showing his ignorance: "we're not in the middle east where women must cover their entire bodies and can only talk to their husbands" learn some culture you racist fuck
@gutenstagl Thats not racist, the taliban and other radical groups that control people and the men that go along with it enforce that. Do some research because the majority of women in the middle east, especially Iraq, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, and Iran have to cover their faces and body. The way the radicals of islam treat women is terrible. As for you, go learn some larger vocabulary words you incoherent fuck.
Greg I'm not thumb downing your video but I think you got something wrong ... I cuddle with my friends all the time .... It's nothing sexual it's just something we do ( p.s I'm snuggling with my friend serrina and drake while saying this and we're non-sexual snuggling :)
Cheating is whatever the particular person SAYS is cheating. Some people don't even care if their loved one has sex with other people, because they don't consider sex the most important part the relationship, and still are together with no problems. You ask your other what is cheating, everybody has a different definition for it.
see when i was joking with my guy friend and all like "love you!" and i never even TOUCHED him then i sent him a pic of me cuz my mom bought this shirt for me that said "ninja girl" i was a cheater. and yet when he has a pic from homecoming of his arm around his NOW GF and holds his lesbian friends had at school and when a girl says "sorry chris you know i love you" om his Facebook wall he's in the clear =) i hope karma bites him in the ass <3
@4ingP How so? Im curious. Please care to enlighten me on how women have more power in a line of all male presidants and only 16% of seats in congress?
@xAstraya You misspelled "presidents" and you should have capitalized "Congress".
Those seats don't matter. Whether they're occupied by men or women, the country will be run in a pro-female and anti-male way. For example, whenever there is a crime involving a woman, a man, and a physical confrontation, the man is assumed to be beating the woman, even if she was beating him.
Look up anti-feminism videos on YouTube, and you'll see how women are superior.
U can kiss your friends on the lips whitout cheating. Not a deep sentimenel kiss, but i quick hey, og bye kiss, i dont see anythimg wrong it. I have never done it my self, but others, i dont see the problem
Sometimes with like friends if I'm at my bestfriends house me and her will sit outside especially on cold days we like sit close and what not but that's cuz I've known her forever and were bestfriends cuz shes like my sister lol. My boyfriend is just like "you better nit do that with dudes man!" lol
Glad you added the part about saying "I love you" is okay to say in a platonic manner. My ex-boyfriend said that to some of his friends and due to my insecurities, I overreacted. I know that he only meant that in a platonic way. I learned this when I made friends of my own a few months ago and I said, "I love you guys" to them. I truly understood what my bf felt for his friends. I'm still dealing with my insecurities and jealousy issues, but I'm working on it. Your vids have helped! Thanks!
You said "cuddle with them" but I hug everybody, maybe in greeting, or in saying goodbye. Obviously not strangers, but everyone I know at a personal level, such as my friends. I'm just a very tactile and affectionate person. Cheating is a juvenile concept imho, instead I think betrayal of trust matters and that depends upon the boundaries the couple set. For me, after mutual "I love you"s, I expect sexual monogamy.
@muskndusk I feel the express need to agree about the hugging. I love and tolerate THE SHIT out of my dearly beloved friends and family members, and believe you me they wish I'd stop. D8 I hug because I loooove. T___T But I do not make out with friends and family, and I sure as hell am not letting any part of their genitalia come anywhere near mine. Call me a prude American, that's just how I am. I'm not trying to get in on THAT sweet action. @_@
I watch these videos to get an idea of what other people's opinions are. I do not agree with a lot of things Onision says, but I respect him regardless of his crude, and sometimes ignorant comments. He is one of those people who knows what they believe, but kind of expresses it in an arrogant way. I'm not watching because I like him, just because I take an interest in the beliefs of different people.
If your boyfriend, agrees to a girl that he knows liked and still does like him, and has hit on him multiple times sending him a picture in her bikini. Is that cheating? Should you be mad about that?
DUDEE!!!! Exacto mondo!!!!!! Excepthe's not going out with her anymore. But still!!! He did at some point!!! so basically he dumped a girl and is now hitting on her friend!! Is that st cheating?!!!!?!!!
I just can't....I just can't fucking take it anymore i've been lied to and cheated on so mean times and im sick of it just putting on a smile for everyone and only a few people know whats gone on people can claim to know what i've felt...feeled...and seen..The pain i felt. No one has seen me without my disguse everytime I've tried to change my ways...my looks...I got put down every time.oh i can't go on anymore. being cheated on and dumbed for a slut..just becuase i would'nt have sex with him?!
47 people at this time have disliked. 47 people clearly aren't happy in a relationship and are faking loving someone for some reason or they mixed up thumbs up and thumbs down
i agree with most of this, but i think you can cuddle with sertain friends as long as it doesnt go farther. also if your significant other is ok with you fooling around and poking your friends boob or something i dont think is a problem. otherwise doing anything else in a sexual manner from what i just said is cheating.
there is also such a thing as emotional cheating where one person hides the fact that they would rather spend time with another individual and it actually hurts a little worse because ur not angry... its just very very hurtful and no way to express it through ways such as anger
Wouldnt cheating be more along the lines of your cheating by doing something with another person which you wouldnt do if your partner were there with you as well.
@TheEngineerWilliams Then you're pretty misinformed as a middle eastern, or you are a male. I dare you, as a woman, to talk to a male who is not of your family or in any relation to you.
i think it's not cheating unless ur married.. shit happens people fall out of love ..but when u got that ring on ur finger like u ans Shiloh its real its true and never meant to be broken..
So what is everybodys opinion on the whole online "relationship" cheating type deal? For instance a friend of mine is married and yet constantly is going online and hooking up with other men online intimately and sexually in online, voice, and sometimes even webcam based relationships consisting mostly of role-play but also envolving alot of real life aspects. Is this considered cheating? Especially if she does so without her husband's knowledge?
so, onision, would it be considered "cheating" if you're a girl, and you have a friend that is also a girl, and you have a boyfriend, but sometimes you and your friend sometimes act lesbian-y ish with each other, but are completely just messing around?
I dont really think cuddling is cheating. I cuddled with my Mum when I was little, but I didn't make out with her. Cuddling is an elongated hug, and nowadays hugging is pretty much a form of greeting or appreciation.
Can cheating be unintentional? For example, there's this guy. We both know we like each other. By design, his personality is very flirtatious. He didn't know he was a flirt until he was 16, but he has told me personally he wishes he wasn't such a flirt. So when he's being himself and flirting without realizing it, is that cheating? (Assuming he has a girlfriend)
@Tygerlily179 She looks like a beautiful girl tardo, but she still looks like the female version him. Ever heard of twin brother/sisters? The opposite sex can look a like and have similar features and still dress their gender
@Tygerlily179 No, I'm not saying he looks like a girl, I'm saying that he looks like a girl I know.. He resembles plenty of men too. I think it's sexist of you to assume that I'm insinuating this, more so than for me to say he looks like a girl I know, which is completely free minded and non-sexist.
wut is ur guy's opinion on checking out other ppl? do u think that's cheating. my friend refuses to check out other girls cuz he says he feels like he is cheating. but i think that it is not an insult to your partner even if they are the most beautiful in ur opinion it is only human to notice and apreciate the beauty of others. if my significant other checks out someone i dont care. heck il look too to see if i think their hot too lol
@insane247 I don't think its cheating, because sometimes my mom says "that guy is hot!" and stuff about actors, why would my dad think she was cheating? o3o lol, your friend might just be too scared to lose his girl :3
i dont get this! why is it ok for a guy to have girls as friends and vice versa, but not when they are dating someone? the only person that it isnt ok to is the significant other. no one else ever thinks its wrong. my best friend is a guy, and he has a girlfriend. and she is ok with that. so boyfriends and girlfriends, these other girls/guys are JUST FRIENDS. STOP BEING SO POSESSIVE AND JEALOUS CUZ THERE IS NOTHING THERE!
Wait what? In the middle east women don't cover up all their bodies, in fact i am Egyptian and most girls walk on the street half naked. other than that, awesome video.
@UNF0RGIVE troll. i've been to egypt. most girls cover everything. half of them even cover their faces. i was being undressed with mens eyes and stared at non-stop just because my arms were showing
I agree w/ everything, except the cuddling. It depends on HOW you're cuddling... if it isn't super "touchy" then idt it's a huge deal (WHEN YOU ARE SINGLE) if you're in a relationship, then Idt you should cuddle w/ someone else.
Whoa-whoa-whoa... Cuddling? Really? That was the only thing I disagreed with there, cuddling can be done among friends when they are nothing more than friends and when it is understood that nothing more is wanted of said friend. My girlfriend isn't a cuddle slut like myself, so I have friends, male and female, that I cuddle with... I don't think cuddling should be listed with examples such as sex, oral, making out and so forth. My opinion perhaps, but there it is.
If u cuddle with friend's that are dudes and still like tits I are probably open to being bi or are bi and yes if you ate a girl that cuddled with ourher dudes besides you're siblings you are leading you're Guy friend on even if they say he dosent think of you that way it's still bad because you while be showing you're boy that affection unless there gay then that can slide because in a monogomys relationship you're only with that one person and lot of people don't lay down the rule's they wish
To me as long as there isnt any type of sexual stuff, being clingy, or touchy feely i dont mind if they talk and hang out. Trust, honesty, and communication is the key to help with the whole not cheating. I dont think hugging is cheating. I hug almost everybody i know whether its to say hi or bye. Or random nice hug.
I don't think it's that big of a deal at all to cuddle with others while in a relationship. I know I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend did it, as long as they weren't getting really touchy feely.
I always think about things like, "Would it bother me if my boyfriend did this?" I don't hug other boys--my boyfriend doesn't hug other girls. I talk in a platonic manner to my guy friends whom I've known even longer then my boyfriend-and my boyfriend does the same with some girls. I agree with you, Onision:)
excessive talking to the opposite gender (if youre gay then the same gender I guess) any not letting the person you're dating or whatever know what you're talking about or letting them see the conversation just makes you look bad and that you are cheating.
i won't thumbs down this video, but i do have to say that I'm very comfortable with my sexuality, and if I want to cuddle with a guy friend just because, I don't consider that cheating. Because, well like you said, it's strictly platonic. Nothing sexually derived from it. And i can still love boobies at the same time and be totally straight. :]
Hmm. I don't have a boyfriend, but me and my best friend cuddle and say we love eachother and all that, and do it quite a bit. Does that essentially make our friendship highly prone to becoming a relationship?
@AlyandEricaMusic I find it really offensive him saying that. I've grown up with my best friend and we say we love each other and cuddle/hug a lot. But I'd never cheat on my girlfriend.
@bellamuerte057 Once again, AAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! But it seems like you are just really great friends and do love each other, but not, you know, LOVE love each other. You're almost like family. You are definately not cheating.
I have so many bi and lesbian friends. People really need to back off, they are trying to be themselves and they don't need stupid individuals that are too idiotic to see them as a person and not just a weird "faggot" or "homo"
@werockthishouse123 hey, no worries. some people are just ignorant. they're just too shallow to understand that someone's sexuality doesn't define them as a person. :)
Umm... I'm a guy from the middle east... and i have equal friends from the opposite gender... if not MORE... 0:24 typical stereo typing move :/ and what sucks is that im a huge fan... But yeah.. you're right about the cheating part! (Y) :D
How is cuddling an intrinsically romantic activity? The specifics of how you cuddle can make it romantic, but I don't understand why you're assuming it has to be.
Cheating is lying, simple. Why should cheating in relationships be any different? If I'm playing chess and I move a piece I'm not allowed to, while the other guy isn't looking, I'm cheating. Or if I move a piece and lie to him that I'm allowed to when I'm not allowed to.
Either way, cheating is lying.
If you are in a relationship and you are honest about what you do with other people, its not cheating.
"Cheating is when you have a partner but you're doing sexual things to other people" cheers Einstein. I'll be sure to thumbs up your completely bog-standard description of cheating.
one thing ... im from the middle east .. and i live in the middle east ... " WE SERIOUSLY DONT COVER ALL OF THE WOMEN BODY " " girls have men friends "
we have normal life just like yours .. we go clubbing and we drink ... we do everything !!!
some people are so relegious that they cover their body ... nothing more nothing less !!
I think my ex boyfriend needs to watch this video... I've always been a mildly flirty person but ONLY with boys who I know understand that that's all it is, and respect that. He watched me for nearly four years being who I was, knowing I was only dedicated to him even though we only actually dated for TWO months out of the four years, and when we dated, I kept talking to these guys because they were my FRIENDS, but stopped flirting with them for him, and that still wasn't good enough... :(
Take it from a nerd who haven't been in a serious relationship ever, but if I would be in a relationship with someone I'd care about I would really feel uncomfortable with them talking to other men. Only a person who never cared for your relationship in the first place wouldn't mind what you're describing.
@Langsorigingaleia Well, I'm a completely trustworthy person. And he knew that. I moved away for 9 months and didn't go after anyone else. But that's just how it seems to go. My boyfriends always end up jealous and stupid. If I talk to other guys at all they always freak out. That's why I don't want to give up my guy friends for boyfriends anymore. It's not worth it to lose them anymore.
So what - you're not going to have any more serious relationships with guys any longer or are you just going to find guys who aren't jealous of you? I still believe that those you describe are probably a bit insecure and are afraid of losing you to other guys. Whenever you're trustworthy or not doesn't matter in that case since it's their shortcomings. It takes a lot of confidence and bravery to care for someone special and still be able to let them be truly free.
@Langsorigingaleia Well, for now, I feel relationships are too hard. I'm going to avoid them for awhile. I can't handle the jealousy and the controlling. I need some freedom. I made sure to always have other girls around when I was at a guy's house, I stopped spending the night a my guy friend's houses (No, I do not sleep with my guy friends. We're all strictly on a friend level), and stopped flirting, so I don't get what the problem was. Oh well. It's over. I'll find someone someday.
Women who choose to cover their bodies with hijab, nijab, a burka, etc. are not unequal to men because of that. Many of those women believe it makes them *more* equal with men, because then a conversation can be held between sexes without flirting or lust. They believe that it empowers them, and earns them respect outside of the home. While the dresscode is sometimes forced, which is wrong, it's usually quite voluntary.
dear onision i dont know what platonic means but im assuming it means not in a lover type way...example my best friend is a girl and she tells me that she loves me and i do the same because we are closer than family...about right?
I agree with the point you made about cheating. I respect you for many of your opinions, but the sarcastic laugh you made after the comment about the middle east was, not going to lie, kind of offensive. I 'thumbs-ed up' your video because of the end message, but covering the entire body is a form of modesty that some people believe is right for them and I thought you of all people should understand that kind of personal decision.
The one part you forgot to mention in terms of talking is "sexting" or other forms of erotic talk. That's not saying anything about love, but I still think it's non-platonic enough to qualify as a form of cheating.
You said earlier that its not 'real love' unless you devote their lives with them and should be hanging out with your partner, not friends, yet you say that you now CAN spend time with others? Wow.
@EmiGoesRawrr Before he said that if you are spending time with them over spending time with your significant other. and in this video he was talking about hanging out with them in general. if youre going to diss him at least have your facts straight
All I know is, if my significant other is doing things with other people that are making me jealous I'm gonna speak up about it. People these days seem to have pretty lose standards on cheating but, heh, not me. To me, emotional cheating is the worst.
I cuddle and kiss my best friend's nose in a friendly way and he does it back to me :) Being best friends and close with a boy does not mean cheating. You can cuddle your friends if you want to and kiss them on the cheek or whatever. But kissing and errr... love making is kept for you and your partner.
i say 'i love you' to my best friend, hes really special to me and we have been through alot together but we both know it will NEVER be more and my boyfriend knows and respects that. he trusts me i wouldn't cheat, im not that kinda person. but i believe in what your saying, x
what a moralistic load of tripe. Yes, you were asked your definition of cheating, but then you go on to impose your standards and morals on everyone else. There are people who are happy with that kind of relationship. Just because it isn't right for you, that doesn't give you the right to decide for the rest of the world what is right for them.
such a moralistic load of tripe! You make these judgement calls for everyone else, when it comes down to what the 2 (or 3,4,5) people in a relationship decide is right for their relationship. Yes, you were asked, but you only have the right to make judgement calls for yourself.
I agree, to me though the line may come sooner. Flirting with people outside your relationship is wong, it allows someone to believe the relationship could become more intimate. Some see it as harmless but if you talke your relationship seriously why would you flird with other people?
Favorited for being so fucking true. This just explains EVERYTHING that was wrong with my last relationship. Lying, cheating, conniving, worthless bitch.
showing his ignorance: "we're not in the middle east where women must cover their entire bodies and can only talk to their husbands" learn some culture you racist fuck
gutenstagl 1 month ago
@gutenstagl Thats not racist, the taliban and other radical groups that control people and the men that go along with it enforce that. Do some research because the majority of women in the middle east, especially Iraq, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, and Iran have to cover their faces and body. The way the radicals of islam treat women is terrible. As for you, go learn some larger vocabulary words you incoherent fuck.
64notorious 1 month ago
@gutenstagl You just lost, lol.
rebos911 1 month ago
Greg I'm not thumb downing your video but I think you got something wrong ... I cuddle with my friends all the time .... It's nothing sexual it's just something we do ( p.s I'm snuggling with my friend serrina and drake while saying this and we're non-sexual snuggling :)
katiemunsterloveschu 1 month ago
No NO no no no... let ME tell you what cheating is! and if you don't agree... WELL I'M NOT INVITING you TO MY PARTY UH HUH HUH HUH!
Redflowers9 1 month ago
Completely agree.
liggerstuxin1 1 month ago
Cheating is whatever the particular person SAYS is cheating. Some people don't even care if their loved one has sex with other people, because they don't consider sex the most important part the relationship, and still are together with no problems. You ask your other what is cheating, everybody has a different definition for it.
KainSlash 1 month ago
see when i was joking with my guy friend and all like "love you!" and i never even TOUCHED him then i sent him a pic of me cuz my mom bought this shirt for me that said "ninja girl" i was a cheater. and yet when he has a pic from homecoming of his arm around his NOW GF and holds his lesbian friends had at school and when a girl says "sorry chris you know i love you" om his Facebook wall he's in the clear =) i hope karma bites him in the ass <3
BlessTheFallenOnes 1 month ago
I don't qualify cuddling as cheating. My boyfriend is fine with me occasionally cuddling with one of my guy friends, as long as i don't over-do it :P
FlobotsFan101 1 month ago
Do you view Hugging as cheating???
BigMacBlonde123 2 months ago in playlist Relationships
Hey nice vid
articcircleado 2 months ago
"HOW COULD I CHEAT ON SOMEONE IF THEY ARE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE CONTINENT??? HA HA???"
I guess you answered your own question.
Redflowers9 2 months ago
Also, if you have to hide it from your S.O., or if you avoid letting them know so they won't get angry, then it's probably cheating.
TylerBunnylover 2 months ago
"We're in the US, where women are equal."
Is that the only country where women are equal? And even still, it seems like women are superior here.
4ingP 2 months ago
@4ingP Oh my God, you again. You keep making sexist comments.
TylerBunnylover 2 months ago
@TylerBunnylover That wasn't sexist.
4ingP 2 months ago
@4ingP How so? Im curious. Please care to enlighten me on how women have more power in a line of all male presidants and only 16% of seats in congress?
xAstraya 2 months ago
@xAstraya You misspelled "presidents" and you should have capitalized "Congress".
Those seats don't matter. Whether they're occupied by men or women, the country will be run in a pro-female and anti-male way. For example, whenever there is a crime involving a woman, a man, and a physical confrontation, the man is assumed to be beating the woman, even if she was beating him.
Look up anti-feminism videos on YouTube, and you'll see how women are superior.
4ingP 2 months ago
U can kiss your friends on the lips whitout cheating. Not a deep sentimenel kiss, but i quick hey, og bye kiss, i dont see anythimg wrong it. I have never done it my self, but others, i dont see the problem
TheRauwr 2 months ago
@TheRauwr why would you want to kiss anyone that's not your boyfriend? Creepy....
LittleMisss15x 2 months ago
@LittleMisss15x
Alot of countrys in europe does it. It like giving a hug to your friends, u just give a quick kiss. How can that be creepy? (ans yes im from europe)
TheRauwr 2 months ago
@TheRauwr What part of Europe are you from?
LittleMisss15x 2 months ago
i cuddle with everyone.... im just a very snuggy person i dont ever touch them in a sexual way or anything else but i love to snug is that cheating?
implodinggalaxy 3 months ago
Sometimes with like friends if I'm at my bestfriends house me and her will sit outside especially on cold days we like sit close and what not but that's cuz I've known her forever and were bestfriends cuz shes like my sister lol. My boyfriend is just like "you better nit do that with dudes man!" lol
CamMusic971 4 months ago
Cuddle!
ColdSteelRain17 4 months ago
Glad you added the part about saying "I love you" is okay to say in a platonic manner. My ex-boyfriend said that to some of his friends and due to my insecurities, I overreacted. I know that he only meant that in a platonic way. I learned this when I made friends of my own a few months ago and I said, "I love you guys" to them. I truly understood what my bf felt for his friends. I'm still dealing with my insecurities and jealousy issues, but I'm working on it. Your vids have helped! Thanks!
brukaoru 4 months ago
You said "cuddle with them" but I hug everybody, maybe in greeting, or in saying goodbye. Obviously not strangers, but everyone I know at a personal level, such as my friends. I'm just a very tactile and affectionate person. Cheating is a juvenile concept imho, instead I think betrayal of trust matters and that depends upon the boundaries the couple set. For me, after mutual "I love you"s, I expect sexual monogamy.
muskndusk 5 months ago
@muskndusk I feel the express need to agree about the hugging. I love and tolerate THE SHIT out of my dearly beloved friends and family members, and believe you me they wish I'd stop. D8 I hug because I loooove. T___T But I do not make out with friends and family, and I sure as hell am not letting any part of their genitalia come anywhere near mine. Call me a prude American, that's just how I am. I'm not trying to get in on THAT sweet action. @_@
SakuraMoonflower 4 months ago
I watch these videos to get an idea of what other people's opinions are. I do not agree with a lot of things Onision says, but I respect him regardless of his crude, and sometimes ignorant comments. He is one of those people who knows what they believe, but kind of expresses it in an arrogant way. I'm not watching because I like him, just because I take an interest in the beliefs of different people.
a3j3h385 5 months ago
FAG
romanjohn10 5 months ago
@romanjohn10 You are an asshole. Why in hell would you be trolling on such awesome people's videos?
JJLuvsR 5 months ago
@romanjohn10 Fuck off.
squal3469 4 months ago
@OnisionSpeaks
If your boyfriend, agrees to a girl that he knows liked and still does like him, and has hit on him multiple times sending him a picture in her bikini. Is that cheating? Should you be mad about that?
Dontreallycare0 5 months ago
DUDEE!!!! Exacto mondo!!!!!! Excepthe's not going out with her anymore. But still!!! He did at some point!!! so basically he dumped a girl and is now hitting on her friend!! Is that st cheating?!!!!?!!!
BigMacBlonde123 5 months ago
I just can't....I just can't fucking take it anymore i've been lied to and cheated on so mean times and im sick of it just putting on a smile for everyone and only a few people know whats gone on people can claim to know what i've felt...feeled...and seen..The pain i felt. No one has seen me without my disguse everytime I've tried to change my ways...my looks...I got put down every time.oh i can't go on anymore. being cheated on and dumbed for a slut..just becuase i would'nt have sex with him?!
YummygummyLove1 5 months ago
47 people at this time have disliked. 47 people clearly aren't happy in a relationship and are faking loving someone for some reason or they mixed up thumbs up and thumbs down
seansgirl101 6 months ago
My "significant other" kissed someone else and wants to be forgiven. Hell No!
CeepSake 6 months ago
is looking at another girl while your with a girl already sort of a form of cheating?
because I've done that a few times in my past..
brizzlestick 6 months ago
you can talk to anyone in the middle east :S
asheeloo 6 months ago
@asheeloo Then you're pretty misinformed. I dare you, as a woman, to talk to a male who is not of your family or in any relation to you.
norbygata14 6 months ago
@norbygata14 dare done i can talk to anyone i want wtf ?? racist much?
asheeloo 6 months ago
i agree with most of this, but i think you can cuddle with sertain friends as long as it doesnt go farther. also if your significant other is ok with you fooling around and poking your friends boob or something i dont think is a problem. otherwise doing anything else in a sexual manner from what i just said is cheating.
thandyTHEambassador 7 months ago
there is also such a thing as emotional cheating where one person hides the fact that they would rather spend time with another individual and it actually hurts a little worse because ur not angry... its just very very hurtful and no way to express it through ways such as anger
iamyoualso 7 months ago
Cheating is the guilt you feel after doing it.
lynn12346 7 months ago
Cheating is where you move your opponents' pieces when they're looking the other way. Other than that, everyone has their own rules.
medexamtoolsdotcom 7 months ago
Wouldnt cheating be more along the lines of your cheating by doing something with another person which you wouldnt do if your partner were there with you as well.
xXmidnight4musicXx 8 months ago
racist i live in the middle east.
TheEngineerWilliams 8 months ago
@TheEngineerWilliams Then you're pretty misinformed as a middle eastern, or you are a male. I dare you, as a woman, to talk to a male who is not of your family or in any relation to you.
norbygata14 6 months ago
@norbygata14 youre pretty misinformed i is a troll brosef
TheEngineerWilliams 6 months ago
@TheEngineerWilliams Lol, good one bro, good one.I fell for it. OR DID I? :D
norbygata14 6 months ago
ok so by that logic i can have a gf and do stuff with other females.
lordnuck33 8 months ago
i think it's not cheating unless ur married.. shit happens people fall out of love ..but when u got that ring on ur finger like u ans Shiloh its real its true and never meant to be broken..
077330 8 months ago
So what is everybodys opinion on the whole online "relationship" cheating type deal? For instance a friend of mine is married and yet constantly is going online and hooking up with other men online intimately and sexually in online, voice, and sometimes even webcam based relationships consisting mostly of role-play but also envolving alot of real life aspects. Is this considered cheating? Especially if she does so without her husband's knowledge?
aj0324 8 months ago
so, onision, would it be considered "cheating" if you're a girl, and you have a friend that is also a girl, and you have a boyfriend, but sometimes you and your friend sometimes act lesbian-y ish with each other, but are completely just messing around?
awesomeness9413 8 months ago
I dont really think cuddling is cheating. I cuddled with my Mum when I was little, but I didn't make out with her. Cuddling is an elongated hug, and nowadays hugging is pretty much a form of greeting or appreciation.
ShootTheReaper 9 months ago
Can cheating be unintentional? For example, there's this guy. We both know we like each other. By design, his personality is very flirtatious. He didn't know he was a flirt until he was 16, but he has told me personally he wishes he wasn't such a flirt. So when he's being himself and flirting without realizing it, is that cheating? (Assuming he has a girlfriend)
prankisteen 9 months ago
You look a lot like this girl I know.
SuperChamona 9 months ago
@SuperChamona I'm guessing the girl looks like a hairy guy?
Tygerlily179 9 months ago
@Tygerlily179 She looks like a beautiful girl tardo, but she still looks like the female version him. Ever heard of twin brother/sisters? The opposite sex can look a like and have similar features and still dress their gender
SuperChamona 8 months ago
@SuperChamona well it sounds like your saying onision looks like a girl >.>
Tygerlily179 8 months ago
@Tygerlily179 No, I'm not saying he looks like a girl, I'm saying that he looks like a girl I know.. He resembles plenty of men too. I think it's sexist of you to assume that I'm insinuating this, more so than for me to say he looks like a girl I know, which is completely free minded and non-sexist.
SuperChamona 8 months ago
wut is ur guy's opinion on checking out other ppl? do u think that's cheating. my friend refuses to check out other girls cuz he says he feels like he is cheating. but i think that it is not an insult to your partner even if they are the most beautiful in ur opinion it is only human to notice and apreciate the beauty of others. if my significant other checks out someone i dont care. heck il look too to see if i think their hot too lol
insane247 9 months ago
@insane247 I don't think its cheating, because sometimes my mom says "that guy is hot!" and stuff about actors, why would my dad think she was cheating? o3o lol, your friend might just be too scared to lose his girl :3
Tygerlily179 8 months ago
@Tygerlily179 he's not worried about wut she will think. she isnt even around when he does that. he just feels wrong doing it
insane247 8 months ago
i dont get this! why is it ok for a guy to have girls as friends and vice versa, but not when they are dating someone? the only person that it isnt ok to is the significant other. no one else ever thinks its wrong. my best friend is a guy, and he has a girlfriend. and she is ok with that. so boyfriends and girlfriends, these other girls/guys are JUST FRIENDS. STOP BEING SO POSESSIVE AND JEALOUS CUZ THERE IS NOTHING THERE!
insane247 9 months ago
Wait what? In the middle east women don't cover up all their bodies, in fact i am Egyptian and most girls walk on the street half naked. other than that, awesome video.
UNF0RGIVE 9 months ago
@UNF0RGIVE troll. i've been to egypt. most girls cover everything. half of them even cover their faces. i was being undressed with mens eyes and stared at non-stop just because my arms were showing
insane247 9 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
@insane247 go to my channel or check my ip or whatever you guys do.
i am egyptian and i can prove it
ask any of the friends on my channel or just check my ip
UNF0RGIVE 8 months ago
@fungh0ul That's alright. Forgive and forget.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
i think when you're in a relationship you shouldn't say anything to your friend that you wouldn't say to a brother or sister :)
pointingirl 9 months ago
you're so right on this one, dude. thumbs up
kilanara05 9 months ago
damn..i was drunk on a saturday. I have a boyfriend, and well i guess i made out with my girl-friend and well...is that cheating?
JojoTheJoCpuMaster 9 months ago
Everyone says, that they cuddle with their friends. It all depends on what you mean by cuddling.
VerdmanProductions 9 months ago
I'm happy you added "Sexual preferences" instead of JUST saying gender.
It pisses me off no one adds that.
redyellowandgreen 9 months ago
I agree w/ everything, except the cuddling. It depends on HOW you're cuddling... if it isn't super "touchy" then idt it's a huge deal (WHEN YOU ARE SINGLE) if you're in a relationship, then Idt you should cuddle w/ someone else.
iLeaveYouWithHugs 9 months ago
Whoa-whoa-whoa... Cuddling? Really? That was the only thing I disagreed with there, cuddling can be done among friends when they are nothing more than friends and when it is understood that nothing more is wanted of said friend. My girlfriend isn't a cuddle slut like myself, so I have friends, male and female, that I cuddle with... I don't think cuddling should be listed with examples such as sex, oral, making out and so forth. My opinion perhaps, but there it is.
Animegirl4391 9 months ago
@Animegirl4391 agrred
scaredsoldier 9 months ago
It's always a nice thing to do before you hurt some one
sexpot52 9 months ago
An open relationship then that kinda stuff is OK just make shure the outher Pearson you're seeing know that's what you intended on doing
sexpot52 9 months ago
If u cuddle with friend's that are dudes and still like tits I are probably open to being bi or are bi and yes if you ate a girl that cuddled with ourher dudes besides you're siblings you are leading you're Guy friend on even if they say he dosent think of you that way it's still bad because you while be showing you're boy that affection unless there gay then that can slide because in a monogomys relationship you're only with that one person and lot of people don't lay down the rule's they wish
sexpot52 9 months ago
LOL when my girlfriend left me for "cheating"(what i even think it wasnt) i didnt even know we have relationship.
PLproduction1 9 months ago
Couldn't agree more. Well it looks like me and my girlfriend are going to have a serious talk tonight.
locustGRUNDEE 9 months ago
FACEBOOK WHOREEES ARE OUT THERE LOL!!!
JMIME45 9 months ago
To me as long as there isnt any type of sexual stuff, being clingy, or touchy feely i dont mind if they talk and hang out. Trust, honesty, and communication is the key to help with the whole not cheating. I dont think hugging is cheating. I hug almost everybody i know whether its to say hi or bye. Or random nice hug.
MetalLover7 9 months ago
i hug ppl sometimes at party's, so according to you.. i cheat o-O
Rockyeeful 9 months ago
this is what happens when you're monogamous. i believe in open relationships, and i ask anyone to tell me what could possibly be wrong with that...
noregrets92 9 months ago
You are such a pretentious bitch onision, lmfao.
Just like ilikemeg said,it's not necessary to be offensive to make your point.
Why am i wasting my time watching your video? LOL
Yoseobby 9 months ago
what? i have sex with friends all the time?
kidding.
chibixaileen 9 months ago
I don't think it's that big of a deal at all to cuddle with others while in a relationship. I know I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend did it, as long as they weren't getting really touchy feely.
IntricateSunset 9 months ago
@fungh0ul I'm quite aware it's from an MCR song, I'm a huge fan. But my name is actually Bella. And I am a girl. Nice username, by the way.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
i cuddle with my friends...
SpectralxMisanthropy 9 months ago
@SpectralxMisanthropy slut! LOL
TheSeanpatrickobrien 9 months ago
@SpectralxMisanthropy define cuddling?
SamHardstyle234 9 months ago
I always think about things like, "Would it bother me if my boyfriend did this?" I don't hug other boys--my boyfriend doesn't hug other girls. I talk in a platonic manner to my guy friends whom I've known even longer then my boyfriend-and my boyfriend does the same with some girls. I agree with you, Onision:)
LittleDreamer152 9 months ago
fair definition, onision. i have to say though, it isn't too uncommon to cuddle with friends or siblings (well females typically). idk..
distortedviolet 9 months ago
excessive talking to the opposite gender (if youre gay then the same gender I guess) any not letting the person you're dating or whatever know what you're talking about or letting them see the conversation just makes you look bad and that you are cheating.
lolitsdamian 9 months ago
i won't thumbs down this video, but i do have to say that I'm very comfortable with my sexuality, and if I want to cuddle with a guy friend just because, I don't consider that cheating. Because, well like you said, it's strictly platonic. Nothing sexually derived from it. And i can still love boobies at the same time and be totally straight. :]
BillyMurdersmile 9 months ago
I shouldn't be kissing my friends....?? why did no one tell me this before!
droptheleash0 9 months ago
Hmm. I don't have a boyfriend, but me and my best friend cuddle and say we love eachother and all that, and do it quite a bit. Does that essentially make our friendship highly prone to becoming a relationship?
DuneBuggy00 9 months ago
@DuneBuggy00 Yes, or just a very special friendship :)
PoadAndPubble 9 months ago
@DuneBuggy00 very much so..in my opion (spell check)
christian8177168571 9 months ago
I cuddle with my best friend, who is a boy. I have a girlfriend.
I'm not a fucking cheat, thank you.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 Awwwwhhhh!!!! Sorry, I just imagined that and it was SO ADORABLE!
AlyandEricaMusic 9 months ago
@AlyandEricaMusic Thank you? :]
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 XD
AlyandEricaMusic 9 months ago
@AlyandEricaMusic I find it really offensive him saying that. I've grown up with my best friend and we say we love each other and cuddle/hug a lot. But I'd never cheat on my girlfriend.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 Yeah, it is a bit offensive. You guys don't kiss or anything, right?
AlyandEricaMusic 9 months ago
@AlyandEricaMusic Innocent cheek to cheek at the most.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 Once again, AAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! But it seems like you are just really great friends and do love each other, but not, you know, LOVE love each other. You're almost like family. You are definately not cheating.
AlyandEricaMusic 9 months ago
@AlyandEricaMusic Thank you very much :] I feel better now.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 wtf?
RohNam1 9 months ago
@RohNam1 And what the hell do you want?
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 u cuddle with a dude and ur a dude thats fucked up
RohNam1 9 months ago
@RohNam1 My username is BELLAmuerte057. I'm a girl. Thanks.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@bellamuerte057 so ur lesbian?wierdo
RohNam1 9 months ago
@RohNam1 why the hell is being a lesbian weird? grow up.
silveraussies 9 months ago
@silveraussies THANK YOU!
I have so many bi and lesbian friends. People really need to back off, they are trying to be themselves and they don't need stupid individuals that are too idiotic to see them as a person and not just a weird "faggot" or "homo"
werockthishouse123 9 months ago
@werockthishouse123 hey, no worries. some people are just ignorant. they're just too shallow to understand that someone's sexuality doesn't define them as a person. :)
silveraussies 9 months ago
@silveraussies Thank you :] <3
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
@RohNam1 No, dude. I'm bi. Not that it's any of your business.
bellamuerte057 9 months ago
Umm... I'm a guy from the middle east... and i have equal friends from the opposite gender... if not MORE... 0:24 typical stereo typing move :/ and what sucks is that im a huge fan... But yeah.. you're right about the cheating part! (Y) :D
yousaypwn 9 months ago
How is cuddling an intrinsically romantic activity? The specifics of how you cuddle can make it romantic, but I don't understand why you're assuming it has to be.
azoicEnnead 9 months ago
Cheating is hacking, making everyone pissed and getting banned, right?
Zickino167 9 months ago
wait does that mean i can't cuddle with my gay best friend or my best girl friend of 10 years if i had a significant other? O _e
FriendlyShadows2 9 months ago
Cheating is lying, simple. Why should cheating in relationships be any different? If I'm playing chess and I move a piece I'm not allowed to, while the other guy isn't looking, I'm cheating. Or if I move a piece and lie to him that I'm allowed to when I'm not allowed to.
Either way, cheating is lying.
If you are in a relationship and you are honest about what you do with other people, its not cheating.
noobenstein 9 months ago
"Cheating is when you have a partner but you're doing sexual things to other people" cheers Einstein. I'll be sure to thumbs up your completely bog-standard description of cheating.
CoolBlokeAndABit 9 months ago
what is cheating? onision.
ilovetheosmonds 9 months ago
thumbs up! great perspective! inspirational as always!
nc17atnce101 9 months ago
one thing ... im from the middle east .. and i live in the middle east ... " WE SERIOUSLY DONT COVER ALL OF THE WOMEN BODY " " girls have men friends "
we have normal life just like yours .. we go clubbing and we drink ... we do everything !!!
some people are so relegious that they cover their body ... nothing more nothing less !!
MiDnytR0ck3er 9 months ago
I think my ex boyfriend needs to watch this video... I've always been a mildly flirty person but ONLY with boys who I know understand that that's all it is, and respect that. He watched me for nearly four years being who I was, knowing I was only dedicated to him even though we only actually dated for TWO months out of the four years, and when we dated, I kept talking to these guys because they were my FRIENDS, but stopped flirting with them for him, and that still wasn't good enough... :(
MangaKindaGirl 9 months ago
@MangaKindaGirl
Take it from a nerd who haven't been in a serious relationship ever, but if I would be in a relationship with someone I'd care about I would really feel uncomfortable with them talking to other men. Only a person who never cared for your relationship in the first place wouldn't mind what you're describing.
Langsorigingaleia 9 months ago
@Langsorigingaleia Well, I'm a completely trustworthy person. And he knew that. I moved away for 9 months and didn't go after anyone else. But that's just how it seems to go. My boyfriends always end up jealous and stupid. If I talk to other guys at all they always freak out. That's why I don't want to give up my guy friends for boyfriends anymore. It's not worth it to lose them anymore.
MangaKindaGirl 9 months ago
@MangaKindaGirl
So what - you're not going to have any more serious relationships with guys any longer or are you just going to find guys who aren't jealous of you? I still believe that those you describe are probably a bit insecure and are afraid of losing you to other guys. Whenever you're trustworthy or not doesn't matter in that case since it's their shortcomings. It takes a lot of confidence and bravery to care for someone special and still be able to let them be truly free.
Langsorigingaleia 9 months ago
@Langsorigingaleia Well, for now, I feel relationships are too hard. I'm going to avoid them for awhile. I can't handle the jealousy and the controlling. I need some freedom. I made sure to always have other girls around when I was at a guy's house, I stopped spending the night a my guy friend's houses (No, I do not sleep with my guy friends. We're all strictly on a friend level), and stopped flirting, so I don't get what the problem was. Oh well. It's over. I'll find someone someday.
MangaKindaGirl 9 months ago
Women who choose to cover their bodies with hijab, nijab, a burka, etc. are not unequal to men because of that. Many of those women believe it makes them *more* equal with men, because then a conversation can be held between sexes without flirting or lust. They believe that it empowers them, and earns them respect outside of the home. While the dresscode is sometimes forced, which is wrong, it's usually quite voluntary.
Please understand that. :-)
xdarkxflowerx 9 months ago
@xdarkxflowerx It finally makes sense now, thanks XD
number9711 9 months ago
@number9711 - You're welcome! :D
xdarkxflowerx 9 months ago
I can't actually believe that a lot of women believe that when guys text other women, facebook other women, is considered cheating.
Metalunited101 9 months ago
Women are equal in the Middle east....it's not necessary to be offensive to make your point.
ilikemeg 9 months ago
dear onision i dont know what platonic means but im assuming it means not in a lover type way...example my best friend is a girl and she tells me that she loves me and i do the same because we are closer than family...about right?
SlammaJammaHD 9 months ago
I have always cuddled with all my friends, told them I loved them and kissed their cheeks. And yet my lover still loves me <3 Is that bad? :'(
Tobi6kun6is6kawaii 9 months ago
I trusted in that significant other....still hurts </3
genoidJ 9 months ago
I agree with the point you made about cheating. I respect you for many of your opinions, but the sarcastic laugh you made after the comment about the middle east was, not going to lie, kind of offensive. I 'thumbs-ed up' your video because of the end message, but covering the entire body is a form of modesty that some people believe is right for them and I thought you of all people should understand that kind of personal decision.
Parandeeful 9 months ago
The one part you forgot to mention in terms of talking is "sexting" or other forms of erotic talk. That's not saying anything about love, but I still think it's non-platonic enough to qualify as a form of cheating.
Volvandese 9 months ago
my bf should watch this video :/
TearsofaGhost 9 months ago
well you didnt cheat, but u sure did run for shiloh after skye
longstar56 9 months ago
is it cheating if u are not in a relationship and you are just having fun with people
BiBaby9222 9 months ago
@BiBaby9222 Nope! That's called being a flirt. hehehe ;)
BAMminishows 9 months ago
@BiBaby9222
If you aren't in a relationship you have no one to cheat on...
jmh4eva 9 months ago
@BiBaby9222 that's my same question, it is really hard to tell. i feel like it is in a way
SuperKellyo 9 months ago
What is onisions definition of cheating?
user/D0NTSTANDSOCLOSETOME
mDarkPoet 9 months ago
think so that the "partner" is doing this whit others. dont do to otchers what you wodent want them to do to you. ((sp?))
nemi95swe 9 months ago
Way to contradict yourself Greggie :D :D
You said earlier that its not 'real love' unless you devote their lives with them and should be hanging out with your partner, not friends, yet you say that you now CAN spend time with others? Wow.
EmiGoesRawrr 9 months ago
@EmiGoesRawrr So right.
DamiAllison 9 months ago
@EmiGoesRawrr Before he said that if you are spending time with them over spending time with your significant other. and in this video he was talking about hanging out with them in general. if youre going to diss him at least have your facts straight
Swimmer8177 9 months ago
not everyone lives in America...
LeftAstray 9 months ago
If you wouldnt do it in front or your 'significant other', then dont do it :D
julieeeosullivan 9 months ago
All I know is, if my significant other is doing things with other people that are making me jealous I'm gonna speak up about it. People these days seem to have pretty lose standards on cheating but, heh, not me. To me, emotional cheating is the worst.
Significant Other = Best Friend
ErikaResponding 9 months ago
I cuddle and kiss my best friend's nose in a friendly way and he does it back to me :) Being best friends and close with a boy does not mean cheating. You can cuddle your friends if you want to and kiss them on the cheek or whatever. But kissing and errr... love making is kept for you and your partner.
NaomiWyatte 9 months ago
I cuddle with my friends in a friendly way
frogirl1993 9 months ago
i say 'i love you' to my best friend, hes really special to me and we have been through alot together but we both know it will NEVER be more and my boyfriend knows and respects that. he trusts me i wouldn't cheat, im not that kinda person. but i believe in what your saying, x
supernaturalamber 9 months ago
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yasieA 9 months ago
what a moralistic load of tripe. Yes, you were asked your definition of cheating, but then you go on to impose your standards and morals on everyone else. There are people who are happy with that kind of relationship. Just because it isn't right for you, that doesn't give you the right to decide for the rest of the world what is right for them.
bigjohnsix99 9 months ago
@bigjohnsix99 he's not
GrinIre 9 months ago
such a moralistic load of tripe! You make these judgement calls for everyone else, when it comes down to what the 2 (or 3,4,5) people in a relationship decide is right for their relationship. Yes, you were asked, but you only have the right to make judgement calls for yourself.
bigjohnsix99 9 months ago
What is onisions definition of cheating?
user/D0NTSTANDSOCLOSETOME
LelouchXLamperouge 9 months ago
I agree, to me though the line may come sooner. Flirting with people outside your relationship is wong, it allows someone to believe the relationship could become more intimate. Some see it as harmless but if you talke your relationship seriously why would you flird with other people?
NadimahElizabeth 9 months ago
Favorited for being so fucking true. This just explains EVERYTHING that was wrong with my last relationship. Lying, cheating, conniving, worthless bitch.
AbsentProductions 9 months ago
I hate cheating/cheaters. Relationships are meant to be monogamous, not polyamorous
HBTSProductions 9 months ago
I hate cheating/cheaters. Relationships are meant to be monogamous, not polyamorous!
HBTSProductions 9 months ago