haha, I touch my hair all the time.. especially when I'm talking about something which requires a lot of thought, or when I'm simply thinking about the meaning of the universe XD or something...
@andrassygilicze If you feel that offering her your coat is presuming too much since you barely know her but you see that she is cold and you are not and therefore could spare your coat for the moment, you can ask her whether she would like to borrow your coat since she is cold and you don't need it at the moment. Asking is not presuming too much and it shows that you are observant enough to notice that she's cold.
@Roseluvie Are you shy yourself? Anyhow what level of shy do you mean? Shy guys come in different levels. There is a high level, medium level, and low Ievel shy. I think the shy guy you are mentioning is the medium level shy guy the one that will respond to you normally without the nervousness if you open/ approach him. Trust me I'm a guy and at least half of the men out there will respond normally. Most men are just shy to approach a stranger.
@Roseluvie Hm, complicated. A man with a good self-esteem should - if he's somehow attracted to you - have no problems, to react on you, if you try to develope eye-contact, give him a smile and so on. I'm a bit shy on my own, and for me those things make it a LOT easier to approach a woman.
Most women either are to shy on their own, to give us a look or are just staring, without smiling. That's also not cool. Regular shy men need a certain assurance before aproaching a woman
but ofcourse you need to know some 1 before you can tell how they are you cant generalize all wiman or men in a couple of rules those dating gurus give
My female friends say the same thing when we talk about about flirting, pick ups and behaviour/body language.
Once you factor in how they respond to things that YOU do it means that canned approaches can get very mixed results. A better way is to simply show your personality in a fun, interesting and positive way. (By positive I don't mean you can't use sarcasm etc. rather that you should not make yourself seem undesirable).
another great video from u sir. It's great stuff to know and experience only makes us guys better at it (the dating game that is). I always approach a date with a carefree yet, conservative attitude and it never fails me. Sometimes I notice that it can actually work against a fella though.
I really appreciate your video advice alot! But on this episode however, you got me a little bit more confused about women now because I used to think when a woman fixes her hair quickly when I make my eye contact, she maybe interested, but now I am not so sure! LOL! Keep up the great work!
this is so true. thank you for this, many people dont reliaze that all women are different, and not to judge based on ones actions thinking we are all the same
haha, I touch my hair all the time.. especially when I'm talking about something which requires a lot of thought, or when I'm simply thinking about the meaning of the universe XD or something...
theNeverangel 1 week ago in playlist More videos from arkady39
Ohhh i agree do a video on shy guys! I have that problem with guys that are shy a lot!
janelane64 9 months ago
This is 100% TRUE. Same applies for men too. Thankyou very much for this :)))
lilscsey85 11 months ago
@andrassygilicze If you feel that offering her your coat is presuming too much since you barely know her but you see that she is cold and you are not and therefore could spare your coat for the moment, you can ask her whether she would like to borrow your coat since she is cold and you don't need it at the moment. Asking is not presuming too much and it shows that you are observant enough to notice that she's cold.
injaley 1 year ago
you are so right. :)
crystaal008 1 year ago
Your confidence and focus is so sexy :)
malibu64 1 year ago
I've watched this vid so many times and still haven't understood it 100%...
makaiev 1 year ago
can you make a vidd anything to help a shy guys out
SHADOWS113 2 years ago 20
@SHADOWS113 get some confidence. only u can help urself motherfucker.
JoeCaliforniah 5 months ago
So true! Hey, do oyu htink you could make a video for girls about dealing with shy guys?
Roseluvie 2 years ago 23
@Roseluvie why would u want to deal with a shy guy anyway? I thought shy guys r not attractive lol
bennyagp 1 year ago 2
@Roseluvie Are you shy yourself? Anyhow what level of shy do you mean? Shy guys come in different levels. There is a high level, medium level, and low Ievel shy. I think the shy guy you are mentioning is the medium level shy guy the one that will respond to you normally without the nervousness if you open/ approach him. Trust me I'm a guy and at least half of the men out there will respond normally. Most men are just shy to approach a stranger.
RussX5Z 1 year ago
@Roseluvie im a shy guy and many girls like that.
kolocho7777 1 year ago
@Roseluvie shy guys dont exist. they are not worth dating cos they have tiny dick, and bad breath. you shuld only find Alpha male. remember Alpha.
JoeCaliforniah 5 months ago
@JoeCaliforniah Alpha is another word for Duchebag in human society.
shakimaro 5 months ago
@Roseluvie Hm, complicated. A man with a good self-esteem should - if he's somehow attracted to you - have no problems, to react on you, if you try to develope eye-contact, give him a smile and so on. I'm a bit shy on my own, and for me those things make it a LOT easier to approach a woman.
Most women either are to shy on their own, to give us a look or are just staring, without smiling. That's also not cool. Regular shy men need a certain assurance before aproaching a woman
pocketdynamo87 4 months ago
It simple TO YOU because you're intelligent.
The world could use more intelligence.
TABULOUS1 2 years ago 5
There is a fine line that defines a woman,
but ofcourse you need to know some 1 before you can tell how they are you cant generalize all wiman or men in a couple of rules those dating gurus give
jea740 2 years ago
yeah , some "field videos" is a good idea, but again, it would seem more like a 'game' or 'business' which might not be that appropriate
sravankcm 2 years ago
My female friends say the same thing when we talk about about flirting, pick ups and behaviour/body language.
Once you factor in how they respond to things that YOU do it means that canned approaches can get very mixed results. A better way is to simply show your personality in a fun, interesting and positive way. (By positive I don't mean you can't use sarcasm etc. rather that you should not make yourself seem undesirable).
BobfromSydney 2 years ago 2
indeed nice words and welcome back
SkyBlue4bluesky 2 years ago 4
I think you should make videos on your approaches...
I think it would help us alot more
Sekreto619 2 years ago 3
i agree completely :-)
mienchen07 2 years ago
When are we going to see some in field videos then?
spanishjointdos 2 years ago 3
thats damn true, i never see him test his own advice. they might sound good to the ear but its not proven to work.
ezname1234 2 years ago 2
thanks!
NOSFERATUalu 2 years ago
always good advice
mrsneeky 2 years ago 3
good advice
lasercromSD 2 years ago 3
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chachee99 2 years ago
finally a video, it's been a while!!
Blizzard500 2 years ago 2
Great videos
CabirTheVirus 2 years ago
You are 100% correct.
People should be skeptical of dating gurus who give rule-based advice: "If you do this, then this will happen."
bamatommy 2 years ago 4
Hi Arkady. Great talk. Thank you.
catfishmudflap 2 years ago 2
Anyways good advice Arkady. So true too.
danlfc1983 2 years ago
keep doing your thing.
moonsoonmenu 2 years ago 2
your advice is always so simple, yet so true.
manuelschindler 2 years ago
Eh, this is commonsense. who of you are from the so cal area and could use some more real-life girl getting tips?
pimpstar232 2 years ago
im from norcal..lets hear it pimpin post a vid
smokesar 2 years ago
thanks Arkady!
asianbumz 2 years ago
Your videos always show up right after I stop dating a woman. True story.
Mr96tears 2 years ago
another great video from u sir. It's great stuff to know and experience only makes us guys better at it (the dating game that is). I always approach a date with a carefree yet, conservative attitude and it never fails me. Sometimes I notice that it can actually work against a fella though.
kdjfnvjvd 2 years ago
I really appreciate your video advice alot! But on this episode however, you got me a little bit more confused about women now because I used to think when a woman fixes her hair quickly when I make my eye contact, she maybe interested, but now I am not so sure! LOL! Keep up the great work!
fvgotch 2 years ago
You must have a lot of women all over your TURKISH penis, huh mate?
Where are you from?
artnwityr 2 years ago
lol
xdrugzbunnex 2 years ago
Who is Turkish?
Arkady is Russian I think.
danlfc1983 2 years ago
This guy is always so right.
crudemood 2 years ago 2
that's true, sometimes I flirt with my hair on purpose..other times I just fix it.
btw, what's your educational background? is it like psychology?
julia2334 2 years ago
this is so true. thank you for this, many people dont reliaze that all women are different, and not to judge based on ones actions thinking we are all the same
alvi18118 2 years ago
you are a pimp in the real world
BboyGrimm 2 years ago 2
You are right, women like to distinguish themselves from each other.
darksideofthenation 2 years ago