If the person is using power over you then maybe he or she thinks you're a push over? At least they feel trust that it's safe to be an arsehole & yell & carry on. So the first thing to do might show a display of power (a willingness to shed blood or maim or injure the other). Once they realise what a bad-ass you are, then compassionate communication will seem a much better offer than a bloody nose & they're more likely to cooperate~
Quite good in parts - one way of dealing with anger - prob need more stuff on how to let the other person release/ vent more before responding cos thats usually what they need.
In real situations- responding calmly can frustrate the other person up more cos your not reacting in a way they expect/prepared for..nobody likes a smartass!!
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If the person is using power over you then maybe he or she thinks you're a push over? At least they feel trust that it's safe to be an arsehole & yell & carry on. So the first thing to do might show a display of power (a willingness to shed blood or maim or injure the other). Once they realise what a bad-ass you are, then compassionate communication will seem a much better offer than a bloody nose & they're more likely to cooperate~
betterworldtogether 1 week ago
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betterworldtogether 1 week ago
Quite good in parts - one way of dealing with anger - prob need more stuff on how to let the other person release/ vent more before responding cos thats usually what they need.
In real situations- responding calmly can frustrate the other person up more cos your not reacting in a way they expect/prepared for..nobody likes a smartass!!
asolo786 2 months ago