Who cares if we were abandoned for whatever reason. fuck it. people suck. life sucks..but you cant change it, or the past, so why keep bringing it up and talking about it?. take it from me.as long as you dont think about all the b.s. or focus on it youll be fine maybe depressed, but who isnt? the more u bring it up the more nights youll lie awake alone and sad. pink floyd said it best when he said he was COMFORTABLY NUMB!!!!! it beats the hell out of being full of BS emotions..
Wow. This 6 minute video has completely and forever changed how I think about my childhood and life now. Thanks a lot. I'm not sure if I can properly verbalize how much this has helped.
You want her to acknowledge her dad as if he did something grand? While I agree that her father shouldn't have stayed in an abusive relationship with her mother, I don't think it justifies abandoning his child. He should have maintained a relationship with his daughter. IF he cut off all contact with her, it IS child abandonment, & it isn't going to help her for you to invalidate her abandonment experience. Ending a marriage shouldn't require estranging your kids. They are 2 diff. relationships.
If the mom was verbally abusive to the dad, didn't it ever occur to him that his kid might take the brunt of that abuse with him gone? He left her with a woman he considered abusive, and (if he cut off all contact with his kid) he withdrew his support from her at the same time! He helped bring her into the world & WAS responsible for helping to care for her. Even if he thought her mom would be good to her, he should have maintained a relationship with his kid if he cared for her
your awesome! the best advice I have heard in a long time!
honeypot411 6 days ago
Who cares if we were abandoned for whatever reason. fuck it. people suck. life sucks..but you cant change it, or the past, so why keep bringing it up and talking about it?. take it from me.as long as you dont think about all the b.s. or focus on it youll be fine maybe depressed, but who isnt? the more u bring it up the more nights youll lie awake alone and sad. pink floyd said it best when he said he was COMFORTABLY NUMB!!!!! it beats the hell out of being full of BS emotions..
SoloArriaga 2 months ago
Wow. This 6 minute video has completely and forever changed how I think about my childhood and life now. Thanks a lot. I'm not sure if I can properly verbalize how much this has helped.
SummerLova23 1 year ago
OH MY GOD i love this THANK YOU SOOO MUCH THIS SPEAKS TO ME i feel it and i appreciate you for it thanks for posting.
hijaabiforlife 1 year ago
You want her to acknowledge her dad as if he did something grand? While I agree that her father shouldn't have stayed in an abusive relationship with her mother, I don't think it justifies abandoning his child. He should have maintained a relationship with his daughter. IF he cut off all contact with her, it IS child abandonment, & it isn't going to help her for you to invalidate her abandonment experience. Ending a marriage shouldn't require estranging your kids. They are 2 diff. relationships.
LocustCloacina 2 years ago
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If the mom was verbally abusive to the dad, didn't it ever occur to him that his kid might take the brunt of that abuse with him gone? He left her with a woman he considered abusive, and (if he cut off all contact with his kid) he withdrew his support from her at the same time! He helped bring her into the world & WAS responsible for helping to care for her. Even if he thought her mom would be good to her, he should have maintained a relationship with his kid if he cared for her
LocustCloacina 2 years ago
what the heck?? Focus on her feelings not his!! How does she need to take care of herself instead
mironasee 3 years ago 4
Another great job, Thank you Troy! I can always apply your speaking to my life :) thank you soo much.
HansRearick 3 years ago