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  • i fucking love her

  • People say, "don't change for anyone". I say, never make changes that don't make you happier. At least that's my opinion, based on my person experience.

  • this video sort of made me feel a lot better, cause I can relate,

    and you made me see it in a different way,

    youre amazing, and gorgeous,

    thanks <3

  • youre gorgeous, just keep putting yourself out there!

  • its really too bad you don't women...because i'm pretty sure you'd be the majority of my list..you're gorgeous, you're sassy, you're dorky and when i'm in portland this summer visiting my friends i am going to look for you on the bus, cause girl, i gotta meet you! plus i have friends i think you need to know

    kat

  • Hey, Your video broke my heart......You are beautiful and you are worth so much more!

    It's truly his loss...NEVER settle. *hugs*

  • You made me tear up! You are so beautiful and inspiring. Any boy that tells you he couldn't love you, is an idiot!!

  • You're awesome :)

  • so true. i just can't believe that a lot of people in the world are so closeted to what the media says.. its not all about glamour and sex and perfection ...fuck that! ..never change girl your so beautiful :)

  • dont ever change your self dear, You will find mr right , as you are so cute and very lovable, they were not worthy of you, think of it that way, you need to love you with your whole heart and soul and the rest will follow, trust me I have been there and I was 545 pds and had tons of chasers , but until i accepted me and all that I did not find someone , and now that i am skinny (which sucks) i am alone again feeling like you and must change the stinken thinken , smile and have a pink rainbowday

  • you are too adorable! and you will fo' sho' get the man of your dreams one day!

  • you're so inspiring. thank you so much..

    you're also absolutely GORGEOUS! <3

  • You're an amazing, beautiful woman...and honestly, you deserve the best. I hope you find it... I hope *he* wakes up and realizes how awesome you are. *He* being the proverbial list guy :)

    <3 to you!

  • you are perfect just the way you are and so completely amazing and if a guy you like can't accept you for that, screw him!

  • There is nothing wrong with you it is something wrong with them.

    The right person come along and rock your world, cause you are an amazing woman, and are just right the way you are.

  • Well firstly, you were seeing two different people. Obviously, neither of these guys were the living end for you, and had you thought the magical spark was there you would have dropped one. Secondly, just because they ended it doesnt mean there's something wrong with you - maybe its precisely the opposite...they don't know what they're missing out on!! KEEP STRONG and remember that you're a great individual.

  • dont be so down! Believe me you have SOOOO much to offer that one lucky guy!just by seeing ur vids i see that ur amazing! ur beautiful, smart, funny, honest, insightful, creative and your laugh is so adorable! when i watch you i dont see a fat girl i see someone with charisma and a genuine love of life. Because of your confidence i think men may think your're too good for them and you are. Cheer up maybe ur mr right has some growing up to do before he's ready to deserve you HUGS!!!!!!!

  • I had a bunch of dickheads like that in my life too.Don't give up. I didn't give up and I found someone when I least expected it. And I found a great guy who really loves me and he treats me better than any other skinny girl's boyfriend! Don't give up. It takes time for everyone; fat/skinny/pretty/ugly. Finding the perfect person takes practice.

    And the way that I see it, all those other douches only make you appreciate a nice guy better. And they teach you what you really want out of a man.

  • I commented on another video saying I never thought I couldnt get a boyfriend. I have been rotund my whole life and I always knew I could get someone. I was approached alot. Very shy yes, but confident enough to own my presence in society. I am married right now and he loves everything about me. Maybe if you would stop thinking it wont happen or get to a point where it didnt care it will definitely be a pleasant surprise. When I wasnt looking it fell on me.

  • Here's some advice. Don't take it as luck finding a boyfriend. Just have fun and if they want to leave, just put it on a list and check it twice.

    You're tempting me to tell my story.

  • Don't settle, kiddo. We all deserve to find that someone who is right for us. Who loves us for us - and whom we love for them. So much of what you said struck a chord with me. Amazing video.

  • I think its really difficult to know the difference between settling and being truly content when you're someone who doesn't get a lot of attention from the opposite sex (or the same sex if that's where your attraction is). I mean, how are we supposed to know the difference -at least for awhile? Don't feel like you're alone.

  • The person who is right for you will love you for all the things you are and accept you with all the things you're not. Love does happen for big girls- I'm proof. I have been married for 8 years to an amazing man. Keep sending out positive energy into the world and great things will happen for you. Keep being your awesome, unique self.

  • LOVE this video. I so appreciate you sharing your thoughts and feelings. I've been really sad the past could days because I feel really alone and invisible. And I'm not a huge valentine's day person, but this week it was just a reminder that i've been alone for so long...i don't even remember what is like to--anyway, I feel a lot of resentment and pressure from my close friends about having these feelings and its nice to have you express them, i don't feel alone or crazy, or pathetic, so thanks

  • i also hate it when men make you question yourself. i think for most the way it starts is the guy having commitment issues. then we dont ever realize that was the main problem. we think it us. then we ask all those bad questions. "am i fat? do i talk to much? am i too passive?" when the guy hears these things they start running for the door. as if it was too much to ask to be honest. these days i dont even let it get there. i want to focus on the good things about me and make them better!!!

  • ok so i am gay man. i am a big guy. there is this guy at work that likes fat guys. he has a fat boyfriend and still hits on me. its odd that someone hits on me in the first place. but on another level this guy doesnt even know me that well. i want to be loved/wanted for who i am not what i am. i think this is something that is very diffcult when it comes to men. what they see tends to be what leads them or change their minds.

  • Love this video! Your my fav! Someone is going to be so lucky to have you. Now that that jerk is out of the way you are one step closer to finding mr. right!

    P.S

    WHAT KIND OF HIP HOP MUSIC DO YOU LIKE!?!?

  • PREACH!

    Hope you find EVERYTHING you're looking for. You deserve it. :D But in the meantime, remember that everything happens for a reason or else there'd be a whole lot of crazy crap going on for nothing. It's gotta be for something!

    <3

  • Thank you for talking about this! I feel like I am going through the same thing. Loved this vid!!

  • wow i really think we would get along if we ever met. too bad im stuck in texas. haha. for real tho.. i can totally feel everything you said in this video! i had one of those guy friend kinda more not really sure what to call him things too. and he ended up rejecting me.. and it sucked even more cuz he said at the end of it all.. im more like a sister to him. -___- REALLY?! UGH. =/ anyways.. yea. totes love you! and its not us.. its them. maybe one day they will get their shit together! :D

  • I have to echo other comments here to not settle. It doesn't matter what your body type, that you are a good person, caring and giving, funny and smart, the whole package...if a man doesn't want you...it ain't you, girlfriend...IT IS HIM!

  • You are incredible! Dude, so many guys would be absolutely lucky to be with you. I'm in love with everything you said in this video.

  • This video is AWESOME!! Thank you so much for opening up and telling us about your experiences. I was watching this and nodding the whole time because I feel the EXACT SAME WAY about so much. I've been settling with people for so long and trying to change because I ask myself all those questions too. Seeing someone as AWESOME and GORGEOUS as you dealing with the same issues and self-esteem questions I've been dealing with made me realize how hard I am on myself. You rock. LOVE you! <3

  • I am coming to think I'll just never understand men. And it totally isn't you, it's THEIR problems blamed on you... Never settle and you WILL find someone, I'm determined we all can. Hearts!

  • Hi, I'm a long time watcher of projectlifesize and I just want to let you know that this video was exactly what I needed right now.

    You know, I'm slender/average and meet lots of guys who like my body type but don't fall in love with me. Its been a long road towards learning that its not something I'm doing wrong and I don't need to change who I am. I'm not quite there yet but getting closer! I think you're wonderful, love this video, and wish you lived in Canada so we could be friends.

  • I heart you. Big time. And anyone else that doesn't isn't worth the skin they're in.

    xoxo

    gretch

  • OK, I lOVE, LOVE this video. I feel this way all of the time and go through this with guys I start to "see" all the time. Sometimes it takes a minute to step back and re-evaluate yourself as the strong sexy ass woman that you are. DO NOT SETTLE! I know it's way easier said than done, seeing as I do too...bbbuuuutttt, one day that guy will come for you, and me, and it sux cuz we unfortunately have to wait for it. But good things come to all that wait!! Good Luck!! <<<333 ya!!

  • Rejection BLOWS...

    You my dear are amazing...and when it is meant to be, it will be!

  • Don't settle. You seem like an amazing person to be around, and I would keep putting myself out there if I were you, and you will find someone that likes you for the right reasons.

    Personally, I am happier alone than I am in relationships where I feel like I am settling.

  • when i said i will never love u from him saying it its like my heart broke T_T. I feel the same way about when guys dont like me i feel like im a bad person or i act to much like a guy cause im a tom boy and nerd

  • I have zero advice to give. I did want to say though, give yourself props for putting yourself out there. Some of us don't even do that.

    dunielle

  • I think you are amazing and I like your head and I have been where you are soooooo many times. I'm not going to tell you the cliche things that eveyone says, but know that someone out there (me) thinks you are phenom!!!

  • Oh please. You are beautiful and funny and I would die to spend time with you.

    Please don't change.

  • you are fabulous!!

    if i guy doesnt see how great and intelligent of a person u r, then something is wrong with him. dont change urself!! u wil find ur one true love out there!!! i promise haha :))

    ur perfect the way u r!!!

    dont settle anymore! u deserve better

  • you are so beautiful and amazing!

  • I have a really hard time expressing how much you saying all of this means to me...but IT MEANS A LOT. In CAPS. I almost cried as you were talking through it all, because I feel exactly the same way. Except I don't even put myself out there to be rejected. I'm terrified that I'm going to be alone forever. I'm still in that place. It's an ugly spot to live. I wonder ALL the same things as you. Fuccccckkkkk! It blows!

  • slowthetrain...ditto!!! It's so nice to come on the channel and hear that other real life girls are going through the same thing besides you and the circle of girlfriends you might have!

  • Listen, im big, wear a size 5x, and ive dated guys that like big girls. Heres the thing, they say they like big girls, bigger the better, then they dont hang around. It sucks, i totally understand what your going thru cuz ive gone thru it too. It seems like they want a big girl in the bedroom but a "normal" girl on their arm in public. I think they secretly want a big girl that is submissive and quiet and weak. Not outspoke, not outgoing. Is it because they want to control us?? Hard to say...

  • I love you, you're my favorite. (:

    & the fact that you're Mexican also helps, cause I am too! :D

  • I love this video. We have so much in common.

  • You will find somebody!

  • I'm going through something similar. I to had my own skinny white boy who likes fat chicks, but he told me that he only wanted to be friends after a few weeks of "seeing" each other. It really IS a strange feeling to be rejected by someone who you thought WOULDN'T reject you. I'm dealing with all of the same feelings you are, and it really sucks.

  • you should never settle because then you will end up in a relationship that you don't want to be in and ur unhappy but of course you need to realize that you might not get a mister perfect. like you love every little thing about him but he farts or something lol you need to find a balance of everything that's best. and i think ur pretty freaken awesome and i don't think you should change for some stupid idiots lol love you

  • you deserve better, youre obviously too good for him anyway. youre beautiful no matter what :] x

  • Well I know what my Saturday video is going to be about

  • Not to sound super creepy but if I was a guy I would be all over you girl.... you are so freakin cute, every thing about you girl is adorable.

    Okay attempt to not sound creepy = fail

  • u dont need to settle for that u r right ! u r beautiful! :)

  • you are truly and honestly one of THE MOST GORGEOUS people i have seen (:

  • Aww, I like you just the way you are!

    It is tough! I came out to L.A. and found this whole community of people who liked bigger guys, and my confidence skyrocketed. Then after about 6 months of just attention for my body, I said ok, now about me?

    Now that my confidence is at leveled out to a nice "I love me" status, things be happy!

    Love yourself first, anyone after that is just a treat! (>',')> Kirby Hugs for you!

  • I think u r beautiful! He must have hit his head at some point or been possessed by the spirit of stupid! *hugs*

  • maybe I think you're like one of the most gorgeous people I know.

    sorry to hear about the boy.

    skype me sometime if you need to vent.

    <3<3<3<3

  • I lovee you. And never settle for anything, you can have someone you want, who wants you right back.

  • How can someone say that they'd never love someone? Is he Sylvia Browne?! NO!

  • sisterfriend.

    this video...is my life. i'm not glad that someone feels the same way, but it is nice to know i'm not alone.

    you are beautiful and funny and smart and motivated. these guys, they just aren't right. eventually you will find a person that you DON'T have to settle for, and that will love you and not just be around.

    you deserve better.

  • Beer and Frozen Pizza over All-Star game? ::buzzer::

    You are so right. You don't deserve or need to settle for that. Rock on!

  • i was in the same place as you asking "what is wrong with me..?" it sucks when you get into that place...

    But what fixed it for me was stopping and stepping out of my "box" with the limited view and saw that there is nothing wrong with me!

    it was other person who couldn't see past their own ignorance and selfishness to see that they hurt someone completely innocent!

    I wound up forgiving them for this error and since then have taken preventative measures to ensure that it won't happen again!

  • you are amazingly beautiful and i admire you for putting this out there :)

  • stupid little white boy!

  • youre so pretty :) nice lolipop! xx

  • I think your awesome. Obviously, these guys are stupid.<3<3<3

  • Thanks for This Crystal :) You did well Thanks for Sharing!!

  • my friend is exactly like that sshe questions herself and because she is overweight ( not fat at all i dont like calling it that i say like big girl haha)she will never have anyone which is wrong there is someone out the for everyone doesnt matter what u look like its whats ur like on the inside....its just depressing...i got diched on valentines day :D i got my revenge though

  • SAY IT GIRL!!!

    It takes girls so long to realize this, reguardless of weight! You put it so well! awesome!

  • This is exactly how I feel. I want someone to say I love and loves me in return.

    I want someone who loves me the way my body is but not only because of the way my body is.

    You're always so good with expressing the way you feel. I wish I could be more open this way.

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