HUN, just a quick question, just coz Im a big girl too, but still under 100kgs, my midwife told me I couldn't have an ultrasound till 22 weeks, to find out the sex, coz of my weight, she said they wouldn't be able to see anything! I was so offended, I never had that problem with my daughter! Did they mention anything like that to you, or have any problems during the scan? coz the hospital booked me in at 20 weeks, so im going with that, stuff the midwife!!!
@YoungAussieFamily change midwifes! what a horrible thing to say. We had our scan at 20 weeks. They can still see its just not as clear due to the "extra layers". The only "problem" i had was some of the ultrasound techs were a bit insensitive but who cares lol. You will be fine, there shouldnt be any trouble at all. Keep me posted on how you get on :)
Hi there! First of all, congrats on your little boy. I know you're wondering about circumcision. Many people argue that it's wrong and makes sex less enjoyable. I can promise you, when your son is in high school and becoming intimate, he'll thank you for circumsizing him. It's social suicide not to be circumsized, trust me. I'm a high school girl, nobody knows it better than me.
Physically, it may feel better for him to keep it, but emotionally, he'll be tormented continously. Plan ahead!
congrats on ur wedding and the baby boy! I really appreciate your updates. I have a question for you...have you experienced any insomnia during the pregnancy so far? I'm only 17 weeks now and am having the hardest time sleeping through the night.
@AfroPufChic thanks the wedding was awesome. i dont really have any trouble sleeping so far. the only time i will take a while to get to sleep is when i have slept during the day. i normally just stay up until i am quite tired so iam really ready to go to sleep, regardless of the time. thanks
Congradulations! Having a baby is such a wonderful thing and I can see you are going to be a great mom. Take the whole baby home. When he arrives he will be perfect and wont need any body modification. When he grows up he can choose all that for himself. Good luck with all the joy and challenges ahead!
He WILL know about the info that was available when he was born, and he will resent it if you don't trust HIM to make the decision for HIMSELF about HIS own body when he is older and has the info THEN available. Adults choose genital surgery all the time (mostly vasectomy, only about 2 in 1000 intact adults choose circumcision). He's assured to get a better cosmetic job later - if he is one of the few that chooses circumcision.
hey i meant to ask u.. did u have any problems with the angelsounds device u got.. i ordered one today and after ordering it i read where people who were heavier had alot of problems using it. was this true for u ?
@nmr1987 hiya, nope the very first time i used it i could find the heart beat. it sounds a bit yucky but you gota lift up your tummy and do it under your tummy. cos the baby is down real real loooow.
Good that you do reflect on the very issue, in due time!
From my personal experience I can state that there is nothing wrong with the PrePuce. Please respect and appreciate the bodily entity of your precious offspring, and do not let anyone do anything with that most intimate part of his! UNLESS for immediate, demanding medical rasons (as applies for any part of the body).
i had it done when i was 18 and my experience is that being circumcised is better and that its better done at birth to avoid all the hassle of surgeries as an adult. defiantly find a good doctor and make sure hes done as a baby. i personally would never leave my son uncircumcised, its just not that good to have a foreskin, there's no sensation difference and its cleaner. :D hope that helps.
congrats on a boy! and as far as the cirumcision goes it a personal choice for you and your hubby i'd say but from my experience i'd do it young, my lil bro had it done at 13 an he hurt so bad he couldn't walk for like 5 days he hated it he wish my mom and dad would have done it when he was a baby but my dad was aginst it, i'd rather do it to my son as a baby when he wont remeber it, but thats my opinion.
Circumcision is the surgical removal of the most sexually sensual part of his penis. It's a barbaric thing to to to anyone without their consent.
There is a lot of good information available to any mother who wants to protect her son's genital integrity. Follow your instincts. Don't let anyone touch his penis. Your relationship with him will be best if the maternal infant bonding is not interrupted with the sexual violence of circumcision.
@adamastorBassBar This is a public discussion. People who think they need to cut off part of their child's genitals for whatever nonsense excuses need to hear the truth, just as parents who think beating their children is therapeutic need to here sane voices of dissent.
Genital cutting of children is another violent and barbaric assault. You will have far happier relations with your children if you do not beat and cut them.
@Bonobo3D No it isn't, it's a very simple operation, provided your doctor and medical backup is competent. I never even mentioned the issue of beating your children! I think you're possibly the sort of woman who likes to stand on street corners with a placard like an everlasting 1968 student: no sane parent thinks beating their child is therapeutic ! (for either party) but sometimes errant children do need physical correction in cases of extreme indiscipline.
@Bonobo3D Very very occasionally it does unfortunately, but only when the medical competence of the practitioner is hugely questionable. Then it becomes a different matter.
@adamastorBassBar Dr. Christopher Fletcher of St. Vincent's Hospital of Santa Fe New Mexico says that unreported complications of forced infant circumcision that impact adult sexual function are well over 50%.
@RoseFink With all due respect, can there be SO many incompetent doctors/practitioners in the state of New Mexico?? If they aren't being trained properly then surely that is a health problem for the appropriate state legislature? If practitioners are NOT being trained properly because the powers that be oppose the practice and deliberately withold funding for training, some fault must be laid at their door. After all, there is obviously a demand for the practice.
@adamastorBassBar Judging by your defensive nature, is it wrong of me to assume you're circumsized? There is too much information available now pertaining to the actual function of the foreskin to ignore this problem. The time where we could call it an unnecessary flap of skin have come and gone. If you were circumsized, I feel badly for you. I feel badly for all victims of circumcision, and they ARE victims. Having a large portion of genitals removed without truly knowing it's function is sick.
@Tzara86 Of course I am! I'm a gentleman. But then judging from your channel uploads, you probably don't understand such a concept let alone agree with it. I'm not defensive at all, and nothing I've posted would give you reason to think so. I doubt you would "feel badly" for anyone so don't give me that b-s, and don't patronise.
@adamastorBassBar If they had used this same logic across all human organs, we'd all have had our appendix removed at birth. Now they know, it's not as useless as they initially thought :)
@adamastorBassBar My channel uploads? I have none. If you're referencing what I've favourited, you're more sick than I first thought. Look at you loading off on all these people commenting here. Sad. If you want to claim that we cannot prove anything, than likewise, neither can you. The crap's apparently already been cut through ;) No pun intended. Please note, no amount of anger you display is going to bolster your opinion, nor will it change ours. Foreskins forever!
@adamastorBassBar Please visit the Global Survey of Circumcision Harm to view photos of the life altering consequences of the severe harm of circumcision forced upon infant and children, and the adults they become.
Congratulations to all parents who do the research and respect the rights of all infants and children to a basic human right, bodily integrity.
@Bonobo3D Anyone can post 'statistics' that seem to further their cause if they look hard enough. Stop quoting from nocirc.com and other dubious sites and do some unbiased research yourself. Btw I've never met any of the "adults they become" you are so keen to quote: everyone I know who has had CC is glad they were done as RIC
as it's a much simpler operation done in infancy. I have all the integrity I need a a happily circumcised man! And the sex is awesome!! QED
@adamastorBassBar Photos (not statistics) of damage from mild to severe done when the healthy genitals of a baby are sacrificed to a parent's distorted notions of "normal". Skin tags, skin bridges, uneven scarring, pitting, bent shafts, way too much skin removed, chunks of the glans missing, these are not statistics these are photos of lives ruined by this form of child genital abuse.
The penis with foreskin has a moving part providing pleasure for both the man and his partner.
@Bonobo3D Unfortunately, there sometimes are cases where procedure has gone wrong but the percentage figures are way less than 5%: that, of course, is misfortune that shouldn't happen. When it does, it's usually down to lack of skill by the doctor. There should therefore be more education and support to the medical studies undergone by practitioners, but when certain health bodies withhold these funds because they are against CC on spurious "medical grounds, then surely they are culpable.
@adamastorBassBar Sounds like you've looked at this situation a lot and work hard at spreading bullshit about circumcision. I smell a circumfetish troll.
"Lack of skill by the doctor" is severely detrimental to the lives that affects, especially when the so called "doctor" was ignoring medical ethics and operating on a child's sex organs without need or consent..
Why don't you take your sexual mutilation fantasies elsewhere, away from mothers and young children?
@Bonobo3D Ho ho, that hit the mark! Yes, I have: I put my case calmly and factually (and admit that occasionally mistakes do occur) but put a reasonable case for education and proper training rather than anti-bias, and what happens? You start spitting your bile as you cannot cope with logic, and resort to ad hominem attacks. I have absolutely no "fantasies" whatever (....ok, ok, maybe Jessica Alba) but you and your kind are cyber bullies, nosey parkers and "quasi political" control freaks.
@adamastorBassBar Ironic, that you would call someone who leaves their child's body intact 'control freaks.' Since you're circumsized, and you think the sex is so fantastic, you can't possibly make a comparison between the two. If foreskins were unnecessary, evolution would have eliminated them. Similarily, if God designed us in his image, that would be admitting that God made a mistake. No matter how you slice it, it's built that way for a reason. Appendix used to be considered useless too,
@Tzara86 You are control freaks: you get off on interference in other people's family affairs. I'm not displaying anger, but you certainly are: just listen to you! You're just an FFF - fascist foreskin fetishist - that gets off on trying to marginalize anyone who doesn't tow your 'party line'.
@adamastorBassBar You can't handle the truth. You were mutilated, probably without your consent. As I've stated, you're not going to find anyone on this video to support you, and you certainly wont change beliefs here. You refuse to listen to 90% of what I say, and continue to try and justify your own irrational beliefs. It's called cognitive dissonance. Each man has a HUMAN RIGHT to say what happens to his body. INFANTS cannot speak. Infant circumcision is more facist than those against it.
@Tzara86 "You can't handle the truth..." First of all, don't presume to tell me what's in my mind. "You refuse to listen...." You actually haven't informed very much at all, only stated and restated your own misconceptions and prejudices. Don't quote "trendy" psychology to me - it won't wash. Human rights? Oh please! Go to China, N.Korea, Yemen, Syria, Burma et al, stand on your soapbox about HR, come back( if indeed you are lucky enough to be able), then presume to lecture the rest of us on HR.
@adamastorBassBar Mutilating infant genitals is NOT a family affair. That is why female circumcision has gained so much attention. Let's also not forget, this new mother ASKED for our opinion. AND she made the right choice. It's not her body to go cutting up :)
@Tzara86 You insist on calling the operation "mutilation". It is not - it is enhancement. The word is circumcision: and it's quite normal. Yes she did ask our opinion, and there were plenty of people recommending CC as well. I didn't actually reply to the new mother, I replied to another poster making an outrageous comment at the time. "AND she made the right choice" Who's getting shouty & self-righteous now? Btw female circ is totally different. So mind your own business.
@adamastorBassBar Female circumcision is far from different. It is my business to share truthful information with those who may be misinformed. You site circumcision as normal, again, because you are biased. You have been cut. Have you learned about the function of the foreskin? Probably not, because then you would have to admit that you are missing something important.
@Tzara86 I know what I've been "told" about the foreskin, (and not just from the unfriendly anti-circ sites of late, of which there are many) but also from friends who weren't done, and problems they have had. I'm quite capable thank you, of making my own mind up, and I know I'm lucky that my parents chose the procedure for me. No horrible, smelly, flangy bit hanging off the end thanks.
@Tzara86 "What cc removes:........." Yeah yeah yeah, I've heard all the hype before and read it a score of times on YT and elsewhere by people like you who take it upon yourself to "re-educate" people. Where do you get off?
The frenulum is not necessarily completely removed: I still have mine. My glans has always had natural colouration, there are still many feet of blood vessels left on the shaft and glans: hey, if I had any more sensation, I'd be walking around with a glassy look on my face
@Tzara86 (2) To say that the immunological system is removed is just plain nonsense: CC decreases the chance of penile cancer, genital warts and yeast bacteria due to build-up of smegma (yeuchh) ! Lastly - it is spurious to claim that either length OR circumference is reduced by circumcision: it's medically impossible.
@adamastorBassBar You've got a very limited control group, and your personal study doesn't hold water considering they could just be telling you what you want to hear. If you're hygenic (never met a boy who didn't enjoy washing himself in the shower :P), smegma is easily cleaned away. Also, smegma is present in all mammals. It's not a cause for concern. And yes, the foreskin does have immunological properties, despite what circ advocates would have you believe.
@adamastorBassBar Penile cancer studies in the U.S. did show higher rates amoung uncircumsized men. Though, the same studies, when applied in other countries where circumcision isn't the culture, penile cancer rates were actually lower overall. So, I don't think penile cancer has much to do with the foreskin, and more to do with something underlying (diet, perhaps?). It's also worth noting that cut men are a global minority. In countries where it's not the culture, women prefer uncut men.
@adamastorBassBar "hey, if I had any more sensation, I'd be walking around with a glassy look on my face" Again, the foreskin covers the glans during everyday life, which prevents direct sensations, also protecting from thickening over time. You wouldn't be walking around getting glassy, unless you wanted to... that's a whole nother topic. As time goes on, you'll realize that your glans aren't as sensitive. That smelly bit is actually erotic, if clean, for experienced women; /watch?v=xu6y4CbJkEg
@adamastorBassBar Women who claim sex is great with a cut male, or that it simply looks better has been only exposed to such. It's proven that a cut penis will draw female lubrication out of the vagina with the ridge of the glans. The lack of moisture combined with the abrasive ridge of the glans creates excessive friction. Intact, the foreskin collects behind the ridge of the glans to create a buffer. The frenulum also acts as a thrust inhibitor which forms a natural thrust to clitoris.
@Tzara86 "Women who claim........" Nonsense! I've slept with one or two women who have only had CC'd partners (probably because they didn't want to go elsewhere) but the majority of women I've known who have experienced both have preferred cut guys (and I don't think they were just being kind) or have simply not indicated a preference - you know: I don't actually poll them on this issue when I'm intimate - I have better things to do - but the ladies who have remarked have come out in favour.
@adamastorBassBar It's common sense, if a girl doesn't wash daily, it'll not be a pleasant odour. Though, if she does - there is still a "smell," which isn't at all offensive. An intact, clean penis has the same non offensive odour. The only scent from a cut penis is the sweat from the pubic and scrotum, and then, of course, the precum. The fact that there are estrogen receptors in the foreskin, which need to be further studied, is extremely intriguing to me. There's more to it than looks.
@adamastorBassBar with risks of rupture. Yet, they didn't go removing all new born appendices. So where is this unbiased, logic and reason in this circumstance? Before you go into an arguement with guns ablazing because you've experienced circumsized intercourse, you'd do well to do your own research on the other side of the coin to be able to defend your opinion in a coherent manner. You wont be very persuasive otherwise. Sorry, the ladies of this generation don't believe everything fed to us.
great update congratulations finding out the gender how exciting .
moving is such a pain I hate moving .
I love your videos you inspire me all the time .
circumcision - its really such a personal choice between the mother and father everyone will have a different opinion do whats right for you and your family the only advice i have is do lots of reading up about it the risks and the benefits so then you can make an educated decision :) good luck moving and ill look forward to your next updat
When your start talking about amputative surgery, it's not "Risks" vs. Benefits anymore, it's LOSS vs. Benefits.
For example, if we're talking about cuttining your fingers off, we shouldn't worry about the risks of the surgery going wrong, etc, but what the LOSS of those fingers entails. You'd want to know what the fingers do before you remove them.
So look into what the foreskin is, what it does, what's it's function. THAT is most important!
Beautiful tube top and a big beautiful bodies!!
drrckyee 6 months ago
HUN, just a quick question, just coz Im a big girl too, but still under 100kgs, my midwife told me I couldn't have an ultrasound till 22 weeks, to find out the sex, coz of my weight, she said they wouldn't be able to see anything! I was so offended, I never had that problem with my daughter! Did they mention anything like that to you, or have any problems during the scan? coz the hospital booked me in at 20 weeks, so im going with that, stuff the midwife!!!
YoungAussieFamily 8 months ago
@YoungAussieFamily change midwifes! what a horrible thing to say. We had our scan at 20 weeks. They can still see its just not as clear due to the "extra layers". The only "problem" i had was some of the ultrasound techs were a bit insensitive but who cares lol. You will be fine, there shouldnt be any trouble at all. Keep me posted on how you get on :)
overweightpregnant 8 months ago
hey i hope that your move went well and that you are ok
linypcos 1 year ago
Hi there! First of all, congrats on your little boy. I know you're wondering about circumcision. Many people argue that it's wrong and makes sex less enjoyable. I can promise you, when your son is in high school and becoming intimate, he'll thank you for circumsizing him. It's social suicide not to be circumsized, trust me. I'm a high school girl, nobody knows it better than me.
Physically, it may feel better for him to keep it, but emotionally, he'll be tormented continously. Plan ahead!
MyxJunkxIsxYou 1 year ago
congrats on ur wedding and the baby boy! I really appreciate your updates. I have a question for you...have you experienced any insomnia during the pregnancy so far? I'm only 17 weeks now and am having the hardest time sleeping through the night.
AfroPufChic 1 year ago
@AfroPufChic thanks the wedding was awesome. i dont really have any trouble sleeping so far. the only time i will take a while to get to sleep is when i have slept during the day. i normally just stay up until i am quite tired so iam really ready to go to sleep, regardless of the time. thanks
overweightpregnant 1 year ago
Congradulations! Having a baby is such a wonderful thing and I can see you are going to be a great mom. Take the whole baby home. When he arrives he will be perfect and wont need any body modification. When he grows up he can choose all that for himself. Good luck with all the joy and challenges ahead!
yogabear1962 1 year ago
I'm very glad someone decided to make a pregnancy follow story for us plus sized women! Thank you! And congratulations on your baby boy!!
DesireAnn 1 year ago
Most of the world is intact.
Foreskin feels REALLY good.
He WILL know about the info that was available when he was born, and he will resent it if you don't trust HIM to make the decision for HIMSELF about HIS own body when he is older and has the info THEN available. Adults choose genital surgery all the time (mostly vasectomy, only about 2 in 1000 intact adults choose circumcision). He's assured to get a better cosmetic job later - if he is one of the few that chooses circumcision.
TLCTugger 1 year ago 2
If you're not sure, just leave him intact. He can always decide to do it on his own later in life if he wants.
SomeRandomAhole 1 year ago
thanks for making these videos I am 17 weeks and 1 day I am having a boy too :)
congratulations and I will be watching
IwillLoseTheWeight 1 year ago
hey i meant to ask u.. did u have any problems with the angelsounds device u got.. i ordered one today and after ordering it i read where people who were heavier had alot of problems using it. was this true for u ?
nmr1987 1 year ago
@nmr1987 hiya, nope the very first time i used it i could find the heart beat. it sounds a bit yucky but you gota lift up your tummy and do it under your tummy. cos the baby is down real real loooow.
overweightpregnant 1 year ago
I recommend checking it out for yourself. Watch a video of a circumcision. You'll probably decide right away.
Or, search youtube for "Dr. Dean Edell circumcision," its a great overview.
Carolinew6462 1 year ago 2
Greetings, from Germany!
Good that you do reflect on the very issue, in due time!
From my personal experience I can state that there is nothing wrong with the PrePuce. Please respect and appreciate the bodily entity of your precious offspring, and do not let anyone do anything with that most intimate part of his! UNLESS for immediate, demanding medical rasons (as applies for any part of the body).
I cross my fingers for you! And for HIM!
kleenex3000 1 year ago 5
i had it done when i was 18 and my experience is that being circumcised is better and that its better done at birth to avoid all the hassle of surgeries as an adult. defiantly find a good doctor and make sure hes done as a baby. i personally would never leave my son uncircumcised, its just not that good to have a foreskin, there's no sensation difference and its cleaner. :D hope that helps.
procircaustralia 1 year ago
congrats on a boy! and as far as the cirumcision goes it a personal choice for you and your hubby i'd say but from my experience i'd do it young, my lil bro had it done at 13 an he hurt so bad he couldn't walk for like 5 days he hated it he wish my mom and dad would have done it when he was a baby but my dad was aginst it, i'd rather do it to my son as a baby when he wont remeber it, but thats my opinion.
cherrivontease 1 year ago
Circumcision is the surgical removal of the most sexually sensual part of his penis. It's a barbaric thing to to to anyone without their consent.
There is a lot of good information available to any mother who wants to protect her son's genital integrity. Follow your instincts. Don't let anyone touch his penis. Your relationship with him will be best if the maternal infant bonding is not interrupted with the sexual violence of circumcision.
Bonobo3D 1 year ago 2
@Bonobo3D Don't interfere with this lady and her family choices.
adamastorBassBar 7 months ago
@adamastorBassBar This is a public discussion. People who think they need to cut off part of their child's genitals for whatever nonsense excuses need to hear the truth, just as parents who think beating their children is therapeutic need to here sane voices of dissent.
Genital cutting of children is another violent and barbaric assault. You will have far happier relations with your children if you do not beat and cut them.
Bonobo3D 7 months ago
@Bonobo3D No it isn't, it's a very simple operation, provided your doctor and medical backup is competent. I never even mentioned the issue of beating your children! I think you're possibly the sort of woman who likes to stand on street corners with a placard like an everlasting 1968 student: no sane parent thinks beating their child is therapeutic ! (for either party) but sometimes errant children do need physical correction in cases of extreme indiscipline.
adamastorBassBar 7 months ago
@adamastorBassBar A "simple operation" performed without need or consent that sometimes ends in total ablation of the penis or death.
Bonobo3D 7 months ago
@Bonobo3D Very very occasionally it does unfortunately, but only when the medical competence of the practitioner is hugely questionable. Then it becomes a different matter.
adamastorBassBar 7 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Dr. Christopher Fletcher of St. Vincent's Hospital of Santa Fe New Mexico says that unreported complications of forced infant circumcision that impact adult sexual function are well over 50%.
RoseFink 7 months ago
@RoseFink With all due respect, can there be SO many incompetent doctors/practitioners in the state of New Mexico?? If they aren't being trained properly then surely that is a health problem for the appropriate state legislature? If practitioners are NOT being trained properly because the powers that be oppose the practice and deliberately withold funding for training, some fault must be laid at their door. After all, there is obviously a demand for the practice.
adamastorBassBar 7 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Judging by your defensive nature, is it wrong of me to assume you're circumsized? There is too much information available now pertaining to the actual function of the foreskin to ignore this problem. The time where we could call it an unnecessary flap of skin have come and gone. If you were circumsized, I feel badly for you. I feel badly for all victims of circumcision, and they ARE victims. Having a large portion of genitals removed without truly knowing it's function is sick.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 Of course I am! I'm a gentleman. But then judging from your channel uploads, you probably don't understand such a concept let alone agree with it. I'm not defensive at all, and nothing I've posted would give you reason to think so. I doubt you would "feel badly" for anyone so don't give me that b-s, and don't patronise.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar If they had used this same logic across all human organs, we'd all have had our appendix removed at birth. Now they know, it's not as useless as they initially thought :)
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 You can NOT prove anything : all you have is your pathetic working-class bias. Let's cut through (sic) the crap!
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar My channel uploads? I have none. If you're referencing what I've favourited, you're more sick than I first thought. Look at you loading off on all these people commenting here. Sad. If you want to claim that we cannot prove anything, than likewise, neither can you. The crap's apparently already been cut through ;) No pun intended. Please note, no amount of anger you display is going to bolster your opinion, nor will it change ours. Foreskins forever!
Tzara86 3 months ago
@RoseFink Fletcher is wrong..........and is contributing to an anti-circ media bias.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Please visit the Global Survey of Circumcision Harm to view photos of the life altering consequences of the severe harm of circumcision forced upon infant and children, and the adults they become.
Congratulations to all parents who do the research and respect the rights of all infants and children to a basic human right, bodily integrity.
Bonobo3D 3 months ago
@Bonobo3D Anyone can post 'statistics' that seem to further their cause if they look hard enough. Stop quoting from nocirc.com and other dubious sites and do some unbiased research yourself. Btw I've never met any of the "adults they become" you are so keen to quote: everyone I know who has had CC is glad they were done as RIC
as it's a much simpler operation done in infancy. I have all the integrity I need a a happily circumcised man! And the sex is awesome!! QED
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Photos (not statistics) of damage from mild to severe done when the healthy genitals of a baby are sacrificed to a parent's distorted notions of "normal". Skin tags, skin bridges, uneven scarring, pitting, bent shafts, way too much skin removed, chunks of the glans missing, these are not statistics these are photos of lives ruined by this form of child genital abuse.
The penis with foreskin has a moving part providing pleasure for both the man and his partner.
Bonobo3D 3 months ago
@Bonobo3D Unfortunately, there sometimes are cases where procedure has gone wrong but the percentage figures are way less than 5%: that, of course, is misfortune that shouldn't happen. When it does, it's usually down to lack of skill by the doctor. There should therefore be more education and support to the medical studies undergone by practitioners, but when certain health bodies withhold these funds because they are against CC on spurious "medical grounds, then surely they are culpable.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Sounds like you've looked at this situation a lot and work hard at spreading bullshit about circumcision. I smell a circumfetish troll.
"Lack of skill by the doctor" is severely detrimental to the lives that affects, especially when the so called "doctor" was ignoring medical ethics and operating on a child's sex organs without need or consent..
Why don't you take your sexual mutilation fantasies elsewhere, away from mothers and young children?
Bonobo3D 3 months ago
@Bonobo3D Ho ho, that hit the mark! Yes, I have: I put my case calmly and factually (and admit that occasionally mistakes do occur) but put a reasonable case for education and proper training rather than anti-bias, and what happens? You start spitting your bile as you cannot cope with logic, and resort to ad hominem attacks. I have absolutely no "fantasies" whatever (....ok, ok, maybe Jessica Alba) but you and your kind are cyber bullies, nosey parkers and "quasi political" control freaks.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Ironic, that you would call someone who leaves their child's body intact 'control freaks.' Since you're circumsized, and you think the sex is so fantastic, you can't possibly make a comparison between the two. If foreskins were unnecessary, evolution would have eliminated them. Similarily, if God designed us in his image, that would be admitting that God made a mistake. No matter how you slice it, it's built that way for a reason. Appendix used to be considered useless too,
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 You are control freaks: you get off on interference in other people's family affairs. I'm not displaying anger, but you certainly are: just listen to you! You're just an FFF - fascist foreskin fetishist - that gets off on trying to marginalize anyone who doesn't tow your 'party line'.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar You can't handle the truth. You were mutilated, probably without your consent. As I've stated, you're not going to find anyone on this video to support you, and you certainly wont change beliefs here. You refuse to listen to 90% of what I say, and continue to try and justify your own irrational beliefs. It's called cognitive dissonance. Each man has a HUMAN RIGHT to say what happens to his body. INFANTS cannot speak. Infant circumcision is more facist than those against it.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 "You can't handle the truth..." First of all, don't presume to tell me what's in my mind. "You refuse to listen...." You actually haven't informed very much at all, only stated and restated your own misconceptions and prejudices. Don't quote "trendy" psychology to me - it won't wash. Human rights? Oh please! Go to China, N.Korea, Yemen, Syria, Burma et al, stand on your soapbox about HR, come back( if indeed you are lucky enough to be able), then presume to lecture the rest of us on HR.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Mutilating infant genitals is NOT a family affair. That is why female circumcision has gained so much attention. Let's also not forget, this new mother ASKED for our opinion. AND she made the right choice. It's not her body to go cutting up :)
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 You insist on calling the operation "mutilation". It is not - it is enhancement. The word is circumcision: and it's quite normal. Yes she did ask our opinion, and there were plenty of people recommending CC as well. I didn't actually reply to the new mother, I replied to another poster making an outrageous comment at the time. "AND she made the right choice" Who's getting shouty & self-righteous now? Btw female circ is totally different. So mind your own business.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Female circumcision is far from different. It is my business to share truthful information with those who may be misinformed. You site circumcision as normal, again, because you are biased. You have been cut. Have you learned about the function of the foreskin? Probably not, because then you would have to admit that you are missing something important.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 I know what I've been "told" about the foreskin, (and not just from the unfriendly anti-circ sites of late, of which there are many) but also from friends who weren't done, and problems they have had. I'm quite capable thank you, of making my own mind up, and I know I'm lucky that my parents chose the procedure for me. No horrible, smelly, flangy bit hanging off the end thanks.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar What circumcision removes: Foreskin, Frenar Band, Gliding Action, Meissner's Corpuscles, Frenulum, Dartos Fascia, Immunological System, Lymphatic Vessels, Estrogen Receptors, Apocrine Glands, Sebaceous Glands, Langerhans Cells, Natural Glans Coloration, Length and Circumference, Several feet of Blood Vessels, including the Frenular Artery and branches of the Dorsal Artery and Dorsal Nerves. Restorable, if desired: Foreskin, gliding action, length/girth and natural coloration.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 "What cc removes:........." Yeah yeah yeah, I've heard all the hype before and read it a score of times on YT and elsewhere by people like you who take it upon yourself to "re-educate" people. Where do you get off?
The frenulum is not necessarily completely removed: I still have mine. My glans has always had natural colouration, there are still many feet of blood vessels left on the shaft and glans: hey, if I had any more sensation, I'd be walking around with a glassy look on my face
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@Tzara86 (2) To say that the immunological system is removed is just plain nonsense: CC decreases the chance of penile cancer, genital warts and yeast bacteria due to build-up of smegma (yeuchh) ! Lastly - it is spurious to claim that either length OR circumference is reduced by circumcision: it's medically impossible.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar You've got a very limited control group, and your personal study doesn't hold water considering they could just be telling you what you want to hear. If you're hygenic (never met a boy who didn't enjoy washing himself in the shower :P), smegma is easily cleaned away. Also, smegma is present in all mammals. It's not a cause for concern. And yes, the foreskin does have immunological properties, despite what circ advocates would have you believe.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Penile cancer studies in the U.S. did show higher rates amoung uncircumsized men. Though, the same studies, when applied in other countries where circumcision isn't the culture, penile cancer rates were actually lower overall. So, I don't think penile cancer has much to do with the foreskin, and more to do with something underlying (diet, perhaps?). It's also worth noting that cut men are a global minority. In countries where it's not the culture, women prefer uncut men.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar "hey, if I had any more sensation, I'd be walking around with a glassy look on my face" Again, the foreskin covers the glans during everyday life, which prevents direct sensations, also protecting from thickening over time. You wouldn't be walking around getting glassy, unless you wanted to... that's a whole nother topic. As time goes on, you'll realize that your glans aren't as sensitive. That smelly bit is actually erotic, if clean, for experienced women; /watch?v=xu6y4CbJkEg
Tzara86 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar Women who claim sex is great with a cut male, or that it simply looks better has been only exposed to such. It's proven that a cut penis will draw female lubrication out of the vagina with the ridge of the glans. The lack of moisture combined with the abrasive ridge of the glans creates excessive friction. Intact, the foreskin collects behind the ridge of the glans to create a buffer. The frenulum also acts as a thrust inhibitor which forms a natural thrust to clitoris.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Tzara86 "Women who claim........" Nonsense! I've slept with one or two women who have only had CC'd partners (probably because they didn't want to go elsewhere) but the majority of women I've known who have experienced both have preferred cut guys (and I don't think they were just being kind) or have simply not indicated a preference - you know: I don't actually poll them on this issue when I'm intimate - I have better things to do - but the ladies who have remarked have come out in favour.
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar It's common sense, if a girl doesn't wash daily, it'll not be a pleasant odour. Though, if she does - there is still a "smell," which isn't at all offensive. An intact, clean penis has the same non offensive odour. The only scent from a cut penis is the sweat from the pubic and scrotum, and then, of course, the precum. The fact that there are estrogen receptors in the foreskin, which need to be further studied, is extremely intriguing to me. There's more to it than looks.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@adamastorBassBar with risks of rupture. Yet, they didn't go removing all new born appendices. So where is this unbiased, logic and reason in this circumstance? Before you go into an arguement with guns ablazing because you've experienced circumsized intercourse, you'd do well to do your own research on the other side of the coin to be able to defend your opinion in a coherent manner. You wont be very persuasive otherwise. Sorry, the ladies of this generation don't believe everything fed to us.
Tzara86 3 months ago
@Bonobo3D just so you can rest at night..we didnt circumcise our son, i just wanted other peoples opinions. thanks for sharing yours :)
overweightpregnant 7 months ago
@overweightpregnant Congratulations on your son,and respecting his rights!
Bonobo3D 7 months ago
@Bonobo3D "Congrats.....and respectings his rights!" Oh, how bloody smug!
adamastorBassBar 3 months ago
Congrats on the boy! That's awesome and I love the name
LOVESOREAL25 1 year ago
Congrats on your baby boy and your half-way mark :)
mrsmarinasilva 1 year ago
great update congratulations finding out the gender how exciting .
moving is such a pain I hate moving .
I love your videos you inspire me all the time .
circumcision - its really such a personal choice between the mother and father everyone will have a different opinion do whats right for you and your family the only advice i have is do lots of reading up about it the risks and the benefits so then you can make an educated decision :) good luck moving and ill look forward to your next updat
linypcos 1 year ago 2
hey yea im expecting to get alot of debate on the circumcision topic. but i will do alot of research before we make a decision.
overweightpregnant 1 year ago
The foreskin is healthy, sensitive, functional, erogenous genital tissue.
Circumcision is painful, permanent, and non-therapeutic.
Condoms prevent STDs and HIV (and if you wear one, circumcision status is irrelevant).
BASIC HYGIENE is all that is required to keep the genitals clean. Cleaning female genitalia is far more work. Women also get more smegma than men.
Let every individual decide for their own body!
The foreskin belongs only to the individual who was born with it, not to parents.
joelface 1 year ago
When your start talking about amputative surgery, it's not "Risks" vs. Benefits anymore, it's LOSS vs. Benefits.
For example, if we're talking about cuttining your fingers off, we shouldn't worry about the risks of the surgery going wrong, etc, but what the LOSS of those fingers entails. You'd want to know what the fingers do before you remove them.
So look into what the foreskin is, what it does, what's it's function. THAT is most important!
freedom0f5peech 1 year ago 4
put yourself in his situation. Would you want your parents to cut off a part of your genitals?
drealgrin 1 year ago 8