this is my favorite song by the Avett brothers:). The first time i was sitting in my dads car and he put the album emotionalism then die die die then shame.i was amazed when i herd the balled of love and hate. I love some love songs like hey there Delilah. I would recommend it
I think the song implies that we are all guilty of playing the part of Hate at some juncture in our lives, but in spite of this Love forgave us and persisted with patience and understanding. The least we can do is acknowledge this and see how undeserving we are, and replicate the beauty of this seemingly illogical cycle that happens in our peculiar little existence.
@yaknbo Well... Yes. Everybody WOULD. Circumstantial. As soon as the roles are reversed, there's a completely different significance involved and the entire meaning of the song might change. If not the entire meaning, then the entire way the listening public would interpret it. Changing the gender roles would be too out of the ordinary and unexpected to go ignored and without significance.
I love Seth he has the most amazing voice I have ever heard! Such a beautiful song! I just found the Avett brothers a few months ago thanks to an amazing man.. Idk what I did without them:) Thank you so much Ben!!
I don't understand how anybody can dislike this. It is seriously shocking to me. I understand people have diferent tastes, but this is honestly the most beautiful song I have ever heard...
I miss when you could go to an Avett's show and actually enjoy the performance of a quiet and beautiful song like this without some morons yelling "woo" for attention every other second. It's understandable for some parts of some songs, but people need to sit back and take in a performance like this.
Love always forgives and even says, so what it's okay (even though it shouldn't be) because Love will always love in this song unconditionally. 5:20 to 5:50 kill me.
"And Love has been waiting patient and kind - AS ALWAYS!! - Just wanting a phone call or some kind of sign that her other half who's out of his mind will make it back save to her arms."
The Avett Brothers are the most heartful soulful band that kills your heart when this is in heartbreak or makes you soar when in love.
This is a wonderful video of this song. From his voice I would say this was pretty far into a long show. Still a great video but anyone hearing the song for the first time should listen to him sing when his voice is fresher. Either way, it makes me a little misty.
@hopulikit22 You made this comment months ago, but I'm adding the phrase "cornbread hell," into my everyday speech. Just thought you should know that I'll be unabashedly plagiarizing you.
@OmniaVincit414 I wish that I could claim the phrase. I heard my grandad say it occasionally. I guess it's along the same lines of "WTF". Glad you enjoyed it!
Ironic that a song about addiction has addicted me to this band. :)
Is he losing his voice as in throat cancer, or just having a raspy day during this show? Love the raspiness - it just makes this the definitive version.
I realized one day that things that are considered vocal flaws sometimes actually make a person's voice more human and interesting. Take Emmylou Harris - her voice cracks a lot, but that's one reason I love her singing so much.
@bumerry no, they played a helluva show the night before (or maybe 2 nights) in greensboro, and still managed to come to chapel hill to blow the roof off of the building; his voice was raspy because he probably lost it from rocking greensboro...where do you get throat cancer?
@wooderson316 You should listen to the version on their recently released Live Volume 3. It is really really good. Both of these are wonderful, but, I like that version better.
Your teacher sounds pretty cool to me! Sounds like maybe he's made an Avett Brothers fan out of you. I never had an English teacher who would have played The Avett Brothers in class! If you haven't already, check out some other videos from these guys. I have a bunch on my favorites list. They are an amazing band and absolutely AWESOME to see live. I was actually lucky enough to be at this show :-)
This was just 2 days after their WILDLY loud crowd in Greensboro for the Halloween show. It was a previously unscheduled stop in the middle of a busy tour. I'm surprised they had ANYTHING left after G-boro! This was still a great show though.
hell yeah greensboro!!?! thats where i'm hailing from. this town is full of people who fuckin LOVE them! its in almost everyones ipod, cd collection, computer files, etc.. I can't believe i missed it though! i think i was playing a show of my own last halloween :[ I would have loved to see them though
incredible video and sound editing.
cydna1981 1 week ago
This song is the most beautiful thing I have ever known. I never get sick of it, can't wait to see the brothers in Wichita.
kamaddox1 3 weeks ago
thumbs up if you've ever been in love <3
dancerdaniboo 4 weeks ago
I feel like the young man in the taxi.
gobogeek 1 month ago 2
at 4:12 the video/song is at it's best!
kmkrazyk 1 month ago
Makes me cry every time.
whosgotthekitty 1 month ago
Love this version. very raw
jbaldoze 1 month ago
this is my favorite song by the Avett brothers:). The first time i was sitting in my dads car and he put the album emotionalism then die die die then shame.i was amazed when i herd the balled of love and hate. I love some love songs like hey there Delilah. I would recommend it
calebostmo 2 months ago
I think the song implies that we are all guilty of playing the part of Hate at some juncture in our lives, but in spite of this Love forgave us and persisted with patience and understanding. The least we can do is acknowledge this and see how undeserving we are, and replicate the beauty of this seemingly illogical cycle that happens in our peculiar little existence.
ZachMaximus 2 months ago 6
@ZachMaximus Nice song and I love the A brothers, but why man, hate and woman, love? You should have lived my life.
yaknbo 3 weeks ago
@yaknbo circumstantial roles.
giganticky 1 week ago
@giganticky No they aren't. Everybody would depict or portray it like that. BS.
yaknbo 1 week ago
@yaknbo Well... Yes. Everybody WOULD. Circumstantial. As soon as the roles are reversed, there's a completely different significance involved and the entire meaning of the song might change. If not the entire meaning, then the entire way the listening public would interpret it. Changing the gender roles would be too out of the ordinary and unexpected to go ignored and without significance.
giganticky 1 day ago
I love Seth he has the most amazing voice I have ever heard! Such a beautiful song! I just found the Avett brothers a few months ago thanks to an amazing man.. Idk what I did without them:) Thank you so much Ben!!
thunderlilly1777 2 months ago
Still so amazing!
wassupdoc319 2 months ago
i would do anything to see this band live
thebean2012 3 months ago
@thebean2012 you'll see them! or you won't. whatever.
ryanoathpradaforce 2 months ago
Saw them last night! No concert will ever compare :)
LaurenFarrXOXO 4 months ago
never before have i had such a powerful emotional response to a song, after it ended i broke down in tears, truly beautiful.
infamousalex 4 months ago 2
Unreal. God damn I love this song. It kinda clears your head. Thanks for the tune chap(s).
tomodeg 4 months ago
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stalkerowl 5 months ago
dont cus but they are really good
calebostmo 2 months ago
I don't understand how anybody can dislike this. It is seriously shocking to me. I understand people have diferent tastes, but this is honestly the most beautiful song I have ever heard...
jabaker77 5 months ago
why watch a video to just dislike it? those 8 people are idiots...
MissRuberToe 5 months ago 2
This song actually gave me goosebumps the first time I heard it live.
gorgiapeach 5 months ago 4
The eight people that disliked this video, need love.
jcroft8297 6 months ago 5
I miss when you could go to an Avett's show and actually enjoy the performance of a quiet and beautiful song like this without some morons yelling "woo" for attention every other second. It's understandable for some parts of some songs, but people need to sit back and take in a performance like this.
willplaygitr4food 6 months ago 3
So amazing
wassupdoc319 6 months ago
This song cuts like a knife for those of us who have played the character of hate in our own lives.
Imurapologist 6 months ago 41
@Imurapologist Complelely.
appompa255 4 months ago
@Imurapologist well said , i was just thinking that but didnt know how to phrase it really
going to see them here in my home town of tulsa 4-13-12
zappalaney 4 weeks ago
just beautiful ... nothing more to say
Shitwalkerify 6 months ago
I. am. changed. I endeavour to be the love Seth sings about.
wuthering72 6 months ago 3
I first heard this song at URJ Camp Newman from an amazing songleader who is obsessed with these guys and now i am too.
Danificationize 6 months ago
The verse starting at 4:00... bone-chilling.
mrgander44077 6 months ago
I may have just found my new favorite band. You can't make music more pure and honest than this
Master0fPuppets231 6 months ago
Chills.
romanthemusician 7 months ago
I love that every line doesn't rhyme.
I love that his voice cracks sometimes.
I love the raw screams.
I love the side-comments.
just pure fantastic.
TINLTL606 7 months ago
i saw these guys last weekend. it was amazing and i was crying
HAMBAMM 7 months ago
wow how long did it take to grow that beard man its frigen amazing
cheyennenoack 7 months ago
Never been that tough.
grizlybrad 7 months ago
7-2001-422-504
great tune
quint1977 7 months ago
The six people who "dislike" this have never been in love.
dnicho10 7 months ago 20
These guys are by far the best!!! all there songs have so much meaning and if you cant relate to any song of theirs then well your life is empty
JKVK33 7 months ago
When I grow up, I want to be like the Avett brothers.
dgallen88 8 months ago 5
I agree, there is nothing more to say.
AlisongsLA 8 months ago
Why isn't there a "love" icon? :D
SarahC68100 8 months ago 5
sooooooooooooooo goood
diddly28 8 months ago
5 people have facial hair growing deficiencies
luigi442 8 months ago 5
It was hard to hear through my weeping.
deckgg 8 months ago
This song moves me to tears
alybat1995 8 months ago
This must have been an amazing concert. You can tell by the underlying raspiness in his voice as he sings! Awesome!
BigGunsBates 8 months ago
I think this might be the most perfect song ever written.
PrettyFallDown 9 months ago
The beautiful art of songwriting at its BEST.
janedimeskipp 9 months ago
They're so cute :)
Costamermaid 9 months ago
And the clock in the kitchen is slow...
753willyo 9 months ago
this song is perfection
mscaro881 9 months ago 3
Seth says he's a big fan of Paul Simon, and you can feel/hear it in this song. I imagine if Simon has heard this song, he loves it. Beautiful stuff.
colincoby 9 months ago in playlist Johnny Flynn, Laura Marling, Avette Brothers, Arcade Fire
WHY AM I CRYING
hideandcreep 9 months ago 4
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LoveaaKarmenaa529 9 months ago
Stunningly beautiful !!!!
ellenfar 9 months ago
Absolutely stunning !!!!!
ellenfar 9 months ago
5 people had their computers upside down when they clicked the like button!
woodmaj 9 months ago 5
The whole song is the best part of the song. <3 :O
ItsJessicaMyLove 10 months ago 6
Love has been waiting patient and kind. As always.
AveryHenryMusic 10 months ago 3
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n0shytsh3rl0ck 10 months ago
that was AMAZING!~!~!
TheVeedubb 10 months ago
i love that his voice as scruffy as his face.
eloyart 10 months ago
I have been both Love and hate in my life lets hope i am never the taxi driver.
TheBreakneckspeed 10 months ago 2
So tough... haha
EvanSchmeits 10 months ago
What a song. This one played at a very important point in my life when love and hate battle it out for my soul. Thanks for posting.
Trex8137 10 months ago
i think 3 people need a hug:)
tva71071 11 months ago 4
amazing. just brilliant. makes me weak each time.
TheJosieFine 11 months ago
amazing. just brilliant. makes me swoon each time.
TheJosieFine 11 months ago
We all know this song is really about the taxi driver. ;)
Fucking magical. =D
nocreamnosugar 11 months ago
Fucking magical. Always gets me.
*tear*
Feldman4Lyfe 11 months ago
I feel like taxi. hate's a prick
StringMaster94 1 year ago
Raw.
jakegodek011 1 year ago
I can't handle the lack of timing. Love the song though.
thegreatmisanthrope 1 year ago
2:37
larrybob33 1 year ago
everything after 7:10 sucks ass!!
brodank 1 year ago 5
Changed my life.....just now.
OnlyMarissa511 1 year ago
awesome...no more needs be said
thelimogirl1 1 year ago
Three people can't grow beards.
MarcusTheCous14 1 year ago 3
Love always forgives and even says, so what it's okay (even though it shouldn't be) because Love will always love in this song unconditionally. 5:20 to 5:50 kill me.
"And Love has been waiting patient and kind - AS ALWAYS!! - Just wanting a phone call or some kind of sign that her other half who's out of his mind will make it back save to her arms."
The Avett Brothers are the most heartful soulful band that kills your heart when this is in heartbreak or makes you soar when in love.
tessthefirst 1 year ago
why am i smiling and crying? why avett bros why?
Heather3126 1 year ago
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Weak. Seth has written some way better songs
jumpkenny 1 year ago
@jumpkenny Have you listened to the lyric's you idiot? Prick
joeyismyname221 1 year ago
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jrspring85 1 year ago
oh GOD if this song doesn't punch a hole in your heart, I dont think I want to know you.
stephanurse 1 year ago
This simply gives life a reason to live and a reason to grow, to trust, and to care.
bmcmahon2009 1 year ago
I like the part from :00 to 7:09.
JDzombaK 1 year ago 7
whoever disliked this has no heart
shlatsky 1 year ago 4
@shlatsky Right before I read your comment I was going to say whoever disliked this has no soul. One or the other I guesse. :)
azuman7 1 year ago
best band ever
33jmt33 1 year ago 2
This is a wonderful video of this song. From his voice I would say this was pretty far into a long show. Still a great video but anyone hearing the song for the first time should listen to him sing when his voice is fresher. Either way, it makes me a little misty.
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sexykatie90 1 year ago
If Aliens asked us about who we are.....this song would tell them all they need to know.......
86753094U 1 year ago 69
@86753094U
You know, that's one of the most insightful comments I've ever read............ever.
hamstersniffer 1 year ago
my friend text me and told me I needed to fix the problem of not having heard this song. consider it fixed, justin. and yeah, I cried too.
musicmakr27 1 year ago 3
My compliments for the guys from cirquevideo. What a perfect registration. What a beautiful song from the avett brothers. I like it
oudeterp 1 year ago
"what in the cornbread hell"? That's a damn classic
jpcedotal 1 year ago
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One dislike?!? What in the cornbread hell did they not like?
hopulikit22 1 year ago
One dislike?!? What in the cornbread hell did they not like?
hopulikit22 1 year ago
@hopulikit22 You made this comment months ago, but I'm adding the phrase "cornbread hell," into my everyday speech. Just thought you should know that I'll be unabashedly plagiarizing you.
OmniaVincit414 1 year ago
@OmniaVincit414 I wish that I could claim the phrase. I heard my grandad say it occasionally. I guess it's along the same lines of "WTF". Glad you enjoyed it!
hopulikit22 1 year ago
anyone out there agree we hear some shannon hoon in this voice .......whatever !
zappalaney 1 year ago
absolutely beautiful
jerh7806 1 year ago
holy crap
spinasweetness 1 year ago
the album version just doesn't compare to the live version. 4:12 and 5:41 <3
dontcutyourhair 1 year ago 2
Brilliant. Simply brilliant.
jmg1972 1 year ago
True Love > Hate.
thanks for posting
revpgesq 1 year ago
oh my god the best version EVER. soo beautifulll hes amazinggg
<3
LiveLoveAlive 1 year ago
whats he playing it in?
jm5dg 1 year ago
@jm5dg Standard with halfstep down, capo on 4th
fhrgomez 1 year ago
Chills from 2:25 to 2:57....the entire damn time!
chrishickie 1 year ago
I want to fall asleep in his beard and never wake up.
Seriously.
BreatheRadio 1 year ago 53
i want to go to there.
twofsandtwogs 1 year ago
its amazing how he can say so much with just a few chords and his voice.
its so emotionalll
that's 567809485609976567 times better than most singers these days.
yellowliver21 1 year ago
chills at 5:18.
davbowz 1 year ago
these guys are amazing!
72487mb 1 year ago
<3 this!
prettyxsuffering 1 year ago
GOOSEBUMPS AT 4:15. SO GOOD !
SHELLO776 1 year ago
Inspiring to say the least.
ACueStickband 1 year ago
Beautiful...
invalidcolors 1 year ago
oh my god I love everything about the avett Brothers
kittygoldfish 1 year ago
this song makes my balls clap
jayfunk13 1 year ago 4
@jayfunk13 mine too
skcin7 1 year ago
thanks for posting this, the avett brothers are incredible!
brandnewdayfilms 1 year ago
goosebumps and lump in the back of my throat. holy shit, what a performance.
Can't wait to see them June 1st in Toronto
MattWoo1981 1 year ago
@MattWoo1981 THEY WERE IN TORONTO ON JUNE FIRST? Fuck, that was my birthday..... that would have been a hell of a birthday :(
IveGotAwesomeness 1 year ago
unvelievable. this band is incapable of bad performance
navokcar 1 year ago
God, that was beautiful.
eddplant 1 year ago
Yeah, it makes me cry, too. Pretty sure it's about addiction.
grrl77 1 year ago
love this song
095koso 1 year ago
There are not many songs in the world that bring you to tears every time you hear it. This is totally one of those songs. Genius.
wendilin622 1 year ago 3
@wendilin622 HAHAHA TEARS?!?!
095koso 1 year ago
@095koso Its beautiful. Such a wonderful story told so poetically. I'm not talking about a floodgate of tears, just a few glistening ones :-)
wendilin622 1 year ago
This is what music sounds like.. Totally got me hooked
McDania 1 year ago
rip what??
brodank 1 year ago
RIP
JuniperSprouts 2 years ago
what you mean by rip???
dmbfan95 2 years ago
4:12 is the best part.
dmbfan95 2 years ago 65
they played it the last show I went to, one of my favorites. "Hope fills his eyes!" Blew me away
bziggy2889 2 years ago 4
@dmbfan95 correct. absolutely correct.
Dropthemittens 1 year ago
@dmbfan95 0:01-7:09 is the best part
jakesakook 1 year ago 2
@dmbfan95 got chills
mcstratpnk 10 months ago
@dmbfan95 I think you're wrong. 0:00-7:09 is the best part!
sunicorn123 10 months ago 5
@dmbfan95 0:00 - 7:09 is the best part
xFaLLeN28 9 months ago
Ironic that a song about addiction has addicted me to this band. :)
Is he losing his voice as in throat cancer, or just having a raspy day during this show? Love the raspiness - it just makes this the definitive version.
I realized one day that things that are considered vocal flaws sometimes actually make a person's voice more human and interesting. Take Emmylou Harris - her voice cracks a lot, but that's one reason I love her singing so much.
bumerry 2 years ago
@bumerry no, they played a helluva show the night before (or maybe 2 nights) in greensboro, and still managed to come to chapel hill to blow the roof off of the building; his voice was raspy because he probably lost it from rocking greensboro...where do you get throat cancer?
flyersfan10 1 year ago
I could sex you for posting these videos.
irvingjohn 2 years ago
Probably the finest video work I have ever seen on you tube and the song is wonderful
danielc121162 2 years ago 2
1:31 "So tough" and seth looks RIGHT into the camera!! awesome
brodank 2 years ago
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grrl77 2 years ago
This made me cry at work, hehe. Could totally relate. Reminded me of a past relationship.
grrl77 2 years ago
"As soon as he sees her, hope fills his eyes!"
Best part!
Hopelesshope3 2 years ago 4
@Hopelesshope 3
I knew you'd like that line.
scaldabanco357 2 years ago
this song gives me chills
nackalack 2 years ago
ud think he woulda started tuning his guitar earlier lol
kon48823 2 years ago
He may have but strings have this habit of hating whoever is playing and coming unwound during a show
Epi2Gib 2 years ago
the definitive version of this song
wooderson316 2 years ago 55
@wooderson316 You should listen to the version on their recently released Live Volume 3. It is really really good. Both of these are wonderful, but, I like that version better.
SpartanKaleb 1 year ago 3
Oh wow. I think the fact that he is losing his voice gives more punch to the song.
I just gotta say, we are proud to have these boys from Concord.
Brilla4724 2 years ago 2
Your teacher sounds pretty cool to me! Sounds like maybe he's made an Avett Brothers fan out of you. I never had an English teacher who would have played The Avett Brothers in class! If you haven't already, check out some other videos from these guys. I have a bunch on my favorites list. They are an amazing band and absolutely AWESOME to see live. I was actually lucky enough to be at this show :-)
jcpegg 2 years ago 2
i love the lyrics to this song. they're really special and beautiful. i've only discovered the avett brothers, they're magnificent
chsmustang2007 2 years ago
Beautiful song <3
i8gilbertgrape 2 years ago
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Love this song so much
Tinx518 2 years ago
his voice sounds kind of raspy in this video...
codered003 2 years ago
Yeah, and in spite of it he's still doin a great job on this one.
poguemahone1969 2 years ago 4
This was just 2 days after their WILDLY loud crowd in Greensboro for the Halloween show. It was a previously unscheduled stop in the middle of a busy tour. I'm surprised they had ANYTHING left after G-boro! This was still a great show though.
jcpegg 2 years ago
hell yeah greensboro!!?! thats where i'm hailing from. this town is full of people who fuckin LOVE them! its in almost everyones ipod, cd collection, computer files, etc.. I can't believe i missed it though! i think i was playing a show of my own last halloween :[ I would have loved to see them though
ginjeda 2 years ago
it gives off this incredible, intimately raw, sound. i mean he really knocked this out of the park.
davemum 2 years ago 4