I think those sound like rather realistic fears to have during a pregnancy, though I havent been there myself. I realise also you have long since had a wonderful little boy and congratulations on that. On a side note. That little chick is so darned cute.
I really want a baby, but I'm afraid of what it will do to my relationship... Now that Blake is here, are you guys the same? I mean, I understand how adding a baby will change things some, but you and Daniel, did anything change between you?
Not really - just the way we do things. It's harder to dedicate time (especially alone) to each other now; everything has to be planned, scheduled, and needs preparation. We still have our baths together and stuff like that, but we can't do it when we really WANT to, we have to just do it whenever the opportunity arises. Oh, and our life's been sexless for the past 5 weeks but that's just cause I had an episiotomy :)
@Emmalina mine certainly got bigger prior to delivery and leaked from about 20 weeks with my son and from conception with my daughter. And then got even bigger post delivery.
Stop over analyzing it all, go with it okay. Its not that big and scary, its an incredibly WONDERFUL, HAPPY and AMAZING new journey you are entering in to! Hang in there!
I know the preg hormones take over but stop thinking so much, you will still get time alone with yor partner. You will also get family time which just makes you appreciate your partner on a whole new level and love them in a different way too.
I speak from experience, May 13th we welcomed our 5th child to our family!
Some very deep thoughts in that vid. I respect you sooo much right now. I've been watching your vids and reading your lj from way back when... and I am so grateful for you sharing your journey with us. It's been an absolute pleasure to watch/read. You have grown a lot over the last few months and I am really proud of the way you have handled certain situations, and I admire your intelligence and maturity! Kerry xx
You seem like a decent person & you think very highly of daniel, so I would guess that he is a decent person too! 2 decent people + 1 small baby = "nornal family" and you can't ask for a better start than that ! ! ! I am sure all 3 of you will be fine and I am sure all your fears will dissolve when you see that little face looking up at you :) Enjoy your NEW life M.
Don't worry..yes your patience and freedom and love will be tested, but girl trust me when that baby comes out, you will love that little baby more than you ever thought possible...more than you have ever loved anything your entire life. Best wishes to you and your family. You will be a good mom. Just remember to allow each other to have some alone time so ya'll won't go crazy, be consistent and patient with the baby. I'm telling you it is the best love the two of you will ever experience.
Watching this video reminded me or how I felt not too long ago. I am turning 22 in less than a week and my baby is just about 5 months. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you its not hard because it is, but it is so worth it. Once you see your baby for the first time, all those thoughts you have right now just seem to disappear. Now I can hardly imagine life without my daughter. Yes, I miss the days my boy friend and I used to have, but I wouldn't trade our life now for anything! Good Luck!
Emmalina, I wish you and your Family only the best of Luck, and think you will be a Great Mom. In this country, Sarah Palin's Daughter, had so many Nasty thing said about her, only Because of who her mother was, and she turn out to be a great mom. Don't play with Vultures, when you can soar with Eagles. Good Luck. Your Friend, Capt Tom Stone
Yeah, things will change, they always do, for one reason or another. I can see why you're scared. What's helpful is that change can be planned for and the two of you can make time for YOUR relationship too.
Another thing is that being pregnant causes lots & LOTS of hormones to go and it makes women's emotional reactions more intense. This might make an important issue feel a lot scarier or sadder than it would be otherwise. If it happens, just notice it, feel it, allow it to come & go. Hugs...
I know what your going through. I was soo scared two months before my baby was born, but there is a natural medicine called Calms Forte that really helped me. Whnever you feel yourself getting tense just take one of them and you feel so much less anxious. You can get them at meijers.
Things between you and Danielle are definitely going to change, but believe me it will change from good to better and from better to best. The baby will make you much closer to each other than you think.
I totally agree, but the majority follow my case (~80%). I am a married male with a 2 years old kid. Since we got our kid life became more challenging. Challenging is what made our lives great.
Don't listen to certain people who think they know everything and make disgusting, obnoxious comments.
Good luck with the baby, judging solely from your videos I'd say you're going to make a great mother. I've seen older women who can't handle parenthood at all so age is truly irrelevent.
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Maybe you'll get lucky and your baby will be be stillborn. I tire of this back and forth, as I can see neither of us will be assuaged. So, in an attempt to end this whole bloody conversation, I'll leave you with this comment and my best wishes. Like I said, I don't want you to fail, I just think that you will. Good luck.
Ahhh, there we go. I think that when one starts trying to get a reaction by using nasty little stillbirth insults, it can be safely assumed that one can no longer think of anything remotely intelligent to say (not that you ever did) and thus I win this little debate. *dance*
Leave her alone, I think she knows what she has ahead of her and she is going to be an awesome Mom. You have no right to assume what will happen in her life.
Well, first, like she herself said in her own video, none of us know her, so even the people that give positive comments are no better equipped to give an accurate opinion of whether or not she will be a good mother. And furthermore, this is her first child, so she doesn't know what kind of mother she will be, either.
Seriously, age doesn't matter, if they think they are right for each other let them do what they want. My parents got together at 18 and are still going strong 30+ years now.
Daniel and Emmalina seems happy together and that's all that matters right now.
i had the same thoughts and was afraid of all the changes. so from someone who has been there...don't stress over it. yes, there are changes that come with having a child, but you'll be amazed at how quickly you adapt. i know it seems overwhelming now, but that anxiety will go away as soon as you look at your baby's face for the first time.
girl, don't worry. everything is gonna be fine. you're gonna have a healthy baby and everything will be ok. don't worry yourself so much, that's not healthy for you and the baby. you're gonna be a great mom! chin up! :)
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1. Again, if you didn't want opinions, you wouldn't be discussing the subject of pregnancy on a site where the main purpose is to watch and comment on vids. If you make a video discussing pregnancy at 21, gee, wonder what people's comments will be on.
2. I don't have to know what your dreams are to know they are soon to be smashed and forgotten.
The only way someone would even KNOW that I'm 21 in this video is if they went to my profile and looked at my age. This video is NOT me discussing "pregnancy at 21". My most recent video is for that!
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The fact that you don't mention your age is negligible, because anyone with working eyes can see you are in your late teens to early 20's. Your video is over your feelings about pregnancy. Your age is what sparked my comments, because I'm a realist. While it is nice to believe you and Daniel will last, at your age, it's doubtful. I look forward to your future video entitled " Gee, wish I hadn't ruined my life"
I think you'd be hard pressed to find ANY woman who believes having her child ruined her life. On the other hand, how many women describe the birth of their baby as the most wonderful moment of their life?
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I congratulate your parents beating the odds, but most don't. 50 to 60% of marriages end in divorce. I'm not saying it's impossible, but the odds are against them. I'm a realist, not a pessimist. I look for the probability in situations and that's where I derive my conclusions. If you watch her next video, she talks a little about how even now money is tight and how they help mentally disabled people. So, they aren't going to earn a P.h.D. and get great jobs, ect.
The US has the highest divorce rate in the world. I am not in the US. I'm Australian and our divorce rate is falling steadily. It's around 40%.
I don't understand why, if you're a "realist" who looks at probability, you'd decide to put me in the lowest percentage?
Define a "great job". We love our work, and consider it great. We are passionate about it, qualified and trained with 6 years of field experience between us, just in our early 20s. TBC...
You do realize that there are a lot of high paying positions in the disability and mental health industry, yeah? Daniel's skills and experience are such that he's already being offered positions from other organizations trying to "poach" him. There is also no reason why we can't have a crack at owning and developing our own support organization in future. You are an idiot, you do not need a PhD to be able to call your job a "great" one.
But yeah. I don't know why (if you're such a realist who looks at statistics and probability) you're lumping me in minority groups who suffered negative outcomes. Remembering of course, like a smart person would, that I'm NOT living in the US so statistics pertaining to that country are irrelevant to my circumstances.
I don't think you understand realism at all. All signs do indeed point to pessimism here, not realism in the slightest.
I'm using my statistics because I'm not familiar with yours,and, frankly, it's not worth my effort to look up yours. I'm lumping you in with those who would fail because, as you've admitted, your not doing awesome financially, saying money is tight and you're young.
These two things together = low chances. I didn't say you needed a P.h.D. I was responding to someone else who said one of her parents achieved a P.h.D and the other a bachelors. I was merely saying, obviously neither of you intend to get either of those. I was expressing what luck they had having parents that were able to achieve such a thing. I think you'll fail; you think you'll succeed, time will prove one of us right. I hope it's you, but I wouldn't count on it.
...Okay, so, explain to me how I "obviously" have no intention of obtaining a PhD or any degree for that matter, when I clearly said in my other video (which you watched) that I'm half way through a BA. *headdesk*
Honestly, I just find your views really ridiculous and baseless. I couldn't stand having this discussion for longer than two minutes in real life before laughing and walking away.
And with an attitude like "I'm using my statistics because I'm not familiar with yours"...it doesn't really sound like you'll have any luck as far as academics are concerned either.
Eh, well truthfully, I couldn't stand to watch either video entirely, so my bad on that part. If we were talking in person, obviously, I'd of got that, but the baby will probably screw that up too.
Oh, a great job to me is one that earns a lot of money. The fact that you enjoy it isn't important. The money is what jobs are for. If you're not making enough to satisfy all of your needs and wants, wants within reasonableness, then it isn't that great.
Don't worry. The first few weeks are rough, but then in no time you'll be wondering what life was like before you had your baby! My son is already 3 months old, and the time has flown by.
I think what you are feeling is normal! I am not a mom yet but when I ever think about having a baby i get scared. So your not alone. Just think when you go in there yes it is going to be a scary thing but just count to 10 and relax! Because after all this time you will have a wonderful baby to share the world with. And being emotional at this time is normal.
I always think, you are popular because you think things through, analyze your situation, and otherwise make good and well-considered decisions. Then I see the occasional criticisms, after which I think, what kind of dumbass would give you a hard time?!! It's always fun to see people make fools of themselves, I suppose, lol!!
you'll be fine babe l was shit scared when became a mum at the age of 17yrs l was alone with no family but l made it not saying it was easy but it was the best thing l have ever done in my life.
Now she's in UNI going to school to be a Dr so l am very proud shit l am so bloody old lol
There's a lot of young moms these days, all around the world. I'm not an advocate, but it happens. And everyone knows it happens, that's why there's sex education classes in kindergarden now. Point being, she's decided to have it and to raise it, and that's a brave decision that a lot of young women don't choose. Good luck, lady. You'll be fine.
Just saying, I was a hellraiser when I was younger - be prepared! Hahaha. =)
Definitely know how you feel about the.. "This just feel so right and so much healthier."
It's good that things aren't just happy, happy, happy, otherwise you might have to look and see who's repressing what. Hormones are kicking your ass at the moment, it's like PMS x1000.
You'll be a good mother. Not a lot of people can handle holding a relationship together and a family. Just do it, don't fuck up.
Not gonna lie, having a baby is really scary. You're caring for a teeny little person and they depend ENTIRELY on you. It'll be really hard, not a lot of sleep, lots of poop, and spit up, but it'll be worth it. Babies are just the greatest things ever. You'll be able to look at the little guy and see you and Daniel in him, and once you get smiles and laughing, that's all that will matter. Good luck when the time comes! Wear toe socks!
I once commented a few months ago about her being too young to be pregnant and she mentioned it was her decision and well I respect that.
Still, having a child is something that demands a lot from yourself, and not all of us can be parents.
I hope everything goes well for you, but I still think 21 years old is too young to be having children, considering how demanding the world of today is.
I always say that people shouldn't have children if they can't take care of themselves first.
But yeah, ultimately this video isn't really here because I want or care to hear stranger's opinions on young motherhood. Anyone who knows me knows that we're well prepared for this child and have put those preparations first, above our own needs throughout these 8 months and will continue to do so throughout his life.
Regardless, it's not like we're 17 year old unemployed teens living with our parents still so I don't really understand any carry-on about me being, god forbid, 21.
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Don't lie. Of course you want stranger's opinions; otherwise, what's the point of this video? Is the point for no one to watch it? If you didn't want stranger's opinions, why did you post it to a video site where everyone can comment?
Eh, comments pertaining to people's opinions on young mums are irrelevant and really, have nothing to do with the content of the video at all. Did you hear me ask, "Hey, so what do you guys think about pregnancy at 21?"
Did I refer to my age at all, for that matter?
No.
Anyway, thanks for your thoughts on what you think will happen to my hopes, dreams and aspirations. All of which you have no clue about. What exactly ARE my hopes and dreams, deary? Go ahead, use that ESP of yours.
Perhaps she posts videos about current events in her life because she has loads of subscribers, many that have been subscribers for years, requesting video updates? Also, go away, TROLL.
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Anyway, here is a stranger's opinion. You'll probably fail. You and Daniel will probably split, you'll spend the rest of your life regretting not waiting, and all of your hopes, dreams, and aspirations will be smashed into pieces. Have fun.
My wife became pregnant right after we got married at the age of 18. Fast forward to 23 (and son at 4), and I'm going to be doubling my salary soon (if all goes well), all without help from most of my family, and in spite of her family.
I guess what I'm trying to say is with the proper ethics in mind, it really doesn't matter what age you are. Physical maturity does not equal mental and emotional maturity.
I know this must be very scarery, But you will get thru it and it will be hard , but in the end I bet you will be a Great Mom. Young girls, I hope will watch your video, and may wait longer to have a baby.
I wish you all the best, I'm sure you'll be and awesome mom. You may already know this but Spricket24 is pregnant too and I'd guess is pretty close to you in terms of due dates. She seems like the sort of person that would be really interested in talking to you. My fiancee and I are probably going to be where you are in a couple of years so I feel for you, it's a huge step. Take care.
I'm not glad that your crying, but im glad that your happy with Daniel. it sounds like you have a beautiful relationship.. and you will make an amazing family. Things will change, but for the better. You'll see, when you hold Blake everything will fall into place. Its good that your getting these thoughts out..
This is such a beautiful chance for you to embrace change as we all know you will. Although things will be different, there is no moment like the present, so don't look back, don't look to the future, stay right here now and enjoy the time you have. All the best for you and Daniel, you're going to raise a beautiful being. :)
i wish you well from a soon to be grandfather , oh god no :) (i'm too too young and immature to be a grandfather ). just teasing , here's hoping your baby sees many fruitful days . be well . JV
You are just going on to the next part of life. It's the way things progress, its the way God or mother nature intended it to be. Its a learning experience both you and Daniel will go through together. There will be good times and bad. And once the baby is 6 mos old or so you can have a baby sitter or your Mum watch the baby so you and Daniel can go out for a relaxing dinner. And life will go on and be good. After a year goes by you'll be a pro. Its not all that bad. You'll make it ok.
Please don't cry or worry so much. That is a sign of postpartum depression. I have witnessed to many mums go through that, I don't want you to be one of them.
it's not like it's something she can help, if it does happen to her. It's completely chemical, has to do with hormonal imbalance, not with the attitude or feelings of the mother. and i'm pretty sure it passes after the time with the help of medication to set things right again.
You will make a wonderful mum and Daniel will be a wonderful dad, The difference will be you will all be part of a family with a wonderful child who will drive you madm good luck maye
Aww...there's probably not much I can say that will relieve you of your fears. But may I suggest that life is always changing - things never stay the same and it's not necessarily a cause for sadness. Think about how you felt a couple years ago when you thought about not being with Luke - and how now not being with him has allowed you to have one of the most positive changes in your life. Plus, you can always get a sitter if you want to snuggle with Daniel sans the bub ;)
PS. I don't mean the sitter comment to mean that it solves the dilemma - obviously your life will be quite different after the baby. Just trying to say that you'll get to have breaks when/if needed. And I know you're not sad about the baby. Maybe just sad about the things you may be giving up - but I guess great sacrifices = great rewards :)
ah i can imagine it's freaking you out. but every new thing just take adjusting, after that part's over you see everything's just fine. and dont be afraid, things will change, but not for the worse!
it's okay to be emotional too! i almost cried just seeing you cry, and im not pregnant and not even a girl! haha
you and your bf have been together many years, and it's been consistently good. this is really the first time that you've had to go into the unknown. through out the years you and him have experienced many happy moments, and this will just be another, albeit a bit more challenging. but it's up to you as parents to live up to that challenge. having a child can be demanding, but with it comes a completely new experience of life. which is what life is about... experiencing moments, good & bad
Thank you so much for those kind words, but I suppose I should correct you in that my current partner (and the father of this bub) isn't the same one I had back in the days when I was regularly videoblogging
I'm very excited to be spending the most active and energetic years of my life raising a child. I'm at my peak in both fertility and energy levels; this is the way nature intended it to be and the way I wanted it to be. I never wanted to be one of those ladies in my early fifties dropping my child off to the fourth grade.
Don't feel too bad about crying. Im a guy and I started to cry earlier since I got a card with a $100 for my college graduation tomorrow since I'd been through a lot in my childhood.
aw,babygirl. i actually got alittle teary eyed myself there. dont over think too much while in labor like u said you might...you have all the time in the world after that to freak out. heh. am i helping? i think not. Your a good person,everything will fall into place :)
Aww, Emmalina, you are going to be a great mommy... and imagine the type of bond you'll feel with Daniel after birthing that little baby you both created.
You were so sweet and real in this video. I loved it.
Not yet, I bought one of those PTFE 1.5" maternity bars and it hasn't started to migrate or get irritated or anything like that yet. The standard metal bar started to get irritated at around 28 weeks, but the flexibility of the PTFE one seems to have sorted that out. For now anyway.
Oh sweetie, you have both smarts and common sense to help you get through this. On top of that you have the blessing of a beautiful relationship and love for this baby that can't even be put into words. Lean on each other, take care of each other and this will be the most amazing time of your life!
you are going to be fine. just keep remembering that. this is all healthy and natural. just keep your chin up, and think about the wonderful blessing bestowed upon you. Yes, life will change, but it'll be for the better, and you know this. :)
Keep ya head up darling!, you'll be fine--this is the next great adventure for you, Motherhood. I'm a father of two and am 27 years old--i was nervous and scared and excited, but these have been the greatest years of my life!! Don't cry Mom, you'll do okay, just smile....
You're going to be a great mom and I wish you nothing but the very best!! Don't worry, once the baby is born you're worries will go away and things will fall in place. Good Luck!
In the states a lot of people consider a "bastard child" a child without a father, but I guess it actually means, born out of wedlock. In which case, a lot of us are bastards ahah. You feel down and out right now, it's totally normal, pregnancy hormones. But, once you have the baby, you will be the happiest you have ever been or will be! It'll be all worth it. I hope you feel better!
i just have to say cause i know not many other people are saying and others use to say it all the time. but girl to girl your boobs look great. haha. not that im pregger or will be any time soon. but that's a great point you made about how you wont ever be alone again and that's sad in a way. i know you'll be a great mum.
without him! It does change but it is truly for the better. It will simply make you cherish the moments that you 2 are able to have the baths together.... you will be a great mother!!! :)
These are all completely normal feelings and worries! I had them very strongly before I had my first child (almost 7 years ago now) and it does get better. The worries seem so amplified because of the hormones and you have the time to sit and worry about them! Once you go into labor, you will be so happy to finally see him that there will be no worries. Once you get home, you will be so busy with a newborn you wont think about it and when he is a month old you will wonder how you ever lived...
You will be just fine, everyone gets scared, and everyone gets nervous. but when you hold your baby for the first time love will just rush over you and all those doubts and worries will be put to rest. you are an Earth mother, you will be amazing.
That baby bird is soooo cute! I'm 32 weeks and scared shitless about life changing. I believe all women have to deal with these feelings though. So just know, you are not alone.
people say that a baby makes things better and brings people closer together. i hope you'll have a healthy baby and things will work out great, G-d willing
Emmalina, you will do great. I had my son a year ago and I know how you are feeling. The fear will subside and be replaced with absolute joy. It's an amazing thing.
I could be wrong but I dont think birds and babies go together. I think the birds cause an increase in asthma in children brought up in the same household.
that's because they are storing milk for the lil one. [wish i belived in reincarnation] take no notice of the things we say, we are just trying to relax ya, see how many ppl will be about when your going through PND!! [I wont!!] tooo scared]]
Your coming to the end of one part of your life and entering another. like leaving school going to collage/ university each stage is a new beginning. You say your life is wonderful with Daniel and your very happy, well believe me things will be even better when baby comes it's a Beautiful gift to each other . XX X X
Oh hun :) Its not "crying like a little bitch"!!! Your going thru wat we all do- havin a baby is a BIG change & its completely normal to feel this way- honestly, if you didnt it wuld be weird!!! LOL
So u dont lose out on time 2getha, mak sure u always set aside a certain day/time jus 4the 2of u 2b 2getha w/o bubs. Even if its jus a bath 2getha once a week, or a walk, a meal out 2getha- its the lil stuff that counts in the early days n as bub gets older time 2getha will get easier to manage.
Instead of thinking about the time and experiences u guys will "lose" as a 2some, think bout the fun, excitement and love u 3 will all feel as a family!!! I kno u might not see it now, but havin a bub can and usually does change the dynamics 4the betta!!! U hav an unbreakable, lifelong bond togetha now.
U may jus find that time as a family is much more fulfilling than wen u were jus a 2some!!!
Gd luck hun- i think u will b fine & i think we all stress durin birth!!! I kno i will b w/ #2!!!
It'll be a big change, but it won't necessarily be a bad one! *hugs* It'll be okay, I'm happy that you've found your significant other! Some things will change, but having a new child won't harm your relationship, but will enrich it in many other ways :)
i hear her speaking but all i can think of is breastfeeding...
Victoryto 5 months ago
you're a very beautiful girl i hope everything is well with you and your family
Gymnast29990 1 year ago
I think those sound like rather realistic fears to have during a pregnancy, though I havent been there myself. I realise also you have long since had a wonderful little boy and congratulations on that. On a side note. That little chick is so darned cute.
amcol85 1 year ago
U look so pretty
fernandocaradeperro 2 years ago
how old r u?
pokythecat5 2 years ago
Previous video- 21yrs
shantrues 2 years ago
Don't worry bout being scared, it is normal :)
Hope your labour and birth went well :)
edaj84 2 years ago
I love you emmalina!!!
josiahxface 2 years ago
I really want a baby, but I'm afraid of what it will do to my relationship... Now that Blake is here, are you guys the same? I mean, I understand how adding a baby will change things some, but you and Daniel, did anything change between you?
jaid2k 2 years ago
Not really - just the way we do things. It's harder to dedicate time (especially alone) to each other now; everything has to be planned, scheduled, and needs preparation. We still have our baths together and stuff like that, but we can't do it when we really WANT to, we have to just do it whenever the opportunity arises. Oh, and our life's been sexless for the past 5 weeks but that's just cause I had an episiotomy :)
Emmalina 2 years ago
@Emmalina ouch
misskatieerin88 5 months ago
Her tits have swelled right up. They must be full of baby milk.
SiberianGinseng 2 years ago
Reproductive Education 101: That actually doesn't happen til a few days after delivery.
Emmalina 2 years ago 6
@Emmalina mine certainly got bigger prior to delivery and leaked from about 20 weeks with my son and from conception with my daughter. And then got even bigger post delivery.
edaj84 1 year ago
@SiberianGinseng they're not called tits they're called breasts geesh get it right duh hehe lol
wantsababy2006 7 months ago
Heh, kinda funny-yet-expected to see Emmalina all emotional.
Have you considered that the beautiful relationship you share will only become a beautiful relationship between three?
If the both of you are cool, why shouldn't the product of your union turn out cool, too?
IWannabeJew 2 years ago 2
Stop over analyzing it all, go with it okay. Its not that big and scary, its an incredibly WONDERFUL, HAPPY and AMAZING new journey you are entering in to! Hang in there!
I know the preg hormones take over but stop thinking so much, you will still get time alone with yor partner. You will also get family time which just makes you appreciate your partner on a whole new level and love them in a different way too.
I speak from experience, May 13th we welcomed our 5th child to our family!
mummycharmzy 2 years ago
damn she pregnant already
HiAzShit 2 years ago
nice milf tits
thegrapebeyond 2 years ago 5
@thegrapebeyond there is no such thing as a milf and they're not called tits you uneducated twerp
wantsababy2006 1 year ago
@wantsababy2006 you obviously need to watch more movies
bolch88bb8 9 months ago
Some very deep thoughts in that vid. I respect you sooo much right now. I've been watching your vids and reading your lj from way back when... and I am so grateful for you sharing your journey with us. It's been an absolute pleasure to watch/read. You have grown a lot over the last few months and I am really proud of the way you have handled certain situations, and I admire your intelligence and maturity! Kerry xx
MentalResidue 2 years ago
You seem like a decent person & you think very highly of daniel, so I would guess that he is a decent person too! 2 decent people + 1 small baby = "nornal family" and you can't ask for a better start than that ! ! ! I am sure all 3 of you will be fine and I am sure all your fears will dissolve when you see that little face looking up at you :) Enjoy your NEW life M.
SLIPS82 2 years ago
Luke had a lucky escape. Smart man :)
nerktord 2 years ago
Smart people don't turn into drug addicts.
Emmalina 2 years ago 7
what are you, 18 ?
Ritrai 2 years ago
If you look at the videos on the side, one of her videos is titled "Being a mum at 21"
Read.
TraceFineGold 2 years ago
damn u're hot!
gokywe 2 years ago
Don't worry..yes your patience and freedom and love will be tested, but girl trust me when that baby comes out, you will love that little baby more than you ever thought possible...more than you have ever loved anything your entire life. Best wishes to you and your family. You will be a good mom. Just remember to allow each other to have some alone time so ya'll won't go crazy, be consistent and patient with the baby. I'm telling you it is the best love the two of you will ever experience.
tooteyfrootey 2 years ago
emmalina,
i havnt watched your videos in a REALLY long time,
and for this to be the first one i've watched, has really touched me.
you've obviously gotten really mature, and i have so much respect for you.
good luck with your baby,
and your new life :)
megamoo33 2 years ago
One of your most mature and honest and powerful videos.
By being honest and talking about them you have found a path to understanding and dealing with your fears.
PerthPete1 2 years ago
Watching this video reminded me or how I felt not too long ago. I am turning 22 in less than a week and my baby is just about 5 months. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you its not hard because it is, but it is so worth it. Once you see your baby for the first time, all those thoughts you have right now just seem to disappear. Now I can hardly imagine life without my daughter. Yes, I miss the days my boy friend and I used to have, but I wouldn't trade our life now for anything! Good Luck!
iheartmyhoody 2 years ago
congrats man
jackishhawt 2 years ago
Thank you for being honest, and sharing this with us. Wish you the best of luck! I'm sure you will be a great mother to your child!
Kattelinka 2 years ago
Emmalina, I wish you and your Family only the best of Luck, and think you will be a Great Mom. In this country, Sarah Palin's Daughter, had so many Nasty thing said about her, only Because of who her mother was, and she turn out to be a great mom. Don't play with Vultures, when you can soar with Eagles. Good Luck. Your Friend, Capt Tom Stone
Kingman, AZ USA
capttoms 2 years ago
Yeah, things will change, they always do, for one reason or another. I can see why you're scared. What's helpful is that change can be planned for and the two of you can make time for YOUR relationship too.
Another thing is that being pregnant causes lots & LOTS of hormones to go and it makes women's emotional reactions more intense. This might make an important issue feel a lot scarier or sadder than it would be otherwise. If it happens, just notice it, feel it, allow it to come & go. Hugs...
JDI180 2 years ago
Take care beautiful girl. Thanks for sharing.
HardCandyJane 2 years ago 8
I know what your going through. I was soo scared two months before my baby was born, but there is a natural medicine called Calms Forte that really helped me. Whnever you feel yourself getting tense just take one of them and you feel so much less anxious. You can get them at meijers.
Music1obsessed 2 years ago
Good luck Emmalina! You are going to be a great mum :) xx
xNipsx 2 years ago
dont worry your hormones must be rocketing, take care emmalina :)
takot88 2 years ago
Congraz
mpa05 2 years ago
Emmalina, you should do some dancing vids now. =)
Scarazoni 2 years ago
Things between you and Danielle are definitely going to change, but believe me it will change from good to better and from better to best. The baby will make you much closer to each other than you think.
gabrsafwat 2 years ago
That isn't always true, even if you love eachother very much. Having a child can tear people apart.
ahngination 2 years ago
I totally agree, but the majority follow my case (~80%). I am a married male with a 2 years old kid. Since we got our kid life became more challenging. Challenging is what made our lives great.
gabrsafwat 2 years ago 2
Don't listen to certain people who think they know everything and make disgusting, obnoxious comments.
Good luck with the baby, judging solely from your videos I'd say you're going to make a great mother. I've seen older women who can't handle parenthood at all so age is truly irrelevent.
bluesparks24 2 years ago
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Maybe you'll get lucky and your baby will be be stillborn. I tire of this back and forth, as I can see neither of us will be assuaged. So, in an attempt to end this whole bloody conversation, I'll leave you with this comment and my best wishes. Like I said, I don't want you to fail, I just think that you will. Good luck.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
Ahhh, there we go. I think that when one starts trying to get a reaction by using nasty little stillbirth insults, it can be safely assumed that one can no longer think of anything remotely intelligent to say (not that you ever did) and thus I win this little debate. *dance*
Emmalina 2 years ago
That made smile :) I like you. I think we'd be friends in real life. High five for your win.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
Love you Em <3 I just know that everything is going to work out perfectly
audrinaaa 2 years ago
Once the baby is out things will be fine. They don't cry a lot from what a girl told me at work when they are new born. They sleep a lot actually.
In only a few years the kids will be in school, then teens, then you can get your life back while STILL being young.
I'm 32 and probably wont have kids till I'm 33 or 34. By the time the kids are teens and we can vacation alone, we'll be hitting 50 years old.
So for everyone out there, tell me who is doing it either right or wrong.
TheAngryCanuck 2 years ago
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Leave her alone, I think she knows what she has ahead of her and she is going to be an awesome Mom. You have no right to assume what will happen in her life.
jaxzz18 2 years ago
Well, first, like she herself said in her own video, none of us know her, so even the people that give positive comments are no better equipped to give an accurate opinion of whether or not she will be a good mother. And furthermore, this is her first child, so she doesn't know what kind of mother she will be, either.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
You look awesome girl!
bgirl90 2 years ago
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Seriously, age doesn't matter, if they think they are right for each other let them do what they want. My parents got together at 18 and are still going strong 30+ years now.
Daniel and Emmalina seems happy together and that's all that matters right now.
aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh 2 years ago 2
We disagree, like your name though.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
As much as I already picture you being a dickhead. You cracked me up with this comment :)
MissDunhillMenthol 2 years ago
I'm glad I made you laugh. Though, I've commented a lot on this video. Which comment made you laugh?
~Beetlejuice
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
The reply to the sender named aaaaaaaaahhhhhh.
MissDunhillMenthol 2 years ago
i had the same thoughts and was afraid of all the changes. so from someone who has been there...don't stress over it. yes, there are changes that come with having a child, but you'll be amazed at how quickly you adapt. i know it seems overwhelming now, but that anxiety will go away as soon as you look at your baby's face for the first time.
thinkthegirlsgonemad 2 years ago
omg! I haven't seen your videos in like a year! wow i didn't even know u were pregnant!
HiMyNameIsAsh 2 years ago
girl, don't worry. everything is gonna be fine. you're gonna have a healthy baby and everything will be ok. don't worry yourself so much, that's not healthy for you and the baby. you're gonna be a great mom! chin up! :)
zOMGitsMEGAN 2 years ago
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1. Again, if you didn't want opinions, you wouldn't be discussing the subject of pregnancy on a site where the main purpose is to watch and comment on vids. If you make a video discussing pregnancy at 21, gee, wonder what people's comments will be on.
2. I don't have to know what your dreams are to know they are soon to be smashed and forgotten.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
The only way someone would even KNOW that I'm 21 in this video is if they went to my profile and looked at my age. This video is NOT me discussing "pregnancy at 21". My most recent video is for that!
Emmalina 2 years ago
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The fact that you don't mention your age is negligible, because anyone with working eyes can see you are in your late teens to early 20's. Your video is over your feelings about pregnancy. Your age is what sparked my comments, because I'm a realist. While it is nice to believe you and Daniel will last, at your age, it's doubtful. I look forward to your future video entitled " Gee, wish I hadn't ruined my life"
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
I think you'd be hard pressed to find ANY woman who believes having her child ruined her life. On the other hand, how many women describe the birth of their baby as the most wonderful moment of their life?
You're not a realist.
Emmalina 2 years ago
She's right. You're a pessimist.
My parents, both from poor rural families, married at 18. Both went to university & had 3 children while they were in school.
Mom got a B.A. in English & my dad earned his PhD in chemical engineering.
Mom has been a teacher for decades.
Dad then got a job @ Exxon that he worked at for a decade, then retired & bought a lot of land that is now a generational, family business.
He now teaches math & works outside.
They have been happily married for over 50 years.
Gripfang 2 years ago
& they raised 2 more children in their 40's. They had my brother & adopted me.
Mom always told me they didn't think they could ever have enough kids.
Probably why they were so active in church youth groups & have positively touched so many lives.
It's all in your attitude.
They both came from nothing, but they had the drive to succeed & they did.
I don't think anyone my dad has ever met would be surprised if he drops over dead one day out working in a field, just like his dad, but in his 70's.
Gripfang 2 years ago
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I congratulate your parents beating the odds, but most don't. 50 to 60% of marriages end in divorce. I'm not saying it's impossible, but the odds are against them. I'm a realist, not a pessimist. I look for the probability in situations and that's where I derive my conclusions. If you watch her next video, she talks a little about how even now money is tight and how they help mentally disabled people. So, they aren't going to earn a P.h.D. and get great jobs, ect.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
The world does not = the U.S.
The US has the highest divorce rate in the world. I am not in the US. I'm Australian and our divorce rate is falling steadily. It's around 40%.
I don't understand why, if you're a "realist" who looks at probability, you'd decide to put me in the lowest percentage?
Define a "great job". We love our work, and consider it great. We are passionate about it, qualified and trained with 6 years of field experience between us, just in our early 20s. TBC...
Emmalina 2 years ago
You do realize that there are a lot of high paying positions in the disability and mental health industry, yeah? Daniel's skills and experience are such that he's already being offered positions from other organizations trying to "poach" him. There is also no reason why we can't have a crack at owning and developing our own support organization in future. You are an idiot, you do not need a PhD to be able to call your job a "great" one.
Emmalina 2 years ago
But yeah. I don't know why (if you're such a realist who looks at statistics and probability) you're lumping me in minority groups who suffered negative outcomes. Remembering of course, like a smart person would, that I'm NOT living in the US so statistics pertaining to that country are irrelevant to my circumstances.
I don't think you understand realism at all. All signs do indeed point to pessimism here, not realism in the slightest.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I'm using my statistics because I'm not familiar with yours,and, frankly, it's not worth my effort to look up yours. I'm lumping you in with those who would fail because, as you've admitted, your not doing awesome financially, saying money is tight and you're young.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
These two things together = low chances. I didn't say you needed a P.h.D. I was responding to someone else who said one of her parents achieved a P.h.D and the other a bachelors. I was merely saying, obviously neither of you intend to get either of those. I was expressing what luck they had having parents that were able to achieve such a thing. I think you'll fail; you think you'll succeed, time will prove one of us right. I hope it's you, but I wouldn't count on it.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
...Okay, so, explain to me how I "obviously" have no intention of obtaining a PhD or any degree for that matter, when I clearly said in my other video (which you watched) that I'm half way through a BA. *headdesk*
Honestly, I just find your views really ridiculous and baseless. I couldn't stand having this discussion for longer than two minutes in real life before laughing and walking away.
Emmalina 2 years ago
And with an attitude like "I'm using my statistics because I'm not familiar with yours"...it doesn't really sound like you'll have any luck as far as academics are concerned either.
Ignorance. Yuck.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Eh, well truthfully, I couldn't stand to watch either video entirely, so my bad on that part. If we were talking in person, obviously, I'd of got that, but the baby will probably screw that up too.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
Oh, a great job to me is one that earns a lot of money. The fact that you enjoy it isn't important. The money is what jobs are for. If you're not making enough to satisfy all of your needs and wants, wants within reasonableness, then it isn't that great.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
Don't worry. The first few weeks are rough, but then in no time you'll be wondering what life was like before you had your baby! My son is already 3 months old, and the time has flown by.
MrsXhavier 2 years ago
And yes things around the house will change BUT you gotta make time for you and your man. it is possible. GOOD LUCK. I know things will be okay.
shystar21 2 years ago
I think what you are feeling is normal! I am not a mom yet but when I ever think about having a baby i get scared. So your not alone. Just think when you go in there yes it is going to be a scary thing but just count to 10 and relax! Because after all this time you will have a wonderful baby to share the world with. And being emotional at this time is normal.
shystar21 2 years ago
I always think, you are popular because you think things through, analyze your situation, and otherwise make good and well-considered decisions. Then I see the occasional criticisms, after which I think, what kind of dumbass would give you a hard time?!! It's always fun to see people make fools of themselves, I suppose, lol!!
nicholas9999 2 years ago
you'll be fine babe l was shit scared when became a mum at the age of 17yrs l was alone with no family but l made it not saying it was easy but it was the best thing l have ever done in my life.
Now she's in UNI going to school to be a Dr so l am very proud shit l am so bloody old lol
tinypuppies3 2 years ago
There's a lot of young moms these days, all around the world. I'm not an advocate, but it happens. And everyone knows it happens, that's why there's sex education classes in kindergarden now. Point being, she's decided to have it and to raise it, and that's a brave decision that a lot of young women don't choose. Good luck, lady. You'll be fine.
Just saying, I was a hellraiser when I was younger - be prepared! Hahaha. =)
kavvee 2 years ago
Definitely know how you feel about the.. "This just feel so right and so much healthier."
It's good that things aren't just happy, happy, happy, otherwise you might have to look and see who's repressing what. Hormones are kicking your ass at the moment, it's like PMS x1000.
You'll be a good mother. Not a lot of people can handle holding a relationship together and a family. Just do it, don't fuck up.
toratoritore 2 years ago
Not gonna lie, having a baby is really scary. You're caring for a teeny little person and they depend ENTIRELY on you. It'll be really hard, not a lot of sleep, lots of poop, and spit up, but it'll be worth it. Babies are just the greatest things ever. You'll be able to look at the little guy and see you and Daniel in him, and once you get smiles and laughing, that's all that will matter. Good luck when the time comes! Wear toe socks!
irerin 2 years ago
I once commented a few months ago about her being too young to be pregnant and she mentioned it was her decision and well I respect that.
Still, having a child is something that demands a lot from yourself, and not all of us can be parents.
I hope everything goes well for you, but I still think 21 years old is too young to be having children, considering how demanding the world of today is.
I always say that people shouldn't have children if they can't take care of themselves first.
Goodluck :)
Biankito 2 years ago
Thank you.
But yeah, ultimately this video isn't really here because I want or care to hear stranger's opinions on young motherhood. Anyone who knows me knows that we're well prepared for this child and have put those preparations first, above our own needs throughout these 8 months and will continue to do so throughout his life.
Regardless, it's not like we're 17 year old unemployed teens living with our parents still so I don't really understand any carry-on about me being, god forbid, 21.
Emmalina 2 years ago
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Don't lie. Of course you want stranger's opinions; otherwise, what's the point of this video? Is the point for no one to watch it? If you didn't want stranger's opinions, why did you post it to a video site where everyone can comment?
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
Eh, comments pertaining to people's opinions on young mums are irrelevant and really, have nothing to do with the content of the video at all. Did you hear me ask, "Hey, so what do you guys think about pregnancy at 21?"
Did I refer to my age at all, for that matter?
No.
Anyway, thanks for your thoughts on what you think will happen to my hopes, dreams and aspirations. All of which you have no clue about. What exactly ARE my hopes and dreams, deary? Go ahead, use that ESP of yours.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Perhaps she posts videos about current events in her life because she has loads of subscribers, many that have been subscribers for years, requesting video updates? Also, go away, TROLL.
LiaRaye 2 years ago
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Anyway, here is a stranger's opinion. You'll probably fail. You and Daniel will probably split, you'll spend the rest of your life regretting not waiting, and all of your hopes, dreams, and aspirations will be smashed into pieces. Have fun.
BeetlejuiceIsHere 2 years ago
My wife became pregnant right after we got married at the age of 18. Fast forward to 23 (and son at 4), and I'm going to be doubling my salary soon (if all goes well), all without help from most of my family, and in spite of her family.
I guess what I'm trying to say is with the proper ethics in mind, it really doesn't matter what age you are. Physical maturity does not equal mental and emotional maturity.
Neraph 2 years ago
Thats irrelevant.
Its about whether you're old enough to have a steady, well paying job.. and being out of school, etc.
kickthebass 2 years ago
I know this must be very scarery, But you will get thru it and it will be hard , but in the end I bet you will be a Great Mom. Young girls, I hope will watch your video, and may wait longer to have a baby.
You are very brave to talk from your Heart.
Your Friend , Capt Tom Stone
Kingman, AZ
capttoms 2 years ago
ooo swollen boobies
rangerdave1 2 years ago
You shouldn't be scared you should be really excited. :-)
jeffsadowski 2 years ago
I wish you all the best, I'm sure you'll be and awesome mom. You may already know this but Spricket24 is pregnant too and I'd guess is pretty close to you in terms of due dates. She seems like the sort of person that would be really interested in talking to you. My fiancee and I are probably going to be where you are in a couple of years so I feel for you, it's a huge step. Take care.
MasterMeatMan 2 years ago
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21 and pregnant = a great start at life. Sarcasm implied and intended.
SammySain 2 years ago
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Yeah, um... Forgive me, was this baby an accident...?
gigirox18 2 years ago
I'm not glad that your crying, but im glad that your happy with Daniel. it sounds like you have a beautiful relationship.. and you will make an amazing family. Things will change, but for the better. You'll see, when you hold Blake everything will fall into place. Its good that your getting these thoughts out..
PS, You are glowing and you look stunning.
caragh87 2 years ago
Good luck
marilynmonroesugar 2 years ago
This is such a beautiful chance for you to embrace change as we all know you will. Although things will be different, there is no moment like the present, so don't look back, don't look to the future, stay right here now and enjoy the time you have. All the best for you and Daniel, you're going to raise a beautiful being. :)
rachyshacoon 2 years ago 2
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i hope he did a pre nup. the disaster that you are is heightened by your pragnafagootry.
AgNoSticPope666 2 years ago
i wish you well from a soon to be grandfather , oh god no :) (i'm too too young and immature to be a grandfather ). just teasing , here's hoping your baby sees many fruitful days . be well . JV
jvforever72 2 years ago
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not to be mean, but i just noticed she has a big head like me.... hahaha
matthewcolej 2 years ago
Out with the old, in with the new. Change is hard. It's part of life. Hang in there and make it work.
scasey1960 2 years ago
This sounds just like a that's what she said joke.
SammySain 2 years ago
now you are old ^^
McYxee 2 years ago
You are just going on to the next part of life. It's the way things progress, its the way God or mother nature intended it to be. Its a learning experience both you and Daniel will go through together. There will be good times and bad. And once the baby is 6 mos old or so you can have a baby sitter or your Mum watch the baby so you and Daniel can go out for a relaxing dinner. And life will go on and be good. After a year goes by you'll be a pro. Its not all that bad. You'll make it ok.
holloway5830 2 years ago
Please don't cry or worry so much. That is a sign of postpartum depression. I have witnessed to many mums go through that, I don't want you to be one of them.
jessmeister15 2 years ago
it's not like it's something she can help, if it does happen to her. It's completely chemical, has to do with hormonal imbalance, not with the attitude or feelings of the mother. and i'm pretty sure it passes after the time with the help of medication to set things right again.
hawkthewalk 2 years ago
You will make a wonderful mum and Daniel will be a wonderful dad, The difference will be you will all be part of a family with a wonderful child who will drive you madm good luck maye
cw3030 2 years ago
babys sucks.. the lil things all breakable and shit... im afraid to hold one from fear of dropping it im a clumsy mf
Madmatt18 2 years ago
actually you're so cutte right now^^
gamakichi183 2 years ago
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<--- 2007 is that way Emmalina.
kiss kiss
SeIfPwn 2 years ago
ah if you both really love each other, having a baby won't change your relationship you'll just have less time for your own
HSstriker 2 years ago
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damn youre fat as a whale
uninspired123 2 years ago
That tends to happen when you're 8 months pregnant.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Aww...there's probably not much I can say that will relieve you of your fears. But may I suggest that life is always changing - things never stay the same and it's not necessarily a cause for sadness. Think about how you felt a couple years ago when you thought about not being with Luke - and how now not being with him has allowed you to have one of the most positive changes in your life. Plus, you can always get a sitter if you want to snuggle with Daniel sans the bub ;)
Lambyc 2 years ago 2
PS. I don't mean the sitter comment to mean that it solves the dilemma - obviously your life will be quite different after the baby. Just trying to say that you'll get to have breaks when/if needed. And I know you're not sad about the baby. Maybe just sad about the things you may be giving up - but I guess great sacrifices = great rewards :)
Lambyc 2 years ago 2
Don't worry Emma, I think you'll be a great mom. Can't wait to see the little tyke. :)
nibargerswife51482 2 years ago 2
hormones! just think of how lucky you are, some people like me may never have kids
snooq 2 years ago
ah i can imagine it's freaking you out. but every new thing just take adjusting, after that part's over you see everything's just fine. and dont be afraid, things will change, but not for the worse!
it's okay to be emotional too! i almost cried just seeing you cry, and im not pregnant and not even a girl! haha
hang in there! (and ''YAY'' for a vlog!)
Sunny5MA 2 years ago
I'm feeling the same way about going to high school.
lunarpopcorn 2 years ago
you and your bf have been together many years, and it's been consistently good. this is really the first time that you've had to go into the unknown. through out the years you and him have experienced many happy moments, and this will just be another, albeit a bit more challenging. but it's up to you as parents to live up to that challenge. having a child can be demanding, but with it comes a completely new experience of life. which is what life is about... experiencing moments, good & bad
sigurros7 2 years ago
Thank you so much for those kind words, but I suppose I should correct you in that my current partner (and the father of this bub) isn't the same one I had back in the days when I was regularly videoblogging
Emmalina 2 years ago
You're sad because you're going to be spending your 20's (the best and most active years of your life) raising a child.
aussieNickuss 2 years ago
No, that's not why I'm sad.
I'm very excited to be spending the most active and energetic years of my life raising a child. I'm at my peak in both fertility and energy levels; this is the way nature intended it to be and the way I wanted it to be. I never wanted to be one of those ladies in my early fifties dropping my child off to the fourth grade.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Don't feel too bad about crying. Im a guy and I started to cry earlier since I got a card with a $100 for my college graduation tomorrow since I'd been through a lot in my childhood.
anyway good luck!
jedisrm 2 years ago
aw,babygirl. i actually got alittle teary eyed myself there. dont over think too much while in labor like u said you might...you have all the time in the world after that to freak out. heh. am i helping? i think not. Your a good person,everything will fall into place :)
<3
YourEscape 2 years ago
Aww, Emmalina, you are going to be a great mommy... and imagine the type of bond you'll feel with Daniel after birthing that little baby you both created.
You were so sweet and real in this video. I loved it.
vomitwut 2 years ago
I was wondering, did you take your belly ring out yet?
XKeelyX 2 years ago
Not yet, I bought one of those PTFE 1.5" maternity bars and it hasn't started to migrate or get irritated or anything like that yet. The standard metal bar started to get irritated at around 28 weeks, but the flexibility of the PTFE one seems to have sorted that out. For now anyway.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Awesome! That's good to hear, cause in the future if I ever get pregnant, I don't want to lose my belly ring.
XKeelyX 2 years ago
At least your tits got bigger, and look even better!!!! Good luck, in the future.
JCassidy3383 2 years ago 2
Oh sweetie, you have both smarts and common sense to help you get through this. On top of that you have the blessing of a beautiful relationship and love for this baby that can't even be put into words. Lean on each other, take care of each other and this will be the most amazing time of your life!
KCurlee 2 years ago
you are going to be fine. just keep remembering that. this is all healthy and natural. just keep your chin up, and think about the wonderful blessing bestowed upon you. Yes, life will change, but it'll be for the better, and you know this. :)
fairypixie 2 years ago 2
Keep ya head up darling!, you'll be fine--this is the next great adventure for you, Motherhood. I'm a father of two and am 27 years old--i was nervous and scared and excited, but these have been the greatest years of my life!! Don't cry Mom, you'll do okay, just smile....
zulufirebolt 2 years ago
You're going to be a great mom and I wish you nothing but the very best!! Don't worry, once the baby is born you're worries will go away and things will fall in place. Good Luck!
aliciaia 2 years ago 2
In the states a lot of people consider a "bastard child" a child without a father, but I guess it actually means, born out of wedlock. In which case, a lot of us are bastards ahah. You feel down and out right now, it's totally normal, pregnancy hormones. But, once you have the baby, you will be the happiest you have ever been or will be! It'll be all worth it. I hope you feel better!
PhillipxPhunk 2 years ago
i just have to say cause i know not many other people are saying and others use to say it all the time. but girl to girl your boobs look great. haha. not that im pregger or will be any time soon. but that's a great point you made about how you wont ever be alone again and that's sad in a way. i know you'll be a great mum.
Cazness 2 years ago
without him! It does change but it is truly for the better. It will simply make you cherish the moments that you 2 are able to have the baths together.... you will be a great mother!!! :)
bethcallahan2006 2 years ago
These are all completely normal feelings and worries! I had them very strongly before I had my first child (almost 7 years ago now) and it does get better. The worries seem so amplified because of the hormones and you have the time to sit and worry about them! Once you go into labor, you will be so happy to finally see him that there will be no worries. Once you get home, you will be so busy with a newborn you wont think about it and when he is a month old you will wonder how you ever lived...
bethcallahan2006 2 years ago
As long as you're speaking your feelings out, you'll be fine...
avrilalien 2 years ago
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Are babies born out of wedlock called bastards, or is that just when the father bails?
ohiosux 2 years ago
I think "technically" all babies born out of wedlock are.
realtruthfakelies 2 years ago
You will be just fine, everyone gets scared, and everyone gets nervous. but when you hold your baby for the first time love will just rush over you and all those doubts and worries will be put to rest. you are an Earth mother, you will be amazing.
demonia17 2 years ago 2
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mmm you were so beauty before, now u look like an older lady ): so sad
Patriot3022 2 years ago
That's what I said about your mum.
PhillipxPhunk 2 years ago
That baby bird is soooo cute! I'm 32 weeks and scared shitless about life changing. I believe all women have to deal with these feelings though. So just know, you are not alone.
TabMcgee 2 years ago 2
people say that a baby makes things better and brings people closer together. i hope you'll have a healthy baby and things will work out great, G-d willing
PyRoMaNiA15 2 years ago 2
PREGO BEWBS
RandFproductions 2 years ago
thank god! finally someone mentions them......damn, we probably the only two REAL men that have seen this video.....
RHOTSERLOK 2 years ago
Good luck! I know you will do wonderful.
P.S. What an adorable baby bird!
Lesleyb05 2 years ago 2
You're going to be an amazing mom! Just try to relax...<3
woodsies 2 years ago 2
Emmalina, you will do great. I had my son a year ago and I know how you are feeling. The fear will subside and be replaced with absolute joy. It's an amazing thing.
devilstheory 2 years ago 4
hang in there emma! you'll do great.
-jason
ApauledTV 2 years ago
I could be wrong but I dont think birds and babies go together. I think the birds cause an increase in asthma in children brought up in the same household.
Vichama 2 years ago
Do they? I haven't looked into that (been more concerned about our two cats!)...thanks for letting me know though, I'll have to research that now!
Emmalina 2 years ago
your boobs look huge
Mahmood42978 2 years ago
that's because they are storing milk for the lil one. [wish i belived in reincarnation] take no notice of the things we say, we are just trying to relax ya, see how many ppl will be about when your going through PND!! [I wont!!] tooo scared]]
huded 2 years ago
this was a reply to another comment, how come it's come up on it;s own?
huded 2 years ago
heck yeah, I wish I could feed off of those nourishing teats of life giving milk.
Mahmood42978 2 years ago
this is all hormones!! dont worry im sure u will be fine :)
Lilyyyx 2 years ago 3
Your coming to the end of one part of your life and entering another. like leaving school going to collage/ university each stage is a new beginning. You say your life is wonderful with Daniel and your very happy, well believe me things will be even better when baby comes it's a Beautiful gift to each other . XX X X
NunaFeedTheDucks 2 years ago
Oh hun :) Its not "crying like a little bitch"!!! Your going thru wat we all do- havin a baby is a BIG change & its completely normal to feel this way- honestly, if you didnt it wuld be weird!!! LOL
So u dont lose out on time 2getha, mak sure u always set aside a certain day/time jus 4the 2of u 2b 2getha w/o bubs. Even if its jus a bath 2getha once a week, or a walk, a meal out 2getha- its the lil stuff that counts in the early days n as bub gets older time 2getha will get easier to manage.
dueaug132007 2 years ago 2
Instead of thinking about the time and experiences u guys will "lose" as a 2some, think bout the fun, excitement and love u 3 will all feel as a family!!! I kno u might not see it now, but havin a bub can and usually does change the dynamics 4the betta!!! U hav an unbreakable, lifelong bond togetha now.
U may jus find that time as a family is much more fulfilling than wen u were jus a 2some!!!
Gd luck hun- i think u will b fine & i think we all stress durin birth!!! I kno i will b w/ #2!!!
dueaug132007 2 years ago 2
will you be posting a vid of the birth? j/k, congratz, you'll be a great mum. [soory posted this on another vid, maybe you don't look at old ones]
huded 2 years ago 4
Be strong! your going to have a little mirical! :) xxxx
LazyMashFace 2 years ago
aaw the little hatchling has a einstein hairdo :D
Gargasmells 2 years ago
It'll be a big change, but it won't necessarily be a bad one! *hugs* It'll be okay, I'm happy that you've found your significant other! Some things will change, but having a new child won't harm your relationship, but will enrich it in many other ways :)
3mmerz 2 years ago
I agree with this completely :]
discolights 2 years ago
please pop that puppy out soon sweety
rickyscot 2 years ago