onision: Rape apologist and slut shamer but NOT a rapist!

[ChristyCorruption]

Pressuring is still a form of sexual abuse. It's still not respecting her saying no. IT'S STILL WRONG.

[YesIamJames]

@ChristyCorruption Of course it's still wrong BUT IT'S NOT RAPE.

[ChristyCorruption]

@YesIamJames it may not be specifically rape, but it's still victimizing someone sexually.

[InfiniteWhizBang]

Greg is a self-absorbed twat. He makes videos like the "rape apologist" video to sell the idea that he is a super sensitive guy. It's really just an acting exercise from an attention seeking narcissist, hoping maintain his (mostly) teen girl following. 

[wolfforce58205]

Ya know people, if the girl in question doesn't want to report Onision as a rapist, no one should pressure her in to doing so. That can be damaging to the psyche just like being coerced into having sex can be. If she wants to say Onision is not a rapist, then there, straight from the horse's mouth, right? We may think otherwise, but we weren't there, we weren't involved, who knows how it went down. I hate Onision as much as the next person, but there's plenty of other things to bash him about.

[YesIamJames]

@wolfforce58205 Exactly, I REALLY hate having to defend Onision but rape accusations from a 3rd party without evidence are completely unacceptable no matter who it is against . From some of the comments I've received on here though I think I'm going to have to do a follow up.

[jessaymack]

@jessaymack You may not think it's as harmful or violent as being attacked physically, but emotional scarring from being repeatedly manipulated into having sex, and the physical pain of being penetrated when you aren't aroused, are reason enough to call it rape by most standards. The only consensual sex is the result of an uncoerced yes.

[YesIamJames]

@jessaymack Ok looks like I'm going to have to do a response to this video.

[jessaymack]

No sir, acts of rape fall under a fairly large umbrella which include both force as well as coercion. Rape is not always being attacked in an alley, it also involved things such as being coerced. This includes things like guilting someone into sex after they said no. This includes threatening to break up with someone if they won't sleep with you. Coercion is a very powerful way to get a woman to have sex with you when she doesn't want to. Don't ignore it.

[RynTheNobody]

If someone is not ready for sex and someone pressures them into it, that is rape. Agreeing after coercion is NOT consent.

Onision is a rapist.

[Bluebelle9289]

@RynTheNobody

The girls said she felt pressured, she didn't say she was pressured and nothing has been said about her being manipulated or coerced in any way but if she was manipulated or coerced, depending on what went on - which we don't know because no details have been given - it's extreme to call it rape. It wasn't rape. From a statement the girl gave, she just said she felt rushed. Onision, however, is still a douche.

[yootesa1515]

@RynTheNobody you're implying "rape" is pressuring someone??? she herself made it very clear that this is not even a slight legal issue.... saying what Greg did was rape... is incredibly offensive to real rape victims that were actually sexually assaulted and abused.

[TruthofthePeople]

I decided to watch all videos that you made recently about onision. Great Pwnage....unfortunately you didn't pwn him. He already pwned himself with his idiotic ideals.

But great job anyways.

[IrenaPrude]

You are a Good Man. and attractive too.

[ugasziz]

@IrenaPrude 2nd that

[YesIamJames]

@IrenaPrude Thank you :)

[JustaEropeanGuy]

Well from what I've heard the girl is some kind of abused. Not living up to your standards for rape doesn't make it any less abusive and doesn't change the fact that she didn't give full consent to the act.

[checkmclassics]

@YesIamJames okay fair enough. i think most people who use that term on youtube never use it offline

[checkmclassics]

@YesIamJames but do you use that term outside of youtube? in everyday life with your offline friends?

[YesIamJames]

@checkmclassics If I really needed to yeah but usually the words "judgmental asshole" work just as well. The reason I use it hear is because most of the people interested in the Onision drama know what it means and they are more appropriate words to use.

[checkmclassics]

why do you use that word "slut shaming"? and call him a "slut shamer" ? i bet you never use that word in real life only on youtube

[YesIamJames]

@checkmclassics I'm using it because it's appropriate and Youtubers generally know what it means. He's encouraging people to look down on anyone who's had sex with more than 10 people and thinks that a "slut" doesn't have the right to say no.

[HappyAtheist76]

Good point. People should not jump to conclusions or act rash. I can agree with the girl who posted the blog that being pressured or feeling rushed is not the same as force.

[ModerateMartian]

Going by the letter she withdrew consent. "between his kisses was me going “nononononono”, and him kissing me harder to shut me up" ... "Eventually I realized I was fighting an uphill battle, so I gave up and just went with it."

[YesIamJames]

@ModerateMartian (1) Going off what she wrote O carried on after she said no to the kissing (which was certainly very wrong) then she "gave up and just went with it" which going off of her claim that he didn't rape her sounds like she must have become an active participant. From O's perspective he was certainly within his right to assume that she had changed her mind.

[YesIamJames]

@YesIamJames (2) Of course a better man would have stopped at the point she protested to the kissing and waited until she was ready and she may well have been able to charge him with sexual assault if it ended at that point. But before the point of sex itself she was going along with it without objection.

It's possible that she is lying because she doesn't want him to go to jail but that seems unlikely based on everything else she reviles about him.

[YesIamJames]

@YesIamJames (3) Regardless for a third party to accuse somebody of being a rapist without STRONG evidence or AT LEAST the supposed victim making a claim is flat out wrong.

[jessaymack]

@YesIamJames He should've stopped kissing her at no. He did not. Just going with it is not consenting, it's being broken down. I hope you'll take a few minutes to research coercion and consent, and to learn the effect that this behavior can have on a woman who doesn't want to have sex. I can tell you haven't been manipulated in this way, otherwise you'd understand the implications of the statement "gave up and just went with it"

[YesIamJames]

@jessaymack I've already started, are there any particular links you think I should take a look at?

[aqouby]

Are you still drunk??? :D

[YesIamJames]

@aqouby Nope, not even hung over :)

[TheWisemonkey8]

This manis relentless... hohohoho!