Are Sexual Fetishes Bad? How About Kinky Sexual Fantasies?

[stormysolomon]

No one in this video or commenting seems to understand that there is a whole sub culture of people heavily into BDSM and D/s relationships, for instance I am a Mistress to My girl katrina in a 24/7 Domme/ slave , relationship and both parties are consenting and we still work like a normal relationship and love each other more than most non D/s relationships W/we have seen. My point is that fetish and BDSM is not all about sex and pain.

[Raptor232]

He says to get help if your fantasies and fetishes affect your family, wife, etc.

But, what about those of us who are honest with our fantasies and fetishes but are single and can't find someone who will accept us for who we are?

It sucks, trust me...I have a fetish for women with extemely long hair, the longer the better in my opinion, and despite being 27 years of age, I'm still single because all the women I've been with think that my aforementioned long hair fetish is weird,

[jambrandon531]

i have a fetish for subwoofers

[Cashify]

Wow, this video is outstanding! Would you mind if I mirrored it on ShamelessNetwork?

[verdunburnett]

I got hurt while driving a car once... I haven't stopped driving

[BleachBlack8811]

In a word, yes. They are. They are closely tied in with porn in regards to warping people's expectation of sex, IMO.

[MAJORAUTO]

lol how funny is this? I have a hypnosis fetish!

[brettski34]

me too! I think of it as BDSM for nerds. It also has the advantage of being neither painful or dirty

[dragonfistking17]

bondage is totally normal,the sm part,not a fan of it..

[Patriot177689]

I love Indian girls is that normal? Like i was having sex and my girlfriend was tight and when I got deep in there i was grinding it. Then she had her body shaking because of the feeling is that good? How do I find her g- spot?

[zackincarbonite]

direct her to a man that knows how to have sex. then, go back to masturbating to beastiality porn.

[Chicago10281]

Who else thinks sexual fetishes are bad?

[PrincessKLS]

Is it abnormal to be vanilla. I'm not 100% vanilla when it comes to my fantasies but if you do have a preference for vanilla sex does that make you weird?

[WickedG5150]

vanilla?? i dont understand. please explain.

[PrincessKLS]

Vanilla means your sexual activity taste is very traditional (sort of anti-fetish affair) and generally considered boring.

[WickedG5150]

haha.. awesome. i learned something. thats very interesting and I have never heard of that before. So i am not at all VANILLA. haha Hit me up sometime. later.

[erererer2]

iv never told anyone but i have a fart fetish it turns me on when girls fart

[terrytibbs10]

whatever floats your boat mate

[gnnrdluv]

thats weird but cool

[badspike]

a fart fetish...LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!

[kinkynerd]

"not intrinsically negative or destructive" woohoo! sign me up!

[jambrandon531]

i love music blasting the bass arouses me

[StalkingAlucard]

Yaaaaay! ^^ Hear hear!

[44sd44]

he says get help if it affects your family,wife,etc.

what about people who are honest with their fetishes but are single and cant find someone who will accept them for who they are?

its a bitch,trust me

[shay2707]

i know what you mean....

[STALKERX9]

I would love to be (raped) by a (nice) girl.

[iparho08]

i have a pantyhose fetish since my teens- it's wonderful and sexy. I love the feel of nylons

[AlvinSevillethemunk1]

hello

[LordReserei]

four words...Bondage Domination Sadism and Masochism, and D/s (Dominant and submission)

me and my love are into that and do a lot, sometimes in IM, over webcam and even on the Metaverse Second Life.

we're long distance

[famous142536]

YEAA bdsm

[GBGummyBearsGB]

i have a sexual fantasy.. its me and my boyfriend ONLY! we dont do any think kinky in it.. theres some fore play (lots) and obviously S3X but im like.. well erm.. 13ish.. and i dont know if thats good for me because well hes all i think about school and i some times find my hands where they shouldnt be in lesson.. :S Help me Please???

[rovert333221]

if you watched the video, they said that fantasies are NOT a bad. so don't worry. as long as you don't make these fantasies true, you should be fine. :) 13 is young for sex. that's why fantasies are ok. ;) just keep the sex part out and you'll be fine. :D

[GBGummyBearsGB]

lol how do you keep sex out if you can have it tho lol

[GBGummyBearsGB]

**Cant

plus i want it to come true (even know) but im gonna wait till over 16

[rovert333221]

good choice. :) you could get in trouble for having it at 13. :P just saying.

[rovert333221]

well, lol she is only 13.

[Karumii]

Trust me, that boyfriend of yours is doing the same thing.

[GBGummyBearsGB]

thanks :)

[pebi86]

you call it harmless???

[DanAndJenn]

Call what harmless?

[llamagurllovesx]

Chrome dome is awsum! lol

[mikeywido2007]

bald guy hahaha

[heartofthelocus]

i love sex

[Bobzeaux]

The only sexual fetishes that are "bad" are those that hurt either you or your partner. Other than that, how is a fetish different from a sexual preference, or favorite position/act?

[SpaceSolar]

A fetish is clinically defined as being unable to reach orgasm or, in extreme cases, even experience sexual excitement without having the object of the fetish present (or using it, or whatever applies). That would be the technical difference.

But nobody expects the word to constantly be used to the highest level of scientific exactitude. Therefore, this video works, achieves a good aim and makes sense. :)

[meestahwill]

I agree with Paul. As long as the fetish or fantasy is 'healthy' it should be OK. BTW, I love me some Dan and Jenn!

[borntobelegend]

their not bad until someone gets hurt

[DanAndJenn]

That's just it - if we're talking about consenting adults and nobody gets hurt, then it's all good.