're coming with? Those "2.5 million people" live in shithole countries and it's not anyone elses problem.
BigDog91527 2 weeks ago
@BigDog91527 You mean the World Health Organization and the Center for Disease Control? If they are not my problem, why in the hell should some socially anxious teenager who cannot cope with his privileged life, and who is at least making a choice in his death, be my problem? What kind of double-standard is that? What in the hell happened to cosmopolitanism.
DiomedesStrosMkai 2 weeks ago
@DiomedesStrosMkai people can have problems even in the "privileged West". Social Anxiety is probably even worse here then in some poor country where people meet up with eachother more instead of writing shit over facebook :)
A country is responsible for it's own citizens in the first hand.
BigDog91527 2 weeks ago
@BigDog91527 Well considering most developing nations have to sell their raw resources at a ridiculously low prices due to subsidizing in industrialized areas, even a government with little to no corruption in the global south becomes unable to do so. Taking into account the extreme lack of transparency such nations have, however, almost guarantees that the individual constituents of their respective countries get left in the dust, even with foreign aid.
DiomedesStrosMkai 2 weeks ago
@BigDog91527 How bad have things in your life gotten for you? What unkind things have people said and done to you? I want you to be happy and have what makes you happy. I want you to be and feel accepted and have a girlfriend that makes you happy.
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
@NoSocialAnxiety well the feelings of social anxiety and lack of social skills is the biggest problem but apart from that there's also my fucked-up family relationship, my so-called "friends" that were never really there for me (who i don't even call anymore, making me resort to being alone basically).
The worst thing is that since highschool is over, there's no real platform to make friends anymore. Also getting a girlfriend without having friends? And where would i find her anyway?
BigDog91527 1 month ago
no offense but Emily the strange? God bless you:)
itsCelloTV 6 months ago
suicide seems like the best way to cure my SAD
kurtanglerocks555 6 months ago
@kurtanglerocks555 yup im there at the moment, life is a ho bag, unforntunatly :)
Sustanaelle 6 months ago
@Sustanaelle yep my stepdad thinks im paranoid but im not i have SAD
kurtanglerocks555 6 months ago
@kurtanglerocks555 actually i know you probably don't want to here this but my mate thought he was just really shitty but he was really paranoid. also this isn't the best advice but my parents thought i was psychotic when i was 15 ( i wasn't), anyway my point is your parents are not trained psychologist and have no real clue as to what they are talking about, i suggest talking to your consultant and recommending an analysis (not medication!!!!!!) if you need to talk message me
Sustanaelle 6 months ago
I am a deaf person with severe social anxiety. I cannot understand all of the videos that you're saying and I need help!!
thymaipham 7 months ago
I have social anxiety too and it's crap + i am not exactly fond of social interaction as a rule of thumb (bad combination )
doomygloomy1 7 months ago
social anxiety? more like you have fucking hot disorder
kkfrusty9 8 months ago
@kkfrusty9 Not really...0_o
Madnessfan34537 6 months ago
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graviterest 8 months ago
Hey i live in Australia too! (Brisbane to be specific) and i feel like the society in Oz is very extroverted which is why being a introvert in brissy feels very uncomfortable and alienating -.-
DragonTrixter 8 months ago
Us socially anxious people should live in one place. To be honest, eve tho hanging with people like me can still be extremely scary but the facts that they feel the same way makes me feel accepted more. Everyone thinks im just "too shy" but they dont understand how awful it is to have Social Anxiety Disorder. Ugh.
BassamDaSonicLova200 8 months ago 54
@BassamDaSonicLova200 Exactly! I just hate my life!
Vojife 3 months ago
@BassamDaSonicLova200 thats SO true, and one thing i really hate is when people ask me " why are you so quiet ?" "or why are you so shy ?"..its annoying.
jaelove123 1 month ago
Your beutiful
theanxiousone1 9 months ago
And that's why you made a video of yourself?!
borgduck 9 months ago
woooow! i love shy girls.
frednolasco 10 months ago
How much they pay ya
1LTZ1 10 months ago
@1LTZ1 good question
jjmontoyag 9 months ago
social anxeity .. the best cure i have discovered is to avoid da situation that trigers the social anxiety.. i know its diffcult.. but easy then to be in that situation which make u anxious..
pushtun1000 11 months ago
@pushtun1000 Thats not always the case though. Anything can make you anxious, and if social anxiety disorder keeps you away from several things daily or just takes over your life, you cant just avoid certain situations when they could just come up constantly. Otherwise, you just have mild anxiety or just shyness-not S.A.D.
PhantasyStardumb 10 months ago
so beautiful
dseer13 11 months ago
Hi Emily
MeNoBites 11 months ago
It's human nature to want to be social. But that wanting can also backfire to make u not social.Whatever makes you happy can also make you suffer.
Ashitanoyuki 11 months ago
I just began reading into this and I now know what I suffer from. It's easy to make friends when people approach you but when you're in college, and you have to make the initiative, it's a real problem. I cannot believe I suffer from this at 20 years of age. This explains why I have 0 friends at the moment.
Where do I begin the mending process?
Lrdvltr 1 year ago
I doubt you have social anxiety.. look at what your wearing.. someone with social anxiety dont dress like that..
chocomocha 1 year ago
@chocomocha i have social anxiety, most of us have problems with being judged and criticized so a few of us dress our best to avoid being criticized. :-/
x0summerskiss0x 1 year ago
@x0summerskiss0x : okay, well then that makes you look stuck up instead of shy. People would think that naturally, because if your confident enough to look good, and you dont social with anyone, they think you are being stuck up. It appears that way, even if its not true. But guess you hav a point, maybe its better to be judge like that than, having no life and no friends.
chocomocha 1 year ago
@chocomocha I believe in freedom to wear anything people like.
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
@NoSocialAnxiety : Uhhh its not about freedom. Its the fact if your not shy to show your skin and boobs, I dont see how thats you being shy and anxious. Your normal
chocomocha 1 month ago
I hate social anxiety!!! It's fucking killing my life!! I used to be so hyper when I was a kid but since 15 onwards I started to have social anxiety for no reason at all, It was the 1st day of my school, I suddenly felt weird and didn't wanted to talk to anyone and it just got worse and worse as the years went on. Fuck Social Anxiety, I wish this shit didn't exist!
Btw, Emily u are so brave and you look so pretty!! =)
jemlebeau 1 year ago
@isiaihify That makes no sense. A less attractive person would be more likely because they already know they aren't perceived positively in terms of their physical appearance.
xXPinkGoddessXx 1 year ago
My life soooo collapsed from this thing:( I hate it:(
XsoEmiXD 1 year ago
@XsoEmiXD I want you to not have social anxiety. I want you to be happy. *hug*
NoSocialAnxiety 1 month ago
I have S.A.D and my life has collapsed ive been in therapy for 7 years and im 14 (fml) i can tell you can do great...i cannot do what you just did...those 8 second chaped alot of people and thoughts
djskhfse 1 year ago
You are always so positive.
RayKalmNiam 1 year ago
If a ugly girl posted this video,every one wld be calling her a stupid bitch
igustistwinkle 1 year ago
Funny, the link goes to your "SHOP", but books and mp3's can't help anyone fight social anxiety. In the end, you need to do it yourself, as you should know.
greendodgy 1 year ago
Australia huh? Just wanna ask: do you see a lot of Melbourne shufflers over there?
cyraxthehedgehog 1 year ago
I feel more confident and happy when attractive people like you have social anxiety. Sorry it's the truth. Soon you'll be confident one day though "NoSocialAnxiety" person you. Don't chu worry. I bet guys are salivating over you cause their guys.
h0mezfoo 1 year ago
Anxiety disorder? It's not possible for you to be more self absorbed aka Typical American Female Attention Whore - It's all about me, me ,me. And then all the other mindless females who write in to compliment you about your looks. The truth is you're neurotically self obsessed - have nothing of value to offer and desperately need to learn the real movers and shakers of this world don't give a damn about your black hole ego. Get an education and give something worthwhile to this world.
brainshark1 1 year ago
tits or gtfo
TheKingGummyBear 1 year ago
Poor girl. I have SAD too, and I can be really hard some times I know. Do you have a face book? You should consider joining a SAD group to talk to others who suffer from this socially crippling disorder. It really helps at time to talk to other who have it and under stand how you feel.
Kneecapification 1 year ago
Sometimes i get it bad, but other times i remeber this : " Step up, this (fear) won't kill me"
Dblecheezburger 1 year ago
lol she's not ugly, she's actually kind of hot. I know some people who have Social Anxiety Disorder.. I have anxiety but I don't really tell to many people lol
TylertheGeek28 1 year ago
@dedejunior your pathetic
YourHighness27 1 year ago
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ugly bitch
dedejunior 1 year ago
Hi Emily, I'm Albert. I too suffer from social anxiety as well as inferiority complex disorder =/. Would you like to be friends? ^_^
sk8ordie152003 1 year ago
Hmm.. I´ve been in therapy for 6 years now.. I´ve been in a clinic for more than over a year and still I have bordeline, PTSD and.. what not.. a lot more.. Nothing helps.. Any suggestion?
AlyssToph 1 year ago
WTF!your pretty as fuck!!!!! how can you be insecure with does looks?
xCleverlyx 1 year ago
@xCleverlyx Insecurity is all about the mind, your thoughts, deep unconscious beliefs, interpretations or misinterpretations of social events, perhaps how one was treated at a young age, not the random body one happened to be born inside. Although if you are seen as attractive by others, maybe that helps. Which is why I think it might be wonderful for humans to see the physical attractiveness in everyone as we might treat eachother better.
~Peace and wellbeing
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
Youre too pretty to fail socially!!
kentx333 1 year ago 11
@kentx333 You're too awesome to fail socially!!
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kentx333 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety You don't get it...you need to stop focusing on all the things that are wrong with yourself and making excuses and just focus on the things that are right with yourself...social anxiety disorder should just be renamed to social excuses disorder or social negative focus disorder...and trust me I've had it in the past and only way to get over it is changing your thinking + behaviour...focus on what's right with you not wrong, and stop making excuses take control of your own life.
kentx333 1 year ago
I love all the comments like "you're too pretty to fail socially". WRONG. As you well know these people don't know s%!T about how you feel inside. As a guy with social anxiety I get the comments like "no way! I can't tell you have have it all together, you are confident!" "Don't be so sensitive you have it all!" And on the outside, I do. I am handsome enough, speak well, intelligent, appear relaxed and cool. The only people that understand how you feel are the ones that have social phobia
ddhamilt 6 months ago 2
@kentx333 true but why do people like you really care about appreance does it matter what people look like yes the girl is pretty and she desvrses to be treated just as much as everyone else does
kurtanglerocks555 5 months ago 11
hear any good jokes lately?
slick5066 1 year ago
My names Brian and I'm from NYC and I have Social Anxiety
SoraInuyashaAsh 1 year ago
If only I could find a girl with Social Anxiety as pretty as her :)
SummerGameProject 1 year ago 21
@SummerGameProject All girls with Social Anxiety are pretty
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago 84
@NoSocialAnxiety I'm sure your right, I just haven't been able to find any quiet / shy types yet.. Anyways, I have recently begun battling my SA through medication and cognitive behavior techniques I learned from my therapist a while back, if you are still struggling with SA I suggest if you haven't already looked into it - Celexa. In my opinion, it's an awesome SSRI that is helping me get over blushing and nervous tics during social settings. Anyways sorry for my long post, good luck!
SummerGameProject 1 year ago
@SummerGameProject Try a dating website, if you got a few bucks to spare.
theboombody 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety I beg to differ I'm a girl with it and I'm ugly as hell, I'm not just saying that, I actually am.
theamvgirlx 1 year ago
@theamvgirlx Me too! And a lot of my videos I made on my ugly days.
AnastassiaCMF 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety That is So fucking true...looks are deceiving lol
MiSterAzZy 11 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety oddly enough...i think i have it, and ive been teased all my life for my appearance...
Kurolli 5 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety heck yeah they are! Slurrrrrrp
Jimmyjoeandthegang 3 months ago