If a man threaten that if he could choke you through a phone with an angry tone of voice. Run!! Run!!! Run!!!!! I should have noticed the controlling signs when his daughter asked if she could eat the can of mandarin oranges. Do you think this 50 year old man can ever change???
Abuse is never funny, so give you girlfriend enough respect not to even joke about it, there is no people around laughing, its just a power thing with the guy.
If the guy (or girl) is looking for power in the relationship, it will never work.
I joke about hitting my gf all the time. I've been doing so for quite some time actually. She knows I don't mean it because I've never done or intend to do that to her.
In all regard, in someone else's view we may all be psycho. But number 1 is just too open for debate. I mean, it wouldn't be sensible for a guy to outright say he'll smack you if you've just started dating.
I only said things like that after she has become aware of what I think funny. One of these days bang zoom to da moon!
i cant help but feel this video was done as an experiment to expose some of the systemic prejudice that exists against men today. a cursory review of the comments here shows tremendous support for demcad's advice yet in the video discussing women to run from, he receives backlash.
sometimes the comments from your viewers speak greater truth than your videos demcad. like i said, i think this series is a social experiment and im interested to see how it turns out.
good advice. the most important thing is that people have self confidence and a high self esteem. if you love yourself, you won't allow someone to mistreat you that way.
Great advice! Widely shared, five stars. Favorited! YouTube is great, and has made me stop whining and get my life more together. Bless you. Greetings from France.
My dad was protective of my mom after he was cheated on by his first wife, but my dad wasn't a bad man. I think some guys who want to know where their girlfriends or wives have been are just afraid of being cheated on. I think it's ok to ask people where have you been, etc. as long as it's not taken overboard.
@iloveterriers Verygood point... goes both ways, beyond gender. I always hear people exaggerating about how crazy their gf or bf is... but in fact many of them are gaslighting them. because they like the drama. in some cases i've even had women try to cheat on their hubby with me...jealous-husband-bashing to justify it. We just have to be very careful about that part, otherwise great video demcad.
I also met a guy once who was telling me how to dress, act, think...telling me my friends were weirdos, witches, etc. he then referred to his ex girlfriend as a witch, and then my friends as witches, because they weren't Christians. he is like 40 something and trying to get with 18 and 19 year old girls which was a red flag for me. he lies about his age, saying he is younger, and he thinks younger girls can be manipulated easier, he said it himself. he is one of those crazy controlling guys.
haha yeah definitely stay away from that guy- a total pervert and pedophile. surprise suprise- so many of them are on facebook and myspace, and this man is doing this exact thing on myspace. but he will get caught one day, either with a minor or harming his own kid. no 40 something should lie and say they are 30 something, seducing through smooth talk girls in their mid to late teens, just sick.
I know, but that was before all of the industries we see today...when people lived on farms and such...way too many perverts and crazies in this world to be having a 30 year old with a 15 year old...
aww I've met these types of guys who have acted like this before. there are lots of guys like this, who use women for sex , lie and say they love them...I think if anyone is telling someone what to do, and then cursing one moment over something little like a girl eating slowly or being quiet, there is something wrong with the guy. I had a been one date with one guy, who was yelling at me and shaking his head over the fact I was quiet, and kept yelling and saying your shy I don't like it.
If a man threaten that if he could choke you through a phone with an angry tone of voice. Run!! Run!!! Run!!!!! I should have noticed the controlling signs when his daughter asked if she could eat the can of mandarin oranges. Do you think this 50 year old man can ever change???
thepositivelisa 1 year ago
It is imprortant to realize that this is not a gender exclusive thing. Abusive women do the EXACT same thing.
roharatube 2 years ago
Abuse is never funny, so give you girlfriend enough respect not to even joke about it, there is no people around laughing, its just a power thing with the guy.
If the guy (or girl) is looking for power in the relationship, it will never work.
phantomcharger 2 years ago
I joke about hitting my gf all the time. I've been doing so for quite some time actually. She knows I don't mean it because I've never done or intend to do that to her.
In all regard, in someone else's view we may all be psycho. But number 1 is just too open for debate. I mean, it wouldn't be sensible for a guy to outright say he'll smack you if you've just started dating.
I only said things like that after she has become aware of what I think funny. One of these days bang zoom to da moon!
Styxorcist 2 years ago
i cant help but feel this video was done as an experiment to expose some of the systemic prejudice that exists against men today. a cursory review of the comments here shows tremendous support for demcad's advice yet in the video discussing women to run from, he receives backlash.
sometimes the comments from your viewers speak greater truth than your videos demcad. like i said, i think this series is a social experiment and im interested to see how it turns out.
nthanon 2 years ago
good advice. the most important thing is that people have self confidence and a high self esteem. if you love yourself, you won't allow someone to mistreat you that way.
misawayub 2 years ago
Great advice! Widely shared, five stars. Favorited! YouTube is great, and has made me stop whining and get my life more together. Bless you. Greetings from France.
slobomotion 2 years ago 2
True stuff!!
TheFRESHAgenda 2 years ago
My dad was protective of my mom after he was cheated on by his first wife, but my dad wasn't a bad man. I think some guys who want to know where their girlfriends or wives have been are just afraid of being cheated on. I think it's ok to ask people where have you been, etc. as long as it's not taken overboard.
iloveterriers 2 years ago
@iloveterriers Verygood point... goes both ways, beyond gender. I always hear people exaggerating about how crazy their gf or bf is... but in fact many of them are gaslighting them. because they like the drama. in some cases i've even had women try to cheat on their hubby with me...jealous-husband-bashing to justify it. We just have to be very careful about that part, otherwise great video demcad.
judutchinski 2 years ago
I also met a guy once who was telling me how to dress, act, think...telling me my friends were weirdos, witches, etc. he then referred to his ex girlfriend as a witch, and then my friends as witches, because they weren't Christians. he is like 40 something and trying to get with 18 and 19 year old girls which was a red flag for me. he lies about his age, saying he is younger, and he thinks younger girls can be manipulated easier, he said it himself. he is one of those crazy controlling guys.
prettylyricsmarie 2 years ago
Stay away from that guy.
DEMCAD2 2 years ago
haha yeah definitely stay away from that guy- a total pervert and pedophile. surprise suprise- so many of them are on facebook and myspace, and this man is doing this exact thing on myspace. but he will get caught one day, either with a minor or harming his own kid. no 40 something should lie and say they are 30 something, seducing through smooth talk girls in their mid to late teens, just sick.
prettylyricsmarie 2 years ago
Hello women used to get married at 15. So all the sudden being 18 going out with someone in their 30's is bad? GTFO
skyding8962 2 years ago
I know, but that was before all of the industries we see today...when people lived on farms and such...way too many perverts and crazies in this world to be having a 30 year old with a 15 year old...
prettylyricsmarie 2 years ago
People are people. If its ok then its ok now as far as Im concerned. Laws or traditions don't change what is right and wrong.
skyding8962 2 years ago
there are natural and universal laws created by our creator. man made laws tend to not work.
prettylyricsmarie 2 years ago
aww I've met these types of guys who have acted like this before. there are lots of guys like this, who use women for sex , lie and say they love them...I think if anyone is telling someone what to do, and then cursing one moment over something little like a girl eating slowly or being quiet, there is something wrong with the guy. I had a been one date with one guy, who was yelling at me and shaking his head over the fact I was quiet, and kept yelling and saying your shy I don't like it.
prettylyricsmarie 2 years ago
Then again if the old lady is up to no good then the old man has to cut his loses.
sonnybrakes 2 years ago
Demcad is having a lifetime subscription to Disgraced18 a sign that a man is crazy?
skyding8962 2 years ago
do you know my husband?
DrugstoreDiva 2 years ago 7
lol....No,I don't think so.
DEMCAD 2 years ago